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Yeah I'm coming to terms with this more and more. I just turned 38 and realized I'm NEVER gonna be the "settle down and have kids" guy. I have ZERO interest in sending heartwarming holiday postcards with me and a woman who dotes on me lovingly. I'm out here for excitement, variety and fun. If I want to be competitive in this market, it's going to take some work. Making time for gym, exploring new career opportunities, aging gracefully and making sure I stay on top of my skin, hair, and body comp…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/24 02:56 PM
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I don't think this is bad advice per se but I also think that if the woman engages you and you're continuously attractive / play solid game, then what's the ROI? If you withdraw as a strat to get her to chase, is this any better than simply engaging and playing solid game? If you can engage her and tease her and disqualify yourself and make yourself the prize, is this not better than simply creating an attention vacuum that she fills with her top option? I honestly don't think the answers are as…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/24 05:53 AM
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Yeah I'm 37 and I've been slow to really embrace social media. I've posted on IG like once every 3-4 months and that's it. Lately I've been posting "stories" and reels with whatever's on my mind or just to share a funny / cool clip. What's really interesting is that the IG stories let you see everyone who clicked on / watched the story. So you get an idea of who might have interest in you in a way that you won't get if you just make a post, because not everyone who views your posts are going to …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/24 06:07 PM
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Thrown - "New Low" Depeche Mode - "It's No Good" Static X - "Just in Case"
/r/TheRedPill21/02/24 03:53 AM
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I agree... I'm not sure what the mental bug is with people like this. First and foremost, I consider myself a seducer. If I'm paying someone, then I'm not seducing them, and for all I know they'd be fucking a bed-bound morbidly obese guy with cheeto crumbs on his chest if he paid them enough. What IS interesting is seducing dancers/burlesque performers/strippers... because people pay them and they're with you by choice.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 08:31 AM
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I kind of agree but not really. I get a lot of satisfaction out of sex, and I think pretty much nothing tops great sex. Great sex with hot girlfriends ranks higher for me than pretty much any other activity. One of the best days of my life was going over to my hot big-titted 19 y/o nympho girlfriend's house, fucking her in every room of the house in various positions while her parents weren't home, and then waking up the next day to her slapping me with her big tits before I fucked her again. An…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 08:27 AM
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David Sinclair, who is a researcher on aging, states pretty directly that biological age doesn't coincide with numeric age for every person. So there are people who are 40 who are biologically early 30's. I think Rollo's statement is more along the lines of "men CAN age like wine and women cannot" versus men do age like wine and women can't. His whole premise is that once a woman's looks start fading, so does her mating value. But as a man gets older, his overall value to women will typically in…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 05:37 PM
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Good post and I agree. I think that an unfortunate amount of posters on this subreddit tend to overly glorify monk-like dedication to purpose and self-improvement as a kind of compensatory deflection for their lack of human intimacy. And by the way I think the word "intimacy" has taken on a negative connotation for many men. I know when I used to hear it I would instantly think of the bald fuck Dr. Phil ranting at men about how they need to be more open with their feelings. But intimacy really j…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 03:28 AM
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I've had experiences similar to OP, so I'd like to comment and relate them and maybe fill in some gaps of understanding for the guys here who are asking questions. I lost my virginity at 25 in 2011. After that, I got laid on a fairly normal basis... way less than I would've liked some years, but I averaged maybe 3-4 a year, sometimes more on some years, and some years were rough and I'd only fuck 1 or 2. Since 2011 I've fucked over 30 girls, maybe 35-38 right now. 2019 was fucking a terrible yea…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 02:56 AM
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Sometimes I read posts like this and just sort of furrow my brow. LIFT, EAT, DESTROY, KILL. Lol. There is some value here, yes, but you don't need to be some ultra-serious jacked nomad to get laid. In fact, I think posts like this can be counter-productive insofar as guys read them and start subconsciously thinking "I have to do ABC and XYZ to make myself desirable so women will like me." When in reality, some of this stuff will help. Lifting and being in good shape will help. Building up mental…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 01:00 AM
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I can definitely empathize with all the positives you outlined. At the same time I've always wanted women to want me for me as corny as that sounds. What you inevitably missed out on was learning how to actually seduce. You definitely can make up for lost time, but seduction is a skill I wouldn't sell. Like you I'm a bit shorter than average and some of my biggest highlights were bedding women nearly 6 ft who were enthusiastic about it. There was something extremely satisfying knowing I took no …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 07:03 AM
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"She won't make it to HR before I call the bad joke police on you! :]"
/r/TheRedPill28/08/21 12:17 AM
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The only real indicator of attraction you can gauge as a man is whether or not the woman is allowing your escalation attempts. Does she let you close distance, touch her, kiss her, move her to another area, be alone with you, take off her clothes? If you're texting, will she give you her number? Does she respond? Is she willing to meet up with you? A woman can tell you that you're hot and meanwhile have intentions of milking you for free dinners or entertainment or whatever else. If she tells yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 12:43 AM
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This has been my experience. Even with ex-girlfriends. The guy to usurp is not more "alpha" than me in any way, he is a patient beta who texts her after I'm done blowing my load all over her. And eventually the Disney fantasy creeps in and I am not the go-to guy anymore. She needs picnics and flowers and emotional bonding lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 12:38 AM
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Thank you, this was the best laugh I had in a while! LOL
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 10:19 AM
