| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Elon Musk about Fear and how to deal with it - Relevant to approach anxiety or anything really | StoneColdJane | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 09:34 AM | |
| 0 | Tomorrow I'll ask a girl out I'm 100% sure she has a boyfriend - what would be amazing comback | StoneColdJane | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 11:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why do women like older guys so much🐂 👁️ | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Flirting examples that worked for youDetails. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:16 AM |
| 29 | Flirting examples that worked for youWanna fuck, worked for me always. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?There is nothing wrong about being slut, every one have a role to play. Age will eventually fix it, then u get the cats. Hope u don't find this jujimental I personally like your ilk. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | When a random man is interrupting your conversation with a girlThis is sneaky.. I love it | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | I've been fucking and leading on a thot who fell in love with me is it time to end it?Sounds like a girl with a character, this one is a keeper. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach super hot girls at bars?Just come with genuine, honest question. Hey miss, I saw you from over there and wanted to quickly ask you wanna fuck? After that, it's up to her to decline or accept the offer. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:21 AM |
| 3 | want to get laid in europe as a touristThat guide boils down to look very good, elite and you will fuck some ass if you reach out to many girls | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:40 AM |
| 3 | What should I do next?Then she wants you as orbiter who she knows is there for service. She's in her 40 woman like that don't play games like 20yo would, if she consider you attractive she would act on it, she just push you into orbit. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | What should I do next?Everything you wrote indicates she's not into you. Of course situation is bit complicated because you live close to each other and that's why she probably tread lightly. There where multiple strong indication from her side about this, like when you made her pancakes and she was "busy" to even reach out and say thanks. Girls who are into you even little bit don't behave like that. You are also very strange with your strong push which hits hard wall on multiple occasions. I would move on and try m… | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Literally no idea what to say after 'hi'That's the problem with cold approaches. Why not look for situational openers. If in the closed space try that trick with funny face from the distance, if she laugh/smirk approach. If in club try tease dance trick or funny face (closed space). If I was ever back on dating scene i would avoid cold approaches. Works fine on YouTube, not so much in reality. She's not wearing/doing or situation is not out of ordenery/interested you are right, what could you say? "Hi, wanna fuck". Social norms are th… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel resentful of how they were brought up to view sex?At a certain point, you need to stop blaming others for your successes and failures, you're feelings and looks. Sooner you stop blaming others you can start address your shortcomings by taking responcibility. I did feel resentful and for a short I also blamed others but then I accepted and forgave and also understood those people probably gave their best with all their shortcomings and insecurities. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 0 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Who knows maybe it's personality of you're little bro? | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:34 AM |
| -2 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?You don't know what happened, she might reconsider and figure out she don't like you at all, or she might like you so much she was super nervous and bailed, or anything between. That's ok, her not showing up didn't insult your religion so don't get all tied up in that, because depending on your age this might feel huge. This is teachable moment two fold, newer fuck with coworkers, and 2 don't take it personal if someone is late/ don't show up, adjust on that and if too frequent reconsider hang w… | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 06:52 AM |
| -19 | Touched a girl from work today!I don't know where you are but in US this would probably be act of rape attempt. Also I would restrain of testing my seduction skills where I work. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | 25Male, never had a girlfriend and I find it extremely difficult to find happiness in this loneliness.You can do all what they say here, many have done it but my advice is try find clinical psychologist to help you out coming with strategy and holed you accountable. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | The best guys also get rejected a lot. Don't let the marketing fool you. Back in the day guys were honest that most of their approaches end in rejection. Today coaches lie to sell their products.Really, 100x? I would settle for better life then racking up numbers, but to each their own. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The best guys also get rejected a lot. Don't let the marketing fool you. Back in the day guys were honest that most of their approaches end in rejection. Today coaches lie to sell their products.Learn to dance, go slack line, do long group biking tour, do long hiking tour, stuff like that. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | The best guys also get rejected a lot. Don't let the marketing fool you. Back in the day guys were honest that most of their approaches end in rejection. Today coaches lie to sell their products.This shows you how cold approach is not worth the time and effort. Instead you develop your personality, go do hard challenging stuff in this process you'll meet girls among other more important things. