SteelFox144 Archive

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1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience I apologize for the late reply, but I didn't ever get a notification for some reason. Are you seriously disputing any of those points that you're requesting evidence for? You claim that women's dissatisfaction comes from higher standards. Show your evidence then. You sling a lot of mud for someone who still hasn't shown evidence of anything. I'm pretty sure that wasn't exactly what I said because I think the biggest reason women are dissatisfied with sex is that they fail to communicate what the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 04:01 AM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience People who have the means to eat whatever they want whenever they please derive less value from someone giving them a bowl of flour gruel that people who are starving to death. You're implying that women's dissatisfaction has to do being spoiled and having too high of standards. I disagree. I don't think being dissatisfied with not finishing results from being spoiled. I know you disagree, just like Kent Hovind disagrees that the fact that recently dead water dwelling creatures get radiometrecia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 06:39 AM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience It means women derive less value from casual sex on average and it could be a factor in why women are more reluctant to engage in casual sex. If that's all you're concluding then I actually think I agree with you and I'm not sure why you're saying it like it refutes something I said. People who have the means to eat whatever they want whenever they please derive less value from someone giving them a bowl of flour gruel that people who are starving to death. I'm pretty sure that's not all you're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 10:27 PM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience Okay. There's a possibility that I've misunderstood what you were trying to conclude based on the studies you presented because you didn't actually say. You just laid out the studies as a reply so I assumed you thought they refuted what I said. So we've got these three facts that I don't dispute in and way: Men consistently report more positive reactions than women do. Researchers repeatedly find that men report feeling significantly more positive and significantly less negative than women. One …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 08:15 PM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience I'm not challenging the scientific data you brought. I'm pointing out that the data you brought does not lead to your pseudoscientific conclusion. I'm pointing out that you're being just like a creationist presenting the carbon analysis of Mount Saint Helens to try to show the Earth is less than 10,000 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 04:18 PM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience Read the studies. I've given you plenty of evidence but clearly you have your own rigid beliefs. Or maybe I have read already the studies, I understand the creationist style cherry-picking you're doing to support your pseudoscience position, and I'm telling you why it's dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 04:03 PM
1	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience men consistently report more positive reactions than women do (Dube, Lavoie, Blais, & Herbert, 2016; Fielder & Carey, 2010a; Glenn & Marquardt, 2001; Woerner & Abbey, 2017). Did you ever think that part of that might be because women can have casual sex whenever they want and men have a hard time finding any woman willing to have sex with them at all? If one person group of people could have cake whenever they wanted and another group could only have cake on the rare occasions where a member of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 03:58 PM
0	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience What gets lost in the discourse about how easy it is for either side to get laid is what the experience is actually like. Men are much more likely to be satisfied with their experience and finish than women are. So do you have any evidence that this is the case or are you just assuming that it's more satisfying for men? How satisfying sex is comes down to how attractive you find your partner and how good your partner is a pleasing you. In absolutely all of my sexual experience, women who were ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 04:34 AM
4	Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial? When someone else wants to belittle your relationship choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 11:18 PM
1	Men do not respond to words I can't believe you're literally advizing women to be passive aggressive. LOL He hasn’t helped you around the house? Don’t do anything until the house looks like a pig sty. If he asks you why the house is messy, then tell him you thought we weren’t doing house chores anymore. Wasn't this an "I Love Lucy" episode? You know why this doesn't work in real life? The guy doesn't notice/care that the house is messy. It's not the 1920s. Most guys didn't even grow up in a home where a woman took care of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 04:24 AM
3	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? There probably is no healing from a lot of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 03:01 AM
3	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? You might think this, but that's because you're looking at it from the perspective of someone who's never been in an unhealthy and psychologically harmful relationship. Oh, my dear, you have know idea who you're talking to. If you want to compare unhealthy and psychologically harmful relationship stories in DMs, we can do that. You probably wouldn't even believe me about most of the hell I've been put through because you wouldn't believe any person would want to put another human through it. You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 01:12 AM
4	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Believe me, I know. One of the biggest part of getting any woman to be willing to go on a date with you is convincing her that you're the kind of guy who has all kinds of other options and can afford to be picky. No woman dates a guy who she thinks just wants a vagina and a pulse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 01:03 AM
–	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? It's common to find "staying in your league" as a solution to trouble finding a good partner For women? Where did anyone say that when they were talking about women finding a good partner? It's ridiculous if someone did. I personally know very fat women who only only have relationships with men who have six-pack abs and they don't have any trouble at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 12:57 AM
1	Women are valued for what they do Our whole worth as women comes from how good we can serve our family and husbands. If your whole worth comes from how good you can serve your family and husband then that just means you don't do anything else that anyone else values. If you wrote some banking software that's going to make someone millions, they're not going to overlook that because you're a woman. Everyone's whole value comes from what they can provide that people value. The only difference is that women are automatically valued…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 12:49 AM
–	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Why in the world would any woman lower her standards? Online dating exists now. It's not like a woman is going to run out of potential partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 12:06 AM
1	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Are you searching out partners you actually want, or ones you've been taught to THINK you want? How in the world is one supposed to assess that? I personally don't care what anyone else thinks I should want and just want what I want, but you could claim that I was socially conditioned to think I want every single thing I want. Are you expecting things of your partners that you're unable or unwilling to provide in return? No, and I seriously doubt most men who can't find a relationship with a wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 12:04 AM
2	I’m starting to think Most men who blame their looks are usually nowhere near as ugly as they think. My first day on tinder I got 7 matches and pretty much got at least 2-3 matches a day. Did you actually see who those women were or did you just get notified that you had 7 matches and assume they were all humans rather than bots? Last time I was on Tinder, it was nothing but tons of pictures of incredibly sexy women in skimpy clothing who absolutely do not exist in the area Tinder said they existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 06:03 AM
