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Question For WomenStiophanOC/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:51 PM
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Single father's don't have a choice whether the child is born or not. Uhhh... Pretty sure they do. There ain't no virgin single father's out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:43 AM
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The first time I ever visited FemaleDatingStrategy, I clicked on a random Hot post. In it a woman was complaining that her 2,000 Tinder Likes didn't count for anything because none of those 2,000 men were good enough for her The comments were nothing but high-fives and yass qweens. The rest of the posts were even worse...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:40 PM
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The plural of anecdote is not data heh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:31 PM
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Normal people do. Attractive, emotionally well-balanced people do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:29 PM
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It made me realize that women are really, really disgusted by unattractive men. Only when they remember they exist...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:22 PM
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OkCupid noticed this officially a decade(?) ago. An empty female profile with one blurry bikini pic will get a lot more messages than a no-pic female profile with an amazing written bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:21 PM
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Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:04 PM
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If you set your standards low enough, endless sex awaits...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:17 AM
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I picture your grandparents giving you the 'just be confident bro' speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:39 PM
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You advanced the statement that TRP works on the majority of women. It's your job to provide proof. Not their job to. Not mine. Yours. A real Chad provides sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:09 PM
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Why do so many posts here read like something typed out by a robot wearing human skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:51 AM
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I'm guessing OP got out of the shower before finishing his 'thought'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:01 AM
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Post/Comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:43 PM
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mega autism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:40 PM
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I think you've misdiagnosed where the cause of your heartbreak was... It was the kind of men you chose to be with. I don't see how waiting for him to make the first move instead will save you from the pattern repeating. Because won't it just be 95% the same kind of guy as before?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:38 PM
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There is such a large disconnect between the woman asking the man out and him 'settling' or being 'low-quality' that I don't even know where to begin...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:28 PM
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Then they weren't actually left wing. Or the guys behaved differently in private. Left wing and right wing folks both define different gender roles for people in couples. There's no way to have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:37 AM
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Based on how some of the posts are structured, mildly autistic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:30 AM
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I discovered it months ago via YouTube's related videos while watching extremely lowly-rated TEDx talks for a laugh. Starting the thread? Took five minutes to type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:26 AM
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Blame the decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:22 AM
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A comical double standard men face? Men who are sluts but are never called that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:09 PM
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They have been all 'okay' on purpose. To see how much career, arrest record or education would change minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:30 PM
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The shorter guys were 5'6", 5'3" and 5'0".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:23 PM
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Notice how even the female hosts couldn't stop laughing at the short men... Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:04 PM
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Even by the children...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:55 PM
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I have been recommending the same to average men and below for awhile now btw. Minimize your app time and focus on approaching in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:55 PM
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Posts like this make me feel sympathy for any woman out there right now trying to date...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:54 PM
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Online-wise, why would women care if the average man, that they are not attracted to anyway, stopped using dating apps? They wouldn't. Would they even notice? The app developers would notice but judging by how many dating websites have been caught using fake female profiles, I'm sure fake male profiles would suddenly start appearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:47 AM
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And I'm just a girl next door. No major flaws but nothing special. Weren't you describing yourself as average? I'm pointing out that for the average guy of whatever specific personality-type, the 'girl next door' meets their definition of an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:39 PM
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I think a certain percentage, no idea what number, of FDS are newly traumatized women desperate for a feeling of safety and are looking for any way to recognise and reject the 'bad men" quickly. That Google or someone in a forum points them to FDS is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:30 PM
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then got pissy when they later found out I would have dated them. Ok, I'll bite. Why didn't you ask them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:04 PM
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I spend too much time on r/PurplePillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:01 PM
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The average, tall, outdoorsy nerd would be fine with the girl next door btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:56 PM
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You know what... You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:05 PM
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Well there are actual dating advice gurus out there... They're called relationship therapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:45 PM
