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| 33 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.Not to be insulting but perhaps you have more feminine mannerisms? Being in shape with a decent face does not mean you'll get asked if you're gay. Stereotypically Associated Gay Mannerisms Expressive Gestures: Using more animated and expressive hand movements when talking. Vocal Modulation: A speaking style that might vary in pitch, perceived as more melodious or expressive. Fashion Interest: A heightened interest in fashion and grooming. Affectionate with Same Gender: Being more openly affectio… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is 24 too late to change?I got success with it almost straight away, but I'd been approaching girls in nightclubs for years beforehand, so I knew a lot about escalation, sexual tension etc. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?I would avoid Instagram entirely - it's just a massive time sync and it simply doesn't lend itself to seduction. By it's nature it's impersonal and reeks of beta orbiter. Go for the number and call or text. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 08:24 AM |
| 12 | How can I regain my old personality or is it a lost cause?Most people have natural default personalities that fit them like a glove. It sounds like the you of 5 years ago was yours, so yes it's very possible to go back to it. Stop whatever it is you're doing that's depressing you're natural personality and let it come back to you of its own accord. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Is 24 too late to change?I didn't start cold approaching until I was 35. It's never too late. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Dancing with girls at clubGirls always "hover" if they are attracted to you, and on the dance floor is no different. Anyway, if she backs into you and presses her ass into your crotch area (assuming you're not 8ft tall), she's likely interested. If she bumps into you and doesn't stick, it's probably by accident. For interested girls: you can put your hands on her hips and asses how she reacts. If all is well, gently grab one of her hands and turn her around to face you. This is a dominant move that will spark attraction.… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 07:58 AM |
| 2 | She asked for my InstagramInstagram is a basically a way for girls to get dopamine hits from guys without any investment. The problem is you'll be competing against Chad with an incredibly well-presented Insta in all manner of poses, so you have no way of competing. So next time you see her strike up a convo and try flirting in real life instead. Generally speaking, a guy who she has met in real life will get precedence over a guy from the virtual world, no matter how pimped out his profile is. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless?Yes better looking men have it easier, but that's just a fact of life. Don't focus on it and work on yourself. Gym Skin Game (go out and approach women, monitor, keep a journal, seek feedback) Avoid places where you're liable to bump into better looking guys hunting for women (such as nightclubs) Build a healthy and balanced sense of entitlement. How? By working on yourself, building confidence, and if you can, by travelling to other countries and discovering how much hotter the women are and wh… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?In the UK, fireman or policeman. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 10:33 AM |
| 7 | When you talk about sex over text with a girlTalk about sex obliquely and heavily focus on her fantasies. Learn to use pics and text to ignite her passion.. I've found women love talking about and visualising sex, but not in the same way as men. You have to personalise it TO HER. Avoid coming across as a guy who just wants to stick his cock into any old hole, and focus on what makes her tick. Delve into her fantasies. Contextualise filthy talk, make it more romantic, and avoid coarse language. Avoid abruptly sending dick pics apropos of no… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 06:34 AM |
| 7 | She wants to hangout after hooking up last weekYou don't need game at this point if you're not interested in a relationship. Game has traditionally been to get you to the point of bedding her, which you've already done. Some aspects such as frame are obviously applicable to relationships too. Anyway, relax and enjoy her company now that you've sealed the deal and don't sweat it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached?It can be if you do it right. If you follow the herd with dating apps you've got no chance, so cold approach remains one of the only ways in which you stand out. Merely by eliminating the mistakes most guys make when cold-approaching, you stand a much higher chance of success. So don't escalate too fast Don't approach indiscriminately like a coked up Duracell bunny Don't try to give off player vibes if you're not there yet (it reeks of insecurity) Try to build pattern recognition about the kind … | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I am pretty sure I just fumbled an easy layWell the acid test is whether you can get her out on a date again. Honestly, don't listen too much to the idea that you need to tumble her into bed super-fast; it's toxic and isn't good for your mental health long term. The old PUA mindset carries some really negative repercussions if you take it too seriously. Anyway, relax, don't beat yourself up and get her out on another date. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Game "challenge" mindset is wrongI didn't say you are ugly. Anyway, carry on Billy Big Balls! | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:25 AM |
