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| 1 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingFirst of all thank you for the clarification. I should identify what I want out of the situation on my list, not physical descriptions. So instead of saying I want someone taller than me, I just want someone who will make me feel protected in a hug, so he doesn’t have to be 5’10” or taller. So I want a man to share my hobbies. So we have something in common. So I need to find a man that enjoys needlework, instead of being outdoors. Instead of saying I want a man with his own house, what I really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingOk let me reiterate this, so I make sure I understand: I go to the grocery store to buy watermelons. The store only has cantaloupes. I ask the guy in produce, hey do you have any watermelons, he says no. There aren’t any available now. Here’s a fantastic cantaloupe though. He doesn’t explain why there are no watermelons. There are no other stores to buy watermelons. So I need to look inside myself to find my true value, so I can find the watermelons? My list is 21 things. The selection of men in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingSo I made a list of 21 things. I found 6 men in 4 years that meet maybe met 70% of my 21 things. One of them gave me the time of day, and then the rest ghosted me... what am I doing wrong? I lost weight, got my hair done properly. I got nails. I realized I must live in the wrong city! Political and religious beliefs seem to be the thing I come up against most (I can’t stand the conservatives). I don’t know what to do... everyone I want, doesn’t want me... HELP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:04 AM |
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