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A lot of these men we sleep with her yes, but it doesn’t mean they want a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:36 PM
3

Yeah I don’t expect anyone to love me solely for me and my intrinsic value but I expect people to do so and find that they like who I am enough to stay despite not always checking the shallow material boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:39 PM
1

I good women is someone who values her body and mind and becomes an independent person on her own but still happy to have a companion in their life. Someone who goes after someone they love enough that they could not be tempted to cheat. At least, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:39 AM
1

Oh yeah that don’t change babeh. The only problem is you get crushes a lot less often and instead of it being physical the mental matters too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:39 AM
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Lol men can say the same rhetoric. Neither of us want to put up with “the game” forever to keep up appearances. Yet, we are still fooled by the ones who do it anyway. Forcing us to do so or be abstinent. Nobody wants a partner that’s been with everybody. Nobody wants a man that sits on his ass and doesn’t groom properly. Everyone needs to just do their thing for a while and come back to dating when comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 PM
22

Lmao that’s because y’all do kinda have it easier… When the titanic sank they didn’t say “men and children first!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:13 AM
-1

Lol what a bunch of dumb nonsense like most of the posts in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:54 PM
1

Waaaaah my sex wasn’t good enough! AT LEAST YOU GET IT WHERE AS MOST MEN WISH THEY COULD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:29 PM
1

It shouldn’t be. Imagine how men must feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:28 PM
0

Not every guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:27 PM
3

Omfg just because YOU don’t want to have casual sex doesn’t mean other ugly girls don’t want that. Not every man is using a girl as a “flashlight” that’s just your excuse when we tell you that at least you get the option if you so choose to. Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:26 PM
0

No woman ever wants to acknowledge this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:18 AM
1

Why would you think her being capable of other things not improve her looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:16 AM
0

The point is ugly girls at least get options. Ugly guys have to live with it. Most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:12 AM
1

Oh please, ugly people have sex for pleasure too ffs so tired of this cope. At least you get to sift through many options at the end of the day it’s better than nothing and they can seek their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:10 AM
2

Oh please. Just admit, you can get dicked down whenever you want but if they don’t want to marry you they are “rotten food”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:08 AM
0

Yeah, at least an ugly women can get anything at all that’s what all these people don’t seem to understand. Whats an ugly man’s “consolation prize” nobody even gives them attention. So yeah, at least you get to have sex. Must be nice. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:03 AM
1

At least she gets sex lmao nobody fucks an ugly guy? What’s an ugly guys consolation prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:01 AM
2

In the end, we end up with more or less our equal. So, all these average girls aiming high may have slept with chads, they will only end up with someone equally attractive as them and even then, they need to hope their partner does not care about their history. As long as it’s not 60+ different dudes by the time you’re 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:30 PM
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Deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:43 PM
5

Gotcha so it’s an indication of a lack of trust. It’s funny how you get that far in a relationship and that’s when it shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:04 AM
2

But what if you did cheat? Plenty of partners do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:59 AM
1

Seems like the only way to get action is to pretend I see a future with them and I don’t want to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:48 PM
0

With the discrepancy between our looks, I’m shocked and actually offended they think I would romantically date them. Why play pretend? If you want romance then swipe left. My profile is set to soemthing casual. I want to have a sex life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:43 PM
2

What am I supposed to do when I tell women upfront I’m not looking for anything serious and they stop talking to me. Cant a guy have casual sex too? It says it on my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:55 PM
1

Everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:24 AM
2

Women would rather share a player/cheater than be with someone that’s not “exceptional.” Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:56 AM
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lol sorry I’m not lonely nor care what you think, women will be regretting their decisions by 40 if they are promiscuous and rude. Men do not want a love life with someone being stubborn, entitled, manipulative and rude. Not because of old age. I would die over being settled for. I know my value. I know my worth and I’m not some power hungry boss bitch. Im just a good dude. I have plenty of friends to live and grow old with. If a beautiful women who hasn’t slept with 80+ dudes by 35 wants to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:44 PM
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I would be happy to know why they didn’t like me over someone else so I can improve upon that next time. I don’t think thats unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:40 AM
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Cuz it obviously does
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:25 AM
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Being a man is a thankless job in general. Your whole post is generalizing and shitting on them for not offering enough and you’re using weak anecdotal evidence to justify it. All of the things you listed suggesting men have nothing to offer, did you ever consider that we feel the same way about the same actions women do? It’s so entitled and backwards to claim we have trouble dating simply because our dicks don’t vibrate or you think we wouldn’t take care of household needs. Keep chasing 9/10s …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:12 AM
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Exactly and most of the time, let’s be real, we both know who likes who more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:20 AM
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You knew she was into you bro don’t be coy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:19 AM
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Lol they are shooting themselves in the foot thinking people above their league will settle for them eventually. They are just hurting dating for everyone by giving pussy to the guy who doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:16 AM
0

Smart* enough and yeah It’s difficult. Nobody said it was easy. It’s difficult to find someone who agrees to something outlined in the beginning of marriage that would fairly treat us both no matter what happens to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:18 AM
-1

No shit. Definitely getting a pre nup bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:21 PM
-2

Blah blah blah I wouldn’t be unreasonable. I sure as fuck am not letting another entity control where my money goes because it’s notoriously unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:13 PM
4

Not only are they just as shallow as men, they are MORE shallow because once you pass the physical filter they then judge you on status
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:44 PM
-2

I want a STAHP wife, I don’t want her to divorce me and steal my money. Is that ridiculous? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:06 PM
1

Why are some women such lazy entitled losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:04 PM
1

They don’t even need to go to a bar, they can just call up some dudes or wait to get invited to something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:23 AM
2

No I think I just saw somewhere that 50.56% of male teens 18-20 were virgins but thanks for trying to make me out to be a creep you fucking loser
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:26 AM
1

Well yeah but perhaps it’s prevalent in young males.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:02 AM
1

Is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:32 AM
3

I think you’re simply underestimating how much sex girls are getting. They don’t even need an app. They can just go to the bar and wait for someone to try and chat with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:23 AM
2

My dude , there are probably a fuck ton of virgins wdym??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:21 AM
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Lmao yeah cmon dude time and place. It’s an obvious indicator of something is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:52 PM
1

I saw other commenter ask if OP was 13 but you don’t call them out? Are you just cherry picking people who’s side you don’t agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:51 AM
1

Why do I have to challenge it? Why can’t I add anecdotal evidence to support him. OP is supposed to debate every single person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:37 AM
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That’s not exactly what I said or meant. I think unnattractive women shouldn’t expect attractive men to want to date them. Or put it in work to have sex with them. If you don’t want to hook up and want something serious, then go find your equal in the looks department. I’m not pretending to be romantically interested just to hook up casually and I’m not lying to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:41 PM
3

Same, if. I’m looking to hook up then I’m looking to hook. I don’t continue that relationship unless they’re down. When I’m romantically interested in someone, I only see them until we decide to make it exclusive or it doesn’t work out. Everyone is so scared to fall in love they have to act like they don’t care and need plenty of back ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:44 AM
0

The good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:39 PM
1

My point is that sometimes women aim above their belt and then feel like they settle when they’re really just with their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:32 PM
1

😥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:02 PM
2

I witness people do this also the time. I can fuck a few mid average chick whenever I want. I just don’t want to. It’s sad. The people in their league may have no idea I can fuck them at the drop of a hat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:37 PM
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Stop misusing the term. You’re going to make people look bad who use it for good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:24 PM
1

Man you just hit the nail on the head. I had a girl fuck on the first night. She was cute. I had to maintain the player vibes. It’s sweet for about a month. As soon as I started admitting that I’m attracted to her and don’t like seeing multiple people at once, she lost interest. I wasn’t making us exclusive or labeling us at all. Claimed I was a B type personality. Super interested, wanting to fuck and gettin to know me with questions about my life <- awkward fwb <- nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:17 PM
4

Spitting facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:14 PM
17

The hotter ones know, they just don’t care. They’d rather share a high value man than be with a less valued man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:14 PM
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I’m agnostic. Yes, its reflecting of your non discernment and a litmus test for your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:54 AM
2

Because misandry is supported these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:10 AM
1

Understatement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:09 AM
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They shouldn’t but it’s far more normal than to have been the degraded one .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:07 AM
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Why would anyone want a family with someone who lets multiple people degrade them. Also, that’s not why she’s a not a worthwhile person anymore. I still dated her and looked passed it. She was very entitled manipulative and rude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:57 AM
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The problem is people have no shame and will allow people to degrade them for instant sex gratification. How can they be loved by one person in a healthy relationship or start a family after people have peed on you like you’re a fucking toilet. I’m going to assume you don’t understand nor or willing to see what I mean but I don’t have the energy to articulate it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:52 AM
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No, I did it and enjoyed it but JFC. Why would you degrade yourself like that?? She’s my ex but she’s my girl for life. That doesn’t just go away .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:36 AM
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Never lower your standards people!!! I’d rather be single forever then settle for a promiscuous, entitled, manipulative, and rude person that is evidently becoming so abundant these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:08 AM
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I think there are still modest women out there somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:05 AM
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My ex wanted me to pee on her. Some of yall are shameless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:02 AM
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Jesus what is it with you people. CLEARLY there is a difference between girls who are sluts and those who aren’t. Let’s stop lying to ourselves ok? The number is relative. If you slept with 60+ different guys by 30. Thats gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:53 AM
1

I don’t need to explain myself to you. The fact is many girls on the dating apps have inflated egos and the way they treat others is offensive. Cry me a river. I don’t expect some model girl to just give me a relationship because I want one. If I’m not a model as well, why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:44 PM
0

What I meant was, ugly women are still expecting you to want to date them when my profile explicitly states that I’m looking for something casual. I’m not going to sit here and date you when that’s not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:39 PM
1

Thank you! 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:06 PM
3

I mean, I don’t match with chicks and expect anything from them. Yet some of y’all think I would date them? And they want to know before we even go out. That’s why I tell them something casual upfront and then they stop talking to me….like really? You thought you had a romantic chance with me? I’m no model but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:18 PM
3

Lol ok don’t be surprised when a more attractive person just wants to hook up. Aim In your league if you are expecting a relationship. That’s all I’m saying. I do this same for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:15 PM
4

Dude, men arguable still go after girls in their league. Yes. women are actually shooting way above their belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:12 PM
3

I’m 30 and would like family too. Sucks I feel like I need to own a house to even consider that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:55 AM
13

Oh wow must be so hard for you to get ready for another date that’s usually mostly paid for….you poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:52 AM
7

Go ahead and beg for your crumb of pussy then, I’m not busting my ass in the off chance she might like me anymore. Especially if they have been around the block. My dog and I are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:44 AM
9

Sex? How about any affection or interest in our lives at all? It would be nice if girls asked more about what we liked to do. I noticed most dates don’t give a fuck. They never had to. Then, when they are shocked to find out I do x and y, I chuckle. You never asked… It’s almost like women don’t see us as people but rather an accessory to their lives. I’m sorry if this hurts you, but we’re equally as important as you are despite popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:31 AM
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The pretty ones don’t say shit if they’re not just outright trying to scam you. The ugly ones act like you’re still supposed to put it in work. It’s comically stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:30 AM
1

Cuz we’re honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:02 PM
2

What do you do if you’re introverted and don’t care about people that much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:38 AM
2

Sorry the guy who’s pumping and dumping was never interested in the first place or they’re just pretending to not be. Easy way to tell is difference in physical attraction. If they are more handsome than you are hot then don’t expect anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:03 AM
1

Relationship guy is just a guy out of their league and they need to accept it wouldn’t have gone anywhere ever and not waste her time thinking sex will convince him to like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:48 PM
2

They don’t man don’t believe everything on the internet. Some girls will do it. Hopefully not every girl is letting multiple guys degrade her, own her, and mark their territory by blocking her airway till they cum in it. Hopefully..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:39 PM
1

You’re right. To each their own. I won’t respect it. I won’t say anything anymore. I just dont want to be involved. You can have a high body count, but the chances of you being a good partner are significantly lower. At least from my experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:44 PM
1

Because if you sleep around too much how in earth would I take you seriously? How you could stay with one person if you will sleep with other people without a lot of discernment. How will we go out to parties and you not flirt with the other dudes there? Do you think you just shut off your slutty ways as soon as you get in a relationship? I don’t want the town I’m in to have fucked my girl. Excuse me for being a “slut shaming prude” If many people got to stick this dick inside you what makes it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:33 PM
1

Why would we entertain you for a casual hook up ? If we’re obviously not going to date you, why waste either of our time? Why not just go hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:28 PM
-2

That’s cuz they don’t need to “explore their sexuality” they can just fuck dudes as much as they want. After a while thats just gluttonous and hedonistic. Guys shouldn’t be sluts either. It’s not good for the brain. It’s gross to sleep around and even more so for a women. They should find their equal and sleep with them. Not fuck everyone and be sad that nobody takes them seriously after.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:22 PM
6

Seems like you’re the emotionally immature one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:45 AM
9

I don’t need too. That’s just one example of why men might be more “fragile” as you like to call it. I was sexually assaulted too and I don’t call women fragile. I listen to their problems. Maybe you just view men as weak for even having feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:00 AM
7

When you realize girls have access to way more options than men you get very frustrated at rejection because you’re happy to have just been with that one person. It’s more meaningful to us imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:22 PM
0

TRP should never been shut down. Sure there were incel mysoginists. But no more than everywhere else. It helped more than did good for those people and they just got blocked.Messed up if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:40 PM
5

Yeah that’s a waste of time. Go for who chooses you. Don’t be a lazy pos but you shouldnt have to jump through hoops to win them over. Just accept that you are not their primary preference and find someone who matches you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:40 AM
-2

Exactly, I loved all the good about her and it. Breaks my heart but I always felt something wrong in my gut. I got a telegram to buy weed at 3am. Just to view the menu then pass out. Noticed she was on telegram then immediately got off when I was on….I feel she’s selling herself on there which is sad. I hope she’s just scamming people rather than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:38 PM
-3

Fear although she used to be a sugar baby, had fiends who made more money and suddenly started talking abkut them more a couple months before she was so cold to me it forced me to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:33 PM
-2

Yeah what? She’s probably talking about the Chad she thinks she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:22 PM
8

I think my ex would have dropped me for her “friend” if he asked her to. That made me so depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:21 PM
0

I like you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:21 PM
1

I don’t have any female friends cuz they all end up wanting to have sex or I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:20 PM
3