| -1 | Brunch for first date?Nah it's all good, breakfast or brunch could work well just to get to know each other. Also you're both fresh first thing in the morning. Look at it as a bridge date before you can go on a date where you can think about jumping her bones... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Underestimated the struggle of initiating staying the night.Touch her naturally and build sexual tension during the date. Then when it comes time to call it a night, it's not such a huge barrier to sex. Also you can venue change and steer her naturally towards your house during the date itself. Have a pre-planned pretext to invite her back, such as cool record collection, video game, and so on - and make sure it's nothing to do with lovemaking. You have to give her reasons so that she can post-rationalise the act of coming to your house and convince hers… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | first date in 7 years. make out close after having a blast and staying for coffee till they kicked us out to close 5 hours laterMake sure you follow up via text, but do not send overly gushing messages like a woman would. Don't be cold, just try not to emote like a pimple faced teenage boy. Then administer the length. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenIncongruence is not good generally speaking but better looks are always an advantage, alongside height and so on. I think you're making a lot of unwarranted assumptions here. It's easy to argue that many women will perceive awkward or miscalibrated behaviour as cute if you're good looking, and creepy if you look like a slightly more unfortunate version of Quasimodo. TLDR You went full retard with this post. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Texting AdvicesDon't overthink it, and in terms of "forgetting" specific girls, have other stuff going on in your life. No woman, no matter how hot, should be your no 1 focus in life. Men need projects. Also here's a little mind trick: You can become bored of even the hottest girl you've ever bonked over time. It's happened to me multiple times. When you internalise this, you never go dappy over any girl again, even in the first flush of excitement when you meet a new girl. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Game "challenge" mindset is wrongPlayer ennui is a real thing for sure, but I highly doubt you resemble Eros in real life. Try and forge a long-standing relationship with a woman you care about, like a normal person. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How to improve my “game”?!!She got sketchy vibes from you in the latter part of the interaction. It's actually OK to ask questions - this is a normal part of interactions when you just met someone, as long as you're not bombarding her 1 after the other. So there's probably something off with your subcommunications. Perhaps you were a bit put off with the drunk cock blocker, or just the strangeness of cold approaching a woman. This eventually wears off after exposure and experience. So don't jettison the "normality" of ask… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Seasonality in seductionIt is for cold approach, but it's a good time to fire up those dating apps! | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?In general a good rule of thumb is that a man with his shit together can get 1-2 points above his SMV. SMV for men is of course multi-faceted, and is based on his own self-perception, whereas a woman's is based almost entirely on how hot she is (if only for a hookup). In a relationship it's a bit different: no - one really wants a hot mess long term. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 05:20 AM |
| 1 | How to help this personGlasses have nothing to do with it and introverted women can respond well to cold approach. You should really never hear "you're making me uncomfortable", and if you do, apologise and leave. He needs to read the signs. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | “Do you do this often?”Disco! | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Advice for an approachWell you can "force" a reaction from her and see what happens - then approach the next day. Hold eye contact, smile at her (genuinely) Wink at her Say hi Then over the next few days, an approach. Get right to the point because of the work situation. "Hey. We keep bumping into each other. I'm xxx" Ask her name Bit of chit chat Fancy going out sometime? Get digits. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | What to doYou can have the upperhand by fu**ing her. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Not on Social MediaI wouldn't worry too much about the lack of "pimped out" photos, but definitely don't upload too many selfie pics on dating apps. Start going out and trying to capitalise on approaching off IOI's. This is my speciality, and it's a MUCH higher success ratio when you approach off IOIs, so it sounds like you've got a good grounding to begin with. If you're worried about bumping into girls you meet, try weekends away in the nearest large city, and possibly 1-2 week holidays in Eastern Europe if you'… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | How to help this personAlmost 100% certain he made some drastic cock-ups in his approach if it got to that point, 1 of which must be he believed in "keep ploughing" - which is retarded advice. I'd guess the first thing he needs to do is to read signals from women especially and people in general. You then avoid any possibility of this kind of thing happening. Empathy in cold approach is equally as important as confidence, "rizz" etc. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Hobby photos on dating apps questionAnything which implies masculinity is almost always positive, and you cannot get more masculine than guns! Unless the photos are of you fumbling trying to put it together or something. Balance it out with pics showing a softer more caring side : with pets, a younger sibling etc. Also pics with friends showcasing you're normal, get on with people, and not secretly dreaming of blowing someone else's head off. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Going to girls home vs yoursAlways go to yours unless it's logistically impossible. It shouldn't be though because you should aim to go out on dates close to your house. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | “Do you do this often?”A shit test is what you make of it. The no 1 rule IMO is to not take any hint of a shit test seriously. The worst thing you can do is always try to come back with a clever response : it comes across gamey and try hard. In this instance, agree and amplify : "Oh yes, all the time" or "I can be a naughty boy on occasion". Followed by any number of emojis which gradually become more irrelevant to your comment, but add a certain comedic effect. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Conquer your fear of approaching a girllol | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | How to attract women without saying a wordYes | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Salt Daddy Game - Big Booty Sugar Baby (All Screenshots & Detailed Breakdown)Salt dating is legit - I did it for years and it's something you can do as an older man. We talk about it over at the salt dating subreddit if any of you guys are interested in checking it out. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | New Youtube Channel : Pill DetoxThanks man will look into it. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | New Youtube Channel : Pill DetoxYT is tough - we will see. In terms of me personally, I've been saying this about the Redpill for about 10 years. No chance of changing! I wonder if the blackpill debunking will be as popular or welcome. That's even worse than the Redpill IMO. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 4 | New Youtube Channel : Pill DetoxThanks Julian. Let's see how it goes! | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeWatch the video. Or the other 230 or so videos on my channel. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Wheat Waffles (Blackpill) BTFO With Facts And LogicI think you know exactly what this subreddit is and you're being snarky. RP and BP are not entirely dissimilar, so I thought I'd post it. If you want to make a point in future, maybe avoid the snark. Cheers. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Why Daygamers Make Girls Cringe10 years experience coaching men, thousands of hours of discussion and comparing notes with the most well known daygamers in the world. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeThanks. A sensible comment! | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:28 PM |
| -1 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeThey are not generalisations. They're also not broad or incorrect. Daygame is great if done correctly. Unfortunately, it often isn't and there is a LOT missing from the framework that most guys use. I am addressing that. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:28 PM |
| -3 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeHow am I wrong in what I said? Be specific and avoid snark. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Why Daygamers Make Girls Cringe1: Most daygamers drop out of daygame within a month or two. 2: The average rejection rate of most daygamers is over 98%. Why might this be? | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeYou're the typical "nice guy" Gamma that women run a mile from. Very obvious from your posts. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeWaffle. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeThanks. I've seen it time and again - very high blowout rates. No wonder daygame has such a high attrition rate. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill - Fat Deluded Old Fool. Help me make a video roasting himIt is my job you monkey...You opinionated buffoons need to LOOK AT WHO YOU ARE TALKING TO before weighing in with your uninformed comments. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill - Fat Deluded Old Fool. Help me make a video roasting himhehe | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill - Fat Deluded Old Fool. Help me make a video roasting himSo go there then. I've made videos with studies, data debunking red pill myths. I also do roasts. Deal with it. Meanwhile back to the topic at hand - post some examples of his delusion. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseThanks for the kind words. I will certainly stick around and spread the message as much as possible. We're both on the same side. I am coming to terms with what happened to Tom. I met him several times, and though we were not close, we were definitely part of the same small knit group - me, Nick Krauser and Tom. All on the LSS forum, all very active in the 2014 era and so on. Your research is great, so I'll be going through your posts (and others) methodically and making videos on all of them. J… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseThanks mate! I will certainly keep it up. Just got to figure out the perfect format..Getting there though. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseFascinating I'll check it out. Thanks man. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseYou're reading something into my innocuous post that isn't there. I am not excusing dread game - I just made a video about it debunking it. I am simply pointing out the reality of what most men are like. I'm in a position to know because I've been involved in the dating industry for approximately 10 years. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 10:10 AM |
