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I personally wouldn't. I value my time too much. But this is exactly how my friend's friend relationship worked out. Muslim man and Buddhist woman meet and had a 'relationship'. She knew basically from the start explicitly that due to his religious background that they were never going to work out on paper (marry a Muslim woman and she wasn't going to convert). She still tried anyways. He basically used her just like in your example, but I don't think it's really all his fault. He was upfront ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:35 PM
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I'm American but my race (Asian) and the subsequent culture around shoes in the house has been in my entire life. I have a no shoes policy in the house period. I can tell when someone has walked past the shoe matt in my place with shoes on. I am also a huge no dog inside the house as well ( I get an apt/condo can be different) but I digress. It just irks me when people aren't clean level consistent across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:15 AM
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No. Completely agree. There were times where I was inside a woman's bedrooms and have been "this relationship is over after tonight" because it was so dirty/messy. As someone who is on the 'anal' side of being clean, I think having cleanliness should be aligned with both partners. I'd wager most of these 'clean' women here let their dog sleep with them in their bed or don't wash their dog or dog's paws every time they enter the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:38 PM
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The vast majority of men don't. I bet you pulled a random guy off the street he won't be able to show where his car's oil pan drain plug is located or what oil viscosity his car takes. You don't really need to rotate tires with modern tire technology anymore. "Technically" everyone not in the California should be running a full winter set and full summer set (we know almost no one does this anymore). I have had one too many tire debates with tire shop techs over rotation schedules and 4 vs 5 tir…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:55 PM
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Honestly, he actually did have pretty good psych stuff before the redpill sell out. I think he wouldn't get nearly as much hate if he could tie the 'redpill' to real psychology meta-analysis/studies, but that would cost him 90% of his viewership. At one point I'd considered seeing him when he was back at <$400/h (he's in CA I believe), but I thought then he still charged too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:29 PM
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If anything, they show what happens when preferences meet reality. No supermodel billionaire wife for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:30 PM
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When did you become blue Igor? Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:20 PM
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No shit relationships are individual and unequal, but institutions are not 'supposed' be equal either. Because life is unequal. Education for example, if it were truly a meritocracy, most kids wouldn't graduate high school and the vast majority of colleges would be Asian majority. But we can't have that. We need to 'uplift' the unsuccessful other races regardless of socioeconomic class/academic performance (at the cost of Asians btw) and have DEI. No. The best qualified should succeed, period. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:22 AM
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I don't mind and have stated in the past women should be more cutthroat (not just in dating, but life in general). It's amusingly jarring when you point it out how ironic it compares with woman's voting and political ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:55 PM
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Repeat after me. Women are bleeding heart liberals but when it comes to dating, they are rugged capitalists. Now I'm not socialist per se nor think there should be state-mandated girlfriends, but late-stage capitalism applies just as much to dating and relationships as it does to the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:48 PM
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I have had dogs/pets in the past (and plan to again). I do think you may need to clean daily depending on the breed, but that is a CHOICE made. Complaining that you are doing more work for a choice YOU made is ridiculous. If it's too much work, why did you take on the requirements/responsibilities of a dog (not saying you specifically)? Also, in my experience a lot of women just randomly, without any planning, adopt a dog/cat then complain about cleaning after it (you know you just signed up for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:14 PM
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It's too much work and too much time commitment. Something something, juice ain't worth the squeeze. Between marathon training, and other hobbies there isn't enough time/energy. I also just moved so unpacking, cleaning, small projects and calling contractors etc (thank god I don't need a GF's input/permission). Sure, if a hot girl (stranger or otherwise) randomly asked me out of the blue (assuming it wasn't a scam), I'd give it an honest effort. I'm American and trust, the women in my age bracke…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:04 PM
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I think in some cases it's an OCD-lite thing where they feel compelled to clean because things have to be a certain way for them to feel at ease. That and having a sense of routine and control. One of my coworkers dust her TV stand and shelves and vacuum her living room carpet daily. I think many women overstate the 'work' they do when it comes to cleaning. I'm an OCD asian and I don't even clean that much. All of those tasks are weekly things at best. There was a recent askmen thread where one …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:33 PM
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Define higher earning professional sectors and success. Give me your examples you have of career women dating 'down'. Besides law and healthcare, I haven't really seen women marry or date 'down' in socioeconomics. I also have another friend who's a real estate agent who's married to a mechanic, but I think they roughly make the same (her a tad more), and maybe a few other examples. But the vast majority of my white collar and tech/stem friends, the dude makes a standard deviation more than the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:47 PM
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From a practical sense, religion is surprisingly very dry if you try to read the Bible and understand any of the texts in any meaningful way. I always found myself falling asleep at mass or church when trying out church when I was younger. I just hate how vague and hypocritical it is (at least Christianity based religion). You can be an adulterous whore or murdering grapist but if you repent/confess you're forgiven? Nah. You're PoS that deserves the social and cultural scrutiny and should be sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:02 PM
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I have plenty of women friends... that I am not attracted to physically in any way and would never breach our friendship for a relationship no matter how close we are as friends. With that said, most of them know my lifestyle, how I look, mannerisms, humor, etc and have produced precisely zero setups with friends or friend of friends. Granted some of them do live or moved to the other side of the country and would setup me up if I moved. Another side anecdote - my ex climbing partners' ex who's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:16 PM
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I have kinda of an interesting parental story. Parents are divorced, but Mom 'remarried' in practice but no on paper. Both her and the fucked-up Step-dad have perished due to poor health outcomes. My Dad turned down his hot secretary he was dating after the divorce (she was the weird blonde woman that showed up all of a sudden, but I never met her personally) for a family citing my brother's and I were enough. Ironically, my mother wanted more kids just not with my Dad, and my Dad wanted more ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:19 PM
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Just to expand. A lot of push back in the comments from the pro-therapy camp, but as someone who went and tried a few therapists (both for grief/guilt and general counsel) I didn't gain much value. It did help after I watched a direct family member die in front of me, but this "CBT" is largely a sophisticated way of saying 'just rethink your approach bro". And no, it's not about finding the 'right' therapist. Maybe if there were more guy therapists, but I digress. They are not a coach nor a ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:27 PM
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I just want to say. Nice karma bro. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:03 PM
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I mean if you want to be condescending and irate that's fine. But just because something can be used to kill yourself doesn't make it stupid. Are cooking knifes stupid? Hammers? I guess power tools are too. Accidently killing yourself is not necessarily stupid. Accident's happen. Sure a bunch of guys kill themselves doing stupid risky things. Just because you enable more risky behaviors (for young men) doesn't mean it's stupid. The fact you think this is egregious. More young men should be takin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:58 AM
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Bro, what are you talking about? You asked her if she'd buy her underage kid a vehicle that is known for putting people in the ground and decided because she said no to that, she would also not allow her kid to get a job? I used myself as an example. Please explain how this is lashing out. Yes to the motorcycle/car; I do think it's stifling for underage kids not to be responsible for one. Where did she answer that about the kids job? I can only assume since she's so risk adverse and thinks those…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:38 AM
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A lot of people would say intentionally taking a risk is stupid.. Men take greater risks, and generally are rewarded if those risks pay out. No shit car insurance is higher for them driving young. I don't think it's stupid to give a 16 year/old a car/motorcycle nor having them pay/buy/own one themselves. Risky, absolutely, but seeing how you two think it's stupid proves my point on stunted sons through risk adverse parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:31 AM
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Right, so because it's 'masculine" it's not stupid? Dude, it's stupid. I gendered it cause men are mostly into those things, even at younger ages. Please tell me how it is stupid? Did you tell them that you wanted to get a job in order to buy a gun or a motorcycle? In which case you absolutely didn't want autonomy, you wanted a gun or a motorcycle. They wanted to ensure you weren't going to kill yourself. Honestly,not it bother you that much go and get some therapy. Project more. If I wanted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:52 PM
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Herein lies the problem. Those are markers of masculine leaning proclivities you called 'stupid'. Sure dangerous, but not stupid. We are not here to argue if dangerous is stupid. I wanted a job and autonomy, not to play fucking video games at a young age. Instead of being rewarded for showing ambition and drive, I was punished. Maybe I should have just lied on job applications without permission from parents to get job, but that's not the point here. Thanks for admitting that you rather neuter y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:38 PM
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Would you buy your (hypothetical son) a shotgun or a motorcycle if he asked for one (let's say he's 16-18)? Or at the very least, allow him to earn if it that's what he wanted. I've seen this far too much coddling in today's parenting. I wanted to work at 15/16 in order to buy a motorcycle. My parents said nah, but said playing games all day was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:09 PM
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I have met more than one woman IRL with a fucking spreadsheet of their sexual encounters. I, to my knowledge, don't think I am on a spreadsheet somewhere. But the whole 'are we dating the same man' fiasco may say otherwise. I don't have a fucking spreadsheet but if I did, I would 100% be upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:54 PM
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Ehh it's just jealousy of the dating privileges woman have in western societies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:39 PM
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No. Most of my close girl friends I would consider average to slightly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:02 PM
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Flip side. I have said this a few times before. When I have swiped IRL in real time with girl friends they literally gloss over guys they have passed their checklist: taller than her, doctor, same race, same age, not too far. Pass for some random fucking reason like he was at "this" restaurant. Like what? Even at a 1% match rate from 300 likes that's at least three VERY GOOD options and you don't want to meet any of them? It literally triggers me in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:16 PM
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And I thought strip clubs were scams. This is a regarded take. A NON-REFUNDABLE money deposit doesn't mean buy-in from the man. This just means he's a simp. Just because he was low effort with you is more of a reflection of your dumbass for putting up with it. There's already an app for paying to "look but can't use"; it's called OF. You weed out those who are too broke to date I guess we see here how you view relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:07 PM
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Several women have shown that when given the opportunity, they can equally rise to the occasion. You mean very few women CHOOSE to deal with the stress, competition, cutthroat, and overall adversity in order to rise to the occasion. The vast majority of women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:24 AM
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Upvoted for being honest. I wish you well in your romantic endeavors. Ignore the asinine Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:11 PM
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Insert "Where's my supermodel billionaire!?". On a more serious and personal note, I find it not just hot but extremely attractive if a women is more competent than me in the spaces I value. Unfortunately, this means she's usually a unicorn. For some context (technical terms incoming): I have climbed 5.12c and V7 outside. The only women who I have personally met who can climb harder consistently were PhD married women who were borderline dirtbags/vagabonds. I have also run a 1:35 half marathon a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:05 AM
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If you want any questions answered I can in DM or publicly. I was a regular for a while (3+ years).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:59 PM
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Oh hohoho, it's your lucky day! Shitty PPD drama. I'll give you a good example, which led me to leaving. Sit tight cause the details are messy. I won't doxx or say the mod name (but they are still a mod here in this sub FYI, and at least a handful of the reddit mods are mods in the discord server). They were emotionally cheating (on their finance) with another user (we'll call them B, and they were a pretty big regular) who doxed them, and was made public. B made it public they doxxed the mod an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:53 PM
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In my original OP I said either/or. I am happy to take my wife's name if it's more socially convenient or sounds cooler. Yes, I would change my last name to my wife's. I would not be okay with us hyphenating our kids' names with both of our last names.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:38 PM
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How many people do you know have hyphenated last names? I know only one off the top of my head. Everyone else either takes one or the other parent's last name and if they keep their maiden name, it's maybe the middle name. I'm no historical linguist or w/e but arbitrarily saying how you name your family does matter. Unless your parents are celebrities or famous people, keeping a consistent last name between everyone sounds like the most logical thing legally and socially. It's not hard to pronou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:52 PM
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Ex. John Doe marries Jane Smith Son is named David Doe-Smith. Instead of David Smith or David Doe. Does that make sense? It's ridiculous in pronunciation, addressing the person, and the family hierarchy. "Hello, you must be Mr. Doe-Smith's Father". Even just saying that out loud sounds dumb. You also have to explain to the kid some random reason he has this weird name that's not the same has their parents'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:32 PM
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Only if there weren't kids. I think it's ridiculous when kids have like 3 hyphenated names plus a middle name (at least in America). No, the kids EITHER take the Father's OR the Mother's, and as a family unit you should all share the same surname.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:01 PM
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I'm not claiming he was specifically a TRP success, but the validity of his blue pill success. I think general advice for self-improvement is blue pill, sure, but dedicated action and procedure to get dates/laid/relationship and seduction (much to which I know he glossed over) have RP elements (style etc) in it. I think he's retarded and asinine, but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:27 AM
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Where did I claim that? I claimed his approach used RP tactics throughout his approach which led to his success. He' didn't just 'change his profile bro' either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:31 PM
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Improving your appearance to be more attractive to members of the opposite sex is a concept that long predates the red pill. It's a mainstream view, which is by definition blue pill. I will concede "improve your looks" is a blue pill ideology, but systematic improvement to get laid/relationship etc. is not. Blue pill is just mainstream beliefs, and the mainstream believes that looks are very important. The last time I checked "big is beautiful" is still mainstream, and mainstream fat shaming isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:27 PM
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To burn time at work. And having been here a long time, I sympathize with a lot of the guys who aren't successful with women (especially the blackpilled guys). Since for some reason a large volume of the Blue pilled men give off a lot of "I'm married, get fucked incel RP" vibe, I feel drawn to argue the other(s) side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:40 PM
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The OP is asking about successful Blue pill stories (some in this thread that actually good examples). This guy deployed RP tactics under the guise of 'common sense', even tried PUA, and says it was his blue pill success story. That's what I have issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:26 PM
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Bahahahahahaha Jesus Christ red pill will try to take credit for the most basic common sense, it is unreal. ???. A blue pill story would have been "I have dated a few times, and met my wife at coffee shop/hobby/work etc." Instead, we get a huge rant about how you were unsuccessful, took actionable systematic steps to correct it. What's unreal is that you call your concerted, targeted, and systematic changes 'common sense' and a blue pill success story. Reeeee I was successful with women; look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:19 PM
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God you blue pillers can be insufferable at times. This is NOT 'just world fallacy' that you happily landed into your relationship happily ever after just doing your own thing (blue pill). You even admit to trying PUA. This is 'RP' in a sense you were unsuccessful naturally and had to strategically and systematically improve your chances till something works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:56 PM
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Can you explain how you did it? Did you ask for their number? What are these "many woman I know" examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:36 PM
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Do you always type lol trying to be pedantic and morally superior? Ah so main do complain about stuff. I bet none of you went to congress to actually do something about it, it's all online whining. There's millions of protests happening in the world, all of them full of men fighting for different laws. Men in protest give their life for different causes. Roe v Wade got revoked. So, it looks like men's vote did work (or at least conservative men). Not just whining 'reeeee'. Also please consider t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:03 PM
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"ok, what do you want society to do?" Many of them provide answers to this (i.g. mandatory paternity testing). Whether they are feasible or not is a different discussion. There's posts from men saying "don't listen to women's advice" This is correct. Especially with dating. But the media talks about incels, about people having less sex, it's not like the issue is ignored. Only because it pertains to women's issues or political agendas (young men vote right). what else is there to do? Plenty; sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:23 PM