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You mean she "just" sleeps with you? As in, she wants your companionship but doesn't want the sex? If that's the case, you will need to brake-pump her.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:50 AM
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What are your logistics like? If you live close to her and meeting up with her often and she's holding out on sex, then IMO, you need to get ready to leave, and show her you're ready to leave. If she doesn't change, leave. I've never had this issue but I filter for women with high sex drives anyway. Your situation sounds awful.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:18 AM
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I don't think another reply can top this one. Brilliantly put. In addition OP, you might want to be super dominant next time you fuck your girl and even subtly allude to what's going on when you fuck her. "[Name], do you like this dick inside you?" If she tells you yes: slide in the tip "Just my dick, right?" She says yes. "Are you sure? I want you to tell me you're my little bitch and your pussy belongs to me." And basically don't actually full penetrate or fuck her until she affirms that she i…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:43 PM
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Not necessarily. People can get truly busy. My best friend and I can go months without talking. He has a full time job and a family. I have a fulltime job and I'm doing my own shit on the side in addition to dating.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:52 AM
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This guy is right. And just some food for thought, I had a godson who was 15 and committed suicide last month and it has devastated me. I found his reddit account after he passed and I saw he had made posts kind of similar to the one you made here where he was like "My friends all abandoned me and the one girl I cared about dumped me". But it's like, if you want to maintain a relationship with someone, some of it is on you. You have to make an effort to reach out and there is a very good chance …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:47 AM
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Not really, I don't give a shit about the alzheimers patient in chief.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 03:06 AM
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Identity politics is cancer. Communism purveys a 'communal' view of the world whereby you cannot be an individual, you can only be a faceless representation of your identity group. IE you are not a unique person with unique experiences who has inherent value as an individual. You are merely a product of your race and socioeconomic standing. It's a gross ideology that undermines rational thinking, peddles needless conflict, and encourages resentment of people who are doing well for themselves.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:27 AM
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This a pretty bizarre question. My identity hasn't changed at all. I've always been libertarian, so I've never felt represented by either of the two major parties. But regardless of what happens in politics, my identity is something personal to me and my race barely informs my sense of identity in any case. The only time I think about it is when lefty blowhards bring it up because they can't escape their communist thinking and have no ability to recognize themselves or others as individual human…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:20 AM
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I'm a white guy, but I too have questioned how to handle women who have been indoctrinated into this way of thinking (and many have, especially younger women). I slept with a woman in January who was of hispanic descent and referred to herself as a "person of color." When I woke up she was making coffee and watching the previous night's re-run of Saturday Night Live and laughing at their lame-ass woke humor. For you it's a bit different because the women will feel you are "threatened" and "under…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:23 AM
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I got banned from okcupid a while back because I asked a feminist if she had considered humanism and she reported me lol. Look up how to change your mac address. That's how I got back in.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:38 PM
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Last girl I was with, I went to her toilet and steadied my hand on the side of her bath tub only to look at my hand and find it covered in white powder. She was doing lines of coke in there... huge turn off.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 12:34 AM
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This man's asking the important questions.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 09:21 AM
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I agree. Anybody who says posting on social media for smv flexing is a feminine behavior is a dinosaur. The rules have changed. It's not 1995 and the majority of my lays have come from DM's over social media or online dating.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:10 AM
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The nature of women IS genuinely depressing sometimes bro. The fact that you will be used for what you can give them at the time, and then they can move on easily and not give a fuck about you. I don't think there is an easy answer here. The only thing I can really say is TRP allows us as men to see reality the way it is truly constructed and thereby game the system instead of the system gaming us 24/7. Some genuine, cool people exist out there that you can bond with and who will not just use yo…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:21 AM
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So, when I was 18, I had an esthetician at a dermatology clinic do multiple rounds of IPL (intense-pulsed light) on my face to cut back on the redness. I flushed really badly on my cheeks from the slightest bit of heat or spicy food (to the point where people would ask me if I was sunburned). This helped me a lot. The esthetician used a light pulse to zap the blood vessels in my face and therefore dramatically reduced the redness. Today, my redness is reduced by a lot, tho I will still get redne…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:58 PM
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Generally I would agree, but for anyone who gets eczema on their face, head and shoulders classic clean applied in the shower really does work and makes the eczema go away. It's because the shampoo is mildly medicated with pyrithione zinc. It can dry your face out, so I recommend applying it WHILE IN the shower, because the moisture in the air will help mitigate the drying effect. I've tried to apply the shampoo at the sink (out the shower) and it does dry too much and burn that way. But in the …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:27 AM
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No problem. If you're talking about back acne, I'd go ahead and start doing the cetaphil + head and shoulders routine just to cut down on the amount of oil on your body. Wouldn't hurt to rub some on your back and leave it there for a bit. Definitely start a Vitamin A supplement to cut down the amount of sebum your body makes. If none of this helps, you can go to a derm who will likely prescribe you a benzoyl peroxide soap. Benzoyl Peroxide is the ingredient in anti-acne products like Clearasil, …
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:43 PM
