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Couldn't that also be because of religion? Religious people tend to be happier. Black Americans have lower depression rates and suicide rates and that has been correlated to religiosity. Middle eastern countries also seem a lot more socially connected and less isolated and hyper individualistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:48 PM
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Lol that massive reproductive gap emerged right as civilization began and society didnt collapse. Also for most ot history way more women have reproduced and we still have society. Tons of male inventors never had wife. Geniuses invent and learn for the sake of it, not for pussy. That's what average men do. With automation coming we dont need as many cogs in the machines. Also studies have found that women are much more sensitive to salary when judging attractiveness for long term mates. Salary …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:17 PM
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Finally someone says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:15 PM
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Gross as people or just gross as a romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:40 PM
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"Gives her youth" I can understand wanting a younger more attractive woman but that language is just gross to me. You forgot to mention men wanting women to perform sex acts they have tried in the past but didn't like just so he can get "her best".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:29 PM
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That's an extroverted thing, not a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:16 PM
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He caps desirability at 23. Posts like this make me glad I'm not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 12:44 AM
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That's usually libfems and queer theory people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:16 AM
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What's wrong with being submissive to men in bed? Men find their own sexuality so defiling that a woman is ruined if she experiences too much of it. Someone here said slut shaming is based on misandry and they have a point. You guys can share evo psych studies but I don't really care. I'm not looking at why men act like this but what their actions mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:09 AM
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I was raised with some RP views. I remember knowing that just because men want to have sex with you, doesn't mean they want a relationship. I remember knowing that girls were pickier and that's why guys ask a lot of us out. I was even told that if you have sex with someone you will feel extra bonded with them making it harder for me to leave them even if they are bad. I was told not to send nudes because guys would just share them. I knew this all by 13 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:14 AM
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And I'll be the first to admit that my own high cout has made me jaded and ruined my ability to take a girl seriously and pair bond Did this happen suddenly or gradually?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:37 PM
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People admit to some pretty unsavory things like rape fantasies on other sexual studies. Though if you think people aren't being honest then that is your call. Not really much to argue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:25 PM
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Should we throw out all studies based off of self reporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:39 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Young women and men cheat about the same but older men cheat more. This would line up with the idea that men prefer younger women. Anecdotally I have a ton of stories of rich men leaving their wives for younger women. Well not tons but enough to notice a proclivity. We can only share data, whether that makes one sex more loyal or nicer is a subjective value judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:29 AM
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Men are much more likely to leave their wives when she gets sick. They're also more likely to cheat as the couple ages. If you want to argue that men are somehow nicer, then you're just blatantly wrong. I guess everyone views their own flaws as less bad than someone elses'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:14 AM
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I wasn't saying women have it tougher than men when it comes to getting sex. I was saying that male attraction/love isn't any less conditional. Something that clearly flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:51 AM
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I think you're romanticizing male nature. At least what attracts women can be maintained, youth and beauty is fleeting as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:09 AM
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with a look of sheer terror, "you're not a virgin, are you?" How old were you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:02 AM
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When did your libido start decreasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:27 PM
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I would probably just raise an eyebrow if the guy was under 30. If he was over 30, I would feel repulsed but say and do nothing unless I was close with the girl. This is just me thinking in the abstract, how I would act in the real world would depend on a lot of factors not outlined here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:31 PM
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Attractive men and women both tend to do this. Unattractive/low value men are just upset they can't participate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:56 AM
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Doesn't mean you make it worse for other people. Humans wouldn't have been able to build civilization if we didn't give a shit about each other. You're simply one of the parasitic freeloaders, no offense really. Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:59 PM
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I heard that the average was brought down due to extremely high child mortality rates. Once you made it to adolescence you could live into your 40s-60s depending on the time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:33 PM
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I knew someone who has been with an ex con for years. She is emotionally stable as far as I know. She's a really great person actually. Though ex con is different than currently active criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:15 PM
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How do you act on that hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 12:31 PM
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There was a study saying that while aging started earlier in white women, it was more linear. Asian women were found to go through a much faster aging process after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:10 AM
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Attractive men are more likely to have those characteristics you mentioned above. Women tend to rate more dominant looking men as more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:44 AM
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White cis straight female isn't good to them either. Basically POC rank higher on the victim hierarchy than women or LGBT people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:34 AM
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They are using those women as surrogates for the ones who ignored/used/hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:55 AM
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So when pretty girl stacy made fun of some incel dork who dared to talk to her in front of the cool kids, he's naturally going to feel happy when some other stacy that he's never met falls from grace and ends up looking like a meth addict by 23. It's just how humans work. You pretty much hit the nail on the head. I also think that attractive people aging is a mortality reminder, and people are morbidly fascinated with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:53 AM
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The urge to fuck is the reason we're here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:57 PM
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An unattractive man can get plastic surgery, though not all can afford it the fix is there. Generating wealth is not as easy as it sounds. Just because someone is ignorant of being disadvantaged (low IQ) doesn't mean they still don't suffer. Also many people who are straight up mentally disabled know and feel bad about it. You are hyper focusing on the way you personally were shortchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:22 PM
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I would feel slightly sorry for a guy if that was the only way he experienced sex. I don't really find it "gross", I just feel nothing about that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:11 PM
