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17

Screening. I agree. There are just as many shitty women as men out there.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:11 PM
8

40 years into the his journey and seeing that still made me feel good.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 07:49 PM
3

This is a huge one. I never even though if this. Thanks. It's just another weapon leveraged against men. Specially if you are a big guy like me. I'm "so scary" if I show any other emotion beside happiness or kindness. God forbid I get upset, or angry. Not irrational, yelling or physical,of course, but genuinely upset. I am not allowed to have those emotions.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 04:31 PM
1

I needed to hear this today, thank you.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 06:50 PM
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At least she came forward. Shows she has a soul. Everyone makes bad decisions. I can imagine that was hard to not stay the course, and I feel bad for the fella involved, but at least he will have a life now. Unless she lies to him, too, he should not be hooking up with people who aren't single. So there's that, too. In the end, at least it ended well.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 11:36 AM
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I do not, and will never understand why people think the way to level and unequal playing field is to put down instead of rise up. It's scary, and it only will cause I equality in the other direction.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 04:58 PM
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Yes, because I am male and was sensitive that they made something related to a profession that should be genderless, about gender. Guess because I was offended by something that makes me less male, guess I should just toughen up like you, fella.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 08:22 PM
1

Wow! Thank you.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 01:19 PM
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Apparently this is what schools talk about in social studies theae days. Yet when I told her something needed my Johm Hancock, she had mo idea what I ment.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 01:18 PM
6

Thank you. Yes. "Breast Cancer Awareness" is an industry at this point.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:54 PM
2

Yes, rhanks, paternal rights is one high on the list
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:53 PM
7

Admittedly, I should have checked the subs page before posting. Thank you!
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:44 PM
2

Hey man. I am not going to be bitter. I could scour the sub, but I think there is an oppertuinty for us all to think about a young generation. I am fortunate to take this opportunity to discuss this issue with a strong, confident, and ever-learning adolescent. I think its a step in the right direction. I want to beat feminism as much as you, get the pendulum to center...But man, has history not taught us hate begets hate? Thanks for the input. She chose the topic because of a discussion her and …
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:43 PM
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Every one of your posts except this one has been on MGTOW. What is going on here that you feel defense againt abuse is worthy of being called BS?
/r/MensRights04/10/19 12:02 AM
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Great observation. What is also being compmetely here, too, is the gross assumption everyone has had the upbringing, role models, training, or education HOW to control their emotions. It is up to us who can to understand this and not make them feel worse about themselvs by pointing out they cannot. BE the role model, BE the teacher, and if you cannot do not make the already had situation worse.
/r/MensRights24/09/19 09:52 AM
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Yes, it is simply a phrase...I cannot wait the next time I see a woman action out emotionally to tell her to "be a man." I can also tell my upset bro to "calm his tits." This is GREAT! Though usually I just prefer to say "Hey, you look upset, how can I help?"
/r/MensRights24/09/19 09:43 AM
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40 years of this shit. I am worn out. Ill end it when its the right time. Have some kids to raise to be better than I, but definatley not going to be here forever for these exact reasons. On the plus side, it makes life more vivid knowing this and I do juice every last drop from every day. So yay me.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 03:46 PM
2

Great thoughts and discussion. For the sake of casual conversation, the "disposable man" needs more acknowledgement from the standpoint of equality. I don't know enough about it to say more than that. I hope this discussion devlopes more.
/r/MensRights25/08/19 09:43 PM
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Thats the plan.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 12:52 PM
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I'm a big guy. I work on big machines. I am one of the few that can solo alot of work many team up on. Been at it for a decade now. New boss has 0 industry expirence, has never lifted a tool in her life. Shes a woman though, and when I called her out on not understanding the Nature of the work we do, and told her to spend a week with me in the field, she said "that 's not my job, its yours". I proceeded to tell her maybe she would understand the team better of she understood the nature of how di…
/r/MensRights30/07/19 10:39 AM
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That's interesting. I did not give thought to attracting the same gender, but it makes sense if this "ideal" man is what you are attracted to or trying to attract. I would wager women who like women have the same problem. This, of corse, does not apply to women or men who are attracted to the same sex, but oppsite gender roles I assume. I am no LBGTQ expert, so Ill stop here, but would ne interested to hear more feedback around this.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 05:40 PM
2