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Here is my routine. I'm 32 and people routinely tell me I look like I'm in my mid twenties. I was born with all sorts of dumbass skin conditions (keratosis pilaris, rosacea, eczema, blepharitis), so I had to sort all of this out kind of on my own through experimentation. For reference, I'm a white guy, so your mileage may vary. Cetaphil cleanser pretty much every day, either when I wake up or in the shower. Just get the one designed for body cleansing because it lacks fragrance. The fragrance ch…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:27 PM
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This is a good question and a big reason I voted Trump...what's at stake are not just policies...what's at stake was also the culture war. 4-8 years of male demonization, free speech and thought policing, legitimization of far left extremist views (the idea that gender has no rooting in biology for instance)... versus a culture that embraces women AND men, embraces free speech and free thought EVEN IF it's offensive, and acts as a bulwark for at least SOME degree of traditionalism. Trump isn't t…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 04:14 AM
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The media totally ignores this. Hillary's cavalier attitude toward starting fucking World War 3 is vastly more concerning than any macho bullshit Trump has ever spewed. Trump wants to renew relations with Russia and Hillary threatens a no-fly zone and wants to put troops on the ground to fight Assad. The woman is a warmonger and a lunatic.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:09 PM
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I agree. The policies are secondary. What's really at stake here is the cultural zeitgeist. Hillary winning legitimizes Buzzfeed/modern feminism and cements it as a norm. Trump would be an earthquake to the plans of cultural leftists, and they are terrified of how popular he is after unsuccessfully trying to shun him as a quack like they did with Ron Paul.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:00 PM
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I argued with a feminist today on Facebook because she posted a picture listing basically 10 reasons white people should sit down and shut up. The 10th thing on the list was "Remember that you are racist. No matter what." Long story short, she ignored my arguments and tried to attack me personally. Accused me of 'throwing a denial tantrum' even though I was perfectly calm. Called me an "ordinary white man fixated on his own exceptionalism." Lots of stupid buzzwords, flat out annihilated her logi…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 12:45 AM
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Hey again. Once again, similar situation. This girl is truly awesome. She drove me around when my car broke down to parts places (Sears/Autozone) and took a day off work to help me get all that done the next day. She pays for my meals or at least pitches in frequently. She reimburses me for the gas money I use to go see her. She plays old-school NES games with me. Fucking great girl. Like you, attraction has also faded. She continues to smoke all day, which makes me not even want to kiss her. Th…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 08:00 PM
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You're welcome. Like I said, I'm dealing with a similar situation, so I've been thinking about it a lot.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 07:52 PM
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Yo man, my situation mirrors yours very closely. Here is my recent post if you want to read it. What you said here: "I've been with my LTR for a year now. Our relationship has been shaky due to the fact that she is insecure and needs lots of reinforcement. This results in her getting upset with me for ridiculous things, which in turn has caused my attraction in her to fade." I can completely identify with this. The girl in question would blow up at me over small things. Anytime I mention another…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:45 PM
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If you don't believe that video games help with negotiation of social dynamics, you've clearly never played a small-scale, ultra-competitive team based multiplayer game like Counter-Strike Global Offensive. It's a 5v5 game where everyone coordinating matters. Using your microphone to talk to people is pretty much mandatory. You can learn to lead, persuade, and work together by playing that game alone. That films are subjectively more artistic and relatable to more people is generally true but al…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 12:30 PM
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I think video games are unfairly targeted as a kind of vice, but they are in fact no worse than other harmless hobbies, like watching film or reading books and are in many cases superior because they require interaction, decision-making, and in multiplayer games, negotiation of social dynamics. In other words, they aren't passive. When should you worry? If you notice that video games (or any hobby) begin to swallow up your time and attention to the exclusion of other areas of your life you need …
/r/askTRP15/07/15 07:57 AM
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Well, the deed is done... I actually broke down crying on the phone whenever I was telling her how I didn't want to feel like I was responsible for her day to day happiness, and how I didn't want to feel like me leaving would cause her to enter into a downward spiral. Essentially I asked her what BBS asked me... what is the endgame? Do we just keep going in circles like this, where she wants more from me than I have to give? I told her I don't want her out of my life, but we needed to take our f…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 06:17 AM
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Thanks, man. Thoughtful reply here.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 03:40 PM
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Your head "being shaped badly" is all in your head. Your head is shaped just how evolution designed it over millions of years, to support and protect your brain. Unless you're this guy, you're fine.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:51 PM
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Yeah you're right...totally right.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:46 PM
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I do like her as a human. She is a very sweet person, good natured, helped me out when I needed help (drove me around to repair shops when my car alternator died in her city), pays for my meals sometimes. I just feel like my attraction to her has diminished since we first dated in 2012 and it won't come back, which is exacerbated by her habits & neediness. I would have no problems keeping her as a friend and fucking her every once in a while but I'm pretty certain she won't be open to that at al…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:21 PM
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Yeah... some truth here. You are probably right.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:17 PM
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These are fair questions. I would say that during June she was a plate, but her neediness (and general sweetness as a human being) encroached. She would ask things like "Are you mine?" to which I would answer in the affirmative. I told her I would like it if she's exclusive to me, but if she felt like fucking other guys, to tell me first, and that it'd probably be OK with me. But it's starting to feel like a full blown LTR now. I drove out to her (she lives in another city) this past weekend and…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:12 PM
