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Depends. For daygame, you can't go wrong with Street Hustle by Torero, as an introduction, then Daygame Mastery by Krauser for more advanced stuff and details. For videos, here's a pretty good place to start: https://odysee.com/@tomtoreroarchive:e/Beginner%27s-Guide-To-Daygame-%281080p_25fps_H264-128kbit_AAC%29:4
/r/TheRedPill27/06/25 07:47 AM
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Unless you got a physical copy, you've been scammed. It's always been a free PDF. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 11:58 PM
1

Yeah, don't. Leaves more for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:44 PM
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That last point seems unfortunately true from my experience. I've always had better success in Central/Eastern European countries than Western ones (though admittedly, I haven't done that many of the latter).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:41 PM
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Three out of a hundred are good stats. Usually you'll get one or two if you're a beginner. Still worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:39 PM
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If you want to keep them coming back, yes. Try different stuff, positions, oral, toys, dominance, spanking, choking, tying her up, dirty talking, etc. Variety is the spice of life. And also take care of your looks on top of that, because honestly it's really not that hard to do the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:09 PM
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Sure, but why would you go for women your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:06 PM
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And here's what you guys should respond to this: "It's ok, I understand" and/or "We're not going to do anything you're not comfortable with". Then just proceed with the escalation, roll off if needed, and try again. Watch her actions, not her words. But for god's sake do NOT insist after a hard no or when it's clear she's not into it.
/r/seduction02/11/22 10:39 PM
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Sounds like she gave you the ol' eye mesmer. So yeah, probably interested.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:34 AM
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It doesn't matter if you have good game, but if they bother you, switch to contact lenses or even laser eye surgery. Actually, fix whatever's bothering you physically (glasses, acne, weight, hair loss, fashion) so you both increase your SMV and, most importantly, don't make up any more excuses.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:19 AM
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One simple question: did you escalate, and at least try going for the kiss? If not, you fucked up.
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:27 PM
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When they're not from here, accusing them of being a spy and of trying to seduce you to extract information is pretty effective though.
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:23 PM
4

The fact she's breathing is your invitation, my dude.
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:46 PM
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Apparently it's infested by daygamers, but then again it's one of the best places to actually do it.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:19 PM
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Improv classes help for sure, but you can also do it directly in the streets, in your head. Sit down on a bench, walk in the streets, and look at the girls. Some examples: A girl dressed: - In black: looks like a spy, or a ninja, trying to move around without being noticed. - In black and white: a cute panda, or a cute piano. - With a striped something: she's a sailor, or a zebra. - With a blue top, white pants: why hello there smurfette. Bonus points if she's small. - With a red top/coat: littl…
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:08 PM
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Let me guess, London?
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:39 PM
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Do some improv. You have to be able to take almost any subject and just go along with it. Stereotypes, anecdotes, your own experiences, whatever. Go to a random country or job generator and brainstorm ideas. For instance, France = baguettes, croissants, cheese, Eiffel tower, Amelie Poulain, etc. And if you don't know anything about it, just say it. "You know, I have no idea what it's like in Whereverthefuckistan. Is it a beautiful place?" First though, you'll have brain freeze because of the anx…
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:36 PM
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"Hey, random but cool meeting you yesterday. Are you always this friendly to new people?! [your name]" Don't overthink it, but don't call her. Keep that for after you sleep with her.