Yup pretty sure this is what happened to me in my last relationship from. A year ago and I’m still depressed. I just noticed her on telegram at 3am for soemthing. I was buying weed. I suspect she’s a sugar baby or exchanging pics with someone. So depressing. She used to be obsessed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:17 PM
19

He doesn’t have to. He’s taller and more handsome. Girls are just as shallow as men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:13 PM
5

This has caused me to spiral into depression over the past two years. Seeing how my ex could just easily leave me if some guy had more money is so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:11 PM
0

Those aren’t “situationships” those are, I am fooling myself into thinking he wants more than sex or they’re playing the long game. Pretending to not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:44 AM
2

Yeah, you won her over but don’t ever buy her shit. Rarely
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:28 PM
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Must be nice being 23 years and just deciding you want to fuck someone twice your age. Girls have such a dope sex privilege… “ ideally id ask him to fuck my brains out” JFC you don’t even know him. What if he’s a loser weirdo?
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:11 PM
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I’m in the 20s she’s probably more or less 100. I can’t say it doesn’t hurt often, but you get over it. As long as she doesn’t cheat. If I ever find out, adios.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:33 AM
1

Bro I know what you mean, the way a girl looks up at a tall guy and gives him all their attention without doing anything really cuts deep. That’s ok though cuz they will never be you. And you can be someone awesome that nobody can replace. Hopefully a girl will want you for you and all you have to do is act like taller “attractive” men don’t bother you and she’ll trust you. Eventually it won’t matter and people will see past superficial things.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:11 PM
2

Yeah, I love a juicy thick girl for sexy time, but not as much for long term material. To put it bluntly lol.not sure why
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:38 AM
3

Hell yeah makes me happy I’m with my girl! You give me hope.
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:14 AM
1

What do you mean? You just have to be yourself, wing it and let them see a goofy version of you until they realize you are lame af and go to the next dude that seems cool. Let me guess, “then don’t be with that person.” Oh, ok. Just never get laid then. Siiiick. Let me guess, “life’s not about sex.” Right, because society doesnt value high body count. women don’t flock to players like flys to a lamp.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:15 PM
1

I think it certainly plays a role and if you bag a hottie she will get at you for it after a couple years
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:20 AM
1

She’s testing you or is an inconsiderate asshole. There’s no inbetween.
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:34 PM
2

So for me, I had to let go of my ex and accept my new life. It wasn’t just about her. Maybe there’s something you need to let go of or grow out of? Perhaps you’re so focused on performing rather than having a good time that you get paralyzed at penis in the vagina time.
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:08 AM
2

It will pass dude. It’s a mental thing. Be grateful u get any at all!
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:57 PM
1

How is it destroying your self esteem jeez dude it’s not big deal
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:27 PM
14

Seriously
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:13 AM
1

Hell yeah!
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:30 PM
2

The problem is when you do this after dating for years and you both become emotional manipulators
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:06 PM
1

Well, you can’t really change your genetics aka looks and I feel one can only be so clever unfortunately. I hope I’m wrong
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:56 PM
1

You say that like “simply not being interested” is not personal. Uhhh they are “simply not interested” because they don’t like you. No matter what reason, that’s ego crushing.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:38 PM
1

It does, you should have at least 1-2 of them with friends casually or something. others are like decent portraits and 1-2 good portraits. Youll be fine but as far as getting those friends...honestly just go to a bar and ask around. Maybe a group will pretend for you or youll make friends
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:35 AM
4

Brah it’s all about the pics you take for Your tinder profile. Create the illusion that you’re interesting and no selfies. A funny bio will go a long way.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:41 AM
63

Just back off completely. She may hit you up again
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:34 AM
1

Very rarely maybe, but I would NEVER tell my SO that.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:18 PM
12

Congrats and thanks for the cool story!
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:58 PM
1

Chads don’t have to try. They just exist and play coy and the women go nuts over them and tell their boyfriends they’re just friends cuz he won’t go out with her.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:09 PM
3

Brush your hair, your teeth and dress right.
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:40 AM
2

Oh it most definitely can and does so good luck out there everyone.
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:38 AM
46

Unfollow them
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:25 PM
3

If you snag a girl with a bf best believe they would do it to you. And if you don’t care then congrats on being a home wrecker but tell her bf please. I would want to know
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:39 PM
3

Bro, if you can get laid, you can undoubtedly find love. You’re only 22 and that’s your concern. Men of all ages would be happy to at least just get laid. You will find love, maybe don’t share how experienced you are to the girls you genuinely like. Maybe ask the one you really would like on a date. Bond on a subject she likes when conversing. Hide your tattoos and maybe ditch the broccoli haircut lol.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:57 PM
2

Just be like, “I didn’t, but okay. Im looking for someone to date take care.” She’ll be like wait but I still wanna see you since you brushed that off so well. That’s when you say you don’t play this hot and cold bullshit
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:44 PM
-1

Oh wow it must so hard for you getting laid all the time without a real connection. Boohoo you poor thing
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:34 PM
1

I think some of these girls are already orbiting these alpha players and essentially letting g other girls fuck them cuz they know they won’t settle down with them. They instead hang around them all the time and admire them even going as far as to say they’re just friends to their current boyfriend. Is it cheating? Not really, but imo, it’s emotionally cheating. You’re spending time with a dude you would love to get with but you call it friendship. That’s not really fair imo. So can a guy physic…
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:23 PM
3

Tell her you didn’t approach her cuz she stopped talking to her. Then take it from there
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:14 PM
2

I totally get what you’re saying but they don’t use logic. They see good looking guy, they see who has the most attention, who is the most relaxed, the most confident, the loudest and strongest. No matter the verbiage. Attitude and tone go a lot farther.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:09 PM
1

You have to be well rounded socially with proof
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:52 AM
3

Pretty good story! Thanks! your conclusion is accurate
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:52 PM
7

Why is feeling good and wanting others to appreciate your outfit mutually exclusive? It’s like people think it’s shameful to impress/peacock. It’s not. “I do it for me” Such a lie. Cmon, we do it for ourselves because we want others to notice as well. When I dress I dress the way I think looks good and others would, at the very least, not think it looks bad. TLDR: Girls do it for attention and deny it
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:24 PM
1

Dude it’s only been a day. Live your life as if she isnt even there. Don’t talk anymore than she does. Match her energy. Ya trippin.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:46 PM
1

Lol obvi all these dudes aren’t as hot as they think they are. I’m attractive but I’m not at 8 9 or 10. These dudes literally suck dick and get bitches orbiting them without doing a shit. I’ve seen it
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:34 PM
2

I noticed that when you’re happy and excited your more engaged and fun to talk to. Perhaps you need to guide the convo to something that you love that gets you excited!
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:55 AM
3

True, I am just being bitter. I do the same and it’s shallow. On the flip side it is what I am attracted to.
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:44 PM
0

There are few good hot girls sadly. Mostly entitled and toxic
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:29 PM
0

Dude, same. Has to do with diversifying our genes
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:06 PM
3

Bro, girls that are into you will make it easy. They may find you attractive and legit find your lifestyle so great and amazing it might be like work or that they’re not enough for you.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:42 PM
2

Very good take
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:19 PM
12

Men get used to. If they can’t get their Alpha crush they settle and lie to their bf about being attracted to their “friend” Not Alwyas. Just something I feel I’ve gone through
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:18 PM
7

Wow thank you so much for pointing this out. People are so callous and like to tell short people to get over it. Dude, just acknowledge that short people have it harder. We’re not asking for pity or handicaps, just fucking recognize your privilege if you’re tall.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:46 PM
2

He scoffs at what I say, talks louder than me, stomps around the house and anything we talk about he thinks his opinion is worth hearing more than mine or anyone else’s. He’s wrong, though. It’s just, when he gets home from work, (I work from home). My mood changes instantly. I fear he’s mad at me for something. Our house is relatively clean, but he’ll find something small to put me down about as if it’s all my responsibility and I’m not doing any work around the house. The house is fine, if he …
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:08 PM
6

Wow. Poor husband. If I were you I’d tell him
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:14 PM
2

Glad you asked this. My friends I’m comfortable, my gf I’m comfortable, my roomate is my friend but also has always acted better than me or always one ups whatever I say in conversation. Talks over me, talks louder and tries to be the center of attention in any conversation. I respect him, I respect he tries hard and has solid views. I don’t think he’s more or less than I am, possibly, but I know he is very judgmental and anything I say he seems to scoff at and know better than I. This is why I …
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:08 PM
3

Nah never even look at her like she’s doesn’t exist. She’s a ghost right?
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:05 AM
1

It’s key bro. Gotta make sure the pics are flattering af
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:05 PM
1

You don’t have to change. Just your mind set. Unless your hair is really bad. It’s all in your head
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:53 PM
1

You need really good tinder pics and bio. Like, get a camera, a tripod, dress up and spend an entire couple of days dedicated to taking hundreds of pictures of you in different outfits in different locations with various lighting. Then pick just a few that are perfect and will show the best side of you. That will get your feet In door along with a funny bio. Then, you just gotta be chill and ask them out until one of them agrees. Pro tip I think would be honesty. (Just make sure you’re honest ab…
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:51 PM
5

Who directly asks you for sex lol? Really? Are you at a club with shady people?
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:10 PM
1

Would you talk to someone who is rude to you? Bye
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Lmao I don’t shy away from adversity. I’m specifically not answering you Cuz ur a pompous prick that obviously needs to get over themselves as well.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:16 PM
-1

Ok, well because of the condescending tone I don’t feel that I should explain anything to you. Honestly kinda obvious anyway
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:07 PM
-2

Congrats on your curiosity but why would I help explain something to you? You’re clearly being condescending.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:47 PM
4

Don’t listen to the commenter. Don’t do it immediately after, but getting girls in a photo with you will help.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:47 PM
-9

It is
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:46 PM
1

God damn that’s accurate af
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:19 PM
3

JFC dude
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:02 PM
15

Kinda fucked up how the context of the statement is irrelevant and the human brain just goes “derp derp he’s confident so therefore attractive” It’s so fucking stupid.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:12 PM
0

He has fulfilled his confidence and has goals In life and you’re saying he has to jump through more hoops to impress entitled average girls? Bro, he’s just stating that dating for guys is not fair and casual sex is much harder unless you’re a model. Makes sense, girls can just swipe once in tinder and do what they want, dudes have to jump through hoops just to fuck a girl who he doesn’t like. Even the ugly ones have options making it almost pure luck that you happen to make them laugh in the rig…
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:23 PM
1

I’m at 20 and I’m 30 now so I was no player but I lost it at 16 and had many gfs so I don’t really Care. I kinda wanna get back in the game but I love my girl haha.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:06 PM
1

Hooking up during and after college is the same. If you’re not social, you just have less opportunity. If you’re more social, it’s harder to focus on work. I would try to balance both and I did alright. Wish I had a nicer gpa tho. After college you just gotta move to a bigger city and do your tinder up like crazy if you can. I’m talking top 10 or so largest cities in the US. Meetings people through people or at events is great too. The more friends you have to go out with, the better. Otherwise,…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:03 PM
2

Lol early in the day cuz they don’t have to work
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:07 PM
0

Just talk to them like people, insert some jokes and innuendos here and there and make a move if it feels Right. Dont try to do anything. Just to have a good time and don’t put so much pressure on it. Focus on your goals and girls are secondary. Also, don’t talk too much. Reveal yourself slowly.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:28 PM
0

At least your parents told you. My single mom made it seem like I needed to be Prince Charming and find the one. I still slept around ish but I wish I knew to not take girls seriously and just fuck around more in high school and college. Any pretty girl that came my way I thought of as a romantic interest when in reality it’s ok to just fuck.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:19 PM
1

I think that personally makes you appear more attractive too so perhaps it’s not entirely unattainable.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:19 AM
1

My bro is tall and handsome. He doesn’t really have to try
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:25 PM
1

Kinda fucked when you’re raised by your single mom and have no choice
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:21 PM
10

I don’t mean to generalize but all the girls I’m interested in are NOT interested in that. Go figure…I hope one day I meet someone like you.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:47 PM
31

I was sold on what my mom said, Disney movies and being a Prince Charming nice guy loser. Turns out, you have to be a cool confident guy that isn’t interested in girls. Kinda hard when the entire time I thought the point was to get a girl and be happily ever after. Wow girls don’t wanna sit with you in the park and stare at the sky talking about philosophy. They want to see you talk over other guys at a party to show your dominance and popularity.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:06 PM
1

Lol don’t listen to a girl for advice. They say be yourself then they leave you for acting silly and goofy like you do with your friends. Don’t TRY to act all tough but you do have to be a certain way around them.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:26 PM
10

I believe I’m with one and bro it is not easy lmao. DM with your questions tho
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:38 PM
3

How did the dates go? You had 4 so surely there was some connection there. What do you feel changed that might have turned her away? Also, she might have just had a past lover come back to their life or one they have been eyeing before you. It may not be personal.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:26 PM
15

She respects and admires you.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:16 PM
30

Damn really? I think life is a little more nuanced than that
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:15 PM
1

Does that make you feel like a bigger person? The audacity of some people JFC..
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:17 PM
1

You didnt answer my specific questions, you didn’t answer 10 times you’re just a douche that thinks you’re above it all. I don’t need to ask if you’re stupid, you gave that away. Lol we’re just having a convo and ur insulting me. Guess that’s the move, lil bitch
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:12 PM
1

Wow, sorry for wasting your time. Although, I think my last question is just too hard for you to answer.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:02 AM
1

I mean, I’m not saying they’re cheating, but IF they’re interested in seeking the attention from another guy, would that not be disrespectful to your own relationship? Is that not an indicator of disinterest?
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:58 AM
1

I disagree. I’m sure they want their crush to check them out as equally as to show off to women. Idk why it would be mostly anything. How would you know for sure?
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:53 AM
1

What would you do if your girl did that?
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:46 AM
4

Lol dude with women, 1 and 1 is not 2. Logic doesn’t matter. All that matters is them seeing you get mad and react. Girls can be cruel these days
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:16 AM
3

This is exactly right. He’s indicating that you always have to suck it up and not be a little boy about it. Sometimes being a man is calling a girl out on her bs. The commenter is implying yet again that girls can do no wrong. I. Agree that girls should be autonomous and allowed to post pictures but if your girl isn’t tipping toeing around that boundary for attention or to fuck with you then you haven’t been in many relationships cuz that happens whether you want to believe it or not.
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:34 PM
1

