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Its ok... if YOU make it ok. Only you can give yourself permission that its ok. If you act cool and somewhat confident with it, then you'll either get her number or some excuse. I say go for it!
/r/seduction06/02/16 06:25 PM
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I've coached tons of men with meeting women.. believe me dude, looks are 100% not your issue.. you need to work on core confidence and mindset around dating/women.. it takes time and its not easy to shift your mentality, get rid of negative beliefs and build positive ones.. but its totally worth it cause once you do just that, then I guarantee you'll be able to meet cute chicks all the time!
/r/seduction06/02/16 06:23 PM
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it just helps me keep in mind that I don't want to be 100% showing interest, or 100% acting like I don't give a fuck.. but alternate between the two and its alot more attractive and captivating to women
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:37 PM
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I think your definition of push/pull is off.. to me it simply means alternating between showing interest and showing disinterest.. which has no relation at all to reaction seeking.
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:36 PM
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I hit on anything I like that looks about 18.. If they are under age they'll let you know. Keep in mind it's illegal to have sex with underage it's not illegal to flirt with them when you mistakenly think they are 18 or 19.. If you take the "safe" path and go for girls that definitely look over 20, etc.. Then you're missing a TON of hot girls 18- 21 etc
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:43 AM
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Visualize in your head and pretend you are someone more confident or what it would feel like if you were totally confident in that area. Basically create a new version of yourself that is highly confident and live into that vision. Act how you think he would act, say what he would say, etc. fake it till you make it basically. It's kinda like being a little kid again in a weird way.. Remember how little kids pretend all the time, I pretended I was Spider-Man and I'd climb the tree in my backyard,…
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:34 PM
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If you are RELYING on online dating to meet women then that's a horrible idea and your social skills will atrophy. Beginners will benefit the most from experimenting with everything.. nightlife, daytime, online. BUT if you're already great with women and good social skills, then online dating can be a super easy, highly time leveraged, way to meet quality women.. if you have quality photos that express a cool social life, etc. My favorite aspect of online dating now is that if I'm traveling I ca…
/r/seduction06/01/16 02:51 AM
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I'd just act like nothing happened with the friend, assume girl A likes you, and be social and fun around her, and if she brings up the friend you just say yeah I was drunk and didn't even like her, thats not like me, etc. Key point is to just act as if you assume everything is perfectly fine and you're comfortable around her. She will pick that up from you andit will help things flow smoother
/r/seduction06/01/16 02:35 AM
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Thanks for the compliment! I have a Canon Rebel T2i. The lens used in this video is a Canon 24mm f2.8, and for audio I have the Rode Smartlav+... which I really love, it's so much more convenient then a mic connected to the camera
/r/seduction01/01/16 05:05 PM
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I agree.. the third thing I mention is taking positive action, which if someone does that consistently they will improve and get good at something, and that increases their self-worth, etc
/r/seduction01/01/16 05:03 PM
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Since 99% of the population suffers from under-confidence, I think its healthy to work towards building a very confident and abundant mindset around opportunity in life. The risk of being over confident is actually not a risk at all, since even if someone is over confident the worse that happens is they try to achieve something they think they can and then they don't, and their gauge of what they can actually achieve gets more accurate. Compare that to the under achiever that doesn't even have t…
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:16 PM
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If you are meeting enough women in your life, you wouldn't care about any woman at work or that you are forced to see all the time. Personally, I'd never go for a woman at work (unless I completely didn't care about losing the job lol). The very fact that you place importance on this ONE girl at work shows a lack of abundance mentality. Get out there and flirt with the millions of beautiful women that are available and forget about this one at work
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:13 PM
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Key point you said was "assume she's interested".. that's powerful stuff.. I used to do the same, ba all nervous and wondering if she likes me or not, now I just assume she likes me and wants my dick.. makes life so much easier lol. Just operate from that belief and leave it up to her to prove otherwise
/r/seduction27/12/15 03:47 AM
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also want to add, I'm a men's dating coach and after helping tons of guys my belief is that if you want to "master seduction" then you still have a long way to go on your journey. The only guys that want to "master seduction" are guys that are trying to make up for years of not getting laid and/or low confidence with women/themselves and trying to get validation from their dating lives. No guy needs to master seduction.. just get to a point where you can easily meet women and enjoy the process.
/r/seduction26/12/15 04:59 PM
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I've met and dated a bunch of girls from Tinder AND I approach women in the daytime.. online dating apps/sites are not a substitute for real interactions but a VERY VERY nice supplement to them. Once you have your Tinder photos and conversation flow set up well, meeting girls off of tinder is like falling off a boat trying to hit water lol. If I spend 30 min on tinder a day I typically get 3 - 5 numbers.. and can set up 1 date every night
/r/seduction26/12/15 04:54 PM
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Could be unlimited reasons.. common ones are: she's busy something/someone more interesting came along. she just wanted to seem nice but then realized she's not that into you. you did some subtle little thing she didn't like. she got back with her ex boyfriend http://www.modernalpha.co
/r/seduction13/12/15 10:11 PM
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STOP READING ALL THE CRAP OUT THERE.. just be cool, meet a lot of women, and be sexual with them. DONE. a blog post I wrote that can help: http://www.modernalpha.co/blog/How-to-Get-a-Girlfriend.php
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:51 PM
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it helps because an attractive man has all areas of his life under control. If you are broke, how can you pay for dates, doing things? etc. You don't have to be rich (although it would help lol).. but being broke is a huge inconvenience and just unattractive. http://www.modernalpha.co/
/r/seduction11/12/15 03:28 AM
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Don't "come to terms" with it. Go out and keep talking to hot girls and trying to set up dates, etc.. stay social and be flirtatious and escalate when you're with hot girls. If you have other areas of your life you need to step up (fitness, money, social life, etc) then DO IT. Even if you think its gonna take a long time, guess what.. its still really worth it!! Also, I really agree with SenorTylerDurden... completely cut out porn from your life, limit social media and tv as much as possible and…
/r/seduction10/12/15 06:41 AM
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It is 100% free. Giving an email address is a fair exchange for a free ebook. If someone is interested enough to want the ebook, I think being able to contact them in the future is a completely fair exchange, especially since they can opt out of the email list anytime they want. I see it as providing free value and in return I get the email, I definitely wouldn't classify that as exploitation. Exploitation would be if I collected the emails and then didn't send anything, then that would be a sca…
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:43 AM
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Can I repost it?
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:32 AM
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The download button works properly, it sends a download link to their email address. It works, I just double checked to make sure.
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:31 AM
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Your fears will only become true if you continue to believe in the self-limiting beliefs you currently do. Gotta keep in mind, 90% of people live a mediocre life, so I just ignore what most people say and do whatever I want haha, if you listen to society you'll end up average at best.. ignore everything popular and create your own rules in life that make YOU happy. I know plenty of guys in their late 20's, 30's, even guys in their 40's still hooking up with college girls, its actually not that h…
/r/seduction03/10/15 03:12 AM
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thank you!!
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:43 PM
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Hey sedditors whats up? I wrote this guide so if you have any questions, feedback, comments, want to tell me it sucks ass and why (lol), etc.. just leave a comment here or contact me directly on the contact form on the website. Hope this guide motivates a lot of guys to start taking action and meeting women!!
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:33 PM
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