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After watching him for a few hours, I ended up wanting a female version of the show where a hot woman tears apart male callers... And I'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:54 PM
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Rules for thee but not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:36 PM
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I just learned about him a few days ago so I watched a few of his most popular videos. I probably agree with him about 25% of the time. Pointing out to women how rare a 6'2" millionaire is? Great! Asking those women what a 6'2" millionaire actually wants? Fantastic! Asking those women why gender roles are for the guy to follow but not them? Swell! The remaining 50-75% of everything he says? Pure religious, red-pill, self-serving, double standard, oblivious trash. I can see why rejected men get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:34 PM
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I just learned about him a few days ago so I watched a few of his most popular videos. I probably agree with him about 25% of the time. The remaining 50-75% of everything he says? Pure religious, red-pill, self-serving, double standard, oblivious trash. I can see why rejected men get a kick out of watching him and that's probably his main audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:30 PM
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If you call a red-pill twice-divorced image consultant for relationship advice, you're not dealing with a full reality deck to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:23 PM
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I rarely write a woman off because of her age... I write her off because of her BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:31 AM
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Growing up in the church for a non-negligible amount of time, seen many "virtuous church girls" who ended up having pregnancy scandals or I've heard them behind closed doors talking about their sexcapades (and it wasn't some vanilla shit either) So...what about the men in your church?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:25 PM
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If you are a man who still has just sex then your post is self-serving oblivious bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:21 PM
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If I have no interest in doing it myself, then I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:16 PM
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Oh come on now. You know some have. The 'fair-weather' feminists do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:14 PM
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True. A microwave can turn anyone into a cook, it's kinda amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:12 PM
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I'm reading so much bizarre logic to justify not approaching...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:07 PM
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It's a effort/reward ratio thing. If the likely upsides outweigh the likely negatives, I would ask. If the effort put in will likely end in rejection, maybe I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:02 PM
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You're allowed judge anyone's strategy if they complain about not getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:58 PM
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I was literally just thinking that this sounds like a MDS (MaleDatingStrategy) post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:57 PM
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Uh huh. I've read men argue that being sexual frustrated is basically akin to torture so his date or whatever has to 'help' him immediately. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:09 PM
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But society MAKES them search!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:37 PM
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You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:07 PM
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At least you’re getting a real experience that way. With an STD side-order for free!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure some of it is displaced self-anger. 'I feel lust and attraction to this stranger and what has she done to earn it...I wish I could ignore her etc etc'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:05 PM
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If space aliens showed up tomorrow and sprinkled a techno-dust in the air that made women behave sexually similar to men, you can be fucking sure men would respond to that demand anywhere and everywhere, online and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:03 PM
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TIL asking = exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:56 PM
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Thank fuck for a post with a succinct title with no accompanying bloated mass of anecdotal contradicting text.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:54 PM
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already well established as a model Don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:29 PM
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You sure you didn't...'pay'?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:28 PM
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What's half hedonism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:20 PM
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It's called 'dating'. Folks are always judging one another but only have a problem with it when they're on the losing end. That it happens via an app is irrelevant. If you don't like dating apps, join social groups. ...via social apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:41 PM
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I'll take one 'hot and nice' please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:37 PM
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reads abusive relationship on reddit sees one is older omg they're a predator, of course! only an older person would etc etc — reads abusive relationship on reddit both same age see! paying attention to behaviour is all that matters!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:16 PM
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Abuse can come from someone older. Abuse can come from someone the same age. Abuse can come from someone younger. But that seems too complicated for some to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:13 PM
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Fact is, some people will never be comfortable an age gap relationship even existing anywhere on this planet. Even if there is no evidence of any abuse and a lot of evidence that they're both happy, some will still see the older as being some 4D chess master ninja of stealth manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:12 AM
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If the guy wants a baby and the woman he is having sex with doesn't, time for him to look into adopting or paying a woman somewhere on planet Earth to be impregnated and carry his child for nine months. A woman's body is hers. Same way if I were having sex with a woman, she gets no say if I have a vasectomy. She can leave the relationship, she gets no say in my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:16 AM
