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SterlingArcher80/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 11:24 AM
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There's no emotional connection. It's 100% pure game and you have to keep up that facade the entire time. Red pill will get you laid like nobody's business (at least it did for me), but it won't allow strong bonds to be formed. I had to drop that shit to really commit to a relationship and it took SO LONG for me to actually trust my girlfriend. Honestly, I still have a hard time with it every now and then. She's never given me a reason not to trust her, but because of my years of being red pille…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/19 03:16 PM
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It sounds like you're pretty young so try not to worry too much. I was in my early 30s when I finally realized what the red pill really is and it took me quite a while with a really good woman to get myself out of that mindset. It left me feeling similar to how you're feeling now. I really had to talk it out with a counselor to work through it. I would really recommend that you take this route and talk to someone. There is plenty of time to fix your career and build strong healthy relationships.…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/19 08:07 PM
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Hey man, I totally get it. I remember when I had that "light bulb" moment in regards to the red pill. I had torched some women and the guilt from it was killing me. I'm also 37 years old so I really felt like a piece of shit treating women that way when I should know better. It was a couple years ago and I had just burned this younger woman (25yo) BAD and the guilt was so severe I knew I couldn't live my life that way anymore. Then I met an amazing women that saw right through my bullshit and ev…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 07:27 PM
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I wish you had given a little more detail. I used to be red pill af and now I laugh at the idea of it and can't believe how manipulative I used to be to pick up women. Of course you can still live a good life and be a good person. You just have to make a conscience effort to do it and apply those changes day by day. I don't hate the red pill at all, it taught me a lot, it taught me that being a manipulative douche bag is no way to live a happy fulfilled life. ​ It's never to late to be a good pe…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 07:14 PM
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You could get her back. You just have to be honest with her. Explain your mistake, tell her you love her, but try not to cry or beg. Just be very matter a fact and explain why you were feeling the way you were feeling. Tell her the truth, that you were actually afraid of getting your heart broken. You've got nothing to lose here. You just gotta drop the red pill crap. It's great for picking up women with issues to get laid, but it doesn't work for long term relationships.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/19 05:33 PM
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I think being a strong man with self esteem and hardly any insecurities makes you an alpha. It's really just confidence. You don't have to act like a jerk or anything like that. You just have to believe in yourself. It seems easier than ever to be classified as an alpha though considering how many men are feminine as hell now a days. Seriously, every time I go to the grocery store or something it's all soy boys that couldn't pick up a woman if their life depended on it. It's depressing and one o…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 02:21 PM
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If you're having to deal with legal issues related to violence I would say you have larger issues than just red pill ideology....
/r/ExRedPill13/03/19 04:40 PM
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She didn't care. She said anything that happened before we got together doesn't matter.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 02:23 PM
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So, you mean most women? Ha! Kidding, but generally you're correct. The more damaged a woman was the more easily she would fall for RP games. Sad, but true.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 07:42 PM
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This is absolutely true. I just realized running game made it a hell of a lot easier.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 06:08 PM
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Honestly, a little bit of both. I actually knew her from high school, but hadn’t seen her in about 15 years. We crossed paths one day and I immediately started in with my typical red pill shit. It didn’t work, at all, but she kept staying in touch with me and I started to get to know her instead of looking at her like a target. Slowly I just started to be myself and things started to click. The hardest obstacle by far was trust. I just couldn’t bring myself to trust her for a while, but I slowly…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 06:08 PM
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She’s my fiancé. She saw right through my bullshit and completely changed my perspective on life, love, and what I wanted. It took me a long time to learn to trust after all of the shit the red pill put into me, but she showed me that it’s possible. That’s what the red pill doesn’t tell you. You won’t find a meaningful relationship playing its game. You’ll just get laid over and over and end up alone. If you really want a long term meaningful relationship you can’t put up a frame and pretend to …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 01:12 PM
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I've met quite a few, and a couple of my close friends are still pretty hardcore redpillers. I've been fighting off red pill thoughts for a while now. Once that shit gets in your mind it's hard to shake. Some of it makes too much sense, especially if you've managed to pick up a ton of women using red pill tactics. I've even met some black pillers in public before. Their numbers are strong. Much stronger than people realize.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/18 06:15 PM
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Simple, because while they may hold a view that women are inferior, they still want to have sex with them.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/18 10:39 AM
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Man, I wish I had better advice for you, but it’s such a tough place to be in and believe me, I’ve been there a few times. I used to be pretty hardcore red pill and I never made it past a couple months without destroying good relationships because of it. Since I started working hard on not being so damn cynical towards women I still haven’t been able to completely shake a lot of red pill values because some of them actually do make decent sense, but it’s not a 100% truth and you need to remind y…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/18 01:16 AM
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