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Women are terrible at sex for the most part. The downside of men giving women so much sexual attention is the false notion that she is good at sex. Starfish is not being good at sex. 8 out of 10 women are terrible at blow jobs. Teeth and no hand action. Terrible rhythm. Overweight women I think tend to be a bit better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:38 AM
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Oh you have needs. I have watched plenty of middle aged women go towards being a bit insane. You need emotional validation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:35 AM
1

Because they look like women………..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:34 AM
1

Or we could just pay some pocket change to spread her legs. Dinners or just a bit if cash solve most sex issues
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:33 AM
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Synthetic companions will frustrate the shit out of women, i have already seen women refer to synthetic companions as rape slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:31 AM
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If I was even remotely attracted to men I would go gay. Men would make far better partners. Gay men are some of the highest income families in the US. Imagine being with a partner that actually liked sex and actually tried to validate their man and make him feel good about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:29 AM
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You don’t. It is pretty naive to think that you do. There are people married for 20-30 years that wale up one day and realize they don’t really know their partner. Many many spouses have no idea what the spouse is up to. What they like. What they do. What they hide. Only super naive people make broad claims that seem sweetly innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah right. You don’t know nothing about him. It is funny how women think sex workers are victims and it is the men that ate morally wrong. You have no idea what your husband is up to unless he is just poor and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:09 AM
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I have news for you lol. You must be perfect though and how is the weather on that high horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:04 AM
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The only reason why is because you would have zero power in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:43 AM
3

You are not as funny or as witty as you think you are. You mostly avoid and questions and I think your answers are intellectually dishonest. If that is the best that you can do then it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:06 PM
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I don’t think someone is insecure for having standards and not wanting to put their dick into a trash can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:58 AM
2

So you would not care if your partner gave it up to 10,000 people? If you cared or anyone cared about that it makes them insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:54 AM
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Performing in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:49 AM
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You would not care if your partner was performing in porn or slept with a 1000 guys? Get out of here with this ridiculous comment of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:48 AM
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Better yet before going out even once she needs to tell him she will not have sex until she is ready and be honest that she used to screw on the 1st and 2nd dates before but she wont now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:47 AM
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When the guy you like that waits for you to make up your mind as you enter into a sexless marriage finds out that you dropped pants on second dates he is going to be rightfully upset and not understand. Just communicate honestly that you used to have sex on the second date and now you want to wait fir whatever before going out with him. As long as you communicate before any dates happen it is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:45 AM
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That is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:37 AM
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The only real power most women will ever have is via sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:31 AM
1