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I've yet to see any actual manipulation/abuse that wouldn't be identically as bad if both the man and the women were of the same age. Some folks just use age difference as a heuristic to cut corners. And some of those cut corners so bad they sound delirious. Shit, right here on Reddit I've seen folks say a 25-year old woman is just a child and unable to make her own decisions! And I'm reading that thinking fuck, is that person trying to prevent abuse or trying to say all women below 30 shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:13 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:40 AM
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Sex addiction exists. But Masturbation ≠ Sex Addiction Pornography ≠ Sex Addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:36 AM
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Wow OP you're so smart to notice this super obvious thing which is obvious. You're way smarter the the rest of us different people with many different ideas. Thank Buddha for your Gorgon's eye that's able to notice that people are usually attracted to folks who are similar to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:34 AM
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The 'hot guy always being abusive' is a weird myth that reflects more on the guys who think it's real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:27 PM
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They weren't attracted to his bad boy aura, they were raped. That's the part that's frequently gets forgotten somehow... Yeah, we all why it's ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:05 PM
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I hope they never correct their comment and it says this until Reddit's servers melt when the Sun blows up 10 billion years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:04 PM
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check your friendzone Gonna have to slip this into a comment naturally somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:39 AM
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She did rate herself an 8 or 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:38 AM
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It's the male version of women's prioritisation of wealth. Oh I'm sorry, I mean 'financial security'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:57 AM
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Have you tried....being thin? Seriously, being physically attractive gets you the ability to pick from most men out there who are single. If you choose someone who's bad for you, that something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:35 AM
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For me, Before I ever stepped foot on a dating website, I had an extremely positive view of women coupled with a rather negative view of men. And I'm a guy. After my first few months of online dating my view of women plummeted while my view of men stayed the same. And I haven't experienced/read anything to change it since. I probably still see women as slightly better than men but that's probably just my attraction to them giving them extra points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:57 PM
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As long as they never complain about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:44 PM
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Human society could collapse, sure. But not just because some misandrists exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:42 PM
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I don’t think women and men will ever get along. For average men/women? I don't think so either. Their gendered needs are too different and incompatible with maybe a 50% overlap in what they both mutually want. There are women and men who are perfect for the opposite gender out there...but of course, they're a minority and are never single due to being snapped up immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:40 PM
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It happens. At an extreme, if you have a supportive childhood and then marry your high school sweetheart who is actually an ideal match for you, you could drift through life giving terrible relationship advice to those around you but be totally unaware of it until you confront the average person's reality. Like on other subs, you'll read of men or women who are newly divorced after being married for maybe ten or fifteen years since age twenty, they go on a dating website for the first time and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:34 PM
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Read about the reasons for cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:28 PM
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On a scale of 0-100(bad to good), what was your opinion of men before? And what is it now? What's was your opinion of women before? Is it different now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:26 PM
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Everyday I journey closer to the land of no paragraphs equals instant downvote...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:24 PM
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It hasn't changed me. I was already Purple Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:22 PM
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It's a defence mechanism. At some level he isn't okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:20 PM
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Are you really asking why a human becomes less when their needs aren't met?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:04 PM
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How physically attractive is his bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:08 AM
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The fuck is with some of you trying to boil a complicated subject down to a single cause? ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:40 PM
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If no quality dinner is interested in you... That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:49 AM
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Pack this thread up. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:04 AM
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I shouldn't have clicked on this thread while hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:15 PM
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perfectly good ≠ on the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:28 PM
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Why do some women point at ground sausage and think 'most sausage' when most sausage is still on the grill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:23 PM
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"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's an average hot dog on the grill"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:19 PM
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Emma Watson is not average. The average looking man is a good fit for the average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:10 PM
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I shouldn't have clicked on this thread while hungry...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:07 PM
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uh oh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:06 PM
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Why do women point at ground sausage and think 'most sausage' when most sausage is still on grill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:02 PM
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average woman is more attractive than the average man And there it is. is Not perceived to be Not better photos is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:00 PM
