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Brother be easy on yourself. 16 is nothing there’s no rule that says you have to couple up yet. Nothing is even remotely over.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 06:25 PM
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I can't speak on every anecdote but having a genuine crush more often than not dissolves whatever a person claims their "criteria" are for a mate. She probably wouldn't have cared then, and she's only upset about it now because in reality, she's just dissatisfied with the relationship overall, and is looking for things to argue about. Just my 2c.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/26 02:53 PM
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Brother, respectfully, please listen just a moment. The fact you're defensive versus several commenters is an indicator. Your post does attempt an honest respect given to women, saying that they can indeed be honest. This is respectable and trending in the right direction. However, in this topic, a "body count" is still a cold statistic which gives or takes value away from a woman. That is still operating within the red pill framework. Transactional. Rankings. etc. even if it's being presented s…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:39 AM
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Exactly. Also, it used to just be a light hearted thing. Social media turns everything into poison.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:23 AM
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Yea imagine some random creep asking your sister her body count. That's what these influencers are. Drop this garbage brother. Unless the woman has had a truly freakish number just let it go. Don't even ask.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:21 AM
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nah there's not going to be much you can help with here. sure say some nice words, sounds like you're a decent person, but say them and bail. in RP you're the enemy so it's probably not going to go well even if you're nice about it. dude has to find his own way.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 01:58 PM
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Respectfully brother, even the old red pill offered an adversarial worldview. Sounds like you've got a grip on it but I'm not too surprised that it devolved into what it is now.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 08:58 PM
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Remember folks, red-pill is extremism. If we're making extreme comments, espousing an extreme worldview, then we're more or less still in the throes of this cancer. This back and forth about patriarchy, feminism.. and then the creepier bit on genetics. Like, these are not the real conflicts in society outside of media. It's still very possible to meet someone nice and have an ok life. And it's also possible never to find a match. These are normal things in life, in any country. Bailing on that r…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 05:44 PM
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If AI blows away a huge number of jobs this garbage might actually take hold even worse. Just being realistic. I hope I'm wrong.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 07:05 PM
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Brother you should not be obsessing about your looks like this. There is no way it's healthy, as it seems you've already figured out. Try to keep in mind that red pill is largely just psychological abuse dressed up as other stuff. Not only upon the women you meet, but upon yourself.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/26 03:57 PM
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Brother it's a trust issue more than an intelligence issue. There's a reason they target youth. Glad for you that you can at least identify this type of scam now. Good luck out there.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 02:35 AM
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You might want to get some blunt feedback about your personality from a family member ,shrink , or even a friend . Hard for most of us to understand autism . "I think you should pay for your own food " sounds a bit unromantic unless she's been bleeding you for money a lot. But the fact that she just dumped you on the spot suggests there was more going on
/r/ExRedPill30/12/25 10:58 PM
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Pretty much every destructive cult is game to degrade outsiders. It doesn't have to just be women. Racism, etc. all comes with it. Nothing surprising here.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/25 09:06 PM
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Yea man putting yourself out there is definitely a great skill. Cults always wrap some good in with the bad. Glad that's going well for you brother!
/r/ExRedPill27/12/25 09:02 PM
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He's probably some flavor of psychopath. People like this generally only know fear, excitement, pleasure. Zero conscience. Other emotions are blunted. It's really not worth pursuing further. This is the great scam of red pill. If you were really "cut out" for it, you'd have already come up with it yourself. At its core it's simply being a manipulative prick. Not rocket science. Just, revolting to normal folks. But a psychopath has no issue with this, and thus refines the technique, and figures o…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/25 05:13 AM
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Brother, these folks are not practicing science. Even if it's quantifiably true my god how does internalizing that help anyone's existence. Do what you can to improve your health situation without losing your mind. Positive attitude adds a point maybe two. From there just enjoy your life. You could have a hot girlfriend and be miserable trust me. Not like "oh yea easy for him to say" but actually for-real true with legitimate misery. It's not the end all be all. My worst times in life have NOT b…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/25 02:13 AM
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So you're with a guy who just can't seem to understand why he shouldn't call women sluts and whores. Sounds like a keeper.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/25 12:13 AM
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> I've never experienced a woman accusing a man in person for talking to them. Correct, only a crazy person does this. > Women in real life actually are capable of feeling empathy for men. Yes, men and women have the same distribution of nice vs not. > I used to think that a woman's entire day revolves around constant male attention and sex. This is a vapid person which is in the minority. Red pill lies and pretends this is common. > Women are capable of monogamy. Yes. Probably even moreso than …