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I knew asking you good faith question would be dumb. Men here generally complain incessantly about the dating zeitgeist and why they don't have dating succuss holistically. OPs comment stands correct. Men's complaints aren't taken seriously compared to women's, and it's ultimately up to them to change their situation themselves. We aren't talking about dumbass random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:41 PM
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Do you hear these complaints said to you in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:10 PM
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Turf. 2000m. Firm conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:01 PM
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This is the same pandering argument used against men's problems/issues. "Men have issues, but acktually woman most affected". It’s not like men have to be the benchmark for any sport or athletic endeavor. Yes, they are, because athletics is an umbrella term for physical sports. And men are physically stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:12 PM
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Single, will probably be dating again soon Full on Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:41 PM
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You gloss over the fact that you going on 100+ dates before you met your husband is not the equivalent of a man going on a 100+ dates. Sure it's work, but if most of my dates were 80% of what I was looking for or more, I wouldn't have problem with your post. Most men wouldn't either but have no choice but to filter AFTER they have been chosen regardless of their standards. Dating fatigue for women is NOT the same as dating fatigue for men. Beggers can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:40 PM
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Yes. But more so in committed relationships. I have been watching too much of James Sexton, but he said something along the lines of "the price of my solitude is your companionship" heavily implying that sex is an obligation in a marital contract. I actually agree and empathize with all the dead bedroomed husbands out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:13 PM
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My issue with your post is Scott Galloway. Remember he's also the same guy who publicly states or infers that more guys should be having drunken unprotected sex and complains about economically unviable men. He's insufferable and tone deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:10 PM
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Maybe you're right. I still don't understand why women lose their marbles if they get 80% of what their looking for in a partner when it's the exact opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:11 PM
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I have swiped IRL with many girl friends in real-time and they gloss over their 'ideal type' or at least what they say they want over 75% of the time for random quibbles like "he's an ER doctor instead of internal medicine doctor". He's your preferred profession, height, race, decently looking, within 10 miles AND for some random reason he doesn't pass? I get that more options make you pickier, but jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:41 PM
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Dota 2 sober for 4 years and counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:29 AM
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And the comments are hidden...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:14 PM
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I will need to see the brochure. I have 800 credit score, so I am not worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:05 PM
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This is basically the 'dream' maid sex-bot minus the waifu software. As you describe it, a complete robot? No. But if she was updated with waifu software, and as stated in the thread if she can sell the public image that she is a loving and caring wife and mother, yes. Again, why the fuck do women always leave out the looks department? Is she also a supermodel/centerfold or just some random becky?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:53 PM
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Isn't this how most military boot camps work? I forgot how the psychology works out, but it is in fact good, even beneficial, than the alternative (blue pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:46 AM
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Well said. Regarding the suicide rate, I did a deep dive because I couldn't believe gun deaths were greater than car/vehicle deaths in America in the last year. But low and behold, car/vehicle deaths have remained constant or slightly lower over the years, but the suicide rate by gun by men has skyrocketed which accounts for most of the gun deaths in recent years. Those news outlets left that little detail out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:40 PM
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A little off-topic but ULPT - if you have any guardsman/security duty experience as guy and want to know what Giga Chad experiences, become a prison guard at a woman's state/federal prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:10 PM
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What the hell does goldpill stand for? Have seen it mentioned in passing here (mainly flairs) or there, but always thought it was just some troll term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:41 PM
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Something something: women are bleeding heart liberals, but when it comes to dating, they are rugged capitalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:02 PM
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I have sorta personal tech example. Every single one of my computer science friends or friends I met who started their SWE journey in the early 2010's is a millionaire. But some of those guys have probably have lost a few years to stress and the startup grind. I do not think that is worth it today. Unless you're connected or extremely gifted at coding (I'm talking about like building a code parser from scratch), you will not be getting paid 200k+ by 25. The bluepill: go to college > grind > ??? …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:56 PM
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I am all for data driven taxonomy of the userbase. Unfortunately enforcing that is probably too draconian for the sub as a whole. Data is not verifiable, and I have gotten downvoted for trying to pry into personal experience/anecdotes for perspective. I for one, do not hide beyond hidden comments or alt accounts. There's a reason why half of these are just rage bait alts. I also have some beef with some of the mods and wouldn't trust the rule. This is the same in other subs I frequent. For examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:34 PM
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I know. I am being hyperbolic. But the loser suffers real wounds and still repeats the attempt at competition because 'reproduction'. Without getting into the weeds of ecology, natural selection or sociology OP's argument is dumb. There are plenty of valid reasons unsuccessful (mating) men to be angry with women, because women (in aggregate) still largely can partake in their biological imperative (by choice) if they want. This is not the case for men in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:09 PM
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I like animal comparison arguments. Do you also know that most mammalian species, the males kill each other for females, and the females don't have a say in the victor? And guess who has to reproduce with the dominant male, the females who have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:25 PM
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Marry someone who is like the best friend you also want to sleep with, who wants the same things you want out of life. Can you expand on this? I whole heartedly agree with you but have found myself at odds with this. I just find it untenable as I get older asking for a partner with even just one of these core identities to be asking a lot (climb 5.13 with me, run a sub 3h marathon with me, etc). I feel like we ask our partners to be EVERYTHING in a relationship in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:35 AM
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Off the top of my head: one didn't like our offer (70k+/year with good benefits), another wanted to finish their master's instead, and one kinda ghosted for no reason (lack of response to HR). These were all women with good resumes and interviewed well. Still decided not to move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:31 PM
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This has been shown in many studies. The vast majority of the most equitable, egalitarian, and socially liberal societies see a INCREASE in job gender disparity, not a decrease. Women overwhelmingly choose NOT to go into STEM or dangerous jobs when given the choice. I have literally worked in IT groups trying to hire more women. They decline when given the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:19 PM
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Cope and seethe salad tossercel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:10 PM
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Hey I'm a firm believer in death my snu snu and the muscle mommy agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:16 AM
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Tbh you give off masculine vibes, but still not crass enough to be a keyboard warrior guy. I honestly believe many more of the blue pillers are (the reverse) women larping as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:21 PM
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I am also going to ask since you didn't respond to u/Independent-Mail-227. What's your age? How many 'potential partners'? Is this successful OLD profile? Friend circle? I'm curious. I'm tired of 'ya it worked for me when I tried' without any context. And you hid your comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:07 PM
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I disagree. And I know hindsight is 20/20, but I remember vividly asking parents if I should switch majors (engineering to computer science) and they said it was a bad idea. I should have followed my gut, and if I had started working at as a SWE in early 2010s things would be vastly different today (even though I work in tech, just not private and not rich AF as my senior SWE/techbro friends).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:22 PM
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The biggest lesson it has taught me: no one, and I mean no one, not even my own mother, has my best interests in mind. That is completely and 100% up to me. Yes, I am happier because I don't gaslight myself into thinking things I want are bad for me. I go get what I want and find out if I want it or like it. Eg. I am finally giving up motorcycling after my second major accident (lucky to survive highway crash) without life altering injuries and only because rehabilitation/recovery is too much of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:46 PM
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Calls on robotics company specializing in haptic feedback. EZ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:08 PM
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I actually do think most hetero men would get tired of ONS/hookups with hot women if they could get a hookup in under an hour swiping on any random app or cold approach. The harsh reality though is that until you've experienced it, no man will ever believe that (me included). Just like how billionaires say money doesn't matter. Ya no shit, if I had more money than I could ever spend money doesn't fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:11 PM
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I've always wanted to go to a supermodel runway fashion/swimsuit show to experience it in person. It actually seems kinda cool. Too bad I'm not a rich and powerful/famous or a Gigachad male runway model. Hats off to the Gigachad who trolled one show by walking up and down in a trash bag before getting decked by security.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:01 PM
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Women can't take rejection, even in the slightest and don't directly approach (even in social-circle warm approach). Dating and sex are fun and exciting especially with chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:34 PM
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With maybe the exception of Tesla, I will bet my life savings, that every single one of those men have had their fill of sex (illegal or otherwise) and sexual access, and probably still do at their impotent ages. Just juiced by pharmacological drugs and hidden behind the scenes because money. I even remember Adam Levine's horrible scandal because he fucked up as a rich powerful guy by not being discrete. Most of these men fuck whoever, whenever because they have the money and power to do so. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:15 PM
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Even to this day. Men kill each (and themselves) other over pussy. And is at minimum a top 3 reasons why extremely high achieving/successful men exist at all. Barring literal food/water, you cannot numb millions of years of testosterone and evolution. It's extremely paramount in heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:34 PM
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I mean, if I wanted to improve the chances that ANYONE would date me, I could also use my freedom to ask out strangers the street or people who haven't shown me clear interest. Ok so we agree that approaching MORE improves your chances regardless of gender. Every relationship I've ever been in has instead involved me and the guy I like flirting a little, telling mutual friends we like each other, being told by said mutual friends that they like us back, and having an equal courtship where nobody…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:05 PM
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For me, this doesn't apply to gender norms specifically, but just in general. I think laws and rules should be MORE DRACONIAN and enforced VERY HARSHLY. Unfortunately, there's too much leeway in enforcement and even laws aren't applied equally to both genders. I don't give a fuck if women are biologically weaker in general, you either acknowledge that they are (and apply laws/culture/etc. around it) or you don't (which seems to be the prevailing zeitgeist). I hate this whole 'nuance' when it com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:00 PM
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Bullshit, women get actual skin treatments at a spa that don't come off. This has to be said again... when women 'looksmaxx' it's almost entirely beauty products and skincare. A woman is far better served eating correctly and actually fucking working out consistently to achieve a specific body fat percentage. Every fucking time this is either glossed over or left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:07 PM
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Yea but shitty lip filler, botox, retarded eyebrows, and botched nose and buccal fat removal jobs make you look 1000x worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:01 PM
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It's not even that they earn as much, or more than most men, it's that left to their own devices women, generally speaking, are perfectly content with subsisting on the bare minimum to survive. Funny you say this. In my experience it's almost the exact opposite. You sure you didn't replace women with men. There's a reason why the mattress + tv + pc/game console meme is a thing. Men can live very minimally compared to their female counterparts. Also, side note: pets - women spend 10X more on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:05 PM
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Yes, because the vast amount of vitriol towards men from women is 'acceptable' for lack of better term, while the reverse is not. And yes the social zeitgeist in Western media, education, and even the corporate world is the oh so omnipresent 'girl boss' and men are trash mentality. The most privileged class in the world, Western women, still seem to think men are not worth it and trash in aggregate, and even act on it in many cases. This is fine as so long as the guardrails of society are in pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:31 PM
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From individual to individual regardless of gender. Or are you just going to try to bait me and downvote me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:54 PM
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That the threat of violence is the ultimate arbiter of discourse, not the what's 'socially acceptable' Karentocracy we have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:44 PM
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Well fucking said. I've always said they better hope the apocalypse never happens because the ones who survive will change their tune immediately towards the surviving men regardless if they are good men or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:16 AM
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No, they struggle because in EVERY. FUCKING. MAINSTREAM MOVIE. women specifically the heroine, is not allowed to suffer or struggle organically. I don't even know her name but the woman in the Kill Bill movies is great heroine example and "girl boss" who's competent and triumphantly gets her revenge. But she also gets punched in the face multiple times, shot, kills a mother in front of her daughter, and is buried alive. She's a proper girl boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:26 PM
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Damn 2025 top 10% is $179,000 for men. Joever. Nice rebuttal she's delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:11 PM
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No shit a great 7/10 is better than a shitty 10/10. But in no world, does an amazing 3/10 beat a shitty 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:57 PM
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This is really an asinine comparison. So, I can have the perfect girlfriend/wife/woman but she won't fuck me? ???? Monogamous means sexually/romantically involved with one person. You cannot be in a monogamous relationship with someone who is asexual (not sexual) by literal definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:18 PM
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There's one thing about the military I find it quite interesting; it's the extreme polarity of it all. It's all or nothing. You either pay for men to go to war and bombs to blow up terriosts or you don't. I for one would either love we all draft young people equally and force conscription for a few years (many developed countries do this) or not at all and reduce spending completely. But we don't, and our entire miliary is basically a version of voluntary socialism (poor people moving up or gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:56 PM
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This may come off as a white worship, but I have a hard time identifying the opposite. I can't name a good indie/AAA game that wasn't built my majority white people. At least the ones I play. Granted Chinese/East Asian studios have been killing it lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:27 PM
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TFW the roach king himself mogs you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:07 PM
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TFW karma mogged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:58 PM
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Where as, like, my drug dealer and low wage worker friends are able to jump from relationship to relationship. Ehhhh. If I could go back in time and become a cocaine dealer, I would 10000% do it. The amount of tail AND QUALITY coke dealers got was unfathomable. I agree, drug dealer === sleeping with 9+/10 women on rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:36 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:33 PM
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"Paul the Petco Gerbil Cage Cleaner" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:01 PM
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Yes. Even in a healthy relationship, there's seduction. No one teaches seduction like real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:24 PM
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Question. Do you handle the majority of the discipline and/or disciplinary action?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:22 PM
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Yes, if a some rando millionaire centerfold model runs into me at the coffee shop and we get married, have beautiful kids, and a live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:56 PM
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Not to say I've given up completely. However, this is kind of one of the very few places (hopefully still even with reddit and the shit mods - I know some of them personally; censor a lot) you can say 'out loud' non-PC opinions without social ostracization. I love dunking on regards, oops wrong sub. I remember when a blue piller didn't know what a put was when he said relationships weren't like investing in stocks (they actually are quite similar but that's a different discussion). He's a dumbas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:02 PM
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women have the privilege of cognitive dissonance bc no one dares to correct them out of fear of being ostracized. Correction. "No one corrects women because everyone wants to fuck them" -Bill Burr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:12 PM
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Social media rage bait for sure. From personal experience? Here's what I have experienced professionally/economically at least: I've said this before but probably because of my social circle/professional circle: I don't know a single woman (well maybe my Aunt who's a lawyer for some rich guy) who makes +200k/year and/or works 80/h+ work weeks. I know more than two handful of men that do. I know plenty of women who make ~85k-110k but are far out-earned and out-worked by their male counterparts. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:18 PM
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Oh shit a fresh askmen post. That girl is getting beat down in askmen :kekw:
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:49 PM
