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Approaching and setting up a date isn't really chasing or investing. It's just something people do when they're attracted to each other. You have to make things happen. The only investment you're making is your time. Investment generally refers to emotional investment. Guys who are overly emotionally invested often throw money at a girl to impress her. Funny how it almost always backfires. This is why people who are dating must equally invest. I believe this is a key concept in Mark Manson's boo…
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:54 AM
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I think she's girlfriend material.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:50 AM
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Let me start by saying that Mark is a great guy to learn success with women from. He's a brilliant man and his book Models is a must-read. With this said, I disagree with him on paying, for several reasons: Chivalry is glorified sexism. This isn't some redpill nonsense. Think about it. I genuinely find it disrespectful and degrading when a stranger expects me to pay for their meal. It's inconsiderate, selfish, and totally one-sided. They are essentially making me pay them to spend time with them…
/r/seduction11/03/15 09:13 PM
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I have no idea. The specificity of the title of the post confused me.
/r/seduction11/03/15 06:53 PM
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Every situation and every girl is different 80% of the dates I go on I kiss the girl within 1-3 hours. Eventually you learn how to judge when it's time. It takes practice.
/r/seduction11/03/15 01:41 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/seduction11/03/15 08:22 AM
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If you're willing to spend $2-8 on each date for your own drink/food/smoothie/whatever, yes, you can get laid like fucking crazy. You can date as many women at a time as you'd like and not pay a fucking dime. If you want to move towards more of a relationship it would be helpful to take her nice places every now and then, though. It's irrelevant how much did what. You strive to be the very best version of yourself, aggressively cut out negativity, and pump as many positive emotions and uplifting…
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:29 AM
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Check out my blog. I got it up and running a couple weeks ago. My stories will all be there. http://livepromiscuously.com
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:34 AM
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2 years with little success. Dude, I honestly don't know how many women have punked my ass. 800+? I still get rejected on the regular. Giving up has never been an option. What's the alternative? Masturbation and loneliness my whole life? Give me a fucking break. I've improved every aspect about myself. Education, career, health, friends, style, grooming, living situation, hobbies, goals, values, etc, etc. everything is interconnected.
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:32 AM
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"What you can't fix, feature." Short guys only do well when they embrace their height and accept if fully. Be willing to laugh about it. I'm 5'6" and get told I'm too short all the time. Think it bothers me? Nope. I'm persistent and follow the process. A few months ago I was dating a 5'10" brunette and a 5'11" model-looking blonde at the same time. Also, hypermasculinizing yourself might be very useful (Lift weights, grow facial hair).
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:56 PM
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Check out Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman. There are several things you want to be doing at parties: 1. Invite other people. Be the bridge between groups of people. Introduce your friends to new friends. This will raise your social value tremendously and people will remember you as the mutual friend. In the eyes of others, you will know everyone. 2. Simply be fun. Be outgoing, crack witty jokes, tell engaging stories, and make people feel good. Also, be the leader. Be the guy who orders the p…
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:52 PM
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I've approached from behind before with massive success. It's all about how you go about it. Either tap her on the shoulder or say "Excuse me". Then stop and take a step back. Cue natural, laid back conversation. The reason most guys fail with approaching from behind is they don't take that step back and are super eager to throw words in the girl's face. It scares them. It would scare me if a hot girl did that to me. It's just surprising and a little shocking (often times in a bad way). Taking t…
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:44 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:12 PM
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I got your message Kit, thanks. I can't wait to share more with you. I have a meeting with a web developer today to get the issues with RSS figured out. I'll let you know when I get the follow form working properly.
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:12 PM
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The whole "being a man" part can only get you so far. At some point you've got to see when she just isn't down for it that night and be able to salvage it for another day. Sometimes her feelings of being a slut are insurmountable. Guys would be blown away if they knew how many times LMR was caused by chicks being on their period or not being properly shaved/groomed down there. I'm sure miscellaneous infections cause a lot of it too. Why wouldn't she be groomed? She leaves herself ungroomed for t…
/r/seduction02/03/15 05:35 PM
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70% of the times a woman has told me we weren't having sex that night, we've had sex. This was an instance of where I should have backed off, sent her home, and got it on the second date though. Lack of social acuity and overeagerness taught me a valuable lesson that night.
/r/seduction02/03/15 08:31 AM
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I don't have even a shred of a desire to try going vegan or even vegatarian. There is so much education and planning in regards to meal prep and grocery shopping that I simply don't want to do it. I have other priorities. I'm a huge fan of organic free-ranged local meats and feel amazing when I eat them. I workout 5x a week so eating these kinds of meats is an easy, delicious, and arguably healthy way of meeting protein reqs. More power to you if you can go raw vegan, it simply isn't practical f…
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:44 PM
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Kissing instantly removes you from the "friendly guy" category and lands you squarely in the "sexual guy" category. It isn't that it's a big deal, but rather that it's an essential step to inserting your penis into a warm orifice.