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What's better? Having a list of suitors to vet Or none at all Everyone agrees which is better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:46 PM
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FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:41 PM
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One of my sister's has always had more male friends than female. When asked why that is, she'll say they cause too much drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:34 PM
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Alternatively, guys who had no chance would be more likely opt out of productive society. Gotta leave them hope, even very feint or outright false hope, to keep them productive. If all dating apps were as open as OkCupid used to be with their data of how their users' behave, the majority of men would barely use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:21 PM
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There are so many women in this world that all of those reasons are true at one time or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:15 PM
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Well if his first name is actually Chad...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:59 AM
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Sounds like they're focusing on the IQ side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:43 AM
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Your post title is about taking responsibility, but the whole body of the post talks about being a victim. Something I've noticed in some PPD posts. The title says one thing. The body of the post contradicts the title. Almost like some use the title to trick passers-by into upvoting...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:30 PM
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Sexy otter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:21 PM
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Danny Devito
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:20 PM
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They're asking are you making up stereotypical behaviour that some men find triggering to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:17 PM
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Those men were too triggered and damaged by life to read her list clearly. I'm a guy and usually when a woman is told she has 'unreasonable standards', they mean she's only right-swiping on men far more attractive than her. Also when the woman has no idea how rare her ideal guy actually is, like how many single 6'2" millionaires are there actually in the US right now? A lot fewer than those delusional women believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:16 AM
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I guess too many guys glanced at it and assumed it was one of those 'must be 6'2" and rich and drive a Ferrari' lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:11 AM
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This guy - https://youtube.com/c/PsychologyInSeattle Professor/Doctor/Couples Therapist He talks shit about men's and women's ability to be in a relationship all the fucking time. Granted he's been doing it for decades so he's probably an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:07 AM
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Well for one thing, there are a lotta angry men out there complaining that women are the emotional gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:04 AM
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You do realise for some women, fame is fame, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:15 AM
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Stephen Hawking was famous. We'll never know but I wouldn't be shocked if women all over the world started sliding into those DMs if he had announced he was getting a divorce. Like a tiny, miniscule version of all the women in the world right now fantasizing about randomly crossing paths with Bill Gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:21 AM
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Methinks this subreddit attracts, amongst others, the uhhhh....neuro-divergent and lonely crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:17 AM
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Since you asked for science, Google 'how many men reproduced', meaning how many men have fathered children in our genetic history as a proportion of all the men that have ever lived. The results you will find follow the modern 'pots and lids' analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:16 AM
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Maybe it's more of the niche I like. A niche that isn't fulfilled when I see those same actresses being 'themselves' during interviews and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:51 AM
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But when you see how sausages are made, you can never go back to the beforetime
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:15 PM
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Personally I am not attracted to her but when I sometimes see some Fox News conservative complain about her a bit too much...I wonder if there's some unconscious, redirected lust going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:11 PM
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I am attracted to various celebrities for their bodies. But what I really want are the fictional personas they play on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:09 PM
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emotional tampon (plural emotional tampons) (colloquial, derogatory) A man who is used by a woman as a shoulder to cry on and then discarded. Using other people isn't a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:06 PM
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The Chad Circumference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:52 PM
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And just like in that noisy stadium, she would have had no idea you were even there...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:51 PM
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I've seen women on Reddit post about how they get so overwhelmed with the sheer number of online dating messages they have, that they just give up and maybe even delete the app. And I'm like...how about you ignore your incoming messages, proactively search through profiles yourself and message those first and only reply to those messages. And I won't be the first person to think of it...others will comment what I did above and sometimes the woman who made the original post will reply saying she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:48 PM
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just be hot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:42 PM
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Nice or '''nice'''?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:36 PM
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Just reading your comment, I pictured you offering to fly with him to Las Vegas or somewhere prostitution is legal... It's not too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:35 PM
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What about when the Father is the bad one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:30 PM
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[Citation Needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:42 PM