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:27 PM
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Most of this would be true if not for one thing: almost nobody cold approaches. And even less people cold approach consistently. Often times I run out of things to say after the greeting. There's a method to the madness. Look up the London Daygame Model, and do some improv. It's actually simple, but it's not easy and takes time to do fluently. I don't have what they want. I don't bring value when I approach because my personality and lifestyle and thought process have no relevance to them. It's …
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:34 AM
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No, your opener is fine, it's what comes after that's the hard part. Daygame is the art of improv, at its core. I use the London Daygame Model, so I usually make an observation about the girl, trying to guess where she's from based on her looks. If she's clearly from here, I'll go for her job or her vibe. Almost always wrong, but when they correct you, you can expand: "when I think of France, I think of you drinking wine under the eiffel tower, with accordeons in the background..." "Oh you're a …
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:36 AM
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How would you feel if a salesman approached you? It would depend on his spiel, it would depend on what mood you're in. A more apt analogy would be how you would feel if a girl approached you. If she's ugly, you'll be like "Thanks, but I appreciate the compliment." If she's hot, you'd probably stay there and hear her out till the end. Now equate the beauty of that girl to your own mix of looks, charisma, banter and most importantly, confidence. That's how cold approach feels to them. The salesman…
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:11 AM
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No dates out of 15 numbers is a pretty bad score. Either your text game needs some work, or you're not getting girls to invest enough before asking for their digits. Are you following a set structure?
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:44 AM
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Funnily enough, it's when you start doing it that you'll notice them, if you're in a big enough city.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:44 PM
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Find an excuse to show her something on your phone, then sit next to her. And stay there.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:04 PM
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You're welcome, and there's plenty more where that came from. Check out the rest of the daygame playlist on the channel, it's a great place to start.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:11 AM
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Let me rephrase, I typed that late at night so it may have been a bit incoherent. First option: find someone to go out with, who motivates you to approach women. There are groups online for major cities, I found some amazing guys to go out with that way: https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/ Second option: do it alone. But you have to start with something easy. - Ask "Where can I find an independent coffee shop?" to anyone you meet, then thank them after they give you some pointers. You can then tr…
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:47 PM
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Doesn't matter. You can say you like how her hat fits her, how the color of her blouse complements her pants, even say you like the way she walks. I've used it dozens of times and they're almost always receptive.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:19 PM
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Find a good wing in your city who is willing to push you to get out there. It really helps in the beginning. If you can't, start slow. Ask for an independent coffee shop to some random person, then an older woman, then a girl your age, then a girl your age you find attractive. Try and have a bit of small talk if you can. Next do the same but with a compliment, just a random "I like your style" if you don't know what to say. Then wish them a nice day and eject. Next, start stacking. "What I notic…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:59 AM
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Good on you for taking action. Are you following a structure or just winging it?
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:46 PM
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Probably "Yes officer, this guy right here".
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:51 PM
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Tease her, make silly assumptions about what she tells you, use stereotypes (in a calibrated way), accuse her of random stuff, role play with her, etc. Improv can help with that. To train yourself, you can use a random generator on countries, jobs, hobbies, etc. and just riff on the result. ​ "You're from Paris? When I think of France, I think of you sipping red wine under the Eiffel tower, spreading cheese on your baguette..." "Oh, you're a lawyer? Yeah, I can picture you in your lawyer gown th…
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:40 PM
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Good on you for taking action. That's the one most important step a lot of people won't take. From what you're writing, it seems like you're approaching girls while being totally indirect. As a result, sure, you'll have an easier time getting numbers, but you'll also often fall into the dreaded friendzone, since nothing you say to them reveals any kind of attraction on your part. You'll have to show your cards at some point, and better do it sooner than later. Now, if you think this is easy and …
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:27 PM
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One does not simply walk into more doors.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:34 PM
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Funnily enough, the rejection of hard science in favor of a more vague, PC "everyone is different", "beauty is subjective", "just be yourself", etc. is probably a mating strategy in itself, on an unconscious level. "Oh no I'm not like those creepy PUA's and their canned lines and statistics, I'm different and agree with what you girls are saying! Please pick me now!" Just like the nice guy and the jerk. But we all know who pulled more in the end.
