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but only 8% of them masturbates more than once a week. That's a lot less of masturbation than I always imagined they'd do. Where did you get this number from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:11 AM
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I took it as him trying to think up a way to make things equal. As in, if men have to do things (as most countries probably have draft or at least mandatory service for men) to have rights, so should women. Or to show women what it takes to hold up society together because he perceives that they are not appreciating it enough. Some people have very strong feelings about what is fair and what is not, so they can be a bit dramatic due to that, ya know. Or unhinged as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:08 PM
0

What is he wrong about? Asking genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:35 PM
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then go around excluding them from men. I sometimes think that it has to do with some sort of bioessentialism / sex essentialism (I don't remember which of these was the correct word for it) where they believe that anyone who's born with female genitals is automatically oppressed and ones born with male ones are automatically oppressors. So by this logic, trans men are more wholesome than other men because we're born with the "harmless" kind of genitals according to their logic. Idk what kind of…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 11:37 AM
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lol, how is the fact that he's cis relevant to the story? Would she be okay with trans men who don't listen to Taylor Swift? So many questions...
/r/MensRights04/09/24 09:38 AM

I wonder why did they immediately asked about my childhood 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:48 PM

Idk, maybe some people like to be treated as overgrown children. I guess we are being insensitive as we ignore the effects of Stockholm syndrome on the victims. But how do these people even survive to adulthood if they can't trust their guts (I know, sometimes these feelings are faulty, but "better safe than sorry" saying exists for a reason)? Like, if they feel that something is wrong, why do they need validation to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:47 PM
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we’re always told most men would shag anyone willing so it’s barely a compliment. Yeah, but it's different from admitting attraction verbally in front of other people. When a man doesn't keep his attraction to a woman a secret - it's a rare thing! Or maybe I just grew up in a place full of male tsunderes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:31 PM
7

Why is it dehumanising to be sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:15 PM
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Maybe calling him a "girl friend" was a shorthand for "she doesn't see you sexually"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:05 PM
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Well, I don't blame anyone who gets into an abusive relationship. I heard that it's difficult to get out of situations like that. I was just curious, how you feel about someone returning to their abuser over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:46 PM
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What did you want to know specifically about my childhood? About yelling? If yes, there was plenty of it. But it was mostly justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:52 PM
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Right, because what does accountability look like in this scenario? I guess it would be that the woman decides for herself what to do next? Instead of looking for validation/instructions from others? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:48 PM
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Idk, normal I guess? Edit: please be more specific, I can't type out my whole backstory, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:38 PM
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wasn't really about continually picking bad people Oops, I misunderstood. I'm just used to people saying that if after one abusive relationship you don't have an accurate radar for bad people, then you want the abuse to happen. Didn't think of cases when the victim goes back to the same person over and over. As to your last point, I don't think anyone that doesn't have a mental disability doesn't understand that not everyone is abusive, rather they feel comfortable in that dynamic because it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:35 PM
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Doesn't it depend on the context? Isn't yelling normal in some cases? I genuinely want to know, I'm not trying to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:18 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure how relationships work, so warning: my view will be uninformed. If speaking of myself: I would blame myself even if it happens once. I knew that people hurt each other, and some enjoy hurting others. So it would be my fault for putting myself in a situation in which someone hurt me. I knew better and yet I hypothetically did it anyway. Probably after that I would avoid relationships at all. But if I'm talking about other people: I'm not sure at which point would I assume t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:13 PM
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Thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:52 PM
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Thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:52 PM
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How many times is it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:49 PM
1

Another analogy, just for the sake of discussion: there are stairs that have a missing step. The first time you are likely to trip up on that because you didn't expect the stairs to have a missing step. But how many times can you try to walk on the non existent step before it looks like you're just sabotaging yourself on purpose? I'm not saying that abuse victims should be blamed. After all there's all this attachment stuff that influences this, financial dependency and other stuff like that. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:48 PM
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Is that why my mom never apologizes without guilt tripping?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:36 PM
1