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:25 AM
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Start with the basics: Read every day. I'm always reading two books at a time. One science fiction, one self-development. I like to strike a balance so I don't burn myself out of learning. Approach. Continuously improve your diet. Organic/Paleo is ideal. Lift. Run. Swim. Move your ass. Get fit. Improve your style. Get this down quickly so you aren't spending mounds of cash on new clothes as your taste slowly evolves. /r/malefashionadvice is a great place to start. Steps to elevating your thought…
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:29 AM
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Over the last month, I'm at 100% success rate for approach to date/sex. Most of the time I approach no one You had me until this part. You act as if success rates matter even a shred. As if approaching is work and not simply something fun you do. Meanwhile the guy with the 7% success rate is having triple the amount of sex and twice as much fun. The whole concept of a success rate is poisonous to this community.
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:17 AM
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Here you go This book should be a must read for guys wanting to get laid and have an awesome social life in college (all guys).
/r/seduction20/01/15 07:54 AM
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Mall, farmers market, library, university, grocery store, downtown/heavy foot-traffic areas (parks included). It can be good to go with a wing to chat during slow periods and actually do an errand or two so you have something to talk about with the girl, or at least have an explanation for what you're doing. Not necessary, though.
/r/seduction19/01/15 09:25 AM
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OP is talking about buying the guy she's with a drink so he doesn't block you. It's a waste of cash and is super creepy and borderline manipulative.
/r/seduction15/01/15 07:18 PM
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Part of bettering yourself is setting personal boundaries and understanding social dynamics. You shouldn't need to offer gifts to people so they put up with your presence. Buying drinks is manipulative, as it guilts people into talking to you more than they want to and shows you don't value your own $. You're spending it on a perfect stranger, after all. Paying people to spend time with you is a socially blind thing to do.
/r/seduction15/01/15 07:15 PM
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This is the most approval-seeking beta shit I've seen on this sub. This is on the level of buying the girl a drink. And look! It's being upvoted. Big surprise. Do you realize how many fucking drinks you'd have to buy if you go out a lot or fuck lots of girls? Not only is this approval-seeking, it will drain your cash flow. 0/10. For the love of vagina, do not follow this advice.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:48 PM
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I limit my masturbation to an as-needed basis. I wait until my horniness starts making me creepy before I fap. I've noticed that 9/10 times I have much less motivation, focus, and assertiveness for the next two days after I orgasm, whether from sex or fapping
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:42 PM
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I considered that and it could have played a role. I've never had sex that felt this incompatible though. It was clear that we just didn't fit well together. Think square peg and round hole.
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:37 PM
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I only pay for a girl if we happen to get nachos. I pay for the sole reason that it's a single large-portion item and we share it. Not sure what country you're from, but I'm sure you can do this anywhere. In the U.S. many people consider it rude if the guy doesn't pay, too, but I've found ways to get around most of the pressure. Arrive to the date 5-10 minutes early so you can get your coffee/tea/cake/salad before she arrives. That way it's immediately clear you're not paying for her and she doe…
/r/seduction13/01/15 09:40 AM
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I'd strongly encourage you to start with The Power of Now. TWOTSM will seem like a bunch of abstract jibberish if you don't. A few videos that have really stood out to me: Owen on evolving to higher levels of consciousness through pickup Owen on the journey to elevating to the levels of success you want with women Owen on being ruthlessly motivated to take charge of the direction of your life
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:58 AM
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People in this sub will preach that Models is all you'll ever need. They're wrong. Fucking wrong. Mark Manson is not a God. He's an awesome guy and wise beyond his years and knows more than any of us, but he doesn't know everything. You need to incorporate the teachings of many people into your life and Mark would tell you the same thing. As far as reading goes, I'd recommend the following three books: The Manual by W. Anton The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle The Way of the Superior Man by David …
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:31 AM
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Right after post-gunshot wound game.
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:40 AM
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Use direct eye contact and extend your arm/hand towards her, palm up, without saying a word until she's in your arms. She'll take your hand and you firmly, but not aggressively, pull her into you.
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:59 AM
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The feeling of "being in state" isn't bullshit. You can basically turn into a pussy wizard if you're in the correct headspace. I have experiences that confirm this. It is bullshit though to use it as an excuse not to approach. YouTube the opener.