Which is break. You are arguing a bit of a strawman even with dismissing your "cute" comment. The point is that men who want to can have much more control over their attractiveness. The joke about a man's midlife crisis involving a 30-year-old and a convertible is several decades old. What is a woman's midlife crisis? Broken uterus?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:53 PM
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The conversation was on testosterone...you have to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:14 PM
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"What's more" are you trying to say "once more"? That would be a strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:12 PM
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Once again it has nothing to do with an erection. Are you really like this or are you messing with me? I feel like you are trolling. I did not say most I said that many are. Have you been around married couples in their 40s+?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:10 PM
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Most men put in little effort outside of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:07 PM
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Taking testosterone is yikes? It also has little to do with the "wee wee" working. You do realize your homes will go nuclear in your forties lol? That is such a silly take from a woman about hormone therapy. Many bald and obese men are married so it seems to be working for many. For those that don't the gym and hair transplant is an option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:06 PM
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Is the care aid hot? That does not sound as bad as you think it does. Maybe you are trying to benchmark some perfect soul mate marriage but that does not exist. Very few marriages are great. Few are good. Some are just two people that have gotten used to each other and they just put up with the other person flaws, cheating, or whatever. It takes effort to get divorced and figure out custody. Lazy is a choice. Many marriages are just day-to-day survival. The illusion of love or the illusion of pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:02 PM
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Testosterone shots, gym, and hair transplants fix those things. How are you going to fix a broken uterus?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:38 PM
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Menopause, no reproduction, hormone imbalances, decreasing sex drive, decreasing looks, accelerated weight gain, mood swings etc. Really when you look at it who takes that lazy approach to dating? Men don't dye their hair as much, they don't use makeup, they don't take great care with their outfits. Many men put in zero effort and still get married. Just look for who is doing the work to impress the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:24 PM
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Kind of a cognitive dissonance. There are barely any writings on what sometimes is called the lizard brain and wizard brain. Which is basically the theory that we have a brain that operates off of instinct and manages things like sexual attraction and flight, fight, or freeze. It is the old brain that releases chemicals to cause an action. Versus our wizard brain which is the higher level brain that is self-aware and uses reason to motivate actions. Sometimes there is a cognitive dissonance. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:34 PM
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Your social group probably has a high networth on average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:27 PM
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My father had early onset Alzheimers and dementia. I engage only in Reddit social media to have conversations, debate, and learn new things. Those debates and conversations will hopefully help keep my brain engaged and up-to-date on current events and information. Unlike the news, Reddit has better conversations. As far as a takeaway I don’t think men and women are as compatible in the modern world as they were in the old world. I see less of a reason for anyone to get married. Unless two people…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:23 PM
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Synthetic companions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:14 PM
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That sub is filled full of very feminine men. Avoid it
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 06:16 PM
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Well then that is a problem because neither is the mans then. So what is the point under your terms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:12 PM
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If you enter an agreement and you fail to hold up your end of the bargain…yes that is your fault. Responsibility is a helluva thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:02 PM
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Well you can’t have it all. Some of the best relationships have clear understandings of each persons needs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:57 PM
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Men who cheat are largely not getting their sexual needs met at home. But too each their own. I just cannot imagine life without children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:54 PM
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You think very little of men. What will you do when you get old? My children are my life. They are my purpose. Is lonely and bitter just your accepted conclusion to life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:38 PM
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That is why men need to find poor women from other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:27 PM
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Yes, I corrected that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:29 PM
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Simping is giving without reciprocation. No good relationship will come out of that. Ideal relationships are both people giving even when it is an inconvenience or hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:25 PM
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There was huge limitations with how many people you had in your network decades ago. You can go to small isolated towns today and you will see that most people are married or are in long term relationships. Those regional limitations were so constricted at times that some countries have records to avoid incest relationships. In those small isolated towns you match up with who you best can and you try your best to make it work. In the modern world and in more populated areas the access to and net…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:13 PM
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Men should not marry and escorts are an acceptable alternative for some men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:50 PM
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Yes but he is talking about a percentage of men. The rest of the men are at the top. You will never be able to take power away from men. We have hundreds of thousands of years of evolution that involved problem solving that acquisition and protection of resources. We allow women to be what we allow them to be. In the west they enjoy freedoms that the rest of the world does not. Where are all the women at that are liberating women around the world? Women can’t take from men by force so they are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:49 PM
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That is what lacks in many of the women driven perspectives 51% of the population is female. If only 60% of men are average or above then that leaves 41% of women without long term partners. So 100% of women are competing for 60% of men. That is a giant game of musical chairs with a lot of people left without a seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:42 PM
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Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:22 PM
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Time will be proof. Remember this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:16 PM
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I agree but I am talking about HVM. The women not getting their financial needs met are with the TRP army that think dumbells makes up for being broke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:07 PM
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And that means what? Who cares if it is genuine or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:04 PM
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Few women are divorcing a hvm. Infidelity is just an excuse or the last straw. As far as women not meeting the man’s sexual needs in a marriage AWALT. Or at least the majority. Who lose half your stuff and get half access to your children for another of the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:00 PM
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I get your point but I still stand behind mine, when painting with a broad brush. I feel that it is generally true. Every person I know that has met people on dating apps has a lot of chain relationships and their marriages do not last. It is too easy to pretend that you are something that you are not or even lie by omission. Most of them put up a facade to hide their issues. Meeting organically where facades may not be as intentional has a better outcome. Maybe it is a tool for shy people but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:31 PM
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I made a connection that you did not intend. My apologies. I still stand behind my point. Anecdotal experiences are not the best at making a convincing point. Generally speaking the people on dating apps are not great partners for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:26 PM
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Being so shy that life passes by and you age out of those younger years when you learn how to adapt to a partnership is not exactly great partner material. From 18-28 the human brain is still making connections as far as behavior. The brain maps itself on how to work well within a partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:23 PM
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You made the statement that is your responsibility. You should know at least the basics of conversation if you want to try and make points that people take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:21 PM
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Most women don’t meet the man’s sexual needs in a marriage. Married men cheating because of that is an age old story. It has nothing to do with being good partners, fathers, providers. Some cultures widely accept it. If you want a man to not look for sex outside of a marriage then have sex with him. That does not make a man a “bad man” that statement is subjective. There are many many wives that know their husbands cheat but stay married regardless of the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:20 PM
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Give me some data that backs up your broad statement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:17 PM
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I have been married for 21 years. You just stated that there are great men but you cant get one. That statement is inconsistent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:14 PM
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Probably married men that got off the app
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:03 PM
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Your argument is inconsistent and makes no sense. That is why I dismissed it. It rambles and does not make a coherent point. The fact that you use gender as a weapon just reinforces that there is nothing constructive coming from your points
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:02 PM
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That is the key. Not looking for an exclusive relationships. That is why the apps are full of married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:57 PM
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That makes no sense. I am going to dismiss it altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:56 PM
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Lawyers are broke compared to real wealth. Get out of here with that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:55 PM
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The type of man that has traditional desires and can afford the tractional lifestyle women become a commodity. That is what is lost in many of these conversations. To the top 20% of men women are a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:47 PM
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Single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:45 PM
5

Women still make less than men according to all of the research. It is fair to say that someone is the breadwinner if they at least make 20% more than their spouse. Women have a long way to go. Women also take far more time off due to health problems, birth, and children. So it is not a $ per $ comparison. It is comparing wages. Over a lifetime a woman would probably have to make 20% or more in wages just to break even with a man. Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:44 PM
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If you are on dating apps you are sealing with the bottom 20%-40% of women that have issues and struggle with relationships and social skills depending on the app. Just like with men the good ones are in a relationship or have no need for dating apps. Learning how to become good at dating apps is like learning how to dumpster dive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:38 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:34 PM
3

She said she was just married. Was she married in 2008 or recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:19 PM
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No, what does that have to with anything. Being single is defined by not being married. A series of dating relationships may make you picky but it hardly defines you as successful in that pickiness. I would say it is proof that your pickiness was not really worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:58 PM
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That don’t count. Only marriage counts. Dating is the same thing as being single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:55 PM
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Pocket change is pocket change. Throwing some change on the ground and watching people scramble for it for entertainment is an alpha move
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:50 PM
2

Married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:48 PM
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So he has used the red pill while being married for 25 years to an older woman??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:03 PM
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Being picky and jockeying for the top men is going to start chain relationships. Where it is one relationship after another. Eventually too many relationships becomes toxic and people get too old to learn how to be partners. Developing partner skills happens between 16-28ish. If all you have is chain relationships and one failed relationship after another then what skills have you developed. Being single or divorced or a single mother past 35 is the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:28 PM
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You are quick to dismiss things. Just keep in mind it will lead to chain relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:25 PM
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From my experience people who married young and in high school have had the longest marriages. They seemed to settle or not be participating in hypergamy. Those that waited and had a lot of boyfriends did not marry ir have marriages that lasted. Those seeking the best partners ended up with far less than those that just attached to someone that they liked and had common interests with early in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:19 PM
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I have seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:13 PM
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The picky women that I know in my life are in their 40s and single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:11 PM
7

