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'' Then why are you mad that toxic creeps are being called out? '' Because you're indirectly, possibly directly also calling out people who aren't toxic creeps but have similar issues, or at least making them feel like their problems are invalid. Fuck, people get called creeps just for being socially awkward while some other dude gets away with way worse. On top of this, plenty of these people became toxic creeps precisely because of the way soceity has dealt with them. It's like being surprised…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 01:32 PM
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aaah. Cool, I've studied for about 3 and a half years. It's funny because ever since I got this newer account 99% of what I visited was on the learnjapanese subreddit and killing time on ppd. I never expected to see others where the two topics go together haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:08 PM
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よろしくね。Are you a student or a native? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:44 PM
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Did not expect to see a japanese tag here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:54 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:45 PM
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Let me put it this way, has what a lot of men say they like ever matched up with reality? ''I love women that look natural, without all that makeup'' *proceeds to be into people who wear makeup and ignore people who don't wear it*. While sure, women don't like overly muscly men (In fact it seems to often be a turn off), but a fit type of body men mostly can't get naturally is definitely more desirable to most women regardless of what this dude actually looks like. That's just common sense. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:03 AM
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A want is me going to a fancy restaurant. A want is me buying a really expensive pc. They're really nice to have, but I don't need them to keep my baseline good enough. My sexuality is a biological need. It's a basic bar that should be filled to keep me sane and I kind of need to do something with that energy. It's not like ''Oh I want to play a video game I guess''. It's more like ''Fuck I really feel this primal urge for companionship or fapping and my body is constantly begging me for it'' It…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:17 PM
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no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:37 AM
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And then there's either how they make beta billy look like the villain for their own bs if he catches on to the bs or gaslight/manipulate him right before he does. The lying is bad enough, but kicking them while they're down for seeing through the lies is next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:47 PM
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Finally someone not okay with kicking my kind while we're down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:33 AM
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While it can have plenty of other reasons like it simply being thrilling/different/taboo, It can show there is an instinctual desire for things like being that wanted, aggression or acting submissive. Even if you don't want a fantasy acted out in real life, there's reasons for responding to them the way you do. Do I wanna hurt and kill people? Fuck No. I'm not an aggressive dude at all I don't like seeing people be hurt. But do I find the gore in some first person shooter satisfying? Yes. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:39 AM
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The problem comes in when there's a double standard in what is considered whiny depending on whether you're a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:12 AM
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I dig those kinda looks anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:09 AM
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So boobs are like balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:46 AM
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How long is long term? I doubt it's for life. I suspect love is there because it keep couples together long enough to raise a child to a somewhat acceptable degree. Don't most marriages go south after 7 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:31 AM
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They were being outcast or shamed or just socially inferior in one way or another > they become socially isolated and resentful > start saying misogynistic shit > folks shame them for saying mysoginistic shit > Guy gets more resentful and says more mysoginistic shit > People shame them harder for saying mysoginistic shit But then act like those same type of folk were never part of the first part of the equation. It's a cycle that feeds into eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:20 PM
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How anyone could believe in that asinine third point is beyond me. Please tell me they're trolling. hopefully about all three points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:30 PM
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Worth trying yeah but to then expect people to have to deal with everything with their therapists when partners should be there for eachother in higher priority in the first place, including with emotional processing, is kind of a weird foundation. If one person is doing too much emotional labor, I don't think the answer should be ''Just put all the baggage on the therapist'' I think it should be ''don't put all emotional labor on one person and spread it equally''. People in this thread acting …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:56 PM
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Even most paid therapists suck ass tho, let alone the others.. And that's not even considering you need to fit well with the ones that are good. And having to accept that they don't actually care about you. And then there's the waiting lists god they're endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:59 PM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:51 PM
