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| 5 | On dating apps, I’ve seen women have far more professionally taken photos than men - why do you take them?They’re not professional. My friends and I take photos of each other when we’re out doing something fun because we like doing it. The goal of taking the pictures isn’t for the apps, it’s because we like taking photos of each other and feeling good about ourselves. And then yea I’ll take a few of them and use them on apps, but mostly the photos exist because we like doing our mini “photo shoots” it’s just fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 10:27 AM |
| 2 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I like hinge, I like seeing the way people respond to the prompts it provides insight into what type of person they’re looking for, maybe a bit of a silly personality, and a way to find some common interests. I can’t learn a ton about the person, but I can get a little glimpse and that’ll make me want to continue a conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingI watch my drink now because I was actually drugged. That’s how I personally know it wasn’t just alcohol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:45 PM |
| -2 | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageAs a self professed alt girl at 25 with a boyfriend, OP is still right, people my age usually want someone closeish to our age. Obviously there’s always outliers but most people I know stay within 3yrs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP make people so angry?Chemist/biochemist. First paper is in review, will be officially published soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP make people so angry?Just saying as a scientist, there’s more than XX and XY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.In the alt and scene communities, men wear makeup all the time. She’s asking if your “reasoning” still holds true when men are wearing the exact same makeup as women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleJust from my own experience, I used a lot of pics that were in vacation or fun mode and it had nothing to do with my own lifestyle, which is not full of travel or anything glamorous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleOn a dating app, don’t you want the best photos of yourself? For a lot of people that can be when they’re traveling or wearing nice clothes and posing. On a dating app I’m not just throwing a random photo of me looking meh when I have really good ones I can use. Linking an ig can also just show “hey here’s my social media to see more snippets of my life and possibly message me there”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleI’m convinced most of this sub hasn’t talked to a woman in years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It’s another way to do it, like bringing a girl flowers is another way of showing it. None of these are required, but it’s a thoughtful gesture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Looks, money, status... Is it true?Income I’d want 85-100K. I want someone equal to me, someone also in STEM like I am, and at a semi-similar level of education. The types of jobs that come with that pay in that range. If I were in a different field, like a humanities field and wanted someone similar to me, the income would likely be lower. In my case it’s more about compatibility and that’s the incomes that aligns with that. This is all theoretical though. 95% of the time I have zero idea exactly what a guy makes until I get to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from womenIt sounds like they just have low self esteem and can’t feel satisfied by their own self worth so they make it women’s fault since it’s apparently women’s faults they don’t have enough dates to feel “valued” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:51 AM |
| -2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Ok so when I go on a date I don’t expect the other person to pay. It’s nice when it’s offered but I always go in with the mindset that I’ll be paying for myself. I’m not going to argue with someone who offers to pay though. I’ll just pay for the next date. Can’t say exactly what the other woman in the thread would respond to this, but I was purely just reiterating what she stated. I will say though that for a first date, the person who invites the other on a date many times pays in order to show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:46 AM |
| -3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.She said she wanted someone to show interest in the pursuit of her by paying for a couple dates then it evens out. That’s not being a provider or catering, it’s a short term thing dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:37 AM |
| 23 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Yea! And men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:21 AM |
| 35 | Men only have importance to women as providers.This is purely anecdotal, like every other point you’ve said so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:18 AM |
| 19 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Not any woman I know, and I know a ton. I’m not denying that a guy having a well paying job is a plus, any sane person would want their partner to earn a lot rather than a little. But it’s not the primary or sole reason for wanting to date someone. A rich asshole is still an asshole, no amount of money will make that worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:16 AM |
| 25 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Maybe to you those things are secondary but not to other people. I’m personally trying to date a partner not an ATM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:05 AM |
| 28 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Are you going to support that claim? Because it sounds like just anecdotes. You ask what can bind a woman to a man besides money. Intelligence, humor, shared interests, feeling listened to, sexual compatibility, emotional support, loyalty, enjoying being around the other person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:48 AM |