I know a few women that are attractive that just aged out of the market and were never married. Being selective is fine in theory but if a large percentage of women are trying to get the top 20% of men then those men have no reason to commit. Many men are willing to commit and embrace modern ideals in long term monogamous relationships but those men are too often passed on. I saw the culture shift from a single mom being almost a social pariah to it becoming a cultural norm. It does not take a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:09 PM
0

That is an opinion. On a world-wide basis many wealthy men have what is called an entourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:28 PM
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You don’t know him…obviously. Some alpha marrying an older woman. Did he need a mommy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:26 PM
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Is he not married to an older woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:14 PM
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Hardly. Give me an example
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:07 PM
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A fat guy with a yacht will pull better numbers than a dope with a dumbbell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:05 PM
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TRP was founded by mostly broke men. Money gets the same result with far less effort. A fat guy with a yacht is pulling better numbers than a dope with a dumbbell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:05 PM
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You misunderstand the dynamic of AF/BB It is really about closing the deal. Anyone that can regularly close the deal largely on their terms is alpha. A beta is giving without reciprocation. The Beta is betting on the hope of getting laid where an alpha is not doing anything unless he is getting laid. Some people are filthy rich and what is a lot of money to one person is pocket change to them. If they use that to close the deal it is just as alpha as long as the deal is being closed. Many times …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:58 PM
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Count towards what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:07 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:18 AM
1

uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:11 PM
0

Losing half our stuff and sometimes all of our kids. Blame feminism for the no social judgement part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:06 PM
2

So use birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:47 PM
2

Give me some examples
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:33 PM
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I agree with that. I guess my point is that as far as physical attraction the door is pretty open.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:32 PM
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Biology sucks at times...but that has nothing to do with risk Childbirth has a .000017 mortality rate in the United States. Construction work for men is .000097. .000011 women out of 100 are killed by their partners each year or 1200 out of about 100 million in the United States Terrifying...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:27 PM
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There is nothing riskier than being a man and having children with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:18 PM
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I think chubby women are attractive. I think women, in general, are attractive. It is like a spectrum between 25 and 55 I will probably find something about a woman this attractive. It may be a great smile, happy eyes, a cute laugh, a mom pooch, or whatever. There will likely be something. I would say that I dismiss maybe 10-15% of women right off the bat because there is just something about them that I don't care for. That leaves a massive 85%. I don't really understand the 80/20 for women. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:50 PM
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That statement should be engraved on every wedding band
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:28 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:25 PM
1

Don't look at it as "all women" just look at it as the spectrum of potential long-term companions. Your cross section of the spectrum is going to have a lot in common with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:57 PM
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What?
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 12:33 PM
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Patriarchy is just how humans evolved. Men have the muscle mass and their brains developed problem solving around the acquiring and protection of resources. It is a default setting. Put a few men and a few woman of around the same age on an island with no interaction from the outside world and that will end up being the default. It is modern laws and governments that have allowed the luxury of even questioning a patriarchy and that mostly applies in the west. No one is questioning the patriarchy…
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 12:24 PM
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Beauty is too subjective of a word for your question. A horse can be beautiful. Arousal is what happens as a consequence of being stimulated. It is a physical reaction that for men can include releasing chemicals and hormones and having blood rush to their sexual organs. I think you are conflating a lot of stuff. I think your question is why does attraction lead to sexual thoughts and comments from men? I don’t think comments and thoughts are just limited to men. Women do it to. I am sure that l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:15 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:25 AM
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Life is better lived from a perspective of power vs weakness.
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/21 02:08 PM
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You need a life
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/21 02:04 PM
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Women getting what they want is extremely difficult. Especially considering her entire life. Men are not that difficult. Women make it harder for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:26 PM
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Synthetic companions will solve this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:45 AM
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That is because TRP does not have and end game. It really does not have a defined goal. N counts are dumb. A person can’t go back four steak dinners ago and describe that steak dinner or what they like about it. Memories are fleeting which makes n counts ridiculous. Those are just dopamine hits. It is impractical advice that is based on elements of truth. When TRP made happiness into a blue pill they lost. TRP should have been about happiness and mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:24 PM
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Or maybe they just feel like it is the wrong dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:34 PM
-2

That is a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:44 PM
0

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:18 PM
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Why should I enter into something willingly that I have to control when I could avoid it altogether and it is a non-issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:17 PM
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It is called roles and there are roles in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:16 PM
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What is his life in that situation? What his role? I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:15 PM
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Who would have guessed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:13 PM
1

