SteveBlitz42 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Post divorce relationship timing		SteveBlitz42	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/21 03:11 AM

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3	Just told my wife. I know it's the right decision but it was the hardest thing I ever did (2 kids) Hmm that’s a tough one. Remember, one of the first stages of the grief cycle is denial. Sometimes a relationship can be saved, sometimes it can’t. It takes a lot to be able to stand back so to speak and make an unemotional decision, based on facts. In my situation, we’d been on the rocks for several years and been through nearly a year of couples counseling. There was some improvement, but it always went back to being crap in short order. My ex really tried, I’ll give her that, but we were too f…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/21 07:08 AM
6	Just told my wife. I know it's the right decision but it was the hardest thing I ever did (2 kids) Divorce always sucks. It does. However, sometimes it is the healthiest choice in a bad situation. It’s far better to leave and develop a healthy coparenting relationship, than to stay and try to grind it out in a toxic situation “for the kids”. I was in a verbally (and sometimes slightly physically) abusive relationship which had a huge emotional toll. I stayed for years because I wanted to be there for my sons, yet eventually I realized I didn’t want them growing up thinking that’s what a relat…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/21 11:09 PM