| 15 | What are your thoughts on the fact that so many people glow up later in life?You’re just like most people, an awkward kid who eventually hit puberty and grew up. No one cares what you used to look like, but it definitely shocks me too when someone flirts with me because in my head I’m the ugly high schooler still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:17 AM |
| 15 | Is there an epidemic of straight Millenial/GenZ women falsely claiming to be lesbians?Were the “signs of attraction” just making eye contact and responding to things you said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women?I have a friend who’s like this, except not shy. He’s single lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 02:52 AM |
| 3 | If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist?Just because a woman and a man work great as friends, have similar interests, and like being around each other, means that there’s automatically romantic interest. A guy can be great on paper and have everything that’s wanted by his friend (who’s a girl), but he can’t force her to feel that “click” or the chemistry that comes with a romantic partner and unfortunately the lack of her feeling that chemistry is why he’s being friendzoned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.Go out to concerts and bars that are more punk themed, meeting people organically feels more natural than online and can be a lot easier to get a connection. I’ve met tons of great people this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.But how’s your mental health now? If it’s on the mend, you’re gonna have better luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.Idk I fit into the funny tiktok stereotype of mentally ill bi alt big tiddy goth girl and I managed to find a boyfriend despite my glaring red flags. I kinda just stumbled into him and he’s not in the edgy scene but it doesn’t change who I am. Maybe expand your horizons and you’ll find someone you connect to who you didn’t expect to love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 3 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.So I saw your makeup look (love the emo vibe) and in the alt crowd you’re gonna find a larger than normal amount of crazy. I would know, I’m one of the crazy ones. Honestly you’re just into a crowd that has a much higher proportion of mental illness than the norm, and peoples actions and behavior will be influenced by that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 0 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.No they really aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 15 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Soon after I had started dating my bf, one of his friends asked me what my bf did to “get” me. There wasn’t anything my bf did, we just connected really well. This friend thought that there was some magic thing he could do or say and have women wanting him. Treating women as objects to be “gotten” isn’t how you date someone, and he wasn’t understanding that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience?If you can’t possibly fathom how being sexualized constantly since I was 8yrs old when I started wearing a bra can fuck someone up mentally, then I have no words for you. Also, yes threatening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience?I would disagree with your point 3. The comments are harmful especially when I was literally a child when they started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience?Some back pain, horrible posture due to being short with a disproportionately extremely large chest, high cost of bras, “size inclusive” brands not going a cup size large enough because many will stop at H and that’s not enough, wearing a low cut shirt seems to be an invitation to have explicit comments thrown at me. Just because my chest sticks out far from my body doesn’t mean men can touch me, I’ve been casually groped by guys who “just want to put their arm around me”, it’s not subtle it’s j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 3 | I have a chronic illness too, and I cant tell you how many times i heard that it is all in my head🤡thousands of women suffer from malpractice only because they are WOMENAdderall and Vyvanse have a lot of similarities because adderall is the chemical dextroamphetamine and vyvanse is a prodrug to dextroamphetamine, meaning they metabolize into the same chemical overall. Other adhd meds can be different compounds, like Ritalin is methylphenidate, so it could have different reactions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Could you date a man who is not romantic?So the guy I think I want to make it official with doesn’t do big date nights but he constantly does stuff that makes me feel like it’s romantic. When he goes to get us beer from the gas station he’ll always bring up some of my favorite sour candy even if I don’t ask for it, he’ll randomly and constantly call me beautiful until I blush (I can see in his eyes how he truly means it), he’ll offer me a bong hit but brings it directly to me so I never have to move out of bed. It’s the tiny things tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Thanks for this perspective! It’s helped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I thought I had a HVM, I was on top of the world when with him. He made me feel special, he listened to me, he seemed like he cared. He just broke up with me this morning because he said he still likes someone he thought he was over, and that it wasn’t fair to me if he weren’t 100% devoted. I honestly just feel alone and sad and want to know what FDS thinks I should do now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 04:04 PM |
| 19 | The biggest ‘signs’ a man will ACTUALLY be good in bed, in my optionMy current bf is these and he’s absolutely amazing in bed. I think you’re on to something here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 01:41 AM |
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