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No. I will concede that "it's kinda of a selection" but it's not 'natural selection'. Healthy Gamer did review on her general sentiment, and I agree with him. It's fine to leave behind and hate on suffering sexless man en masse. But who holds a monopoly on physical violence? What happens when this male suffering zeitgeist reaches a breaking point? Don't be surprised when young men are dropping out of society because society says go fuck yourself to young men. I've said this before, young men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:25 PM
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They define it incorrectly in the same way women say men date 'hypergamous' in looks. No, they don't. That's not the definition. Now, would I date a supermodel billionaire? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:55 PM
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If you act like an asshole, you will sabotage your chances, and if you treat women well, that will increase your success. If you are not already attractive - you left that out conveniently. Behavior comes AFTER physical attraction/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:40 PM
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I can comment on this one a bit. I have completely stopped women chasing currently for a few reasons: 1) New job with an extra RTO day (3 days now) with a harsh commute (down the 405 in LA). 2) Decided since March to yolo dive into marathon training on my bucket list. Currently training 5 days/week at ~35/40 miles/week. I'm fucking cooked all the time and tired all the time. Goal is a sub 1:30 half this October and a sub 3:00 full for the LA. 3) Weekends are still dedicated to my first love: har…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:39 PM
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This made me realise I’m not the problem, all these porn addicted men are. You still went out with 50-60 of them. I'm sorry Prince Gigachad wasn't up to your expectations. You know if you really want kids without the man, you can just go to a sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:17 PM
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I think there's suppressed demand (low wages lol), which is why older richer man do it. I don't see any benefit either (unless it was fully legalized) at least in the USA. Granted, Eastern countries have huge red light districts (even though prostitution is illegal there: China, Korea, Japan - even more so in SEA). I think it's much greater than 3% of men of those countries, but for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:14 PM
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Yes, after my mother passed. It sorta helped with the coping? I actually went before her death 'just to be better bro' and that was a total waste of time and money. Men are better served through coaching or at the very least a male therapist. No, none of my "traumas" were really bad and, I have gotten over them. No therapy needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:50 PM
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Ehh. More of a pricing/economics issue. If full service was say $20 bucks I'm pretty sure you'd see a huge uptick in market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:29 PM
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You can absolutely have very close, deep, and meaningful relationships with the opposite gender AS LONG as there is no sexual attraction involved from either side. Those who say otherwise are either coping or capping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:56 PM
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Pottery is kinda lit. Bias - any chick who actually works on her car/bike/tools and knows the difference (keep getting triggered when a woman says she or her friend knows her way around tools but can't distinguish between a hex vs phillips vs flathead).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:31 PM
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A more right wing environment means more harsh enforcement. Yes, against women. Repealing labor laws will just drive down everyone's wages. Firms want to keep more money at the end of the day. But the bigger impact of repealing labor laws will be safety standards. That means work will be more grueling, lead to more injuries and deaths. And that mostly effects male dominated professions. Yes, men work the hardest labor jobs and will be more affected by 'safety labor law repeal'. But we're talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:23 PM
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At a very high level: No abortion > women forced to take care of a child (his) > evolutionarily this is him winning (could even vote to take away child support - this is already in the pipeline). Labor laws (from OP's charts) are self explanatory: women make less > more earning for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:59 PM
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I forgot which youtube video I saw. But women SHOULD care about young men's problems because they WILL vote for things that directly hurt women (taking away abortion, labor laws, etc.) and vote for their self interests. I am not advocating for socialized pussy, but there's a reason why men, especially younger men, are moving more and more right-auth (this is not even just limited to America either or a race thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:43 PM
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5-8. Approaching a 9+ even in a night club, you have to kill her ads and solo each of her mini-boss friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:50 PM
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Damn not looking good in this thread. I have commented before: He was a very hard worker, workaholic even. 80+/work weeks and even after the divorced brought us to HIS office rec room on the weekends while he worked. While I was a kid, I resented him for that but as an adult I understand. I thought he was a terrible Father, but that was mostly because of my Mom. After repairing our relationship, things have been great. Still get to ski with him, and he's in great health for his age. We have chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:34 PM
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Khanmaxxing bois stay winning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:52 PM
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I'm fucking drowning it. Why do all the girls in my life want me to adopt pussy. God dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:05 PM
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I just got back from visiting/traveling through rural Kentucky. As someone who lives in secular costal SoCal, the women there were surprisingly more attractive then I had assumed. Too bad there was a church every 5 blocks/intersections in all directions. Also speed bumps are called speed tables lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:48 PM
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Werewolf-vampire CEO billionaire surgeon duh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:12 AM
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Sick flair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:11 AM
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I honestly empathize with the brother. You cannot control people, let alone a woman. At least for me as a 'clean freak', I am way less clean when living with other people because you can never hold them to your cleanliness standards nor trust them to follow through. If someone is not as clean as you want them to be, do it yourself or leave them. The reason why men date slob girlfriends is obvious; I don't understand why women date slob men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:06 PM
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Lisan al Giab!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:25 PM
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Most guys aren't, but when most women say the put more effort into their appearance its almost exclusively style/makeup. Those have their merit, but it is not the limiting factor. I have told both, men and woman that the best thing to do above all else to be more physically attractive is body composition (body fat %/muscle %) and exercise. In this category, men put more effort. I have told countless 'fat/chubby' girl friends that if they just lifted a bit and tracked calories consistently their …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:10 PM
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Ladies sleeping on RAV4 gang
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:20 PM
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Is 5 Atreides? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:17 PM
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TFW mogged by a vampire-werewolf billionaire CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:49 PM
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Since you seem like you want some personal experience, I'll give you some: This goes without saying I loved my Mother, and for the most part had a good relationship with her till her death. But the fact that she divorced my Dad because he 'wasn't around or emotionally available' because he worked like 80+ work weeks was complete bullshit (but within her right). I recall many enjoyable family/childhood events immediate come to a halt or splintered (no more ski trips/boy scouts/camping and weird s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:41 PM
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You're talking to AI slop :kekw:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:51 PM
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This an Equinox or some random high-end hipstery gym? I'm starting to see a lot of those around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:00 PM
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I'd join Tea voluntarily if that was an option. Then what do you mean by this? Why would you join something you vehemently think is immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:54 PM
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Just to clarify, you would join the 'male' version of this even with the human right violation implications you stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:45 PM
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I don't think there are any 'publicly available' groups. But I do remember I was once part of a group text that shared nudes of women they've been with between the guys in the group. It was very eye opening. Tbh, the 'guy' version of the tea app would be more like a character select screen of a trading card game of the women with her 'stats', nudes, etc. It would be much much worse than this tea app.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:23 PM
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2 if you count the new coworker. Costco line is hit or miss. 0/2. Range is 0-5 a month depending on how I feel. Used to be dozens a week back in the PUA/party days. I'm tired now and have shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:46 AM
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One that kinda hits close to home, granted I was never an Eagle Scout. The Boy Scout's becoming 'Scouts of America' or whatever and allowing girls in, but boys cannot join the Girls Scout's. Basically, a very critical boy only space invaded by anti-male rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:38 PM
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and who is going to teach kids? who is going to take care of the elderly? we can't all be in STEM I mean programming was traditionally a woman's job. Where are all the women programmers now? Also if people really did care (society/the market), then traditional woman jobs would be paid more. But they aren't. Yea go stand a picket line and demand higher wages while I make bank from home. If you're implying that I want socialized pussy, then there's nothing really to discuss. The irony of women com…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:44 AM
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I am not complaining women make less in their chosen job fields. I am simply pointing out women do not go to where the money is made. Not my problem. Sucks to suck. I am pointing out your asanine argument of 'life ain't fair'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:53 PM
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Then why do women complain about the wage gap (by the way I think it does exist and there should be more women in male dominant fields) yet time and time again women choose not to go into STEM or higher paying hard jobs in aggregate? Childcare and teaching will never pay more than senior engineering. Life ain't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:14 PM
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I'm a white-collar millennial who spent my 20s living in major cities. And generally, you had two priorities: crush it at work and maintain an active social calendar. You went out multiple times a week, happy hours, brunch, house parties, events in the park--even if you were tired. People scheduled their weeks around it. You didn’t just “find” a partner while living your life passively—you built a life that made meeting people more likely. And sometimes it doesn't work out. I was just like you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:51 PM
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I have already said that by HIS definition and by most women's definition of approaching, they have. I think he's just trying to be politically correct about it. What is being implied when OP is asking if a woman has approached the average man he's asking: "How many times has a heterosexual woman asked you out directly?" (like a man would and is expected to) And we both know that is slim to none. Unless of course, it has happened to you 'in your anecdotal experience multiple times'. If you are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:03 PM
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Let's redefine this. Women do not 'approach' in a sense that they will say you're cute directly (and then offer their number with the intention of going out) or hooking up. I have only seen that behavior at festivals or extreme parties (think big frat parties). They give IoIs (indicators of interest), and, to them seem clear and an easy setup for the man to INITIATE. Examples include asking what book you're reading at the coffee shop, randomly sitting next you on an empty/sparse bus/train, askin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:06 PM
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Define 'extremely high libido'. Is this like sex multiple times a day, every day of the year? I am asking this cause every woman who as claimed this in my experience wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:45 PM
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This is a misnomer. That famous study of $75k/year is ~$115k/year today (assuming after taxes). By that logic, a person would need to make at least $150k+ in order to 'maximize' the happiness from earning more money. Until that point, yes money will make you happier (linearly).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:19 PM
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I'm not going to repeat this again. Him not being banned wasn't the problem, it was a specific mod, the mod team, and how they handled the situation which was abhorrent and pathetic. Half of those mods are parents and I am deeply concerned for their children. Go ask them directly why he wasn't banned and DM their response if you really want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:41 AM
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If you don't know why I left, then there's the problem. I am not going back to that shit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:32 AM
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As someone said, it's astrology for intellectuals. It's horribly inaccurate, and functions quite like an IQ testsin many ways (wrong and misleading). The big five is more representative and descriptive of behavior, at least in the psych literature. As to why the disc obsesses over it is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:14 AM
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MBTI is a shit measurement of psychological temperament. They are OBSESSED with it on the Discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:06 AM
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You are describing black pill "born into it or its joever". The just world fallacy and 'just be yourself bro' and you'll be successful is what I have issues with. Dating is extremely capitalistic for men, arguably worse. People (mostly women) would say it's not but then immediately enforce the capitalistic side on men. Where's the quote again...oh yes: "Women are bleeding heart liberals, but when it comes to dating they are rugged capitalists"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:32 PM
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This may be correct for your anecdotal case, but most couples are looks-matched (assortative mating). This either means you WERE attracted to him or he wasn't ugly enough for you not to reject him outright. I have never grown more attracted to a woman physically because of 'personality'. Her personality doesn't make her boobs bigger, if I happen to like her vibe. She's either attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:44 PM
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Because I will have sex with every hot woman who 'pumps and dumps' me, and it would never bother me. This is a fantasy. Even if I did somehow want this theoretical relationship more than the woman in question (this is a woman fantasy by the way), her dropping me for some other dude wouldn't be a problem cause some other 9/10 would come by and then fuck me. Men wouldn't have relationships if they could get sex consistently without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:44 PM
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You're basically insinuating that a supermodel would lead me on and sleep with me... without introducing me to her social circle. That sounds like a massive fucking W. All of the benefits with none of the downside. This theoretical doesn't work in reverse, because men want sex more (especially if she's more attractive than him), and women will never want more sex than men in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:52 PM
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Define happiness. Content, and relatively satisfied with life (socially, professionally, personally)? Yes, for the most part. It would be nice to have a consistent girlfriend, but the drawbacks are just too much. I could use so more money, but that's even easier than the girlfriend. I wouldn't mind a family, but that seems like a 'juice ain't worth the squeeze' issue as well. I may come off as crass, but it's because most dating discussions are argued in bad faith. ESPECIALLY here, and more so o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:13 AM
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Sers where Tf is my supermodel swimsuit centerfold
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:15 AM
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No because the majority immediately and awkwardly leave after I respond with the title of the book and if I would recommend it/books like it. If any of those who didn't scamper off like cowards, after 20 seconds of dialogue I'd probably be more empathetic. Women do not approach and cannot handle rejection in dating to the extent than men MUST endure. This is an abhorrent double standard that is grossly overlooked in the male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:14 AM
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Because every woman who says they have approached IRL does not explicitly say "I want to go out with you" or something along those lines. This is indeed cowardice. They indirectly approach. I have never had a woman do this to me but I have had plenty of women ask "what book I was reading" on the train or at the coffee shop. And no they didn't actually give a shit about the book I was reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:51 AM
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Go see all attractive and pretty girls and their boyfriends are borderline mid or ugly. This is patternly false since most couples are looks-matched (assortative mating).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:53 PM
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"dad bod" = jacked <15% BF
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:43 PM
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I repeat, and I repeat again. Where the fuck is my Supermodel Billionaire sugar momma. I'll sign the marriage/prenup document on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:26 PM
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Yes, I, unlike the retarded grifter RPers, welcome slutty women and love how they dress. I have not made a comment about a woman's skin exposure, unless it's a sunny day and she's not using sun protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:08 PM
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Because women CHOOSE at the end of the day. Are you being ignorant on purpose? Men, generally, take what they can get in dating and can't afford to choose. They only go on dates THAT WOMEN decide. Most men would date most women if given the opportunity, this is not the case in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:06 PM
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Is your problem with RP as a whole? Society (men and women) blames men for their problems. Yet there is basically no mention about how men are responsible for their own actions. Literally Jordan Peterson's entire MO, what his lectures and first book is all about. Why do you think he's so popular with young men? Women get a lot of flak from RP because they are ultimately the bottleneck in dating and unilaterally control the direction (if sex, dates, relationships happen) barring grape, SA, etc. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:44 PM
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Step up your meme game you meme spammers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:43 PM
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Off with her head! Sire!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:25 PM
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For someone who mentions commodities trading, not knowing what a put it is, is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:30 PM
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Puts on this guys marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:15 PM
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Did you just assume my bat's material?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:52 PM
3