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A few years ago, I had white skin flakes crusting off my ballsack after I got with one chick. Scared the fucking shit out of me. I got a yeast infection from her. All clear now, thank fuck.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:59 PM
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That's a very elucidating question...I think I have sort of been idealistically holding out hope I'll meet her a week from now and she'll have quit or dramatically cut back smoking, started going to the gym, is emotionally balanced (non-needy), and has her great skin back. If all of that were fulfilled (and she stopped getting tattooed), then IDK, I would probably really like being with her. But all of that shit cascades into itself. I hate the fact that I don't want to kiss her because she smok…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:32 PM
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The OP is true but it applies in context to what the individual woman wants. The fact that the OP is working full time and also in school has NOTHING to do with the immediate sexual excitation of the woman. An 18 year old college slut won't care AT ALL about your earning potential, just whether or not you can show her a fun time and bang her brains out. If you CAN'T do that right now... if you are a 400 pounds World of Warcraft nerd with no social skills and you're "gradually improving yourself"…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 05:00 AM
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Funny you say this. I asked guy at the job fair a lot about the job and a bit about himself. The guy above him called me today to set up a phone interview tomorrow. He said the guy I talked to spoke very highly of me and put me at the top of the list of candidates. The guy I met at the job fair has a background in sales, so perhaps he saw something in me he liked. I'm just naturally a very curious dude, and I legit want to understand things.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:23 PM
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Ruffalo is speaking about egalitarian feminism, not the misandrist feminism we see running amok today. I would wager that nobody on TRP has a problem with women being able to vote, own land, visit rape crisis centers, or file for divorce. What we have a problem with are feminists who attempt to demonize men by criticizing every single fucking thing they do. Sitting with one's legs apart because we have balls is "manspreading." Attempting to use logic and reason to explain a situation is "manspla…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 11:54 PM
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Thanks for the solid advice. I'm really enjoying that link. I'm watching some of his other videos now. The guy's logic is really clear and on point. After assessing my past mistakes and how people perceived me, I'm making an effort to hone those soft skills by being more positive, more open-minded, and less argumentative.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:52 AM
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Hey, guys. I just wanted to update you all on how things are going and what progress I'm making. I DID go to the job fair. Let me tell you, I felt initially very uncomfortable getting dressed in a button-down shirt and slacks, but it felt good to venture out of my room and into the great unknown of the real world. I concede that all of you here who told me to go, as well as my dad and mom, were right. It was a good move. At the very least it got me into the working world atmosphere again, intera…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:24 PM
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I totally get you. I just would hate to see the forum turn super cynical, where when a girl is out of sight, we automatically assume she is getting fucked 10 ways to Sunday by Chad and his friends -- even if some guys here have had horrible experiences. I Joe Rogan Experience while I lift (true story).
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:23 PM
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Hey, guys. I just wanted to update you all on how things are going and what progress I'm making. I DID go to the job fair. Let me tell you, I felt initially very uncomfortable getting dressed in a button-down shirt and slacks, but it felt good to venture out of my room and into the great unknown of the real world. I concede that all of you here who told me to go, as well as my dad and mom, were right. It was a good move. At the very least it got me into the working world atmosphere again, intera…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:18 PM
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There is far more to it. I did have an HR "encounter" a year or so before where my manager DID go to bat for me. Basically HR stuck their nose in and was like "This guy seems like he's a problem" and my manager was like "Nah, he's great, keep him." So it has happened before. In this circumstance I believe you are right that I irritated the wrong person, and the people in this circle did not go to bat for me. The managers changed from project to project. It's not like they consulted a counsel of …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:08 PM
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Man, some of these replies. It's not beta to care for a girl, which it seems you do here. We can care for girls, even love them as long as we understand the nature of the beast, as long as we reconcile they can flip on a dime and that their loyalty is only based on getting their needs fulfilled. I haaaaaate how so many guys are quick to jump in and put on the tough guy schtick the moment a guy shows an OUNCE of emotion toward a woman. There is such thing as being beta and living in scarcity, but…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:23 AM
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I don't think you carry a permanent scar once she concludes you're beta. You are scarred for sure. However, if she sees other chicks, especially ones she knows, jumping on your dick, she can become SUPER jealous. Never underestimate the power of jealousy to drive a woman nuts. It's not like she will see her hot friends bouncing on your cock and be like "Pft... she's with that beta." Most women's model of the world is not rooted. It's very shaky and prone to 90 degree turns. She sees you with hot…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:59 AM
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The bolded "think". I assume she put stars to emphasize she only THINKS you can't date again and Reddit converted that to bold. If she was certain she wouldn't have emphasized "think." Chances are if you get her drunk and you're non-needy and self amused the whole night, she'll blow you. She can backward rationalize it later. "Wow I was so drunk, you're bad!" etc. If I were you I'd say something like... "I don't think we can date either. You can't respect me enough as a human being... I mean, I'…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:38 AM
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I agree with you, but it IS a deceptive name. When I think of a monk I think of a totally ascetic, celibate dude. We should probably rename this term. Call it "rebirth mode" or something.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:26 PM