This is also true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:13 PM
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Or maybe they just feel like it is the wrong dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:10 PM
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I would never marry a woman that made a higher income than me for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:10 PM
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If you wanted to you would. You don’t want to because you want to create an image of being “cool”. You answered your own question. Being real, honest, and showing intent is better than being dishonest with your feelings and creating facades to manipulate perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:06 PM
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You did not give specifics. I am asking for specifics.specifically define what is a HVM to most women including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:16 PM
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You are married? Have been married? To HVM? Or you have gotten many because you had sex but they never committed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:04 PM
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Which is what? I want to see your list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:58 PM
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No, I did not…did you have something to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:56 PM
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Uh huh. Not many women are interested in broke ugly men that simp for them. That is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:55 PM
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I am a HVM. I am a good looking man that has an estate of more than seven digits. I have been married for 20 years and am a devoted father. I would never marry a FDS feminist woman. It is too easy to see through them. Unless they keep their mouths closed the entire courtship they will out themselves. HVM are not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:51 PM
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It is often coupled with elements of female superiority and misandry. I don’t really care though. Women gate keep sex snd men gate keep relationships. They will never overcome that dynamic. That is why there is so much anger. No matter what they do HVM are just not going to be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:40 PM
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A red flag just means that there is a hint of deeper issues than what can visibly be seen. Not being comfortable with yourself, poor self-esteem, low libido, past sexual trauma…something that is irregular. If you met someone that you thought was perfect and can’t have sex because you need to wait for a few months then that is just an indication that you have issues concerning sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:55 PM
9

That is a red flag. You have some emotional hangup with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:47 PM
12

Having to wait three months to have sex? What are you waiting for? What emotional benchmark? How is that not a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:05 PM
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Big red flag for manipulation and/or low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:58 PM
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If you like sex why would you wait? It is just a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:50 PM
12

Isn’t this like withholding sex from betas and simps until they prove their worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:59 PM
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That is the way it used to be done lol. Y’all going full circle. Read about courting. Hell a man would have to be financially capable of providing to be able to court. Besides every single-mom in the world will screw this concept up for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:46 PM
0

To each their own. Thank you for freeing men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:36 PM
0

Versus what today. What did the bottom 50% of women get out of feminism and the change in culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:17 PM
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It just communicates a lot about the marriage. A lack of appreciation for tradition. A feminist dominant woman. A submissive man. I would bet that your mother leads the household
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:16 PM
1

I am communicating historical and current understanding of stay-at-home-mom or housewife roles. If you want to cure cancer in the basement I doubt anyone will complain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:10 PM
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Feminist say that feminism allows choice of being a CEO or SAHM. I think it just cherry picks. My wife said it best “feminism stops at the toilet needing to be fixed”. My mother, wife, and sister-in-law, nieces all reject feminism. My sister is the only hold out but she has a sugar baby 20 years younger than her and she makes around $200k a year so she kind of walks the walk. She is an outlier though and a few standard deviations away. She also complains about her role in life and I am her surro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:53 PM
1

It really is a joke. It is hard to take anyone seriously. I knew a good-looking guy that had a great income and was just an awesome guy. His wife was beautiful and they seemed perfect. He ended up breaking his back in a dirt bike riding accident and was paralyzed from the waist down. She left him within 8 months
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:51 PM
3

A solid 8 I think it is mostly young men that are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:43 PM
2

If the robots are better then that is doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:13 PM
12

Are we debating?
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 07:06 PM
9

What is the topic child?
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 07:03 PM
1

Why would I cry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:03 PM
14

Triggered and name calling aren’t you mature
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 07:02 PM
12

Did someone hurt you? Are you capable of an intelligent conversation?
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 07:00 PM
13

How is the 5th grade going? Are you getting good grades?
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 06:52 PM
14

I bet you are very proud that you came up with a child’s insult lol
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 06:51 PM
17

Hur hur your mom
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 06:32 PM
2

Uh we are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:31 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:55 PM
3

I read the first sentence and nothing else. Come back when you don't have a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:33 PM
6

Probably, that and a bird with a broken wing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:49 PM
1

True statement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:45 PM
5

But it is ok for men to want sex and validation and be disappointed if they don’t get it? Since you said “sex feels great and so does approval…validation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:59 PM
9

You created a strawman or missed the point. The context is the question that OP posed about being surprised about someone’s dating life. My example is he still has a really good dating life when most men would consider him completely dysfunctional. No father would want their daughter with him and no brother would want to see his sister with him. Yet he has a better dating life than many other men that I know. He is often with women that would make successful and very functional men consider them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:57 PM
2

I understand what you are saying as far as that. You pretty much skipped over sex. Are you saying that men do not need sex? That sex cannot improve their mental or physical health?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:45 PM
1

How do you measure yourself on what a man you are and what is the end game for that? What happens in a high rating vs low rating. Is it only self-esteem? At a high level like you suggest will it result in sex? Please follow through with this thinking a bit more or at least clarify for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:24 PM
16

He worked for me for a bit. I fired him because I found him sleeping under a truck after binging. However, when not pickling his brain he is a really hard worker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:14 PM
42

Yes, I figured panties drop after knowing that at least someone is a functional human being. I was a super Blue Pill for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:11 PM
53

My much younger male cousin that is an alcoholic in and out of rehab, has an STD, and is homeless more days than not has sex with some very beautiful young women. He goes to the gym though (that is where he also showers) and is conventionally attractive. I would not sit on the same toilet seat after him without bleaching it. Y’all dudes be careful out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:02 PM
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Hypergamy does more harm to women than men. Having a lot of choice does not always make for good decisions. A hunter that has his choice of twenty bucks may be indecisive long enough that he never takes his shot. When women feel like they have so many options it becomes hard to decide. Because what if she makes a mistake? What if she misses having fun? What if she regrets? It is the illusion of options. Many men are married or dating someone else. Many men no longer have interest in long term re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:38 PM
23

Women cannot be without men. White knights and simps will always be lap dogs to feminists and enable them
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 11:47 AM
2

That is why men will reject organic women and embrace synthetic women. It is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:44 AM
0

Because they are female and no educated professional is dating a cashier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:59 AM
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I would not want my daughter dating a 29 year old cashier that dropped out of college. I see a lot of excuses and not much else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:25 PM
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I am not advocating anything. Just making an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:56 PM
8