/r/seduction11/01/15 12:11 AM
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I found this recently. It's called The Feynman Technique, basically it works in 4 steps Think about what are the big concepts in the book. Pretend you’re teaching that idea to someone else. Think how you would explain the topic to a new student. When you try to explain the concept you get a better idea of what you understand and where you might have some gaps. If you get stuck explaining, go back to the part of the book. There's nothing wrong with going back to re-read key areas. Do that until y…
/r/seduction10/01/15 09:21 PM
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Stop with the "When X happens then I can do Y" bullshit. Virgins get laid from cold-approach all the time. There isn't a strict order of things you must do before you fuck girls. You just do it. Obviously work on yourself a ton so you aren't a loser your whole life but you can meet women in person or online and fuck them within minutes or hours of meeting them. I know. I've done it, a lot. You have so many barriers in your head. THEY ONLY EXIST IN YOUR HEAD.
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:54 PM
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Go out more man. Damn. You should be having at least two dates a week.
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:50 PM
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Stop trying to lose your virginity, and try to have sex. Try to have fun and experience hot sex. Sex is fun. It's not something that you do to say you've done it or "get out of the way". In a way it can be, but mostly it's to have a ton of fun and cum inside a gorgeous girl. Check out The Manual by W. Anton. The virginity guide sounds fucking retarded. You can lose your virginity in a million different ways.
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:36 PM
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Goodlookingloser is not the resource you want to be using if you want to travel the world and bang hordes of girls. I've seen infield footage from them and it made me cringe. There are tons of great books you can read but if you want a pretty much never-ending source of hardcore life-changing advice, go with RSD. Owen (aka Tyler) is regarded as the industry leader on pickup and dating advice. Not to mention he has hours of infield footage online that shows he knows what he's talking about. If yo…
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:05 PM
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Some girls you just don't have chemistry with and your brain shuts down. Your penis says yes, but your mind says no. This has happened to me many times. It's frustrating, but it's a very clear sign that you shouldn't be together. From experience, I know alcohol could have been a factor too. Sometimes I'll be fun and bubbly, sometimes I'm a quiet sloth when I drink. I've decided to go out sober because of this. Lastly, it could just mean you need more practice. Keep going out, keep dating. You'll…
/r/seduction10/01/15 07:40 PM
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Step 1: Don't add the girls you're seeing on Facebook. Step 2: Date girls in different social circles Step 3: Preferably skip step 2 and date girls from different high schools and nearby colleges.
/r/seduction10/01/15 05:52 PM
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hella cute Haha. Obviously from SF. Nice work man
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:17 PM
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You can't post advice just because you're subscribed here. If you aren't sleeping with at least several women, don't give advice in /r/seduction. Gold. I saw you acknowledged in the comments that it's ultimately experience with women that matter OP, you're 100% correct. Nice guys and beginners stumble in here in staggering numbers, post their feel-good advice, and it gets upvoted because so many other nice guys hold the same fucked up view. All of a sudden, the clueless noobies are the outspoken…
/r/seduction09/01/15 06:27 AM
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It's not hard mode man. I guarantee you the vast majority of the girls at your school are horny little sluts on the inside waiting to meet an attractive guy who won't judge them for expressing their sexuality. Some of my quickest hook ups were girls from Christian schools. Follow the process. That, or flirt with a priest.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:16 PM
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Those studies are only partially accurate. It isn't that simple. I studied this in positive psychology. The main counter argument is that there are character traits within a person that make them innately happy and so the self-generated happiness draws people into your life. Think about it. Does marriage simply cause happiness or are genuinely happy people more likely to attract a partner and get married? Obviously these things aren't separate. Together, self-generated happiness and a robust soc…
/r/seduction02/01/15 09:52 PM
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I have a friend going through this exact thing. I'll be sure to share this with him. Good article.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:01 PM
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This is the best feedback you'll get, OP. Learning pickup and becoming a well-developed man comes with emotional highs and lows. I've experienced what you have and even tried the relationship route. It didn't work for me that time. Every few girls I'm with I reconsider going the more stable route again. I've found that I can't do it. I simply need sexual novelty in my life right now, even if it means fighting off pangs of negative emotion. What I've learned from going through this emotional meat…
/r/seduction02/01/15 10:57 AM
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That's what I was thinking. I'm assuming they are counting all strains of HPV in their numbers. You can get HPV from a handshake.
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:14 AM
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Stop being a pussy. If they're good with girls, learn from them.
/r/seduction02/01/15 01:04 AM
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The Manual by W. Anton is hands down the best book on female psychology, masculinity, and seduction I've ever read. Wrote a 10 page paper based on its content for my sociology class. Got a 100%.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:58 AM
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Reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle then picking up WOTSM would have done you a lot of good. WOTSM has been one of the most powerful books I've ever read.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:56 AM
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Deodorant is just fine. Wear a kind you like the scent of. I personally like Old Spice fragrances. I stopped using cologne ages ago and my results with women keep getting better and better. It's a waste of time and money. I've even had women tell me it's cool I don't wear cologne. Spraying yourself with fragrances is, in my opinion, feminine and try hard. All you need to do is smell neutral.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:54 AM
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It's a waste of time. The best guys in this community develop natural game. Get on board.