Idk why but many people still think that abortion makes women infertile. They also think the same thing about HPV vaccine. Even our teachers told us these things. I kinda have a feeling like people where I live prioritise women's fertility to a very weird degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:04 PM
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Well, maybe religious reasons are more common where you live. In my environment most anti abortion people are against it either because they think that the kid will be someone important or that the woman will become infertile and will regret doing abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:15 AM
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Then what should people who can't or won't have kids do once they're old and weak? I didn't mean assisted one, by the way. I imagine that it will take a lot of time for that to be a thing in most places. So I imagined the classic way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:31 AM
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I have a question: are you ok with childless people if they're going to "remove themselves from equation" the moment they are not able to contribute to society? So they wouldn't be a freeloader?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:07 AM
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"Incel" is just any male who doesn't agree with an SJW Feminist. Honestly, it's even more diluted term than that. I got called an "incel" for saying that I participate in no nut November. Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 12:28 AM
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Yes but if your children are alive they most likely will take care of the economy. At least that was the reason our teacher told us that we must have at least 3 kids per family to pay back to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:58 PM
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Why do you highly doubt it? Isn't the fact that a lot of people are anti abortion because the fruit might turn into the next Albert Einstein the proof that people think that having kids=greater good of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:53 PM
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Oh. Maybe 75-80? But then there's the gilf thing... I guess the wall barely exists
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:17 PM
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Seriously, bro. I have no ideas other than trauma and conditioning. Or is that actually the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:14 PM
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For example why do you think a lot of women like sex on the rougher side of things ? I don't know. Maybe trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:36 AM
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Worry not, it will come to you in your 60s. I think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:25 PM
2

But isn't that little over the top? Idk, maybe I just value my teeth more than women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:20 PM
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I guess it's the grass is greener on the other side situation. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:17 PM
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Can you give it to me too? Please 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:15 PM
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I'm 6'7 Damn bro, how often do you hit ceilings and cupboards with your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:06 PM
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I would like to be able to not base my worth on other's preferences. It's cool that you're not that dependent on approval of others, that's what I meant with the your mentality comment. I don't want to be called ugly or a loser. That's why it's important for me to be attractive even to people who act awfully towards me. The moment I start to feel like most people find me ugly is the day I rope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:18 PM
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No idea honestly. It never happened to me. If they do it by asking a question I would probably answer it. Idk what else happens in cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:23 PM
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How did you learn to have that mentality? I'd love to be able to see the world like you do. I know that I'm becoming more "ugly" and "worthless" day by day and I can't do anything about it. And it affects me even if I don't want relationships, being a desired thing is important for me for some unknown reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:09 PM
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You don’t see the women on the app unless you pretend to be a man. You only see men. Damn, reality is disappointing. Many men fit you exactly and would be in your league. But the drama in that case might mess with my ability to fullfil my responsibilities towards studies, family, friends, so that's like a trolley problem. And also most men probably wouldn't like a sexless relationship. And the fact that it would hurt them more than it would help them remains. I don't want to cause unnecessary su…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:50 PM
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I reached this conclusion because a lot of the ones that I knew said things like that, especially if the ones who were single all their lives. Life is short for men here so they're desperate to leave behind at least their genes. But idk, I personally only knew the ones in their 50s, older ones are mostly wifed up. So maybe it was different for the ones that seemed grandpa aged for me at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:25 PM
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He also keeps occasionally asking when I'll get a partner. I swear, if he'll ask me it again I'll just say that it'll happen when he'll divorce his wife (my stepmom).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:08 PM
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Why do you think I’d want to date someone who thinks I’m ugly and gross? Doesn't it hurt your self-esteem when someone else is better than you? Wouldn't you be jealous of the fact that younger women are seen as attractive, but you're not seen as that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:49 PM
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Most of the butter face results online aren’t even ugly. Yeah I think that something fucked up the Google search. Back in the old days the first results were women who looked like god made them in image of Picasso's paintings. Like, VERY asymmetric and uncanny faces. pretty women I mentioned pretty women because it would be ME who gets distracted by them. Nothing to do with dudes, lmfao There are plenty of mediocre face fit dudes who would give you a chance I think you're not really getting this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:48 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:23 PM
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I see 30 year old women and women in their 20s and the difference in looks is not that huge, if any at all. Really? I was told that I look like a 14 year old. Is it also common in 30 year old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:16 PM
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But don't most women treat random men like enemies? Like potential danger? Wouldn't it make sense for him to treat women.as emotional danger the same way women treat men as physical?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:38 AM
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There is no such thing as an ugly skinny women. Google butterface. Kek Have you ever tried online dating before ? I tried sexting on Reddit, does that count? If you meant dating apps, no I didn't try them. I thought that it'd be unfair for me to do that because I don't bring anything to the table in terms of relationships. And my phone doesn't allow me to download dating apps anyway, lol. And also i fear that I will just get distracted by all pretty ladies on dating apps who only do it for sport…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:34 AM
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Or are you suggesting men who get rejected or something treat all women as though they’ve personally hurt them in the past? What would be wrong with that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:04 AM
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I'm 20. I don't care about dating, I just kinda want to be at least closer to attractive. You know, even my own father recently implied that I'm ugly and that kinda hurt, lol. I considered dating old ugly lonely men when I was younger but then I realized that they'll want children from me, which I am not willing to supply. So it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:03 AM
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What do the ones who are already underweight do? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:49 AM
0

