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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -4 | Where should you not approach girls?Came here to say this | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 08:51 AM |
| 27 | I shut down once I know a girl’s into me; how can I stop being weird about getting physical?This right here. In order to elaborate: The two reactions you're describing OP are flight or fight. They're pointing towards self worth issues. Deep down you seem to believe you're not worth of 'having' her. The way out of this would be to take the advice in here and force yourself through it a couple of times proving yourself wrong. It'll become easier along the way and translate into authentic behaviour conveying self-confidence. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 09:51 AM |
| 221 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??When you get it, they smell it | /r/seduction | 19/06/23 11:08 AM |
| 8 | Women I attract reflect on the type of man I am?whoever we attract is the direct reflection of the cracks in our mental, emotional and social health Does me attracting nobody mean I have no cracks in my mental, emotional and social health then? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 21 | Should I ask my crush from a donut shop outnever ask her out because she's just being nice because it's her job Basically, that's not wrong, but you have been taking things further with her: I asked her if she could teach me Spanish and she said yes, she would That's way more than just being nice because you're a customer. Just pin her down to that, be a bit creative when setting up the date (come up with something that starts as a language lesson but can be transitioned into a more romantic setting) and escalate. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 11 | Subliminal messages during sexI once fell in love with a woman very deeply, and besides other great qualities, she always used to openly appreciate and compliment anything related to having sex with me, while we were doing it as well as when we were not. Starting with how I'm such a good kisser and how my body is hot during foreplay, complimenting my size and hardness when starting intercourse, showing clearly and lowdly how she appreciates my stamina while doing it, and telling me how hard she just came and how great I am a… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Girl at gym acted like she was trying to get my attention; how should I break the ice if I see her again?Probably this. I'd like to add that even if she acted intentionally to make you approach her, that moment is gone now and she might not be interested anymore the next time you see her. At least from my experience, if a woman shows indicators of interest and the man doesn't act upon them anytime soon, they lose attraction and become dismissive. The more obvious their signals were, the more dismissive they become when you hesitate or don't act at all. Had to learn that the hard way. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Getting a drink with a girlHappy cake day! What is kino escalation Basically what I was describing, establishing a physical connection and bit by bit increasing the intensity over time. | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting a drink with a girlThis. I'd particularly emphasise the kino escalation part. A nice conversation is something she could have with her best friend as well. As you don't want to end up there (=in the friend-zone), also seek to establish a physical connection from the very beginning, starting with e.g. slight touches, holding her hand etc. leading to a general closeness so the attempt to kiss her a bit later comes in more naturally. Whenever she's shying away, also do one step back and restart from there. Don't be o… | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 06:56 PM |
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