Ok then why am I satisfied with her affection alone? Should I post handsome pics on Instagram to feel even more desired? I don’t need to. And it would be so that others find me attractive which. I feel is Like cheating on my gf. Why don’t girls feel that way?
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:29 PM
3

This isn’t about “building her up” if you want to lie to yourself and everyone else then sure, pretend that it’s ok for a girl to seek attention from other men and the shame the man for calling her out on it. There’s line between posting to feel good about yourself and posting for male attention and the latter is disrespectful to a relationship. Calling them out is “putting them in check” that’s not toxic. The manipulative validation seeking bs while dating someone IS toxic
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:23 PM
1

Why does our affection not matter to them? Why be in A relationship with that person then? I would only date someone who I desire.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:21 PM
0

Call her out on her bullshit. If she’s seeking validation online using thirst traps, it’s cuz u ain’t enough. If so, tell her to go find a man that’s enough for her.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:20 PM
1

His post is black and white. Life is more nuanced than that. “If you suspect there are ulterior motives, then break up” Why in the god damn fuck do you think doing that is going to be straightforward and easy to determine?
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:18 PM
1

Totally valid. So what exactly is the difference?
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:17 PM
3

But why date a guy you’re with if you need validation and attention from people seeing your outfit or whatever on Instagram? What’s the point? I have no desire to need a social media profile now that I have a girl and I have no desire to show off other than on dates with her.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:39 PM
3

This should be the top comment. Not that getting walked on bs. You either need to call them out if it’s obviously to attract other guys, or ignore it if it’s not a big deal. Most of the time it is, and they’re fishing for a a guy, a fight with you or they just don’t like you as much anymore.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:35 PM
-7

Uh ok…this is not the end all be all everyone. She could very well be looking for dudes to DM her. Don’t assume you just “have to be a fucking man” about it. JFC talk about toxic masculinity. Sometimes, you gotta ignore it, but sometimes you gotta put your girl in check, not everyone has to bow down to girls doing whatever they want all the time if it disrespects your relationship
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:30 PM
5

I think all are in play. Perhaps you’re super cool, fun and popular but physically unappealing. Perhaps that would be someone’s deal breaker. Not everyone’s though.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:02 AM
1

I wonder what the minimum level of physical attractiveness looks like
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:46 PM
1

I will agree, in this day and age, they’re probably calling him a simp lol. I was just trying to be encouraging.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:20 PM
1

Guess you haven’t had enough experience to know that not all people are the same.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:29 PM
1

Or not. I mean some people send this to friends to show off that people admire them. Have you ever been in bed with a girl before? lol
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:36 PM
2

It’s possible she’s just saving the compliment? You don’t compliment a girl you like. As backwards as that sounds. You just talk to them. If they don’t reciprocate in the same amount of communication or more, it’s time to move on.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:16 PM
1

In the same but may end soon dunno
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:25 AM
3

Fasho have a good one
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:07 PM
17

Well she may want to be serious again too but that’s not up to her. If you stand your ground im sure she’ll either suggest other things until you agree or eventually just come over. Don’t expect sex just have a good time with her and it may happen. Also, if not then no big deal. Seems like you’re in a good place
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:04 PM
129

She left you, she doesn’t make the decisions. You did good. Don’t talk to her anymore. She will come back
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:24 PM
0

Ok but does this solve how entitled they are?? Lol nope
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:48 PM
1

Yes 200% stop wanking. I do it 1-2 times per day and I wish I did it 1-2 times per week
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:42 PM
1

Thanks but you are wrong and so are others. It’s ok, sometimes people disagree with me and insult me. Have a shitty day, douche.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:08 PM
1

You and clearly others are easily deceived by the rest of the paragraph. Perhaps there’s no ill intent. All I’m saying is “a few tears is fine” has some weight to it that you’re saying isn’t there. It’s ok to disagree, but coming in and telling me you become “stupider after reading my comments”….that’s the dumb move.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:58 PM
1

lol I don’t need to get off the Internet because you’re a dick. I’m pointing out the problem with the first two sentences in the original comment but if you want to ignore that and call me stupid that’s your douchey prerogative “This isn’t a friendly debate” you’re right cuz of people like you.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:14 PM
0

I just think you’re blatantly ignoring what the first sentence implies because the trailing sentences seem to suddenly make up for it.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:14 PM
0

I disagree. They are saying that when a guy gets “teary eyed or has a few tears” it’s perfectly fine, while CLEARLY indicating that a a guy can’t fully cry his eyes out, but seeing a few tears when they do Is ok. I don’t see the frequency of crying sessions is indicated in their statement.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:08 PM
-6

I am totally ok with the rest of their paragraph but does that just completely abolish the first sentence?
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:25 PM
4

Yeah, it’s pretty ridiculous. I’m not saying to control it or stop it but a man should be able to cry his fucking guts out if he needs to and women shouldn’t bat an eye. It’s a human thing to go through not a women thing.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:24 PM
-7

No, you’re just an asshole and also did not understand the point I’m making, but ok. Condescending dick
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:22 PM
-9

I’m not looking to pick a fight. I read their comment and their first sentence implies if they cry a lot then it’s a bad thing. That’s what the problem is. But go ahead, assume I didn’t read and completely miss the reason I commented.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:22 PM
2

a few tears don’t matter So if we’re just straight up crying we’re being an embarrassing weak man? That’s pathetic. We have feelings and emotions. I cried like 5 times during coco. People need to grow up
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:12 PM
8

It’s ok to try just a bit more subtly if they are resistant or reluctant at first. Sometimes that’s a part of the test. To act uninterested and you need to be unfazed. Not like a fool tho. There’s a line
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:28 PM
6

I think what you mean is that most people are dumb as fuck. They don’t understand nuance. Things are just black and white. Like the politics thing you mentioned, everyone has to pick a side. Why is society so far gone from questioning everything?
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:22 PM
19

This and when you’ve made her laugh after having a nice time, gtfo. End it on a good note and that will always be the last memory she has of you.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:44 PM
1

My gf stares at me and at first it was kinda weird but then I realized she’s looking to me for validation, strength and confidence. I stare at her back knowing im in control and fuck her hard.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:08 PM
3

I hope this is true rather than just straight up flirting with my friends
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:38 AM
15

They would just act like he’s weird. “Hi I’m joe, what’s your name” They’re drunk dancing to loud music in a club. She ditched him already. It’s over.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:03 PM
5

Sadly yeah. She can do that if she wants while op should just be happy he got some.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:59 PM
4

Damn
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:50 PM
25

Solid aF advice.
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:33 PM
2

You seem like a really nice and reasonable person. It’s a breath of fresh air, truly. You’re the perfect example of an exception to what I have noticed and I really do appreciate that. My whole point is, girls (and guys too) like you are RARE and that needs to change. In fact, I was expecting you to insult me and disregard my thoughts entirely but at least you acknowledge them and even offer to read a pros and cons list. That’s awesome. Just goes to show you what I’m taking about. I’ll make the …
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:40 AM
1

Well that’s not my goal. My goal is for more girls to be sympathetic towards the struggles of man. Obviously Everyone is different and there are loads of variability but like I said, we can make a pros and cons list to discuss each point.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:34 AM
1

I mean, you make a very fair point that should be acknowledged. I’m simply saying girl problems do not equate in negativity to a guys problems. I know there’s no real way of knowing unless I wake up as a girl but I truly believe that there’s a difference.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:26 AM
2

Being safe and respected for as a girl is probably a lot more common then the average guy gets any sort of appreciation, respect, and kindness at all. I’m sorry, but there as huge disconnect. If you want I could make a detailed pros and cons list.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:23 AM
0

Exactly. Girls can be complete pieces of shit and still get what they want in life with everyone supporting them. Guys? Not so much. You have to be very gifted in the looks department or an overall great, funny, smart, popular guy just to get some respect. Basically, woman are given the benefit of the doubt. Guys are trash until they prove themselves.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:06 AM
2

Ok, so some girls get sexually harassed sometimes. That’s fucking horrific. I still believe it is psychologically much harder to be a man. It’s more mentally taxing than simply having to avoid dark alley ways at night and revealing clothing.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:05 AM
0

I really don’t think that’s worse than not being wanted, listened to, treated with respect, access to casual sex., etc… I know girls deals with all sorts of problems that men cannot understand, but adding them all up and generally speaking, I really don’t think it’s harder than being a man. Perhaps it’s negligible or not comparable but man we could sit here and make a list of pros and cons.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:49 PM
-7

Life must be so hard being desired…
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:44 PM
38

Awesome. I’ve been wanting to try
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:24 PM
11

Yeah wtf. That’s a red flag imo but that was never mentioned
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:58 PM
14

Hell yeah. Best way to look at it.
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:57 PM
4

Meh. Work out, dress nicely, show interest but act like they need to impress you too and of course, make her laugh.
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:10 PM
2

Finally someone saying it like it is.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:37 PM
2

I was hoping there was a reason my girl posts selfies once in a while. It’s hard to believe she’s just “sharing when she’s feeling good about herself”
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:43 AM
1

But why share the selfies to begin with? Why else other than attention? If you’re seeking that doesn’t that mean you’re not satisfied with the attention from your partner? I’m just curious how that isn’t disrespectful to your partner.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:31 AM
2

I mean, there IS a level of decency and appropriateness for posting on social media in general. You shouldnt post WHATEVER you want especially when in a committed relationship. You’re not changing the world like Malala because you want to be rebellious and adored with sexy pics.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:28 AM
2

Why would she want attention from other men if her man is “enough”
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:25 AM
-1

Lol ok…but it IS possible, right?
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:24 AM
4

Your second to last paragraph is so damn true.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:48 PM
15

I totally agree with your approach but girls that are hot want to be the ones to chase. You have to not talk to her much. I know, tragic part about modern dating. It fucking sucks.
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:29 PM
1

I spit in her face and runaway! Wtf do you think JFC
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:33 PM
1

Hell yeah! Go after what you want and ignore people who shame you for it! It’s ok to not like sluts! They let many dudes inside them and that’s gross like what is special about sex and romance if you let everyone have the former?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:30 AM
0

Lmao a girl asking for advice? If you want to get leg just walk up to literally ANY guy and tell them. Maybe start off small and vulnerably let them know the truth. Tell them you don’t do this often tho cuz they might think you’re nasty for being so easy
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:44 PM
3

I would just ask it back and hear what their example is before saying anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:34 PM
-1

Lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:38 PM
2

Lol duh. You really think women here on Reddit aren’t doing mental gymnastics to dodge this one? Just look at dating apps. You’ll get uggo chicks leaving you on read like they’re better than you cuz some slightly taller guy wants to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:32 AM
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Lol for sure thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:26 AM
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Right but if ur waking up in the morning and take a selfie in bed I feel like it’s questionable. Document it or show it off? There’s nothing. Wrong with wanting to show off but why if u have a bf? Why care if others see you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:14 PM
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I feel like women settle and just lie because there’s no proof. They settle because the man that’s willing to stay, is just good enough. Girls don’t tell us the chads they go after but failed because they know it would hurt us. Help me believe otherwise. I feel Ike my girl is settling sometimes. Like, why post a selfie on Instagram if ur happy with ur bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:49 PM
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This is a really good question. My girl goes out and flirts with a hot guy gets her or his number and I’m none the wiser. If they chat and hit it off she will debate on who to choose and if he’s hotter then game over. No amount of confidence is going to stop a girl from moving in to a taller attractive male. Can’t wait to read these mental gymnastic comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:43 PM
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Are you fat? What’s your height? What’s your face like ?
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:11 AM
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That’s subjective and stfu like I’m going to believe some random Redditor being an asshole because they don’t like the phrase “explore someone’s body” grow up
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:15 PM
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Not really. Exploring someone’s body is normal af. Did OP ever say he would tell her those words exactly? If she’s dtf then exploring each other’s bodies would be a normal thing to say imo
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:45 PM
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Fair just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:22 PM
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Lol they’re not losers if they’re curious about your promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:12 PM
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My girl said around 50 so I know it’s more like 100. I’m at around 25 but it would be more if I didn’t get into relationships so often! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:10 PM
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I slut shame. I find it disgusting. Girls can have sex easily. If you’re putting out for ever mildly hot dude at a party or club every weekend. You’re a disgusting slut. I might fuck you, but I’m not interested in dating someone where lots of guys have been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:55 PM
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Why? Why say something so dumb? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:54 PM
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2-5 dates depending
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:05 PM
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I could go on all day but I gotta catch a flight in the morning! Adios.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:59 AM
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Fasho I can’t stand bullshit like that. You’re good.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:56 AM
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Dude that guy is tripping and so is everyone Down voting you. You’re not seeking approval, you’re literally just explaining what happened and what that guy asked with examples of proof. Then then he’s all like “woah why are you trying to prove it to me.” What a lil bitch imo. Don’t let Redditors make you feel crazy. You may slightly be overthinking the situation with the girl but let it be lesson to not expect shit from anyone. And expect Redditors to not have any sympathy lol.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:51 AM
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Lol dude hes literally answering the questions you asked explained that he has things to do. He’s just wondering why this girl showed enthusiasm and then canceled on him with no rain check. Girls are just fickle , not always upfront about things and op is learning that. You don’t need to be a dick and ignore the answer to your question he gave you. JFC
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:49 AM
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Everyone guy wants to fuck, some just aren’t desperate enough for it and make it is easy to seem indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:54 PM
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Lmao that’s a reasonable emotion? “Oh no, he’s just a little shorter?! 😱I was raped” Gtfo of here cuz that’s a fucked up thought to have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:04 PM
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Damn that seems like a pretty honest and accurate description. As a 5’9 person, It hurts that I’m not in the “whats good” range and I feel bad for shorter homies. On the flip side I’m sure the rules aren’t extremely strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:28 AM
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Deciding you’re weak or a loser because you’re sad or passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:06 PM
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OP is simply stating that emotionally intimacy and romantic intimacy are not and shouldn’t be mutually exclusive. Then you proceed to explain how people can’t rely on one person for social interaction. Sure, that’s obvious. That’s not the point. The point is that there should be a level of emotionally intimacy in a romantic relationship and to disagree with that is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:43 PM
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Very well put. We need to be careful with how we address the subject and express our point. Otherwise, anything productive will be discredited.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:59 PM
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Not at all that’s ridiculous. Now emotional support is going to be dangled over our heads from our own girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:24 PM
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“We can’t be your therapist “ Is basically the entirety of what you’re trying to say. OP is asking for basic emotionally intimacy from their partner in which is often lacking from experience. Instead of addressing literally any other possible cause, it’s you and many girls favorite go to response. “We can’t be your therapist” Again, we’re not asking for that. We have guy friends, we have therapists, (often many do not), but when we were seeking a romantic partner it’s as if emotional connection …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:32 PM
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I’m not raging. You just completely miss the point, continuously deny and add no other information to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:23 PM
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expecting an all encompassing package to fulfill your needs No, not asking for gender role related issues. Just asking for a friend is too much of you. You automatically jump to “you’re gonna get disappointed if you’re asking for everything” Yeah? Duh. Guys aren’t expecting y’all to solve our problems. Just listen to us like we would and do for y’all. it also isn’t fair to anyone to be the only source of emotionally intimacy Again, you’re assuming op is asking for girls to be our only emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:15 PM
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Jesus the mental gymnastics is insane. Never did he state that your partner needs ALL their needs met by them. It’s fucking crazy, for a partner to provide sexual and emotional intimacy is apparently asking too much. Girls always jump to, “we can’t be your therapist.” No, you don’t have to, but being a careless unempathetic person is not fair either and women are strongly fighting for the bare minimum in a relationship. To you, to a lot of girls, apparently guys are simply tools for financial st…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:48 PM
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So glad I didn’t have to write this. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:19 AM
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Man, I’m a 5’9’ dude and I can tell you that you have to either be taller/super handsome and confident, or you’re sleeping with average women to get those numbers up. And it’s not that big of a deal. It’s sad we out so much respect into our sexual body count. Unfortunately it’s social proof for girls so we kinda have to if we want to enjoy sex frequently. At 27 I started to undertand what girls are attracted to. You not caring about them. That’s it. Just do your own thing and eventually you won’…
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:53 PM
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I think if you’re confident enough you can still do well, but there is definitely a limit. To pretend that doesn’t exist is ridiculous. I don’t care if you’re the most confident 5’9 dude in the world. When an equally good Looking facial featured person that’s also 6’3 comes by. Your girl is going to be interested and probably check them out. I would avoid looking out of courtesy. When I’m not around, look all you want! Try to not be an goober and stare in front of me. It’s rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:53 AM
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Over rated tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:13 AM
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I will read these thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:24 PM
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What studies? I literally just saw a post to an article that said men are more empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:14 PM
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Why are you out here painting men as bad? Like the post is literally calling out women and instead of Defending yall just attack men. That’s not gonna solve anything. The point here is that some women are callous and some guys are too but more often than not I feel that women are the least empathetic. Then you go on and explain “y’all just whine about it more” stfu dude you’re literally perpetuating the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:08 PM
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Just because guys do it too doesn’t mean that women don’t do it more often. It’s a one of their go-to insults like, oh he’s just short or oh he’s got a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:47 PM
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OP didn’t say that. He’s describing how that phrase is pure condescending and patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:46 PM
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I personally like them although none of them are truly perfect. They’re pretty but they all have different pretty features in unique ways and non truly carrying all of them. Oddly enough. They mostly have very pretty faces, they’re constantly magnified and in the spotlight tho so that might be why you think they’re tiresome to look at at this point. Now, if Kylie had real lips, eyes, mouth, tits and ass. Hot damn!! Otherwise, I know she’s fake so I don’t care. If Kim were just a bit taller and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:42 AM
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Accurate take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:38 AM
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Attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:02 AM
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Cuz their dads knew what was up. I didn’t have one. One day, after I was about to lose another hot chick, I decided “fuck it” I want to learn to keep them. I read 3% and other YouTube stuff and bam! Still dating her.
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:26 PM
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lol your example doesn’t speak for everyone. Also, stop bashing red pullers. Or don’t, you clearly don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:26 PM
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Average man does his best to make his tinder profile as awesome as possible. Is lucky if he gets a date or 2 that month. Pretty lucky if he gets laid from it. Plenty of conversation with all the women, might even pick up a girl who’s 4-6/10 while out with his friends and get lucky too that month. Average or even slightly below average girl on tinder. Throws up a single close up photo of her face to obscure to hide her average body. Gets tons of matches from lame dudes. A couple slightly above av…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:19 AM
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Hey man, this post literally asks a hypothetical to view a mans perspective and yet someone still does mental gymnastics to suggest how they would be better off as a man. Somehow still making men look bad and here you are replying to ME like I have the weak come back? Stfu dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:33 PM
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Wow that must be so hard for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:49 PM
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Sure, civility. It’s not much to ask for in a relationship. I know it goes both ways but in my experience, girls are least civil when dating their man. I want someone who makes decisions on their own too. Don’t misunderstand me when I’m telling you straight up, I just want someone who is civil and thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:43 PM
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Respect is something that’s provided until proven it’s not deserved. You don’t assume everybody sucks unless you’re a cynic. You give them the benefit of the doubt. After time and time again of specific examples of callousness, you start to lose faith in humanity. It’s a game of who’s the least needy, the least vulnerable, the best out of a hand-full of friends , you don’t understand and may never will. It’s ok. I want her to have a mind of her own, I want her to be challenging, I want to have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:33 AM
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Was never asking for mindless affection to fit your argument. It’s like you didn’t even read what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:12 AM
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I think a huge problem is the lack of respect, compassion, cant discuss emotions without not liking her man anymore, the constant need for their man to be better all the time without any reason or effort on their part, wants all the modern qualities and respect of a man but still wants to shit test and ignore a mans needs. Men don’t need anything, they make Money, if they need something, god Forbid she’s gonna listen and be supportive. Then ask for a bag. Men aren’t wanting a robot that is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:45 PM
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You wouldn’t wonder why he doesn’t want to do it with you? It’s a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:14 PM
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Jesus, thank you for the solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:53 PM
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Wow you’re so enlightened. You and every other girl are just adding unnecessary details to fit your scenario. Thats it. there’s nothing to fear… Ok you’re not being told to fear anything I don’t want to rape my partner Nobody asked you to do that lmao wtf I’d rather be with some who wants what I want And there it is folks, you discretely state you wouldn’t stay with this person. Was that so fucking hard? people are free to go No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:51 PM
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God forbid someones admits to feeling less respected by their partner. It’s like women have a constant facade they must keep up. “We don’t get jealous”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:22 AM
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I would if they just asked. They just hate feeling vulnerable I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:35 PM
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Honesty if I had a fine ass robot I that could cuddle me after I fuck it’s nuts and bolts out that would be dope. My problem with girls is the constant need for drama, the man to improve, and if I show emotion I’m weak or less attractive. If I can eliminate that stress from my life and still get attachment and pussy that would be nice. I wouldn’t want it though, I’d prefer a humans emotions. Girls just seem so god damn callous these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:22 PM
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Interesting, I think that while there are certainly more shitty option to sift through, it’s still beats getting less attention. I understand what you’re saying, no reason to complain and believe X has it better, but thats just the reality of things. Yes, you’re right, it gets me or anyone nowhere if they complain. Some solidarity and understanding from the opposite gender would be appreciated but not required. Agree to disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:24 PM
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Dude you just can’t admit that women have way more options? I’m not telling you to feel guilty or to do something about it. That’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:18 PM
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I didn’t say every average male doesnt get laid. Im just saying it’s significantly harder for average man to get some kind of relationship/ hookup then it is for an average women. I think most Women can get laid or relationships at the drop of a hat. Are they going to all be good experiences? Surely not, but the opportunity is there. More so for average women than the average man. Your statistics aren’t really an accurate way to measure that. Women have a privilege in getting attention the way m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:41 PM
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Look, average is subjective so there’s no real way to prove anything here, we’re simply sharing perspectives. I don’t want myself or others to waste time feeling like the victim in life, I myself do just fine. I’m very fortunate for that. I just see average to decent looking guys struggling for interactions with women and because they’re not “exceptional” or that they have a slight social anxiety they will have less success in dating in general. Maybe I’m wrong though it’s just what I’ve noticed…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:09 AM
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Ok so your point is that guys have to suck it up and life’s not fair. Gotcha thanks. “Accepting they won’t ever be a play boy” I don’t think you understand why that’s fucked up to perpetuate. If average girls can go and fuck/ date the top guys no problem but average guys can’t even fuck/ date average women, do you see the problem here. Let’s not even add “real life dates” to this equation. Purely on a dating app. Most Guys are screwed, girls can pick and choose what they want, relationship, hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:30 PM
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Hook ups? Relationship whatever…girls will have a fuck ton more opportunity and that is why guys are bummed. That the reality of it. You have it easier plain and simple. Not your fault or anything but damn, give an average guy a chance if you’re average too. Or don’t I guess you don’t hav to do anything . Idk about 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:28 PM
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Haha for sure. It’s sure hard to measure that. I just think that average women will have guys fawning over them while average guy will be working his ass off. You ever see the tinder study where a guy made a fake female account, literally photo shopped a pigs nose on her and STILL got a fuck ton more attention then an average dudes profile. Side by side. If that doesn’t give you an idea of why dudes are out here bummed out then idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:15 PM
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Ok then. The answer is just yes. If that’s all you’re asking 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:49 PM
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Lol of course. Sex makes us feel good and we want to feel good. It’s not personal towards you. Second, if he’s not communicating with you on a deeper issue, you have bigger problems than worrying about sex. Ay ay ay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:43 PM
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Girl only want one thing. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:31 PM
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Honestly, which one of you bitch ass simps IS paying for stupid shit like this? Show yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:14 PM
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I think the real problem here that women aren’t accepting is that the average women thinks they are too good for an average man but the average man thinks they are good enough for average women and get treated like dirt. That being said, a lot of people are straight up pieces of shit which conflates everyone’s idea of what is really going on. Average women > average man = life’s unfair. Don’t get me wrong, there are shitty people in all of us, but there’s truth to what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:19 PM
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Lol you mean you truly believe girls aren’t using their “assets” for more attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:09 PM
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Wrong again, it’s because you’re not perfect bro and that Chad over there wants to have sex. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:58 PM
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Stupidity is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:56 PM
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Lol dude some women are so cruel for no reason. Always deflecting blame and putting men down for no reason other than it makes them feel powerful. I have tried having reasonable conversations with people. It’s not just women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:16 PM
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It’s not a facade it’s just having a nice body girls would notice. Not going to pretend I’m not doing it for looks and there’s nothing wrong with that. Why does everyone think being altruistic requires you to not give a shit about vanity at all. We’re living in a material world. We might as well use it to our advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:38 PM
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Why does it matter? Why beat around the bush? I like to feel strong but I would be lying if I said I didn’t want to attract girls with a nice body. I’m just being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:23 PM
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True, but that’s pretty sad. The average man is unattractive to the average women. The average women is attractive to the average man. Wouldn’t you agree that women have a higher sense of entitlement because of guys throwing themselves at them or for whatever reason. If so, don’t you think something should be done about this entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:53 PM
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All he is saying is nobody is entitled to either. If they want to withhold something out of control, either gender can do withhold whatever the other values more in a stupid “if I don’t get what I want, then you don’t either”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:51 PM
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Lol what Are you confused about? Op laid it out pretty simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:49 PM
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Hell yeah thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:42 PM
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How do I know my gf isn’t with me cuz she couldn’t be with the player guy? (They’re still friends and hang out occasionally, says he’s attractive but not attracted to him like that) We’ve been dating for a while now long term and while we used to fight a lot things are getting better. She’s still very argumentative and I wonder if she as this argumentative with other dudes. I asked and she said yes everyone knows she’s argumentative. We are happy and on good terms but sometimes I wonder if she t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:03 PM
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I think it’s in everyone’s prerogative to “date up” but there are nuanced complications that cause a lot of distress to themselves and others in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:11 AM
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Woman can and will try to “date up” to put it simply I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:18 AM
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I don’t dislike your answer. Hope you don’t mind me asking, but would you agree that there are guys who are more physically attractive than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:30 PM
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How do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:27 PM
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Interesting. So, that being said, can you use a rational thought to fight the feeling of being lesser? How does one Ignore wondering if they’re lesser than others if a girl has mentioned being attracted to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:20 PM
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Ok, I believe it’s rational to want to feel desired as much as another guy because if you aren’t desired as much as another guy then you might feel less worthy generally than the other guy. Hence, rational feeling of not wanting to be less than someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:12 PM
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Lol ok sorry you think your question is more reasonable and not pertaining to mine. I’ll attempt to answer why it’s rational if you do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:09 PM
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So it’s irrational to want to feel desired for? What’s your point and why do you think it’s irrational to want to feel desired for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:07 PM
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What is irrational about wanting to feel desired for as much as another guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:49 PM
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How is your question not answered? It doesn’t have to do with having a complex. At least I don’t think. It’s also perfectly normal to want to feel desired for. It’s hard to tell if your SO won’t admit it to you. The way I see it is that people go after what they want and can get. They’re not necessarily settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:44 PM
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I totally get that. If I’m trying to just bang, I have a wide range of people to hook up with, if they’re less attractive than me they most likely want a relationship or I at least can’t be obvious I just want sex. ( not always the case but mostly) If they’re hot, then they probably want to do the same to me, whereas I think I’m hot so I go after sex and relationship cuz I could go either way. Then I get left by the hot girls, but I discovered how to keep the hot girl and I often wonder if she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:34 PM
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Would you want to be settled for? Would you want to be the not so hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:30 PM
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Downvoting cuz that’s obviously not true and dumb. Who told you this? Jfc is annoys me that you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:24 PM
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Great post dude!
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:14 PM
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Lol people lie and inflate their numbers. If not, they’re not discerning, trying to get their numbers up, super attractive or a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:14 PM
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Tell her you have a gf and if she’s cool with that just tell her you don’t want your gf to find out. That way it looks like you live with your gf and not your parents.
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:09 AM
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Thank you dude best wishes to you as Well 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:57 PM
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Yeah and fuck that. I go after who I want, if my partner didn’t do the same. I wouldn’t want to be with them. I fear I’m in that situation :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:43 PM
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No thought that complex was men projecting what they see on women. They can only be one or the other? Am I wrong? I also found another flaw, I think women may have sex quickly with the guy who won’t stay so she “can get some while she can” the other guy is easy so she doesn’t have to worry about him leaving. Everyone needs to adopt the mindset of the guy who isn’t going to stay, otherwise someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:36 PM
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True, I’m generalizing. How does one find quality female friends? I have a couple, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:01 PM
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You have a good point. It’s sad but not entirely true. Most girls that are friends are pretty lame friends. Not all though. It’s like they only care about status and shallow material things at the end of the day. They don’t care if they bond and relate to your, connecting in a deeper lever. It’s like they can’t even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:26 PM
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She put out for me fairly earlier. We made out on the first date. More on the second or third time hanging we went further and I knew I could have done more on the first but I didn’t care to rush it. I think she may not do those things for me out of lazy ness and she hasn’t done that for other boyfriends but she certainly does other nice things. I think the difference here is that I’m in a long distance relationship. I don’t think she’s a sociopath putting on a fake persona, but some small part …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:24 PM
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The incentive is companionship. If that’s what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:18 PM
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Yeah, fuck that. I’m not jumping through hoops if another man doesn’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:17 PM
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They don’t. That was never my argument. However, they can if they want to. It’s not necessarily a bad thing if they still get laid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:09 PM
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There’s a chance that she’s fucking a guy early cuz she knows he’s high value and won’t stick around so she won’t put out quickly. The guys she waits for is just good enough that she thinks she has a chance with him. THAT ladies and gentlemen is why we won’t stick around. If you gave yourself away to someone else immediately, then your either do the same for us or you’re settling for us. (If the above paragraph scenario happens) Don’t put out for guys you think won’t stick around or don’t put ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:30 PM
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There’s another problem. She may fuck the “fuck boi”guy cuz she knows he won’t stick around. She waits for the husband material cuz he’s obviously interested in her. This forces everyone to have to act like theyre also a fuck boi, otherwise someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:20 PM
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Definitely dude. I think all we can do to raise our value and never worry is to remain the NSA for as long as possible enjoying ourselves as much as we can until we feel satisfied and found one who seems like a genuinely good person. Unfortunate for me I found out too late and I’m in a relationship with the girl of my dreams. The biggest fear of mine is not being hers. I fear that girls settle. Never be settled for!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:11 PM
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Omg I totally understand now. Basically, the girl may put out for the fuck boi because she knows he won’t commit so she’s getting sex while she can. If she doesn’t put out for the “husband material” it’s Basically saying that there’s a chance he’ll stick around because he’s not as desired as the guy she knew wouldn’t stick around. This isn’t always the case but I think there’s truth to what im saying and that’s why some “husband material” people are offended
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:09 PM
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I mean, if the guy she wants to date leaves after finding out she’s easy, or just wanted sex then she lost her chance at being with him long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:07 PM
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Ohhhh i see your issue. Let’s say she DID put out on the first date with the fuck boi. This may seem not fair to the “perfect guy.” Right? In this case, if I were the “perfect guy”, one of 2 thing sos happening, she’s just using him cuz she doesn’t like his personality, or she’s using him cuz she knows he wont commit so she’s getting sex while she can. If a girl gave herself away to someone else early because she fears she doesn’t havent a chance at a relationship with him, but she doesn’t do so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:57 PM
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They fuck the others cuz they don’t care about them. For the husband material, they may not want to seem easy, because they desire husband material MORE! Also, they would still def want to hook up on the first date, but they have more to lose if they just hook up and leave. Think of it that way!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:53 PM
2