Exactly. Women don't care about sex that much. On the other hand being deprived of things you mentioned would definitely affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:08 AM
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any man who is weak enough to let himself be overtaken by a woman and assaulted has much bigger issues than that he needs to face and address. What about men who got assaulted when they were boys? Or when they were drunk/drugged? Or if they are physically disabled and someone took advantage of that? if you are trying to imply that things are the same for women and men then it is you who is in fact the fucking neanderthal here you fucking clown Are you saying that men can't feel violated after se…
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:48 PM
1

What if she counts in finger binary?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:57 PM
1

Now that makes me think: is it more or less suspicious if a guy has his nails painted on both of his hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:56 PM
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Bruh, if you bend like this they'll continue pressuring you after you give it up once. Maybe it's just how I grew up, but I find that kind of begging/pressuring behaviour fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:27 PM
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If that someone is me, does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:13 PM
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Yeah I guess, but the second one was the first one to go. At least for the men I know.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 10:43 PM
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Even the second point becomes optional in some places.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 10:35 AM
3

Makes sense. I just assumed that you picked the age according to the age:2+7 formula, lol.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 02:10 PM
2

Does the wife count reset to 0 after a divorce? lol
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 12:02 PM
2

Fuck, I forgot that now they call all levels autistic. I assumed that OP meant mental institution level
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:55 AM
2

You and me are probably the oldest people in that comment section, lol. Because I also have no idea wtf that means
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:53 AM
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maintaining a healthy diet Not even a healthy diet, just any calorie deficit/maintenance for small BMI. So being reasonably attractive as a woman is literally easier than being healthy, lol.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:45 AM
3

Would you prefer them even younger than 25 if possible?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:26 AM
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Well, many don't offer to do that.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 08:11 AM
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Some groups like that find it funny when you ignore them. Like, they will just stalk you around and try to get a reaction out of you. At least that happened to me when I followed the advice "just ignore them and be boring", it seemed like it just made them more invested, they saw it as a challenge. What should I have done if I wanted to stop them?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 07:56 AM
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Well that's rude of them to do that. I guess sometimes people have the "the grass is greener on the other side" perception issue about sex/gender related topics.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:34 AM
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✨genderfluid✨
/r/MensRights13/11/23 10:25 PM
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Yeah, the most aggressive interactions online I had so far were with women. Men seem more chill.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 10:23 PM
1

Technically you can call someone a bitch but you might have social/legal consequences for that. On the other hand people feel free to call me an incel without a good reason over there and no one's gonna cancel them for that.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 09:53 PM
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But if you want to have a family it's better to have more of it. Otherwise, idk what resources they need maybe attention/love? But that's the same thing men get in relationships (hopefully) so idk what's the difference.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 07:03 PM
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Are they actually saying things like that? Or is that how you see it when they downvote you? someone has decided that I’m wrong and not worth listening to simply because I’m a woman Welcome to womanhood, lmao
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:22 PM
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Money
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:08 PM
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Money. And maybe physical protection.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:07 PM
2

I assumed that he does. Because otherwise why would he think that?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:07 PM
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Shhh, let the man dream a little of getting revenge on women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:03 PM
0

In some countries you can. Idk where, but I heard that it's an option somewhere.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:02 PM
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lol, at first I misread your comment as 3/4 of normies and almost all women wish that they were aborted, as in almost everyone wishes to not be born.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:59 PM
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Ah, ok. Understandable. Honestly, so far I only had to state it in situations where people literally asked for it or to clear up some misunderstandings. Or it gets implied, like when someone asks "people who are __" type of questions and I answer in comments.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:53 PM
1