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All the pushback you are getting I think comes down to an issue over definition... What percentage of online males do you find attractive? What percentage of offline males do you find attractive? So dating profiles versus walking around in real-life Because usually human effort/motivation adjusts to meet expected reward and if you rate the average real-life male as swipe left-able...then the average male won't bother putting in the effort to improve their photos because why spend time/effort/mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:04 PM
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But you don't understand! I'm different!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah, the top whatever percent of men are the only men who even get to think about what they want without having the Sword of Singleness hanging over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:45 PM
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So you swipe left on most men? I'm shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:50 AM
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Men don’t care about women’s problems until the shoe is on the other foot. Ya know...for the lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:40 AM
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As long as the rich aren't monogamous something tells me society will keep chugging along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:37 AM
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Ehh, it's one of those uncomfortable truths that no-one likes hearing being said out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:34 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:33 AM
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Well...using online dating sure as shit isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:31 AM
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The only true MGTOW would never post on the internet complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:36 AM
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Maybe the app was trying to drop you a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:31 AM
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You don't understand... He's super handsome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:27 AM
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Not the first time a handsome, oblivious guy has posted here...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:26 AM
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Why not ask men what they find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:38 PM
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There's mild Red Pill and more severe Red Pill. Mild RP thinks about how men and women aren't identical and how, for example, women notice height but I don't and so on. Severe RP thinks women are subhuman animals who should be used for sex and have such intense double standards that it's like they're walking around with one eye glued shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:18 PM
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And dark purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:01 PM
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Usually PurplePillDebate comments are a semi-trashfire so I'm pleasantly surprised right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:57 PM
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that people as beautiful as me don’t usually have interesting personalities I wonder if that's ever been studied. Not folk's belief that they do. But whether they're actually less 'interesting', whatever that means, compared to the average person. Feels like something very complicated to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:56 PM
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Did you ever date another nerd post-16? If so, did they want your personality to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:50 PM
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The RedPill is more(and worse) than just women like muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:44 PM
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'Whichever traditions benefit me' — Everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:43 PM
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A chef in the Kitchen, a maid in the Living Room, a prostitute in the Bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:40 AM
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On my phone so not providing direct links... You want to Google something like 'violence number of sex partners' I just did that and on the first page there were two studies listed linking male physical aggression to an increased number of lifetime sex partners. I originally read about the crime/arrest link on Slate Star Codex, so could search there also. Don't forget the crime/violence link doesn't 'always' mean the women want men who are violent. Sometimes men who are violent...don't care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:11 AM
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Looks always matter And there are many, many, many dating apps that aren't Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:03 AM
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Commas are your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:49 PM
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It's correlates with a bunch of things. Never being arrested for a violent crime is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:47 PM
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Pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:45 PM
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It would be societal collapse. Same as if all women disappeared for a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:25 PM
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a bad boy who's only mean to others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 07:42 PM
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'Yeah so my neighbour's friend's mother's cousin's sister did this one thing to this man once so my question is why do Western women only ever like being mistreated?'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:19 PM
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This question has already been studied in a book - A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire by Ogi Ogas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:13 PM
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If nothing else, the ladies of CNN are allowed more variety in their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:07 PM
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There was a post or r/dating_advice recently where a guy said his own stunning handsomeness was dissolving his girlfriend's self-worth in her own appearance. The top comment was pretty sure his girlfriend had undiagnosed severe depression and he, even in his handsomeness, was delusional about what was going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:49 AM
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she still speaks while miming Tell her mimes don't speak while she's trying to feel her way around an invisible wall or whatever Report back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:45 AM
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every man work hard, invent stuff or succeed in life to enhance his reproductive success and attract more women. A lie. Men do many things for many different reasons. So gay men? Gay men do many things for many different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:53 PM
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If this subreddit only allowed posts based on hard data... ...would there even be any posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:44 PM
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Remember Short Kings... If you're rich enough, she'll love you for who you are.