Yes, she would jump the husband material bones too!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:48 PM
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I think girls will have sex with some guys quickly knowing they don’t want anything more. Girls will also have sex quickly with the guy they want to be with too. If not, then yeah that’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:38 AM
1

I am I try to be. I encourage her to be the same. She’s slowly opening up. We’re pretty damn happy even if it meant going through rough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:01 AM
2

But they’re not getting her commitment either. The one who is husband material could do the same thing too. If he refuses to give attention, she may end up putting out thus become the other guy. And then, choosing to stay eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:40 AM
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You have to consider it being both. They want to fuck you AND stay with you. It IS a compliment. The other guys are just fucking and may or may not stay, sure, but that doesn’t mean they are better than you. They are just doing something different. Try to imagine that although they may be seen as “players” you’re the player that prefers a relationship with someone cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:05 AM
1

Oh for sure. Not denying that. I wouldn’t stay with that person anymore though. The trust has definitive proof of being broken. If there weren’t a bigger red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:53 AM
1

Hell yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:49 AM
2

Yeah, it’s that or leave. Probably better to leave tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:45 AM
0

Spot on, if women want the respect they deserve why do they think a man is weak if he shares his feelings? Talk about the most disrespectful thing ever. No, because that’s just a feminine thing to do, right? Or let me guess, they don’t do that, right? Funny, every girl doesn’t do that whenever it comes up in conversation. Funny how there’s no example of someone doing that when the argument comes up on Reddit. Sorry, but just because I don’t have recorded evidence doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:40 PM
2

They have dudes on the side they can hit up whenever to comfort them, emotionally cheat, actually cheat with. Just assume they’re not trusting until they show you otherwise. Wife material is a looooong vetting process now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:39 PM
2

It works because girls want what they can’t have. If X talks to her then she knows he likes her. If Y is distant then she’s going to wonder why he doesn’t like her. The guy that likes her less will always seem more interesting. It takes time for her to realize why you’re worth not leaving. You gotta be great enough so she sees through the facade of everyone and chooses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:00 PM
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No like I totally get that but i mean. Could you explain a little bit more as to why you let older guys see you be yourself and why you hide it from guys your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:24 PM
4

Woah wth can you unpack that second paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:00 PM
2

Good for you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:17 AM
1

What do you do if you think this might be this case but your SO would never admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:14 AM
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I think a very attractive man is different to different people. I’m purely going by aesthetics, when a lot of women will see right through a good looking weirdo imo maybe I’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:41 PM
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Very attractive women>attractive women>very attractive man> average women>attractive men>ugly women> average man> ugly man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:31 PM
7

This
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:28 PM
2

Definitely, there’s a limit. If they’re tasteful, it’s ok. They still my indicate slightly riskier behavior but whatever. We get one life and if people want to have a couple cool looking tats then so be it. Excessive tats def reflect on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:27 PM
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It’s a very sad but true point. You are constantly being compared to people next to you. It’s good To have friends tho. Humans tend to stick with similarly attractive people. Try to just be friends with everyone and have a good time. Eventually you’ll run into a situation with a man that’s taller, funnier and more handsome than you. All you can do is do things that make you feel confident enough to not worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:01 AM
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Yup I learned this recently. Was hanging around girls and I jokingly made self deprecating comments but guess what their reactions were? Makes me dislike reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:57 PM
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Of course women want attention and that’s not far off from what is provided with love. I don’t think men are stingy with that. That’s subjective. Like most of these discussions. I feel girls are the ones enjoying casual sex more cuz it’s easier and a long lasting relationship is only sought after once their casual sex is over. Guys try so hard to build themselves up enough just to have casual sex and girls are shocked when they don’t want to stay with them? It’s just apples an oranges and I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:55 PM
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Lol what a bunch of bull. Girls are more than just physical looks. Either genders status and attraction are raised by outside factors. In fact, I would say it’s harder for men to be attractive UNLESS they do all those extra things where as for women, they JUST need to look decent to get our attention. Guys have the short end of the stick. That’s the truth. Stop spreading misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:39 PM
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Yeah I totally get that. I understand it’s truly just a legal thing you can do for tax and whatnot but growing up it has always been romanticized and I appreciate that so maybe I’m just over thinking it. Of course I would take advantage of the benefits but I would also make sure there are equal consequences if the marriage is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:15 AM
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You say it goes with our saying, but does it? I figured that was the most important aspect about it. I understand there are tax advantages but I would only want to share that with some I consider a close companion. You didn’t even mention but I suppose that’s s given and you just wanted to share the other benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:05 AM
2

So for the insurance? Not because you want to bond with a companion...ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:58 AM
2

Yeah cuz fuck companionship... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:54 AM
1

lol wtf are you talking about? I’m simply trying to mediate an argument by a man Hater. Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:36 AM
1

It is cruel, but It’s not gender specific. Just a random piece of shit. Perhaps that’s occurs often than girls, that sucks. I think all genders need to not be assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:50 AM
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One weird af loser on a dating app is not “male cruelty.” You can unmatch that weirdo and not tak to him ever again. I have been in 5 relationships now and grew up in a top 10 metropolitan city in the US I’m taking about real world examples that I have personally experienced. I’m just saying it’s not a gender thing. It’s a shitty person thing. Both are capable of being shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:08 PM
1

I would say that was both cruel and rude. I don’t think so but we are now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:38 PM
2

Yeah that’s fuckdd up. Cant trust these hoes
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:48 PM
1

Hmm all my girlfriends have tried to make me super jealous and insecure by indirect and manipulative comments then they make me feel bad when I’m simply addressing a concern Hmmm a specific example Ok, one time I was planning on hanging out with a. Girl, the college basketball finals lasted a little longer cuz of double over time. I asked her if it were still ok that we hang out and had informed her what was happening. She then said she already had people to hang with and that she “felt really b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:44 PM
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Y’all be acting like men have all these conditions. Yeah? Well I’m sure women have a LOT more conditions maki g this argument invalid. We want them to be loyal, pretty and kind so what? Those are bare minimum conditions. We have to be loyal, attractive, kinda, SMART, FUNNY, POPULAR, WEAlTHY, COOL, WITTY. The list goes. Sure, our interest is conditional, but we don’t have a laundry list of requirements that gives our girl a reason to be bored that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:04 PM
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That’s not what I’m describing. I’m saying women do that to me. I don’t think it’s fair to say men are cruel and neglectful when I believe that from MY perspective about women. It’s not a gender thing is what I’m saying! People suck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:56 PM
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It’s funny because form my perspective women have always tried to make MY life worse so they can be comfortable. I’m still attracted to them and would like to have a relationship with them in hopes that the next one isn’t like the previous. I get your point. It’s a two way street though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:32 PM
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I’m not arguing now I’m simply stating what you’re doing which ads absolutely no substance other than “man are wimps and girls rule” lol congrats..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:28 PM
1

True, bud it’s the fear of being seen as lesser than someone for what they know. No matter how much I trust myself, I can’t beat something I don’t know. All I can do is study everything it seems?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:24 PM
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That’s what I try to do! However I don’t want to have weaknesses. I don’t need someone mansplaining something to me in front of my girl. Its not unlikely to expect that to happen but the more I know more in front of others the more I will be seen as worthy haha sounds kinda sad now that think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:21 PM
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I don’t think you’re understanding the point at all. Men don’t need companionship anymore than a women does. This isn’t a competition of which gender needs the least. Companionship is a normal thing for all humans to want, not necessarily need. It seem like you just wanna state that women are emotionally stronger or some bs. You don’t speak for all men or women. Wanting companionship is not an insecurity. You seem like a weird asshole. That just wants to point out women are better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:33 PM
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I have an extremely hard time focusing and retaining information especially if it’s not required. I need a couple textbooks or some good YouTube channels. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:27 PM
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Yet you be clowning on tinder for basically every girl. “I sure hope this is a witty enough ineundo and my pictures are just right” You’re being a fucking jester for girls in the dating scene. You can not perform and she will just think you’re not good enough to do that unless you’re hot as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:24 PM
3

“Stfu and stop complaining that women have it better than you”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:22 PM
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Absolutely an insecurity? Being in a relationship and wanting real companionship isn’t an insecurity, it’s a reasonable thing to expect of a significant other. Are you just blatantly admitting that girls doing give a shit about a guy wanting companionship? Why do you think that’s ok, laughable, or just don’t care? If a girl wanted companionship I would happy to be her friend. What exactly to do men not understand and we also understand nothing? That’s rude, short sided and can’t be entirely true…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:20 PM
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I feel that. Not only am I slow, but god forbid I have a joke to say at a bar or know any thing about word history. Or politics. Everyone always shuts me up cuz I don’t have a reserve of jokes in my head or know a ton of history. I can be charming and fun but when another dude is chilling with us he will out knowledge me in front of her most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:10 PM
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It’s ridiculously harder, but if I talk to my girl abkut it she says her guy friends get laid all the time...ya cuz theyre players. Most people struggle. I did fine, I just like being in an intimate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:42 AM
1

Lmao I didn’t even realize. My car just opens when I walk up to it with keys in my pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:53 PM
1

That’s awesome but also not required by me. Not a huge deal. Although that makes sense and I want to try it. Just seems like nice thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:48 PM
1

I don’t think so. I feel like I have heard of it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:36 PM
2

Forreal but how?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:28 PM
3

Women have tests that you Need to pass. That’s not simping. Telling them they’re so hot and messaging all the time or paying for photos is Simping. That latter to needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:17 PM
1

Much appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:08 PM
2

It’s interesting reading this because it’s ok to have casual sex I suppose but I think the problem with people is that it’s so much more accessible to you than it is for a man that people shame you for taking advantage of that opportunity. I think they’re just jealous and I’m guilty of thinking that way too. I suppose if I were a girl I would want to enjoy casual sex too. I think another thing we think about is if we did want to have a serious relationship, we would feel like we have worked so h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:07 PM
1

3 dates in ur serious about him. Otherwise ur too easy and it’s just for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:32 PM
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My redpill belief is that women’s love is completely conditional and I don’t think they’re capable of having true companionship that good friends have and that the truth is whatever they can get away with. My blue pill belief is that not all women are superficial and can see passed status and aesthetics to know a man and love him for his character. Not his popularity and financial gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:57 PM
2

I think that’s important to have. Can I ask you a hypothetical? I feel like if I’m with that person, but at the same time I have doubts, then I would try to address that with them in positive way to make it work. Let’s say they want it to work but they don’t want to compromise or meet halfway on what’s important to the other person or they agree to change and nothing changes, would you say it’s not meant to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:31 AM
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Hey this is great advice and a example of what women want. I just want people to remember there’s a line between witty banter and being straight up disrespectful. The line can be very hard to see some times. That is all
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:25 AM
3

I agree with you, but what if you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:13 AM
5

Oh My bad, not just sex but also conversation connection and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:35 AM
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It’s not about how she sees other men ya dingus. It’s about being desired for by your partner. If she’s just so so about the sex life or something but ok because the dudes financial stable or something. That would be fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:39 PM
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And why do they not want to you may ask? Cuz u either ugly or not boom. Life IS unfair. It’s ok to accept that. Yea, it sucks. You can still work your ass off to be more appealing!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:50 PM
1

Yo my girl said she wasn’t looking for anything serious and now she’s hooked
/r/seduction20/08/21 06:50 PM
3

Yes cuz selling sex is trashy af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:55 PM
1

Guess I will always have trouble then 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:04 PM
1

That’s not the only thing I would look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:05 PM
0