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 2 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.Don't harass girls boys. It's very likely you are not able to attract high-quality women, who are THAT busy that she can't talk to someone she finds interesting. More likely you're just talking with normal girls who are too polite to tell you to fuck off. If she's flaky, unresponsive, etc, move on. | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveThanks for taking the time to explain from your perspective what's going on. As a large male, it seems I'm lucky not even to have the capacity to think as you described, but this totally make sense. Just one thing, I never got discouraged by girls telling me they have a boyfriend because we were though (from our male resources :D) that this is so-called 'shit test'. But I always took notes to follow the smile if she smiles I can go on. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveThat's fucked up. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI did all the Day game shit, and night approaches but for me, it just never works out for one reason or another. When I started doing stuff I like and pursuing hobbies and other activities then a lot of stuff auto-corrected. Girls that were around where much more in context of my interests and personality, giving us a better headstart to succeed, not to mention they was never in the hurry. When you have a moving target you have much harder job then when not. What I observed from male, and female… | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveHey OP, I never understood thing with laying about a boyfriend. Have you tried, "Thanks for compliments but I'm not interested whatsoever" | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 11:56 AM |
| 7 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyI know, I just took it as an opportunity to explain to people thinking of what happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyIt was desicion in very competitive bout, against extremely good fighter. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 20 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyKhabib also lost 1 time in sambo | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Being a store ownerYep, I agree. No alpha. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I've taught infield pickup for over ten yearsStrike first. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 10:29 AM |
| 9 | Purpose in practiceLet me summarize. 1. Stop caring so much what she'll think of you 2. Exercise. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm nearly 25 and I've never a relationshipRisk more. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | (26, m) I've never been on a date and no woman has ever been interested in me, is it because of my looks? (pics included) Looking for honest feedbackInteresting remark about your forehead, I needed to go back and watch the pictures again because I never noticed it, and if you haven't mention it I wouldn't notice it. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I just focus on cold approach only?this all the way. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: Neediness is THE Most Unattractive TraitThis is one of those things that autocorrect itself when you start exploring yourself, your hobbies, living interesting busy life. If you hanging out on reddit all day long, watching netflix as your hobby, well think again buddy! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 09:38 AM |
| 3 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?I've read most of the text, what I concluded: You are wrong about woman. You are probably wrong about how do you act, behave and what vibe you give, I know few guys who could say stuff you say including being rich, and most of them are very weird, probably 'nice guys syndrom' paird with who know what. I would suggest you to try to diagnose what is wrong with you from objective authoritative person and go from there, you need to find someone really who's going to be honest/professional about this… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Elon Musk about Fear and how to deal with it - Relevant to approach anxiety or anything reallymore from interview here | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 09:35 AM |
| 5 | i feel so weird when i go out to daygameQuit chasing, try pursue your interest and along those interests you'll inevitably meet girls with similar taste and opinion on life. Start dancing, try yoga, painting, try mma, go to milonga or go hiking, play golf, go hunting or whatever you like. I say this is much better time investing than mindlessly chasing girls and 'fake it until make it'. Also fuck yt videos of guys showing how day game work for them, unsubscribe from those and block them if you can, truly toxic videos. Try life and enj… | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 08:00 AM |
| -7 | She's a filthy whore, and you both know it.The more I read this redpill thing, the more I think someone will came up with idea all girls want to be raped and choked to death. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Why practice this shit?You exhibited social retardation, thing most pick up guys experience. Why, you might ask, well let me break it to you, you are just random guy, a creep if you will where she has 0 involvement with who's asking her number, why? Because you like her? Who gives a shit, you are many and she is one. Every time I got number in fast way, it was either wrong number or girls was unlike to go out with me. You need to involve a person emotionally, create some rapport/attraction and then ask for the number,… | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 01:45 AM |
| 5 | What PUA video has been the most help for you?If I had a gold I would give it to you, this is fucking gem. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | VSauce explains awkardness and why noone cares about YOUR missteps, just their ownI'm sure there is someone more educated on this topic to give you solid advice, but based on my situation, after doing random things 'challenges' if you will, you get to the point you get more brave to do more challenging with not lot less effort, like doing chin ups I guess. Even tho you're doing chin ups for 'back' your arms, abs, core, gets stronger. To answer your question is: I don't know, but it make sense to do stuff out of your comfort zone every day. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 02:38 PM |