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It’s depressing as fuck, but that’s life. Is it anymore depressing than intelligent people having many advantages in life? Or really rich people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:04 PM
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Is your SO not an atheist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:22 AM
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That's because many of them were never wanted by younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:23 AM
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Malice. Though sometimes harm caused by total ignorance can be more infuriating in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:14 AM
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It seems like a lot of couples think the other person is out of their league. Romantic love/feelings seems to make the other person appear more desirable to you than they do to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:27 PM
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This is my subjective opinion but I think there are more unattractive men than unattractive women and more pretty girls than handsome guys. When I think of all of the most attractive people I've seen, they are mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:55 AM
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Maybe they're blue by this sub's standards but compared to most people almost no one here is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:15 AM
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Blackpillers seem to think of pretty privilege as special sort of injustice and that looks matter over everything else in life. They are extremely looks focused. People have known about the unfairness of life since the beginning of time, it is not "blackpill" to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 11:36 PM
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At best we have extremely limited control over everything in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:20 PM
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They should only feel guilty if they act on their attractions to minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:14 AM
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Not a bloop You resorting to insults just proves you lost. You have nothing else to say. You simply can't see anything except what you want to see. Take a look if you want to see how things are https://www-businessinsider-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10?amp_js_v=a2&amp_gsa=1&amp&usqp=mq331AQCKAE%3D#aoh=15799704999874&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.businessin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:46 PM
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I was citing a study, you are the one making it about you. Based on what the study said you are either Lying Delusional Or an exception If you can find a study saying 20 year old women think 35 year old men are the most attractive I will change my mind. Your personal experience does not negate general trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:13 PM
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Makes sense. Do people actually care about stranger's problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:54 AM
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You are not entitled to be safe. What does that mean? Almost all societies and people acknowledge that unprovoked violence is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:52 AM
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How far are you into your 30s and how far are they into your 20s? I never said there aren't exceptions. You seem to be taking things way too personally in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:13 AM
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Life is so funny. You can be like the guy you described or be a disfigured child in an Indian slum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:47 AM
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How high can the n count be before you're repulsed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:22 PM
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It depends what you mean by older. The study everyone sites here shows women rating men within 2 or 3 years the most attractive. Most 30+ guys are not attractive to young women unless they look young or are being used for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:10 PM
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What do you consider slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:06 PM
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From a purely aesthetic perspective, both men and women look best in their 20s. Men lose that youthful glow and their looks suffer. Studies showing women prefer age matched men while men prefer women in their early 20s. Early 20s women don't prefer older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:58 PM
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How do you act on dates now vs beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:53 PM
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That's interesting. How attractive someone looks to me is 80% face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:17 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:37 PM
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Can you elaborate on how you believe in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:02 AM
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Just because someone deserves to be hit, doesn't mean you should do it. Have you heard of the guy who punched a doctor and it killed him? The doctor fell back and hit his head. That is why they teach men not to hit women. The thing is physical violence is an immediate danger to someone. You could easily leave your emotionally abusive gf. What do you want to do, have her arrested for mean words? Just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:33 AM
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What do you mean by mental breakdowns?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:49 AM
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What's a Russian reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:19 PM
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People on the extreme ends of the bellcurve create and build, this has more men than women. That's not to say that there aren't women who create or that the vast majority of men are consumers. Also due to what I mentioned above, the majority of the dregs of society are also male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:13 PM
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What if you're just not as attractive as the guy who impressed her in less than an hour? I know many people smarter than me who didn't have to work as hard. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:17 PM
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I'm not advocating this myself but I know what a lot of incel types mean when they say that. They want to do things like ban abortion, ban birth control, enforce monogamy, etc. Basically they want to go back to the time where women were a lot more dependent on men and sex was far riskier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:50 PM
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How often does this condition make you curse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:41 PM
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How long has she been your FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:07 PM
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They're trying to catalogue general proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:55 PM
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Loser is supposed to mean someone of low status and P&D doesn't mean you are of low status. You're not desirable enough for casual sex so you have to lie to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:09 AM
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What is the part of 'for men, sex is a need' did you not understand? I haven't spoken to you before. I know other people need sex to be fulfilled , I just asked to gauge how much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:04 AM
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I fucking despise human sexuality, it's such a fucking waste of time and attention. Most people rate sex ( and romance) as one of the most pleasurable things in life. I'm asexual and I've always been told about how much I'm missing out. It's not a waste of time for most people since it brings them pleasure and satisfaction. All humans have activities that bring them pleasure and help pass the time on this shitty rock we're on. Sex is one of those activities for the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:47 PM
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What made you decide to start?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:37 PM
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Is it that hard to understand that sitting patiently for 3 months for sex is a torture, Didn't you have to wait at least a few years to have sex once you got your sex drive? I can understand not wanting to wait for other reasons, but would it really be torturous to not have sex for 3 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:10 PM
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To me there are more female 7s and 8s but more male 9s and 10s. That's not really an objective opinion though, I believe most artwork depicts women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:33 AM