Women have said that they don’t want to see dead fish in a photo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:47 PM
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It is in most of the dating advice communities. “Men don’t take photos with fish”. As good as that advice is it lacks the understanding of why men choose those particular photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:36 PM
2

Wooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:34 PM
5

There are a lot of fishermen on OLD when they are looking for a woman? Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:30 PM
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It is really really difficult to separate sex and validation for men. I would be dishonest if I said that it was not still difficult. Women co plain about men holding up fish in their photos but on an evolutionary basis that is men just wanting to prove and get validation for being a provider. We all come from tribes and have evolutionary garbage but men’s manifests itself through sexual validation. I am the guy always beating the horse about synthetic companions but this is just another reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:20 PM

Where they love they have no desire means that people often stop being sexually attracted to each other like they used to be in a relationship. Where they desire they have no love means that when sex is the primary activity love is not. It is like comparing a 20 year marriage to a Tinder date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:59 PM

I think you are misunderstanding that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:47 PM

I already addressed that. Would you romance someone that you are not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:16 PM

Explain more. Give me real or theoretical examples
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:09 PM

I feel like red pill ideology is based around fifteen year old boys trying to make sense of the world. People change. No one is a still frame. The truth is the only relationships that will last decades of change are the ones where people are willing to do the heavy lifting and don’t see themselves as alphas or betas or anything else than partners. Most men leave because their spouses dropped the ball as far as sex. Most women leave because the man is not a provider and she became his mother. Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:47 PM

Qualify blanket statements then. If you think it only applies to women then qualify that. If you get butterflies in your stomach and don’t want to smash then you are dysfunctional. This is not even pseudoscience. It is silly reading someone state that they can get butterflies in their stomach from a man but not be sexually attracted to him. Is he your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:09 PM

Men are gatekeepers of relationships. In my opinion very attractive women make terrible wives. Personality also plays a role in attraction. They are also probably having sex with men above their SMV and those men are just spinning plates. Do they have this same experience with men that are a 4-6?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:01 PM

Thank you for explaining it. It does not work that way for me. I can only be romantically attracted if sexual attraction is there first. I think most men are like that. Although the opposite may be true that I can be sexually attracted without romantic attraction it fails when it comes to romantic attraction. Romantic attraction always equals sexual attraction. Sexual attraction does not always equal romantic attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:55 PM

I only discuss things under a bell curve. From my perspective most men do not separate out romantic and sexual attraction. Maybe some do but not most. I don’t think you can really define romance. Your definition linked was vague. I spend time with and romance a woman because I am sexually attracted to her. Attraction is a result of sexual attraction and nothing more. Sexual attraction always comes first. I like spending time with my mother and eating dinner with her. I am not sexually attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:41 PM

Please clarify. I don’t understand what you are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:35 PM
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I agree but you are probably an exception. Taking you at face value which I have no reason not to, you seem like you would be a great partner and that a life partnership would be fun and enjoyable. I don’t think most people have that. It is just dysfunction that revolves around lack of empathy, finances, sex, depression, and who knows what else. A relationship with a synthetic person would not be perfect. It would just be an alternative and probably a better alternative for many people. If women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:26 PM

That is a really terrible answer. You have to see that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:13 PM

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:03 PM

So he is your plan B? Even plan Bs will likely want action to stay a plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:02 PM

Thank you for this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:01 PM
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I would agree that it is communication. Mostly communication about needs. I also think resentment requires constant beating down. You can’t let the weeds of resentment take hold. I also think it involves not taking the other person for granted. Sex and finances are the two reasons why most people say they were divorced besides infidelity. But infidelity does not count because one partner already ended the marriage emotionally at that point. In my very male and very one-sided view point I think w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:24 PM
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The longest marriages that I know were married before 26, maybe 23. There is a point where people can still adapt to those around them. At some point their behaviors and who they are is pretty locked in. If you marry early enough you can shape around your partner. The later you wait the more you have to depend on luck to find a person that is congruent with you. That is why people say “they are set in their ways”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:07 PM
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You will make a man a good synthetic wife one day j/k. I think if you can program them or tweak their programming at the user level then you could probably put in some wants and desire but those would just be programmed. I don’t think even advanced AI would have wants or desires. That would take something more like self-awareness and at that point you are just circling back to what a human relationship is. Many men like motherly relationships or at the other end submissive relationships. A synth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:03 PM
3

I think many are that found the best men early
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:40 PM
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I am talking about the total package. One day it will read a man a book when he is laying in bed, wake him up to a sweet words and a blow job. It will also do the dishes and mow the lawn. No complaints. Just to exist for him …or her I guess. I don’t think synthetic men will make women happy. We evolved differently
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:36 PM
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I think beautiful women won’t make good wives. Not over a lifetime. There may be exceptions outside of the bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:34 PM
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My reaction is that is a child’s perspective until they mature enough to realize that is not how the world works. I don’t think that is pessimism just realism. I am a moderately attractive older man that I believe is HV. If I feel like that is unattainable but what about men that see themselves as less
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:22 PM
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As a man that sounds pretty good. I would take that also. Especially if I had a hundred responses to my OLD ad or was constantly texted vagina pics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:57 PM
1

Nah, I like them all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:54 PM
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One day synthetic ones will be better than organic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:52 PM
5

Is that realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:46 PM
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That argument dismisses evolutionary behavior that is coded in our genetics. It totally ignores the question of how much of human behavior is genetic and how much is learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:43 PM
2

She wants strength, power, and intelligence but will give all that up if he is attractive. Or Her wizard brains wants a lifetime her lizard brain wants the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:27 PM
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This is very accurate for men!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:24 PM
3