| 19 | VSauce explains awkardness and why noone cares about YOUR missteps, just their ownThe thing is, most of us know this on logical plane, but desensitisation from the feeling require some training. Good news is, it can be done. Bad news is most probably you will not do it, as require you to go thru the feeling over and over and over again, and as he clearly say, experiencing the feeling of awkwardness is like feeling of physical pain. So lets say you need to brake your arm 100 times and after that you'll have God like self confidence, some people will do it, but most will not. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)I completely agree, imagine her as your best friend who turned over the night in the super hot girl, and talk to her from that frame. Assume comfort, the thing is you can't do that out of the blue, and if you are socially untrained. I specifically said 'untrained' as oppose 'anxiety' because this is trainable as any skill. And one fact is highly overlooked, some of the girls I go out was super pretty but boring as fuck, I remember one girl who was constantly killing my desire to talk to her as s… | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 06:22 AM |
| 10 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Or in a simple sentence, PAY THE F**** attention to the conversation and listen instead of waiting your turn to say something. This is essential why people can't remember someone's name, they are quick to say their own, and they do not listen. I like your answer and agree with you, but he's not saying this is how you seduce a girl, this is the part after you already build up to some attraction and report, at least I got it in that way. Next time you talk to someone exercise power of listening, a… | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 06:12 AM |
| 34 | How to stop living in my head?Be Ready: How to Talk to anyone: Leil Lowndes + Power of Now: Eckhart Tolle. EDIT: Don't get discouraged from Eckhart religious bullshit, just read the book and practice things he says. | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 01:37 PM |
| -1 | 7 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make In DaygameRegarding Opener, I have rather large quantity of approaches during day, and most of the time they don't even remember it. I saw you, wanted to talk to you whatever, after you shake hands and introduce yourself you she's awake from that point. I like having purpose as he mention, other then "hunt" but again, there is one truth here, how about don't do daygame at all, go where interesting people hanging out. Yoga, library, Dance, Hiking, go on Workshops, try to better yourself and use stuff you l… | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I don't fucking understand what to talk to girls aboutI agree to this. When I was a younger guy I thought all girls are interesting but i'm fuck up, and then more I talk to them I found some girls are fuck up and boring as fuck, no matter how pretty she is. Knowing this I'm approaching from different point now, knowing this, she do not make me nervous so much as I know she might be boring as fuck, and I'm just there to reavle that and move on. I also agree with "listening" part, active listening is to notice the information she's saying and challen… | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I don't fucking understand what to talk to girls aboutThis book is written in 1936, we all agree the world was 'slightly' different place back then. I agree some of the principles are good, but better book for this century would be "How to talk to anyone" by Leil Lowndes. | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 06:32 PM |
| -4 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?This is a good but old approach, and most of anything after a while you forget to use that syntax. What I would suggest is to intruduce "us mentality" "role playing" And imagine you have convo with a friend. Also Kino a lot. I start with "Indian hug" which is a bullshit story of mine and it goes like this: I had a this very cool Indian friend who show me how they hug in India. We need to sinc ours breathing and breath "together" 3x in and out. Later on I proceed with random guess of perfume. "Oh… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 09:53 PM |
| 9 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?I was having a date with a super pretty girl I bluntly said to her I like her, and whe shuld exchange contact info. She added me as a friend on fb, and 2 days later, I set up a date. This was pretty fucked up date you can imagine - bitch didnt wanna stop talking about herself lol. She didn't asked me anything, so after first date I kind of knew everything about her and she knew almost nothing about me. After a days or two, I forced myself to call her out again, as I wanted to fuck her, she's pre… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 9 | I Did ItFucking true. Always isolate, for some fucking reason they gang up on you in a group, even if two. Sometimes they help you, or you think they help you but those bitches have their code speak anyway, so you never know. Always isolate. To Op, you did grate job man, 3 girls are no joke specifically if its your first set of the day. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 01:46 AM |
| -2 | So I finally did it! As a girl, I asked a guy out.Unless very attractive I hate when girls ask me out. I do however always give her respect and encourage her to do so in the feature. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 01:37 AM |
| 2 | 1st Date Tipssimple pickup got it right with "no" if she smile no mean yes, and continue. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | 1st Date TipsThis is the best fucking tip I had for first date. Tell her you listen ASMR videos for relaxation, more then likely she will have no clue wtf is that, this is where you offer to demonstrate how to make her tingle down her spine. Get close to her ear and start whispering something, then proceed with sksksksksks. More then likely she will not get tingles, but who cares you made something no one had ever done, plus you get shit load of kino. I got this idea as I listen to ASMR videos, and wanted to… | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 02:24 AM |
| 16 | Any tips on how to be like this on the dance floor?Step 5: Wake up! | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 11:43 PM |
| 19 | Any tips on how to be like this on the dance floor?from my point of view he is dancing God of universe, as I dance just like a timber stiff like a rock. Or when I get relaxed I dance like a frog in food processor. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 06:55 PM |
| 26 | Any tips on how to be like this on the dance floor?But just notice how this guy role, is amazing how slick he is, he do not make crazy suden moves, but slowly almost like he's surrounded by water. I'm blown away. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Tomorrow I'll ask a girl out I'm 100% sure she has a boyfriend - what would be amazing combackYeha :) no problem I figure it out on my own by now. | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 01:13 PM |
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