1	Q4ALL: Do you know any men that previously had no success with women and were able to find it? Why do you think so many men believe that is impossible? Every single man who has had success with women is a man who had previously had no success with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 04:51 AM
3	Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women? I'm not a redpill dude by a long shot, but rich men date broke women all the time. The only thing I can guess is that you don't think about women being broke when they've been with a rich guy and living off the money he makes for a long time. I know lots of old rich guys who's wives were working around the level of waitresses when they met. It's not even that rich men try to date broke women. It's just that it's not a factor. If a guy meets a sweet, attractive woman, he gets along great with her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 03:13 AM
52	Dating as a whole is much easier for women. Well yeah. It's the difference between picking and trying to get someone to pick you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 02:38 AM
1	If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men) Who actually gives a fuck about what other guys think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 11:12 PM
1	In TRP, they say women can’t date down. If this is true, does this only apply to men they’ve dated or just men who have approached her in general? I’ve heard that in the red pill community, they say women can’t date down. I'm not a red pill guy, but I think you're straw manning at least most of them. I really don't think many people say women can't date down, just that they hardly ever do. It's very rare for a woman to date a man with lower socio-economic status than her. Or for example, if she was hit up in the DMs by a celebrity but then the celebrity moved on to another person without a date happening, does the women still take that as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 10:06 PM
2	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity 1) What percentage of women between 18-30 in North America do you believe engage or have engaged in casual sex/hookups? Practically all that haven't been in committed relationships for their entire adult lives, aren't religious fundamentalists, and have any sex drive to speak of. I don't think there's anything wrong with that either. 2) Of that group of women who've had casual sex, what percentage do you believe ALWAYS use condoms while being non-monogamous? I couldn't even guess that. I think m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 09:49 PM
2	Knowing how to properly court and date a woman is a skill taught by fathers. Uh... I've never met any man who was taught how to court and women by their father and I think it would be pretty fucking weird if I did. Like, the only way that would work is in a culture where courting was just a ritual people performed before officially entering into the marriage their parents arranged for them. When is your dad going to tell you is the gentlemanly time to go for first and a half base? It's either going to be, "after you're married," or it's going to be fucking creepy. I know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 11:20 PM
1	What are signs that a woman does not get men? I don't think there are any because women don't really "not get men." No matter what a woman is like, it's trivially easy for her to find men who want to have sex with her. She doesn't even have to look. If she just puts herself out there, the men will find her. If a woman isn't having sex with men, it's because she's choosing to not have sex with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 09:12 PM
1	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? The only realistic way is to do the work of convincing a woman to date you without knowing anything about her libido and get lucky. Very few men have the luxury of being able to require sexual compatibility if they want a female partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 08:58 PM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... lol alright, I think I'm done here Good. It's kind of pointless to try to argue complete nonsense. If you want to abuse someone, you say you want to abuse someone. If you think it's okay to abuse someone because their sex means it's right for you to abuse them, we can have a conversation about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 07:27 PM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Having power doesn't mean constantly bulldozing over someone and "enforcing your will". It's being a steward of the combined resources and efforts with the consent of others. The only way you can have power over someone with their consent is if they consented to allowing you to forcibly impose your will on them against their consent at an earlier time. A commanding officer has power over soldiers under him because those soldiers consented to allowing their commanding officers to forcibly impose …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 06:53 PM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Possibly, but when the Big Man has a little chat with you, and helps you straighten out your life, you tend not to question him too much, lol. Do you think Hindu people who have been on their path for 40 years because they believe Vishnu has had a little chat with them and helped them straighten their lives out are correct? Please keep in mind, Hindu people do not believe that Jesus is the only lord and savior. If you're going to say something like, "That's their path and they're free to believe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 05:22 PM
2	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Uhhh what? People have relationship goals. Not that can be served by one person having the power to enforce their will over the other person unless the goals are abusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 02:02 PM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... LOL! No. I think you 're under-thinking it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:58 PM
1	People who never got enough pats or attention as a kid from their parents tend to be more likely to cheat and be attention-seeking as adults. Nice you wrote an essay to justify cheating. I’m sure you aren’t a fan of it. Most murder is people dealing out the death penalty for things their victims did, too. If someone was saying most murderers were just bored and I went over the reasons people generally murder other people, would you think I was justifying murder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:53 PM
3	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Apparently that red pill men get women, according to SoumarRu.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 06:06 AM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... How can you, a mere mortal, be sure of that? I followed that up with, "...or there's no rational reason to believe they exist if they do..." Are you just ignoring that? Would you be confident in saying unicorns don't exist as a mere mortal? I'm pretty sure it's more reasonable to say that no gods exist. There's nothing nothing we have solid reason to believe about reality actually prevents a species of very horse-like creatures with a horn in the middle of their foreheads from existing somewhere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 06:04 AM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... It's God himself who demands that wives submit to their husbands. I'm personally uncomfortable with the concept, but I accept it because I believe in the Bible. Wow. I saw this on your profile when I looked and just had to reply to it. I'm actually really impressed in a way that you are uncomfortable with something you think God wants. Almost every religious person finds some way to twist or selectively ignore their scriptures so they can believe their god is uncomfortable with everything they'r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:39 AM
2	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... My bad. Looked at your profile and saw you're actually a fundamentalist Christian. Sorry, I know the same word choices are used by some circles of fundamentalist Christianity, but they're way more common for Muslims. Anyway, if your belief system tells you that you should be submissive, you have an abusive belief system. It is a belief system that openly endorses your abuse. It's no different from the old Hindu caste system where the lowest caste believed letting everyone else shit on them was t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:09 AM