Witches vs patriarchy is hilarious. It is like a group of mentally ill larpers
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/21 01:58 PM
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I see. I will take that as validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:22 PM
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My instinct tells me that you don't know what you want and that possibly reflects in wasting a lot of men's time. which is another huge issue with OLD for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:14 PM
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That is not cryptic. Let me clarify. If you are dating to not just have sex then that means you want a relationship. Typically long term relationships are more desired than short term and for many people marriage is the ultimate goal of the LTR. So you are dating to get married. You make the comment "Then there are a lot of very inexperienced guys. I like those sometimes but they tend to get pretty attached very quickly because they’re not really talking to anyone else. So that can scare me off.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:47 PM
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Then there are a lot of very inexperienced guys. I like those sometimes but they tend to get pretty attached very quickly because they’re not really talking to anyone else. So that can scare me off. How do you explain this then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:35 PM
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Not to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:56 PM
1

OLD is good for single moms and married men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:40 PM
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I don't think that is true. Maybe for sapiosexuals or demisexuals but not for people at large. If a person swipes right or left based on photos then that is what they lead with and that is what stimulates them. From there it is just not being a red flag as far as conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:39 PM
1

So you just want sex? Spin plates essentially?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:34 PM
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The married guys are the 1% and the good ones are not on OLD looking for sidechics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:31 PM
1

I met my wife online 21 years ago when the internet was relatively new and so was online dating. We met in a local chat room. I never tried actual OLD. I liked meeting women online because it opened up the field. I am also a sapiosexual which I did not know at the time so conversation was a turn-on. Back then everything was new like role-play dialogue and the mystery of it all. There were not even any photos so the other person was a bit of a mystery except a/s/l. Today's OLD is absolutely horri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:30 PM
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FDS strategies break apart at a powerful good man. Everyone single one of them would change their behaviors. Their behavior is what it is because they are are low value and they get treated as being low value. That is why feminists and FDS types are never hot. Very attractive women won’t develop those behaviors
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/21 11:10 AM
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Marriage and religion are both blue pill ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:16 AM
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It is less about the money and more about the mutual time investment. Why would two people go out if not to potentially do that. Buying dinner just adds a layer of acceptance to it. A woman would not be there if she is not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:05 AM
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We now have an infographic ladies, our problems will soon be solved by it!
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/21 11:50 PM
0

I am just talking about hours because subjective and arbitrary information cannot be quantified but hours can
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:47 PM
2

Yes, a survey about Covid that is self-reporting and does not factor in work hours. Nice detective work there. Case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:44 PM
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Let me explain. My comment was about work hours combined with household hours that are actual hands-on working hours and comparing them between the man and the woman. An hour bringing income into the household is no less an hours spent mowing the lawn. Not tasks…actual hours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:35 PM
0

I explained that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:56 PM
1

Is this a trick question or is the literally one if the worst questions ever asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:40 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:39 PM
0

You could be right. It would be interesting to see real data.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:31 PM
1

But what do the actual hours break down to? I am not arguing against anything that you are saying. I just think the hours put in favor men. Granted you may have far more tasks but actual hands-on "on the clock" hours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:18 PM
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That is a false equivalence. How do those influence hours of labor/work put into maintaining or growing the household? Men are likely to help a child develop independence and place expectations on that child that they can be responsible for making sure that they have clean underwear for school...or deal with the consequences of not doing so. It is called consequences Assignments fall under number 1 but men are capable of "trust but verify". Men make excellent single parents Attending a birthday …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:48 PM
1

If you break it down to combined hours of either income-generating work or household work I would put money on it that men in general are 20-30% higher or more than their significant others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:55 PM
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Because our wives don’t put out and think sex is only on their terms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:39 PM
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That is a good question. Probably not. It is very easy to make broad assumptions from small sample sizes but when that is all you have it is all you have. They fill a need. My niece is a SB and she has a pretty rock star lifestyle. But she is in the top 1% of those able to pull that kind of lifestyle. Can a person be a good person and also want the SB lifestyle because it suits them? I would answer yes to that question. That leaves me to suspect that most women would probably lie to a significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:41 PM
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Like Sith there are always two a Master and an apprentice. What is funny is that most women are not good at sex. You have to give a crap about your performance and pleasing your partner to actually become better. BBTM is a thing. Barely Better Than Masturbation. She is complaining about fleshlights… wait until fleshlights look like models and can do the dishes and mow the lawn, give massages, and wake you up with a blow job. She is gonna be ultra-Karen mad
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/21 02:07 PM
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The way you posted this gives me eye cancer. So what? She is a nasty woman with an opinion is this the first time that you have found one? It sounds like she is mad that men would choose livestock over her. Type into Google “woman fucks…” and prepare yourself for more eye cancer. Even if a woman seems to be sexually compatible that does not mean that it is not a facade to win a marriage or that it will last. Every medical event in a woman’s life you gamble that her sex drive plummets. If men and…
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/21 01:55 PM
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Are you calling me names by using the term “Boomer” or are you just really bad at math and reading? Ahhh yes The Great Resignation aka The Cat Food Generation. We all make choices
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:35 PM
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I disagree and your comment is very vague. If I lined up ten women I bet you could not guess even one of their counts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:47 PM
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My kids are absolutely spoiled. We allowed this…absolutely. “Son you disappoint” went from a meme and became a literal generation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:38 PM
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Wow….. I don’t know that it is entirely income that determines gender roles. But hey if you say so. I think it is more likely that you are threatened by women that out earn you. Which means that you probably have an inferiority complex based around income. If it did bother a “man” then I am sure he would put his manliness to work and strive to increase his income so that he is the top earner. Women are becoming more educated because young men are just terrible. There is a rise in sugar babies an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:20 PM
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Please tell me what body language signs there are that enlightens you to one’s count? This should be comically entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:57 AM
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I agree. That changed my outlook on a lot of things about human relationships. There were some well written responses on why they would not be candid and why they would keep that from their significant other. However, you could sum all of them up as “the past is the past” and that “it is really none of their business”. I grew up in a two parent household where my parents stay married even though they had massive marital issues. I was told over and over that marriage was sacred. When I read that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:40 AM
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Sugar baby. Typically a young girl that is a side chic of multiple older wealthier men that are probably married for an allowance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:25 AM
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Someone once asked the SBs on a SB subs if they would be honest about their past sex lives with their future fiancé or husband. 100% of those that answered said “no” they would not. It is a moot point to talk about counts when at least women if not also men are not being honest. Most men will never know if their fiancé used to be a SB or an escort or is just a person with a high count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:11 AM
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They are both hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:51 AM
1