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:42 AM
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"You look really nice, so I wanted to come and say hello." Can be understood both ways and is still a direct statement of intent, especially if you put the emphasis on "really". But for real, you can say whatever you want. Cute, beautiful, nice, hot, it all works (just don't be crude, obviously). Most won't even remember exactly what you said anyway, they'll just remember a cool dude came up to talk to them because he liked them.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:19 PM
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Yeah, it's a good opener. You're direct, you're honest, you don't hide your dick. It's alright to compliment her on her looks, almost no one else has the balls to do it in broad daylight, which is a big plus. It would be a little different in bars and nightgame however, where you (usually) go verbally indirect, but isolate and escalate to show your intention. Don't worry about how they'll react to it. 85-90% are going to smile and appreciate your honesty, the rest is going to be meh about it, an…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:07 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, but this isn't true for the vast majority of people.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:46 AM
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Watch her actions, not her words. Ghost/ignore. If she reinitiates contact, sure, try and get the lay but don't expend too much energy on it. Go focus on some other chicks instead.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:43 AM
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Respect. Do you still cold approach nowadays?
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:51 PM
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So never, because there's no way to know beforehand?
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:49 PM
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Good post but funnily enough, what you're saying above sounds exactly like sleazy PUA marketing. "Act like this and every woman you approach is guaranteed to go on a date with you!" Truth is, most guys are going to have to grind it out for a while before getting a decent success rate, since bad habits and mindsets don't change overnight. But good things will come to those who persist.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:39 PM
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This.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:27 PM
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That's like saying men are shallow for wanting a feminine woman. Don't know about you, but I find it quite normal for women to want someone assertive and dominant and for men to want someone caring and emotional. Male-female polarity is a good thing, nobody wants some weird androgynous, asexual being.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:26 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:23 AM
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She actually gave you fantastic advice. Go see other girls, lots of them. Get that abundance mentality ingrained in yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:20 AM
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Four words, friend: go and find out. Worst case, you get a no. Best case, you get a notch. Seems like good risk-reward to me.
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:08 AM
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No, but it will help you understand why we act like we do.
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:06 AM
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Alternatively: "Alright, here's what we're gonna do: you give me your phone number, and I will send you one message in a couple of days. If you want to come out then, great, if not we'll just both carry on with our lives. Sounds good?" Ideally this should be done after building some comfort. The point is to show you know what's up, that's how the game is played, and if it's just token resistance more often than not she'll accept.
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:33 PM
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Nah dude. There are gold diggers out there, but the women Elon Musk fucks are more attracted to his status rather than his money. He's one of the world's most famous entrepreneurs, and he has, in simple terms, power. You don't have to be a billionaire to have power. Hell, you don't even need money. Balls of steel, an unbreakable frame, irrational confidence - THAT is what gives women tingles. Money and physique obviously help, but you'd be surprised how forgiving girls can be when you've just go…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:53 AM
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I agree, practice makes perfect. The important thing is to field-test whatever notion of flirting or line you want to try out to see what works for you.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:39 PM
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It's great general advice for men AND for women, but it's terrible advice that won't help you if you want to ask less questions when flirting, which is what OP asked. Without going into specifics, good advice in that regard would be: - Make assumptions and playfully twist her words. - Tease her and spike the conversation. - Role play based on what she says, on the situation, etc. - Shut up every once in a while and let silence linger a while longer than usual, to build up sexual tension. - Don't…
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:34 PM
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Well yes but again, it's obvious one-size-fits-all advice, in the same league as "dress well", "keep a good posture", or "read a book every week". It won't help you if you're clueless about flirting.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:24 PM
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This is the most bland and generic advice in this thread and I have no idea why this is getting upvoted. You could literally apply this to anything. "Make sure you've showered" well yeah, also make sure you're fully clothed and remember to breathe every once in a while.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:25 AM
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Despite how bleak all of that seems, I firmly believe that the overwhelming majority of men can be successful in dating if they are willing to put the work in. That means taking concrete, actionable steps. Lifting weights consistently, get a well-suited haircut, striving to have a lucrative career, putting yourself in uncomfortable situations to improve your social skills, adopting an outcome independent mindset ect... it might be much harder depending on the hand you are dealt but such is life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:00 PM
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The motivation is surpassing your limits and making those max reps go up, and knowing you're building the foundation for a healthier life later on. And yeah, women will almost always prefer someone even slightly muscular to some fat slob, so that's an added benefit.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:22 AM
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"Hi, I just saw you and I wanted to say you look really nice, so I thought I'd come and say hello." You can open with something along those lines, stating your intent. That's your reason. Then, "What I noticed about you was..." then stack with something else, depending on what she looks like. "you look like a spy, all dressed in black, coming to steal our nation's secrets" "you have a very dreamy look about you, like you just woke up from a long nap" "you look very relaxed, like you just came ou…
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:09 AM
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Vicky Cristina Barcelona is a pretty good one, depending on the mood you want to set.