1	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... It's not about a different believe system unless your belief system is fundamentally irrational to the point that you think you can take your hand off a stove because it's hot when it isn't hot. It is impossible to submit under your own free will because submission requires coercion. If you're doing something of your own free will, you aren't submitting. I really hope this doesn't get me banned, but can I ask if you're a Muslim? Your word choices really, really make you sound like you've listene…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:55 AM
3	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Women absolutely are capable of submitting to their husbands of their own free will, no threats or coercion involved. That's as rational as saying people can take their hand off the stove because it's hot when the stove isn't hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:20 AM
4	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Posts here from men saying they're red pill seem to conflict with what people are believing in 2023 then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:16 AM
1	How do your friends of the opposite gender react when you get laid or enter a relationship? They usually couldn't care less. At most it's like, "Oh, it's nice that you're seeing someone." I've only had a friend try to help me get laid twice and in both cases, I'm pretty sure the friend was really trying to help the girl more than help me. The first time was a friend of mine trying to set me up with a 300+lb friend of hers. Don't let girls you know set you up on blind dates, at least not without seeing a picture first. When you're inevitably not interested, your friend is going to be pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:11 AM
6	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... You, as a man, as a human being, need to be a good leader FIRST for people to follow and trust you. People who demand “submission” here are not good leaders and not worthy of that title. I wish I could give you a million upvotes, my friend. Being a leader means people want to follow you because following you serves their interests. If you think other people should be willing to follow you because that's what they're supposed to do, you're just a fool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 02:33 AM
3	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Are men in the military weak? An easily coachable player for a sports team? Men in the military and playing on sports teams agree to follow orders to accomplish a goal they want to accomplish. An infantryman might not see the point in taking a particular hill and might not want to do it, but he also knows that he doesn't have all the information his superiors have and has to trust that taking that hill will help accomplish his goal of protecting his country. A personal relationship is not like t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 02:19 AM
2	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Do you consider marriage to be equivalent to the military? Desertion during a time of war can be punishable by death so I sure hope he doesn't. I wouldn't be surprised though. A lot of the things he's saying sound very much like pretty common apologetics from a certain major religion I'm not going to name (let's just say they're very into submission) and I suspect that may be where his reasoning is coming from. However, the exact same apologetics are also used more fringe circles of an even bigg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 02:06 AM
3	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Why are men the authority in a hetero relationship? In general, we aren't. OP just seems to think a heterosexual relationship should be a man abusing a woman because he's a man. It's not just a man thing though. I've ran across a few off the rails feminists who thought the same thing with the genders flipped. If there's more men like this than women, it's probably because relationships being men abusing women is expressly endorsed in the world's largest religions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:43 AM
25	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Being under 40 and posting as a "Red Pill Man."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:21 AM
3	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... Tried it. Didn't work. In fact I felt resentment from the woman that I wasn't "taking control". So one relationship didn't work out. How many relationships didn't work out because you were trying to "take control" and you weren't doing it the way they wanted? You implied that you were with multiple "submissive" women when you used to date. Why don't you think you're the one who's just supposed to be submissive and that one woman was just screwed up for not appreciating it? Don't bother bullshitt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 01:13 AM
1	Are women easier to get scammed than men? No. It's because women have a free pass for doing stupid shit now... Why do you think that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 10:45 PM
8	Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... What? Being submissive means being willing to conform to the will of people who have power over you. A woman you're in a romantic relationship with can't be submissive to you unless you're threatening to beat her or she's financially reliant on you and you're using that to coerce her into doing things she wouldn't otherwise want to do. Don't get me wrong, I do feel as a society submissiveness isn't respected enough. Part of society even functioning accordingly requires all of us to submit to var…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 10:44 PM
1	People who never got enough pats or attention as a kid from their parents tend to be more likely to cheat and be attention-seeking as adults. What does "aren't having their needs met" mean though? Partner can't perform sexually? Partner is abusive or unhealthy? They perform poorly? Lost emotional connection? Lost attraction? Simple boredom? All of the above and more, probably minus the simple boredom, depending on what you mean by that Most of the time it's the last two. I don't think that's accurate. Hardly anybody cheats out of simple boredom unless you mean that they're bored of their relationship. Nobody's like, "I ran out of TV s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 09:49 PM
1	Are women easier to get scammed than men? I'm not saying there are no complete dumbass women. There are a a lot of reasons you might be seeing women doing stupid shit at the same rate as men. Maybe women of lower intelligence are more likely to stay in your local environment than most women. Maybe the media you enjoy has a bias toward showing more women doing stupid things. It's possible that you're kind of dumb so you don't think a lot of the stupid shit men do is that stupid, but stupid shit women do seems stupid because it's not some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 09:00 PM
0	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? They're either saying they want an abusive relationship or they're just trying to play into an extremely common fantasy women have about men forcing them to do all the things they already wanted to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:02 AM
3	People who never got enough pats or attention as a kid from their parents tend to be more likely to cheat and be attention-seeking as adults. I really doubt that has much of anything to do with it. I'm pretty sure people cheat because they aren't having their needs met in their relationship and the reward of getting some of their needs met by cheating is worth what they're risking to them at the probability they think they have of being caught. Why do so many people here act like sex is a performative action people engage in to get approval from others? It's really not almost all of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:55 AM
1	Women in a relationship who post skimpy pics are worse than men in relationships who follow a shit load of insta thots/OF girls Not high but I wouldn't say it's particularly rare. Essentially every girl with a following who has an OF, clothing sponsorship, sells workout program ect... does it. And there are a lot of them. I think it's particularly rare that any girl has a following of any kind. I know that there are a lot of incredibly minor celebrities, but there are enough women out there that they can be a whole lot of something incredibly rare. If only one in 1,000 people do something, there's like 8,468 people that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:27 AM
1	Women in a relationship who post skimpy pics are worse than men in relationships who follow a shit load of insta thots/OF girls I'm talking about softcore porn essentially, not a casual pic of friends at the pool or beach. And you're right, there isn't a market for it for men. But the intention of my post is to point the double standard of how these two things are perceived. Okay... Do you think the percentage of women who make soft core porn while they're in a relationship with a man who isn't okay with it is very high? Really, neither should be done if a person's partner isnt comfortable with it, Sure... I guess. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 10:23 PM