What's incorrect about it?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:47 PM
1

Aren't self downvotes pointless? At least I know a person who does it all the time and so far they haven't had any trouble.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:46 PM
1

But isn't bad attention better than none? Especially as you say that you want to share your opinion. Doesn't it make sense that having it visible is important for you?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:44 PM
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lol, my teachers were more honest. Straight up told us that the world is not fair and hard work rarely or even never gets paid off.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:40 PM
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Bro, some of us already had "pill" ideas before we even knew what it was. I had some of them when I was a 11 year old who didn't yet interact with English language based media and knew only basic English. The only way to truly escape is to not interact with anything dating related and ignore every relationship you see irl, which isn't possible unless you live as an internetless hermit.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 11:42 AM
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Well, it's different with old couples. They are used to the company of each other and don't have as much sexual desire. And you can see that they aren't as passionate about each other as young couples, they basically become close roommates at some point. But young couples hold sex in high regard for some reason.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 10:32 PM
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They might do it for their own health or something.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:52 PM
1

But don't guys also hide their gf on social medias? Asking in a good faith, never had Instagram/Facebook so I genuinely have no idea how common it actually is. there’s already a guy in the picture. Was that pun intentional?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:33 PM
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because their idea of an ugly guy is very different than mine Very true. I saw what I would call average or even attractive guys being called ugly. The standards are insane.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:24 PM
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But isn't sex the point of any romantic relationship? Maybe except one between two asexuals/people with absurdly low libidos, but these are exceptions, not the rules. Most people see sex as a proof of love and closeness. And being sexually desired also helps with self esteem issues.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:52 PM
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Makes sense. I know a person who doesn't want to ever have sex and they avoid romantic relationships because that would be unfair to their hypothetical partner. Wouldn't it be nice if everyone was so considerate?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:47 PM
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What truths do other pills hold? Yeah, it's obvious that women have more standards than tall men with strong yawlines. And sometimes blackpillers exaggerate some stats. But the idea that average man has less opportunities for sex than the average woman seems true.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:39 PM
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Obviously that's not happening in the soonest times. So the best course of action rn is: 1)let/make women do men's jobs 2) women show how incompetent/incapable they are 3)??? 4) end of feminism, lol And don't women influence society by being the main child-raisers? Hell, they can even threaten to end themselves if men take their rights away. What are y'all gonna do if they formed a suicide pact like that?
/r/MensRights12/11/23 06:25 PM
0

What does Ohio have to do with this? Edit: seriously, pls explain, I genuinely don't know what's going on there
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:01 PM
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It has upvotes because many people think that growing up as an orphan in a war torn or currently in a war country (depending on when it's gonna end) is worse than not being born at all.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:38 PM
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Yeah, but if they want equal rights they should get equal responsibilities. So, unless women are going back to where they were, they should do all the same things that men do.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:24 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:11 PM
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Do you want the child to grow up motherless? It's better that they, both the fetus and the woman, die there than a child gets actually born and becomes an orphan, no?
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:09 PM
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Yeah, but no one who complains is being taken seriously.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:06 PM
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I didn't say that everyone is lying, just that it's very common to do it which means that it's likely that a lot of these people lied. Then which pill is the correct one? So far in my view the blackpill seems to be the closest one to the truth.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:03 AM
1

But why do they want to have sex with chads if chads don't give them a relationship? Idk, it just seems so weird to me. What's the logic?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 12:48 AM
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Depending on the country you use their money when getting health tests/services paid for by taxes. Women more often go to doctors on average which means that they use money that other people have earned unproportionally.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:37 PM
0

There's wisdom: subtract 2 partners from the number of partners that a man claims to have and add 2 partners onto the number of partners that women claim to have had. In short: both often lie about it in the opposite ways. So you can't trust self reports Well what's there to lose for women in that situation? If they don't want men they can just, you know, exit life?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:22 PM
1

Some people fear all bugs, no exceptions. No reason to make fun of that person.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:11 PM
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What's a healthy relationship? Just curious, I somehow became an unofficial relationship advisor, so I'd like to know that to improve my services.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:02 AM
5

Yeah, they only might get weird looks, but not hate.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:05 AM
3

most that undergo it have extreme pain even with just peeing or menustrating Holy hell, that's horrifying.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:03 AM
3

