Stonesaint Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hamster Heel-digging in a Frugal Blog		Stonesaint	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/04/15 12:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Update: Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i know It's called trolling	/r/askMRP	26/01/19 08:12 PM
3	Removing Power From Men : Mom Says 6-Year-Old Son Is Transgender. Dad Disagrees. Now He Might Lose His Son. Here you go from a fellow Indian, http://www.themodernsurvivalist.com/archives/5660	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/18 09:58 PM
1	Question: Frame vs Rewarding Disrespect Re: "original name of shit test is fitness test" I remember shit test being the original - fitness test is what Athol Kay used to refer to this when de-balling and defanging the original process. And where is he now?	/r/askMRP	12/11/18 09:54 AM
7	Helping my son take the pill http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html?m=1 Old but Gold	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 04:35 PM
2	How to hold frame when u’re tired? Dude. I see a lot of 'i' and 'u' when I see Indians writing. Are you one? Dealing with the Emotional Drama of an Indian SAHM is something else, you'll have to nut up and source rock solid stability through the lifts. Don't expect help from anywhere else - it's even more scarce in Indians. And your other subreddit haunts are designed for a single philosophy - Misery loves Company. Your words are dripping with that same ball shrinking hospital scent. Embrace Iron. Treat it like a Personal Temple. …	/r/askMRP	09/09/18 08:53 AM
-1	Acta non verba - but this one can only be made clear if I spell it out for her. If it was me in your shoes, I would have looked my wife in the eyes and said, "I have a reason. And that's reason enough. The car stays." That's it. I think that car is extremely valuable for the kids - especially boys. When they grow up, you can impart this story and the lesson of your growth using that car. If you have a boy, you can give that car to him after he gets his license. You built your life from the ground up starting with that car - hopefully he will build himself up in the same way…	/r/askMRP	13/05/17 04:50 PM
2	Everyone knows...even if they don't know they know. Just heard this J-Lo song. What other MRP references have you heard/seen in poular culture? I suppose you might get gold while rooting through trash now and then. And? We got resources here. That's a better shot than a lot of clueless folks out there. Take those and shape your destiny. What the Clueless does is not our concern.	/r/askMRP	26/06/16 03:12 PM
6	Passing Fitness Tests vs Providing More Comfort and Security Dude. I will take your 'armchair' psychology over an army of 'psychologists' anytime.	/r/askMRP	14/12/15 12:29 PM
1	LTR problems Dude, I suggest turn the tables. Maintain silence for all texts. For two days before you both are supposed to meet, text 'I am tired of you' and 'Don't come here for two weeks'. That gives a much needed jolt. Maintain silence first - Fill up your life with interesting activities, maybe a bit of salsa dancing. Tune out the girl. She will either come roaring back in or fizzling out. Any other outcome apart from the ones above are unacceptable. And start building up a rock-solid frame for yourself.…	/r/askMRP	28/11/15 05:28 AM
1	Neg Hits in Marriage: Amused Mastery on Hard Mode "if he gets it organized." Man, learn to absorb hits and roll with it. "Precisely the point. My boss is a master at organizing." ;)	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/11/15 12:19 PM
1	Vampiresquid's husband "oh, are you being 'alpha'?" As an answer, I will rephrase a famous dialogue from one of our regional movies. To be an alpha, it's not enough to defeat them. You have to be the alpha's motherfucking daddy. You can finish it off with, "Say hello to daddy" and a smirk.	/r/askMRP	19/11/15 08:22 AM
1	The Husband's Dilemma: When to Withhold Affection and play your "mean card" or What To Do (and When) with a sexually withdrawing wife: Clarifying Dread Level 4 and conditioning your emotional availability with her sexual availability like the story of the boiling water and the frog I was curious and looked it up. Maybe you might be aware, but the science doesn't tally.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/15 05:50 PM
2	How I discovered that my girlfriend had sadly never lost her slutty ways, they were only in hibernation. Yeah, you are a bitch. Yeah it pains. Yeah, it was your very first tumble. I suggest completely embracing the idea that you are the only person on earth who will meet your needs 100%. I suggest Stoicism.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 07:28 AM
1	I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill... Thank you	/r/askMRP	01/11/15 05:10 AM