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:26 PM
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Spot on with those numbers. Wonder if you took inspiration from this?
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:45 AM
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R-selectors vs. K-selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:38 PM
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"How do I get her (back)?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:04 PM
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From what people are posting on this sub, definitely not anyone can do that, especially if there's a statement of intent in the approach. Hell, I've heard of spec ops guys having problems approaching women, and they're certainly not lacking in the balls department. Social anxiety is a very real thing. If you're not affected by it then fantastic, you're one of the lucky ones. For others it's an irrational fear that can fortunately be reduced through exposure therapy, so I'd argue there is value i…
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:38 PM
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It's not necessarily that the girl has value, the value is in proving to yourself that you have the balls to approach and to overcome your own social anxiety.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:10 PM
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*lonely men. Women generally don't pay for anything on these kinds of apps.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:56 PM
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Fucking hell dude, you took oneitis to the next level. Short answer: you don't. You probably don't want to hear this, but she's not interested or she would have given you your shot as soon as she was able. Take whatever time you need to move on (though maybe not 20 more years) and move on.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:40 AM
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Don't see how that necessarily correlates. I'm going to guess you didn't really know him and his stuff, he always preached living with just what you need and that you really don't need that much money to travel and enjoy other cultures and people. And he definitely lived that way as well.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:05 PM
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Dude was living in a van and considered downgrading to a motorbike, materialism didn't mean shit to him. But when your name's been dragged through the mud and your only source of income, everything you worked for in the last ten years, is killed just like that because some cunt thought it would give their site some clicks, well yeah, that's one of the things that can drive a man off the edge.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:34 AM
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Okay, first off, read the Book of Pook. It's freely available online and touches on how to be a man better than most paid resources. And it sounds like you're exactly who that book was written for. Next, check your testosterone levels. When low, they can have adverse effects on your mood and your mental well-being. Take whatever steps you can to correct them if need be. ​ If you want to be successful with women you have to become a real man. Not just with women, in life as well. The nervous nice…
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:11 PM
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Not so sure myself. They basically nuked his streams of income. The only way he could is bringing back a website on a provider that is less strict and/or more resilient to pressure, but the whole YouTube thing is probably gone for good. And since he had basically retired, I don't think he's gonna bother.
/r/seduction13/11/21 10:53 AM
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The worst part about it is that he hasn't been convicted of anything, yet here the article treats him like a criminal, revealing his real name, noting he has an address in Colombia but that "his current whereabouts are unknown". A public lynching of sorts. I think the non-consensual audio sex recordings are what might have done him in, it's a legal gray area and it frankly was unnecessary. Same with the 17-year-old, that was pushing it. The rest is just moral shaming for sleeping with girls half…
/r/seduction13/11/21 10:47 AM
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He got fucked by the media, like so many others before him. https://www.newsweek.com/pick-artist-sold-sex-audios-targeted-teen-girls-using-major-tech-firms-1648461
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:15 PM
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Come on, don't get triggered now. It won't affect me either way, so I really don't care if you get vaccinated or not. Your body, your choice, etc. You brought forth arguments, I brought forth counter-arguments, people can do with it what they will. Not saying "you have to get vaccinated or else!", just exposing my point of view as you did yours. Don't know why you're taking it as an attack against the unjabbed but hey, you do you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 10:45 AM
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"Mostly" still implies there's a chance you'll croak from it. Sure, statistically speaking you probably don't need it as you said, but since the vaccine has almost no downsides that we know of (except for those 1 in a million people but hey, that's most vaccines anyways), I'd rather have all the odds stacked in my favor, at least based on current data.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 09:37 AM
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He used the blue pill to destroy the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 10:31 AM
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As a wise man once said: "Faint heart never fucked fair lady."