Hierarchies exists whether you like it or not. Just because we are all 'equal in the eyes of human society' doesn't mean our lesser biological instincts/realities don't exist. E.G. women (females) ARE the primary child rearers because they LITERALLY give birth to them. There will always be a 'them' and a 'us'. We literally came from tribes that, surprise, kill and compete with other tribes for resources. Things aren't being made worse by grouping things, it's the deliberate disingenuous of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:48 PM
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Define 'success' with women. To be crass, I would identify it as having a soft harem of 8+/10 you sleep with on a semi reg rotation until you pick one you like for a LTR and/or have line of them when you leave your last relationship. Even just sleeping with 8+/10 or STR consistently would count. Most men (5-7/10) can easily get a LTR with a 3-5/10 woman if they tweak a few things (eg money/status/looks-style). This is not success by RP standards. If you say you have a friend anecdotal case of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:30 AM
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Yes they all date within their league. Assortative mating is real, if you want to date a 9-10/10 baddie seriously you gonna have to be one yourself or pay for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:50 PM
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Maybe I'm not associated with your socioeconomic class, but even my 'techbro' friends who don't make as much as you do fine. When money is no longer a problem, there are other glaring things that can easily be fixed via money (your own place, wardrobe, style/looks, lifestyle - travel specifically). That's why I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:35 PM
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Define 'very upper class'. Are we talking seven figs+/year? Your story is not making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:27 PM
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In order to address problems generally, you must describe them on a general high-level scale. Eg. Most Americans ARE fat (defined by BMI>24). Sure, there are exceptions, and you can argue all you want about BMI's validity, but the statement stands correct in the aggregate. Americans ARE fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:05 PM
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Ironically that's why the gender pay gap exists. Men choose higher paying/longer hour/dangerous jobs regardless of safety (also another reason why we die more).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:49 AM
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Wasn't my cup of tea, but she did reject my buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:49 AM
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Either fat single mom of three or giga glow up stacy. No inbetween IME
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:31 PM
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Millennials had social media - Myspace and Facebook and AIM/IRC (basically shitty discord text only). They were just as toxic then as they are now. As others said, dating advice is mostly down to luck. You better know how to drink/party (party game does work) before you're out of college. You may not like it but drunken college hookups >>>> modern dating/swiping. And no, the antiquated advice DOES work. Ask out every and any girl you're attracted to, or if you are too shy, just chat (in real lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:28 PM
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??? Most males (men) in the animal kingdom literally leave and let the mother take 100% responsibility for raising the offspring (or he's the sole protector of his harem and subsequent offspring). I'm going to reiterate an old comment: males kill each other for pussy, and it's winner take all. Society will not change millions of years of evolution. Women aren't the dominant sex and never will be (biological dimorphism is a thing). In society, they may be pulling ahead, but if society collapses g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:44 PM
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I ain't lying when I say where TF is my supermodel billionaire wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:56 PM
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I don't get why people don't understand this. Men (males) just like their animal/mammal counterparts literally kill each other for pussy and it's winner take all. Just like in the animal kingdom. Society cannot undo millions of years of testosterone and biological programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:46 PM
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Did you read his post? Why would he be here asking this question or preaching that there is 'another way'? Why don't you just ask him if he has. I'll bet you he hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:40 AM
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Ok OPs example: he is highly religious, and is presumably struggling at dating to find a wife (he's reglious). If he keeps going to the same Church every Sunday, goes to Devotion, is active in Bible study, etc. But still cannot meet someone. That's his problem, not Society's nor the Church's. He should be taking actionable advice to find a wife. He should be asking out every girl +/- his age range and be asking every older lady if they have a daughter who's looking for marriage (at his Church pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:09 AM
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Unironically, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:54 PM
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I wasn't necessarily implying that as long as he's attractive, he'll be fine. Nonetheless, you can't have a successful dating paradigm without change, which OP seems to be against (regardless of pill philosophy). I would give him more redish actionable advice, but he asked for BP advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:38 PM
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High level Solutions (societal): MORE third places with MIXED gender ratio/ages. YOU should date at work/through work friends. REVAMP marriage laws. Low level Solutions (personal): Now, if you are talking about getting your foot in the door (i.e. getting dates) that's a different question with a different set of answers. PUA does work (eventually) with some women, and EVERY man should at least know some seduction, but I digress. Assortative mating is true (barring stupid extremes). If you want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:55 PM
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"Fit" is doing a lot of heavy lifting here like always. OP also didn't mention age. If she was 5"4' ~110-120 and was like some random HR manager or nurse or whatever she would not have any trouble at 25 hell even 35 but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:03 AM
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He's a crypto shit coin shill!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:36 AM
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//shitposts in code const tableHelper = (relationshipStatus, singleWoman) => { if(singleWoman && relationshipStatus === singleAndLookingForRelationship){ setTableStatus(techBroMaxx); } } //Maxed out 401k every year //Pension (on top of 401k) //Good healthcare (spousal and dependents) //Extreme job safety (municipal government IT) //I can build the table legs (sorta, good with Ikea shit) //I can ropegun your proj outside (5.12+) minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:38 PM
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You tell em Protosscel!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:25 PM
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You're divorced. Please tell me your separation wasn't because of the sex, or at the very least you had a healthy/great sex life with the ex-wife and you separated for 'other' reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:47 PM
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I'm just gonna start meme posting my emojis like I did on the disc here. This is such an idiotic take from someone who doesn't think the divorce court system is systematically biased against men AT ALL stages. :kekw: :wall: :kekw: :wall: :kekw: :wall: :kekw: :wall: :kekw: :wall:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:07 PM
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Agreed. I am down for cutting it out... this means the sex quota for the week is raised and you better not be fucking tired again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:40 PM
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I've been saying this for years. Where TF is my Super model billionaire wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:36 AM
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I'm gonna post it a gain... "Women are bleeding heart liberals, but when it comes to dating they are rugged capitalists"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:20 PM
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You are going to rustle some feathers. The wage gap is false, there is a PARENTAL wage gap (between fathers and mothers). Women don't actually like being treated as equals (see men-only groups and how their dynamics change once a woman shows up, sports, etc). Dating is self-explanatory. I'm for abortion, sorta - but the State will never legalize financial abortion (mother wants to keep accident kid, father doesn't). I think feminism is fine, but it takes itself too seriously in the modern Wester…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:35 PM
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V1 in my gym. If you are looking for a climbing partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:08 PM
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The apps have gone through enshittification just like most tech. I remember the golden days of the early/mid 2010s when it was released. Even with the 'stigma' of OLD then the match rate, quality, and overall experience was insane compared to today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:00 PM
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Drizzle drizzle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:41 PM
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Possible does not mean probable nor recommended nor ideal. Again, geriatric pregnancy. I've seen miscarriages before, and the host of issues around ~35 age, hell even before. No, paying five figures for IVF - which isn't guaranteed by any means, does not count either (this is cope for people who wait to long, more specifically women). I'm not going to spam a wall of reasons why having a child post 35 is a good idea. The majority of women who are childless NOT by choice, are because they have wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:56 AM
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Yes, but I want 2+ kids and if you meet a woman at 30 (I'm 34), unless she get pregnant tomorrow and willing to bang them out, I don't want a geriatric pregnancy (literal medical term). Since you're using extremes (my usual target range is 25-30), I'd be like me dating a 37 y/o who wants kids. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:20 AM
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You ain't dad. No dad jokes allowed here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:14 AM
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This is reddit: Mina works in tech and is slim. She moggs all of these chicks on those two categories alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:02 PM
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No - but the ex-wife would be fucked cause the prenup stipulation would fuck her (yes this is legally enforceable), and it would be A VERY easy clause to enforce (100% paternity test). This would probably change the estate and inheritance though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:30 PM
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Because ultimately there's a much harsher fertility wall for women than there is for men. I have even been told by older women to marry a younger girl if I want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:25 AM
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I like your takes Mongo, but you should not be friends with any girl once it's established that she isn't interested in something more and you are - this never resolves well for either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:06 PM
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Life, which is a function of time and biology. BOTH of which are zero sum. If you argue otherwise you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:42 PM
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Women shouldn't be protected from being treated 'as equal' as men treat other men, just like the other poster said. If a woman makes a shitty decision, that's her fault, period. There shouldn't be a push for women in positions of power/technicality for equality's sake, or be shamed for not getting what they want in dating as men do, men SHOULD KEEP THEIR OWN SPACES if women have their own, etc. I'm not going to into into the big political thesis solutions as they have been discussed already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:37 PM
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I was going to write a dissertation, but a good example of this is "the burden of performance". In both personal and professional settings, a man MUST perform well if he's to excel in any meaningful way or be successful (competent, work smarter AND harder, date with purpose - well groomed/in shape, stable job, own place, get rejected A LOT, move the relationship in a direction). He must be ACTIVE AND RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ZEITGIEST or he will fail. A woman doesn't need to do that in most cases and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:32 PM
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Finance bro 100k/year at 24 sounds like he's not doing something right. 100k in NYC/LA/SF is NOT top 10%. Lets talk 200k+ (salary) not including bonuses/RSU/equity. 'very good physical shape' - what is this <15% body fat 200lbs+? Either skill issue or location issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:14 AM
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Yes, if she's hot enough :kekw:
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:44 AM
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Ironically the older I get the more 18-24 sounds immature and in the fling-only bucket. Tbh my first body standard ~< 24 bmi/~20 bf is like < 5% of US woman ages 25-35. I only complain when asked, because of dread/grief from family/friends/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:35 PM
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Ehh hanging around supermodels all the time won't get you into a relationship with one, sure a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:14 AM
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I have literally a handful of relatively close girl friends that I have told dead ass if they were a conventional 9/10 I would have asked them out. I have read your 'if she's not ugly' then 'people grow into relationships easily' disclaimer. It does not work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:07 AM
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You will hear from me on the disc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:04 AM
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Speak for yourself. I'll take a supermodel billionaire please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:03 PM
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Exact opposite. Attraction (physical) is not negotiable. People have grown on me; friends, in-laws, extended family, but if I was not initially physically attracted TO WARRANT A RELATIONSHIP with you for whatever reason no amount of 'emotionally growing together' will change that. This is like saying if a girl was a completely soul-mate perfect match, but she's obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:51 PM
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I haven't watched it. There's plenty of evidence he's a grifter and a phony. He's a shining example of why people laugh at RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:18 PM
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NEAR-INCEL WOLFPACK UNITEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:01 AM
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Let's be real here. Why did you entertain these friends' bids for emotional support? Were you attracted to them physically? I tend to ignore texts/calls when a friend is blasting WAY too much for my care level. Men and women can be friends. Just not if one or the other is attracted to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:01 PM
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Eh I have never met a woman who has had HIGHER libido than mine, and I would consider 3-5/week minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:57 PM
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God you're one of those types. When did I say it was 'wealth'? I said in order to make decent money (100k in this case) as a teacher, you need to have Master's and work in the right school district. 100k is still way above the American median salary, let alone for median teacher salaries. Get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:13 PM
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Please don't be disingenuous. MOST teachers don't make north of ~100k USD in California. -You have a Masters degree -Work in a well-off school district My aunt makes 100k for the same reason. My friend who works at a random no-name district public school makes 55k.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:29 PM
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No. I have plenty of friends that are women. You can be friends with women.... That you are not attracted too (physically or otherwise), and neither is she.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:06 PM
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I'm getting downvoted, but yes. You should say you enjoy 'indoor bouldering' or make it clear that your climbing is casual. Edit: usually it's not the gear that holds people back from the outside. I will take anyone who has a harness/shoes, since I have everything else (rack, pads, etc). But they never stick to it, and eventually drop off. I had a few friends admit they only like 'indoor bouldering' and not outdoor climbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:50 PM
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Let's be real. The percentage of women play Dota 2 or Starcraft 2 is very very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:16 PM
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Just like what u/wtknight said, this is a hierarchy thing. I forgot where I read/saw this: but this is exactly how men define respect: acknowledgement of competent excellence. Whereas most women would define it as general decency and courtesy. Respect is earned and not given. I can give a very personal example: when a women tells me she's into 'climbing' I immediately assume she's a casual indoor boulder. As someone who climbs technical outside routes and disciplines (sport, trad, solo), I'm goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:09 PM
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Very well said. Any guy with a modicum of experience of knowing a girl is into them will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:12 PM
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You said I wasn't ugly auntie!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:48 PM
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Based pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:38 AM
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I forgot the actual quote but it went something along the lines of this: "A romantic relationship is not transactional; a sexual relationship is. When most people reference a romantic relationship, it is usually an euphemism for a sexual relationship". A romantic relationship is almost always transactional in the early stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:29 PM
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Well then money wasn't the problem with you. Do you want to marry a 'hotter' girl? And start a family? You're at the point when golddigger/girlfriend start to blur. Also you're ex-redpill. Literally go buy a supermodel. Jesus Christ you come off as insufferable and miserable. Doctors also have notoriously shitty dating lives if you didn't account for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:31 AM
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It is undefeated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:58 AM
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Because it hasn't been proven to work. Not to get on the confirmation bias train but, Destiny is a clear example of why it doesn't work. I don't know a single person/friend who's in poly situation that is content.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:48 PM
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Holy shit this is a goldmine. Good ammo for them nerds on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:46 PM
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I'm gonna correct you on your stupid definitions: Average height or tall This is 5'9" in the US. Has a social circle of friends they see on weekends and friends they can speak to if needed This is would imply more than one close friend. 2+ at least. Average man has ~1 close friend. Does stuff with said friends like going on vacation together or going the beach and has pictures of themselves doing stuff on Facebook/Instagram (going to Ibiza with the bros etc) This is your only normal take Has a j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:27 PM
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Preach Auntie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:01 AM
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~110k salary big city. I could probably afford one child, if the mom/wife did everything else. Two if she made as much or more as me. But it would be stretching it. Not enough for 3-4.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:42 AM
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If you have experience and know what you're doing, no. Mid to Junior level job market is horrendous. However, if you're a Senior or Staff engineer or higher, the market is fine. A friend's company went under and he's now a Principal at a new company. Another left a company in early 2022 and is now happy at his new Senior/Staff position. No complaints from my Senior SWE friends (big west coastal city).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:38 AM
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Because women CHOOSE not to be in STEM when given the choice/opportunity. More news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:02 PM
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"People lie to their therapist, they don't lie to their divorce lawyer" -James Sexton
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:54 PM
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I'm glad you're healing and in a better place. With that being said, you've literally explained what it takes, how it works, and confirmed OPs claim that manipulation and lying through omission or commission is a sure way to bedding multiple women. I also like how you say 'you're not boring' but are a compulsive liar. People who aren't boring don't need to lie about it. Sure being 'boring' about your interests/hobbies may not get you laid, but nonetheless tangible results (irrespective of how it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:55 PM
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ahahahahah I'm choking on my Christmas dinner stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:29 AM
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Is she a billionaire?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:44 AM
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Seems about right. Source: was a data analyst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:19 PM
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Regarding therapy, and as someone who's been to therapy; it's fucking worthless. Talking about problems doesn't solve them. All of those issues you've stated are solved by well, doing them facing them head-on. Also my new favorite quote: "People lie to their therapist, they don't lie to their divorce lawyer" - James Sexton
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:01 AM
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This gets abused so much. When a woman says, she was 'friends' first or met as 'friends' she really means it was that they were friends on a very shallow level before becoming a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:00 PM
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gotta specify height in the div
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:02 PM
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It's not matches/dates that's the problem, but the QUALITY of matches/dates. A good middle-aged friend put it well: 'you can't afford your type' was good way she put it. Granted personally I swipe like woman, but I digress. Whether it's traveling more or having more disposable income. Men at those income levels can just command more. Whether it's attention, higher quality social circles, or quality of life changes money is almost always the bottom line; bigger house/condo, better car, able to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:05 PM
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It matters a bit. Making 10M/year as 3/4 probably won't get you anywhere past a prostitute/gold digger. But if you're making 300k-1M/year as a 6/7, oh you bet you'd be surprised at the boost it makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:31 AM
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I'm going to disagree with you here. As the MEDIAN American male income is ~$50k depending on what reference you ask. 500k is a ten fold increase. And my friends in the 250k-500k range DON'T struggle with getting women regardless of their looks (they aren't ripped nor gigaugly). I.E. It does make a difference. If my salary 4x or 10x overnight, most my dating plights would be improved drastically. All of their partners make substantially less then they do. e.g. 350k SWE with part-time costumer (r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:25 AM
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Based husbando
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:03 AM
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"For every hot girl, there's a guy tired of fucking her"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:18 PM
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Men can somewhat circumvent this by gigastatusmaxxing or moneybagsmaxxing. Women have no choice but to become Gigastacy herself. KEK
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:39 PM
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I like to call them the sweet sweet sugar walls!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:21 PM
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JBW strikes again!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:17 PM
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I always give this advice regardless of how bad it comes off: Lose weight/body fat % and become fit. Prospects will come to you in greater VALUE and QUANTITNY. Hit the gym, do some hit, yoga or w/e. The rest is bullshit behind this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:28 AM
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You know who this is botoxmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:02 AM
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Auntieeeee it's me your nephew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:39 PM
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We talking filtered tap or well water?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:20 AM
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I love the name. Holy shit. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:20 AM
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You can still determine general body fat from a face: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4ul7i97_bE&ab_channel=QOVESStudio
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:32 PM
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I'm going to say this for the 6969th time. A BMI > 24. Balk at me all you want about how it's not a good measurement of individual 'fatness'. It's the literal medical definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:28 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:27 PM
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"Women are bleeding heart liberals, but when it comes to dating they are rugged capitalists"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:13 PM
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I love it when idiot people pull dumb stats out like that. Literally makes the other side of the argument 10x easier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:57 PM
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ALFALFA VS BETAMAXX VHS I'm using this now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:14 PM
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Damn ran OP over. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:43 PM
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Men vet for inclusion, women vet for exclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:28 AM
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The Wall... IS UNDEFEDATED
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:22 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:53 AM
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Do they provide 401k match and paid vacations?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:38 AM
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chicks dick squids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:53 AM
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I don't get why, ironically the RP haters come out in droves on this one. RP is for getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:17 PM
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Dick hardness is not necessarily correlated with how attracted I am to you or quality of the sex. IT will fluctuate during sex, but with be the hardest before climax. Some women can tell and it's kind of hot honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:37 AM
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I have few tips. Thrust back (if you sense he's slowing down or getting tired), take charge-pin him against the wall/bed, lick him in other places (besides his junk), INITIATE. Obviously ask what he likes; I've also found some girls have weirds kissing techniques, maybe work on your face sucking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:34 AM
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Even among conventional western beauty standards there is a lot of variation. There are a also a lot of people who personally meet western beauty standards but aren't attracted to a lot of conventional beauty standards. Sure. Variation exists. But most couples are 'looks matched' even according to studies. Again, beauty and physical looks are objectively measurable and documented. If you want me to be pedantic: if you're over 24 BMI you're overweight/fat (regardless of lifestyle build bodybuilde…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:31 PM
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Just because someone says you are something doesn't mean you are; I've been told the same things. It sets a false precedent and is disingenuous. I know where I stand objectively (by conventional western beauty standards). It doesn't mean I can't change that or it defines me (however you interpret that), but it does give me a framework/basis/heuristic/philosophy on how to live life. Sure an obese person can be 'beautiful', but most people don't think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:54 PM
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Just because it's rude or disrespectful doesn't mean it's not correct. Everything is hierarchal whether you like it or not. Attractiveness, albeit subjective in some aspects, IS OBJECTIVELY MEASURABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:01 PM
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Do not recommend on the rusted Chevy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:09 AM
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I still air on the side of 'you can't be friends if one of you is attracted to the other sexually'. I almost thought you were the woman. Honestly, it sounds like she was playing 'the long game', and it didn't work out. Imagine if the sexes were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:05 AM
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Yes. Seriously though, a woman's libido and subsequent attraction is based on how she feels/likes your actions/personality towards her. It also gives her an easy route for plausible deniability and can choose the 'best' man based on reaction/emotion to him. For example, it can be very low/nonexistent at baseline until the right 'person' comes along. Then it can be through the roof (apparently). Personally, I have never found a girl's libido to skyrocket 'once in a relationship', but maybe I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:18 PM
6

