StoicGypsy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Can love language needs be met?	RELATIONSHIPS	StoicGypsy	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/22 03:17 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I’m a formerly poor woman who married into extreme wealth. AMA! I love this for you 💜💜	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/23 11:33 PM
1	Please help - I don’t love when my husband is silly leading up to sex “That’s cute babe, now can you tell me how sexy I look, that I’m irresistible and kiss me?” He might be into this direct order. Men don’t like to be called “cute”. Counter this by making him aim for sexy and other adjectives you are aiming for.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/23 01:54 AM
1	Many Women Are Still Peak Beauty at 30-35 You might be mistaken for what some women’s real ages are. Most men don’t believe my age because I could pass for 25 at 34.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 03:20 AM
1	I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How do I decrease my living-in-filth tolerance before then, so I can do a a sufficient job at keeping his home clean? Find ways to organize things. Then things just belong in places. Pinterest has great ideas if you don’t know where to start.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/23 04:08 AM
1	Husband criticizes my cooking :( I’m sorry you are experiencing this and your feelings are very valid. My own boyfriend is wonderful and I love him dearly, but I can relate to being with someone with a critical personality. Thankfully, he actually cooks more than I do because he truly enjoys it, but I get his criticism in other areas. His timing has been really bad at times, and he means well but the delivery is awful. In my own case, my boyfriend can be oblivious that his words are actually hurtful. I think it is okay to show …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/22 09:47 PM
2	Single Women, what are your standards? Income: min 150k (I make 180k +) Height: at least 5’8” (I am short at 5’3”). Up to 6’3” Race: white (same) Body type: dad bod is ok but anything more I’m out. Ultra Skinny is fine. So maybe roughly 140-200#. (I am an athletic 130#) Kids: only if they are older than 16 and no mama drama. I don’t want to play step mom. (I have none) Housing: single living arrangement. Would be open if they live with siblings. (I have both owned a house and lived in a 2 BR high rise alone.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 02:53 PM
1	what makes for a sexually attractive male? Fit in a soccer player way. Nice flowy hair. Strong jaw line. Clean but not overly manicured.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 02:42 PM
2	Upper class men marry educated women One of the better posts I read. I am from low middle class and the only way a man from upper class would take me seriously for LTR or marriage was through my education (I have a doctorate). I don’t flaunt it though and I try to leave my boss-like attitude at the work door. With my fiancé, I am much more obedient, caring and attentive than in my work life. So yes, education and brains matter more so for those looking to level up. I do agree that some degrees and profession hold different weight t…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/12/22 03:26 PM
2	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. I can argue both sides of this. I used to see relationships as incredibly transactional and developed and seeked out relationships that supported this belief. What I later realized is that this can be influenced by different peoples’ love languages. It is a lot easier to view a relationship as transactional if love language is expressed in gift gifting or acts of service. The alternative may argue that simply “quality time” isn’t viewed as transactional in the traditional sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:15 AM
2	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I’m not sure how you’re reading this, but I am explaining how mental and emotion stimulation is more important. Not sure how this is sexually objectifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 05:46 PM
2	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Arousal for me does not come from physical attraction solely. Of course, I can be grossed out by someone who doesn’t take care of themselves but my arousal starts at probably a solid 5/10 on looks. Not your clean cut, fitness model type. Arousal for me comes from mental stimulation, twist me with your words and thoughts, show me your superiority and success, and tease me with your touch. And I will become putty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 12:47 PM
3	What value does a man bring to a modern relationship? Masculine qualities to guide and lead physically or even mentally to help me in difficult situations. My partner and I are equal socioeconomically but I am more emotional. So while I bring more romanticism, emotional communication, and physical touch to the relationship; he brings masculine energies to lead and direct which helps me immensely in both my personal social circles and work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 03:31 AM
1	q4w: Who is your female role model on who you are trying to become? I wouldn’t call her a role model since I don’t have role models I do not know personally, but I adore how Angelina Jolie seems to carry herself. She is so full of grace, intelligence, kindness and somehow blends strength with femininity perfectly. She speaks openly about her past difficulties and uses her fame and money to give back when she could just sit back and enjoy her wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 03:26 AM