1	I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill... I joined the Masons Something that I had my eye on for some time. Was joining the Freemasons beneficial to you? I mean real solid growth - whether spiritual or mental?	/r/askMRP	31/10/15 01:00 PM
1	FR: How'd I do for a newbie?! Nice sister. I would have gone with, "I am a female-to-male transsexual. Ask your sister."	/r/askMRP	31/10/15 06:24 AM
2	Morning Shit Test Who is this marvelous motherfucker?	/r/askMRP	30/10/15 10:13 AM
1	Two steps forward, one step back Issue is not his. When his wife senses them, immediately her performance plummets.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/10/15 03:27 AM
1	Viral RP relatable meme making rounds on facebook. As far as I am concerned, the only lesson here is Vet the female and vet her hard.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 09:25 AM
0	[Rant] It's all my dad's fault! You say this in order to underline some sort of commitment ritual to Red Pill? In this market, the only currency is actions. He who is rich and respected has made a lot of action coins. Are you rich?	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/15 06:51 AM
1	So, I was doing great, but my tooth got chipped tonight. Please... talk to me One Agree & Amplify Answer for the question would be :- "Vampire training classes began this fall". The way your tooth is chipped, I think a capping is required. Even if you don't have that funny gum feel in the tooth, it's only a matter of time before the nerves start getting exposed.	/r/askMRP	26/10/15 06:23 AM
-4	GF has orbiter friend (a BP white knight), I'm afraid of her cheating me if the right circumstances arise, I'd like help on how best I should deal with their relationship (basic question) So you came to a space. A space frequented by men. By men who specifically drive Porsches. Or Supras. Or GTRs. Or 350Zs. And you speak about your beat up Corolla. That has these oil leaks and brake issues and cranky temperament. And you want them to sympathize with you? Good luck. Be a man that can drive a Porsche. And own it to boot.	/r/askMRP	25/10/15 02:17 PM
1	AWALT is an acknowledgement of female nature, but that doesn't excuse it. Why is it treated as an excuse? Excellent	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/10/15 03:58 PM
0	Finding a good therapist I thought he was speaking of Headworker\|Marriage Edition. Now I see he is speaking of Headworker\|Mind Edition. Yeah, I am cynical. No, I don't have a recommendation. Yeah, my post is starfish.	/r/askMRP	20/10/15 03:09 PM
1	Finding a good therapist Among millions of crows, there might be one albino. The rest of them are black. Enough odds for me.	/r/askMRP	20/10/15 12:12 PM
1	Finding a good therapist Good luck finding recommendation in a place that mistrusts the whole breed.	/r/askMRP	20/10/15 05:57 AM
0	Caught him going through my things. I would be worried if my SO was not worried I may be having an affair (not because I am untrustworthy but because there is so much temptation "options/choices" being thrown in my path). In my opinion it is better to have someone fear losing you than taking you for granted. Excellent perspective for a man to use. Bullshit for a woman to use - when directed at a man. Men who are self-aware are more like an expert with his tools. He will keep good tools, adjust with medium/bad tools based on circum…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/15 06:46 AM
1	Rewarding Failure That man sounds like a more advanced and well-developed version of myself. I am yet to completely cross the dark sea - right now skirting at the shore. I can't advise you here - I know my own limitations well. Nevertheless I can say this :- 1) I don't believe RPW will appreciate you soliciting advice of this nature from us. 2) Any type of advanced advice such as this is best acquired from the mods and a select few from here - so give them a headsup.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/07/15 02:48 PM
1	Rewarding Failure There is the carrot, there is the stick. Successful implementation is always a combination of both. Standard RPW recourse would be to be the best she could possibly be to inspire better treatment in the long run, but what then when that does not work? That above was the carrot. What we use here is the stick. The problem with women using the stick is, it will backfire badly. Your best bet might be soliciting the help of some man your SO looks up to. And use him to administer the stick	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/07/15 08:15 AM
2	Struggling to find the right balance /queenofnidra Curios name. Queen of Sleep? Or does Nidra mean something else?	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/15 02:56 PM