kek
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:09 PM
12

Once I read OP was on BPD sub, kinda of checked out. Not acknowledging the post/comment history is hilarious. Surprised no one has called her out yet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:31 PM
18

Lastly, I truly believe dating apps have eliminated social skills almost entirely. I’m a 24-year-old relatively attractive woman who exercises regularly (grew up an athlete) and still have not been approached or asked out on a date by a man in 8 months At all? Or a man you deem attractive? Big distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:34 PM
-1

No. But I'm 32, almost 33. Upper-limit is +1/2 years. But I want multiple kids (2+), which is a difficult discussion for 30+ women. You didn't specify how many. 2+? I assume if you even get there. I know A LOT of women who stopped at one or had a miscarriage in their 30s (which is usually a death sentence for trying again or for more kids due to obvious reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:49 PM
2

This one rustles my jimmeys, but is an easy one. My best friends (usually men), do and act like men. We share hobbies and general life values regarding relationships. However, I don't bake a cake for my best friend or suck his dick. He's not going to bear my children and discuss how to raise them. We have vastly different opinions on how to raise kids or run households. This doesn't even touch on the topic of marriage, and marriage/relationship obligations/commitments. Also, as others pointed ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:06 PM
0

No, but I preface this as RP; are you fit in good shape? Do you have your shit together? Are you vetting for men who only want family/kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:40 PM
1

They are still not mutually exclusive. A relationship (romantic one) requires sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:17 AM
1

Cope and seethe xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:15 AM
0

Ehh. I disagree. Children are a binary event. You either 100% in or not. Good example why the divorce rate is sky high in Western countries. Plenty of people are shitty parents and shouldn't be ones. But hey, it's their choice/ freedom to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:51 AM
1

That's hilarious considering all the controversy if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:15 AM
1

Just pointing it out. Most people don't even know what HENRY stands for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:50 PM
1

Damn Zoomer!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:36 PM
1

31, single. Climbing gym, outside climbing weekly (mixed groups) 6+ times/month. Granted climbing is not necessarily social for me, as it is my main leisure/hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:35 PM
1

This was over a decade ago, but I took the class thinking it would give me insights into relationships, gender/dating dynamics, and delve deep into the literature regarding such topics. Maybe expectations were too high, but I was also expecting a deeper dive and critique of Myers-Briggs and possible alternatives. I don't recall if the Big 5 were as widely accepted as it is today. I was also very curious about the numbers and statistics regarding such topics. What I remembered was basically a 101…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:17 PM
1

HENRY flair!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:49 PM
1

I took a relationship psychology class in college. My big mistake was I took a relationship psychology class in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:47 PM
14

Because that's after he's passed the looks threshold lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:57 AM
2

No, I'm stacysexual apparently. And I'm not rich/hot enough for stacy yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:19 PM
7

Agreed this feels like a coping post for OPs friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:05 PM
2

There is nuance in some things, but ultimately how you live your life and the relationships that define it is constrained to a zero-sum game. How you live life is grey, but the rules that dictate it are black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:56 PM
0

Most men, including myself, can't afford consistent prostitute/hookers let alone higher class agencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:42 AM
8

You're missing mine. Just because there are men who 'made' it (<10%). Doesn't mean society at large is stifling young men, and men in general. Mainstream media talking about how 'men not eligble enough or being outcompeted by women' thus fewer marriagable men. Don't get me started on the education system in your post. Medicating young boys for being young rowdy and brash and not performing like girls on standardized tests is retarded. Compare Mother's day to Father's day. What about sports? WNBA…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:56 PM
18

In your TLDR, you're falling for the Apex fallacy. Most men hold positions of power/wealth because at the extremes men outcompete women in the workforce and are willing to work LONGER health-compromising hours in jobs that PAY MORE for competition, 'the sake of it', what it can buy, etc. I don't know a single woman who works 80+ hours a week and makes more than 200k+/year. I know more than two handfuls of guys that do. Also, women DO get paid more in many positions; e.g. famous Google engineer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:30 PM
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A group's dynamic always changes slightly when a new person enters, but there doesn't need to be wild changes when that person happens to be female. Hard disagree. All men groups always change into shitshow when a girl shows up, either because some men white knight, some want to be 'more' inclusive for the sake of the woman, and there's always a break in the male group identity (walking on egg shells; can't talk shit, dick measuring contest in front of the worman, backstabbing for pussy, stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:49 AM
1

You should ask women who do. Most women aren't self confident enough, or else they'd answer questions bluntly and upfront. You do what works. If negging, dread game, or [insert tactic] is insecurity, then why do men who are already taken have MORE interest from women than when single? How is this any different than women keeping orbiters, branching, selling sex, using men for resources? 'Taking care of yourself' is a huge cope. Actionable lists, goals, and objectives are essential if not require…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:28 AM
6

You have it wrong. TRP tries to reduce a woman's psychological value/power over a man. We are literally clouded by it because of testosterone; simping, orbiting, incel raging, etc. Imagine if you could reduce that power and/or channel it towards other productive means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:34 PM
4

Not to sound offputting, but you're probably not hot enough on OLD. My effort ranges from 'meh even if I do have sex' to 'jesus this damn unicron matched with me? wait a fucking bot'. Also, women ghost 95%+ time and/or push OF/services lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:17 PM
5

And may I ask why she is your ex then? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:39 PM
73

lying by omission is wrong I think this is a big one. Most women won't tell you this or claim to know their body count. I've met more than one woman with a spreadsheet. Would have loved to see those spreadsheets rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:27 PM
1

:kekw:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:53 AM
5

Testosterone is an immunosuppressant. Thus, any guy with a hard-jaw line, veiny/vascular arms/hands, more facial/body hair is seen as more attractive to women since it signals a man's genetics (body) is able to handle higher levels of natural testosterone. It is also primarily linked to aggressive/risky behavior, libido, disagreeableness, etc. Many people overlook this. Testosterone is a feature not a bug; it also drops precipitously after a man has a kid, and roughly 30-35 (if he's not active).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:14 PM
1

This has been discussed many times. In a heterosexual relationship, it's conditional love regardless. Back to the dog example. Your dog is the only being that will 100% love you (obviously barring beating it every day). I even hesitate to say Mother because they have conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:24 PM
4

Would be interesting the to the data/numbers on the successful ones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:10 PM
2

Puts on Marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:12 PM
28

I actually agree as a RP guy. But you can't go back in time. As others have pointed out; the cultural, societal, and economic gates of yesterday are over. A average regular man (American), does not get to cash his hard work, be a good man coin for a wife, kids, and white picket fence certificate generally speaking. It doesn't really even work in the reverse. So what do you do? 'Just be a better human being? at the cost of basic needs? Or just grind hopelessly hoping for some luck?' That's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:48 AM
6

Puts on your cardboard box house
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:26 AM
5

I always tell people this. If I knew what I knew now, the amount trains I'd be running in my teens would be unfathomable. And maybe too many unwanted kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:22 AM
4

Was gonna agree until you said 'maintained'. Maintenance begets an expectation. If I keep maintaining X, then Y should be expected ad infinitum. Besides extenuating circumstances, sex should be expected consistently throughout the relationship (LTR in this case). Sure it may 'ebb and flow', but if someone isn't getting a minimal threshold, then it's done. Sex should be expected, especially in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:37 PM
1

You must have agency (as man) in dating. Time AND biology are zero sum. If you want to be successful, you must make a plan, strategize, and commit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:59 PM
3

MY DAD'S NOT A PHONE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:21 AM
0

I generally agree with you Gravel, but LOOKS are a requirement for an LTR as well. Sexual attraction is a requisite. You cannot solely rely on a personality match (humor, opinions, etc). I’ve dated women both fatter than men and women thinner than me. The traits we had in common weren’t related to body shape at all, we liked each other’s company. I have too, and guess what? It ended because I told them the physical attraction wasn't met/enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:48 PM
2

Different, but not mutually exclusive******
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:39 PM
1

Worse: combination of Reddit as whole getting more popular, PPD/RP topics becoming more mainstream, more memes less discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:28 PM
3

Was lookin for this. Most male mammals literally fight to the death for mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:53 AM
2

Are the outlandish crude extreme examples actually true? Care to name some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:46 AM
10

That's a lot of pull requests
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:44 AM
1

Not necessarily. They closed their public API years ago. If the total RAW data was available, I'd wager there would be some interesting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:03 PM
1

touche
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:45 PM
1

But I like IKEA furniture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:43 PM
1

oh lol. That makes more sense. I always tell folks any guy making 200k+ (legit) before 25 is killing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:15 PM
4

I can corroborate. I'm a little older, and make much less than u/Gigamon2014. But based of his comment, he's a young (<25) guy who's circle seems to be 7+/10 SMV guys who are making 200k+ USD in a flexible non-rigid career (tech). These factors alone, statistically put him and his cohort in the top 5%, maybe even top 1-2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:04 PM
1

She asked for advice. I gave her the most pragmatic. Sure, if she's a supermodel basement dweller that won't do her any good. But the point still stands. Looks >>> everything else, first and foremost when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:32 AM
2

I know lol. But generally sugar daddy/mama = older individual with money with a younger/hotter individual at least how I understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:30 PM
3

Wait. I thought Sugar Mamas were like Sugar Daddys but the opposite. Rich old lady with a boy toy she pays for? Unless OP is loaded...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:56 PM
2

Imo literally looks max. No lie, get to fitness model. Yogamaxx, and cardiomaxx. Literally will gain you more attention than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:52 PM
-1

Preach brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:02 AM
1

Flair checks out. But I'd prefer the term stool. It's much better sounding: When your poop stool is not regular, it comes out sort of in pieces or looks frayed. When your shit stool is together and solid, it signifies a healthy poop digestive system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:11 PM
0

Agreed. Men compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:45 AM
3

You know goats. gonna agree with you on this one. dating is horseshit most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:07 AM
2

Do you know how much crap you have crawl through in order to get sex as a man? It's literally an achievement... This is not the case for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:31 AM
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Well, I stick to science, and you know what science is says: CDC: 5'3 170lbs. BoLS: $47,000 Acceptable/Minimum: BMI <25 (unless she's a bodybuilder) Earnings minimum: poverty line (~$20k?) For reference (me): 5'8' 155lbs ~100k
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:47 PM
2