I would want them to date a man who grew up without a father like I did. The only way I know he’s a man who had to learn for him self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:54 PM
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This whole “you can’t be the bad boy and be the married type” is ridiculous. Fuck that. The men that are loyal to their marriage and have had enough experience are the real bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:56 PM
2

Those aren’t low standards. That is common decency which is a lot harder to come by than you think. My problem is people sacrificing looks because the “other qualities are good enough” I find that to be sad. When I’m with someone, I like everything about them including their “flaws”, I don’t hold some small aspect about their looks against them. I don’t say “well it’s ok cuz she’s really funny” which is totally what I suspect a lot of girls doing. Maybe not you but trust me, that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:41 PM
2

No, to one person it may appear to be setting to other is is exactly what they want. If one person is “better” that is up to them or their SO to decide. One may seem like their partner is more attractive than them but if the partner agrees, then there may be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:31 PM
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I think being exceptional is tied to looks after a certain extent and women are “willing to sacrifice looks for a good man” which is sad. Nobody should sacrifice. Just look for your equal or better. Looks are important, you can’t solely be attracted to someones personality and expect a good balanced romantic sex life. Although we see things differently, there’s still a fundamental animal instinct to seek physically attractive partners. That being said, were just doing what were biologically mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:15 PM
3

most people are having sex and getting married Lol where did you get this nonsense? more women are setting Yeah, that fucking sucks I don’t want to be settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:54 PM
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Perhaps I do not understand the gravity of verbal sexual harassment. I am sorry. I will take some time weighing out the pros and cons more but perhaps there’s no comparison and nor do I want to believe this. Maybe I’m blindsided by my own experience and interpretations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:04 PM
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Hey I think that’s gross but maybe don’t work at a bar at the age of 16. Some things require common sense. I’m not saying what they’re doing is right but what you have described does not make me think girls have it just a rough as guys do. That’s purely a specific situational instance where you are getting harassed. That doesn’t happen everywhere. You’re still adored by most people who are willing to help you far more then someone would help a dude out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:52 PM
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The purpose was to emphasize the contrast between men and women. She still got more swipes and messages. Just because you say it’s nothing doesn’t make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:04 PM
17

Unattractive women still get waaaaaaaay more resources than an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:02 PM
1

And if they don’t have baby mommas or stds what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:26 PM
2

I think most women will just find them more desirable the more they have slept with. Some women say they find it gross when it’s a lot but I think that’s just because they don’t think they can keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:14 PM
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here are the statistics What does this paper say exactly aside from the gender wage gap? Which is due to. A variety of reason including women taking leave to stay at home when the baby is born. There is a documentary explaining some of the reasons why there is a wage gap. infedelity rates Ok, so 50 year old men cheat more then 50 year old women. Well, maybe that generation was different. At the very least I would say it’s equal for most people aged 18-35 but I guess the study proves otherwise. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:23 PM
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Lmao a conventional trap for women?? What a joke. Single mothers are seen as strong and independent now. Scorn and mocked? By who? Random bitches on Instagram? Gmab. Literally no way out?!?? Omfg this is the most ridiculous comment. Women are favored in divorce...my mom was single and I turned out just fine. I feel like women have affairs more often and easily than guys. I’m sorry but your comment is mind blowing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:56 PM
6

My gf once told me she gets the whole rape fantasy thing, but it has to be a really hot stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:04 PM
1

Damn this is a pretty accurate description of how this can happen imo. I think paired with the man worried about it and trying to “please “ her is just a combination of old and trying too hard. I think the best solution is to either move on because of the incompatibility or completely revamping you mindset to be focused on his own life and or asking if he can see other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:06 PM
1

You’re over thinking it. The problem is a lot of women do not put in the effort to “woo” their man. They feel entitled to being woo’ed and that’s it. Not saying all women are like that. Just saying, it’s apparent that this happens. I know from experience. He’s not trying to objectify women. They demand to be treated as an equal yet they withhold kindness, consideration effort and often test their mans emotional strength. Like, if you’re not into us, then go find someone you like. Don’t ever sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:10 PM
2

This is a pretty accurate post. That being said, I will never do anymore for my gf then she does for me. No presents? Ok, no problem. No compliments ok, no problem. No “I love you”, ok no problem. Works like a charm. Never do more than your Girlfriend or wife does. If she asked why you don’t do X just say, I mean, why don’t you do X? Example # two COULD NOT BE MORE ACCURATE FOR A LOT OF WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:04 PM
1

I want a flat chest but I’m afraid push up, bench, etc will make it protrude further. I’m 5’9 155 lbs with some skinny fat. Something I can do to avoid make my chest too large?
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:46 PM
1

Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:20 PM
3

Because they’re dumber lmao. Makes sense to me. Inconsiderate dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:20 PM
0

This is exactly how it’s done...sadly, it’s play the game. :/
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:12 PM
6

No, being nice doesn’t mean you’re interested in me. Just means you’re nice. Going on a date would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:09 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:29 PM
4

In fact, how are you NOT acknowledging the points in each of my paragraphs? Im quite literally telling you how to get what you want and you’re just pretending it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:20 PM
1

I truly wish you would acknowledge the point I’m making instead of pretending that girls do not have It easier when it comes to dating, resources and social life. And thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:11 PM
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I know girls who have told me they do this. Get dates just for a free meal. Have guys cash app them from posting in instgram. Just because it doesn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Also, are you even trying? You really don’t have to invest much time at all. Just put on a shirt, jeans go to a bar and talk to a guy you like. I’m sure you have 10x the chance than a guy does at sleeping together and getting some free food. In fact, you’re the one holding the key to what you want. Shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:05 PM
3

No really, what exactly are you wishing you could do but can’t? You’re telling me you cant get a free meal on a dating app or go to a club and hook up the same night?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:48 PM
2

Huh? He’s just saying they are able to do that. The whole point we’re making...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:43 PM
2

What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:42 PM
5

I see your point but no matter how hard I try I can not get a girl to buy me a free meal after asking her out on one date. Or at least, would be very rare. Sure, she’s not living off of it, but it’s still sustenance. And does not include any other resource she may have. That’s just one example. Simply put, it’s easier. No matter how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah I mean it just seems easier for women to gather resources is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:47 PM
6

At least you don’t carry the burden of being a man your entire life which is arguably much harder. I wish I was born a women. Then I can just go to the bar and pick a guy I want to have sex with then maybe have him buy me dinner and then go home without giving a shit only to find a new guy next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:31 PM
7

So true. Women can simply be themselves. Guys have to be on their P and Qs at all times even when they act or say they’re just chilling or something. Really, they’re just playing it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:25 PM
2

I consider myself alpha if anything and I’m in a relationship. She’s my girl! Sure, there are guys she can find attractive that are taller, slightly more handsome and social but they ain’t me. Never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:22 PM
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This. The discrepancy is unreal but you’ll never hear a girl care to defend this. My gf was like, “wait you don’t fuck girls whenever you want?” Ugh..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:40 PM
3

Definitely, I mean, why not enjoy herself? I think if you can get her to only be with you, you’re doing good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:19 PM
2

While I think group C is enjoying themselves, I think it’s selfish to assume that others a are ok with their habits and should be discussed during a second date or so. On top of that, if you’re not comfortable with that then let them know you’re looking for something else. When I found out my girl was still dating around I told her I don’t want that. I told her it’s all or nothing, not some inbetween shit where others get a turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:16 PM
2

I think that girls have different reasons to fuck on the first date then we may think. She could just be looking to fuck and may not actually like that guy. The guy she makes wait a couple dates could be the guy she’s actually interested in. On the flip side, you could be the guy shes actually interested in, whether it be shallow for money, personality or something else, she’s wanting you as the long term partner! Should we be offended by this? I don’t think so, I think if anything she’s showing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:45 PM
2

Yeah, if she’s not enjoying it or you’re not having it then somethings wrong. Whether it be low libido, lack of attraction or withholding for Manipulation, both parties should be able to enjoy sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:36 AM
1

ThAts nice to hear. Salute to you I’d like to believe everyone agrees with that but I don’t know if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:57 AM
1

Just try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:47 AM
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I disagree, I think most people can’t fathom the thought of being settled for so it’s easy to call it insecurity on everyone else’s part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:18 AM
1

But what if you’re not? What if you’re not equally pretty in his eye but since he can’t get the prettier girls, he chose you? Wouldn’t that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:22 AM
1

It doesn’t make you feel settled for? At all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:20 AM
1

It’s pretty obvious that the people replying here cannot fathom the concept of being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:17 AM
5

Or the next best thing? Is that ok to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:16 AM
2

You don’t/wouldnt feel settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:12 AM
3

Curious to see her next response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:12 AM
10

Cum in my mouth
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:42 PM
5

Idk where you’re livin man but people are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:37 PM
1

I think I better questions would be, how often do you all have sex when not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:08 PM
1

Lol why? Having witty banter can peak her interest (spike her emotions) is the way i interpreted that.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:40 PM
2

It’s not bad dont listen to this guy. Except get number, not ig.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:39 PM
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Welll it gives me hope reading a girl type that out because I have had the same view from my perspective for a long time now. Most girls I meet seem to be very shallow and materialistic with no critical thinking and deep thought. So hey, maybe there’s hope for us after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:55 PM
4

What do they have to do to really stir your Interest? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:33 PM
1

Don’t expect a relationship...
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:00 PM
1

Where did our comments go?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:30 PM
7

Stayed in a long term relationship where she was clearly rude to me and didn’t value or respect as much as her ex or ex lover who she’s still hangs with cuz he doesn’t want to date her but she keeps trying while also holding on to me. It wasn’t all bad and she undoubtedly loved me a lot but in her own toxic cruel way that basically told me she is settling and not happy. Which is crazy because I’m awesome! Maybe not as much at that taller guy? Or the dj guy? When we started dating she drunkenly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:25 PM
1

I think I accidentally told my girl that I’m not exactly a player, I do ok and learned a lot so I can undoubtably bag chicks and I’ve had a lot of attention from them on Instagram posts tho so I think it speaks for itself but how can I come back from this without trying to tell her I’m a player? Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:23 PM
10

I went after the hottest girl I could get cuz she seemed interested. Little did I know how many problems she would bring..I’m guessing I wasn’t the hottest guy for her which stings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:18 PM
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Dude, men DO do it too. It’s not gender specific as much as you want it to be. However, women do it hardcore and more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:55 PM
2

The thing is, I’m pretty good looking. However I guess I’m not a 8-10 more like at least 6-7. I feel like an 8 though and I’m wel endowed. Still get treated like shit from this girl. I’m 5’9” so pretty average height and I’m working on my body. Plastic surgery is stupid but I wish I could be a couple inches taller :/ I think a sad fucked up problem is I indirectly told her I wasn’t quite a “player” like the guys she admires already and she’ll always compare me to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:09 PM
3

It sucks dude, 2 1/2 years of stress because she just didn’t like me as much as the other guys. I didn’t have a father. I almost wish she would tell me what they were like so I would know why she likes them so much more. Why can’t I be that person? Why can’t she fight for me like she fought for her ex? I feel worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:37 PM
5

Well, after reading all of this and thinking about my experience, I was definitely a in a relationship where I was at least slightly settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:14 AM
1

Welp, my gf just tried to commit suicide while dating me and now blaming me for being stuck in a hospital for 2 days. I had to break it off after she blamed me and I had to block her on everything. I do not want to be settled for either. I feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:59 AM
2

Woman want freedom to exploit horny men, they don’t have to respect these men just as we don’t have to respect them or whatever you want. Nobody has to respect anything they don’t want. Personally, it’s trash for trash people. If you’re disabled and that prevents you from gaining intimacy then maybe that’s ok. Otherwise, it’s just abuse and exploitation to satisfy greed and sexual urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:46 PM
1

Certainly, I think we both share some of these symptoms. She has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and I know there are overlapping symptoms. I do feel that she wouldn’t cheat on me for some reason although I guess I can never be too sure. I just don’t like to see potential things that she thinks are too subtle to see the motive. Leaving the bathroom door cracked?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:00 AM
2

Yes, it’s not so obvious as what is right but I do feel slightly taken advantage of. To be honest I don’t know. I was thinking about ending things but just recently she had thoughts of suicide and acted on it. Fortunately she’s ok. I don’t have a red pill strategy, I don’t mean to have a red pill mindset at all if I do. It’s only because I felt unfairly treated and lied to with no proof and I have had a somewhat similar interaction with an ex which is only why the thought is perpetuated. I only …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:38 AM
1

Yes. We’re also long distance. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:31 AM
1

I’m 29 and she’s 27
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:29 AM
1

Yes and yes. I think that she can’t resist her urge to show interest and affection in these guys while with me. No matter how subtle it may be, I wouldn’t do this to her. She wants her cake and eat it too but is denying it and there’s no actual cheating so it’s ok? I don’t understand. Tip towing around boundaries whether it be to make me upset or if she doesn’t think I notice and is actively trying to flirt. It makes me feel settled for but if one of these other good dudes made some moves she wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:27 AM
1

Ugh, I wrote them down so here it goes : A year ago I got in a fight with my brother and friend and I told her about it later that day. A day or so later she messaged my brother on Instagram and asked who won the fight? It was in a response to his Instagram story and she says it was a joke so idk what to think. I can let that go. Just weird. When she was visiting in town, I have two roomates walking around the house doing things. It’s a small space. When she went to go pee and left the door crac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:08 AM
2

Well, If you’re truly interested. I’ll tell you. And thanks I feel a close connection to my current gf that’s telling me I see my life with her, but there are also red flags that are telling me it will be stressful and maybe that should be avoided. It sucks, I hate it because I care about her so much. I can’t tell if I’m asking too much of her or if Im right half the time. I can’t tell how she really feels because there a part of me that see her hiding the whole truth about something or I’m para…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:54 AM
2

While I agree with that I am often disappointed. Perhaps my personal experiences happen to have led me to this thinking. Perhaps I can expect better but not too much. I know that’s vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:24 AM
2

I’m not TRP. I’m not fighting for it. You brought that up. I’m sick of the toxicity from both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:20 AM
2

So what’s your point? That hoping someone can be reasonable is stupid and the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:19 AM
1

Yeah, accept that people fucking suck and toughen up? Yeah, sounds like what an unempathetic person would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:16 AM
0

Lol, no. You’re clearly wrong. That’s irrationality? To hope for a better world? You cynical weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:15 AM
0