What's the shitty behaviour that you're speaking of, bro? Why only women are allowed to whine 24/7 on the internet?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:00 AM
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While female "circumcision" is just mutilation, with a thousand harms and no benefits In cases where they only cut off clitoris/hood of clitoris it might actually have benefits - the woman would be less likely to masturbate in the future. I would be upset if it was done to me, but I guess it would be good because it would keep me more pure than I am.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:53 PM
1

Does that mean that women rotate between different chads?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:41 PM
5

Some people have no choice but to cry.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:32 PM
2

Bruh, sex contact is an important part of it for most people. Of course, you can date people who don't need these things, but they're like 1% of the population, so you can't expect it for most of people in general to not need it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:29 PM
4

normies say a norwood 3 recessed chinlet overweight girl is “so beautiful,” They might actually unironically think that. Humans are like birds in that way - only the male ones have to work/be lucky to be born attractive to receive attention from the females. The female wins by just being there.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:16 PM
1

Who's that?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:08 PM
2

Well, that happens. I also had a similar situation, someone told me to DM them and they never accepted it, lol. What I meant to say is that it might just be a way for them to protect themselves from feeling bad - they reject you out of the fear that you will do it to them. People are often afraid of things like that, I also avoided people who expressed interest in me out of fear/paranoia.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 10:46 PM
1

Ew. Disgusting idiots these women are, in my humble opinion.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 10:15 PM
3

Met plenty of women that think an occasional lick or something isn’t bad. Occasional lick on a face/hands, right?
/r/MensRights10/11/23 10:09 PM
3

a lot of you tend to overstate the advantage of height It might be because it's the only "innate" attribute that can be easily measured. I remember that the tallest dude in my class was considered the ugliest one, so probably something else plays an important part in that thing.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
1

It's an ego defense mechanism - rejecting people before they reject you. Haven't you ever done that?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:32 PM
1

Exactly. Idk why so many people don't get it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:27 PM
1

Ugly =/= unattractive when speaking of women.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:24 PM
1

So thin skinned. "Insulting women", lol. What's not an insult/harassment in your book, bro?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:08 PM
1

There's a thing like a "halo effect" - attractive people seem nicer to others than less attractive people
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:38 PM
3

Imagine if someday men would be considered short unless 2 metres tall, lol
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:31 PM
2

Wife? In this economy?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:03 PM
6

their bodies are their business literally, lol
/r/MensRights10/11/23 03:59 PM
2

Then maybe they should stop doing the things that devalue said pussy. Well, that's why they police each other, lol
/r/MensRights10/11/23 03:49 PM
4

But they probably won't. They want to get drama/attention.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 03:31 PM
9

Most of them don't see us as humans, they see us as their servants. And at some point you start to feel like you're not a human, just a tool for other people. That you shouldn't have any needs and if you do happen to have them they are secondary to the wishes and desires of other people. All because of how you were raised.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 02:39 PM
18

It sometimes seems like the goal of feminism is to gain an absurd amount of control over men. Like it stems from a belief that all men are uneducated monsters who would do horrible things if allowed. I wonder what makes feminists think like that.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:11 PM
13

If you can manipulate a woman’s emotions, that’s all you need. Does that mean that being a psychopath can be helpful in dating?
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:32 PM
2

Women are luxuries in some way - most people don't get them, lol. You get into a relationship by being a person another person would want to be in a relationship with. Well, that's obvious. But some women sabotage their own dating life by rejecting people who don't have fatal flaws just because the person isn't perfect. And later complain about not having a partner, although the issue is self-inflicted.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:01 PM
2

Why should they lower theirs when you also don’t want to lower yours Because women want more than they give. Which is kinda unfair - they want equal rights, but are not willing to put in equal work.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:35 PM
1

Wtf? Where did he say that they're property? Did I miss something?
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:17 PM
8

Do you have a link? I'm curious about what the studies say.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 08:07 AM
3

and its unfair to women with low bodycount if we dont at least give them credit for preserving their bodycount. How nice of you!
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:10 PM
2

Yeah, I know that my parents will support me whatever I do. I just have been warned that actions/inactions have consequences, lol.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:24 PM
3