1	Are women easier to get scammed than men? Sure, but not most scams. Most modern scams intentionally try to weed out anyone who isn't a complete idiot by saying something only a complete idiot would buy because the scammers don't want to waste their time on someone who might figure it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 08:44 PM
1	Women in a relationship who post skimpy pics are worse than men in relationships who follow a shit load of insta thots/OF girls This is such a weird post. When you say "skimpy," do you mean porn or just pics hanging out with friends by a pool in a bathing suit or something? If it's hanging out with friends by a pool in a bathing suit, most people don't consider that to be sexual or a big deal. Both men and women do that to commemorate a good time they had with their friends. If it's porn, sure. Assuming common standards of relationships where creating and distributing porn of yourself is a bigger deal than watching porn.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 08:25 PM
2	Are women easier to get scammed than men? I think in general, it's easier to scam men. In terms of intelligence, men have a lot wider of a bell curve than women do. There are more male geniuses than female geniuses, but there are also a lot more male complete dumbasses than female complete dumbasses. With most (though certainly not all) scams, you have to be a complete dumbass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 08:04 PM
1	Why should men take advice from anyone on ppd? I mean, they probably shouldn't. That being said, whatever someone says stands or falls on it's own merit. It doesn't really matter who said something or where it was said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 07:58 PM
1	So I’m supposed to believe it’s less naive, reflects more experience, and more maturity, to believe a MORE sugar coated and ideological version of reality? I think you're straw manning quite a bit here. I'm pretty sure the blue pill isn't supposed to be like you're choosing to live in the matrix, knowing it's an illusion. It's that you think the proposed harsh world outside what people who take the red pill think is the matrix is a bullshit delusion. At the very least, the harshest version of the world red pillers think is real is very much a delusion. It's a fantasy about how brutal and cruel the world is that allows people to believe they were do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 07:55 PM
-1	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. Well it’s ultimately up to us to read the study and determine it’s validity. I mean you're right, but it's also up to us to determine the validity of everything anyone says and we only have so much time. Men over 6’ account for 15% of the population and yet make up ~70% of CEOs. Whoa! Wait... 15% of the population of men or 15% of the population of people and 15% in which geographic area? There are a whole lot more male CEOs than female CEOs and I'm pretty sure that it isn't due to hiring discri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 10:37 PM
1	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. Or trying to get discrimination laws put into place… which is what the paper cites as one of the solutions to this problem. Which was also undoubtedly the goal of the paper before any research was done. He has 70 quality references... I'm sure he does, at least in the sense that they're quality references to soft science papers that exist. They're 70 papers I don't have time to go through with a fine tooth comb to see if he represented appropriately and if the papers themselves aren't based on n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:49 AM
-2	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. I get that. I would be more inclined to give a paper a fair chance if it was an actual sociology or psychology paper. Soft science papers already require a lot of work because there's a lot of junk. I read a paper several years back about how women are usually only put in positions of company leadership when a company is failing and there's nothing she can do about it. Among many other things, I was skeptical about what it claimed about male management style. I literally had to go six papers dee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:02 AM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. If your whole post was just trolling, that's fair. I wasn't mad, I was just astounded that someone could think what you were claiming to think because it's so crazy. Usually people have to have a huge mass of other people reinforcing their beliefs to hold beliefs that crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 01:17 AM
-2	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. It isn't a scientific study because law is not a scientific field. My comment did not dispute that the paper accurately represented data. Lawyers can be disbarred if they lie. However, the entire job of a lawyer is to find as many relevant, true facts as possible and spin them in whatever way will best convince people of the conclusion that was determined for them before they gathered any facts, whether that conclusion is true or false. After seeing the paper was from a law school, I read to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 01:10 AM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. Big difference between being desperate and having a "meh" attitude. You weren't talking about someone having a "meh" attitude. You were saying it could contribute to men's dating woes if a woman occasionally masturbates because you think "post nut clarity" might be a thing for women and people don't take shit from someone they go on a date with if they masturbate before the date. No one wants someone who needs them. Bullshit. I'm not one of those weird guys who's super into Emma Watson, but she'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:47 AM
-3	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. Connecticut Law Review is obviously a great place to go for sociological research. Lawyers are well known for never spinning the truth in whatever way best serves their case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:17 AM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. I mean it could. Post nut clarity could apply to women but I'm not sure tbh. Ever masturbated then went on a date? You don't take shit, you're not overly desiring sex and her bullshit only annoys you. So you think it's a dating woe if someone you might date isn't so desperate that they'll take whoever they can get and isn't willing to take shit from you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:13 AM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. It still makes her bi. I didn't say it doesn't make a woman bi, I said it means it doesn't add to men's dating woes. If I suck dick but only date women, am I straight? No. Of course not, but women wouldn't be competing with men to date you if you didn't date men. If a woman who only dates men occasionally masturbates, do you think that adds to men's dating woes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:00 AM
1	Does anybody else sort of wish they were gay? That's an interesting question. It would make some things a lot easier, but can you really want to want something that makes you feel like throwing up? It's kind of like wishing you'd be happy starving to death in a ditch: It would be easy to be happy if that's what made you happy, but you don't want to be happy with that. When I had tinder on my phone for about two weeks, I got 5 matches from women, but 50+ from men. Never met anyone off that app, but it's pretty clear I could have had a ton of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:52 PM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. Yes, gay men are a small percentage, but women who actually date women are also a very small percentage. It doesn't matter if a woman is willing to have sex with other women if she only dates men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:31 PM
1	All women being bisexual contributes to men's dating woes. Lol. Probably to a lesser extent than some men being gay contributes to women's dating woes. I don't know about you, but I've known more men who identify as exclusively gay and only sexually peruse other men (at least when sober) than women who seriously date women. Most (not all) women are bisexual in the sense that they're sexually attracted to women sometimes, but a very small percentage actually date women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:25 PM