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Also, I don't know how to take vital signs. I do type quickly but I'm not familiar with EMR software. Not shitting on your suggestion, just being real. Not sure if there are easy and fast ways to learn or what.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:16 PM
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Gotcha. You are a wise dude. Why did you choose physician's assistant? You mentioned stability and freedom to live anywhere. The pay good? How are the hours? My uncle makes bank as a lawyer but he works 60 hour weeks consistently. Also, wouldn't I have to take out a loan for the undergrad degree in addition to the PA school degree? I have 8K in debt now, which isn't much, but racking up upwards of 70-80K starts to make me queasy.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:06 PM
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I'm a little confused. A bachelor's degree is an undergrad degree. You mean I'd need a science/biology undergrad degree, right? The plan you laid out seems feasible. And the prospect or revisiting college as a 29/30 year old guy with LOADS of experience who actually knows how to escalate to do the undergrad courses doesn't sound bad. Since I already have my BA in English and I had to take a shitload of disparate courses in other fields to get it, I wonder if that would decrease the amount of tim…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:55 PM
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Thanks for this gold... I'm saving the post to my hard drive. Do you even figure in the fact that I have some software QA experience and an English degree at all? I don't ask that as some kind of prideful retort but out of genuine curiosity. Was it ALL a waste in your eyes? How old are you now by the way, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:11 PM
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I'm really not. I just know how to communicate viscerally through writing so that the girls feel something.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:19 PM
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Ah damn, ok, no gray area, you are right. "Fat cells produce estrogen as well." -direct quote from the wiki article you linked Man that's crazy to think about. I wonder what sumo wrestler estrogen levels are like.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:06 PM
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I admit, "the Book of Sadness" made me chuckle... You're right in regard to where my priorities should be.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:02 PM
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I don't understand why you feel the need to even post in my thread. If I wanted attention (which I don't), you're giving it to me. When I made my original post, I did so with the intent of seeking out rational, actionable advice. If all you're going to do is antagonize me and attempt to cynically surmise my entire personality based off what little I've written here, save yourself the effort and don't post.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:59 PM
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Whenever I didn't fuck that 5'9 chick in high school, I developed somewhat of an insecurity about my height so I feel where you're coming from even though you're 5'4 and I'm 5'6. For a while I sort of made it a goal to go after taller chicks just to prove to myself that I could get them. Which in the end was ego driven and ridiculous, but insightful. At the end of the day, girls are girls, and they want a cool attractive guy. If you are small I would recommend getting jacked at the gym as it wil…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:35 AM
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Because in their minds, a man being shorter than them highlights their own tallness, which they see as masculine, and they don't want to be perceived as masculine. In a certain light, you could say that these women are using tall men as a foil to say "See? I AM feminine!" These women are very status conscious and insecure. That's my theory.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:23 AM
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The kind of life advice you give in that link is absolutely fantastic and in short supply. This is the kind of shit I wish I would've been reading 10 years ago. You may be right about me starting over, but I hope not because that's a disheartening thought. Some guy in this thread said I could find a bunch of jobs with an English degree. You seem to not think much of humanities. I have about 8K student loan debt that I am paying monthly but that's it.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:41 AM
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I did in my reply to CowabungaDoood. Read below.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:22 AM
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Thanks, these are all valid points. I appreciate that you read my account of what happened and offered targeted advice. I hadn't thought about a lot of this. I still believe I had a ton of value to offer the company, and my other managers and the studio partners we worked with saw it, but this manager didn't. I don't think I was over-estimating my position in the company. There was one instance where I was doing voluntary overtime work and my manager (the one who I believe fired me) came in and …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:19 AM
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Holy shit, you deserve a medal. Definitely inscribing this (or at least the general idea) into my memory banks. Great stuff.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:11 AM
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And yeah, for now, just ignore her. She's doing it purely to get a reaction (like a troll). Don't feed the troll. Focus on yourself and consolidate the rage into lifting/personal progress.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:05 AM
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You mentioned you were bedridden, I assume from illness. My experience has been that women have no patience or tolerance when it comes to illness if it interferes with your life at all, even if it's temporary. I've been dumped right after a sore throat or (don't laugh) after meeting up with a girl I was dating and being too constipated to do much more than fuck and lounge around. But these are small potatoes. I know an older woman who divorced her wheelchair-bound husband. I'm sure a lot of this…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:03 AM
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Thank you for this rational, solid advice. How would you recommend I evade any question about why I left my old company?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:52 AM
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I'm open to the possibility, but I'm not open to delusional self-flagellation. If an airplane falls on your house, that doesn't mean you deserved it, and it's irrational to believe otherwise. I get that at the heart of your message you're trying to empower me, and I dig that. But I also don't do myself any favors by precluding the idea that factors outside of my control influenced where I'm at. I was BORN in America. Awesome. That is, for a fact, a factor outside my control. And that colors and …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:47 AM