I just meant that women still have lower libidos than men on average. So that should mean that resisting the temptation should be easier. So it's not equally challenging as it is for a man to raise his body count. That's all.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:19 PM
1

Well, then I'm glad that this tradition is still alive and well in my family. My father reminds his daughters that they have to get a relationship and marriage ASAP. And my mother tells us that women "expire" much faster than men.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:13 PM
3

as a woman, preserving your bodycount is a challenge while raising it is easy Ehhh, why is that a challenge? Sorry, I just don't get it. Can't they just don't fuck anyone and avoid most situations that might cause them to get fucked?
/r/MensRights06/11/23 07:05 PM
7

Which subs? Just curious because I don't want to waste time on something that will get deleted
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:40 PM
2

Sounds like they were trying to make excuses for these women. Kinda shows their double standard based morality. I'd rather be a kissless virgin than excuse sexual assault, tbh.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:31 PM
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Yeah, but it's still bad because it has bad roots. The thing is rotten from its beginnings.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 11:32 AM
2

But going completely hands off like we are doing and spreading myths about unsafe sex (like the myth about how sex with a condom or on the pill is "safe") is not the way to go. Yeah, the term "safe sex" is so misleading. A lot of people don't realize that there's always a chance for any birth control method to fail.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 11:02 PM
1

I'm sorry that you went through that. It's so fucked up when actions like that are done by people who are supposed to be trustful, but instead they betray that trust. And it's horrible how it's almost always assumed that the boys in those situations wanted that or even that they should be grateful. Do these people not remember being kids? Do they not realize that kids can't consent? I remember a related topic to that: how people say shit like "girls mature faster" and in the same breath treat li…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 11:26 PM
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Well, I wasn't saying that they get raped more. I was just saying that it probably happens more than we know, which could even mean that it might happen more than male-on-female rape, possibly. And I have the ultimate defense against feminists - I'm a foid. Wouldn't it be misogynist of them to say that my choice to support men is wrong?
/r/MensRights23/10/23 04:34 PM
1

Yeah, it seems like they don't know that these things usually include trickery like getting the victim under the influence.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 04:24 PM
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Why is it idiotic? Do you think that women are angels who do no wrong? Do you think that they're automatically more moral than men? And honestly I have no idea how likely or unlikely is for women to rape men or even how often it happens the other way around. I just know that men are more shamed for reporting these things, so I assume that it happens more often than we know.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 02:50 PM
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As I said, we can never know for sure because of the underreporting.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 02:40 PM
63

Common, we can never know the real statistics of that. Some stupid countries have dumb rape definitions, like they only count male perpetrator rapes or only count cases in which the rapist penetrated their victim, not when the rapist forced someone to penetrate them.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 02:34 PM
1

I'm not a father of anyone, but my friend's father pays their mom around 1/3 of minimum income per month. That's for two children. I once told my friend that it's not fair, but my friend told me that his father offered to pay that amount himself.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:02 PM
1

Yeah, that's why I assumed that. But I asked just in case because you were downvoted.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 04:03 PM
2

Are you being sarcastic?
/r/MensRights18/10/23 11:15 AM
2

But that's so odd that they think like that. Most important jobs that make our society a clean and safe are done by men. Doesn't that make men more important to our society? And even without looking at jobs, why would feelings and thoughts of women matter more? Why they can't see them as equal?
/r/MensRights17/10/23 07:03 PM
16

But why don't people want to use women as meat shields? Is it because of reproductive reasons? If, so would they be fine sending infertile or over 27 years old women?
/r/MensRights17/10/23 09:15 AM
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Maybe women think that because women would do bad things to people who are weaker than them. Projection.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 08:15 AM
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They probably think that they made men do that or something, lol. The female delusion is scary.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 07:53 AM
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A lot of women have very offensive views of men around them - they often assume that men think only of sex. So, yeah, the idea that men see women as sex objects is either a projection or an awful stereotype that should die already.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 09:45 PM
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Weird, when they did that to me they didn't use a speculum. Maybe it's because I was a kid back then?
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:23 PM
0

I actually also cried during the pap smear or a similar test, lol. It is quite painful so the tears appeared automatically. But when I'll need to I'll do it again even if I'll have to slap myself in the face before or after that to stop crying like a fucking weakling, lol. How can one know if it was done normally, especially if they had it only once?
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:59 PM
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Men experience more body shaming in general in my experience. And the worst thing is that it is mostly about things they cannot control - height, bone structure, length of specific body parts, some men I know got shamed for their skin color or other body pigmentation.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 04:04 PM
8