1	Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill? I really doubt it. There are a handful of things red pillers say that are true, but (at least from what I've seen) most red pillers fall into two categories: Old, religious fundamentalist men who were already married long before red pill became a thing and just use red pill as a new, in your face, marketing campaign to reach a younger audience with the same nonsense they've been spouting forever. Men who just want to complain about how unfair things are so they can feel like it isn't their fault…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 07:44 PM
1	Men aren’t attracted to real women anymore Do you only an out with incredibly catty gay men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 01:11 AM
1	Men aren’t attracted to real women anymore What the hell are you talking about? As long as a woman isn't fat and looks basically normal, most guys think she's attractive. Do you really think what men actually find attractive has anything to do with the plastic surgeries some women get? I don't think I've met a man in my life who actually thought fake tits were attractive and men obviously find lots of women with smaller tits attractive. Do you really think men find it attractive when a woman's lips look exactly like she's having an aller…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 01:08 AM
0	Women, is it true that men get friend zoned if they don't make moves on dates? If you go out on a date with someone and she doesn't want to date you, you don't get friend-zoned, you just get rejected. If you keep trying to hang around her after that, it's on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 10:24 PM
2	what makes for a sexually attractive male? Alan Tudyk was just one example. The same thing happened with a ton of other male actors and I really don't think you're going to find any constants. I remember when "King Kong" (2005) came out and a bunch of women were crushing over Adrien Brody. Just look at that guy in that role. I really don't think attractiveness is about looks for women, at least not in any consistent way. Lots of individual women have types, but there's a whole lot more variance in individual women's types than individual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 08:34 PM
2	women are not self-aware on how badly they treat men I’ve played hockey against men before and no, women cannot fight as hard with a stick as men can. In one sense, you're right in almost all cases, but it isn't the relevant sense. How hard someone can fight in the sense of how hard they can hit, how many hits they can take and keep coming, etc. doesn't make a difference when you're using a sharpened stick as a spear. They're not going to be able to use their advantage after you put a sharpened stick through their intestines and they're not going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 07:06 PM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. You tell me. A social schema is basically a mental conception of the guidelines for behavior in a given setting. For example, if you go into a gas station to buy a bottle of water, you expect the gas station attendant to calmly accept your money in exchange for the water, hand you your change, and maybe engage in some light casual conversation. You don't expect to hand gas station attendant a twenty only to have him throw the change at your face as hard as he can, get up on the counter, and star…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 05:50 PM
2	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Lol at the idea of “peer reviewed”. I knew what this was the moment I read Peter Boghossian's name and didn't read any further. I frankly cannot believe you're trying to use Boghossian's "Conceptual Penis" paper, which was meant to demonstrate the complete lack of integrity of academic feminist peer review to try to throw shade on real scientific peer review. Feminist peer review is the same thing as creationist peer review. As long as you have letters after your name and appear to be supporting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 04:13 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Social schemas have nothing to do with this. I don't even think you know what that means. You either have valid and sound reasoning to support your belief or you do not. You do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 01:44 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. The entire documentary “The Social Dilemma.” I especially like when they pointed out the correlation of the spike in depression in girls and the popularization of social medias like MySpace and Facebook. The entire documentary, "Sasquatch Unearthed: The Ridge" demonstrates that Bigfoot is linked to UFOs using extremely poor reasoning and evidence, too. When someone asks for a source, they're asking for something along the lines of a peer reviewed paper, not a movie made for profit and to push so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 01:40 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Seems like you can’t add things up together. Seems like you think you can deduce patterns in the behavior of billions of people based on applying the bias of what sticks out most in your memory to your extremely limited data set.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 01:07 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. No. It just sounds like a claim you've pulled out of your ass without any valid reason to believe it's true. Source please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:55 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Not that say the vast majority of people are suffering from mental health issues, I can't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:08 AM
1	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Gen X? 75 % or so. I'll tell you what I told him: source please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:06 AM
–	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. I say again: source please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:05 AM
1	women are not self-aware on how badly they treat men But because humans grow into full adults for such a long time we need extra care for survival especially back in our ancient times where man had to fight wildebeest with his bare hands. I'm honestly not sure that was ever the case. Even homo-erectus used hand axes all the time. It takes a lot less to pick up a long, pointy, broken stick to stab things with or a rock to throw at things than it does to make a hand ax. If a woman is to be hurt or assaulted it's most likely going to be by someone sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:03 AM
–	Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. Source please. What percentage of single people do you think have mental health problems?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 10:54 PM
1	Women, how often do you see men as enemies? Not a woman, but I think you're looking for dating advice in the wrong places... Not that there is a right place. The truth is, nobody has any motivation to help men they don't know have better dating experiences so the only people doing it are going to be men who are really just complaining about their own bad experiences and people who are just saying whatever to make money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 10:46 PM
2	what makes for a sexually attractive male? I'm not a woman, but I don't think physical features that make men attractive to women exist. Take Alan Tudyk, the actor who played Wash on "Firefly" and Alpha on "Dollhouse", as an example. He looked exactly the same on both shows, but no woman who watched "Firefly" thought Wash was sexy and every woman who watched "Dollhouse" thought Alpha was sexy. What was the difference? He was presented as someone women were supposed to find drop dead sexy (at least sometimes) in "Dollhouse" and he wasn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 10:39 PM
1	When you know a women has a high N count do you think their man is seen as desirable or...? Yeah most women haven't fucked 80-100+ dudes. Most women don't fuck strangers they just met. It doesn't matter if a woman fucked 80-100+ dudes. She's still not going to stay friends with the bridesmaid after she's had a threesome with the bridesmaid and her boyfriend if they're not still having sex. You can't take sex off the table in any kind of relationship after you've had it with someone. If two people have had sex, they're still around each other regularly, and they don't have a serious pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 01:10 PM
1	When you know a women has a high N count do you think their man is seen as desirable or...? Because your future wife is friends with the bride. Dude, I don't know what world you're living in, but even if a woman has sex with a lot of men, they're not going to be a lot of men who all know each other. Even if they did they did all know each other a woman's not going to want to go to a wedding with a bunch of guys she's banged even if it is her friend's wedding. Lol, the bridemade has a boyfriend who's already been with your future wife. Then I really fucking doubt my future wife is going…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 12:17 AM