SUE BAE IS BEST BAE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:48 AM
3

Nope. All my closest 'girl' friends are not conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:04 AM
2

And I think they are. I don't know ANY women who unequivocally say they don't do casual sex while still having casual sex. I guess this is where we have different experiences. EDIT: just realized I didn't respond to your first point. A guy will usually reveal at least one deal-breaker for a relationship within an hour of knowing him. If I've already ruled him out, why would I continue to vet him the same way? Relationships required sexual attraction (not that anyone is entitled to it but that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:03 AM
1

Disagree. You can apply a general standard across a population and generate a heuristic that way. That's like saying I'll treat every person differently based on how arbitrarily I feel about them...which is conversely how women treat relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:18 AM
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Shouldn't they? At least initially. Why wouldn't you? I don't think that. I think women should just be consistent in what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:11 AM
1

Initially. Yes. That's my point. I am a firm believer of casual/FWB > relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:06 AM
1

Not sure what you're getting at but: Sleeping with person 1 who met a specific threshold/standard is acceptable - pretty straightforward. NOT sleeping with person 2 who met the SAME said threshold/standard because [arbitrary] is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:37 PM
2

I think the broader point is you should consider treating people equally (regardless of [insert bias/preference/etc]). Consistent integrity (dating or otherwise) is well... consistent. Guys get furious when standards are bent and/or thrown out the door for [insert arbitrary circumstance].
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:09 PM
1

I have actually made some gasp IRL friends from here. Also, people aren't really neckbeards or shit like that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:55 PM
12

Don't be a bad person. Be nice to girls. Get a good job, and education. You'll find someone after that. ???? Happily ever after relationship/family!!! Some of the worst shit ever from family.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:14 PM
3

Let me put it in man binary for you: attraction == hot enough ? will fuck : not fuck attraction == hot enough to fuck for life/commitment ? delayed fuck : will fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:27 PM
3

Agreed. I wholeheartedly subscribe to Mr. 'right now' is Mr. 'right'. If Mr. 'right now' != Mr. 'right', then turnabout is fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:24 PM
3

32 Define 'well dressed' and good 'social skills'. If you mean a sense of style and not a loner creep, then yes I know how to dress well and have a few social circles. The only STEM guy I know who went from single -> relationship with a women I would consider very attractive is 6'5'. Also define 'well with women'. Sure I know some who have GFs/wives, but they were already paired before the degree(s)/job. Again flashing my M.S. STEM Degree Tm* ain't opening any doors romantically. If anything, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:36 AM
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AHAHAHAHAHAHA Not once has me mentioning 'I have a M.S. in STEM field' = sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:26 PM
1

some men claim that is no substitute for sex Generally, this is true if you're a guy who's had a decent amount of sex with many women 10+ in my opinion. Even a fleshlight or vibrating fancy toy with good lube is not the same as the real thing. I generally find it still strong at 30+, and prefer roughly 1x day - 1x every 2-3 days. Anything less than once a week, is grounds for questioning my partner on why they're not in the mood or turn me down. This may sound like a tough threshold too meet, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:16 AM
1

I love it when Tinder and Bumble start thinking you're homosexual since you swipe left too much as a hetero guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:15 AM
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I'm not saying it's shallow. I'm saying it should be priority one, obviously overdoing it can be a waste of your energy, but a heterosexual man should first: 1) get to a healthy BMI/BF% and to whatever degree he wants to be fit THEN 2) work on his social skills. I doesn't work in reverse, no matter how many people try to rationalize personality over physical looks. I don't. I've tried, and it doesn't work. But even women that have 'grown on me', I would never consider a relationship if they didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:18 AM
27

This has always been crux the problem: if you can't get your foot in the door... nothing else matters. You need to surpass the required activation energy FIRST.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:46 AM
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That's kinda of the point - deincentivize shitty fucked up behavior. But I do agree with you - it'd be too difficult to logistically/politically implement. Even though I think DNA Paternity tests should just be standard practice and included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:14 AM
3

I wonder how many people understand the word boolean here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:58 AM
1

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:27 AM
17

IT GUYS RISE UP! Systems Analyst at local municipality. All the women in my division are all married, older, and/or have kids. My team and group? Zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:26 AM
0

Man I saw it here somewhere but forgot the OP: "Women are bleeding heart liberals, but when it comes to dating, they are rugged capitalists"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:17 PM
1

Yes. They are my friends. No - any girl 'attractive'(hot) enough I either ask out or were not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:15 PM
2

I didn't want to breed necessarily, but the money. They pay well depending on genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:56 AM
3

I've tried to lol. You think dating is bad? Sperm banks literally want PhD 6ft+ 100k+ on many of their applications. ANY slight genetic defect will get you denied. eg My brother is autistic so I was denied at tow separate locations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:57 AM
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She's passed. I loved her, but disagreed with her hard on a lot of life philosophies. Ironically she never met any girl I slept with and thought I was celibate. My biggest issue with her is actually the 'step Dad' that's still around but that's a different conversation. Side note: my Grandma who's still alive actually agrees with me on a lot and that quality women are rare these days but still griefs me about no GF every visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:55 AM
18

Aside from competition, paternity certainty is not a guarantee in men as it is in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:17 AM
2

Rip your flair man F
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:13 AM
2

Is it more this Daily chat is getting more active...? Almost wants me to chat like I do in other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:59 AM
1

I like women who are traditional climbers. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:48 AM
6

Climbing partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:51 AM
3

Unfortunately, not to sound like a stemlord nerd, but Tinder removed the ability to connect to their API openly legally so you cannot download their data (you can't even connect to the other apps). This is like comparing a DIY excel of anecdotal evidence to what actually happens in the source code on the backend. Not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:09 AM
2

Yes, if she the Swimsuit supermodel billionaire I dream of
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:40 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:15 PM
4

Not to sound pedantic. But life (specifically in this case TIME), as I've said about biology, is a zero sum game. Those shitty hours invested by a man to get a date, leading to a crappy date could be spend elsewhere (money or hobbies) and vice versa. A woman who wasted her time investing in the wrong guy for a few years is now set back for a children/family, if at all. Your last quote I think a lot of people would enjoy dating/their relationships with others more if they stopped expecting so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:58 AM
3

I actually I thought that a motorcycle will get me wohmanz. But when I got my first motorcycle, girls were the least of my concerns (not dieing while riding, insurance, shunned by family, etc). But ironically, now it has led to some girls giving me their number and a few dates. But I do say if you want a motorcycle, it should be for yourself and not for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:12 AM
0

It's not gae if they're not touching
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:22 AM
0

Imb4 BMI is not a fair measurement of health/weight. But I agree, even many of my climber friends fall into the 'overweight' and even some into 'obese' categories. Kinda of depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:21 PM
1

Ahh fair enough. That sounds much more on par. Yea some guys my age are depressingly NOT handy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:36 PM
1

can use tools and likes to remodel/renovate homes Slightly off topic, but I have never met a girl my age (late 20s/early 30s) who even knows what tools do what let alone their actual names (reciprocating saw, drill vs impact driver, miter saw, etc). And I'm just a regular guy who's interested in this stuff, not a professional. I find it hard a soft, cutesy girly girl knows how to handle a reciprocating saw with the right blade insert.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:17 PM
1

Red. Unicorns do exist. Whether or not I find mine is yet to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:19 PM
1

The curse of a lot of exercise - Hangry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:02 PM
4

I like the reverse stats for my ego. not married asian at least 5' 8" tall not obese earning at least $100,000 per year IM IN THE TOP 3% REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:35 PM
1

Notary survivorship bias: the best and longest relationship I know to date is my Grandparents: Grandpa was the breadwinner, and Grandma was a stay at home mom. Married at 20, and literally married till he passed, and they did have an amazing relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:42 PM
1

Idk man this sounds like a career woman vs a juvenile social media girl. Big if depending on looks. I'd probably go with later if hotness was controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:58 PM
1

Isn't that the point? Large inequalities exist in a system, till they exceed the carry capacity of the system leading to implosion. Eventually something will break (revolution/civil war, extinction event, disease - which I don't count this dumb Covid fiasco) and make things "more equal", whether you it is a good thing is up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:08 PM
1

Really? Need more partners. What's your grades sport/trad? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:16 PM
1

You rock climb? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:10 PM
4

Not to sound pedantic - but that's the literal health/scientific definition of overweight: an excess of body fat greater than what is considered normal/healthy. Sure fat can mean anything from overweight to obese, but nonetheless it is a bad tell of lifestyle, habits, and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:57 AM
1

I generally agree. However, playing devil's advocate - I have found it hard to find a women of BMI lower than 24 (equally for similar leagued friends) even when you make six figs+ and are on track to make more/ fit/have your own place/car with good grooming habits +hobbies. And yes, them being fat (over 24 BMI) unless she's a body builder etc is a deal breaker. Maybe it's cause I'm American
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:04 AM
17

Holy shit that username
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:33 AM
9

My favorite take away from comments: "mods are gay"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:31 PM
1

What about crocodiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:08 AM
1

No. BMI the biggest issue. She has good eyes but look weird on a rounder/flatter face. If she lost weight I'd wager you be looksmatched. But we all know how losing weight issue pans out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:04 PM
1

Stonks only go up!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:00 AM
3

Don't forget to re-apply your sunscreen!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:09 PM
3

Fuck helicopter parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:05 PM
1

Oh dang. Nice paper. Would like to see an updated 2018+ version
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:23 PM
6

Be a supermodel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:07 AM
4

Zombie pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:47 AM
13

supermodel billionare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:18 PM
3

Semi-fitness turd here. It's efficient, easy to prep, easy to store, clean, cheapish. And you can zombie buy groceries without thinking too much. I only do it for roughly 10-14 of my weekly meals. But I also eat junk food and soda so I'm kinda of a heathen too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:32 PM
4

"Rice and chicken only". Pshh, girl you forgot the BROCOLLI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:29 PM
1

I need some of that weath pill vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:02 AM
2

What you do man? Gotta take it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:43 PM
7

I prefer a machete
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:25 PM
2

Alright. Let's lay out some stats (granted I'm too lazy to find the links/scources) before we set some examples, so take this with a grain of salt. I'm Asian American - bottom of the dating SMV (generally speaking in America), and just average height ~5'8'". Not the greatest facial features/symmetry, but fit with ~10-15% bwf, and I make low six figures, and have my own place and relatively clean cut when going out. And let's break down 'fit' because that I think is diluted a lot these days - I b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:02 PM
2

I think a lot of guys are okay with this....more than you think. Do you know how extremely refreshing it is to be taken out and cared for? It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:31 PM
3

This. All of my very close female friends and confidants are women that wouldn't even cross my mind as a sexual partners. Nothing sexual has come from the emotional intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:21 PM
6

Jestermax!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:11 PM
1

Yo the boogeyman exists!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:19 AM
-1

Not sure - probably that's been exactly what has been shoved down my throat by family and my closest confidants (many which are women mind you) over the years. In many cases, I don't even ask for the advice - it's just general social conversation that comes up and it somehow ends up as shade thrown my way. As a guy, you expect the answer will solve the problem - in this case interacting with women (whether the goal is sex or relationship is a different discussion). Not vague general platitudes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:53 AM
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I was going to write a long rant about my parents/family plus friends (mostly women too) throughout my life. But I'll give a short list: be nice, get a good job, and 'eventually' you'll find a nice girl. The fuck? That sounds insane. I'm courtesy and cordially respectful to women sure. Just broke six figs this year and only work 40-50 hours/week, and have dated on and off over the years. Where's my [insert dream girl here TM*]!?!?! Oh that's right life doesn't work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:49 AM
3

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:15 PM
3

Time only moves forward
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:12 PM
1

Agreed. I still don't like hanging out with people very often socially "just because". But even when people who have said "yes" to an RSVP days/weeks in advance and just cancel/flake last minute with no real reason infuriate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:01 PM
5

Can I have a order of chicken Mc Nuggets please?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:19 PM
1

In rock climbing (I'm assuming what you mean by free climbing), bouldering (climbing boulders without a rope) is graded on a V0-15 scale based on difficulty. Most gyms use this scale. Rope climbing has a different scale etc. Essentially a climbing shitpost lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:15 PM
1

But can you climb V1 at my gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:47 PM
9

I do agree. However, if any man gets a remote taste of Guy #2. He'll be hard pressed to drown in it (myself in included).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:59 PM
11

So you're saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:47 PM
1

I saw your flair...made me double take what sub I was on.... You damn autist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 08:40 PM
2

I wonder if this is related to....cough something something cough...stonks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:25 AM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:24 AM
3

Yea it definitely explains the more, animated younger guys/gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:23 AM
3

Used too to try to get insights. But it turned to a censorship shit show...like any other heavily feminist-sque dominated space.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:21 AM
7

It always sucks when they tweak at the wrong angle and snap your shaft
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:48 PM
8

Agreed. Beside a that and a modicum of tax beaks, there is no logical reason to getting married in the modern western world today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:11 AM
5

The phrase looks aren’t everything, just means that while their not the be all & end all there certainly is a threshold that differs between women but it’s there. I think the "certain looks threshold" is grossly overlooked, if not outright ignored most of the time. In most cases, it should be priority 1 or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:49 PM
14

I don't get why people never understand this. I tell them every time.... BIOLOGY IS A ZERO SUM GAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:43 PM
0

Stonks the only go up!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:28 PM
4

I kinda find this interesting. When I am single porn use is high and almost daily, and basically goes to zero with a partner and consistent sex. However, I do see it creep back if the sex is lacking/being retracted for whatever reason/gone. I don't think I'm addicted, and not quite sure why men in relationships other than what was stated above view porn when not getting the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 01:41 AM
1

I'm a goober and would stick an LS in it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:33 AM
1

I think what he means is that some women aren't biologically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:51 PM
1

Did your other account get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:07 PM
2

I don't know why you're getting a lot of heat for this, but I tend to agree. With all the philosophical stuff set aside, we are animals, and from a purely evolutionary perspective - having successful progeny is the highest order of importance, especially for the male of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:52 PM
0

As long as she's a fitness supermodel CEO waiting to be my Sugar Momma!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:06 PM
1

Allah-hu Akbar!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:47 PM
1

People don't like being caught when their pants down on contradictory claims or be doxxed from a raging incel/radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:58 AM
2

Holy shit. What a surgeon!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:31 AM
4

Well said Smoog
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:42 PM
0

Yes, I think it generally does correlate with that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:34 PM
1

I want to point out sampling size here. Most studies focus on women (partner count as it correlates to divorce - a very negative effect) I'd assume, because most divorces are initiated by women. A quick google search will show this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:34 PM
12