1	Wearing our rings She noticed I wasn't wearing so she said, "Oh, and wear your ring today." I mostly shrugged it off. Maybe I should've kept silent but eventually I said, "About the ring ... I make no promises." She was pretty upset and kept asking me why. I kept responding, "I don't feel like wearing it." What the hell? I never liked flip-flopping. Obviously a red-pill answer involves being assertive. Best done in a slow smooth manner. Look her in the eyes - Raise an eyebrow - And ask, "Are you wearing yours?" O…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/06/15 09:13 AM
1	Still cannot get my head around initiating sex Excellent Analysis. Very detailed & thought provoking. Have you actually experienced such a character?	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/06/15 08:14 PM
0	[FR] Objectify She followed with "I got to pee" Take her into your arms. Carry her Superman style into the toilet. Position her pussy into the toilet bowl. Say "Baby, locked and loaded. Fire at will"	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/05/15 01:55 PM
1	The Dangers of the Red Pill I think permanent change mostly happens only when pain exists as a catalyst. It seems better to aim for efficiency. Which best comes about when the philosophy is entertained by a receptive man. A man who crashed and burned. He who suffered pain. And let the birthing pangs begin.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/05/15 07:06 AM
2	My wife left me two days ago. In short, she is the centre of your universe. This reddit is for a group of men who lookout for their own physical and mental health first. They might include their family members in their goals, but only because those folks align according to their prime objective. What chance do you think you have here?	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/05/15 09:27 AM
2	Avoiding physical confrontation I liked your comment a lot. Especially the one below I'm an infamous newbie here	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/05/15 05:54 AM
4	Wife drinks too much. Part Two Initially you tried a monologue on unwilling ears. Then I take her hands and I tell her she's not alone, that we are a team and we'll do this together. Her response is basically "we're not a team, leave me alone" I kiss her forehead as I tell her "I really do love you and want to see you happy" After an hour, I go back into the bedroom Later when she is going out, I tell her again "You're not alone. I love you. We'll do this together" To summarize, initially you gave an extended volley. And then…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/05/15 08:10 AM
1	I am Losing My Frame! Maybe. I am building on that by saying you need to replace it with something as strong or stronger. It may not be picked on a lot, but when you invest in a person - you are also invested in the beliefs and philosophy of that person. When that undergoes a change or modification, your initial investment or understanding of the person is not as valid. Which makes the person half alien. This is what I was trying to explain. And I really don't have a solution, only a conjecture - which I already ment…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/04/15 10:22 AM
1	I am Losing My Frame! I suspect you have issues deeper than a simple 'frame loss'. It's not as if losing your Frame is similar to losing your arm over cancer. If this thing can be burnt down, then it fucking can be built right up - stronger than ever. I suggest that there is a void in you right now - by discarding your faith, you don't really have a bedrock of morals/code/ethics and have issues relating to it. Either base your new set of rules and outlook of life based on some doctrine that exists and is fleshed out …	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/04/15 02:54 PM
1	Wife jokes she'd be a groupie on social media "I don't like you when you are that mean." "Much obliged." Over.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/04/15 01:40 PM
5	Feeling like I might have to give up in the dating game and accept being single...could really use some advice/insight - 22F If you want to hunt the rhino, I suggest you spend some days learning about it's everyday activities. Later dig a hole in it's path and simply wait. If you want to get men, seek out places where the type of men whose mindset you prefer usually hang out. Be genuinely interested and invested in the activity. This is one tactic of increasing the odds of meeting.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/15 04:50 PM
1	New to the community ... is this the right place for me? You want the red pill answer? I will give it to you - simple and humble. Call her and say, "You are right, sweetheart. I have no right to control you. But I have full right to control me. The divorce papers are on the way. Kindly sign it and send it quick. Ma Salaama"	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/04/15 04:33 PM