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Hmm, Reminds me of a certain group of people who do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:15 PM
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Not comfortable with sharing private chats here. I did once see it happen on that show ''first dates'' but finding that and knowing whether it was a lie..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:59 AM
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Let's not kid ourselves both are pretty damn popular as long as the person is hot or cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:19 AM
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I mean there definitely are men that lie about it, as well as men who it doesn't even apply to. But at the same time men are generally way more honest about it and even if not, the lizard brain part of of the general man is common knowledge in soceity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:16 AM
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It only is "difficult" because women generally CAN and do have higher standards. It's like playing on easy/medium mode but not being satisfied until you reach a really high score at the end while the other plays on hard and is happy to survive to the final stage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:50 PM
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I may have not witnessed violence but young immature me was one of the dudes that snapped over love once. Even just the verbal herrasment is something people would rather not risk dealing with. How many times have I observed someone getting violent in public? Not much yet it does happen enough for it to be a problem . it only has to happen to you once to have fucked up consequences which is a bigger problem when physically weak. On top of that have you ever heard of stalkers and the like? Tons o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:28 AM
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Dropping hints is percisely what created the people taking it as flirting thing. That said, while both these scenarios have the same source, I think what OP is talking about is more an issue for dudes who lack the skills to deal with it such as myself while what you describe is an issue for girls who keep getting approached by dudes they don't want. Like, I've heard girls complain way more about the experience written above than the other way around. I'm gonna have to guess girls have been getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:37 PM
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I find it interesting how the behavior women tend to complain about men have starts to heavily resemble their own only when a super hot dude is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:14 PM
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Or your safety. Dudes who are rejected can go pretty fucking nuts and well they have more physical strength. You never know who will be like that so better safe than sorry edit: Not saying that is always the reason in this scenario specifically, I'm saying women have a reason for being inclined to be indirect in general, which is safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:06 PM
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How embarrassing we talking I'd like some examples
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:46 PM
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I'd say it's women's pickiness + male thirst. It compliments eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:37 PM
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Prove the fuckers (or yourself) wrong and improve. Even if you don't get to the point you want to get show you can get better on at least some way. You can do that shit. (Says the most insecure guy on the planet as he lies around procrastinating improving in his hobbies)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:32 PM
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Because it is not purely the physical need to fuck but the need to be emotionally+physically intimate with and validated by a woman in the sexual and romantic sense as a man. Either way, define 'need". I'd say they're things I generally need for biological reasons to have to stay healthy, sane and fulfilled. Do humans absolutely need exercise and vitamin D to survive? No but it's been proven it's a "need" for humans to stay in their proper condition. The higher up you go on this list of needs, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:20 PM
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The emotional validation of any other kind and that of of sex/romance is different. Like it satisfies a different "need". You can not satiate the first with the other if the other is present though you can compensate with the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:02 PM
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I find it funny how women often feel offended when guys use these kinds of explanations when it's just a case of subconscious cause of feeling existing in the first place vs conscious motivation for wanting to do it. I want to fuck because girls are hot and it feels good. But why did it happen I find them hot ans fun the first place? Why do I feel that joy when I do? Because beings that didn't feel like fucking were more likely to die out so that's a lot less likely to have been passed on to me(…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:57 PM
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Humans want both because we're judged for what we happen to be all the time yet we also want to feel like our accomplishments matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:44 PM
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Okay sure, it's not a "need" in the literal sense. But that doesn't mean it is not important to peoples well being that roots in biological desires. Having friends is not a need to survive these days. But it fucks with the human psyche to not have them. I'm pretty sure if I had no friends I'd have already commited suicide. This is coming from an autist that usually likes being alone. Having friends is not like buying a mansion despite already having a perfectly fine home. One is on the heirarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:39 PM
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I live on my daily dosis of shitposts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:21 PM
