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| 1 | Other alternativesRefer to the last sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 03:15 AM |
| 7 | I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31MHe meant STD Anal. It was a typo. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I trying too hard?You are trying too hard. Your neediness and horniness are coming across and it’s turning girls off. They are forced to reject you. Look, if internally you don’t feel good about yourself, if you don’t like yourself and consider yourself a catch, no amount of approaching and silly techniques will get you laid. Focus on eradicating the things that you don’t like in yourself that you wouldn’t like in a friend. Flaws that you can’t fix, these you need to learn to accept and no be ashamed of. Only whe… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherMen who feel they need to lie and manipulate to get sex do so because they believe sex is scarce for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherLet’s see. What does selfish actually mean: “to do something in your own best interest”. Telling someone don’t be selfish literally means “please don’t do what’s in your best interest and instead do the thing that’s in my best interest.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherRemember. A slut is a woman who has more sex than I’d like her to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherWomen love the idea of getting married but hate being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherMen think that because they are so desperately needy. They want to jump with both feet into a relationship 4 dates in and end up scaring off the woman. Then Wonder why they are lonely and women ghost them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:24 AM |
| 3 | I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31MMmmm, no you are not becoming a bad boy just because you are bitter and butthurt at women. As a matter of fact, that tracks with your average incel’s journey. I understand why you are feeling like this, but understand that you are actually causing the w majority of these poor behaviors from women. If you make a single mistake - this only affects men who are desperate to get a woman’s approval and who are only concerned with getting on with her program. You need to figure out what it is that you … | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Need advice/resources to learn how to be more playful and teasing?? As a 23MWatch parts 1-4: https://youtu.be/HnEKdvUrO4k?si=SVT72qjNEe5htb7s | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Other alternativesAlternatives have been suggested many times here and always shot down in flames. Alternatives such as: liking and loving yourself so you don’t depend on the love of a woman to be happy, learning to be your own source of happiness and approval so you don’t depend on women for it, taking the reigns of your life and decentering women, because nothing drives women crazier than a guy who doesn’t need them to enjoy his life. All of these ideas are always shot down as unrealistic because you see it’s i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Conditional loveWhat almost all people mistake for love is simply infatuation that usually lasts anywhere from an hour to year and a half. Usually just enough for two people to father a child. The intensity of infatuation could possibly be extended beyond this timeframe if the frequency is lowered. For example two lovers who can’t see each other often, people who are having an affair and sneaking around and therefore can’t burn through their infatuation fast, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:12 PM |
| -1 | There are still some criterias to make it to betabuxBeing the betabux provider is really the least sexy thing you can be, so why would you want to be it? When you can easily become the sexy boyfriend. I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are young men struggling?It’s not the fault of women or the young men themselves. Unfortunately, at some point in history, I think around the hippy era of the last century, there was a movement to make men more sensitive and more feminine like. This strengthened over the years, women started parroting these beliefs and before you knew it men became these “please pick me, please pick me” guys begging for attention. The roles flipped. Men became more like women and women became more like men. The most ironic thing is that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Assholes always win.....What I’ve learned is that the biggest obstacle to getting women is the fear of losing them. But you can only get them once you are willing to lose them. Nice guys are terrified of losing a woman because they are so dependent on the approval of women (and men to some extent). They are nice because they are trying to earn her approval. So called bad boys are not afraid to lose a woman and that makes them bold and confident, which is attractive. It’s the same with the guys who make a date and then … | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 07:38 PM |
| 7 | M17, Sexy goth girl from my school constantly looking at me, how to approach her?Go up to her and say “Hey, I want to know why you’ve been ignoring me the whole semester?” | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Scarcity & Exclusivity: The Psychology That Makes Women Chase YouThat belief is why you are struggling getting women. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Getting back into dating after 7–8 years — feeling rusty and unsure where to startNothing. That’s the point. Just do it in passing with no expectations. Once you get comfortable you can try chatting for a minute. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Arm around a girl, is this too next level for starter kino?That’s super needy. Don’t touch a woman until she touches you. And even then just touch a little bit. It’s not a license to start putting your dirty paws on get. The whole “start touching women immediately” thing is so needy and wrong, but keeps getting perpetuated in these forums. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Is speed seduction good?lol. The 90s called and they want their loser back. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | 25f Struggling to PleaseThen hire an escort and have her show you how to suck your husbands dick live. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Getting back into dating after 7–8 years — feeling rusty and unsure where to startStart small. Say hi and smile in a mall or a busy pedestrian street. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Getting numbers is super easy but can’t get a single text back or dateI like the Johnny Soporno approach. Don’t take her number until she’s had your cock in her mouth. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Hesitation and shynessGo in with the intention of getting rejected. Not by saying something stupid or rude, but instead of your desired outcome being to succeed, make the desired outcome to get rejected. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | 25f Struggling to PleaseGo take a class or watch a bunch of porn. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Scarcity & Exclusivity: The Psychology That Makes Women Chase YouGreat post. However, men will never truly understand it. The rule that women never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get is beyond their grasp. As a matter of fact, all of pickup and seduction stuff is how to make yourself more available and more of what women can get. Endlessly spamming approaches, trying to pull every single girl they see, mindlessly swiping on hundreds of profiles. And if they do by some grace of god get a date, they barrage her with endless text messages b… | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | She’s out of your league (for now)Like yourself and stop being ashamed of your flaws. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | She’s out of your league (for now)Total and utter bullshit. This is just another reiteration of “women are born with value and men must earn their value.” And I have never seen a more damaging attitude than this one. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:45 PM |
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