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StoicPsychopath/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 02:29 AM
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I tend to think that N-count is very unimportant and it is just a source of insecurity for men that never put in the effort to learn how to make a girl cum. If you are a man that is reasonably attractive, decent self confident, and knows how to eat and finger pussy sufficiently well to make her have multiple orgasms (which isn't hard to do once you know the basics), then most women will be reasonably loyal. They like the security of a long term partner just as much as men do and will only go loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:11 AM
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It is rooted in fear of her being an alpha widow. A man that can't make a woman cum feels inadequate if she has had a partner that can make her have multiple orgasms in the past. His main concern is that she will need it again and then will cheat on him or leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:10 PM
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You are being rejected constantly. Grow a pair and dump her.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:32 PM
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Fear of change and fear of loss. It's from a position of weakness.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:31 PM
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If you aren't attracted to her, demote her to plate or dump her and start fucking girls you are attracted to.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:30 PM
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lol. It takes about 5 min of dirty texting with a fresh match to convince even the most liberal pro-quarantine girl to break the rules. It's just another form of "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm looking for something serious". Basically, they are still fucking in secret whether guys know it or not. This idea of a post-quarantine fuck fest is about the same as "sex positive feminism will mean all men get laid more." The guys holding on to this notion with hope will still be watching the same old cuck…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:23 PM
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Only one right answer here: ghost and move on. Plates that are trying to play games like that are never worth the time. And if you let her play this game, then she'll play even more extreme games later. That's the danger zone where BDP ladies shine and you have no excuse to allow, no matter how hot she is or how good the pussy is.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:06 PM
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Being a pretty boy is often a proxy for status. A pretty boy dresses well, has good hair, and so on, which are all proxies for wealth. They often come from good families that can afford to give them those things when they are in their teens and early 20s. That also implies that they have a great future ahead of them. That also applies to the celebrity pretty boys like Timberlake, Bieber, etc. They have through the roof status, which causes younger women to get incredibly turned on by them. And w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:36 AM
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The genetics side of it is an extremely important part of sexual selection. This includes height, facial attractiveness, intelligence, and dick size, among other things. You are being judged on all fronts by women all the time. It's literally what they evolved to do. That said, it is best to accept what you can't change (fitness, social life, job, personality) and do the best with what you can. You might not land 10/10 Victoria Secret models with zero effort like the Chads you idealize, but you'…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 10:37 PM
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Obviously there needs to be a "revenge fantasy fulfilled" tag for these situations. ;) Good for you on getting in better shape. Hope you are taking advantage of it to spin some high quality plates. Use her as a lesson... All women you desire in the moment will eventually be less desirable. Maybe not as much as this one, but it is a great representation as to how sexual attractiveness is meaningless long term and should not be used as the basis of any sort of Disney-style "I'm going to marry this…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 09:42 PM
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Great post. I will add a stage 0 to this since you just jumped right into the "missing something" thing. This comes from the feeling that she settled. Deep down she is still an alpha widow to the best guy she fucked. She may love her husband deeply, but he never gave her the same primal feelings of being used that he did. That is the something she is missing. She denies it for as long as she can until she cannot do so anymore. Then she starts to seek out lovers to find that.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 07:02 PM
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One of the most important skills if you are going to be in a red pill inspired monogamous relationship (and I say inspired because monogamy is at a minimum purple pilling it) is to recognize when things evolve away from the "fun" phase into the "serious" phase. If she's not fucking you 3+ times every time you see her, then she's trying to train you for the serious phase. Soon after she's going to start asking for more and giving less. Bail. Don't look back. Let some other guy be the "winner that…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 09:24 AM
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"The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." What you are describing is nice and all, but the core principle of the Red Pill is about recognizing the true nature of social interaction to be more effective with regards to sexual strategy. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 09:11 AM
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I see two issues... 1) You lost a lot of women that were using you as an emotional tampon and some beta males that no longer relate to you. This is a good thing. You should lose friends when taking the pill. 2) Sounds like you are being petty when people disrespect you and it is showing. People view that as pathetic, not alpha. Learn how to be more stoic and to use amused mastery whenever someone is giving you shit. Basically ignore it or laugh it off. If someone is worth having around, take the…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:02 PM
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While I understand your argument, I'm not sure that waiting for true signals of commitment is optimal because that delays being able to see his sexual abilities, which could result in time wasting if they are insufficient. Remember, this conversation was originally rooted in a guy that wanted to commit but didn't generate sufficient tingles. You are correct that it could be alphas that just want to hang out and never commit, but honestly... 4 dates is a long time for an alpha to wait. And I stil…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 08:51 PM
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If monogamy is the default goal and she has no attraction to this guy, then the choice is clear. Move on and don't worry about it. This guy is unacceptable for her goals. It sounds like the OP is clear stuck in the classic trap of being bored with betas but wanting commitment from alphas and beating herself up about this dilemma. The first step is to recognize the situation for exactly what it is and to not feel bad about it. This is just her biology doing its thing. There's no shame in it at al…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 08:03 PM
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Slow it down. Tease her. Finger her. Spank her. Talk dirty. Kiss. If you turn her on sufficiently to get her off a few times before you even put your dick inside her, you won't be thinking about whether or not she's gonna cum. It's also much easier to make her cum with your dick if she's already started cumming. Also... Fuck more. If you are getting nervous, you need to get that out of your system.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:34 PM