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Hey the first purgeweek had way more shitposts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:20 PM
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I don't even mean extremely nervous or clamming up, though that would definitely halt you. He could be fine.. But just lack certain kinds of confidence. That all comes down subconciously to gender roles. If your energy has that masculine vibe in a non extreme way while still being somewhat relatable, it's gonna be attractive to more people. I don't disagree with this stragety. It would probably be effective and is something I've thought of plenty og times. Confidence IS really hard to fake so do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:23 PM
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Not only have women been discouraged to do a lot of hobbies or work throughout history, women are too busy caring for a family, doing housework, managing stuff, ON TOP of going to their jobs to spend as much time as men on hobbies. Maybe if men didn't keep women down and instead encouraged them they'd have/show more of their hobbies. But hey, it's not a hobby if you don't like it right? It's only a ''real'' hobby if you approve of it for some inexplicable reason. Appearantly singing is only a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:03 PM
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'' This is a major bad move, especially if they're doing it to multiple women in the same friend group: we talk to each other and it grosses us out '' Agree on that paragraph from this sentence and on. '' That's why it's a much better strategy to play it cool, be yourself, get to know EVERYONE in the group, and assess whether the one you like is open to something more. '' .I don't think your conclusion is a bad idea for anyone who can assess when people like them and know how to take it somewher…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:28 PM
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I mean we're both agreeing here meeting people = meeting more people = higher chances of finding someone. The key thing here is meeting people. And no, you're not wrong plenty of people find relationships through friend groups n stuff. That's been a normal thing throughout history. I just do not think genuinely trying to befriend women without ANY EXPECAION WHASOEVER has much bearing on how succesful you will be. Hell there's plenty of manipulative people who succeed with the sole intention of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:46 PM
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I mean sure. But I don't see how that negates anything I said. Socially awkward people are often looked down upon just for being socialy akwkward even when some very important people to our soceity have been them and they didn't really do much wrong. they just have different strengths/weaknesses. When it comes to socially weird people, there's a scale of social weirdness and the most succesful ones in a job are gonna be the ones wierd enough to really dig into that kinda stuff, but also socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:13 PM
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when you cultivate the ability to truly, actually befriend women without ANY expectation of anything sexual in nature, it often leads to romantic relationships What? Since when? Okay let's put aside the whole sexual attraction for a sec. I see the exact opposite having way more results. People who take initiative to take things into a romantic direction relatively early on in a smooth, assertive but still considerate way and do/have at least something to attract that kinda person. Whether you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:35 PM
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People in general seem to act asif you can't be a valid human being if your social skills suck even though most of the technology they use in their daily lives, information they look for and even a bunch of art wouldn't be there if it wasn't for socially awkward, loner or just weird people. I just keep reading this underlying tone of either disgust or ridicule everytime somebody talks about someone who's not socially successful which tends to go along with a bunch of assumptions despite that mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:03 PM
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cod is art
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:04 PM
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They don't give her a chance because as a dude of a relatively young age most chicks their age look at least somewhat attractive by default while as a chick of any age most men don't actually attract them until proven otherwise. Dudes aren't being as picky regardless of looksmatch. Now as for the hypocracy, welcome to human beings and their virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:41 PM
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I'd like to note anti depressants are getting more commonly prescribed and often cause at least some form of sexual dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:07 PM
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I wonder how much of this is by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:05 PM
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Ah okay I get ya. But I just think in general people focus too much on blaming a single symptom (a lack of confidence) rather than the root cause that made that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:06 PM
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You know, I should come up with a new term for this bs. Lemme try ''Male Weakness shaming'', because both feminists and red pillers love doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:01 PM
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I don't see how ''There is not league'' and ''You're not being socially demoted'' are related. You can still be in a league and understand '' She isn't making a statement that you're an individually and uniquely unappealing person in the world'' Leagues just mean that some people are more attractive than others, and the more attractive the are, the more easy options you have, hence you are less likely to pick the ones that on the surface are less attractive.Why do you think its called ''attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:50 AM
