StoicKoal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex I am constant in agreeing that both situations are bad, and both situations can be avoided to an extent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:40 PM
5	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex I measure it on how impactful it is towards that person. Personally losing years of your life that you have spent to generate those resources I believe is more impactful than being tricked into having sex. Again, both are bad situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:32 PM
5	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex Isn’t it then a women’s fault for choosing a man that would use her for sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:30 PM
4	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex While I see your point, you are also continually shirking the money aspect of the argument to enlarge the sex side of the argument, which makes it look like you have an obvious bias. While I do agree with you your view on sex, i don’t think you realise how much men lose in terms of finances. Some men don’t even have to be married and they get sued for half of their money because they lived together for long enough it could be considered a common law marriage. If your wife is unhappy, she can lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:29 PM
6	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex No, both are bad, but they are not “same as”	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:05 PM
2	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex I love how you use the word wallet in a way to make it seem small and meaningless. That “wallet” is what pays for the house, food, fuel, electricity, internet, water, gas, nail appointments, clothes for the children, school, cars, hospital bills, etc. So, being a “bangmaid” and someone living a comfortable life rent free from your “wallet” is not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:04 PM
2	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex While this is true, I still think that men losing resources he’s worked a big part of his life for is not on the same level as a woman being deceived for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 12:58 PM
0	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex How can you use women for sex when they have the final say if sex happens or not? It’s like someone saying that the gun keeps going off and they don’t know why, meanwhile their finger is on the trigger causing the gun to fire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 12:20 PM
-3	Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sex To say they are the same is false. Men spend a huge chunk of their life and time to build themselves, their careers and resources to get to a point where they can support a family. When that is being taken advantage of and abused then it is valid to complain about. However women complaining about being used for sex when they are the main decider on if sex happens or not is their own fault for letting it happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 11:21 AM
1	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated Wow, you’re completely taking what I am saying out of context. I am in no way inciting that the lower women men are aiming for to increase their chances are inferior in any way. If anything I believe it is a strong catalyst for long term relationships as the man is not purely going after her for her looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 12:22 PM
0	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated But the fact still stands that a woman is able to punch above her own, where for a man it’s impossible unless she is a gold digger. However, I do believe there is a balance in place, because typically it would be hard for the women to keep that man in a long term relationship, as sex can only get you so far, where for a man punching below him, he would have an easier time to keep her in a long term relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 12:18 PM
2	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated I mean yea you can make it more complicated and try to interpret it under individual standards and how they may vary from one person to another etc etc etc. But from a general perspective, women are able to obtain a higher standard man easier than it is for a man to obtain a higher standard women. This can be observed by just going outside and looking at couples around you. So in turn, if women lowered their standards and a man was able to obtain a higher standard women, he would feel more mascu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 11:12 AM
2	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated Better than themselves in what way? Women who are a 6 in the looks department, are able to easily obtain a man that is a 7 or above. Where as for men, they are almost never able to get a women on the same level as them and tend to aim lower to increase their chances of securing a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 10:40 AM
0	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% Maybe submissive is the wrong word here. Some men may feel that they can establish a more traditional relationship dynamic, which they may find appealing. This can include expectations around gender roles and responsibilities within the marriage. Which is why you see a lot of passport bro’s going out to these countries to find themselves a “traditional” wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 12:23 AM
0	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? Because women no longer need to rely on men for resources, they can get it themselves, so there is no need to keep their husbands happy for the long term. However that comes at the cost of their children being raised by strangers while they are at work being loyal to a CEOs instead of their husbands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 12:01 AM
1	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% I don’t think it has anything to do with career. Asian women are more desirable due to their submissive nature stemming from their culture. And would be a safer bet for a long term relationship. Sydney would be a risky choice as you are now putting yourself in a position where you would have to constantly fend off other males due to her attracting more attention that the office worker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:55 PM
1	Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationships So because my wife is able to wake up at 10am, walk around the air conditioned house that I payed for in her pj’s, put the laundry into a machine that I payed for that automatically washes and dries all the clothes, load a machine that I payed for that automatically washes and dries the dishes, drive the car that I pad for to drop the kids off at school and get to her hair and nail appointment, she is doing more than me working miles underground in the mines for 9 hours a day where I sometimes d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:48 PM
4	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? Even Bonnie blue talked about married men coming to her after she has slept with them and told her their marriage has improved since they were able to get that sexual tension released. Not saying cheating is okay tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:29 PM
1	Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online? From a primal, and I guess biological perspective, the male provides protection and resources for the female or females to raise his offspring. To abandon his young would be non beneficial for him as it then lowers the survival rate of his offspring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:26 PM
1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Damn… you got me there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 09:45 AM
0	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. How is there a bias? Both emotional and rational are positive traits?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 08:07 AM
0	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. I mean, I don’t know what else to tell you haha. I have given you plenty of evidence and examples of basic human behaviour and biology and how that plays a key part from both parents in a child’s upbringing. I’ve made it as simple as idiot proof as I can but you refuse to accept anything or acknowledge even the basics of how human biology works and how it affects our actions and behaviour between male and females. I’m not going to spend any more energy on this, instead I encourage you to read ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 05:54 AM
-1	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. I’m not saying the father sits on his ass she whole day, obviously he is still being an active parent. I never said women couldn’t be role models? Again both genders can contribute in meaningful ways. Mothers often model social behaviors and emotional intelligence, teaching children about relationships and communication. Fathers serve as role models for assertiveness and independence, encouraging children to explore and take risks. If you take the father out of the picture it has been shown that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 04:27 AM
2	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. You are so on the attack that I feel you are not actually reading and using basic common sense and pattern recognition. The paper serves as showing that men and women parent differently based on gender, which is biological. You can then use basic biology of the male and female brain structure, hormones and body composition to determine behavioural patterns that match up with the paper. Hormones such as prolactin is elevated during pregnancy and breastfeeding, and plays a role in maternal behavio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 04:12 AM
-3	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Here is a paper for you to read that explains everything in detail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 03:34 AM
4	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. I believe the issue is people believe that men and women are the same. And because a man cannot parent the same as a woman, then he is less of a parent. However both parents play a critical role in the child’s development. A woman’s emotional nature allows for a more direct approach to parenting such as nurturing and caregiving, providing direct emotional support, nurturing, and hands-on care. Communication, discussing feelings, thoughts, and daily experience. Active involvement in daily activit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 02:06 AM
-3	Why is there such an Imbalance in showing Data/Studys between the Pills? Well yea, women are typically emotional, where men are typically rational..	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 10:24 AM
2	Why is there such an Imbalance in showing Data/Studys between the Pills? Because blue pills arguments a lot of the times are based around feelings, where red pill are based around facts and common sense/reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 10:11 AM
1	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved It’s not, men are still considered to be more efficient in completing a task over women. That’s why you don’t see many women working in places that require a high level of efficiency such as warehouses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 11:00 PM
1	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved I don’t think efficiency is a valid argument. Have you ever been shopping with a woman? Men are often seen as more risk-taking and may focus on speed and getting the job done quickly. Women, on the other hand, might take a more methodical approach, emphasizing accuracy and thoroughness. So if there is anyone who is going to be efficient in getting things done, it is typically men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 10:22 PM
1	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved My question was woman’s autonomy specifically. Not both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 10:14 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved If you are saying all this is the defence of women’s autonomy. Then my question would be. What does women’s autonomy contribute to society and the development of humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 07:18 AM