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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How often do you travel with your teenage children?		Stoic_Surfer	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 12:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How often do you travel with your teenage children? That's what I'm looking for!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 05:30 PM
2	How often do you travel with your teenage children? That's an awesome ideia! Thanks!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 05:29 PM
1	How often do you travel with your teenage children? Love the "dictatorship with love" quote! But I tried the "my way or the highway" approach and all I got was a pouting child with zero interest in anything we'd do! Learned my lesson and won't waste my time AND money again!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 03:37 PM
2	How often do you travel with your teenage children? How old was she when you gave her the option of not going along with you?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 03:35 PM
3	How often do you travel with your teenage children? Because he'd just huff and puff and complain about every little thing! I've been there before on a short road trip and other places in our city, and it was really irritating to see him acting out that way! Learned my lesson and saved my cash by not repeating the same mistake again!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 01:18 PM
3	Strange feeling - is this normal? 24 years is a lot of time! No wonder you still long for her! I was officially married for 11 years (not counting the dating years before that). That's awesome that your girls live with you! I'm very happy for you man! You get to see your kids everyday! That's very rare amongst divorced men! Cherish this everyday! Regarding your emotional turmoil, give yourself time and be kind to yourself! Believe me, it does get better!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 08:38 PM
7	Strange feeling - is this normal? Hey OP, Divorced for 3 years now; 12 yo son. It's WAY too early right now! You've only been apart for nearly 4 months! I remember when I was at my 4 month mark that, although I didn't want her back, I would always fantasize about her regretting the divorce and coming back apologizing to me! Never happened and I, today, feel like a fool for having such daydreams! Sure, I'd occasionally would miss her at that time, but I ALWAYS repeated to myself: this is the woman who disrespected me, emasculated…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 08:16 PM
2	Time to go? Hey man, good to know you have all your shit together! So you ticked all the boxes and I honestly don't see what else you can do about her at this moment. If I were in your place, given that you acknowledge that you have "options" (yes, women) outside your marriage and that you have your life's main pillars in order (health and wealth), I'd go for the least traumatic divorce possible. I don't see it as whining on your behalf, perhaps you just needed some external opinions on what you've been goi…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 07:52 PM
5	Time to go? Hey OP, I'm 48 (turning 49 next month), divorced for 3 years now, and I went through the same scenario with my ex: bullshit upon bullshit excuses for not having sex anymore! In the final months leading to our divorce, we were already living in separate bedrooms and had ceased ALL sexual contact altogether! I'm going to dish out some tough love for you, OP; please take it with a kind heart, as I'm trying to help you with what you're going through: she didn't lose all interest in sex, she just los…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 06:52 PM