1	Mental Equivalent to Lifting? My father's mind grows extremely sharp after a game of cards. My colleague gets a laser sharp focus after playing roulette. I know of a similar increased awareness after mechanics try to bring old motorcycles to life in garages. The bottomline is - it varies.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/04/15 05:51 AM
6	Women in Western Countries - Do you Feel Like A Lot of Claims About Sexism Against Women Are Made Up or Real? Being an Indian man now living in the Middle-East, I can give you a perspective of matters in both places. You speak about sexism and the inability to wear shorts as a big deal. I have a theory about laws - Harsh laws means harsh circumstances. In India there are expectations about men - they are technically draft-horses and whatever additional "freedom" they have is counter-balanced by their responsibilities to their kith and kin. In fact, their very value is determined by how much dough they c…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/15 06:00 PM
2	Marriage = Obligation I think the general approach of men towards marriage is wrong. We can state to women in this manner - Marriage is simply social sanction on a piece of paper and the perks associated with it. "Does that mean that I am not the most holiest snowflake in your life? Do you not love meeeeeee? Don't you have any fweeelings for your wife?" "Oh no cupcake. I do have feelings for the person who regularly fills my belly and empties my balls. Someone who cares enough for my interests to regularly do this fo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/04/15 10:43 AM
1	Explained RP to my wife without explaining RP to my wife. I rest my case. This is the terrain of experts.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/04/15 04:54 PM
3	Explained RP to my wife without explaining RP to my wife. A bit later we argued again, mostly about the same thing, only now it was about how I make sexual texts, am too touchy in a suggestive way, and how that all puts "too much pressure on [her]." Funny thing was that back when we were DB, when I had eventually stopped trying, that was too much pressure too. That "too much pressure" is an indication of Olympic level warning lights going on in her head. I am going to take the freedom of thinking aloud here. So a plan of action that occurred to me woul…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/04/15 11:59 AM
3	I no longer want to be red pill married. Dude, Pre-RP, the world had cool breezes, emerald grasses, quaint cottages, fluffy clouds and unicorns flying around shitting rainbows. RP was an earthquake, tornado, tsunami and a swift kick on your head. And that's how you stopped dreaming. Dreams are just dreams - nothing substantial and at best, something to entertain. You can't base your life on cerebral smoke. Open your eyes and see those rubble, oil slicks, stormy skies and bleached earth. You thought you had a shiny sword, now you realiz…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/04/15 06:20 AM
5	[FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great. So she laughed and fucked me. Wrong So she laughed and I fucked her. And then she fucked me. Wrong again. And then I fucked her. You already have realization - I won't pick on that. But I believe internalizing is something else, and it will flow through the language as well - if you know what I mean.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/04/15 09:12 AM
3	She's pregnant From one Indian to another, I have read many stories in this sub, but this is the first time I repeatedly hit my own head. The Problem :- You are a football. Can be easily kicked around. And it's fucking repulsive. The Solution :- Others had given already much more apt advice. I will just add a perspective of mine. There is a way with which I measure the caliber of men. I imagine men have two lines. One line indicates what they say - 'Speakline'. The other indicates what they do - 'Actline'. And…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/04/15 10:53 AM
2	Low Quality Posts on MRP: A Reminder from the Mods Long time lurker, 1st time poster. Since I belong to the 'thousand in last month' club (after I made a profile here), I would like to really thank you all for the existence and efforts you all do for this sub. Being a 24-year old expat Indian surrounded by family in Bahrain, I would eventually go the arranged marriage route - and there is nothing better than here to base my bedrock on. From what I have noticed, for a movement to be successful - it should have the optimum volatile/organic mix. Us…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/04/15 08:23 AM