All I’m saying is people are exploiting and taking advantage of others at the cost of their suffering without much remorse. Nearly everyone including myself is guilty of these things to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:12 AM
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How am I a redpiller? You literally just described that being hopeful for someone to agree on something based on on logic while knowing the chances are unlikely is irrationality and just ending it there. I don’t want a discussion with you. You’re a bitter jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:08 AM
0

Because people are black and white. You can’t possible have two opposing opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:02 AM
0

So women like attention, except when they don’t. It’s such a beautiful theory. So.. useless You stating that this is “useless” is simply reaffirming my beliefs that you’re not understand why it is being mentioned here. To me it’s a reflection of their selfishness. People wants status attention fun or money and if they can get Resources to do so they will. They don’t want attention or to talk to people they don’t like and they are materialistic and shallow. If they can get resources and clout/com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:48 AM
-1

Fuck yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:04 AM
1

Thank you for acknowledging this. I feel a slight bit of solidarity and vindication and I need this right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:02 AM
-1

Because they’re being hopeful and optimistic. They’re hoping that they would see logic and reason and accept what they are arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:00 AM
1

My girlfriend slept with probably 100 dudes before me. Makes me sick to my stomach. She tolD me around 50 but I call bs. Nm I can do except trust her.
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:21 PM
2

Losers. They’re paying for fake love. It’s not real it’s just prostitution in the guise of “sugar baby” both parties are pitiful. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:47 AM
1

You need to make friends with some of them so you feel comfortable talking to girls in general.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:16 PM
1

Cuz it sucks? A few dudes get to be seen as players that most girls admire. If we’re not that type, any girl we haves gonna have that somewhere in the back of their mind no matter how confident you are. You’ll never be that guy...maybe I’m just cynical. Perhaps I can work on that and things will change? Fortunately I’m not too ugly haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:45 AM
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All I’m saying is even though it’s “illegal” in some states, it goes down on a regular basis, safe or not. Just because some people get busted for it doesnt mean 90% + of prostitutes don’t make money exploiting their body and horny dudes all the time. Cam sites are legal? You don’t consider that prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:50 PM
13

Legalizing prostitution would destroy the simp community? Cmon, let’s be real here, prostitution has been legal since cam sites existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:26 PM
5

So we have to suffer with the envy of a woman’s comfort to orgasm with an attractive stranger easily and act like it doesn’t bother most of us in hopes of getting a fraction of that. It doesn’t help that my gf reminds me her guy friends can get it when they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:59 AM
1

Thank you for letting me know what you believe. I do agree with you. Although I have not seen my girlfriend do that specifically, I have a small sense that she has or would subtly. When I addressed it with her she assured me that she wouldn’t and that I need to trust her. It’s crazy because I mostly do trust her, there are just some small things that worry me. I can’t tell if she doesn’t respect me as much and is waiting for someone better or if I’m just paranoid and she’s being very patient wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:34 PM
6

Thank you. You’re a good dude. I’m in a relationship with a girl who was certainly not prude before me. I know she’s loyal but I fear that when she goes out with or without me and sees a hot guy, she gives them that. “ I would totally fuck you look” If so, is this ok to do in a relationship? Teasing while never acting on it? Showing affection in front of your own SO? How am I supposed to handle this? Or, are there girls that don’t do this? I have seen plenty of girls in relationships where the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:18 PM
1

Yeah you just described my girlfriend. :( She’s loyal though. As far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:13 PM
16

Thank you, this whole reverse argument is nonsense. Guys typically lower their standards in hopes of getting action and girls literally don’t have to. Compete against 20 other girls? Yeah right, she can just get another hot guy or wait till the next day. Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:07 PM
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Sadly, growing up in a major metropolitan city ts the norm to promote being sex positive and shamed for suggesting modesty. Girls can literally go out get a new guy every week no problem. It’s sad af. I feel bad for like 80% of all men that hope they get A girls number that month.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:05 PM
2

I see what your problem is. You’re concerned whether she’s sharing a lot because she’s interest vs just being narcissistic. Maybe a bit of both? I totally get you but I would give her another chance seeing as how she likes you and you can’t really discover the extent of her issue until extended periods of time. I like how you’re cautious but she may have just been happy to share with you cuz she’s interested.
/r/seduction18/06/21 08:05 PM
7

315?!? You realize that’s like 157 pounds in each hand right? Him being able to do that at all must mean he is a pretty built guy alone so this post already seems like a troll. Maybe he’s 6ft + and built but damn even one rep is impressive to me as an average height average gym bro You said he was weak af. He got your number too.
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:39 AM
2

Well said
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:38 PM
17

😂
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:05 AM
8

Hell yeah! It’s about being awesome and finding someone who’s real!
/r/seduction13/06/21 02:23 AM
1

I feel like I will never stop as thats what I believe in. Sometimes I feel used manipulated and an accessory to her life. I just want us be equal friends exploring life together but maybe I’m asking too much?
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:22 AM
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Yeah, it’s really sad tho. I didn’t mean to and I just thought we could both build each other up. I have undoubtedly built myself up enough for her to be with me but I want her to view me as the absolute best. I just also kinda think she doesn’t think so and doesn’t deserve what I have to offer. I think she’s has an inflated ego which gives her the audacity to think she’s perfect and I just have insecurity issue when I question her about something. Perhaps I was giving to give but I didn’t mean …
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:34 PM
1

How do you not make her your goddess when that’s what i want? I want her to be my goddess and I want to be a god but she doesn’t treat me the same respect
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:38 PM
1

Casual sex :/
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:00 PM
5

Gonna have to agree with you here and for the most part if you want to enjoy frequent casual sex you gotta be a “player”, or whatever you wanna call it then the last paragraph you mention is key unfortunately. Nobody wants to address the truth here. Theres a large material aspect about being someone who gets to enjoy the fun casual sex and it’s not the same for everyone. It’s not fair and that’s life! Why we gotta sugar coat it?
/r/seduction04/06/21 09:25 PM
43

Yeah wtf? Please unpack this, OP.
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:04 PM
2

Man, I have never read more sound advice. This is how I live my life and you’ve articulated it so well. Thank you.
/r/seduction24/05/21 12:40 AM
4

Man, all I’m saying is good looks do play a role. I have seen handsome attractive men get girls without doing shit. I used to work at a bar for a while but ok. Maybe you’re not as attractive as you think. Best of luck to ya.
/r/seduction16/05/21 02:40 PM
0

You have to be in public and not be a glass half empty kinda guy.
/r/seduction16/05/21 01:35 PM
6

Wow, it’s ok to have an opinion. Weirdo
/r/seduction16/05/21 01:33 PM
5

I mean, I’m saying it does. Some people are super hot. I still think it’s worth bettering yourself
/r/seduction16/05/21 01:25 PM
5

If ur really hot, a lot of girls basically throw themselves at you. I’ve seen it.
/r/seduction16/05/21 01:14 PM
0

That’s cool so you just straight traveled there, made friends you could stay with, worked various industry jobs, and banged tons of local chicks?
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:25 AM
1

Bangkok you say?
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:21 AM
0

You have a solid point...what she did was simply A shit test (yes extremely sad this is the case but it is. Women aren’t quite as complicated as everyone thinks) They say things like this to see if you back out or give up and if you do, they think they didn’t waste their time with someone who doesn’t truly desire them. Even willing to start at friends. Secondly, she doesn’t want you to think she likes you. Hence, maintain mystery and desire. OPs best course of action for a chance with her would …
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:21 PM
4

“Can’t even be friends” because you get on dating apps to make friends? She has the audacity to guilt you for doing absolutely nothing wrong? The entitlement of some girls is fucking insane.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:12 PM
3

lol you say it so abruptly in your previous comment like “ask her out ok now kiss her over the phone!” Also, I don’t think you have to kiss her although I usually can’t help myself.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:09 PM
22

Man can dream...the simps will never stop and we’ll just have to show these women there are men who won’t tolerate it.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:06 PM
1

I think that you totally have an understanding on the inside joke and how to pass shit tests but man I think that’s the problem. Why are we jumping through hoops for these girls? To prove our worth to them? While I think passing shit tests works I think the act of testing shows disrespect. She has to “test” you? Fuck that? Why is she in the position of power to do so? I don’t need to prove anything to her. If she doesn’t like me it’s her loss, but then how Would I get laid or get a girlfriend. I…
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:52 PM
1

Ugh I hate this. Sure, I can pass your test, but why? You don’t trust me? Your forgot how I make you laugh all the time? Your forgot I am happy with who I am? I just think it’s insane how girls forget how awesome their man is then they try to make Him jealous and if you call her out on it there’s no way to win. She either denys it or you lose. It’s sad af. You either play the seduction game or find a girl who doesn’t. That’s life. It sucks. It’s all smoke and mirrors that girls just fall for. So…
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:47 PM
4

Yeah we’re human, we have needs and want communication! You can’t hide your feelings forever hoping you always seem cool to your girlfriend!! Fuck that, it’s not realIstic and girls are brainwashed into thinking that’s what is desirable so the stupid cycle continues. All the “bad boys” do is act like they’re great, fuck and move on. Theyre number goes up and so does their ego which girls find more attractive. That’s cool and I guess but what about romance, adventure, togetherness and future toge…
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:59 AM
6

I completely agree. I’m tired of the whole, act like you don’t care bullshit. Life’s not about hiding your feelings forever. It takes time, but if they never open up you need to move on. That’s not being needy. It’s ok to want a normal level of intimacy. Which all should be established or get established!
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:51 AM
2

Once in a while I get jealous and assume she’s Trying to stir the pot. I don’t think I’m always wrong though. I know that’s what they do. If girls aren’t flattered by a little jealousy that they start then theyre shooting their relationship in the foot. I don’t get jealous very often but when I do I will say something. Then they proceed to act as though I’m super insecure and jealous when it’s so much more than that. For all of you that think you have to be some emotionless rock to impress your …
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:47 AM
2

Yeah, bout to visit my gf in an ldr and I want to break up. I have talked to her about my concerns in the relationship and she has done nothing to try and accommodate. After that visit I will havebdecidddd that’s we truly can’t be together or not. I’m excited to find out if I’m wasting my time.
/r/seduction07/05/21 01:29 PM
10

Dang, dude. This was amazing advice. Took me so many years to start to figure this out and you have it down!
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:09 PM
1

What’s the single primary difference between the alpha and the nice guy?
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:14 AM
1

For short term, tight clothing. Even if you’re a little fat. Long term, a conversation where you’re asking about me and want to spend quality time together. Definitely not “let’s go to the bar so I can show you off to my friends and play games all night bullshit.” That will end up in a break up eventually.
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:24 PM
9

Jesus you just described how my relationship went. She even broke up with me and then we got back together and we’re still together. It’s really hard not to feel settled for but I know she loves me dearly. It’s a struggle
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:05 AM
2

Next time, if she’s sober enough, you should throw on a condom and just have fun. Don’t get invested with a girl that’s dtf with everyone at the party tho. Just FYI
/r/seduction19/04/21 10:37 PM
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I noticed that girls are easy to talk to there but most of the time they’re not looking for shit at the grocery store. No matter how sexy they dress up in their tight yoga pants. “Oh these? Just for show...”
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:19 AM
1

I grew up raised by a single mom. My perception of dating was so fucked. I managed to date but I was clueless. Only until I started dating my current girlfriend did I have to figure it out. I just thought, “I’m not going to lose another hot gf. Fuck that” so I did a lot of research and figured it out. Now we tell each other we love each other every day.
/r/seduction18/03/21 03:59 PM
1

Word I think youre ok. Biggest thing is to be your self and chat. See if one on one chats between y’all are easy to have and if they are you should eventually invite her to something.
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:06 AM
1

Oh I see that’s super unfortunate. Why did they push you? To fall into the girls? To mess with you? Was it really bad? Is there a way you can push him back in front of them in the future? I would just act like it never happened and just be yourself in front of her. That’s gonna work way better than trying to do anything.
/r/seduction18/03/21 06:18 AM
1

You need all of these things. You need everything, strive to be the best at everything to the extreme and don’t look at people beside you or do if you need examples. In high school I saw all my friends resenting the coolest dude in school cuz they were jealous. I just tried to figure out how to become them (learn from then) cuz they’re good people.
/r/seduction18/03/21 01:06 AM
1

I don’t blame you everyone’s a bit harsh. I think it ultimately is a bit of insecurity simply because you want to be sure that you don’t want them more than they want you otherwise in some weird distant way that makes them have some sort of “advantage”That you can’t compete with. That feeling is awful. Feeling lesser than someone and makes you feel they will find some better. So I don’t blame you. I think it’s important to try to get away from that kind of thinking but ultimately what you’re doi…
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:00 AM
3

I think after a while it’s ok to be yourself but it helps to play now and again to keep things interesting
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:30 AM
4

You don’t have to play game but there are certainly times where you should over do it and remain mysterious. It keeps my girl hooked but we still communicate every day. Your last paragraph is exactly what I need. It’s just hard when you have a lot of love to give and want. I have to pace myself and enjoy it when it comes while I focus on my life.
/r/seduction12/03/21 08:13 PM
1

Kinda difficult considering I would only go for a girl I find very attractive. At that point it’s hard to just focus on “good conversation” without cutting some slack for sexiness. Even though that’s dumb I guess.
/r/seduction10/03/21 04:31 PM
1

What is the “I’m not like other guys” thing. Do we have to think or say that? I think that’s like saying you’re unique and more special than others but it’s not good to boast or brag so what’s the solution here?
/r/seduction22/02/21 01:36 AM
13

Yeah it’s really fucked. “No I didn’t say that I just said whatever I want hehehe So when I cheat u can’t get mad at me cuz I saaaaid...hehe”
/r/MGTOW03/09/20 02:36 PM
1

Yeah cuz the girl is just going to dress up, distract them and have some weird fun of her own messing with them rather than be a friend and golf.
/r/MGTOW03/09/20 02:24 PM
7

Who tf is bella Thorne?
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 01:37 AM
4

Oh noooo their livelihood is at stake 😱
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 11:24 PM
3

Hey at least we get some solidarity here.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 04:26 AM
15

Holy hell I know!! There’s this divorce lawyer I know and she posts on ig all day. I pray for the men she rapes in court.
/r/MGTOW16/08/20 07:49 AM
1

This doesn’t even make sense. She called her friend tan? Weight isn’t even mentioned. What’s going on here nobody in this sub is even addressing that.
/r/MGTOW14/08/20 10:19 PM
1

Ahh this is true. Otherwise everyone would be going around ripping up contracts they realize they didn’t like the terms of.
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 05:23 AM
3