Who the hell cares? Why are you worried about a penis that will never be in you or a vagina that you will never be in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:45 AM
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If you in any way act differently toward a woman other than maybe gawking because they are topless then you are a goon
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/21 10:44 PM
0

I want to stab my eyes out with a fork. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:40 PM
1

Generally, men support women going topless. It is saggy boob nation that has issues with it...as in older women. It is almost always other women that have issues with what women do. Go topless, breastfeed, wear thongs...whatever.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/21 10:30 PM
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Equality ends where toilet repair and military drafts begin
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/21 08:27 PM
1

Back when we were tribes that struggled to survive the environment and fight each other for resources the dynamic probably made more sense. In the modern world, we carry a lot of evolutionary baggage. That is why I think men will opt towards synthetic companions it is just easier than navigating constantly changing modern dynamics. Evolution is important
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:11 PM
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I did not. I would not really know the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:28 PM
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Start some place. You can do it, I have faith in you. Throw something out and we can discuss it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:02 PM
2

That was sarcasm and tongue in cheek. If you knew men then you would know that even the greatest warriors want hugs. Men are often a duality. Throwing out “mommy” really just makes you sound very naive about men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:49 PM
1

They are based in blue collar industries and transportation. One of them repairs very large and complicated widgets
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:45 PM
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No I grew up so poor we often did not have electricity. I have money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:42 PM
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A mommy is your words. In this changing world I don’t think people will care that much what people do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:39 PM
2

You assume too much but I respect your point even though I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:38 PM
1

I own a few businesses in multiple states as well as commercial properties and residential rentals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:37 PM
0

Sure, why not. Is that the best counter that you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:32 PM
4

I absolutely disagree. Powerful men already do this with organic versions ie Leonardo DiCaprio. Powerful men set trends and hardly care what nobodies think. I know men and male behavior. When men have synthetic alternatives the house if cards that is female hypergamy will collapse. Organics cannot compete with ageless perfection that makes a man her purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:30 PM
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I disagree. A synthetic woman has no rights. She cannot get half your stuff in divorce. She is always in the mood. The house will be clean. Dinner will be waiting. She is at your beck and call as a personal assistant. She can drive. Hell, she can probably defend a man’s stuff better than he can. She will be as close as he can get to what he is perfectly attracted to as far as looks. She will have personality traits that he can add or eliminate or tweak. She can read him a book while he is laying…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:15 PM
1

I understand your point and don’t entirely disagree. I don’t know that your point holds true in a time when cultures and genders are transitioning. What you are saying sounds more traditional. If we had maintained that status quo we would not be on this sub today discussing red pill and blue pill ideologies and with so many extreme views. Times are changing. I am predicting that men at least many men left without relationships will embrace synthetic companions that have an AI that can replicate …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:57 PM
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That is like saying that men could not be an apex predator without cattle to eat so long as men need cattle they are not an apex predator. I disagree. We need women to procreate but not survive. Synthetic women will prove this in the next 50-100 years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:47 PM
2

If things were equal then they would be equal. If women were equal to men and vice versa then by that simple dynamic there would not be a wage gap or a “patriarchy”. Because a supposed wage gap exists and supposedly patriarchy exists then equality is a false theory. By and large women cannot translate education and talent into the success that men can. They can be successful but not like men can. Men dominate positions of power and authority. They are CEOs and business owners in far greater numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:36 PM
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There is a difference between wisdom and intelligence. Most women doctors and engineers do marry very educated docile men. There typically is no doubt who is in charge. However, the men are typically not that attractive in conventional ways. I think they are intelligent enough to go after high earners that are educated and earn by profession versus talent and are keying in on leveraging intelligence with their offspring. Children of two very highly educated people often have high success levels …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:29 PM
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Raw intelligence is different than problem solving. There is a lot of context being left out when you talk about women scoring higher. However, even if you take out the context it does not positively correlate with income, leadership positions, positions of authority, and STEM positions. Women are largely a minority in most intellectual fields outside of teaching and medicine. Even in teaching the higher levels tend to sway back towards men. I don’t think intelligence matters that much. If human…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:22 PM
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Haha ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:11 PM
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I read it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:11 PM
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They should have children when they want. Just like women but men get to do it about almost twice as long
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:10 PM
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You deleted your link because it disputes your statement. Your quote is talking about premature births and not lasting birth defects. I am still firing live rounds honey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:09 PM
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“…the risks are still relatively low” that is a quote from your source. The article mainly discusses premature birth and not lasting birth defects. Do you read what you link?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:08 PM
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That is way oversimplified. They are low risks. Your comment is just not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:04 PM
2