1	When you know a women has a high N count do you think their man is seen as desirable or...? I don't know why I would be at that wedding. You did not specify that the woman I'm with is maintaining relationships with a bunch of people she's previously had sex with. That is an entirely different situation. Yeah, if a woman is still hanging out with a bunch of guys she's had sex with, I wouldn't want to date her because she'd probably be cheating on me with them at least every now and then. It has nothing to do with how many people she's had sex with. Most women don't continue having socia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 07:40 PM
1	For men, the social value of sex is always higher than the value than being just friends, but it's not that men don't want to be friends What social value do you think sex has? Nobody is going to think of you any differently if you're having sex with someone unless they wanted to have sex with that person (in which case, they'll like you less) or you cheated on someone (in which case, at least one person will probably like you less). Women tend to view friendship and sex as a binary choice. Or at least, they think if someone wants them for sex, they aren't really a friend. But guys just want sex injected into every arena of life.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:32 PM
1	When you know a women has a high N count do you think their man is seen as desirable or...? You guys are way too concerned with this "N count" nonsense. If a man is in a committed relationship with a woman, why would he care if other women think he's desirable? Almost no women you interact with in your day to day life are going to think you're desirable regardless. Nobody cares how many men the woman you're in a relationship has slept with before you. What brought Jesse James more status, being married to a hall of fame stripper/porn star or America's sweetheart Sandra Bullock? Neither…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:14 PM
5	Do you know why youre attracted to what youre attracted to? The only aspect of my "type" that I understand is my love for lanky men with long hair. I was a metalhead during my teens, and the "type" of musicians I drooled over during from those formative years has stuck with me. It's something you associate with men who can command the attention of a crowd of people. I have no idea why I'm attracted to big boobs, Probably because that's the popular conception of what's attractive. I really think women's sexuality is strongly impacted by popular conception…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 05:41 PM
1	Do you know why youre attracted to what youre attracted to? Do you know why you're attracted to what you're attracted to? Evolution. I'm physically attracted to traits of people I can produce offspring with. The stronger the traits have been correlated with people I would have been able to produce the most surviving offspring with, the more attracted to them I am. I'm most attracted to young women who show signs of health and have the kind of butt required to run animals that don't have sweat glands to death. The more a woman looks like a healthy young w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 05:18 PM
1	Q4A: Do you expect rejection I'm a man. Given the kind of situation you seem to be describing where you're developing feelings for someone you know, yes, I would fully expect rejection. If the other person was interested in me, I'd already know it and wouldn't be wondering about rejection. It sucks, but in today's world, it's kind of a bad idea to try to date people you already know anyway. If you meet someone at work, asking them out (no matter how little pressure you put on them or how willing you are to just let it go if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 04:31 PM
2	“Female sexuality is responsive” I think people saying this generally mean that women don't initiate sex, but get turned on when men initiate sex. It's a really dumb idea because women initiate sex all the time. Even when a man initiates sex, for the most part, the women has to already want sex for him to be successful. It's possible to put a woman in the mood to have sex when she wasn't before and that's probably how most sex happens, but that's only because men have so much higher of a sex drive than women on average that men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 03:53 PM
6	In regards to OLD do you hide what you want because you know you'll get less matches? I think you a lot of women wouldn't message you even if they did match what you were looking for just because you come off like a douche. Even most fit women who work out probably aren't going to match with you if you say you're specifically looking for fit women because they're going to think you're a shallow asshole. Also, Why do you care about someone's credit score if you don't want to get married?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 07:29 AM
1	What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”? I don't know that he made that claim because I stopped paying attention to him quite a while back, but it wouldn't surprise me if he did. No matter who says it, I think it's stupid. Marriage is really just a series of legal agreements put together in a package deal that's fairly easy for two people who want those legal agreements to get inexpensively and without of money and lawyers. You could say that it's about commitment to a relationship, but it isn't because people get divorced all the time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:17 AM
1	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? Yeah, they are. "At least one" doesn't mean you're limited to only finding one for every couple hundred women you talk to. It just means you'll find at least one if you talk to a couple hundred women. Almost every man is going to have to strike out with two hundred women before he finds one who likes him anyway because there are all kinds of reasons a woman might not be attracted to you. Even if it was only 1 in every 200, that's still not bad. Do you know how many women there are in the world? …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 03:47 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? They're probably assuming the question is asking if they'd do it just because the guy is a billionaire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 03:11 AM
1	do you treat guys well during casual sex It's a really hard to believe that young men do not just want to share their body with anybody just like a young woman would What? Nobody's sharing their body with anyone. And are you seriously trying to say young women want to have sex with anyone more than young men do? Young men are stupid either and I'll be damned if I repeat a cycle my parents and stepparents did That just doesn't make sense. Sex with the wrong person too soon can leave major consequences because women end up pregnant and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 03:05 AM
1	You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl? Only if the only reason I was with my wife was because I couldn't get anyone better. You love your wife but she has gained weight and she's become less interested in sex overtime. Flip this around for a minute. Imagine that some of the biggest reasons you were with your husband were that he was tidy around the house and you regularly went on long nature hikes that you both loved. You actually feel depressed and anxious all the time if you don't regularly get time out in nature with your partner.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 02:40 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? Yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 02:04 AM
1	Men, how many times would you have sex with a woman you don’t like. I feel like this needs some context because I'm honestly not sure how this could happen where the man is really just stringing the woman along. If the woman wants a committed relationship, she's just going to say so and stop having sex with the man if he doesn't go along with it. About the only way I could think of that this could happen is if they agreed on a friends with benefits arrangement, she caught feelings, and she's expecting him to make the first move when it comes to a committed relat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 02:03 AM
2	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? I'm a guy and I think you're crazy if you think most men wouldn't do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:42 AM