| 5 | Dread Game Is NonsenseMost guys would do almost anything to get laid. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHHNkBbGj4tuMo6SjEl1dg | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Coaches are not only TOXIC, but they are FRAUDS and here’s whyI'm gonna do a video on this later today. Great post! Re "EDIT: If you guys would like links to videos that support these claims, please just let me know and I will provide them!" Yes, I would like these links with video proof. I'm going to make a video on this. The video evidence would be perfect. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?Excellent post, thanks so much. I fully intend to do an entire series on damaging red pill aspects - the playlist is already made - so I'll update on here. (As long as I'm not banned for doing so!) Thanks a lot! There's definitely stuff here I can use... | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Thanks man. Will use in an upcoming video | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!This looks great. I'm going to make a series of videos based on these posts. Thanks so much! | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?OK guys I hope this won't get me banned. One or two of you have asked to link the video when it's done. So here it is : Is The Red PIll Destroying Your Mind (Reddit Speaks) I read through this thread on the stream I have linked the subreddit in the description of the video, and recommended ppl sign up here. There are a few cock - ups unfortunately..I am relatively new to livestreaming and it happens occasionally. But still it gets the point across. I ended the stream with a takedown of Jack Murp… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?Steve Jabba. I am thinking of doing a livestream about it shortly. I would like to link it in this thread, but I don't want to be banned for self-promotion. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHHNkBbGj4tuMo6SjEl1dg/ You can see I've been speaking out against Red Pill teachings for years. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 10:41 AM |
| 4 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?Fantastic post my friend. I am bookmarking this thread. I'll do a video today or over next few days literally just reading out this thread - it's great - then focus on individual areas as per your post. I fully intend to roast Rollo Tomassi too. I'll link to this reddit so you may get some new people. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 12 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?See this is one of the most obvious red flags for the Red Pill..It's bro - science. You can't just substitute another meaning for a term like Hypergamy and make up your own. The clown Rollo Tomassi does exactly the same thing with the term "hindbrain". The hindbrain is a known part of the human brain, with a well documented position and function. This fuckwit co-opts the term and starts rabbiting on about how her hindbrain has contempt for beta males.. He's a clown. I'm going to roast the hell o… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 16 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?In my other thread that I posted about Hypergamy, there is a relatively recent study that shows Hypergamy is DECREASING worldwide. Secondly, I am yet to find a clear, concise definition of HYpergamy from Rollo Tomassi, or any proof it exists. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Is there any scientific and/or evidential basis for the theory of Hypergamy?I just spent 30 minutes Googling "Rollo Tomassi Hypergamy" and related terms. I'm yet to find a clear, straightforward definition of what he takes Hypergamy to mean (a red flag in my view)/ The generally accepted definition is clear : Hypergamy (colloquially referred to as "marrying up"[1]) is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person marrying a spouse of higher caste or social status than themselves. If he cannot even define what the hell it means without a load of waffl… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Is there any scientific and/or evidential basis for the theory of Hypergamy?Great stuff, thanks. Pretty much what I thought. I wanted to see how the actual definition of Hypergamy differs from what the king of the Gamma Male's Rollo Tomassi has to say about it - that women are always looking to "date up" with "higher value" i.e. more attractive men. His writing is long-winded and self-congratulatory, so it's hard to discover if he's ever provided any evidence that women are constantly on the lookout for a more attractive "higher value" male when they are in a relationsh… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Hi there. That sounds like a remarkably stupid thing to say by Rollo. I don't suppose you have a link to the video where Rollo says this? I'd like to do a video about it..That's awful cringeworthy try hard advice! | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 09:21 AM |
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