/r/seduction17/02/21 12:18 AM
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https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-21 Read the Secret of the Jerk part. It answers all.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:38 AM
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I understood this as probing for indicators of interest. How would she react to kino? Eye contact? Teasing? Does she back up her words with actions? That should tell you what you want to know.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:42 AM
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Book of Pook. It's free and it's exactly what you're looking for.
/r/seduction26/11/20 11:34 PM
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The Book of Pook should be on every man's reading list.
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:11 PM
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The next day she left my place, I asked her to hang out later and she responded with she needs time to process what I told her Red flag. ​ then I sent her roses and texted her. Why? She didn't do shit to deserve this, quite the contrary. ​ she didn't respond for 9 hours. She never followed up with me She doesn't care about you. Would you have reacted like that if she had been the one bankrupt? I'm gonna guess no. ​ and I feel like crap. Don't. She saw you as an ATM, and now that in her mind you'…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:43 PM
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Yes. It's quite simple, really. Nature is about men being men and women being women. Feminism (at least in its current form) is about women becoming more like men and men becoming more like women. In a battle between a social construct invented less than a century ago and a biological reality that's been here for hundreds of thousands of years, should we even wonder what is going to prevail in the end? ​ In other words, a male that is 80% male (presents traits that are 80% of his accepted biolog…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 04:19 PM
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Looks like someone read Pook. Good post. ​ He may not have been Aristotle or Napoleon, but he was a great man nonetheless. It is impossible for your line to have continued if he wasn't a great man. That is how sex is acquired, women fundamentally are drawn to the great men. In medieval times, you'd just get with whoever was available in your village, and you couldn't really care about who you ended up with. Chances are you'd never leave anyway, so you had to settle. (Thank fuck we don't live in …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/19 08:50 AM
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I have good friends and a good family, but no income of my own right now. I am preparing an important exam that will take place in January, if I pass I get a good job, if I fail I will have to actively look for one (high unemployment here in Spain). Of course having no job is a serious drawback for dating. I live with my parents, which here is way way more common than in America, but after a certain age (I'm 30 at the moment) you stand out, and not positively. That's the first thing you'll have …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 02:59 PM
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International Men's Day is people blubbering "Men can be vulnerable and compassionate! Men can cry whenever they want! Men don't have to be tough all the time!" International Women's Day is more like "Women are strong and independent! Women can be in charge too! Women can achieve great things!" In other words, IMD is about men becoming more like women, and IWD is about women becoming more like men. Society is becoming more and more androgynous under the guise of equality, completely ignoring wha…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 10:27 AM
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“I see in the fight club the strongest and smartest men who've ever lived. I see all this potential and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables, slaves with white collars, advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of the history man, no purpose or place, we have no Great war, no Great depression, our great war is a spiritual war, our great depression is our lives, we've be…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 01:00 PM
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MGTOW and TRP differ in a few ways. As I see it: - MGTOW is just dudes doing their own thing, living life as they see fit, and oftentimes seems to avoid serious relationships with women. - TRP is focused on analyzing the two genders' sexual strategies, how they differ and how you can use that knowledge to your advantage as a man. You could technically be both, but from my experience most people here aren't MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 03:14 PM
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because you don’t eat where you shit. It all hinges on this. Would you be okay, if things went south, to workout at the same place she does? If yes, make your move. If not, don't. But for the record... I doubt you're going to have any clearer signals besides a giant blinking "FUCK ME DADDY" panel above her head.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:50 PM
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Right, if you're an absolute beginner, sort this forum by Top - All-time. Read some of the posts that interest you, then try putting their advice into practice. It'll be a good foundation. Number 3 isn't too important. Always assume attraction. If she isn't attracted, she'll be quick to let you know.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:37 PM
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Go find some other girls in the meantime then try again once her exams are over.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:32 PM
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It's funny, cause everyone here is like "I'm too scared to approach", and you have girls coming on to you and still are like "halp, wut do?" Dude, congrats. You started lifting and looking better, and now you're reaping the results. Girls notice and are even taking steps to start something with you. They're literally serving themselves to you on a silver platter. Some people would kill to have that. So, here's my advice if it happens again: just go with it. Have a casual chat with the girl, then…
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:27 PM
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It's actually incredible how this dude single-handedly touched on almost each and every RP principle years before this subreddit was even a thing. And as a plus, it's quite an entertaining read as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 02:18 PM
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Basically: - They have free pizza and bagel days. At a gym. - As stated above, there's often no barbells/proper equipment for lifting heavy. - And even if you somehow found a way to lift heavy, chances are some dickwad behind the counter will activate their "lunk alarm". Why? Because you're lifting too heavy, grunting and making noise, and it's making their other clients "uncomfortable".