Some of them believe that any PiV sex is rape for some reason
/r/MensRights08/10/23 03:43 PM
28

Are the posts that are "dragging women at the every possible opportunity" in the room with us now? But to be serious, which headlines are unnecessarily posted here?
/r/MensRights07/10/23 07:50 PM
4

I sometimes wonder if people who give that kind of advice just live in other world in terms of money, so to them it doesn't seem much.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 12:05 PM
6

Seriously, so many people say "go to therapy" or "people who don't go to therapy are red flag" on Reddit. That's why I assumed that it's not expensive if they want to send everyone to it.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 10:36 AM
8

Holy hell! I never knew that therapy was so expensive.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 09:28 PM
1

How would they even know that a guy is virgin unless they're sharing guys? As far as I know many men lie about not being virgins.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 08:01 PM
2

And I don't get why. After all there's a smaller chance of STDs if men didn't have sex before.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 06:52 PM
2

English is not my first language. I meant that as a thing they did often
/r/MensRights30/09/23 06:37 PM
1

Women often were assigned jobs like sewing and making fabric, and some farming jobs
/r/MensRights30/09/23 06:04 PM
8

Not opening doors or not paying for dates is not hatred, lol
/r/MensRights30/09/23 12:56 PM
1

Yes, but isn't human connection more important than money or material stuff? Especially now that many women work and are able to live without men's financial support and if she has no children, she probably can save some money for luxury things. Why is it so important to get things from men?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 05:19 PM
4

I think you are right. A lot of feminists don't have anything against ftm, but complain about mtf, which seems transphobic to me because in that way they reject the identity of these people by viewing them as their birth sex.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:54 AM
12

Asking someone if they are murderer is so stupid. An actual murderer will just say no.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 07:41 AM
5

I don't know about marriage therapists, but family therapists definitely can be very biased. Our family therapist blamed the fact that my mother is suicidal on us, the kids. She (the therapist) also often said that we should just do everything our mother asks for
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:53 PM
3

Yes. Men just show emotions in much different way. They even talk about them in a more physical way, when they do talk about them at all. I don't understand how women can just say "I'm sad/angry/happy" immediately when they feel these emotions. Also, I don't understand how therapy helps them - as far as I know they talk just about hurtful things they experienced or their relationships.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:50 PM
2

The only logical reason why would so many of them call them older men is if they had these creepy encounters during their childhood. I remember seeing everyone who was around my parents age or older as an older person when I was a child. Women also assume that men are older than they look, especially if the man is balding.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:36 PM
2

Exactly. I have no idea why the drowning/strangling was a common method. Sometimes I think it was a way for parents to mentally torture their kids by making them watch it. Like a way of saying "this could be you".
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:28 PM
2

Many people there take stray cats or get them from people who give away kittens. A lot of my peers in childhood had stories of their parents doing this to unwanted litter or even making them do it. Other kids often were the ones who found these bags. It's probably so distressing to witness it. I understand that the parents did this as an attempt at a "mercy kill" but I think euthanasing the animals at the vet would be a quicker and less painful death.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:07 PM
2

And also sterilising pets if necessary. Where I live it's pretty common to find drowned kittens or puppies in plastic bags.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:52 PM
3

On the other hand women often expect you to drop everything immediately they need you. When I was living with my mother I had to basically act similarly to an AI assistant - had to actively listen to whatever she says in case there's something I must do and do it the moment I was asked.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:39 PM
3

I don't understand how a male AI sex partner is not appealing to heterosexual women. After all they don't have a pregnancy or STDs risk that way. I guess they are built different.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:34 PM
4

Exactly. So many people get dogs and then complain that they have to take the creature for walks. Dogs may look cute, but they require a lot of more work than a cat.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:27 PM
2

How long do you think it will take to invent an artificial womb? Also, will women just be used as egg cell donors in this scenario? I'm just very curious about how the society could be affected by such invention.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:18 PM
2

And they can't get pregnant! Beauty of women and sanity of a man unironically sounds like a good combination of traits.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:04 PM
4

Bruh. That's absurdly cruel idea. Imagine how would it feel to buy a sexbot and have it reject you.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:01 PM
8