/r/seduction01/01/15 06:17 PM
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Cheers! Haha
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:04 AM
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Great job. My only critique would be that you seem to be riding the edge of permission seeking and leading in some instances. You did do a lot of great leading though, I'll commend you for that. When you talked to her about going outside, you should have just said "Let's go outside for a minute" and firmly but casually pulled her along without a millisecond of hesitation. I don't know enough about what kind of vibe there was between you two but explicitly stating to a girl that you're taking her…
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:03 AM
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Best quote from the entire book: "To get a girl, you have to be willing to risk losing her." Hearing that was worth every penny. It didn't provide much else to me.
/r/seduction01/01/15 12:50 AM
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This x10. Bingo bingo bingo.
/r/seduction31/12/14 08:44 AM
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I typically just ask if she wants to keep hanging out or if she has go to, and if she says she wants to keep hanging out I just walk back to my place and she follows. It took me a while to stop making this transition awkward. Not a bad move. Great way to avoid the cheesy "wanna go back to my place?" line. Obviously there are other ways to do it but I'll probably try this in the future. As far as getting food or not, I disagree. I've fucked a lot of girls after getting food. In fact, I had an ins…
/r/seduction31/12/14 08:36 AM
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You should feel like shit. When in with my friends I'm more apt to approach. Not only am I in a more confident, fun mind space, but I also love showing people the beauty of pickup. Admittedly, I love impressing my friends too. It's just so fun lol. Bring people into your circle where you're having fun. You're way more likely to get laid that way and the process will be so much more fun. This is assuming your friends aren't idiots and cockblock you.
/r/seduction28/12/14 05:01 AM
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The process works on girls of any age (Please don't go younger than 15). The problem is you'll probably have to deal with more LMR because very few of them have any confidence in their sexuality and/or are virgins. Have fun.
/r/seduction28/12/14 04:15 AM
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"There are more important things, like preserving lackluster, unfullfilling relationships that I know nothing about." To each their own, but you aren't on any moral high ground, OP.
/r/seduction28/12/14 04:12 AM
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It's best to get in the routine of not using routines. Really high success rate with this.
/r/seduction26/12/14 09:35 PM
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I promise you that you're handicapping yourself by giving a fuck about Snapchat.
/r/seduction26/12/14 01:54 PM
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I've tried this. The beta boyfriend called me a liar and ending up hating me.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 10:57 AM
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Thanks Tony. Also guys, check out a Thousand Tiny Failures. It's a truly awesome read if you think you'd like to delve into the PUA lifestyle, or just want a fun read.
/r/seduction25/12/14 10:09 AM
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I think for most people it isn't a matter of "being afraid" to connect, but rather simply not knowing how to. It takes practice and can be painful and feel overwhelming because of how foreign and backlogged a lot of your emotions are.
/r/seduction24/12/14 02:47 PM
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He has fucked hundreds more women than everyone on this thread combined though. He might be onto something.
/r/seduction23/12/14 03:35 PM
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You'd think so, except I can speak about these things very, very passionately. Women pick up on that. There is nothing sexier than a man on his purpose who knows where he's going in life. I've actually had similar dialogs ending in sex more than once now.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 01:58 PM
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Usually responsive, always flakey or ambiguous.
/r/seduction23/12/14 04:17 AM
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Stop thinking like that. I enjoyed the conversation. We had chemistry.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. Everything I know has come from thousands of hours studying and reflection about pickup and the human condition. As of now, it's been about a 3 year journey. Great books and YouTube videos (I.e. great mentors) paired with massive action in life have brought me to where I am. I'm by no means where I want be yet, though.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:58 PM
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Fun, playful, emotion-based, random, pointless. The opposite of logical.
