Just read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Warning - you’re gonna get angry for some time after reading it and then you’re gonna move on with your life and improve ;) Cheers
A good reminder that a woman is just a mix of instincts and emotions. Rational thinking is the last resort and is often developed when it’s already too late.
This is what happens when you get married being young and inexperienced. (Or get married at all). If she was just a girlfriend it would take 5 mins to resolve this and both of them would be better off.