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 11:55 AM
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Bluepill/Beta/Nice Guys often have low-self esteem, and low self-worth. They don’t pursue what they want, because they don’t believe they are good enough to have it. They put everyone else’s needs before their own. They try to please everyone. They are people-pleases, approval seekers, validation seekers. They are dishonest and indirect about what they want. They fear confrontation, conflict and emotional tension. They are co-dependent. They expect others to read their minds. They have poor boun…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 11:47 AM
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Academic vacancies at TU Eindhoven exclusively for women ​ “We attach great importance to equal respect and opportunities for women and men,” explains Rector Frank Baaijens of TU/e. ​ Exclusivity - equal opportunity. Pick one. ​ “And it has long been known that a diverse workforce performs better. It leads to better strategies, more creative ideas and faster innovation. " ​ Also, office sex. ​ We are now using the fact that plans to expand our academic staff considerably in the coming years can …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 12:44 PM
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One book I almost never see mentioned here (or anywhere else, for that matter), is How to Become Free in an Unfree World, by Harry Browne. It was written in 1974 but its principles are timeless still apply today. In short: live a life for yourself before everything else, focus on what you can have a major impact on, and don't fall into one of the many traps society has laid for you to fall in. The author's stance on government can be hit-or-miss at times, but the rest is more than valid. You can…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 11:58 AM
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Gonna have to disagree here. Not with the etymology, which is indeed correct, but with the reasoning behind it. ​ There are thousands of words in the english language which are taken from Latin and, in my view, deliberately changed to mean something else, in order to effectively take away the meaning of language and method of communication. ​ That's just how language works. The meaning of 'nice' wasn't "deliberately" changed, it's a process that took hundreds of years. It's a fascinating subject…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 10:29 AM
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Aw shit, here we go again. ​ A new study which found that only 3 per cent of heterosexuals were willing to date a transgender person proves society has a problem with “transprejudice” and must be re-educated, according to its author. ​ JFC. So many things wrong in a single sentence. Ah yes, heterosexuals need to be "reeducated" and learn to, somehow, modify their innate sexual preferences. Because that totally worked with homosexual reconversion camps, right? ​ In the study, [...] participants w…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:00 PM
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Some dude from the Sosuave forums from around the same time period. He basically says the same things, but in a more eloquent tone. Required reading IMHO: https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 06:24 PM
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One note about the first two phases is the importance of eye contact. Multiple times during the date I’ll try to make direct eye contact while thinking to myself “damn I want to fuck you so badly right now.” I think those thoughts basically get transferred into her brain telepathically or some shit. I don’t know if there’s any science supporting telepathy, but I think it’s definitely real. You can communicate your desires without saying anything. And that's the best way to do it. ​ I was just re…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 12:45 PM
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Here's my guess: She wants you for herself. If she only thinks you're sleeping with others but isn't sure, she still thinks she has a chance to "win" you and that those others won't count. If you openly admit to seeing other girls as a normal thing, she knows there's little chance you'll change just for her.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:53 PM
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Yup, that's the dual mating strategy. They say they like a nice guy with a decent paycheck and who can be a good father to her children, which they ultimately want. But they also desire the broke, adventurous and masculine guy, the dude that will make her feel various emotions, who'll surprise her so she can say "he's not my type and I don't usually do that, it just happened" to justify herself later.