/r/seduction22/12/14 06:21 PM
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Not sure if mocking, but: Eating a proper diet and brushing your teeth twice daily while avoiding garlic and onions = neutral breath 24/7, except immediately after waking up.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:13 PM
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Dude, no. When a girl says she's not having sex, it's because she isn't ready yet. By taking her words at face-value you fundamentally misunderstand how women communicate. It's the emotion, not the words themselves that you need to be attuned to. When she said "We're not having sex" I interpreted it as "I don't feel comfortable quite yet. We need to slow down. I feel like you're going to judge me if we have sex. I don't want you to think I'm a slut." I reacted appropriately and we had an amazing…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:11 PM
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Agreed, but hilarious FR nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:31 PM
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PUA evolved past lines and routines a long time ago. All the industry leaders teach you to be natural with women. They all start off by teaching you fundamentals of attraction but strongly advocate for things like meditation, reading, fitness, nutrition, good social circles of positive friends, good personal style, focusing on careers, work ethic, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:55 PM
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Books like The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida can teach you this much better than I ever could. Whenever I felt feelings of tension in my body or neediness in my mind I slowed down and took a deep breath, allowing me to expel that shit and get more present to the moment. I focused on the outpour of love and presence towards her and made every touch and kiss I gave her a gift from my innermost self, rather than sucking value and emotions off her. Agai…
/r/seduction22/12/14 04:51 PM
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Generally next a girl if she's giving you a hard time to hang out, yes. Eventually you get to a point where you've very in tune with your instincts, emotions, and social skills. I simply sensed that things with this girl weren't over. Don't ask me how. I couldn't fucking articulate it even if I tried. I never was working in her frame because I arranged the date on my own time and never supplicated to her once. Once she met me in person again it's pretty clear that my frame was a hell of a lot st…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:40 PM
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I understand that sentiment. I wasn't sure if a more pickup geared post would be received well here. It seems some like it and some are annoyed. If you can look past that surface level stuff, I think you'll find the deeper principles of interest.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:15 PM
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You can put her arms around your neck or on your shoulders. Or hug her, it doesn't matter. What I usually do is make sure our hips and/or torsos are touching right away. It's a super touchy, high-risk opener. Some girls love it, some hate it.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:11 PM
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Thanks man. I wish I could tell you there were more of these in the sub. I write these up so I can get feedback on my game and writing skills. I save all my FRs on a little jump drive after. God forbid anyone ever find it...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:08 PM
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These nachos were covered in melted cheese, refried beans, 3 kinds of salsa, guacamole, chicken, and lettuce. Mexican food is big where I'm living.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:59 PM
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Nope. Doesn't matter though. It really doesn't. Could have been any number of things. Thanks though.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:56 PM
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Lol. I'm not breaking down the conversation for you but I assure you there was no shaming or manipulation of any kind. That's you putting a very negative imaginary spin on things. My conversation and the personal details between us are are none of your damn business and so I left them out. We had a fun, intimate night together. You're a negative creep dude, chill.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:54 PM
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Use direct eye contact and extend your arm/hand towards her, palm up, without saying a word until she's in your arms. She'll take your hand and you firmly, but not aggressively, pull her into you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 12:07 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mg9p899Ydlo
/r/seduction22/12/14 11:33 AM
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Good job, OP.
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:07 AM
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Daytime: "Hi. I'm StarwaysCongress." "Hi. This is random but I saw you and I think you're very beautiful. What are you up to?" Nighttime: Hand of God Hand of God with "Marry me." "Who the fuck are you?"
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:05 AM
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This is a shit test. Check the sidebar.
/r/seduction22/12/14 09:39 AM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/seduction21/12/14 09:39 AM
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I was 18 when I discovered this community and had slept with only one girl in my early days of high school. Fast forward, I'm 21 now and have slept with well over a dozen girls in the last year alone. I've even had a couple instances of sleeping with more than one new girl in a single day. I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging, I'm trying to show you what kind of results you can have if you really apply yourself to this. I still don't have anywhere near the kind of success I want. It's true th…
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:39 AM
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If you talk to them about what they do for work or what their major is, a good transition is asking them what they wanted to be as a kid. There is usually a million ways you can go from their response.
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:28 AM
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by running my finger from her neck down to her cleavage one other time. I wouldn't have done this. Way too many people can see this. My favorite move is discreetly rubbing her pussy from behind while no one is behind us. Works pretty damn well actually. She also asked me to buy her a drink a few times, which I refused to do. Good job, but I hope you diffused it playfully I told her she should take me home but she refused that. Epic fail. You need to lead. You need to handle logistics. That's why…
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:23 AM
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Remove the words "luck" and "convince" from your vocabulary. That'd be a great place to start.
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:17 AM
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If you're in America, you realize she likely won't be able to even sit at the bar?
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:09 AM
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The top comment here makes me cringe. Dude, do you know how many guys hot girls date? Do you know how many girls alpha guys date? Dating multiple people is just what most socially-savvy, attractive people do. You date around until you find someone you want to commit to, and have lots of hot sex in the mean time. You can learn about this in lots of the main reads that create the foundation of this community. You never ask about other guys. Never. Would a guy who's killing it in life and having lo…
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:03 AM
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Your deal? You're a fucking coward. A doormat. A pleaser. An orbitor. A shell of a man. Luckily, we pretty much all start here. Read the right books, apply what you learn, and success will come.