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are they really bitter? Red Pillers seem to embrace it and try to succeed anyways, but they also just like making fun of people like most groups. If you're in the ''red pill rage'' phase, you're not really following the philosophy yet you're just accepting its a thing. You're swallowing the pill but not having its effects yet. MGTOWS seem to embrace themselves while trying to warn other dudes, and again make fun of people. MRA's don't really care about getting laid they just want the male side o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:31 PM
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I always got the impressions staceys were supposed to be more common than chads so I didn't use it but maybe I'm completely mistaken in this meme-ass terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:22 PM
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I don't get why women keep claiming romance doesn't fall in their laps. Not only is it guys initiating most of the time, they have more clear romantic options around them. My biggest crush who I was close to had several friends of mine into her and she picked one of them. I made it very clear I was into her. If you include me thats 4 dudes I know were into her romantically +1 who I know just wanted to bang her (though he also enjoys just hanging out) and tried to kiss her. And that's just the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:35 PM
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Ofcourse they can open up without. It depends on: -What type of woman she is and what she's into. -How attracted is she to the dude? -for what reasons is she attracted to him? -In what way/context is he being emotional? -In what frequency is he being emotional? -When is he being emotional? Before they barely know eachother? At an inappropiate time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 08:33 AM
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I think I might, I have a feeling it would work a lot better. I don't know how I'd emotionally respond to it, but I already do know practically speaking it would work better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:05 PM
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I'm starting to doubt there are desired personality traits. I just seek Validation and comfort. Especially of people where I don't expect it. Yeah I'm a mess. I deinitely prefer more energetic gals resembling my family in demeanor but with at least somewhat geeky interests that I just feel comfy around and find easy/fun to talk to tho. Both silly lighthearted and ''deep/analytical'' conversations are cool with me. They tend to be introverts that seem extroverted on the surface. Oh, Or autistic g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:31 PM
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Maybe they didn't grow up with the same tools and enviorment? Can you blame someone who has a neurological reason just like us autistics themselves? Can you blame some kid that was bullied all their life for the silliest reason to socially isolate himself and thus become socially awkward? Even if it IS their fault, you do seem unnecessarily elitist about someone having flaws that just make things move less smoothly than they otherwise would..At least you're being honest about it not being attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:16 PM
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I agree there's stats, and I don't think opposite sides really give a shit about them unless you present it in a certain manner and it is absolutely certain to be true. I think we're both getting at the same thing, bloops and reds act the way they do because of who they interact with in what context/relation. While it is factually wrong as a statement on its own, I think in these discussions the extreme way claims are made that causes them to be factually wrong often becomes the point of discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:10 PM
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Back to the context of the thread, Isn't your response right now the same shit bloops do when they see red pillers make similar kinds of statements?You look at that extreme statement, and you interperet it as not being true because a minority actually does it. What should be taken away from it is that if there's a minority of men who posess that trait, and a lot less women do, than there is likely some kind of bell curve traits and or circumstances that men have more often that causes it to happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:45 PM
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And we all know reddit is far from representative of normal, sane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:19 PM
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They're unable to fathom this for the exact same reason we're unable to fathom almost anything that goes against our beliefs on this forum. Its because we constantly reply and discuss based on our own experiences and whatever we want to believe and pick evidence that suits our biases. They experience that THEY are different than what you're saying, along with some people they know, they also WANT it to be different from what you're saying, so the conclusion is that it must not be true and that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:48 AM
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Ready for an even bigger wall of text? Background context: For one, I've always loved observing human behavior, not all that surprising as I'm an autist. Second I was raised as a bloop, raised relatively feminist, and have always been left. Ironically enough my mom doesn't really seem to like bloop ideas much anymore. With the whole anti sjw anti feminism thing getting popular on the net for a while, I changed sides for a while to that, but I realised that stuff is just as if not more silly as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:11 PM
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A bit of both. I hope you won't mind this wall of text. As I wrote that after reading some more on this topic more details fell into place. Which is why I'm here atm, unlike the past where I just wanted to whine. As for my train of thought, here's some takeaways: I think we often forget to take a step back to find out what the core underlying cause of either scenario is, and then look at why the circumstances resulted in different outcomes for both despite having a very similar complaint and loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:26 PM