/r/ExRedPill05/12/25 09:56 PM
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Where are you getting this? It seems legit.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/25 10:30 AM
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Brother I would avoid focusing on the logistics of attraction or natural order or anything like that. It's just a way to go nuts. Obviously you can help yourself by losing weight. Just like you could help yourself by making more money. That's nothing so wild or deep. Just obvious. It is also true that these things benefit you just generally, not absolutely. As in, life is not such a rigid thing. Nor is it so serious. Being at peace with existence is much more important than getting laid. Red Pil…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 10:05 PM
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Sorry brother, this just isn’t the place to be peddling guru alternatives.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 06:13 PM
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Sorry to hear it. Unless you leave this person it will be difficult to know if he’s really stopped. Perhaps consider a 3 month break with zero contact so that you can re-assess with a clear head. The details are hardly important. If you’re here, most of us have a good idea of what happened. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/25 06:18 PM
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It's not surprising. Being manipulative can be effective. It's also wrong and unsustainable for most people. What have you really gained? Was it worth it? Only redpill monsters want you to be angry, judging yourself by such things as getting laid etc.. there's a more peaceful life out there. Just chill. Play some video games. Find a friend who's a nerd. Most people don't care about this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 09:15 PM
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well put brother
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 09:09 PM
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Would you want your daughter on the receiving end of this? What about your friend's daughter? Or your own sister or mother? Also, are you at peace? Can you keep this up forever? What does this look like at age 40, 50, etc.? How do you want to be remembered?
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 04:52 AM
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Are you psychologically abusive, manipulative? No? Then probably not.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 04:45 PM
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These things may seem true for when someone is not so lucky in love. Especially when we feel down, we're more susceptible to negative ideas. Rather than moving us towards enlightenment, red pill ideology seeks to harden our dissatisfactions by telling us that our bad luck is the result of a system designed to put us in this very position. Worse, it prescribes antisocial, abusive behavior as the cure. But it's false. Yes, some women are intrigued by bad guys. Yes, some women are serial daters, an…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 04:43 PM
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Yes! Easily! Red pill is a toolset that comes naturally for sociopaths, not for people with regular human morality. That's why all these internet personalities have to craft such elaborate marketing campaigns around it. Normal people need justification for bad behavior. They need to think it's ok, maybe even good. So as a person gets radicalized by red pill ape logic, they are having to block out their normal, moral upbringing. That's gonna take a toll eventually, no matter what your other issue…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 12:39 PM
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SMV is ape logic invented by apes. Choose humanity and live your life however tf you want.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 12:32 PM
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If he did this to you for 9 years then he's probably some flavor of sociopath and there's going to be zero value in getting the last word in. Just get the hell out of there.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 12:24 PM
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Unless you're legit about to overthrow capitalism why on Earth would you want to hobble yourself. Everybody is trying to get by in whatever society they find themselves in. Do your best to thrive in THIS society. The one you actually live in.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/24 03:01 PM
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Have you ever met a crusty old out of shape person at a low paying job who just doesn't take any shit? They can do it. So can you.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:49 PM
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I agree.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:33 PM
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I did not succumb to red pill but a good friend did. The thing about Red Pill is that it can indeed "work" for some people. So, it may very well feel like magic, egged on by Tate videos, etc.. Over time, most people realize that it's an unsustainable and unhealthy lifestyle.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:29 PM
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Pass.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:15 PM
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It sounds like you're reverting into a normal person with healthy emotions. That's good. I feel bad for the woman you red pilled but it looks like you're getting out of that. There's no clear cut rule here but good women tend to be emotionally even. Friendly. Interesting. Goofy. Decent to others. Have interests that aren't just money or status. Maybe they care about their job. Maybe they're just sweet and kind. They're everywhere. A healthy relationship should not be adversarial, which is the op…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 04:10 PM
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Nobody is keeping track of how often you're getting laid. In most healthy friendships, bragging about that sort of thing is a bit yuck anyway. It literally doesn't matter. Most people eventually realize that you only need to meet one great person to have a nice life. "Getting laid" is overall nothing so great, as it seems that you've discovered anyway. Just work on yourself in the normal ways: work out, try hard at your job, be a decent person, be a bit brave sometimes. * shrug * what else can y…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 03:55 PM
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One is free to dislike themselves just the same. 🤷‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 12:04 PM