All a SD/SB relationship is about wealth gap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:40 AM
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You can think someone is sexy without letting it effect your outward behavior. I would not make a comment about what someone is wearing unless it was just inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:36 AM
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Men can have children nearly their entire lives. We can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:07 PM
1

Everyone has their type. It sounds like you need to find a type that you like that matches well with those that are attracted to your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:30 PM
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Ok, my misunderstanding. I get you. Sorry. I agree with what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:26 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. Money and power can have everything to do with a man’s attractiveness. I read a study somewhere that money and power made women less attractive to men. Attraction is a bundle of evolutionary genetic junk that no longer really applies. Being able to provide resources, safety, and such is as old as evolution itself. Switch out silver fox for silverback Gorilla and it is the same concept, just preference. Making the distinction that attractiveness is only about a specific or narro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:14 PM
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That would be an opinion. It does not explain why younger women are keying in on older men as cultures transition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:04 PM
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Yes, it does not really matter what the marriage or relationship is based around as long as both people are happy. So what if she is a mail order bride that wants to free poverty and corruption. People do things for many reasons and that one is a bit benign
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:00 PM
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I absolutely agree with that. There should be more to life than spinning plates and hypergamy. It kind of leaves sapiosexuals to the wind and a lot of other people or worse yet turns people into something that they just don’t want to be. Modern dating that is rooted in evolution and polluted by social media
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:58 PM
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I am 43 but when I was in high school and just afterwards the bigger and less attractive women married really quickly to men around their same level. I know three couples that are still married and have great marriages and it has been about 25 years of marriage. Women that were attractive in high school have been divorced and remarried or in the case of my high school crush never married. I know several other very attractive women that never married. They all had very high standards as far as lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:16 PM
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That is absolutely true but in the modern dating/mating environment most men are not going to get emotional fulfillment. I have been married for 21 years and have never had much emotional fulfillment in the marriage. It just does not seem to be possible for “most” men. Women are not raised any longer to concern themselves with their partner’s emotional state or emotional strength. Instead young women live in self-centered times. They are a product of Instagram and Tik Tok. They have access to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:52 AM
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That is why sugar babies are a growing number of women. Better to be a wealthy guy’s side chic than be married to a guy that makes peanuts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:37 AM
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I would agree with this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:35 AM
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I think the data is who gets married over their lifetime. Older men can still be high enough value to reach decades lower in age with women. Personally I know several attractive women that never married or divorced and never remarried again. Largely because of their standards. I also know several men that have wives 15+ years younger than them. Anecdotally it seems logical that men would have higher levels of marriage. Men also will have sex with but not marry low value women. We have very low s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:32 AM
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True enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:32 AM
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I would imagine that eventually TRP strategies will destroy online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:15 AM
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Let me know when you actually get married and lets have a beer at the 21 year mark if I am not dead and you can flex on your awesome sex life or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:57 AM
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How old are you and how long have you been married. That was 21 years ago why would I remember that? What were you doing and talking about 21 years ago? She changed. I did not. Not as far as sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:50 AM
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I have been married for 21 years. I am 43. How old are you? People change. Who you married/marry will not be the person you wake up to in your forties
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:47 AM
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Probably. I never had to use dating apps. That is after my time but I would agree with that. I would dread having to date in the modern world. Honestly I probably would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:45 AM
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As a 21 year married person it is because women don’t have the sex drive men do and they move the goal posts on men. My wife had sex anywhere and everywhere before we married. As soon as we married it dropped off and kept dropping. Men should never marry if they like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:40 AM
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Women don’t need dating apps and those that do focus on the top 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:36 AM
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Married men don’t always get some Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:43 AM
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My daughters are perfect. They are excellent at academics, play sports, and are creative. My oldest will graduate with an AA degree when she graduates from high school. She paints actual paintings and dances competitively. My middle wants to work for NASA and is super intelligent. She destroys boys at Fortnite. My youngest and fierce and always ready to fight for what she thinks is right. I often feel like Atlas. I carry everyone else’s world. My perfect partner would intuitively understand that…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 06:45 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:54 PM
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Your question is hardly in good faith. It is a loaded question…google it. I don’t care wether someone answers your question or not. I am just pointing out the flaws in it and that your experiences are largely on you. Men are diverse and antifeminist men are just as diverse.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/21 02:52 PM
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You are still paying for. If you buy a gym membership to be attractive you are paying for it. If you eat something other than what you want to be attractive you are paying for it. You pay for things in life by money, time, opportunity cost, or sacrifice. You are paying for it son. Some fat dude can spend what to him is pocket change to get someone far out of his league on his schedule, and get whatever need he wants fulfilled. In some ways he pays less than someone who naively thinks they get it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:46 PM
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It does count. You always pay for it my man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, I know. Wooosh
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/21 02:37 PM
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Your question assumes everything is mutually exclusive. You leave no room for nuance or grey areas. You don’t allow for people to have complicated views that at times may contradict. Putting boxes around things and labeling everything is probably what most people here are against no matter what their gender is. I can assure you there are some antifeminist men that absolutely adore women and treat them respectfully while rejecting an overall cultural concept that may be harming both genders. Your…
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/21 02:36 PM
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The top comment feels so legitimate
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/21 02:28 PM
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It is extremely easy for men. AMPS, SB, escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:24 PM
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Just ignore it. My brother who is emotionally dysfunctional made a chart on how to communicate with him. Anyone that needs a chart on how to communicate with them is dysfunctional and not vice versa. The difference is that if I am an “expert” on something and someone goes to explain it I will listen but have the sack to say “you do realize I am an expert on this”. However, I don’t make it a habit of not listening to what people have to say because you never know what you might learn. Career cent…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 01:49 PM
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