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If I were lazy and bad at my job, they had plenty of opportunity to get rid of me in 3 years instead of hiring me continuously (12 month contracts, 3 month mandatory leaves). Also: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis
/r/askTRP27/05/15 09:05 AM
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Why do you say I could make a good salesman? Because of my degree or because of me personally?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:10 AM
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None of the tall girls I slept with made it an issue. There was a tall girl (5'9ish) I tried to fuck when I was in high school who didn't because she said she'd feel weird and awkward towering over me in public, but I had no sense of escalation back then, and that was my ultimate fault with her. The tall girls I actually slept with never made it an issue. I have also noticed that some short girls want super tall men. IMO if you encounter a woman who explicitly states a height preference, you can…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:56 AM
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It's long, so grab a drink. I worked the night shift from 4:00PM to 1:00AM. Day shift worked from 7:00AM to 4:00PM. There is a 6 minute shift change allowance interval. We all used the same computers/workstations, so whenever it was 4:00PM, the day shift guys would close their programs, clock out on the timecard software, and log off of the PC. The night shift would enter (go through the turnstyles, badge in), log onto the PC, and clock in. Two human beings cannot occupy the same space at the sa…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 07:17 AM
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Haha... it was definitely "the most unfair dismissal humanity has ever known." Thanks for this, though. Your post rings a little harsh to me, but I know I need to hear it for my own good. This kind of broader perspective is what I was hoping to hear.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:48 AM
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I can elaborate on exactly why the firing happened if you are interested or think it is relevant. It is definitely a small pond here. And you are right that it has affected my outlook. I was mildly depressed for months after this happened because I didn't see myself as the "type" of person to ever get fired. It fucked with my sense of self, my whole model of reality, which I only really started to rebuild around April. Amazing how the "prize" mentality carries over into general life and not just…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:42 AM
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I've slept with a few 5'9 chicks and made a 5'10 chick my girlfriend and I am 5'6. I know that most girls 5'8 and over think of themselves as tall. So I don't know if this completely qualifies for what you are looking for, but here are some bullet point notes: -your frame is always that you are the guy and she is the girl, no matter the height difference -your frame is that letting shin bone length determine who is dominant is fucking stupid -fixating on height difference means she is socially c…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:34 AM
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Ah yes, asktrp... thanks, I'll repost there. I genuinely am looking for constructive advice and not a pity party. I don't know what would make you think I wanted the latter. I've met three long term, hot girlfriends from OKCupid, ages 23, 21, 19, in that order, none of them with kids. The last one was super hot. Online works for me. Thanks for the rest of the advice.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:13 AM
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Yah, there is a more or less direct link between bodyfat and estrogen levels. Simply put, getting fat kills testosterone and skyrockets estrogen. There is a reason chicks like rock hard abs on a dude because it means he's flowing with T.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:25 AM
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No! There is no supplicating. If you're driving, minding your own business, and you see a car headed straight at you, are you supplicating and going beta by turning the wheel to avoid a crash? No. Similarly, if you're in a relationship and you see the woman behaving erratically outside of her normal patterns and you adapt in turn to avoid the relationship crashing, are you going beta? No, you're simply adapting. It's what we as humans are good at and born to do. It's not a frame battle. Let's sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:10 AM
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Yes there is a SHITLOAD of social conditioning brainwashing going on to make men, ALL MEN, into betas. The true beta test IMO, is whether you are contented to live your life as a beta or whether you hit a breaking point and say FUCK THIS SHIT and try to wipe off the feminist gunk and goop obstructing your true nature. True-blood betas will HAPPILY be betas. They will become feminist white knights, appear in Anita Sarkeesian videos, berate you for lifting weights, etc. etc. "Duped alphas" will hi…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:53 AM
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I read the article and it seems to me that they are espousing the value of being assertive. In other words, taking no bullshit, and rocking the boat if need be. Not quite the same as being a dickhead. There are a lot of unfortunate truths in that article, though. I have seen some very nice, very qualified guys at the place I used to work be passed over for far less qualified guys (and girls) who simply acted like they knew everything. Delusions of grandeur often work in your favor. This is true …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:47 AM
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Well, there are plenty of reasons to keep a girl around if you like her. If you've built a friendship, she understands you sexually, she thinks unique thoughts and generally adds to your life, then she is worth keeping around. The problem is that when her need hierarchy shifts, most guys are completely oblivious to it, and two people who like each other and are fundamentally compatible slowly start to drift apart without any clue as to why. The breakup will happen and the woman, whose needs are …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:41 AM
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This is an interesting and thoughtful post. However, we disagree on two points. I don't think women's needs are static because I have dated young 18/19 year old girls who broke up with me despite me behaving exactly the same as when I met them. They did not hit a "wall." Their needs simply shifted dynamically. Secondly, what you're describing with the "1" multiplier is actually the woman's need for novel experiences shifting upward in her hierarchy. There is a kind of built-in novelty decay that…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:32 AM
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It's not about supplicating to the woman. That's how you're framing it. I'm not. It's about recognizing that a woman's needs are essentially a shifting rolodex. If you like the woman and she likes you, then you need to be cognizant of her shifting needs and act accordingly. There's nothing beta about that. I don't know why or how you're reading that into what I said.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:26 AM