4	Why do small age gap relationships fare better? I am currently in a relationship with a man 10 years older. He is well established in every regard at 45 and I am just starting my career, making a lot of moves and taking more risks at 34. In terms of profession and work, we are definitely in different places but we acknowledge it and I appreciate his wisdom here. I’ve always been attracted to men who are intelligent and can teach me things, which I haven’t found ever in men close to my age at any point in my life. Sometimes my naiveness and la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:19 AM
6	how do I get the energy to dress up? Simple pieces are key! A maxi dress, dressier sandals, form fitting shirts, skirts etc	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/22 04:05 AM
2	If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap. Yep. And this was just* for an IUD. The ignorance of some men on this topic is astonishing and unfortunate given recent events.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 09:00 PM
10	If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap. I paid $2000 for mine. Never had a date that expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 05:52 PM
33	how to make sure I don't get consumed by medical school as a woman that has dreams of getting married and settling down ? Female doctor here who follows this page. Ignore what people say and create the life you want. I do suggest you be mindful of the specialties that allow for a more “normal” lifestyle with less call and weekend work. Plenty of loving and supportive doctor-wives and mothers out there. I’d honestly stay away from surgical specialities but I’m sure it’s still possible. PM&R, pediatrics, some internal medicine subspecialties (endocrine, rheumatology, palliative care) are all incredibly lifestyle and …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/22 10:37 PM
1	Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs. Because they realize they are now financially dependent and have no outlet to make a living and their value as a partner diminishes with age (per societal standards) Queen Judy says it best https://youtu.be/vTrGm3GPlOE	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 06:00 PM
4	Your partner gets paralyzed from the neck down, do you stay? I’d stay true to my commitment only if married. But we’d revisit the terms of the relationship so that we could both be happy. I’d expect the same if roles were reversed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:47 PM
2	Are young men at a disadvantage when it comes to dating compared to older men? Good advice here	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 03:17 AM
2	Woman actually do like assholes Read most. You seem to think all opinions that a woman has to be based on “triggering”. Interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:47 AM
2	Woman actually do like assholes How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:43 AM
2	Woman actually do like assholes Not really. Just stating another side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:39 AM
1	Why do women want/need commitment? Thank you. I agree with you. I also think lifelong commitment is possible but knowing what our biological or subconscious processes may be doing to pull us in one direction is important to recognize. Most definitely have no idea what role basic biology plays. I think this means choosing the right mate even more important than basic financial security.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:46 AM
1	Genuine question for women. When you see this do actually recognize what is going on? Jada is an abuser. Will is trying to set a boundary and she blatantly disregards it. He looks incredibly uncomfortable defending himself - the eye shifting, the restless hands, the cowering head posture. She is a manipulative narcissist. I’m a woman and I see this clearly, but I’ve also had first hand experience with the male equivalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:41 AM
2	Woman actually do like assholes The asshole game works for superficial connections. What else do you do other than “have fun together”? It’ll get old. And at some point so will you. If this is truly what is happening, the women you are finding are hoping to be “the special one” that will be able “to change you”. When she realizes that’ll never happen, then she will leave you. Sounds like you haven’t let things go far enough to prove that important fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:34 AM
3	Why do women want/need commitment? People can want different things at different times. I went through times where I wasn’t at all interested in commitment but enjoyed the occasional connections, emotional, mental and physical. This happened more in my 20s when I was preoccupied with developing my career aka independence. I evolved and once my career got solidified and I knew I could sustain myself alone, then I was ready to welcome a man into my life but only with commitment which was two fold on why commitment: I worked hard to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:27 AM
4	Why do women want/need commitment? What’s the argument for only 4-6 years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 05:21 AM
5	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Men lie about how much money they have all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:40 PM
3	Vulnerability is the driving force of connection I love your insight. It’s true. I tend to too much masculine energy due to my career and independence but when I have my vulnerable moments, there’s nothing more comforting, loving and beautiful than when my man steps in to offer me calm protection. I melt and become a better partner instantly.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/22 05:11 AM