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/21 11:41 PM
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It's like trying to force them together makes you look insane to an outsider looks at r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:40 PM
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hey now hey now hey now This is the internet Simplistic black-and-white answers only plz :P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:43 PM
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Maybe I should have said - 'Able to consistently win fights but doesn't punch...' Because how many weekly hours of martial arts training does the average male have? How fit is he? Like can be run for five minutes now and not get out of breath? I think the average male is terrible at physical violence but that doesn't matter because so is the other average male. But the majority of women aren't looking for the average, they're looking for someone who can actively protect them and win. That's a mi…
/r/BlackPillScience20/05/21 01:56 PM
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Maybe a fair chunk of women aren't attracted to more masculine, aggressive guys? There's evidence for this. A 'too much of a good thing is a bad thing' situation. I mean too aggressive? It's obvious the average woman sees that as a negative. Some aggression/self-assertion can work wonders on this planet but too much can obviate the very goal the guy may be trying to reach. Same with excessive masculinity, women will associate it with a bunch of negative, long-term relationship harming behaviours…
/r/BlackPillScience20/05/21 01:42 PM
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Is there a question here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:22 PM
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Clitoral size doesn't matter if you can't find the woman change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:21 PM
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Trump? Is that you? Who said you were allowed back on Reddit?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:17 PM
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Everything else being equal... More money is better than less money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:30 PM
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Status and money are difficult factors to separate in American society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:22 PM
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I can change him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:54 AM
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When FDS put themselves into one of those gender-swap photo apps, a RedPill man stares back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:49 AM
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Don't forget the money. Did I mention the money? Money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:46 AM
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One example does not a representative sample make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:26 PM
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The Evolution of Desire by David M. Buss A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas The Chemistry Between Us by Larry Young Why Women Have Sex by Cindy Meston Mating Intelligence Unleashed by Glenn Geher Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller (All except the last are available on Kindle) Most of these are written by scientists/psychologists. The 'Marry Him' one specifically addresses the 80/20 thing as the author directly asks matchmak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:05 PM
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This is an OK post...it could be better though But seriously, I've never read the science of negging but I suspect it would only 'work' on people with low self-esteem. It's a tactic that only someone with a fucked-up mind would use IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:50 AM
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5'4" Went from average weight to a BMI of around 20. Was lifting weights/running for around 20 hours a week. There's a science to making an attractive male body, same as there is for a female one. It isn't just lifting any weights or cycling whenever. Women whistled. Women went out of their way to say hello. It was vaguely similar to if I were female and went from average weight to thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:27 AM
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If you are truly curious, don't bother with Reddit. There are books written about this stuff by scientists. Read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:21 AM
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The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this sub So women aren't called hamsters there?? WOW, I'VE BEEN SO MISINFORMED
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:26 AM
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Yeah. Everyone, men and women equally ignore unattractive people when saying stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:16 PM
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Some women are single and doubling/tripling up on the same men. Sometimes even at the same time!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:15 PM
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You know the post is gonna be good when it starts with 2.3 million men in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:10 PM
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Don't forget that some 'radical' RP guys are extremely right-wing or just straight up fascists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:22 PM
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Red. And male RedPills get hella triggered when I point this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:45 AM
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I get where you're coming from of course but experts in relationships, psychologists, relationship therapists and the like, never ever recommend the guy lock his emotions away. In fact, they'll say thats one of the most self-destructive things a man can do and it still won't get him what he wants. And spoiler alert, those experts know more about relationships that most people here. More than me, and more than you. Honestly, those women who used your vulnerability against you...were bad women, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:40 AM
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Well male romantic fiction 'does' exist... It's called pornography. Ladies if you want romantic behaviour from a guy, you'd better look and/or behave like they do in the pornographic picture films. I semi-kid of course, but the 'ideal' relationship for an average man and the 'ideal' relationship for an average woman is partially antagonistic and impossible to fully satisfy for each simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:33 AM