Thanks. Thats some real perspective there!
/r/MensRights17/07/19 11:21 PM
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I am a huge advocate of this, and teach my kids ro value what cannot be seen or purchased, rather what is done. I have a chance to make their lives better, which is an oppertuinty I never had. It would just be self-perpetuating if I squandered this.
/r/MensRights17/07/19 08:32 PM
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I agree, but growing up being the only non "alpha male" you want to earn the affection of the men you look up to as a child. It took me years to get over that I do not need to be Hercules, and it has left scars in the form of bad days when I go to the beach and wear a shirt even though by most standards I am fit. I am 40 now. In my 20's it was crippling to never feel "good enough". Does not help my ex-wife would rag on me if I gained a few pounds. Not in a positive caring way, either. Body issue…
/r/MensRights17/07/19 08:01 PM
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I guess this is a back-fire for those who screamed about body cams to catch the evil police forces nation-wide?
/r/MensRights10/03/19 02:22 PM
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It is to the point where men are being looked at as less than human for what we possess as qualitys. Masculinity isn's bad or good on its own. Its what we do with it. I am tired of having a lingering fear to interact with women. Myself and a vast majority of men do not deserve how we are treated for being born a certain way. The movement has become the very thing it so despises, and men are truly becoming the victims of real prejudice and bullying ...All because we exist. Edit: Spellings and gra…
/r/MensRights15/01/19 06:43 PM
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Feminism in its extreme is an illness. There is no virtue in any extreme.
/r/MensRights14/12/18 02:46 AM
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What it is a stark reminder of is how women are human, too. They were not more than apes too long ago, either.
/r/MensRights10/12/18 11:41 PM
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Well. At least they will have lots of blame-fodder for when the tables turn on them. "I couldn't do it because X man, or women don't have enough of this or that yet..."
/r/MensRights08/11/18 01:10 PM
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What the actual fuck...
/r/MensRights27/09/18 09:32 PM
2

Thank you for the insightful elaboration. It seems there is no end to data interpitation manipulation. I am not married, and make as mich as the married men in my profession. I would like to see an elaboration, similar to what you provided, but for the LBGTQ community because I would bet in any established marrage, regardless of gender, one member typically assumes the primary earner role where another picks up the just as important support role. Win together, right?
/r/MensRights19/09/18 05:37 PM
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If a woman ever hit me like that. I would call the police on the spot for assualt and taken it as far as I could leagally. There would be nothing proven by my 6'4" 245lb ass knocking her out. It would be easy. If she was doing the windmill on me, yes, I would defend myself disabling her so she cannot continue doing so. Thats where we have to keep our heads because a hard slap is different than an attempted beating in the manner we can levy the most power. However, I live my life in a manner to b…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 08:30 PM
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This is underrated. When I got laid off from a cushy engineering job, I took a field service job to hold me over. That was 10 years ago and I never looked back, no could I sit behind a desk again.
/r/MensRights15/09/18 09:47 PM
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In some ways this is worse than murder. The level of planned cruelty is just demonic.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 10:13 PM
1

Thanks for this. In addition to another user's comments, I believe a thoughtful letter will be beneficial.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:44 PM
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I am going to do this. Apparently wrangling volunteers was part of the problem. They did not make much effort, however. Thank you
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:42 PM
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There is something subtle, too, about Ellen bullying that other guest by scaring her multiple times, no? Picture ANY male host doing something like that, let alone the atrocity of using mutlated baby foreskin to fight aging. I am beside myself.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 08:58 PM
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Ill let the downvotes come, some things are more important than internet points. I guess fair and balanced is not what this forum is about. I am glad she got hers, like I said it seems the justice system did the right thing. I simply think the focus should be on the kids. If that makes me a downvoatable reddit guy, so be it.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 03:01 PM
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I am unsure without knowing her side of the story it is possible to speculate anything. If it for child support, let it go. You have custody. All the time you waste fighting her will prove little justice when compared to focusing soley on raising your kid to understand people like their mother. What is most valueable for kids costs little. I am assuming if the court ordered this, then there is VERY good reason and in this there is a huge victory for equality. So thank you for sharing, I hope for…
/r/MensRights20/03/18 12:36 PM
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Thank you. Always take the high road, use WELL RESEARCHED facts, and focus on equality. The idea is to put enough focus on the male scale to balance things to equal, NOT create a male-dominant culture. You will not change an extreme feminist's mind, but you can raise awareness to the many fair, balanced, strong, and well-adjusted women out there before toxicity finds them. Thank you again. It means a lot.
/r/MensRights14/03/18 12:55 AM
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My personal 3rd option. Just do the best you can to serve others with what you are given while expecting nothing in return and being thankful for each breath. No wrong-doing takes away who you are regardless of the action being against you or not. This means it holds no power hence should not have any effect on your being. Good begets good, pain begets pain, and any form of discrimination like feminism begets the very things that feed it like wrath and pride making them the very people they so d…
/r/MensRights11/03/18 03:35 PM
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RemindMe! 1 week
/r/MensRights02/03/18 10:38 AM
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I don't know. However any mainstream affiliate discussing mens rights and that sexual violence against men exists is a big step in the right direction. So there's that.
/r/MensRights25/02/18 03:01 PM
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Give credit for reposts my dude. Its not bad, but has obviously detracted from the main purpose here since this is the internet. Thanks for the share. I am not fit...I do eat right, take care of myself, and it is the lifestyle I choose. Highly overweight people are unhealthy, and unhealthy looking. The woman pictured may be a fantastic person, but she does not look healthy, or average to me. This goes for dudes too. Some people are naturally bigger than others however larger people who are in de…
/r/MensRights18/02/18 01:34 PM
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Meter yourself. Know the signs. Time is a great leveling force. Any time I meet a woman, personally or professionally, I keep a lot of distance, open doors, and public sight. It is not long before her desire to dominate or belittle men shows up. Extreme behaviors and attiudes are not contained for long.
/r/MensRights16/02/18 08:47 PM
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So damaging to the millions of women who are human, equal, and wonderful people. Its sad.
/r/MensRights16/02/18 06:30 PM
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If a woman has to read this book. They are no threat to men. They are far more of a threat to themselvs and will likely trip-up on details, destroying their own reputation first. It is as bad as Nazi propaganda. Like women are told, we too have to heed the same: Be aware at all times and live your life as such that you will minimize the chance of becoming intertwined with such kind of people. What scares me are the ones who act without passon or reason. Truly predatory women. Then again, they us…
/r/MensRights16/02/18 06:28 PM
1