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Now that I think about it, I realize that women's shifting value hierarchy is the reason we generally say that "men are simple and women are complex." And it's the reason nobody has been able to answer the question of "What do women want?" in a cut and dry way. The truth is, what women want shifts. Whereas men are pretty much wired with a static hierarchy with sex at the top, women's hierarchy is dynamic. So what women want (or need, more accurately) on Monday can be different on Tuesday.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:01 PM
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Very good points. Man who sacrifices his life for woman he impregnated = his genes get passed on. If pregnant woman sacrifices her life, the genes don't get passed on.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:55 PM
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This is one of the truest posts ever and deserves its own thread. I noticed it also depends on how the woman orders her hierarchy of needs in that given time. You could meet a girl when she's fresh out of a relationship with horrible sex, where the guy coddled her every emotional need. So she is now placing sex at priority level #1 and is placing security and emotional coddling further down the ladder. So if you meet her and fuck her brains out, she will love you. However, as you continue to kno…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:58 PM
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Karen Straughan is a hero if humanity. I was going to say she's a hero of the men's rights movement, but she goes beyond that. Her cold, unbending rationality in the face of massive social pressure to kowtow to the feminist bent is heroic. The fact that she provides an accessible window into what's really going on for the average Joe and Jane is heroic. I can't praise this woman highly enough. Always been an ardent supporter of her, always will be.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:17 AM
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My experience mirrors this... after the girl who told me "great sex isn't enough" broke up with me, we didn't see each other for about a month. When I showed up at her place with some food for both of us, I started escalating and she let me escalate but looked guilty about it. I asked if she was seeing another guy and she stayed silent. I asked again and she said "Well sort of. I'm not fucking him because I know that's what you're going to ask next." I go "Then why the fuck are you seeing him?" …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 03:22 PM
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This was a lesson I learned the hard way because I've had multiple girls break up with me despite the sex being very, very good. I talked to the last one after the breakup, asking her what her reasons were. I didn't mention sex at all. But she told me flat out, "Stinger, I need more than great sex, okay?" Apparently she needed more beta characteristics at that time, more attention, more coddling, in addition to the sex, and I wasn't providing that. She wasn't wrong. She was my girlfriend, but I …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 12:54 PM
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If you meet them in public with a friend, it's bad news and probably won't go anywhere. However, if you can meet them at their place and a friend is there, no big deal. If they like you the friend will go away and you can fuck. This is how I got one of my long term relationships. When I got to the girl's house, her gay best friend was there. We chilled for 20 minutes on her porch and gay dude made sure I wasn't a threat and that she liked me, and she gave him the signal to leave and I went and f…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:52 PM
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The point is more so that you do yourself a disservice by dancing around the idea that you're there to fuck the girl... by trying to mask it and pretend you're interested in hearing about her life's story, all the men who dumped her, her special relationship with her grandmother, etc. etc. In other words, there is dignity in being what you are, even if you risk getting blown out by revealing your intentions. It's easy to take no escalation risks and talk to the girl every day forevermore as her …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:39 PM
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That last line is a really interesting way to look at it, and I agree.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:52 PM
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Well you have a whole brigade of critics calling this movie feminist. It's NOT a feminist movie, but if you don't confront that narrative, then you have sheeple who read those reviews and think this BADASS NON-POLITICALLY CORRECT MOVIE featuring electric guitar flamethrowers and peoples' faces getting ripped off is actually feminist. Bitch, please. Feminists could never even fathom reaching such heights of manly greatness.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:44 PM
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It's about taking part in the battlefield of ideas. Evidently you have no interest in that, and that's ok.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:10 PM
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There is an old quote I read on a pickup site long ago. It went something like this: When you are the wolf, you will eat the sheep, or the sheep will run away. But it is humiliating to be a wolf and live peacefully among the sheep. That's not the exact quote but that's the gist of it. Point being, as a man, you must show sexual intent. Some women will be down, some won't, but your dignity and respect for yourself will be intact.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:15 PM
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I agree. I pictured him delivering that line about the night clubs and drinks like he was talking to a bunch of kids during an after-school special. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:11 PM
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking as I read the OP's post. A lot of people also thought Gone Girl was a feminist movie, but just as you described here, the "villain" of that movie was female sexuality, and it showed perfectly how it's dangerous in the presence of weakness. Really intrigued to see this movie now.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:55 PM
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The way you wrote the post made the movie seem more like a prophetic warning for men than something feminist.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:52 PM
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Furiosa definitely has shades of Sarah Conor and Ripley from Aliens. She is strong and pretty masculinized, but there is a counterbalance sanity check in the combat-useless breeder women and the fact that she doesn't upstage Max in combat or in leadership. I think this movie COULD have been feminist had: -Max lost the fight with Furiosa -The breeder women started kicking ass -Furiosa bossed Max around -No males made heroic sacrifice -Max was shown to be inept But none of that happened. People ca…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:49 PM
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You can definitely be Red Pill and believe in equality, just not not in sameness. Feminism's goal is to interlude into the affairs of the sexes and brainwash the populace into believing that innate biological differences between the sexes don't exist, thereby allowing insecure women the delusion that they are just as capable of doing anything a man can. Feminism wants sameness and despises the idea that the sexes are born with different strengths and weaknesses. However, this doesn't mean a woma…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:41 PM