1	Are women more superstitious? I'm not a woman, but I'm going to say I highly doubt it. If it is true that women are statistically more likely to be superstitious than men, it probably isn't because of anything biological. It would probably just be because women don't get called out for saying stupid things as often as men do or because women are more likely to have something happen that would allow them to use confirmation bias than men. A teenage girl who tries to cast a love spell and then asks a boy she likes out is a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:39 AM
1	do you treat guys well during casual sex As a teenager I want a casual sex not for the sex but because it was what everybody was doing... This is where I stopped believing you were for real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:22 AM
1	Are rich and sucessful women less likely to be willing to have a husband and less likely to marry than low income and middle class women? Well I was thinking that if a woman is rich, independent and sucessful then she has far less need to have a husband but I may be wrong. Do you think if a man is rich, independent, and successful then he has far less need of a wife? I really don't get why you think this about women unless you think a big reason women need husbands is to leach money off of. I read in some articles that the richer a woman become less likely( and harder) is for them to get a husband or even a boyfriend because many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:14 AM
0	It is possible to change? Why do you even care in the first place? If she doesn't have and sexually transmitted diseases and she's not having sex with other men now, what difference does it make to anything? Unless you get married super young and manage to stay together for the rest of your lives, you're going to have to get over it at some point or you're not going to be able to date anyone. I'd be more worried if she had never been with anyone else just because every time I've been with a virgin, she got all weird and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 12:22 AM
1	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? How much time have you spent around people? You really haven't seen that? I used to know a fat guy who acted like an insufferable, cocky asshole all the time (though he may have been nice and just kind of dumb underneath it) and I met all kinds of hot women he dated. A lot of women like big, burly guys and a lot of women like insufferable, cocky assholes. You don't even have to act like an insufferable, cocky asshole. I've known other big guys with hot girlfriends that were just regular dudes. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 11:58 PM
0	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? No. Lots of obese women only date men who aren't fat. That being said, outside of height, looks don't really matter for guys at all. Hot women date fat guys all the time. I don't think I've met a woman in my life who would only date men with six-pack abs and big pretty-boy gym muscles. I think most women just prefer men who aren't fat and aren't super skinny, but there are plenty of women into both fat guys and super skinny guys and it's not correlated to how the women look in any way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 02:29 AM
4	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? It's rare for an obese woman to be with a body builder, but obese women are with men who aren't overweight and are in perfectly good shape all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 02:02 AM
3	Getting seriously involved with a significantly younger women is often bad FOR MEN However, if you marry a woman your age, you're actually going to gain power in the relationship over time, because men remain attractive as they grow older, while it's harder for women. Jesus, dude. Why don't you just throw a bucket of acid on her face so nobody wants her and you have all the power? I swear, I've seen several posts like this from people acting like sociopaths here and I don't even think you're real. Even regular men don't really give two shits about helping other men out when it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 12:39 AM
2	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? I 100% understand that they’re generally hotter... And there's your answer. I don't even think it's that men really prefer younger women. Men just prefer hotter women and younger women are generally hotter. If it's a choice between an older hot woman and a younger ugly woman, most men are going to choose the older hot woman. Another possible factor is that it might be hard to find a woman past a certain age who isn't completely horrible in relationships and isn't already married. The longer a wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 12:11 AM
2	anybody have a friend that's doing all the right things but still has no luck with women Would you argue because a lot of guys are still expected to pursue is a reason why so many good guys still to strike out because even though we're taught that were more equal than ever and that it's very risky to approach a woman, it seems like most women still expect being approached even the women that are independent I don't really get what you're arguing with. I think if you used punctuation, it might help me figure that out. I know the old friend I was talking about had options because I kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:13 AM
1	anybody have a friend that's doing all the right things but still has no luck with women I'm not a woman, but I used to have a friend who was a really funny, decent looking (as far as I could tell), and everyone liked him, but still hadn't had so much as a date with a woman in over 6 years. I think in his case, he just didn't realize he had all the chances he had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 03:51 AM
1	Why is the idea of traditional roles in a marriage seen as sexist? It probably depends on what you're calling traditional gender roles. With the cooking and cleaning stuff, it's kind of sexist because you're expecting women to wait on you and clean up after you. It's also kind of silly because cooking and cleaning aren't the labor intensive, time consuming activities they used to be. Think about how much time it took to do laundry before laundry machines were invented. Laundry didn't get done if you didn't have someone putting in a lot of hours of work. Now tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 03:45 AM
0	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? It’s not called being full of myself. Men are nearly guaranteed an orgasm every time they have sex, No we're not. You clearly have no idea how sex feels with a condom on your penis. I've had to fake it. while women have to get lucky especially if it’s a casual encounter. Only if the women in question doesn't communicate what they want, doesn't put in the effort to please themselves, and just lay there expecting the men to know how to please a woman because they don't realize women like wildly di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 05:51 AM
2	Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people? I [20f] only find myself attracted to 1/200 men I see or even less. Lol! I used to have a job where I approached and talked to hundreds of different people every night so I ran into several women every night who just thought I was sexy as fuck. I started keeping track of it after a while and it really was right around 1/200.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 04:06 AM
5	Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to? What is a slut? It's just a mean thing to call a woman that doesn't really mean anything besides that she's had sex that you think don't think she should have had. It could be have been with 200 guys, 2 guys, or even just 1 guy. I really think that's one of those words that makes the person using it look like a complete jackass and doesn't actually say anything bad about the person being called it. As long as she was committed to our relationship now, I couldn't care less. If she still wanted to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 03:40 AM
-2	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? The experience isn’t worth it, because I’m not getting enough from it. Why please a man while not getting anything back? Not helping your case. It doesn’t feel equal since he will more than likely enjoy the physical experience than I will. A little full of yourself, aren't you? I get that every guy you've been with probably acted like you were great in bed, but that's probably because they need sex (even if it's bad) and you're not going to do it with them again if they act like it was just meh.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 03:14 AM