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I think that for every 'bad' man out there, there's a bad woman. It's just that those guys, due to their physical strength, are more visible about it, while the women have to be more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:20 AM
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Blue pill folks think the genders are identical Red Pill folks behave like the genders are two different species
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:12 PM
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But you don't understand how difficult it is to find a quality man so it's actually sensible and....so yes men have no standards! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:10 PM
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Don't listen to the biphobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:03 AM
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Not for me, it wouldn't. If you are being denied sex in a relationship, and the other person doesn't consent to an open whatever, pull the ripcord and end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:21 PM
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My personal head canon is that cheating is only ever justified...if there's abuse in the relationship, physical/emotional/mental, whatever. Because, for me, any abusive relationship isn't a relationship anymore regardless of what the abuser or the wider society thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:13 AM
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And...the first few comments I read are a total trashfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:54 PM
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Virginity in men is looked down on by women (in general) So having sex, even just once, is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:12 PM
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As long as it's overall a positive experience? Yes More negatives than positives? No The examples you gave are all No I guess the question I would answer 'Yes' to is 'Would you enter a below average relationship just to have experience?'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:08 PM
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And porn studios And romantic fiction publishers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:07 PM
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Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. You need hard data to make an enormous claim like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:42 AM
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She blinked a pattern in morse code, dudes are so dumb!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:19 AM
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Not thinking that much about men probably is their answer when you think about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:15 AM
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To counteract liberal feminists I've said it before and I'll say it again. RedPill men and FDS women are the same thing. In a more just world, they should only date one another. And of course, they would fucking hate each other with the searing rage of a thousand sexist suns.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:13 AM
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is not handsome but he’s not ugly, which is the boat that most men find themselves in. Well according to the average woman, the average man is actually...uhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:09 AM
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If you think that, you're streets ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:08 AM
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It's a proven thing in relationships that things that attract women to men will also hurt those same guys' overall medical health. Like science proven. Like women will be attracted to a guy with a lot of testosterone even if that same testosterone level will decrease his life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:03 AM
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I fetishize your eight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:01 AM
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Similar experience back in the day. Got rated in the top 8% on one of those 'hot or not'-type websites. While simultaneously my dating profiles were all ghost towns... There are many possible reasons why but one of the possibilities? That hotornot website didn't list or ask for height. ... I'm 5'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:00 AM
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According to r/Tinder, women will mass-report weight criteria as offensive and get the profile banned. It's all anecdotal, there's nothing official but I think it's true. I've seen lots of 'Swipe left if you're below whatever height' profiles but one or two 'Swipe left if you weigh whatever' profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:33 PM
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Several times, I've had random men come up to me on a public street and be weird and unprovokedly aggressive with me, a male stranger they've never seen or spoken to before or since. Every time it happened, I've been standing with a female friend. Never happened when I'm alone. If you truly are worried about that, you can't change their behaviour directly, only your own. Start lifting weights, train in MMA and let the apes be frightened of you from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:28 PM
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and I’ll say it’s an amazing place for women to refocus on self, on growth, on building each other up Scrotes Pick one. I've seen that insult used constantly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:42 PM
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That got me into FDS and I’ll say it’s an amazing place for women to refocus on self, on growth, on building each other up. Perhaps redpill could position and say they do the same. I've read RedPill men say the identical...about their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:41 PM
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I keep on reading a theory that every FDS account is just an incel pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:33 PM
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It's only the asymmetry that annoys me. It both genders were allowed put height/weight criteria, I would have zero room to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:01 AM
