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What if they start to escalate, can you still use non-confrontation, or should you be more assertive about your boundaries. I mean there are plenty of women that you cannot tell what to do or next - your family, your coworkers, maybe even your boss. Non-confrontation will only work if they won't escalate and become more pain in the ass than they already are. What would you use in those situations?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 11:49 PM
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Thanks man, trying to get better at doing this myself and it always good to hear how others handle is successfully.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:47 PM
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Is there a reason why you think "telling" someone to stop doing something right away, is a bad thing? I completely agree with the attitude and the action "cold and ignore" vs "warm and friendly", I am just not sure why you shouldn't vocally reinforce that as well. I mean it kind of falls into having communication skill, does it not?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:29 PM
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You wrote earlier : I take responsibility for my actions And you wrote now: her becoming psychologically damaged or not does not rest on my shoulders. Something doesn't add up here. Either you take responsibility for the consequences of your actions or you don't, can't have both.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:05 PM
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By maintaining a strong frame and having boundaries she has to abide by my rules. Well if you are not telling her what your rules are, how does she know? Take a look at the girls who have been ignored by their parents and what kind of people they turn out to be. You have to tell them why you are punishing them or they won't learn, they just get psychologically damaged.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 07:29 PM
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I have a feeling that sometimes when people destroy one illusion, rather than facing the reality they create another illusion. It is like they are watching the matrix, but end up watching inception instead. What about the part in the matrix about "there is no spoon". Seems to me like you are trying to find happiness in life, the same way Neo tries to bend the spoon. Maybe it is not the approaches you take, but rather your concept of what happiness is - rather flawed. Maybe the happiness that you…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 06:59 PM
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All behaviors can be summarized by rewards/loses that people get. If he keeps doing what he is doing, either he gets some sort of reward or he is not feeling much of a loss. Why did you become a redpill, was it to get a certain reward or avoid a certain loss? You had some reason. The way I see it, beta males have two reasons for continuing their behavior. One is social conditioning - they are taught to believe that this behavior will reward them, once they face the reality that this may not be t…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:46 PM
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