Status-Buyer-7371 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Coping with betrayal from wife. Having hard time. I don't think you should forgive a woman who cheated on you. Kids or not. Concern about them is normal and troubling. You should fight her to get as much custody as you can, and be done with her. Stop beating yourself up and taking blame; she's the one who betrayed you, not the other way around	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 03:33 AM
2	The good things I like your perspective. Having a positive mental attitude regardless of what happens or what anyone does is undefeated in life. There is a lot more silver lining to divorce than we appreciate. And even if these bitches manage to take more than 50% custody, we'll just make the time we have with our kids even better to make up for it. My kids cry the whole way to being dropped off with their mother, and talk excitedly all day before I pick them up and are ecstatic when I do. That's enough for me,…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 01:21 AM
3	How can we bring people especially men to care men’s issues ? The pendulum has already begun to swing backwards; I can feel it. After 100 years of feminism, they're really in for a surprise. Speaking honestly and fighting for what we know is right is the best thing you can do to help the pendulum on its way. Normalize calling women out for their bad behavior, and inform blue pilled guys who might otherwise not know. Be a brother, not a white knight simp	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 10:48 PM
1	Can someone please give me some perspective. I don't think you should be taking advice and perspective from girls. That is a recipe for disaster. If a girl gives you as a man relationship advice, you can safely assume the opposite of what she says is true, and you can do the opposite of what she thinks you should do	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 11:28 AM
27	I’m getting yelled at about women’s empowerment during the Super Bowl Idk why you're getting down voted. The massive push for beast cancer awareness seems odd and slightly sexist to me. It's research get much higher funding than for male cancers, despite being similarly deadly. Even on feminist subs, I was reading them breast cancer awareness is mostly bullshit	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 02:44 AM
1	Well well well Lol. There is some serious delusion and lack of awareness in that thread. I don't know why she's so worried though. All this girl needs to do is show up to court looking sad and distressed, and the judge will probably just wave much of her problems away for no reason making a mockery of "impartiality" and "equality". Pussy pass is practically undefeated in real life and in the "justice" system, which is the bigger problem	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/25 08:07 AM
1	She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband. Oh Lord, I'm sorry you have to go through this. If she's slandering you like that publicly, it is over. You should divorce her out of self respect. I can't imagine having to deal with one of those girls who labels men narcissists, they are laughable clowns. it's ironic that psychological projection, aka accusing others of what you are, is one of the main core manifestations of narcissism. What does that say about them, you don't sound like a narcissist she does	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/25 07:45 AM
4	How many wives admitted they regret the divorce? I think they're constantly looking for confirmation that they made the right decision. They're probably scrutinizing you more than anyone. That confirmation comes if you fail, go crazy, end up worse, decline, still want her back, become a loser, end up getting divorce raped paying her out the nose, ect. She'll happily take any confirmation she made the right decision in divorcing you and that you suck; she'll even do anything to make those things happen so she can get it. If you don't give it to…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/25 04:09 AM
1	50/50 custody versus other options? Some judge decides it. These lawyers and courts allege the law is unbiased and not sexist. They say the law is impartial, and 50/50 is the default arrangement these days. That couldn't be father from the truth. At the beginning of the divorce process, the woman gets 100% custody automatically, and the dad can visit the kids at her discretion, possibly with supervision. It's just blatant sexism that totally makes a mockery of the courts pretense of equality. The mom could be an unemployed homeles…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/25 06:33 PM
3	Child support is the biggest injustice If you have the power level for it, you can ruthlessly leave them high and dry as single mothers and never pay them a cent. I mean, it's evil, but that's the nuclear option they bring upon themselves. It's no wonder that happens so frequently, and I'd never judge a man for doing so. They complain child support is too low and think they have you by the balls, but the child support can easily be $0; then where will they be and what will they have to show for financially weaponizing the kids other …	/r/MensRights	08/02/25 02:05 PM
3	Why do you cry these days? Who do you cry to and how often? I don't cry, but on days I don't have my kids, its hard not to just lay around missing them doing nothing except waiting to get them back. I don't understand why you have to fight extremely hard for the responsibility of being a good willing dad, or why other people feel they can just take your kids away and fuck them up. Or why women so readily throw away half of their lifelong time with their kids, and half their kids time with their dad, by filling for divorce. Just toss it out like it's tras…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/25 02:14 AM
2	What are my options please? Just to add to that, if she's going down the false abuse allegations road, you probably want to record your interactions in the meantime	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/25 06:53 AM
1	What are my options please? Divorce sucks bro. Like seriously. You're gonna experience some losses. If there's a chance to fix your marriage and there's no infidelity, that might be preferable, and it's something to seriously consider. You're gonna have to change some things about yourself like your wife says, but that's not to say she's entirely in the right either. Overall the prognosis isn't good based on what you described. At 40, you're gonna have to decide if you're willing to take heavy losses and restart again alon…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/25 06:40 AM
1	What are some things you’ve done for yourself lately? Going to the dentist and getting dental work is always nice. Going to the gym. Buying new clothes. They arent pleasant or free but it needs to be done. I save most of my indulgences to share with the kids when I have them	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/25 04:03 AM
3	Nobody knows the pain of divorce Of all that stress, it seems like men take the brunt of it. For many women, I'd argue divorce is a remarkably unstressful thing, if not joyous	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/25 01:46 AM
1	How can she change on a flip of a switch? Your first two sentences are highly disagreeable in my opinion. I have banged plenty of girls who felt no such love/safe/heard/protected. In fact, the only time I've heard someone say they need those things for intimacy is when a woman is making excuses not to have sex with her committed partner	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/25 01:38 AM
1	For those of you who had to go through “war” in your divorce I want to hear your story and how you made it out. I had to go through batterers intervention program to avoid prosecution from the da. That was like a year of 2 hours long weekly struggle sessions having the bullshit deluth model shoved down our throats, paying $100 for each class for the whole year, paying for constant drug and alcohol tests, not seeing my young kids for several months, going through a cps investigation, not being allowed to go home at all to collect any of my lifelong personal property which she threw away. All based on fabri…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/25 02:27 AM