If by that you mean, getting my vas defrens cut == drowning in sex with supermodels etc. Yes, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:46 PM
6

gouges wub1234's eyeballs out I got you mate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:55 PM
7

Together. Apes strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:49 AM
13

Peer reviewed double blind placebo randomized control dick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:17 AM
4

Fixer-uppers almost never work out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:08 PM
2

For reference Poppy: Chinese American, 30. Born and raised US coastal city. I'm more of a traditionalist in a sense (when it comes to children), thus I care. If we decide no children (before marriage, or biological/life complications), then I would not mind. But since the implied children (upon marriage, not necessarily upon commitment), I would care of them taking my name (obviously this is a cultural thing) and I have had arguments from BOTH familial sides to keep their respective names for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:30 PM
9

It ain't gay if they don't touch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:16 AM
1

YO FUCK BULLS. 🌈🐻 FOR LYFEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:17 PM
1

reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:08 PM
1

What about Walruses?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:36 PM
1

Good thing I'm Asian... wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:33 PM
2

Gotta learn somewhere. Cause honestly I'd have sex with a pile of manure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:28 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:17 PM
2

grabs pitchfork DEATH TO THE HEATHENS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:16 PM
5

I don't. Why the fuck are paternity tests illegal to get then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:15 PM
7

oof
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:14 PM
1

Yes I always imagine super models begging me to go deep inside after she pays for my $$$$$ prime rib
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:55 PM
2

YTA. Because you didn't share your tendies you autist. Go back to working at Wendys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:52 PM
1

That's called prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:02 PM
2

Prime Rib yummm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:52 PM
1

Asian STEM autists Hey I like yoloing money on r/wallstreetbets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:23 AM
2

To be direct and unapologeticly vulgar about it: 1) Sex on tap 2) Children 3) Domestic burden
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:09 AM
2

And having 'serenity' tattooed to your back or neck in Chinese is not tacky and stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:43 PM
2

So women who ski and rock climb have more tattoos? Right....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:39 PM
1

I have a good coffee machine example: Girl nags me for not cleaning it in a month, and mold is growing on the coffee left in the machine I forgot about. Sure, justified I'll clean it. Girl nags me to clean it after use: I just washed it yesterday, and had already refilled reservoir. Fuck off - do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:08 PM
1

Too many damn goldfish man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:52 PM
2

Like others have stated, it doesn't affect men's value. If anything it's a good thing that a guy has a higher N count (preselection bias: 'man successfully beds other women = must have some good qualities or be good at sex'). Again men and women are biologically different, and are judged differently on those biological metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:51 PM
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Man you really gonna pull that card? I have a lot of super liberal friends; I don't associate them with 'radfeminist' and retarded 'antifa' movements (although they are 'related').
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:31 PM
1

foams at mouth WHERE THEY AT?!?! SHOW MEE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:54 AM
1

Very well written
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:26 PM
6

Literally watching all of my cousins (ages 10-20) go through childhood without ANY of amazing childhood experiences I have done as kid (rock climbing, camping/backpacking, long winding roadtrips, long summer camps with very minimal supervision). Fuck helicopter safety police and apathetic parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:13 PM
3

What's the quote I saw on another thread: "Dating a single parent is like dating a vegan, it fucking sucks unless you are one"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:04 PM
5

As posted, I think you conflate women == men, when obviously they are different (literally physically and physiologically), and as such are judged on different metrics of measure of character (in this case biology if that's not obvious).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:32 PM
2

Pill =/= politics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:06 PM
1

Fair enough. You have very red tendencies but were tagged black so I was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:23 PM
2

Yo you're flair is red now. When did I miss this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:58 PM
3

Spitten fire again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:37 AM
1

I find this interesting... so he became alcoholic. Unless I'm missing something (or you live in a country with a lot of drinking), I'd assume you drank a lot with him beforehand? I guess no one expect it could get out of hand. Granted, I've never kept in contact with a woman who has gotten blacked out drunk more than once. How long did you guys date before marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:57 AM
1

Not to impose (and you don't have to answer), but top three reasons (in descending order of most afflicted reason) of why, and did you see any of the signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:36 PM
1

I agree, but you can't blame a man for trying to become an elite man, nor cashing out once he's become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:22 PM
4

Dumb people tax
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:01 PM
1

Did the SAHM's start out being underemployed or were already not 'working in their degree field' or did they drop out of their careers or professions (that were progressing well/fine) to be more involved Mom's? That's what my Aunt told me about her girlfriends (she's the only exception to keeping her high profile career) while the rest quit their jobs or significantly reduced working hours/responsibilities. I do agree about the class as in education level matching, but a 'liberal arts' coffee ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:37 PM
2

Braces and veneers are expensive AF yo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:13 PM
2

Like BookOfSeil said, you can smell 'i'm trying! look!' from legitimate consistent effort. I've told all of my girl friends/coworkers my dating advice, and some 'tried it' but none of them really did. Eating a little less and drink a few less drinks a week for a few weeks is not a lifestyle change that will make you 'hot' which will attract more men (if that's your goal).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:58 AM
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A huge proportion of the trade uppers are men who feel they lost out when they were younger and are owed now that they can attract the kind of women they only dreamed about back then. I find it hard to disagree with this, yet I feel like 'mainstream social dynamics' heavily incentives a man who has 'made it' in terms of social/looks/status to juggle multiple women if he has the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:51 AM
3

Don't go all Jordan Lobster on me now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:04 PM
1

I don't. I've left the friendzone, by gasp dropping those people out from my life. It bother's women on a 'equality' level; when women are truly treated as a man's equal, they are often disgruntled at what they find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:33 PM
5

Agreed - only real reason to: for the development of children and taxes (but that is to help the kids intrinsically).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:58 AM
1

mildly successful wagecuck Thank for the compliment dear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:55 AM
5

It was always 'don't bother your father when he's working' or 'stay away from power tools'. Also assembling IKEA furniture is not the same as building a nightstand or dresser from raw lumber. For Christ sake, if I can't skateboard in the street (under supervision), why the fuck can't I help you fix the dining leg table - the disconnect with some parenting practices is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:50 PM
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You play catch up. Some anecdotal. I don't particularly blame helicopter parenting (but I am also Asian, so take that into account). I wanted to do many 'manly things' when I was younger; asked for power tools as kid, wanted to start woodworking young, begged for a skateboard and a new pair of rollerblades, wanted a motorcycle.... the list goes on. They were okay with me playing videos games at home all day at 13 instead of learning how to clear 1/2 acre of weeds with a weed wacker by myself. Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:57 PM
3

I get tested regularly. Not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:42 PM
1

Well if you want my availability heuristic, here it is; I have 5+ I'd say pretty close (but not bro-best-friend close) girl friends all with 'other single friends'. I have been asked for a few pics here and there, and have been honest upfront telling them that all I ask is a date/meetup from their friends (whether I pump/dump or actually date them is entirely up to the meeting). I have gotten zero dates/meetups, even when 3/5 of these friends said I was a 8+/10. Shit like this is why this doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:18 PM
1

Is it weird I've used car analogies too when talking about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:46 PM
1

I fucking hate foodies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:12 PM
2

I think that's where the issues lies. Not EVERY 'chad' is a horrible person, but in aggregate, Chads tend to be generally pathological in one way or another. This correlates very well with how women behave (give sex to) around these men (at least when compared to 'normal beta guys').
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:02 PM
1

Just like what topics/knowledge you learn in school. It's one thing in theory, another in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 03:51 PM
1

No. Even on team red, I will say it's very difficult to maintain (erectness) in those crazy positions for an enjoyable sustained period of time without pharmacological help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:23 PM
3

Actually inclined to agree. I told few college pals who had 'smokeshow' GFs (or ones with potential) and told them to lock them down before life fucks them (the guys) up. Now they're single (gained weight), and the girls are either married or engaged to the chad versions of their previous BFs. But I guess, that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:05 PM
1

Actually inclined to agree. I told few college pals who had 'smokeshow' GFs (or one with potential) and told them to lock them down before life fucks them (the guys) up. Now they're single (gained weight), and the girls are either married or engaged to the chad versions of their previous BFs. But I guess, that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:05 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:50 PM
1

NO CAPES?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:36 PM
2

So Shitposting was your masters? Ahhh. Thanks, I might try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:33 PM
1

What's your degree in, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:18 PM
1

C'mon dawg. You buy your YOLO calls on TSLA, and then tell your GF you just burned your entire 401K on stock options, and need a handout. duah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:13 PM
3

Only a V1 in my gym. Seriously though, I haven't dated any of my climber friends but in aggregate (they are all 120% more attractive then normie chicks or inconsistent climber friends). Assuming you're a consistent climber and actually can flash V4/V5+ outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:52 PM
1

Put it this way, all the hot girls I knew in middle school or high school, aren't hot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:21 PM
1

I love that song
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:55 PM
2

You know poppy. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:27 PM
1

Average is quantifiable, and in aggregate attraction is also quantifiable (that in itself demonstrates what a baseline consists of). If you disagree, you could always conduct your own study and publish it for review. The whole 'everyone is relative to everyone' is just plain nihilistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:02 PM
2

You free on Friday?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:45 PM
1

I have both babysat, changed diapers, and fed my younger cousins a few days here and there (varying ages 3-10) over the years. Obviously not for long periods of time (>few weeks). Not to say it is easy, but it's very manageable. I think a lot of women get stressed over being overprotective, and want 'the very best' (in every category) for their child. This is plainly not going to happen, even with one child. Granted some days I have passed out before the kids (they can be exhausting).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:58 PM
1

the gospel truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:44 PM
1

Busting out the data science. Fancy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:07 PM
4

She said it was for STD and health purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:06 PM
3

Funny enough, one of my friends (from reddit lol) had a literal spreadsheet of past partners, # of acts, rough dating time frame, and some notes columns. That shit blew my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:58 PM
3

Can I get a link for that? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:40 PM
1

Don't get me wrong, emotional connection is great, combined with physical attraction (even better). But romance, for men is an action, thus work. If it doesn't pan out, in many cases, or go as well as planned, it's on to the next. I'd also argue most men would sleep with a complete stranger (controlling for STI's, ramifications, social consequences etc). You're 'lovers' first over friends, not vice versa (at least from this man's perspective).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:10 PM
1

I'm hard on myself. A 6. I've been told an 8 a few time, but based off dating maybe a 7 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:41 PM
1

Full stack? DevOps? backend? web dev? sysadmin?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:26 PM
1

LOL YOU'RE HIDING HERE MOTHERFUCKER
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:21 PM
1

You really shouldn't. I tell the women who ask me (and they know the answer already), what my dating advice will be if asked. Yet they still ask for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:34 AM
2

The conversation, the damn IRL convos are no worse than a cinder brick wall in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:35 PM
2

As any other fit nut will tell you, to change your body, first change your diet. The sugar/calories in those things is way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:19 PM
3

Well Chad gonna chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:30 PM
7

This is going to sound shitty, but every girl who's asked me for dating advice receives the same treatment: hit the fucking gym and stop drinking so many lattes and for god sake ease up on the food intake first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:25 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:20 PM
1

Probably not. Socially and publicly I'm very liberal, but financially and personally I'm almost the opposite (very conservative).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:12 PM
1

everybody lies One of my favorite books, should check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:52 PM
3

rolls natural 20 Still gets rekt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:00 AM
1

I think most men don't want JUST sex. Granted this assumes sex is NEVER (which many women make the mistake of withholding for petty reasons) off the table for an extended period of time without just reason. Also marriage is for the children, not the sex. I repeat my statement that marriage is MUCH more than 'a best friend you fuck', which is many people claim they are essentially. Hint: they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:41 PM
1

dick.in.hand =/= real.vagina;
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:55 PM
4

I think most girls or women don't want to admit their BMI, because of what it literally means medically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:48 PM
1

Partner: A unicorn - attractive (physically high SMV, CONVENTIONALLY attractive, feminine etc) without the bullshit involved, traditionally (read FAMILY) oriented, agreeable and overall pleasant too be around. I would add others but this baseline apparently is hard to reach. Society: ??? We have a fucked up government (I tell you that as a government employee). From women: to acknowledge they that they can be WRONG, and admit there are biological truths (this one triggers me the most) which DO e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:07 PM
2

Yes. I actually found out this recently at this past christmas dinner. My aunt, who is a lawyer, is the ONLY one out of her girlfriends (7-10) that has been able to maintain her high earning career while still being able to have children and a family. All of her girlfriends quit and/or SEVERELY (as in work part time/volunteer only) cut back their careers in order to be a more involved or stay-at-home mother/wife. And they live in a pretty high CoL coastal city. Like others said, I don't make eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:05 AM
2

Yes I have waxed my nutz, it fucking hurt. Laser ain't so bad. No homo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:18 PM
2

"Cause honestly, I'd have sex with a pile of manure"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:02 PM
1

Stonks only go up!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:02 PM
6

Nah. I actually agree with you. I think it's almost the opposite effect. I will put in the work, the lifting/fitness, the game, even seek the job/status, grooming/style, hell I'll admit you need even some of 'B' to be successful (and by that getting laid and/or a relationship). Sound's like an exhaustive list right? Yet (maybe it's availability/negative heuristic), the amount AND quality of women I've been with is dismal on paper. Maybe it's it me, or hypergamy or whatever. But that doesn't expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:21 PM
3

Psychology is a 'soft' science in that you cannot study or replicate (with consistency) what occurs in the environment/wild in a vacuum. There is not doubt evolutionary psychology has some basis in human inter-sexual dynamics, just how humans are in some manner contributing to climate change. Now to the degree at which those things occur, and actual replication of them scientifically would be folly in most cases. Thus, the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:52 AM
2

kneels Praise thy PP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:20 PM
0

Yo don't call my pp names
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:06 PM
9

Unicorn hunters, Unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:51 PM
1

Yes, I have friendzoned girls before. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:00 AM
2

Busting out that vocab
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:00 PM
1

Agreed. I have climber friend, who let's just say needs to shed a few pounds (50+) and drop 10%> body fat. His dating life will skyrocket do to those two factors alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:26 PM
6

I think this sub promotes debate OVER circlejerking chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:52 PM
7

That plays into his argument. If his cohort (even while considering the availability heuristic) is struggling in aggregate, one would assume most are in arguably worse situations since his group is above average, at least globally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:03 PM
1

Sausage or pepperoni?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:55 PM
21

Where's that damn hilarious youtube quote I saw: "Women want the power of a man, the privilege of a lady, and the responsibility of neither" Some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:01 AM
-1

GG no re.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:49 PM
4

Sytnax man. He's the review coder. if ((weeb = bad) && (redpiller = bad)) { weeb == redpiller; }
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:02 PM
1

Jug - Large, easily gripped hold. Also, to climb up a fixed rope using an ascender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:42 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:51 PM
6