/r/seduction21/09/17 12:27 PM
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Or she might just use him as social proof. "Look at my nice orbiter!"
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:07 PM
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That they weren't a pain in the ass.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:45 AM
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Exactly. She says "yes", you're good. She says "no", she's not interested. She says "I dunno, maybe", she means "don't fuck it up and I'll probably say yes later". And if she doesn't respond, could be anything. Ping her after a few days with "Kidnapped?" or something stupid like that. If she still doesn't respond, move on.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:35 AM
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Not required, but it helps. So do it. Starting Strength, three times a week. One of the best decisions in my life. Not required, but it also helps. So also start working on it. Go to Meetup groups with the same interests as yours and build that social circle. You might even find some girls to your liking there. Try Improv, it's always a nice skill to have. You don't have to be successful in your career, but be ambitious. Be driven. Aim for the stars and fight for it. Some don't. A vast majority …
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:28 AM
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TL;DR: Don't be a supplicating idiot.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:17 AM
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Just respond "Cool, let's meet at XXX at 7.30 pm tomorrow". And just go from there.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:11 AM
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"You have to wade through the shit but there's a few good nuggets of gold." This is more or less how someone on r/seduction described it and how I arrived here.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:46 AM
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Well it's classic AF/BB, right? I guess the dude's probably a nice, gentle guy, but he doesn't give her the tingles like them Chads do. So she looks for that elsewhere while staying in a relationship approved by society, the end goal for every woman from what I can tell.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:04 PM
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The Red Pill Handbook has got you covered. http://www.redpillhandbook.com/
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:36 PM
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Sperm Wars, though the stuff in it seems to be controversial. Interesting nonetheless.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:13 AM
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Rather the most recent than the most shocking, and more about hypergamy than AWALT. Went bar-hopping with a female friend yesterday, whom I've known for quite some time. She's riding the CC, and milking it for all its worth. Seems like every other week, she's fucking a dude she met at some venue. Then yesterday I find out she has a boyfriend of seven years. "So you guys are in an open relationship?" "Nah, it's just that if I don't do that, I don't think I could stay with him." "And he doesn't kn…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:57 AM
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"For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own." I believe that one's from Tomassi, and it pretty much sets the tone for the whole of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:20 AM
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I'd avoid the "Thanks, you too" option. It looks as if you feel obligated to return the favor and it doesn't feel genuine, even if it is. Just a "Thanks, I appreciate it" is enough if you want to return a neutral response while still showing validation. Other than that, well, it really depends on your personality. You can be funny, cocky, confident, whatever. Just keep your frame.
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:15 PM
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It was around 7:45 and I thought “fuck it” and moved somewhere so I can use my laptop and then an hour from our meetup time she messaged “Why do you even want to have dinner with me????” At this moment I’m like “what the fuck?” I replied to her “I just want to hang out. That’s all. If you didn’t want to go then you can just say no” This was your second mistake. She doesn't respect you? You cut all ties and stop wasting your time. If she comes back to you and apologizes, then maybe, just maybe yo…
/r/seduction16/06/16 01:11 PM
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^ This. If you feel miserable at one point, do something physical: exercise, clean stuff up, go run, whatever. Even if you still feel like shit, at the end of the day, you'll have accomplished something to be at least a little proud of.
/r/seduction16/06/16 11:13 AM
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Look at it from your perspective: if you suddenly were to hold her hand, what would be the reason behind it? Whatever the case, if you like her, ask her out and know for sure. Better to get a definite "yes" or "no" than an indefinite "what if...".
/r/seduction16/06/16 07:36 AM
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"For the curse of life, is the curse of want. And so, you peer... Into the fog, in hope of answers."
/r/seduction15/06/16 11:18 AM
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Could you give us some approaches you personally experienced and which you liked most?
/r/seduction15/06/16 11:06 AM
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