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In this life you're free to like yourself despite all the evidence in the world.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/24 03:24 PM
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Look at some other dude real quick and imagine that he's in a similar quandary. It's quite uninteresting, yea? That's you. Or, frame the situation as you looking at her, instead of the other way around. It's sort of true, yea? I'm guessing that you don't care so much unless it's someone you find attractive. So like, what are you going to do about it? If it's not reasonable (for whatever reason) to approach this person, then maybe this is enough information to encourage you to ignore it and move …
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 01:18 PM
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Yea quitting porn sounds like a good start. Normal relationships have both things. Reasonable sex and reasonable affection. You seem to only understand extreme sex or extreme affection. Also, not in the same woman! Try to tone that shit down. Seek equilibrium. It is the key to many types of happiness in life. Perhaps easier said than done. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 01:07 PM
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It's an old game to sell sociopathy as if it were a special technique or technology. Cult victims are hyped up on some rigid philosophy, get a few gains from it, start to sputter, then get nickeled and dimed all the way down an emotional vortex. Told it's their own fault for not following the program correctly. Implied that if they quit, they're one of those awful "them" after all (in this case, a "low value" man). Red Pill only works as a lifestyle if you're actually a sociopath. But a real soc…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 12:55 PM
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Not that far? That's an extreme view.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 03:19 PM
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Many people gravitate towards confidence, especially if it's something they already want to hear.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 03:03 PM
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Red Pill isn't some neutral tool like a wrench. It's manipulation, which is dishonest. Every technique has something bad in it. AWALT: Paranoid. False. Plenty of women don't fixate on this shit. Alpha/Beta: Degraded prison mentality. Successful societies have many type of power dynamics. Negging: Abuse. Frame Control: Adversarial. Plate Theory & No Free Attention: Dishonest. Gross. All these things together are a syndrome. None of it reads "Healthy, nurturing relationship between two people." It…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 12:24 PM
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Those are certainly .. words. What are you doing on this reddit, anyway? Do you attend AA meetings with justifications for booze? Which hits the core of Red Pilling. It's anti social behavior. Like what you're doing right now. Red Pill is a grab bag of ugly mind games that come easy for a sociopath but not for decent people. Regular people can mirror a sociopath, but they need a steady diet of justification. That can be ideology, hero worship, pop-psychology logic puzzles, etc. etc. Otherwise th…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 09:31 AM
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Added a US Flag to my facebook avatar and suddenly got flooded with Andrew Tate and Jordon Peterson videos.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 05:45 PM
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If this guy is super mild and a bit weird or something a lesbian bar might actually not be the worst place in the world for him to go. Definitely shouldn't go * looking * for something in there. But, ya never know what might come looking for him lol. Of course he might be square and this is the worst idea ever.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 05:26 PM
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Good listener. Not a misogynist. Volunteering. Hey these are good traits. But, they're not really "attraction" traits. These are more like "ok amongst all the guys I find attractive, I want the one that also has these traits." You know what I mean? If you're really a 3, well.. you might just want to look for a 3. Life isn't fair. But I get it, you probably wanna shoot higher. If working out, dressing nice, will help you. Try it? I don't always like this advice because it's a crap shoot. It MIGHT…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 05:10 PM
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it's not an ideology, neither is it a theology It's absolutely both of these things. if the whole of western society became christian overnight and developed morals once again, the entire red pill paradigm would change Hey look some ideology. that's why it's a praxeology ... because it can change according to the observations The red pill is ..? meta logic which can shape shift and adapt ..? to new logics! Theology detected. also most red pill concepts are just basic human biology. to say that t…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 02:41 PM
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There are many, many attractive women who are perfectly happy meeting someone nice, with a job, who they have a good time with, and who is comfortable in his own skin. Forget that other stuff.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 12:51 PM
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It's reasonable to believe that a large difference in attractiveness between two people will prevent a match, a lot of the time. It's not reasonable to believe that this is an inviolable law of the cosmos and that nobody should ever try to approach someone "out of their league."
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 12:05 PM
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Black pill is not a real thing my friend. It is a reduction of thought that categorizes things into overly simple problems so that scum bags can sell overly simple answers. My best advice is low expectations, positive attitude. Live that for a while (maybe even years), and there's a bit of glow from people who are comfortable in their own skin. That'll add a bit to your game, too. But in the short term you gotta let the fog clear.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 04:11 PM
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Brother this sub is about saying no to the pill designations. She did become your girlfriend at one point yea? So it does sound like you are able to charm someone yea? Maybe feel good about that, and move on. Every person is new. Some are trustworthy. Some are not. Every relationship is a risk. There's no way around it. Try to find some equilibrium. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 03:51 PM
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