StoicSchwanz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need some validation		StoicSchwanz	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 02:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	How Important is a Prenup for those going through the process? Yes. You want a prenup. 2. Yes, you and your future spouse want to do this through attorneys. You love each other now and hopefully in perpetuity, however, if the day comes when you don't then your prenup will be your best friend. If your spouse doesn't want to sign then don't get married.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/26 03:10 PM
9	In retrospect, are you ever just COMPLETELY baffled at how you ignored the red flags? How was I so blind? Alcohol and trauma. Once I sobered up and got into therapy things changed dramatically.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 01:55 PM
3	Final straw She was sick as well and was so bad with money she never had money for the co-pays. When I pointed out that I was sick too, I was treated to "well here we go let's make this all about you." Needless to say, I am much more at peace now.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/26 01:06 AM
6	Final straw My wife was completely irresponsible with money, like bankruptcy bad. The fact that she could also be incredibly rude and mean to me didn't help. My last straw was when she decided to be super impatient and rude to me while I was sick. I didn't rush out to the store to pick up her meds fast enough for her. I didn't get angry - I just didn't care any more. I saw a lawyer two days later and 3 months after I am divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/26 07:03 PM
1	Those of you who initiated a divorce, how did your wife take it? I am sorry you are going through this - truly. The sense of relief I felt after it was done was incredible. I still get pangs of sadness every now and then but ChatGPT is actually a pretty good sounding board for helping to organize and process your feelings. I was shocked. My divorce hearing is tomorrow, I will be glad when it is done.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 10:53 PM
3	Those of you who initiated a divorce, how did your wife take it? Things were bad enough between us for long enough that she wasn't all that surprised. There was some anger on her part but that quickly dissipated when she realized that I had not one fuck left to give.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 10:46 PM
2	Kratom-Divorced Sorry to hear that. I have had to deal with addicts in my life and it sucks. You cannot be an addict and anything else - addiction doesn't work like that.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/26 07:08 PM
2	Nobody to talk with about this.. You need an attorney. Now. There are a lot of suggestions here but you really do want qualified legal advice to protect your interests. I am sorry you got blindsided but you need to think of yourself first. Get an attorney. NOW.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/26 05:59 PM
9	What was the thing that made you say you no longer love your wife? We were both sick with COVID. She needed her meds picked up and wanted stuff at two different stores as well. She, of course, was broke. I told her I would pick up her meds and go to the stores for her and pay for everything. She said something which I didn't hear and I said "I'm sorry?" and she began to over enunciate every word to me. I told her that wasn't necessary and was disrespectful and she told me to "get over it" because she "wasn't feeling well" - I reminded her I was sick too and she…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 06:41 AM
1	Need some validation No children with her. All of my kids are from my first marriage and are adults.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 03:55 PM
1	Need some validation No kids. I have children from a prior but they are all adults.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 03:13 AM
2	Talk me out of it. Living well is the best revenge. Find your peace at being better off without your ex. Dedicate yourself 100% to your happiness and well being. Step 1 needs to be stop looking back.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/26 12:57 AM
15	I’m not a bad man… It's not you and what you are seeing may not be reality. Time invested in your children is a force multiplier and your kids will remember that. What you had in a relationship is gone and it's time for you to move on and be happy. What is it that will make you truly content? If you don't know then go find it. You get one shot at life, don't spend it being bitter looking back. Plot your path forward, love your children, and most importantly, love yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/25 01:48 PM