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Interesting to bring up. I think these scenarios would be at least somewhat comparable. In both you feel underappreciated despite your efforts and like a second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:51 AM
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'' Women's relationships and marriage hinge upon the assumption that their husband actually values them for more than sex, actually values the devotion and commitment she gives him. '' Both genders want just that. to be VALUED and commited to. Thats it. And what is the biggest showcase of value and a likely commitment? What's the hardest for them to normally to get. It's not just about sex, which by the way isn't just pleasure but also physically intimate bonding. Its about what that sex means l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:43 PM
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Haven't most things discussed here been done multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:26 PM
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This may be off topic but I don't get why men are so damn disgusted by the concept of a consentual cuck. There's way weirder fetishes out there and it has no bearing on your life. They didn't even really do a anything morally wrong, it just effects themselves. I get it more when its a dude who didnt actually want it and lets himself be run over as it may have some kind of effect, but I still don't see why that would induce that much disgust. In fact while yes he got himself into that situation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:58 AM
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Totally. People conflate niceness for overly interested, passive, reserved, inconfident/humble and polite, and those are often afraid to say/do what they themselves want in not wanting to bother the other (which can be for nice and non nice reasons). Those men conflate asshole with assertive, aggressive, cocky and confident with a ''I don't really give a fuck but I still somewhat care'' attitude because they try to convince the other party to go along with their own needs and act less caring, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:41 AM
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This comes from that women often describe you need to be respectful and considerare to her boundaries and not be aggressive/forward because there's a bunch of annoying guys who just want to get in her pants. They often describe those kindsa guys and guys they had fights with as assholes , so when they see forward people that women actually like (or not) it would also be seen as one of those assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:32 AM
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That's really hard to say. I honestly don't think much benefitial could come out of this question, its simply too broad, subjective and hard to know beforehand. You said ''so that i can imitate her'' meaning you want something practical. But this place should be for discussing shit. That said I will not respond on what I find a perfect woman, I will respond on what I think generally attracts people in a very broad sense. Note that asking men on their ideal woman or how to get men isn't very prac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:54 PM
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Solving the obvious one second at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:28 PM
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Because people of certain groups under certain conditions project their stuff onto others and also distort their view on others. I see men and women do it constantly in these discussions. Simple as that. But this question doesn't really seem to be about that, it's more a conclusion you took from that thread. In the context of that thread, women see ''I value him romantically'' .But I think these men see more something akin to ''I'm being used as a wallet and provider and you don't truly find me …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:15 PM
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I would consider though, Overweight does not equal unattractive. Sure to a lot of those men she's attractive in spite of the weight (though there's smaller groups into it because of her weight), but there's a difference between a woman considered ugly by most and just an overweight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:06 PM
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Speaking generally I guess its because men are just as blind to the female experience as women are to the experience of dudes despite thinking not to be, men and women both have no damn clue about their instincts sometimes, and people will always undermine how important of a role looks play in how we see and treat people regardless of admitting it does play a role or not and are too sick of other peoples pretentious moral high grounds causing them to get shit on when complaining about something …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:03 PM
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I've witnessed my dad do this ignoring several times. This is why I think that while guys aren't nearly as picky with what they find attractive, if you are that unattractive girl you're gonne have a fucked up time because dudes can at least compensate more with other things than just looks. And I can imagine its gonna be even more frustrating to see because you're in a higher minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:49 PM
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Yeah I don't get it either. As long as someone is fun to talk to or hang around with, and I can relate to them on some level, chances are we can be friends. Regardless of gender. Hell, you can even be friends (and I mean actual friends) with people you're attracted to and even with ones who've rejected you without issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:29 AM
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But they're spited for acting 'entitled'' while its often the women around him who told him that he does deserve it and it would just happen to begin with. It's like someone hitting someone in the face, him getting mad, and then all the onlookers who only saw him getting mad blame everything on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:35 PM
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