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Introverted people of both genders have it harder than their more extroverted peers. But I would say introverted men have it worse since they are expected to ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 05:38 AM
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Isn't that like saying men always leave for the younger, hotter woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:59 AM
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From my perspective as a man, the prospect of being in a relationship with someone who you aren't sexually attracted to is unfathomable. But many women -perhaps not all or even most, but a significant percentage- seem to think of sexual attraction as something that is optional, and can be forgone if a guy ticks all the other boxes. I shudder to think of how many married men there are currently living under the illusion that their wives genuinely love them. The vast majority of wives are not sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:55 AM
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There was a study showing psychopaths are 3x as likely to be paroled or released on good behavior. Psychopaths sans mask probably aren't desirable but they are good at pretending to be high quality partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:12 AM
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How long did she get?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:48 AM
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Have you had any luck with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:01 AM
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Like an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:38 AM
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I agree we shouldn't force our perception on others. However most people do it anyway which is what you're seeing. Being seen as gross is more based on action. People would see my asexuality as more weird than gross because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:43 AM
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I don't age gaps are necessarily immoral. They're just gross to me if the gap is big enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:19 PM
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It's hard to get an attractive partner if you're not attractive yourself. Everyone tries to get to get the most attractive person possible. It's just pathetic to not be realistic about your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:19 PM
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How old will you be when you settle down? Most of the girls who stay virgins into their late teens and early 20s would not be very sexually driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:23 PM
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Can you link the video? Do cops not have guns or tasers in Sweden or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:40 AM
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I think you're overestimating how well someone can be read. We all do this by only seeing the people who get caught deceiving someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:19 PM
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Subjugate women how? "But I'll be damned if I'm gonna be a genetic dead end, so I know what must be done." Why should we pick your interests over someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:01 AM
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Out of curiosity, why is it so repulsive if he is willing to be exclusive with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:56 AM
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Men have better spatial processing skills but you can have abstract thought without spatial processing or really any mental image at all. I've seen this before on here, my guess is that most people are visual thinkers so they can't imagine thinking without visualization. Due to male variability there are more extremely smart men than women. Exceptionally gifted men are still exceptional though. The average man is much like the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:37 AM
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Cut from the same cloth I guess. If you didn't make this story up, I'm guessing you get some vicarious pleasure from it. People are people, I don't see the appeal in hurting someone. We are all flawed but that doesn't mean we deserve to be hurt, used, and laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:13 AM
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If you want the truth you need to create an environment where the truth can be said. Your friend's tantrum when he found out looks mattered is proof he couldn't handle the truth and a perfect example on why women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:40 AM
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What do you think about him? If I knew someone like that, I would keep them around if they benefited me but I would be much less likely to take a little bit of suffering to help them out ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:32 AM
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Karma is not some mystical force but treating people badly over a long enough timeline usually (but not always) leads to bad things. At the very least people like that tend to end up with no one in their corner when it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:26 AM
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Are you like this in other facets of your life or is this just a reaction to being hurt/used/conned?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:52 PM
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Why did you think that was funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:09 AM
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I would either pick a lock or open an unlocked window.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:02 AM
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I did that too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:50 AM
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I would break into peoples' house and steal stuff in broad daylight a few times. Maybe climbing canyons without any protective equipment counts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:16 AM
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Men are the ones committing suicide the most though. I think women just see a therapist/psychiatrist for every little thing while men are more likely to try and fix it themselves. It's not a matter of who's more crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:52 PM
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Can you elaborate more on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:46 PM
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Fucking people you aren't attracted to isn't a good option for most people. That's miserable in it's own way.You can't force physical attraction and you're better off alone than with someone you aren't attracted too. There's no point in relishing in other peoples' suffering like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:46 PM
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It's just human nature to prefer attractive people. What's the point in shaming people for something innate to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:02 PM
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Why do you people complain about women lying and then shame them for telling the truth? Looks are important for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:37 AM
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The egg is alive too and actively selects sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 09:15 PM
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Women enjoy sex. I'm asexual and before I accepted that I was in a few lesbian relationships. There was definitely sexually desire (and desire for it's own sake) in the girls I dated that wasn't present in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:02 AM
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Can you link it? I couldn't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 09:29 PM
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This situation is beyond not normal, it's extremely rare. All that matters is that you are both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 01:20 AM
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Are you aroace? I am too and we have the same flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 02:39 AM
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People who use sunscreen also hold up much better, especially for lighter skin types.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:09 PM
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Someone who is attracted to them and only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:41 PM
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Is there any evidence that this applies to everything between men and women and not just IQ? It doesn't apply to height differences between men and women or strength differences. It seems like you can't admit women (as a whole) are better than men at something. Higher testosterone levels are correlated with fouls in games, with splitting less money with a stranger. Studies have also shown that men with higher T are more generous but only when it benefits them and less generous when no one is wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:21 PM
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