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| 88 | Seems like women aren't attracted to men who are their equals, we still have to be bigger/richer/older etc,Generally speaking, women respond better to men who are more competent than them in whatever categories they value. But what they value tends to be more idiosyncratic than what men value. I know women who are in love with guys who make less money than them but who surpass them in areas in which the women place more personal importance (whether it be social competence, artistic skill, whatever). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women and gynomorphismLike come on, unless you're extremely poor, even if you live alone it'd be in your best interests to sit your arse in something other than a crappy camping chair? Not if you aren't affected either way. I interpret the image as being the home of a person whose only interest and passtime is being sat in front of the TV in a chair, which seems like an empty, hollow existence unless the person just so happens to have more going on in their life than that that they do outside or in different rooms. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?Men and women need to learn how to love themselves which goes hand-in-hand with being comfortable in your aloneness. 99% of relationships fail and a significant portion of those leave emotional scars with each party blaming the other. Hardly anyone takes to heart the fragility and complete absurdity of life. It's usually not until they're laying on their death beds when they burst into existential sadness over the utter waste of time their existence was and that they were to blame for. Once inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?Perhaps, but if this is the reality we live in, the only person you harm by failing to take advantage of these perceptions is you. I can't help but pity you for thinking that, I'm sorry. If you have any integrity, you do more harm by exploiting other people's flaws because deep down it feels gross and slimy to do so, even if it seems relatively harmless. In the case of marriage specifically, why would anyone get married for the superficial benefits (which you know deep down are superficial) it m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?You can be 100% right, doesn't change the fact that high quality women want marriage. High quality according to whom? The highest quality women I know personally are neutral at best toward marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?That people may favorably assess your character due to your marriage status is nothing but a judgment flaw on behalf of those people. The fact that people may view me as more trustworthy and a better worker because of my marriage status is a glaring weakness they're showing and it would be morally reprehensible to exploit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?Most high quality women will want marriage. Only low calibre women would accept not getting married and settling down. It all depends on the individual. Personally, women who would rather not get married are placed at the front of the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | N-counts?girls who friend zoned me did not actually like me anymore after I became successful. Interesting observation that I can relate to. They never saw you as a human to begin with, only the false, restrictive identity they concocted in their minds (low-earning beta shmuck). So when you contradict that identitiy by becoming successful, it messes with their egos. They struggle to accept the new found confidence and personality that was always lurking underneath your previous exterior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?It astonishes me that anybody dates. 99% of relationships fail and a significant number of those leave emotional scars. For the couples who stay together, attraction wanes and resentment sets in 99% of the time. In light of such data, I'm convinced virtually no one should be entering monogamous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything inherently wrong with being a MGTOW?You didn't separate any of them. You used MGTOW as a blanket term. Not that it's a big deal, just thought it should be pointed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything inherently wrong with being a MGTOW?Yes. MGTOW and it’s teachings only put a hamper on young men specifically who struggle with women. Or it aids in their personal development. It depends on the individual since MGTOW isn't conscious of age, status, looks, etc. They find this content early and follow it thinking they are being logical when it’s solely just fear of women and fear of accepting what it takes to attract women. This is one of many MGTOW subgroups. Some are helpful, some are detrimental. It depends how one interprets th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?You, sir, are on fire in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 33 | Do y’all like women?I could be way off in my anysis but I find American culture is repulsively hyper-competitive. They fetishize differences between each other more than any other culture I've experienced. Self-worth and status is derived from material things (looks, money, posessions) more than anything else so people attach their identities and other people's identities to these surface-level attributes. The culture has severed its ties with spirit (for lack of a better word) - love, unity, compassion, and empath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 24 | Do y’all like women?I like women like I like my coffee. I don't like coffee. Really though, it depends on the individual woman (gasp!), just as it depends on the individual man. It seems like a waste of time to hate the sex I'm not because it was an accident of birth that I'm male. If I were born female, I'd have female inclinations. Better to be empathetic to them than waste my time in negative states of mind due to something out of my control. If I don't like someone, I tend to just ignore and forget about them..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 8 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyI agree but how can you possibly not want sex? And i dont give me any answer that as similar to "well i just brainwashed myself". It's not that I don't enjoy sex but that its priority is low. Even when I want it most, the cost of pursuing it is usually too high according to my own standards (I highly value my time, money, and resources). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyIs that why rich men practically give away their money to women who happen to be attractive... Some of them do, some of them don't. Sex always matters for men. Sex matters for some men, for others it doesn't. Sometimes it matters only some of the time, sometimes never. It's almost as if people are varied in their preferences (gasp!). Regardless of wealth and status, giving the keys to your self-worth and sense of well-being to someone else makes you dependent on that person for validation. Sound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's society'Zooming out' has the opposite effect on happiness. I suppose it hinges on how one perceives the bigger picture. If you look at just the big picture any accomplishment dies. Your empire will fall, family legacy unrecognizable in a few short generations. Civilization and even consciousness itself will end. You can frame anything within the context of meaninglessness but that only makes rational sense if you want to just wait around doing nothing until you die. You can argue that because life is i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 8 | What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience?It's healthier to respect yourself than to march with open eyes into disappointment and regret. 99% of relationships fail. Just learn to love yourself and find meaning from within. It doesn't reside in a woman or anything else that exists outside of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience?That's the bleak reality. It's why going your own way is usually the most rational choice for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyIt's certainly true that most men don't put in the work nor do I expect them to en masse. I was merely responding to the claim that men can only find limited happiness outside of their desire to fuck or die trying. I think this belief is what will limit your happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyTo the contrary, once you've put in the work to be a more compassionate, empathetic, and loving man, you find much more truth, beauty, and wisdom than chasing sex ever provided you with. You were born a member of the greatest species of your time on one of the few planets that can support life some of the time on some of its surface and you think sex is the end-all be-all to happiness? Zoom out and get it in context, my dear primate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyIt's about the process, not the end result. You can frame any goal/activity in the context of meaninglessness. What's your suggestion? Not do any of these things and just wait to die? You do these things for the benefits they provide moment-to-moment as that's all we really have to live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 28 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyWho cares? Once you stop placing your well-being outside of yourself and achieve some level of self-actualization, sex becomes so low on the priority list as to make women a distraction more often than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Men are better at seeing a person's intentions in dating, than women.He/she said "average looking". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 06:32 PM |
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