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For reasons, it's acceptable on Tinder(and other apps, I'm sure) to discriminate based on height, not on weight. I'm guessing those guys who copy those women and put the weight stuff down, are reported by women for being 'offensive' and Tinder bans those profiles in response. Maybe if female profiles with height criteria were mass-reported too, things would change... One of the reasons the apps will allow discrimination based on height? They're desperate for women to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:45 AM
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I'm enjoying these comments. I was expecting all the comments to be complaining about the degeneracy of the Western world or some shit about Islamic babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:19 AM
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In fact, in any data I can find the female gender is always the more selective of the two. It just only occasionally matches the 80/20 thing. It's common for the ratio to be as low as 60/40. Ehh, women are more selective and '80/20' sounds more like a mantra people use.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:23 AM
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If I remember right, it was deleted a few days after OkCupid was bought by Match Group. Yeah, it seems the original OkCupid owners actually cared about their user's relationships, but Match Group deleted anything that hurt profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:59 AM
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OkCupid has put out so much data for us to use! For us to see how people actually behave! I'm reminded of their height/first date one where they asked female profiles how excited they were to go on a date with a male profile they were exchanging messages with, then put those numbers on a graph comparing the woman's optimism against the man's height... ...and well... You can all guess the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:47 AM
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I like how any dating website that points out this gender attraction difference has to they themselves delete the data later as it hurts their bottom line/profit margin. In interpersonal terms, it reminds me of r/Tinder males who, tired of seeing 'If you are below 6', swipe left' female profiles, will add 'If you above X weight, swipe left' to their own profile...and be banned from Tinder for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:35 AM
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I read a few speed dating studies years ago. (Heck, maybe it was always the same speed dating study just being re-used over and over again.) In the ones I read it was 66/33. The average male participant said yes to about two-thirds of the women (or it may even as went as low as half) The female participants only said yes to about a third. Same general deal as 80/20 though. Women say No a lot. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:21 AM
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I'm just picturing telling a two year old not to whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:34 AM
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It's not exactly 'cold' but I imagine anywhere where alcohol is imbibed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:08 PM
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'It's the guy's job to risk rejection and low self-esteem' - Them (probably)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:11 PM
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So what are they doing? Just endlessly swiping and responding to messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:24 PM
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Ignoring immediate obvious red flags would be my guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:53 PM
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The power to recognise sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:49 PM
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Can you give me the name of a celebrity that you think is 'ugly-cute'?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:40 PM
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So then they're...attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:39 PM
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I had no idea men were so powerless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:41 PM
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non-traditionally attractive guys. You mean....unattractive guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:34 PM
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Ask women who are invisible Ask men who are a target
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:08 PM
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And the Tinder guy she made.....wasn't.....even.....average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:06 PM
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Basically they get so much attention that they begin to feel unsafe. Happens to male celebrities too even. Some random comment on AskReddit was from someone who randomly hung out with Titanic-era Leonardo DiCaprio for a weekend. He had to have a bodyguard follow him around constantly to keep all the random women from walking up to him and directly sexually propositioning him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:24 PM
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I saw one of those type videos. In it, she (with a male profile) says, 'I know how to talk to women.' Cue me pausing the video on her Outbox, full of one word messages from her like Hey/hey/hi/hi!/heya, you get the idea 🙄 I also read an account from a guy pretending to be a woman on OkCupid. He said the amount of sexually deranged threatening messages he received on a normal profile actually frightened him. How would they? By reading and learning. Why would they? Now there's the barrier, isn't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:13 PM
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I legitimately don't think the average woman even comprehends the average man's dating life. Ditto the reverse, with the guys being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:34 AM
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Everything else aside, her taste in men was HORRIBLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:29 AM
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FDS women ARE Red Pill Women The Red Pill IS Male Dating Strategy You are both the same as the other and looking into the mirror horrifies you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:39 AM
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The real BLACKpill
/r/BlackPillScience13/04/21 07:28 AM
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