StoicLifeWisdom Archive

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1	Trying to keep going but it is hard Hi u/No_Chemistry8953, I think most of us have stood exactly where you are now. It sucks knowing that "future" that you had been working towards with your STBXW is gone. And it's fair to grieve that loss. As far as next steps, take just one. One step off the bed and move. Walk, run, exercise, whatever you can do to get something going. Next step(s) is your road to recovery and healing. Start with a new therapist, read and/or listen to podcasts about recovering from this breakup. It will be hard,…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/26 12:56 PM
3	What do I want next? That's a tough question to answer because it's really going to be based on the individual and may (or may not) apply to your situation. I think most here will agree that post-divorce, it's important to take time for yourself, if only to recover from the pain of the end of that relationship. For me, it was learning what my issues were that contributed to the end, and also not taking on her issues as part of mine. Looking back, I probably jumped back into the dating pool too quickly and definitely…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/26 12:48 PM