/r/seduction18/12/14 01:42 AM
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To get a woman, you have to be willing to risk losing her.
/r/seduction18/12/14 01:37 AM
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No problem. If you check it out and like it, it turns into a 10 book series. Good luck on your journey back from the brink.
/r/seduction18/12/14 01:31 AM
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RSD isn't for everyone but I've always found Owen to be extremely insightful about the big picture of happiness. I could give you a million recommendations on great books to learn confidence with women but I think you need to start with the fundamentals (nutrition, fitness, hobbies, work/school, dropping porn, friends, meditation, etc). Some guys don't but it's the path I chose and it worked out pretty well. As a tangent, the book Ender's Game gave my life pretty strong inspiration and changed m…
/r/seduction17/12/14 05:26 PM
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Check out rsdfreetour and RSDTyler videos on YouTube. The main speaker, Owen (aka Tyler) hits on a very broad range of self-improvement topics, specializing in pickup. He's been a lifechanging force in my life and serves as a great role model to many guys coming from such a low place. As far as books go, start with The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Probably the single greatest book to help deal with anxiety and feelings of helplessness.
/r/seduction17/12/14 10:11 AM
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Generally, you approach older women.
/r/seduction17/12/14 09:59 AM
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The top part of my comment refers to the rich girls that don't care about money. The bottom part refers to women that do care about it.
/r/seduction15/12/14 07:06 AM
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Exactly. The advanced level paradigm is being the buyer.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:20 AM
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Well played. It's pretty funny and inspiring to see this movement affecting the next generation already.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:16 AM
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All the videos that were taken down are still on YouTube, RSD just changed them to private. I'm willing to bet that once this media storm has blown over that they'll be back up.
/r/seduction15/12/14 02:49 AM
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Templates (off the top of my head): 1: Hi, I'm StarwaysCongress, my friends call me StarwaysCongress. I'm really busy so I thought I'd try this out. I'm studying full-time at Hogwarts and work part-time at a baby-grinding factory. Abra-Cadaver, baby. 2: Ravisher of books, corruptor of souls, great with parents. Love laughing, sushi, and mischief.
/r/seduction15/12/14 02:41 AM
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I never accept girls' facebook requests. If you're dating multiple women, do you really think having them all up in your shit is a good idea? I remember one time a neighbor of mine in an apartment I lived in sent me a friend request and I messaged her back, telling her I only add people I know really well. I got her number, set up a date, and fucked her after hanging out a few times. I still haven't added her. Many of the girls I see either try to add me or talk to me about Facebook. I never add…
/r/seduction14/12/14 11:01 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxhL4q2P4dY Wanting to conquer your social anxiety or overcome your lack of social skills is a good attitude to have. Your attitude towards social interactions will change as you change. You have a healthy outlook on this. I say stupid shit to girls all the time. ALL THE TIME. I also fuck a lot of girls. A LOT OF GIRLS. I get over it by staying process oriented and not worrying about the results or getting a specific girl. I learn every time I say or do something …
/r/seduction14/12/14 10:54 PM
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I don't enjoy going to night clubs, and my night life(like bars and such) is almost non-existent due to a terrible house placement. How much do you value your social life? Your sex life? The idea of finding a long-term partner? Move dude. Get the fuck out of your house and get a place closer to the night life or high pedestrian areas with cool things to do. Don't make excuses. Just do it. Make sacrifices. No matter how good I'll be, girls mostly aren't interested at the time and approaching will…
/r/seduction14/12/14 10:44 PM
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You can always do better, but this happens all the time. LMR is a tough thing to handle and lots of guys fuck it up. You just learn from it. Know when to back off and push farther later in the night and when to stop pushing altogether and pick up where you left off the next time you see her.
/r/seduction14/12/14 10:38 PM
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Eye contact, i now can confirm she saw me, so i wasn't a total random creep if i approached her Talking to strangers isn't creepy, unless you're creepy. I never approach from behind as it could scare the girl im moving in on and cant make eye contact. So i wait a while for her to turn around. Didnt happen, so i left. Approaching from behind, casually, then taking a step back to allow her to relax is 10x better than not approaching at all. Usually you can circle around to the side in these instan…
/r/seduction14/12/14 10:27 PM
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It's the exact same process as with any other hot girl. If you want to pick up rich girls who also place a lot of value and emotional attachment to money, you need money too. How that relationship will turn out is pretty obvious.
/r/seduction14/12/14 10:18 PM
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Yeah you're coming from a scarcity mindset, but you're also orienting yourself with the result and are fixing yourself on an outcome. These concepts are all similar, but they articulate the point in different ways. I've had similar shit happen to me dozens of times. There are guys that are better with girls than you and there are girls that just don't want to sleep with you that badly. When you run into these situations you can experience anything from little pangs of negative emotion to a "ruin…
/r/seduction14/12/14 08:34 PM
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Mr. Mod is right. If she tells you she's getting uncomfortable with how fast thing are moving slow down, even back off a little. Escalation is often a game of taking two steps forward, one step back. Use your head and know when to stop and pick up where you left off next time. You'll fuck this up a lot, but it's how you learn.