Yeah but everyone is tripping if he actually tore it up. That’s his fault. I don’t think that’s even true. Otherwise this article wouldn’t exist. Of course the judge would rule in her favor. He tore it up!
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 03:38 AM
7

He...tore it up? Then wtf is this all about? He tore it up himself!
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 03:15 AM
1

Honestly her look doesn’t look genuine at all but his does.
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 12:51 AM
5

Haha JFC. Kinda fucked up but it really puts the emphasis on you are completely done with her.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 08:03 PM
17

This is a very good explanation. I’m sure all of us guys could be as well but there are fundamental differences between when and guy cheats vs a girl imo. At the same time I believe that there women and guys out there that can say no.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 07:57 PM
0

I mean that’s pretty dumb tho.
/r/MGTOW04/08/20 04:14 PM
8

Same. If I knew how men/girls acted in high school and college I would have had a much better time. Imagine being raised by a girl that is exactly why we have this subreddit.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 03:38 PM
2

Something similar happened to me. Had a civil argument with someone in another subreddit and this fucking pussy goes through my post history and is like “I see you are on MGTOW, you know they hate all women right? Is that what you think of women..blah blah” and I was like “first of all, I think its really weird you would go through my history to find something to use against me, secondly that subreddit doesn’t all hate women and neither do I...” still got downvoted. Not a lot but still.
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 06:07 PM
5

Her reaction is so fucked up. She probably uses the “I’m a single mom” everywhere she goes.
/r/MGTOW30/07/20 05:56 PM
2

This is perfect. Gf often calls its female empowerment and I’m like...no
/r/MGTOW29/07/20 06:33 PM
4

shivers
/r/MGTOW28/07/20 09:29 AM
10

What’s more fucked up is that they completely deny their privilege and exploit the fuck out of it at the same time.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 11:13 AM
1

Seems like a joke to me
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 09:44 PM
23

This is disgusting. How can that sub exist. Fuck those mods and fuck everyone positive about cheating. What’s also fucked up is how much hate this sub gets. Shit like this reminds my why I stay on my guard knowing that my LDR could be cheating on me. She might be but I can’t prove it and we talk every day all day and love each other but ya never know!
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 08:40 AM
5

No way that’s a reach. She kinda looks like her
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 08:49 PM
1

Never found her attractive. I’m just a sweet innocent somewhat opinionated country girl yeehaw stfu...
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 10:08 AM
1

Wait so is Will is leaving her right?
/r/MGTOW11/07/20 06:14 PM
5

But you can’t say anything because it could just be that they care about the people in our country so much.
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 02:21 PM
1

Trueoffmychest, confessions, askwomen, and some others for sure.
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 02:42 PM
1

Wow. Trash mods. You should post that in a another sub. Try wording it to be even. More polite like, I’ve noticed that women often put themselves in the shot when sharing artwork. Why is that? Shouldn’t the art speak for itself?
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 04:01 AM
0

The double standard bothers me AND how cruel girls can be. For example, they will test u by intentionally hurting your feelings or just being inconsiderate and then they lose more respect for you if you’re “butt hurt” about it.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 10:19 PM
1

I can’t afford that. :/
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 09:16 PM
1

Seriously?
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 08:43 PM
1

Lol I’m just saying. Ina sub abkut men going their own way I’m surprised how many people disagree with me but considering that most people here think literally all women suck I guess I can’t expect much.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 08:39 PM
1

I appreciate that. I will.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 03:02 PM
-2

You’re not getting my point and most People clearly aren’t.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 03:00 PM
0

For sure but that’s not the point I’m making. I’m saying that not only are we demonized if we treat them they way they treat us but they treat us so poorly I would go as far as to say that some girls are evil.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 07:35 AM
-12

Yeah that’s what’s wrong with this world. Eye for an eye leaves us all blind but frequent lack of empathy and manipulation is cruel and evil.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 06:07 AM
-11

So I was fired and my girl was all about me it was amazing. I hope one day you guys can have that. She’s no unicorn though that’s for damn sure haha
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 06:04 AM
2

I’ve never noticed this. The girl is always 2-8 years young from what I’ve seen and I’m on Reddit all day since I’ve been fired so I should know.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 05:59 AM
11

Through. She could suck it through a garden hose.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 07:41 PM
2

She’s realizing she fucked up and wants to have respect I guess? Also, brief?! There are tons of videos of her.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 07:35 PM
4

Who are these thots?
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 02:46 AM
60

Wow fuck that. This story hurt me.
/r/MGTOW26/06/20 03:03 PM
2

It’s almost as if getting fit requires eating your vegetables 🤔 Good post tho.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 05:38 PM
3

Lock this person up. Every women who lies about rape should be locked up for as long as the person would have been locked up.
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 05:28 PM
2

I wonder if this is a good way to get their attention then have a decent date with but leave if she obviously sucks 🤔
/r/MGTOW22/06/20 11:11 PM
2

For sure. That’s waaaay better. I’m. Just supporting OPs point
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 05:23 PM
62

“A weird one for us single moms” Jesus fucking Christ the entitlement is disgusting.
/r/PussyPass22/06/20 05:05 PM
11

Idk man I find girls are into me the most when people invite me to parties or activities. When I mention it to the girl I’m talking to they freak out call me 20 times and ask what I’m doing. It’s insane how much they lose it.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 04:52 PM
6

Man it’s difficult when u live with a guy who is a big tantrum covert narcissist baby. Perfect example, this mf broke my X and said because I put it in a spot that was vulnerable I should pay half to replace it. I made him pay 75% but all day he was going on abkut how fucked up I am for making him do that even tho he doesn’t have to move an inch for his money. Makes no sense. So I caved and said well if u think that’s fair then let’s make it that way. Smh 🤦‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 04:49 PM
1

That is so fucked up man I’m so sorry.
/r/MGTOW21/06/20 09:12 PM
4

I think he meant why didn’t you? It’s pretty gnarly to see that and I didn’t exactly want to but also want justice for him haha
/r/AntiFeminists13/06/20 07:22 PM
1

Honestly I think Tik Tok thots will find some washed up chad or get ugly and lame to talk to while we’re all together with our career looking for a girl that didn’t give it out every weekend at the club.
/r/MGTOW213/06/20 07:10 PM
2

This. Just do some virtue signaling and suddenly girls will start messaging you.
/r/MGTOW13/06/20 07:06 PM
9

Men below 6ft??? What a shitty thing to point out. I guess saying girls hit a wall at 3 is the same? I feel that guys mostly just point out things girls can work on tho.
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 11:04 PM
2

I did not have a father growing up either and I had to learn everything on my own with the current girl I’m with. I wish I was single when I discovered this but I ended up staying in the relationship. Consider how far u have come without a father and realize this was bound to happen but now you’re aware. Consider yourself lucky as now u are single and can apply trp to new relationships or flings.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 08:57 PM
17

I dated a girl and she was losing interest. Then I said “fuck it, I’m going to figure out how to keep the hot girl” and I fucking did. Im horrified. It really is eye opening and disheartening to find out. I’ve been let down and upset so many times but I managed to be a better more informed version of myself that I’m not worried about losing her. If I did I would truly be sad but I know I would be ok. Basically, if you apply red pill logic to a relationship you will most likely never fail, but yo…
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 06:13 AM
21

Stay strong U did the right thing. Zero tolerance otherwise she wouldn’t respect u anyway. But she lost ur respect so move on.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 06:32 PM
4

He’s great in that the responsibility is on us however we do need a leader that doesn’t fuel the fire of racist idiots. I’m sure Denzel understands that now.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 06:30 PM
2

Hmmm I kinda think there’s gotta be some subtle way to retaliate? Like super subtle back handed comments. Idk. Maybe not even bother. just be great and do great work! She probably wants a to fuck the shit out of you btw
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:40 AM
4

I'm super excited for higher pay. My job is fruitful but extremely difficult to learn and advance.
/r/MGTOW04/06/20 09:04 AM
7

im 28 and make 52k and maybe 1k in savings so basically.....fuck you
/r/MGTOW04/06/20 09:02 AM
-2

This sub is truly amazing. 😢 I can’t believe you guys are on here helping your fellow man. I love you all and I wish that everyone gets theirs!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 07:21 PM
1

Girls have evolved into saying super cruel and manipulative things they don’t even understand what the are doing. It’s in their nature. What helps to overcome the things they do u have to understand it’s just their biological reaction telling them to say something fucked up and see how the man handles it. Remember to remain calm, check her if it’s wrong, ignore if she’s just trying to make u jealous or hurt u. If it’s too much, drop her and move on u don’t need unnecessary stress.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 02:29 AM
2

I don’t think these lengthy elaborate responses will keep the moron interested enough to understand what they mean. I like the concept but it makes me want to come up with my own responses.
/r/MGTOW02/06/20 09:57 AM
4

Be happy this girl made a discovery. Others won’t even let the thought of this ever cross their mind.
/r/MGTOW01/06/20 05:41 AM
1

What is FDS? Why do people post abbreviations like everybody knows already?
/r/MGTOW01/06/20 05:25 AM
33

Because of simps. Guys who work hard and idealize women give them the mentality that they should be treated like a princess. Ironic because these guys get the least pussy or just pay for it like morons. This fuck up girls minds for everyone else. You’re either a perfect chad or a simp with money. Anything else and you’re just getting really lucky or a boring nobody. Other women also perpetuate this mindset cuz why not if it works in their favor? If someone will like their Facebook status then wh…
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 07:15 PM
3

Yeah it just bothers me. Sometimes I wish I could replay a scenario with one girl where I act differently each time to see what works the best. Not that I need to. Just curious. Like Groundhog Day.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 07:22 AM
8

True but I think there are definitely basic skills u need to learn to better ur game. It’s entirely plausible she just doesn’t like ur game and that can be tweaked. I have gotten better and better and it all comes down to being comfortable having a laugh not acting too interested but enough to have a real conversation with.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 02:40 AM
3

I’m sorry to hear that man. Clearly u r in the right place tho!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 01:04 AM
3

Well said. It’s pitiful how actual quality traits are viewed as being weak but if you make fun of your friends or out them down in front of a girl she’ll be attracted to you.
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 07:03 PM
6

Ugh like wow you get tons of attention from guys that are attracted to you. Your life must be so difficult. We do all the same work(maybe) AND don’t get praised or complimented. We are held accountable for everything we say. We must be perfect at everything or at least act like it just to maintain attraction from them. They have so many options they couldn’t care less about one man. Fuck it’s ridiculous.
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 07:45 PM
39

Never take them back. Never settle or be settled for.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 05:34 PM
54

A prenup can be thrown away if she lies about abuse?? Why get married now? Wtf is wrong with everyone. Why are women entitled to so much money that isn’t theirs? I thought society was progressive and all about equality.
/r/PussyPass15/05/20 09:38 PM
8

All day my ldr and Ltr (same thing) was extremely loving and telling me how much she loved me. Then we face chat and suddenly she’s blasé. She was on medication so that makes sense. Top it off with “my neighbor helped me with blank” and I just start to lose it. I felt insecure and worried she’s doing something with the guy. Ultimately I will never know the truth but I mostly think she’s just testing me. I’m sick of the tests. It’s not a lot but why do it all?. We’ve been together for about a yea…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 07:55 PM
7

Probably cuz they fucked top quality guys since ANY guy wants to get laid. Then they expect to have them as their partner. Alpha widows everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 06:11 PM
4

They fuck tons of guys exploiting their female status without realizing the disparity between men and woman cuz they only care about themselves and society encourages them to act like sluts for some strange reason. I just can’t emphasize enough how a high count for girls is just disgusting to me. They literally just have to open their leg while guys have to put itthe time energy and effort. Then they expect to find some who wants them?? NO! We don’t want someone who gave it away to everyone! Tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 06:09 PM
2

Jesus Christ. “U can’t treat people with kindness wtf is wrong with you!”
/r/PussyPass21/04/20 06:41 PM
1

Hahah never thought it was used that way!
/r/PussyPass20/04/20 09:32 PM
3

Tf? What’s wrong with feeling wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 09:42 AM
1

It shouldn’t be done because you’re forcing others that aren’t as blessed to compare themselves. It’s rude to those who also exist in this world. Be happy ur fortunate but don’t exploit it for ur own amusement by rubbing it in people’s faces.
/r/PussyPass17/03/20 08:44 PM
1

God it makes me cringe at the fact that they get away with exploiting pseudo feminist bs.
/r/PussyPass17/03/20 08:42 PM
3

She’s so damn fine too. Like look at you having fun doing whatever the fuck u want cuz ur so fine plenty of dbags probably throw money at her. I just find it rude af to be a show off when other people in the world aren’t as blessed. That’s like winning the lotto and rubbing it in poor peoples face that u got a Lamborghini’s. No shame or thought just “look at me in so happy and I hope ur dick gets hard because of me for a minute while ur busy working hehe I’m so wild and free spirit”
/r/PussyPass17/03/20 08:40 PM
1

It wouldn’t. I understand that a physical fight does not determine your self worth especially in this period of time. That’s the point. I just flipped the script and want her to see that basing attraction on physical strength alone is childish. Obviously there’s so much more to a person. I guess that’s the difference between red pill and equality
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 05:27 PM
18

Yeah I’d love to date her and see her lose a fight. Then just dump her after because she lost. What a pussy. She can’t physically beat someone else up? Clearly the weaker genes and I can’t continue my progeny with that. What a dumb primitive mindset to have. Smh
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 07:01 PM
1

My girl always says , “it would turn me in to see you fuck someone.” So I respond with ,” do u want me to do that?” And she always changes the subject. I think she doesn’t and does at the same time but can’t admit it. Like I have to just do it and send her a snap one day. I don’t understand what to do? Also she’s def an AW but I think I’m out alphaing the old dude.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 12:33 AM
1

The baby stole their toys
/r/PussyPass05/02/20 01:22 PM
4

Is this video on the HUB?!
/r/PussyPass29/01/20 05:46 AM
1

Yes it is a fucked up thing to say or do. Just because you’re more anonymous on 4chan doesn’t make it any more ok. People seriously doing this are absurd and they should be ashamed of themselves.
/r/PussyPass24/01/20 07:35 PM
1

As someone mentioned somewhere else in this thread. Shnek v United States ruled that the first amendment does not protect your right to free speech if it incites actions that would harm others. Telling someone to off themselves is clearly inciting harmful action. Imo.
/r/PussyPass24/01/20 07:34 PM
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