2	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Do you really think it's ironic though? "Men have more wealth than women" is just false in every way that matters. If we randomly select pairs of one man and one woman, you're going to be wrong a lot if you always guess the man makes more money. Most men who have earned a lot of wealth have wives and those wives share that wealth. Malinda Gates is a whole lot wealthier than I am and that would be true even if she never worked for a dime in her life. "Men have more political power than women" is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 07:58 AM
0	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? If you're worried a man is going to assault you while you're having sex with him, you're either extremely irrationally paranoid about men or you only want to have sex with psychos. Somebody can assault you anytime, anywhere, no matter what you're doing. For all practical purposes, people don't just randomly decide to assault you when they don't at least think you've wronged them in some way. I'm not saying it never happens, but the percentage of times it does happen when it could happen is incre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 05:01 AM
0	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? None of that explains what you mean when you say, "Sex is only really worth it." If you were talking about a piece of cake, I'd assume you meant the experience of eating it wasn't worth getting fat because of the extra calories or the price of the cake. I still can't understand what you mean by that unless you see sex as a commodity to be traded. The fact that you enjoy it doesn't really make a difference. That just makes it exactly like you're a firework enthusiast who enjoys making money putti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 04:08 AM
1	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Not the person you were talking to, but I get her point. If there’s no emotional connection, there’s no attraction for me. And in relationship if I’m upset, stressed, exhausted etc. I don’t want to have sex, I’m just not in the mood. I get what you're saying and it's reasonable, but I don't get why you think it's what she was saying. You're talking about the conditions in which you want to have sex with someone. She was talking about the conditions in which she feels it's worth it to have sex wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:38 AM
4	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? So then why should I care that your ex-wife doesn’t like sex? It has nothing to do with me nor does it reflect my experience with marital sex. Because you think most women view sex how you do just like she thought most women viewed sex you like she did and you're both probably wrong. Of course, we’re freaks and we don’t have children at home so that also helps. I didn't have kids with her either. Thank non-existent God.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:51 AM
2	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? It happens. It was a long time ago now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:44 AM
1	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Maybe you should’ve vetted better. There's no way to vet for a long game. You can live with someone for years form your ideas about them based on all the actions you see, but you can never know what's really going on in someone else's head. We have sex as often as possible and we do not have to be in a hotel room to do it. I didn't say anything about having to do it in a hotel room. We were on are honeymoon so we were in a hotel and "Hotel sex is trashy" was just the reason she gave for not want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:50 AM
3	If someone cheats, but knows that they never do it again, should they come clean? I was going to reply to this, but then I looked at your profile and saw that you're clearly some guy with a cuckolding fetish. Nobody uses their SOs credit card to subscribe to a cuckolding porn website to because they don't know how to tell him they prefer bigger dicks than his. That's just stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:36 AM
4	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience Okay. Sorry for being nit-picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:28 AM
6	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Yeah, well... It was a LTR before we got married and I had no indication (at least that I could see) that she was going to flip like that overnight so I thought it was just a weird thing on the honeymoon. We also moved halfway across the country a week after we got back from the honeymoon so I thought it was stress from moving. Then I was pretty much alone with her, halfway across the country from anyone I knew with her literally screaming at me for hours if I wanted to do anything but come righ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:27 AM
17	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I shouldn’t have said women have a harder time finding the right partner. That is just the problem majority of women are facing while men are struggling to find a partner. Well yeah, but it's a problem the majority of men face, too. It can be just as lonely to be with the wrong person as it is to be alone, but you kind of make it sound like it doesn't matter in the case of men. It is lonely to be with the wrong person just as it is lonely to be alone. No it's not. It can be considerably more hor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:05 AM
84	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience For the most part, men have a harder time finding any partner, women have a harder time finding the right partner. Both are difficult and lonely for different reason. Men are discarded without a chance and women are discarded after their body is used. We are all struggling and are going through different experiences. There’s no way for us to fully understand each other, but you can extend empathy. How can women have a harder time finding the right partner if men have a harder time finding any pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:49 AM
-1	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Sex is only really worth it when my emotional needs are met first. A perfect LTR has emotional intimacy, financial stability, and sex. I wish I was in a position where someone would have to meet those kinds of demands for me for sex to be worth it to me. What do you even mean when you say it isn't worth it for you? Do you not like sex and it's just something in you'll do in exchange for someone's services (i.e. providing a perfect LTR, emotional intimacy, and financial stability)? Is it that you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:33 AM
6	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Especially in a committed relationship - that’s where we generally feel the most uninhibited and can truly enjoy it. LOL. Talk to my ex wife about that. Sex every night until the wedding night, when she informed me that "Hotel sex is trashy." Then 3 years of being told that even just letting her know I wanted sex was attempted spousal rape because I was making her feel pressured to have sex when she didn't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:19 AM
1	What are your thoughts on "strong" women? In my experience, women who identify as strong women who aren't unkind, but don't take shit are just incredibly unkind. They're basically narcissists with persecution complexes. They see anyone who doesn't do everything they want all the time as mistreating them (giving them shit) and feel like that gives them the right to abuse people. It's that way for men, too. If a man goes around saying he's a strong man who isn't unkind, but doesn't take shit, he's probably an abusive narcissist. Not many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 01:28 AM
2	Being the hornier sex (the guy) is such a gigantic weakness for hetero sexual dating dynamics. "It's not really true that a man are always the hornier party" Coolidge effect is all imma say, basically that tells your wrong on believing men in general aren't the hornier sex Are you high? I didn't say men in general aren't the hornier sex. I said that on average, men are hornier than women. That means men, in general, are the hornier sex. I just said it's not true that the man is always the hornier party. There are men with very low sex drives and there are women with higher sex drives than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 01:23 AM
4	Being the hornier sex (the guy) is such a gigantic weakness for hetero sexual dating dynamics. Well to get right into it. Always being the hornier party or more sexually promiscuous party is a huge weakness that you can add along to other list of weaknesses for men in general with dating. It's not really true that a man are always the hornier party. There are men with very low sex drives and there are women with very high sex drives. On average, men are much more horny than women, but I think it's worth mentioning that it isn't always the case with individuals. Heterosexual men simply are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 12:08 AM