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Does the prospect of a goon riding atop a truck with an electric guitar flamethrower and about 16 giant amps sound cool to you? If so, yes.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 03:02 PM
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That's basically what it was. And don't forget that Max wins his physical confrontation with Furiosa despite being chained to a car door and Nux, and despite being outnumbered 2v6. Then he jacks her vehicle to add insult to injury. If this were a feminist movie Furiosia would have beat his ass and left him for dead.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 03:00 PM
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Feels before reals? You mean like a bunch of testosterone jacked dudes making women into their fuck slave breeding bitches? Lol.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:54 PM
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I don't agree with you that he is a sidekick. He has as much or slightly more screen time and character development than Furiosa. He wins their physical encounter handily and then steals her truck before she has to come running back to try to barter it from him. I also do not agree that "patriarchy" is being fought. If it were strictly Furiosa versus the War Boys I could maybe buy that, but Max and Nux also fight the War Boys, so the "patriarchy" allegory starts to fall apart. What you really ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:51 PM
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What you're seeing in MM:FR is basically a flamboyant distillation of very early pre-civilization humanity. Women have no room to be evil in cavemen times because they are too busy being men's bitch. They are too busy nursing babies and being clubbed over the head and dragged away and fought for to hatch schemes and be evil. In other words, they have no power to be evil. Women can be evil in modern times because we as a society have elevated them into a life of luxury where they no longer have t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:37 PM
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There is a brotherhood insofar as we are aligned outside of each others' tribes. What I mean is this: Would I be trying to help a guy fuck the SAME hot girls I'm going for in my own tribe? Hell no. But would I try to help a guy fuck girls I'll likely NEVER MEET because he lives hundreds or thousands of miles away? Sure. The internet is actually the perfect vehicle for true male bonding to develop because we can help each other without endangering our own chances of spreading our seed around to t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 09:21 AM
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IMO Dredd was perfect. It showed his partner's fuckups and he had to protect her often, but with some guidance and humility she became a worthwhile and useful character as the story progressed.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:46 AM
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Has anyone actually seen the movie so that they can give an accurate portrayal of events? Or is everyone just going apeshit based on reviewers' interpretations? A lot of reviewers pegged Gone Girl as a feminist movie when it is IMO one of the most anti-feminist movies ever made.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:41 AM
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They don't even have to have a bigger dick. They just have to be novel, just as you were once novel. You are simply a flavor of the month. You were a tasty vanilla but now she wants chocolate or strawberry. It's not about her "upgrading" from you, it's about her desiring newness in any form, whether its an upgrade or a straight downgrade.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 07:06 AM
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Please write a follow-up. Brilliant post and some huge gold nuggets of perspective that I'm not getting from the Blue Pill society I'm surrounded by. Your posts are incredibly valuable.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:13 PM
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I'm a guy and also vouch for this. The guy is almost definitely interested unless he's gay or you're fugly haha.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 12:55 PM
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You could have just told him you're with your boyfriend. The last comment was unnecessarily harsh as the guy may not have known you had a boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 12:34 PM
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I have Art of Seduction and it's a fun book. In terms of legit pickup advice I think you are better off looking at Matthew Hussey's youtube channel if you are a woman. Art of Seduction is kind of like a broad overview of different archetypes. You can look back at Clark Gable and Marlon Brando's characters in various movies and sort of see what the writers and directors were going for and learn to apply that to yourself, but most of the legwork in doing that will be on you. 48 Laws of Power is al…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 12:30 PM
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Yeah I had a girlfriend years ago who told me she wanted me to get a belly. I know an ex coworker, about 20 years old, she's a single mom. Before I knew she was a mom, she told me she likes fat guys. I couldn't believe it, the girl was so hot. When I found out she was a mom, it made way more sense. She's on the hunt for provider-man who she can emotionally and sexually manipulate into sticking around and raining money onto her like Super Mario coins. Remember guys: the higher your bodyfat, the h…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:44 PM
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In regard to "entrainment," good sex is important because you are providing her pleasure. I also think creating a whirlwind of mystery around you in regard to your goings-on with other women is equally as important as you are "entraining" her in a negative way, if that makes sense. Great sex = give pleasure. Have other women in your life = spike emotions/jealousy. When she's jealous and not in complete confidence that she's the sole owner of your sperm (and therefore your commitment in her evolu…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:39 PM
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She didn't want help with the math homework. That was another lie. She just wanted you to come over at any cost so she could stick her fangs back into you and try to win you back. Toxic woman. Avoid.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:47 AM
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Hey all. I come from the PUA community even though I barely visit it anymore because it's become overrun by BS. Anyway, I've followed PUA shit for a REALLY long time. Back in the day there was this PUA named Swinggcat, and he had this rule where he would do favors for girls but ONLY if they did something for him as well. The example he gave is that sometimes in a club, a girl would ask for a cigarette. He would say "Sure thing, but first, moo like a cow." And if the girl mooed like a cow or bark…
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