SteadyCandlelight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
152	Men who are always the breakup initiators	STRATEGY	SteadyCandlelight	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 10:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks? A NVX acted like it was something with my looks but it really was the fact he was going bald (veeeery early 20s). I actually got better with makeup at the time and was getting more compliments, but he got uglier so he had to neg me into staying. Unfortunately I internalized it (Pre-FDS) but in hindsight it was 100% the fact I got better style and confidence and he went bald. Actually, from reading some of the comments it seems that negging started when the women leveled up, but we are conditione…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 09:51 PM
33	Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks? You sound so brave! Wishing you the best of health.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 09:44 PM
135	A message to the kinkmeishas: No, porn is not "normal". First it’s porn. And some instagram models. Then it’s OF. Then he’s scrolling through photos of women he knows irl. Then photos of exes. Then he’s mixing that with his porn. Once. Then more. Then he needs the validation so he DMs them. Then he cheats. All the while humiliating you with public follows, likes, cheating. You cry. He likes the power trip. So he cheats again. He like having an imaginary harem, made of pixels and your shattered self esteem. For some men it ends with being a serial che…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 09:44 PM
118	This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts? I’m glad to hear she had the money for termination, but he should’ve payed. Also, He said he is wildly attracted to me Do they really get attracted to so many women? Do they lie to us? To themselves? I can count on one hand the number of men I was wildly attracted to, and not because I don’t meet fine men where I live. The fact they can meet someone basically perfect on all scales and just ghost her… is crazy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/22 07:58 AM
20	This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'. Probably during their shared project & without her knowing that her coding partner is her stalker and a creep.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 12:24 AM
19	This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'. One day, having a pornography subscription will be ground for not getting a job.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 12:22 AM
24	This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'. Funny thing, men are failing their exams because of pornography and things like onlyfans. Probably the reason why his brilliant friend didn’t pass, too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 12:18 AM
42	Are most high value women “doomed”? The answer is yes, and no. No, because assessing someone’s character is a lifetime process so you never really have a partner of value for more than that exact moment. It’s all an illusion. Anyway, you are never alone, as you surround yourself with loving relationships of all kinds. (And I also believe it in a more woo-woo way.) That’s my take anyways.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 03:49 PM
5	I think he told on himself The moment they pull their Jackyl and Hyde is truly devastating. I’ve been in your shoes, one day my sweet, caring boyfriend of 3 years (mid college age) just switched. I was floored too. I also begged, sadly. That is the cognitive dissonance’s reaction. The question is how not to deepen you cognitive dissonance as it is. I found myself in such a state that I forgave him and stayed. Wrong! However, I’m afraid you, too, will find yourself unblocking. If I were to speak to my former, shocked self,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 02:44 PM
35	Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental health They ruin their own mental health with pornography.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 10:39 AM
63	The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨ Women rarely secure another guy. They break up (after a whole deal of communiCaTion), grieve alone, then date. Also, what is ‘securing a guy’ really? For women it means having this cute guy you never spoke to in the back of your head; for men securing a woman means emotionally cheating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 11:02 PM
11	you're not toxic. Sis, same. Mine broke up with me a week after I told him that men who watch porn are women haters. On the breakup phone call (the audacity) he said that my radfem new books are ‘keeping my mind hostage.’	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 10:55 PM