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Why did you even post this? Shouldn't you be fucking someone else right now and already forgetting this girl's name?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:31 PM
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He already hears those wedding bells ringing. *nu male smile*
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:29 PM
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Absolutely. He sounds like a great beta provider and would be very happy in that role. I mentioned above a compromise solution (LTR with him for her relationship needs while she can pursue outside men for her sexual needs). Is monogamy with the rare gamma male the goal you are implying? Or is there anything wrong with an explicit dual mating strategy to solve this nearly universal dilemma?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 07:23 PM
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Evolutionary biology. Men want young, attractive, sane, reasonably intelligent, and fertile to produce healthy and capable offspring. Women want men with high social status or talents that can attract mates or acquire resources. Next question?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:19 PM
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Bitches be like... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9py4aMK3aIU
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:16 PM
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Say "I'm thinking about your wet little pussy right now. I'd love to make it cum over and over again as I pound you deep and hard." If she's repulsed by this, then she's just not that into you.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:14 PM
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Yes... Being the pen pal of a bored girl that previously rejected you will totally prevent you from being miserable and pathetic. And she definitely will make sure you aren't ever alone again either! :)
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:13 PM
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All human interaction is a strategy game. You either accept that reality and play the game or you will be taken for a sucker over and over again.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:10 PM
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Fact... Girls text guys in the friend zone in between rounds of getting flooded with the contents of Chad/Tyrone's balls.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:09 PM
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Ghost. Nothing good can come of this. She's been getting fucked by dozens of guys she considered superior to you over the last few years. She will never respect you as a result. Even if you have improved, her brain is still pre-programmed to think of the old you. Further, your brain is pre-programmed to think of the old you and the old her, meaning that you will behave like a beta towards her. Recruit new girls. Find one that kind looks like her to get it out of your system if needed. But stop t…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:07 PM
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He's obviously a simp trapped in an alpha's body and lifestyle. He should have never got angry on film. That was his downfall. Stay stoic.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:58 PM
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Definitely agree. I am a fan of "The Depression Cure" for the same reason. It advocates exercise, good sleep, diet corrections, social interaction, exposure to sunlight, and anti-rumination techniques to reduce the impact of depression. And I'd imagine those same techniques can help with anxiety. My comment was to point out that there are other circumstances to consider as well. The physical care component is the 80-90% solution for most people though, assuming they don't have a terrible job or …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 06:25 PM
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You are right that it helps, but some people do have legitimate anxiety disorders due to brain chemistry malfunction. These poor souls follow perfect routines and still have extreme anxiety. And other people do everything right physically but have extremely high stress jobs, horrible wives/families, etc. In my opinion, the physical stuff is necessary but not sufficient for dealing with both anxiety and depression. You may also need some anxiety meds if you have the brain chemistry issue or to re…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 08:10 AM
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Give it like 3 days and the hierarchies and social orders will reestablish. Hell, women may be even worse than before because they'll be on Twitter the whole time making up equally silly theories about how men will change from the shutdown.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:55 AM
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Who cares? If you are bored during the pandemic, text dirty or share memes with them. If they drop, get new ones later. The key to this whole game is to be attractive enough to treat women as replaceable. Worrying about plates losing interest because you text them do much means that you aren't really outcome independent and do not have an abundance mindset.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 05:16 AM
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Great phrase for that phenomenon. Honestly, the alpha will keep them on as a semi-permanent side chick if they are relatively low on drama and a decent lay. It really is all about providing something useful. A lot of these women can't do anything besides have high expectations and complain a lot. They deserve their pump and dumps.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 06:52 AM
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This is why I generally avoid girls under 25 that new to the CC. They have so much dick thrown at them that they often can help themselves. This is especially true for those that are in the 5-7 range. They use that dick to validate themselves to compensate for their own self-image issues. Translation: STD and drama waiting to happen. The slightly older girls (25-35) that are seeking to "settle down" are better targets for harems if you are a 30+ male and know how to handle plates well (i.e. you …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 08:27 PM
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If you aren't naturally a dark triad, there's no reason to force it. Just emulate what you can to be effective enough to meet your own needs. But don't try to do the more "advanced" things a dark triad will do because you will just develop extreme self-loathing. It really comes down to this... If you let a girl fall in love with you and you aren't a dark triad, you probably will develop strong feelings back. That can quickly lead to oneitis and all of the problems described in the sidebar. Proce…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 08:22 PM
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You are right that this isn't black and white. But we do have a pretty good idea based on samples and the data we do have. Based on my personal experience and conversations I've had with plates, I'd say that a large fraction of the of "single women" are actually in some alpha male's harem and perfectly content with that arrangement (i.e. they want monogamous commitment and know they won't ever get it, but aren't going anywhere because sharing the alpha is better than monogamy with weaker men). A…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 08:19 PM
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Perfect response. For those reading this, I'll elaborate a little further... Needing this form of validation is a comfort test to ensure that you aren't just going to drop her randomly. It's a form of anxiety in her head and it means she actually likes you (i.e. you are her best option for the moment). If you don't want to deal with this kind of girl drama, next her. If you want to keep her around, then show a *little* bit of possession. Nothing creepy or over the top though because then that ju…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:25 PM
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