I almost took this section out because I understand teachers hands are tied these days, however there ARE rules of engagement for such matters, even if it is just the councelor. At worst, there would still be prolific documentation and peer support on a professional level.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 10:28 PM
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What was she doing at a highschool party drunk with students anyway? Perhaps she was not drunk, but even at a party with highschool students you teach does not seem like a good idea. Thanks for the thougtful breakdown. It helps me feel a little less crazy when reading these articles.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 10:03 PM
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This was very insightful. Thank you. I noticed many of the bad "reviews" were 1+ years old. Newer ones called her resentful.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 10:00 PM
1

I do not think any of them were being unreasonable. We do have to remember that our rational, frontal lobe is the most underdevloped part of our brains. Its simple, really. Be yourself Don't be a dick Understand, but do not sacrifice ones own principals, morals, and values. Be the others gut-check Work toward something greater than you can be alone, do it together, and enjoy the adventure. Little else matters and if the environment for love is created, it will show up on its own. Sounds easy, ri…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 05:31 PM
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Good Bot!
/r/MensRights07/02/18 11:08 PM
3

One bad apple spolis the bunch.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 03:39 PM
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I'd likely freeze to death first from all of the ice cold stares. Specially if the t-shit is brown with baby blue writing with a little feature below the "l" in male that looks like a pair. I am thankful I have this mindspace... Really though, prostate or testicular it would be nice to see a survivor on the cover of People mag. highlighting their heroic story. Instead men have to feel shamed and are "less of a man" for losing a nut to something beyond their control, or have to deal with the emba…
/r/MensRights06/02/18 02:33 PM
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If we make shirts saying "I heart testies" or "battle for balls" even "save the male" as a way of raising awareness of both testicular and prostate cancer it will be dirty and lewd, but "I heart boobies" merchendise flies off the shelf with little to do. Go figure.
/r/MensRights06/02/18 12:12 PM
5

EQUALITY EQUALITY!!!! Just don't hold (women) to the UNIVERSAL STANDARDS of a responsible adult. Even after the sexual acts, if she said, "Sorry loser, I thought this was about something different, no more, i'm out..." The ONLY thing she leavs with is a full stomach and hurt pride. Trying to drag ANYONE down as she is because she made some big mistakes speaks so loudly about her character, I do not believe her words hold any real worth. We assume celeberties are smart. We assume he COULD read su…
/r/MensRights16/01/18 12:19 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/MensRights07/01/18 05:56 PM
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I have struggled with Mental Health issues all of my life. Suck it up! Be a man! I have had girls...er young women....Whatever it is ok to call them (hard at my age to think of sub-20 year olds as women) back in highschool absoultely attack my 'manhood', shame me, and if I said anything back (I would NEVER hit a woman) or got remotely aggressive in return I was the incarnation of evil because a big scary man was angry. Hulk smash, right? To this day engaging with women is like walking a tight-ro…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 12:30 PM
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My ex-wife and I are better friends now than when we were married. We have two kids and are 100% on the same page. They are happy, and seemingly well, the ONLY thing I am proud of in this world. It took nearly 10 years of marrige to realize just how bad we were for each other. Sometimes all that is needed is a tipping point, and I hope this helps this guy realize he can still raise amazing daughters who can be functional, strong human beings regardless of his wife's unfounded fears because he do…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 01:55 AM
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Oh, she is sure to raise some real gems.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 01:47 AM
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