/r/seduction13/12/14 08:52 AM
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I hear through the grapevine Your first mistake is giving a fuck what other people say or think about your dating life. But then her friend told me that she thought cuddling with me was weird and that she "friendzoned" me really hard I'm literally cringing reading this. Never listen to a girl's advice on dating. You're shooting yourself in the foot. Most girls are way less socially calibrated than successful alphas who understand the ins and outs of social dynamics. I can't even tell you how muc…
/r/seduction13/12/14 08:48 AM
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Pump your own state. Have fun. Have fun. Have fun. Lead, escalate, close.
/r/seduction12/12/14 07:41 PM
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The Manual, by W. Anton breaks down masculinity to it's roots. It will tell you how a masculine/feminine dynamic works and why it works. It will tell you how these expressions of ourselves are being oppressed in our culture and gives many examples of it happening. It stripped away whatever was left of my insecurity regarding sexual expression. Reading this book is essential if you want to develop a rock-solid masculine core and understand dynamics of male/female interaction. It highly emphasizes…
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:04 PM
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Warm up slowly and authentically. Have fun. Lead. Close.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:56 PM
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Rsdnation is pretty popular.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:55 PM
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She was from LA. Hot girls from the city tend to be pretty entitled. It doesn't take a genius to figure out she was looking for validation. Going over there the second time was just an experiment to see if her behavior would change. Confronting her would have been a pointless exercise.
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:29 PM
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Exactly. As sexworthy guys, we need to avoid those girls like the plague.
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:22 PM
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I tried multiple times, and by super unreceptive body language, I mean super unreceptive. Sitting on the floor while I was sitting on the couch. Inviting her to come up to the couch, she would sit on the opposite side with a blanket and pillow on top of her. Decline to come over to cuddle. Etc Etc. It was a shit show.
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:44 PM
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I deleted my Tinder. I'm going to get back into cold-approach as soon as my well runs dry. There's no sense in talking to her anymore. There are thousands of other girls in my area that would be effortless to fuck/date.
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:43 PM
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If she is she's going about it in the most stupid way possible. Why not just text me that her roommate thought I was cute and give me her number? Also, her roommate was telling me about some dramatic guy problems she was going through that were making her pretty upset, so I was not going to consider going for anything.
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:42 PM
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I wanted to do this as well, but to be honest, the awkward vibes coming from her were way too strong. I just wanted to get the fuck out of there and stop wasting my time. The second time I went over there was strictly as an experiment to see if her behavior would change. Sometimes girls act really reserved the first time they hang out so they don't come off as a slut. This wasn't the case.
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:40 PM
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This is what happens when you build your identity around being abused and damaged. You free fall into a mindset of bottomless scarcity.
/r/seduction12/12/14 08:18 AM
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Can confirm, Ender's Game deserves a kiss.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:55 AM
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Provoking the bitches into attacking you harder and ripping apart your self-esteem is the best way to build yourself back up way stronger. Allow them to take their best shots at you. Practice coming up with funny, cocky little comebacks and not getting emotional. It can be a really fun game to play and can often make them run out of steam and realize how fucking dumb theyre acting. At least their friends will usually see it.
/r/seduction11/12/14 11:52 PM
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It was really pissing me off. She would pull her away, look at me and say, "No!" My favorite response to shit like this is "Oi! In 6 years when we're married with kids you're going to feel like a complete bitch for what you're doing right now." or "Oi! This is true love. Get the fuck out of here." I always say this with balls-out confidence and a cocky-funny demeanor. Usually works. Don't be shocked if a psycho attacks you though. Guys responded well to me at least... Yea... great... Sarcasm on …
/r/seduction11/12/14 11:49 PM
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I was going to recommend Models as the cherry on top but that would only start an avalanche of all the other resources that have tweaked my personality and game to where it is today.
/r/seduction11/12/14 05:09 PM
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The Manual by W. Anton will save your life. Supplement that with The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida and you'll be unplugged permanently from your pussy self. Read books man. It's your only shot.