Not to sound like blatant confirmation bias, but I have seen multiple accounts of this as well as with multiple colleagues from different departments during my graduate school studies. Your PI drilling you isn't that bad....relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:33 PM
4

Yea fuck veganism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:35 PM
1

F
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:48 PM
1

I thought they all drive stone cars in like the one in the Flinstones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:24 PM
1

I agree, but it is what is is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:41 PM
1

Yea there is a bias, that's why IF I do marry - signed prenup, extensive trust, and mandatory paternity tests. If she doesn't sign that shit, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:11 PM
3

Yes, and I have friendzoned them back in the past (whether or not this was out of spite or me not knowing how to handle it is a different discussion). Now I just friendzone or stop being friends. In heterosexual relationships, it is up to the guy to convince the girl he's good enough for her. Case in point on female fickleness; a successful guy can convince her from the beginning, and not due to some extenuating circumstance (luck, change of mind, haircut although they can play a role albeit min…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:34 AM
4

Because it implies, 'you weren't good enough then, but now you are/I wanted to keep my options (orbiters - you included) open'. Any self-respecting individual wouldn't waste time on wishy-washy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:06 PM
2

While I agree with this, IF they change their mind and wanted to the whole friendship into relationship spiel; they're a side-piece at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:33 AM
2

No. Is saying "You're biologically inferior and shouldn't reproduce based on phenotype" going to help anyone? It won't. Also, men (like many other fucking animal males) would kill each other over pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:46 PM
1

M29. Potential partner and/or random person: "Hey what book are you reading?" Me: "It's [Name of Book] by [Author of Book]". End of conversation. I ride public metro for my work commute, roughly 1-2 times/month, which I'm mostly reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:32 PM
1

RIP your profiles... I hope you find the right Chadbux up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:36 PM
-1

rekt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:45 PM
3

Agreed. I don't understand why some women can't understand this. When I treat my woman peer as equals, they get a tad put off by my vulgarities and blatant lack of social discretion - something guys (friends or not) treat each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:56 PM
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+1 to HarassMyAnger. I have plenty of friends/coworkers that are women, and don't write them off because they're not fuckable in my book. Now are any of them dating material? That's another question (largely with the input of physical attractiveness toward myself). Almost all of them aren't base on that assumption. You're sexual partners first over friends - if you're friends, you're not sexual partners; at least when discussing a 'romantic' relationship. A relationship is much more than 'a best…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:19 PM
1

saltwater or freshwater?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:29 PM
1

Well I do have a magnifying glass. Let's take a look. No homo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:17 PM
4

Hindsight is 20/20, I could have dated MUCH more in college/hs through friends/social circles, but BP beta teenage me manage to prevail. Missed chances. Oh well, they're in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:13 AM
3

Colleges are a good example of this: any STEM based college where it's 60%+ guys (Caltech, MIT) you see more monogamy and men trying hard to lock down a girl; you get almost the exact opposite at a private liberal arts college 60%+ girls - men having many partners and not staying loyal to one girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:36 PM
1

You're a realtor too!? MONEYBAGS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:09 PM
2

LA HOMEBOYYYYY high fives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:01 PM
1

Garbage men make bank
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:46 PM
1

Dance jester! Dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:12 PM
0

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:57 PM
1

Generally speaking... too bad I only look sharp on dates and at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:47 PM
2

stares at husband with Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:20 PM
4

Not until ~50! GET THOSE GILFS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:43 PM
4

Hi Cave man days!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:57 PM
0

BETA BUUXXXXXXXX
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:13 PM
2

A/B Tests
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:12 AM
1

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:23 PM
1

You should read Dataonomics. It goes in to detail on how the gender ratio of college educated single women to men is there. Thus if you're remotely attractive, and are educated...easy pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:51 PM
3

MERCAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:31 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 06:21 PM
1

But I like your username
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:51 PM
2

Butt fuck it. Yolo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:52 PM
2

Isn't that kinda of ironic? Of coarse you can have that, and in many cases. But in aggregate (generally), you get one or the other. This naturally explains how TRP came into inception.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:37 PM
1

I tend to agree. Case example: I have coworker friend who's probably medically overweight but hides her weight pretty well, maybe a 4 at best (imo). But somehow manages to date multiple high profile/successful men (CEO of startup, senior/VP engineers, high powered finance guys) sometimes at the same time, so I guess she really is that fun and cool to be around. Yet she's never been able to lock one down as potential Husband prospect™️.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:44 PM
1

I find no value in anecdotal evidence, only in large scale statistics and well argued theories This ain't a dating sub, and provides more insight to human interactions than the dumb cirlcejerk/mainstream subs, is not as convoluted/extreme as TRP sub and (god forbid) some of the women here articulate their stance/argument very well (and in good faith).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:27 PM
1

I do regret not taking more risks, and being more 'reckless' and 'carefree' when I was younger 15-20, and if asked I always respond I'd do it again. Even if I didn't have what I knew now (obviously if I could retain what I know now I would change it).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:44 PM
5

I always tell people that; for the right woman 'unicorn', I'd gladly relent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:54 PM
1

If we assume NAWALT, then how does a man (in search of a heterosexual relationship) go about looking for a partner? Screening or vetting for a partner abstractly is difficult to communicate to others, especially when everyone has a different situation (women vs men). E.g. "Just be yourself" advice that get's a lot heat. So, sure you can circumvent AF/BB - AWALT, but then you have no direction. Think of it as an outline for an essay, you make starting points in a priority list and extrapolate out…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:32 PM
2

It's not trauma. Relationships, specifically human ones, are complicated. Thus in order to make it easier to digest the concept of human interaction as a whole we describe groups discretely rather than a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:50 PM
1

I feel like u/Atlas_B_Shruggin is an expert on this topic. Nice links.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:45 PM
2

Getting laid is not quite the problem; it's with a partner(s) they find attractive for free (more or less). Obviously, some folks are delusional, but you get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:27 PM
0

And won't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:22 PM
2

Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:29 PM
2

THATS IMPOSSIBLE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:51 PM
4

Eat those veggies broccoli boiii
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:57 PM
1

Amen. Praise the Feetus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:26 PM
2

Agreed. What good does it do if I scream about my race as a privilege or a disadvantage (it's not White btw)? It accomplishes little. Hell every time I bring up evidence for/against my race, people lose their shit cause 'racist bigot'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:23 PM
1

I haven't read the description since you deleted the OP. Nonetheless, TRP heavily supports the male sex biological prerogative. A step-father goes directly against this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:35 PM
4

I have tried it a decent amount of times. Didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:55 PM
1

Exactly. Clear distinction, although not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:06 PM
1

Why'd you think the Sugar Baby culture has started to grow here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:24 PM
2

Chad gonna chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:11 PM
3

You say write-off? In what way? If anything, your happy marriage means you're paired off the market, and that's beneficial to the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:45 PM
0

Man this thread is a massacre
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:00 PM
3

I am inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:46 PM
2

Yes. There is some kind of phenomena (can't quite think of it) where you're too good looking, too-good-to-be-true type. Perfect skin, proportions, symmetry, etc. This is why some super models (both sexes) have problems finding relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:11 PM
1

Catfish!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:57 PM
2

With the exception of children, I'd agree. Anything 20 lbs+ on a typical feminine (<~5.5 ft) frame will be noticeable. Period. It usually follows a change in lifestyle (more going out, less working out, more work hours etc). If it isn't do to children, I'd ask what the hell is up. If it's looks like it's a permanent change(disregarding traumatic issues i.e. a death in the family), then I will comment on it. If things aren't adjusted (within reason obviously), I'm gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:45 PM
9

I hope this is not projection of any of your dating misfortunes. Men are valued differently than women in the SMP. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:27 PM
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Not sure. Many of the single (or recently single) professional woman I meet (and friends of my age bracket (27-33) seem very content on their career paths/projection and dating/relationship situation. The one's who want a family though, are all freaking out cause Mr. Bio clock is coming around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:47 PM
1

I think there's a deep seeded connection between 'gender roles' and biology. Women are the primary caretakers, because well they literally give nutrients to their offspring over a long period of early upbringing, and guess what the Man does in that situation? He's the provider and protector.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:09 PM
1

Many people will tell you to get to know a person, or be 'friends' before you're something more. I tend to disagree with that, as the sexual attraction/tension needs to be there upfront & foremost. The source of it (her personality, looks, demeanor, or whatnot) is a different discussion. I have done both strategies, but I have found it better (considering opportunity costs) to blindly go in better as a man since dating is a numbers/luck game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:43 PM
1

Lobsters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:18 PM
2

I do, and I did fail to mention that. Nonetheless, giving up for adoption is always available. I'd still wager it's more of a way to wiggle out of a failing/doomed relationship and the woman has the child to try to salvage it or something of value from it or just to spite the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:25 PM
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That's her point. Women don't have children because 'they don't want to'. Barring not being able to get an abortion due to health complications, the decision is ultimately up to the woman. They had the child, with full knowledge of their financial/social/familial situation and how the child would play a role. So many, myself included, find it's absurd that you have to pay for other people's children, may it be indirectly or directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:51 PM
0

Ehh. I wouldn't call it on obsession as it is more of an explanation (which tends to be GENERALLY applied). E.G. If I cut off my arm, I will bleed. Sure some people won't, but most will, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:35 PM
4

I'd say it's a fluke. Confirmation bias. Reddit is not a good representative sample, even for the sexual dynamic discussion sampling. Many come to complain about their plights or fight over 'data says this but I experience that'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:46 PM
0

Man I read somewhere here too that empirical study data is just anecdotal data in aggregate. Makes you wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:29 PM
9

GOT EM
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:14 PM
1

I was actually talking about this with a coworker. Photofeeler (like reddit in a way) crowd-sources your analysis. So you cannot assume/trust the analysis as much as you would say, an internal written algorithm by your senior technical staff that has been QC tested in aggregate and proven to work over a definitive time frame. So in essence, do this 1,000,000 more times more specifically. Then come back and show us the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:17 PM
0

merca
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:10 PM
2

The percentage of how much a chemical substance is a certain element
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:53 PM
3

Hulk smash
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:05 PM
2

I love your analogies man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:37 PM
1

Not sure where the study is, but if you take a group of boys and a group of girls and tell them to accomplish a complex task. Boys will almost self-segregate autonomously and get to work completing the various parts of the task. Girls will form a holistic group, and try to figure out who's in charge, who does what, not really accomplish anything but delegation of roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:27 PM
1

I've seen a few of these charts before. Thank you for clarifying the plebs who can't google.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:15 PM
2

Correlation =/= causation. This doesn't mean most or all situations are like that especially considering the survivorship bias here, and let's not forget confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:37 PM
1

Over 9000!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:24 PM
2

Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:12 PM
3

First comes the money, then comes the power, and then comes the women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:31 PM
2

Non-player character: usually with predetermined responses and doesn't act outside of it's programming. It has become a meme to describe people who don't think and move robotically through life thus the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:57 PM
1

Let's get yoked! pumps iron profusely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:46 PM
0

3 sex. 9 vagene. One penor to rule them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:49 PM
1

A lot of vitriol coming out of this post in the comments. A woman can do whatever she wants. I think many women receive support from their SOs/spouses all the time on this. Sure some men may get angry/resentful yet many (couples) do seem to break up once the woman is more career tracked/focused. It's when the husband/BF's career/drive doesn't match when it becomes a problem. However I'm not married, but a substantial career change at your age range (25-30) is perfectly fine. With the obvious cav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:40 PM
1

For some reason, the data analytics hits close for me as well. She mentions MA, but I would have guessed an MS as almost all heavier data analytics positions gear towards technical and programming based skills. Which obviously is skewed heavily male. Anecdotally, my entire data team is male...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:06 PM
1

How much personal upkeep do you do on yourself? A decent amount. I try to keep myself clean-cut as possible (for work and otherwise). How often do you go for hair cuts, how often to do you shave? 1-3 months depending on the style and weather. I shave 2-3 days. How often do you shop and do you know how to shop? Not very often ( now that my wardrobe is set. Yes. Do you know what types of clothes fit your body? Yes. Do you actually take the time to think about what you wearing? All the time for wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:03 AM
2

Apparently, as of lately, what car you drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:20 PM
2

The mailman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:05 PM
4

But also most studies show that children from two parent households are statistically better off in education, life, and overall psychological well being and development. Tubleweed has a point; having children, then splitting up will traumatically affect your children regardless of how amicable the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:22 PM
1

I wouldn't. Just like that saying: "Murder will out". If I have nothing to hide, she can prod all she wants. It's the underlying insecurity, and 'out of nowhere' anxiety that would be alarming. Plus getting a full STD panel is not that difficult. I have discussed paternity tests before with potential partners beforehand, and yes I want them as a peace of mind/insurance for my well being and the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:55 PM
1

I'm not super cynical as I was maybe five years ago, still pretty red, but I understand that in order maintain an ideal relationship (one that includes children and/or marriage) you need to be at least purple for it remain sustainable (at least by Western standards). I have learned dating and relationships do become easier with time and experience. Each gender has their issues, and you play your cards as best you can. Hell some discussions on this sub have even educated me better on human social…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:33 PM
1

Just like there's a HUGE movement for women in the workplace (woman's disenfranchisement in the job sector compared to men), RP is the equivalent for men has arose for dating (men's disfranchisement in the dating world and overall in relationships - see divorce, custody, etc). This also goes well with the other post about women complaining about dating. E.g. I have overweight, even borderline medically obese coworkers (more than a handful) dating/scoring high value men (even by RP standards), an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:21 PM
1

Gotta love the syntax
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:25 PM
3

That good 'ole trope: It's only sexual assault, if he's not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:57 PM
1

Nope. There is much more to TRP than a Unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:54 PM
1

That's called Survivor Bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:27 PM
2

Ever hear the saying: "Feminism is just communism with tits"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:50 AM
2

This is a statistic of the natural world. Some organisms just plain won't reproduce or survive. So logically speaking, 'some' are numerically destined to be alone. It's only humans that apply a moral discussion to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:04 PM
1

Virtual Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:21 PM
2

Was this stolen from r/askmen? lol Can we assume this is in Western societies? I wouldn't say 30 years, but maybe 50+? you will start seeing sex robots/toys becoming more mainstream or VR. Just like how online dating is pretty mainstream now. Whether or not it becomes a lasting good/bad thing remains to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:36 PM
1

I don't know where the study or book I read it from, but if you put a group of boys versus a group of girls and have them complete the same task as a group, the boys will splinter off into functional groups (almost without any instruction and work on their specific part of the task) while the girls will gather and hold a larger group to decide who does which tasks and try to delegate out the responsibility as per the collective decision. Not sure if this answers the questions completely, however…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:18 PM
2

Reminds me of the conundrum of having a 'harem' or multiple wives: you have multiple sex partners, but multiple nagging sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 12:34 AM
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