It's not really a choice if the other option is to be potentially abused or accused of something. Women do most of sexual selection. Women kinda created this situation.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:58 PM
3

I also see that men often buy things that women recommend to them. Because of this a lot of products made for men are marketed in a way that appeals to women.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:36 PM
3

I remember seeing a post with gym that had sound volume detector. So bizarre.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:42 PM
8

Ew. Do they at least talk about it quietly?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:19 PM
7

Prostitution is the oldest profession after all
/r/MensRights26/09/23 05:29 PM
17

And that's kinda gross. I remember feeling violated whenever a female relative grabbed/slapped my butt. Edit: I know that they were joking, but as a child I felt scared/uncomfortable whenever that happened
/r/MensRights26/09/23 05:20 PM
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That might be a method of self harm or a way to relive their trauma, in a "controlled" way. It's shitty that these women exploit their mental problems. How can they be so heartless?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:32 PM
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They often forget that men are their own people. People who have their own lives, thoughts, jobs, etc. Many women see every minor interaction with them as purposeful and intentional. As if they are a prize to a world and have all eyes on them.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:16 PM
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I sometimes think that women are the bigger perverts.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:09 PM
2

Seriously, anti aging skin products? That's kinda vain reason to do this shit. Can't they make them in other ways? It's not like you get a lot of skin per baby
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:40 PM
1

I think the fact that you don't learn anything useful for a battle is the point. They might want to have meatshields for the real soldiers.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 03:41 PM
2

I think this is a problem that often happens in forums like these. For example in feminist forums people often say that women have so much worse. I guess that's a way we justify the existence of our movement - like, if we don't have it worse than the other group, it means our problems are not real.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 10:24 AM
1

Yes, I was talking about things like drafts or obligatory military service. It is just not fair that women can vote, but they do not have to do it. You are right that women also get judged for not being married / in relationship. For example, I was told that it's already late for me to get married when I was 14. It's just that the things men "must" do, according to society, are more dangerous/difficult comparing to the things that women have to do. In case that you mention childbirth and pregnan…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 08:24 AM
1

What about obligatory service if you are 18-30? I think it counts as providing for country. Men are also judged if they have no woman to provide to. There are less men than women, which means that men have more options. There's a common thought like: "if he's not taken, he is a horrible person".
/r/MensRights25/09/23 07:29 AM
3

Why are some of traditions that harm kids banned but others are not? In some places you are not allowed to make earring holes in ears of babies, but in others people do genital mutilation without medical reasons. What a strange world
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:49 AM
2

Standards for women are less strict. You can be an ugly woman living on your own without providing for anyone and most people won't judge you. On the other hand, men have responsibility placed on them to provide for their country, not just themselves.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 11:10 PM
1

A small European country. I don't want to give away a more precise location, sorry.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:41 PM
0

TIL that circumcision is a religious thing. I always thought that it was because of hygiene, because that was the reason Americans often said. But I also found that Jewish people do that so this part wouldn't be used for "unholy" purposes. does it actually prevent it? There are always risks, especially when a knife is used on kids or newborns. Are the risks less serious than the benefits? Isn't it easier to use some kind of other method to prevent the "unholy" usage of the penis? Isn't it that a…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:38 PM
3

When I was in elementary school I was told by an older woman that she once got cornered by a man when she was a kid my age. Luckily he only managed to partly undress her before someone intervened, which made him run away. Also at that age I was told to go to crowded places if men were walking behind me and other things like that. There was often automatic assumption that perpetrator of crime is always male. There were situations in which people suspiciously followed me, like contining walking be…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:15 PM
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I only heard one woman say positive things about her ex. That he is a logical thinker and is very smart, how he could fix anything in the house and that he is very determined person. But she is the exception, not the rule.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 08:30 PM
3

For real. Why is it still legal in many places?
/r/MensRights24/09/23 07:03 PM
7

I don't think that you did anything wrong. Women often are unreasonably scared of men. I don't get how it's not considered wrong to assume that all men are abusers. It's literally sexism to assume things like that. Even I used to be afraid of men when I was a little girl because of all ideas older women put in my head. Someday I realized that women are actually much more violent generally than men, at least that is true in my country.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 06:35 PM
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Actually, in many countries even men are not allowed to be shirtless in the public.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 04:18 PM
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