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:23 AM
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This has been my experience dozens of times. This is why I'm so against the "Yes" for consent laws. They're the most socially blind laws ever created and if people actually followed them they'd prevent 50x more consensual sex than actual rape, a crime that can be prevented in a multitude of other ways.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:11 PM
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Real question: Do we post FRs that don't involve women being idiots? Like, can we post FRs of a normal textbook seduction? I haven't seen any in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:01 PM
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A lot of guys aren't here to complain. They are here to learn and step out of traditional socialization (oppression of masculinity)
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:06 PM
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Cheers
/r/seduction08/12/14 06:18 AM
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Hang out, have fun, hook up. Every time. Once or twice a week. Having 2-3 girls is great for this purpose as it offers variety and is still sustainable.
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:24 AM
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I do things pretty naturally and carefree at this point, but I'll try to break things down. She was also very receptive to everything, so that helped Hug at door>sitting on my bed indicates for her to sit down as well>crawling under my blankets encourages her to do the same>I immediately put my arm around her when we laid down>I moved my tablet so we shifted to a spooning position>started lightly rubbing her arm with my fingertips>started lightly brushing against her breast during my rubbing mot…
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:04 AM
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It's easy to say that at first glance. When you grow up experiencing this stuff first hand though it's much easier to see how ingrained and subtle oppression of men has become, or at least how neglected the nurturing of development of healthy, masculine men has become. Large movements don't stem from nonsense. While a lot of these guys are fucked up and obscure the goal of the sub, I'd urge you to take the time to understand the place they are coming from.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:11 AM
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I think it was something like 4 days? I allowed the entire holiday weekend to pass and for when I thought she'd be home. Texting her during a holiday weekend would have shown significant neediness and also indicate that I have nothing going on in my life.
/r/seduction08/12/14 02:06 AM
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The majority of guys on here are jaded, angry, damaged, whatever. They are. There is no denying that. They shouldn't be posting hate and angry shit. They should be improving themselves and building an awesome life for themselves. On the other hand, the theory in this sub has a rock solid foundation, based on research, logic, and thousands of anecdotal experiences. Lots of the sidebar material is actually worth a look.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:44 AM
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You're lacking self-amusement. If you learn how to laugh and have more fun you'll have no problem growing a social circle and banging hordes of women. This means going out and practicing, a lot.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:40 AM
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The ones that do want to be the assertive ones in the relationship are the ones I don't want to date and am turned off by. These women are irrelevant to me. Generalizations work if they fit into what you stand for. And yeah, you're welcome.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:50 AM
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Time constraints warrant bending the rules on Friday nights, fair enough. If you do it regularly I'd urge you to make some changes to your schedule if meeting and seducing women is a priority in your life. The second point stands. A masculine alpha male wouldn't have even asked her. He would have taken her where he wanted to go and would have led her to the place he wanted to sit. There is no gray area. Women do not want to make the decisions. She doesn't want you to be controlling, but she want…
/r/seduction07/12/14 09:41 PM
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This was a textbook DLV from her It was much more of a DLV to give up a Friday night of yours to hang out with a girl for the first time. It's a general rule of thumb that you save weekends for girlfriends. She wanted me to pick the place, me to drive and even for me to decide where to sit. These were also DLVs, showing a low level of confidence Not even close. DHV if anything. She is a feminine woman. She wants a masculine man who can lead. I love girls that let me take the lead. It's hot as fu…
/r/seduction07/12/14 08:00 PM
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You're exactly right. The deeper message that I take away from shit like this is that game is RANDOM. The world is pure chaos. Nothing is strictly predictable, even with social interactions and sex. You can't get superstitious or get stuck in a single line of thought about what works. It's such a liberating realization to have, especially if you've been trapped in a paradigm where you believe if you don't do everything perfectly and the stars aren't aligned, you'll never fuck a hot girl. You can…
/r/seduction07/12/14 07:48 PM
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If guys like that aren't getting laid constantly, there are two simple explanations: A. These guys don't have much of a sex drive/prioritize sex much lower B. They simply don't know fundamental concepts of game. If they took a few months to learn the basics they'd be unstoppable. It's these guys that we call naturals. They put many of the best PUAs to shame.
/r/seduction07/12/14 02:15 PM
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Awww. Such a nice story. This is what this sub is for. Great job, OP.
/r/seduction07/12/14 01:56 PM
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If you moved to a college town and simply cold-approached a lot and knew how to have fun and be cool, you'd get all the college pussy you can handle. A confident, well-developed, decent-looking older man generally has such a stronger presence that it makes most college guys look like clowns. A lot of younger women would fucking love to meet an older guy. I have to emphasize the fact that you need to be clean-cut and well-dressed, otherwise coming off as a creep will probably be a common problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 01:07 PM
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Jenna Marbles. She's actually a really famous YouTuber. Pretty cool to see this.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:46 PM
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This is funny, but I'd rather spend my time and mental energy meeting, dating, and fucking women. Sounds like a SJW mission more than anything
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:54 AM
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Always the best route.
/r/seduction04/12/14 08:34 AM
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