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Men will want to have sex with you always, yes. Honestly, men wanting to have sex with...any woman is rarely an issue. You're 23. That's very, very, very young. I'm 35 and happily engaged, and I have all sorts of men coming onto me. Younger ones, my age, older ones. As long as you're attractive and in shape, age really doesn't matter as much as internet would make you believe. My fiance is just attracted to me as he was 6 years ago, can't take his hands off of me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 04:41 AM
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Sorry, but I feel like according to RPW standards, in this case, it should be. If we're holding women to a certain standard then we should hold men to it, too. He's not relationship material, clearly.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 01:05 AM
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After getting into a relationship where I'm receiving princess treatment I know I would never accept anything less from now on. It's not about the money. When my (now) fiance started dating me he was earning less than I was. But he would always insist on paying for me, he'd buy me affordable flowers, he'd cook for me. Then later he'd always remember to bring me something tasty from the store, get me trinkets I mentioned liking, get me clothes he'd like to see me in. As time went by and his caree…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 01:48 AM
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Only a man can think the above comment was in any way supposed to be a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:52 AM
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Yeah, that logic seems fair.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 02:14 AM
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In the ideal situation, she reaches out and they can both talk about how they struggle with communicating and reaching for power-play strategies when they're hurt in disagreements. But honestly...I don't see that happening.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:40 AM
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I actually realize I misread the original post, I thought it was her who reached out with the hug/cuddle and him who rejected that. Which makes me think you might be right. I still wouldn't advise OP to reach out I think, but from this perspective it looks like in the future they both need to work on passive agressive reactions and communication.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:28 AM
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Yeah, I can see your point tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:26 AM
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I agree it wasn't a good move, but I don't agree it was "nagging". She doesn't need to "undo" anything. She reached out because she was frustrated and understandably emotional about the fight, he ignored her. It would be fine if he just gave her and himself a bit of time to cool down and then called her/met her to discuss this further, but he's giving her the ST and waiting for her to freak out that he never responded. I don't think she should be reaching out further and being the one that wants…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:19 AM
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Reaching out in this situation will only solidify OPs partner in using the silent treatment in the future, though. That's precisely why this is passive agressive - the person using ST is trying to force the other party into reaching out and "asking" to put this behind, and unfortunately, in this dynamic and manipulation strategy, it's shifting the blame for the fight to the person who is reaching out. That's why people using silent treatment never break it by admitting they were wrong or that th…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 01:08 AM
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You might have all the money and diplomas in the world but that won't change the fact that you're a sad, bitter person who can't use their "incredible intelligence" to get off your family's leash. You're praising your wonderful culture with successful mariages and then you complain about how awful the pressure from your family is and how you're trying to avoid arranged marriage So which is it? If your culture's marriage traditions are so wonderful and lead to successful marriages and wonderful f…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 03:49 AM
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Being able to find compromise and understand the cultural differences, for example. You're just stomping your feet and having a tantrum because you're not getting a marriage proposal after SIX MONTHS. That's early dating stages in your boyfriend's culture and you refuse to admit that you're in the wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 01:44 AM
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I'm not American. You're setting yourself up for failure expecting people from a different culture to adhere to your standards. Sounds like you should stick to dating within your culture because you're not equipped mentally for any sort of differences and resolving conflicts that will inevitably emerge. Frankly, despite your age, you don't sound mature enough for marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 01:41 AM
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Because he's from a different culture and in his culture demanding a wedding after 6 months is red flag crazy behavior. Back off or he'll run.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 01:00 AM
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Then how come all those people you dated in the past and knew that wanted to be married... aren't your husbands?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 12:56 AM
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I appreciate those rules so much. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 10:13 PM
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Oh boy, wait till you learn that even neurotypical men refuse to accept that people have the right to not want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:44 AM
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He's not "subtly signaling". He's telling you this isn't happening.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/24 10:49 PM
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Yikes, he'll literally get a house with someone but not propose to them after TEN YEARS? Yeah, this is such a red flag, this guy sounds like someone who's scared of commitment, always has been, and now the ex is just another reason he'll be using as an excuse. 0% chance she left him "out of the blue".
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 10:20 PM
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He sounds like he struggles with undiagnosed ADHD.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 12:16 AM
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That's so true. I used to go through relationships with handsome assholes and wonder why I'm not getting the ring. My first slightly-below-me league boyfriend proposed after less than 3 years and we're planning our wedding right now. I think a sorta superficial reason for this is that he thinks I'm SUCH A CATCH and he truly believes he did amazing and couldn't find anyone even prettier etc. This sounds horrible, but irl we're both very compatible, love each other so much, I now find him very att…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/24 11:53 PM
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Ah, you're so right, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 01:40 AM
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A woman having a baby at 30 it's a very typical, common age to have a baby in my social circle. However, a man who is 25 is in a completely different stage in life, and I mean, completely. His prefrontal cortex literally just stopped forming. I don't have any male friend, and I have MANY, that would want a child that age. If they know how difficult having a child is, they're waiting untill they have a solid job, an apartment or a house, solid support system. If you told your boyfriend that you e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 01:18 AM
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Well...Not if that man wants a relationship and not a situationship in which the woman gets swept away by someone else who gave her the assurance and stability. Do you want to actually be with her and be exclusive? If so, why do you bother with redpill "rules" from dudes that are anti-relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:42 AM
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Well, feelings are scary, they don't really make much sense and can be ridiculous. She wants reassurance, so just double down on what you said. "Well, I'm asking because I want to make sure we're on the same page. Like I said - I'm in love with you and I'd like to go from a situationship to a relationship. So...how about we go on a proper date next Tuesday and you steal my fries even though you said you're not that hungry?" ...or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:17 AM
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I think she's worried that you're not going to be serious about the relationship thing. She's afraid of being vulnerable herself. Basically she's trying to get you to show your cards first because she's afraid to do it. I'd say she does want a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:01 AM
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Yes, rip off a bandaid and have the conversation. You need to know if he really is dead set on those 6 years and then you have to decide if you're willing to wait that long (with no guarantee, because it sorta sounds like "6 years is long enough in the future that I don't even have to think about it now").
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 01:26 AM
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I don't think about 22yo male virgins. They exist and they're as normal to me as 16yo boys who aren't virgins. Gauss curve is a thing. Maybe a 40yo virgin would make me go "hmm" but I would still think it's normal, even if less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:23 AM
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All I'm gonna say, us asexual folk will be just another subreddit to the left when you realize you belong with us, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:18 AM
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Why do you care about what opinions others have instead of focusing on yourself? What would you gain by winning an argument?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 03:14 AM
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I think you're looking for Red Pill for men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 06:25 AM
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Your "dominant" boyfriend is a crybaby manchild with self-esteem issues who doesn't appreciate and deserve you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 08:48 AM
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