Stonks1337 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Thankful for the university-grade education I’ve learnt in this space to enhance my dating life going forward, But I Need A Distraction and Way Out of Here	Discussion	Stonks1337	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 04:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I've noticed that water is wet. Falling off after the early game	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/07/24 07:22 AM
1	The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them. Definitely have had different intimate experiences where i was perceived as oofy doofy and where I was perceived as pure hotness its v different	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 04:10 AM
4	CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman. Anyone suggesting avoiding relationships in adolescence is horrible advice, the aspect of self improvement and setting yourself up for success 30s and beyond is generally good advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 05:56 AM
1	If expecting a woman to cook/clean because she’s a woman is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man because he’s the man be misandry? wanting all the benefits of traditional gender roles without taking any of the accountability that comes with it is so manipulative	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 09:09 PM
1	[Q4All]How do you personally define “single by choice”? This. When you can decline an offer from your preferred sex you know that the average someone of your sex would be happy to be with. Single by choice is that confidence. All other definitions is BS. You have to be the type of person to get a couple quality matches on a dating app a day if you relied tried, not no zero. Warren Buffett had a quote about being selective and not taking every opportunity that comes to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 10:47 AM
6	Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women? has left the chat	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:48 AM
1	Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals? I’ve had a lady on this sub tell me before simply lookout for “ioi”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 04:10 PM
1	What is one night stand guy(criteria) Which involves what actions specifically? Dodging the question	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 12:43 AM
1	What is one night stand guy(criteria) to me, other times conversation and connection jus Can you still elaborate by what your specific action is when you say you ioi? When I ioi I do as you describe, I have my success by managing to be interesting and engaging when I am caught in conversation while out meeting someone I am attracted to. What do you do however? Yes I will admit I have had success approaching people I was interested in who I made subtle eye contact with, they maybe gave me a soft smile before they looked away, etc. an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 05:31 PM
0	What is one night stand guy(criteria) Please don’t tell me womens ioi is something like like 2 seconds of eye contact from way across the room, walking by him and brushing him, cheap vague smile followed by 2 secs of eye contact. Men put a lot on the line with their ioi by doing the approach and amidst me too culture subsequent increased exogenous risk even to ordinary well meaning men it’s a huge ask to approach based on vague iois I’d argue are dated and worked in the 90s 2000s but should be updated	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 10:10 AM
2	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. Agreed, putting the data into more clear strata like that would be incredibly useful. I am M25, I can tell you my “relationships” didn’t really begin for me until early 20s, and all the way through 24 they were like what you described. I hope for more serious relationships going forward	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 09:36 PM
1	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. I like how you built tangible aspects of you life to make men interested even as you age, that’s a rare and virtuous quality in a woman you usually see coming more easily to men in the sexual marketplace	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 09:24 PM
4	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. Hook ups with people you haven’t established a relationship with, which I can tell you is like masturbating with another person in the room	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 09:21 PM
0	What can restore the divide between men and women in America? Barbarians at the gate… yea I agree, society would go back to traditionalism and traditional roles hella quick	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 07:34 AM
1	Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not? Agreed. Yet they somehow maintain a widely acknowledged reputation of being the more romantic, more loving, more compassionate of the Two biological sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 10:23 PM
1	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? Men: stop simping, especially financially to para social relationships. Do more of: actively help other men in forming relationships rather than it being a topic you have to brush under the rug otherwise you are “insecure and don’t get any” lmfaoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 11:18 PM
1	When a woman earns more, her man should be proud of her and support her If she is genuinely happy for me, and does not belittle me but instead genuinely loves me, it is not an issue. However in my experience w these relationships me and my feelings were traditionally belittled as a man… the she can burst into tears at any moment and not be judged for showing her feelings and if I were to dare to drop a single tear over anything it would be a whole thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:31 AM
1	Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rare This is where Mary gets her sight set on alimony/child support and if it’s a settlement set her sights on it being a damn good one. Mary should look to get some assets while she’s at it. I recognize this is just how the system is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:08 PM
1	What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you? Doesn’t help that it’s cruelty exposure in adolescence. It’s a lot easier to get rejected in mid 20s for a modern purple pill reason like not making 6 figures than it is in high school still figuring out the world and where all you can and can’t be loved	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 12:29 AM
2	Thankful for the university-grade education I’ve learnt in this space to enhance my dating life going forward, But I Need A Distraction and Way Out of Here I recently finished Marcus Aurelius Meditations, any recommendations from here ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 06:11 AM
2	Thankful for the university-grade education I’ve learnt in this space to enhance my dating life going forward, But I Need A Distraction and Way Out of Here Definitely realizing the information is becoming ad nauseam is the first step.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 05:20 AM
1	Thankful for the university-grade education I’ve learnt in this space to enhance my dating life going forward, But I Need A Distraction and Way Out of Here I have been working on language, film and books. I’m open to any hobby ideas besides dance which I have on the agenda	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 05:13 AM
1	cmv: Height double standards in tall men and short men. 6’2 and I can count on one hand the amount of women who have given me any slightly worthwhile interactions. No absolute net positive long term relationships. Height is necessary, not sufficient. As a tall person, hate the talk about it’s easy for tall people. Again, necessary and not sufficient	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 05:38 PM
1	It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them. You could of at least suggested some ideas for OP’s situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 12:58 PM
1	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? Thank for your response. 25M here and dating doesn’t come as organically to me as I’d like. I’m leaning towards I gotta build more confidence and what not to get it closer to where I want it to be. I just got a good degree, good job, and looks aren’t really an issue cuz i groom, im in the gym, I get lots of flirts, dating app matches, etc. it’s just a matter of things I think like experience, time to wealth build, realized confidence, etc. Thanks for your response, really encouraging going into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 05:23 PM
3	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? Why did your HU explode in 26-27? I’ve heard terms like “male advantage” and “female epiphany phase” where around that same age, women begin to accept more men they would of rejecting in this more selective early 20s	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 09:22 PM
1	What are your actual dealbreakers? Poor fitness, poor habits like tobacco smoking, poor morals, poor gratitude, poor mindfulness, poor vision of their own future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 06:33 PM
1	Is there a biological "attraction drought" going on in the United States right now, with obesity, sedentary lifestyles are poor diets? Factuals. Really hard to think clearly or be your optimal self if you’re starving yourself of exercise endorphins as well as your body is beginning to build up “visceral” fat or dangerous fat wedged in between your organ systems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 06:27 PM