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| 3 | How do you decline sex?She’s good enough to blow you but not good enough to have sex with? Wow this is a new level of asshole. I have some advice which will solve your problem though. Stop being a selfish asshole and don’t accept sexual favours you’re not prepared to return. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Bursting the pussy bubbleProbably gonna get downvoted for this but the disdain and objectivisation in this post referring to women collectively as ‘pussy’ is breathtaking. I literally can’t imagine creating a post about men and referring to them as a group as ‘dicks’ but then again I view men as human beings… unique individuals with thoughts feelings and worthy of basic respect. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Everyone likes different things but I’d advise you to lean into yourself and be dedicated in the areas of life which you think are important and choose a path which will allow you to be the most confident person you can be. Women respond to authenticity and confidence in a man. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 09:45 AM |
| 16 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?She’s telling you she feels like she’s being judged by you and to back the hell off with the prudish remarks. She’s letting it go for now and trying to be nice but keep this up and she’ll be pissed. This kind of teasing also represents pressure from you to take things further and if she does take a while to feel comfortable before getting into bed then you pressuring in this way is counterproductive. Pushy is not sexy. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 61 | [deleted by user]As long as the women are also looking for casual sex do what you like but don’t fuck with their emotions and pretend you want a relationship with them cause that’s called being a dickhead. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Why the heck do I mostly attract taken girls?Yeah I agree, I think sometimes these girls relax and feel they can be physical with you cause you don’t pose a threat to their relationship. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Asking for her opinion with a playful, fun attitude which is not outcome dependent is more important than a direct line when approaching during the dayI think from the guys POV, you’ve seen the woman, you’ve decided you like her and you want to ask her out, you’ve done all the mental gymnastics pre-game and you’re heading in to get an answer to your question… except the woman might not have even clocked that you exist yet, she’s barely had time to decide if she ought to give you the mace treatment before she’s asked to go on a date… it just doesn’t seem conducive to success. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Asking for her opinion with a playful, fun attitude which is not outcome dependent is more important than a direct line when approaching during the dayI was once hit on while crossing a supermarket car park and I was seriously walking ‘on a mission fastttt’ this guy must’ve had to run to catch up to me I swear, got told I looked beautiful and did I want to meet up for a drink? Obvs v direct approach and before I even had time to think about it, my default position was ‘sorry I have a boyfriend’ because I was put on the spot, on the back foot, I had no idea who this guy was, if he was a creep or whatever so it was a no cause there was no reason… | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Didn't responded to my intent to meeting herI’ll bite, what did she reply with… | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that?So you are upset that you actually have to make an effort to be attractive? Just like everyone else on the planet…. Hmmm 🤔 | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Literally just chatting about my own personal preference not to be asked questions like that not claiming that this is a bad technique for picking up women or whatever lol. Can’t claim I’ve ever chatted up a girl 😁 Thanks for saying I’m not what dudes are looking for though lol. Didn’t anyone teach you to play nicely? | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 11:52 PM |
| 47 | I have a weird habit where I give minimum attention or none to girls I’m interested in and casual attention to girls I couldn’t give a shit about.Are you nervous around people you like? Might be you sticking to your comfort zone. It’s easy to put yourself out there when you don’t care if you win or lose, not so much when you care for the outcome. I think you’re avoiding potential rejection by not putting yourself in that situation. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Bleugh I just wanna have fun initially not tell you my 5 year plan. I guess I’m not insecure about being interesting cause I wouldn’t feel I had to prove myself to you or anyone in response to that. I know I’m interesting, even though I don’t spill my life story and hopes and dreams I’m good company and if someone cba to get to be patient and get to know me I figure they didn’t like me enough anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!It’s just a bit much. And kind of assumes you bloody well know the answer! I just wanna say ‘to get through this week and get in some early nights’ 🤣 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Urgh I hate that question | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Are women with low self esteem more or less likely to have sex?I think from a hookup POV, apart from signs of desperation there is no easy way to tell. How someone presents their self to the world can be very different to how they feel inside. in order to be able to know, the person would have to reveal their insecurities to you which would be a very emotionally vulnerable thing to do and not one I suggest you try and delve into to filter women cause that’s pretty cruel! unfortunately there is no simple answer, you’ll find a lot of women with self-esteem is… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Are women with low self esteem more or less likely to have sex?Not one answer to this, self-esteem can be dealt with, with a number of coping mechanisms, blocking off intimacy altogether to avoid getting hurt and adding another dent in an already very low state of mind or seeking validation by sleeping around. Abusive men tend to target women with low self-esteem as they are vulnerable and easier to abuse. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Advice on closing with younger women?Find someone nearer your own age and realise you are in your mid-thirties …. Not 20 anymore. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Show off an athletic body or not?I meannnnn my kryptonite is a hot guy who doesn’t know it... soooo dress well, in things which fit nicely but not in a ostentatious way as to show off your body, if you must have topless pics on social media have one at the beach with friends but no mirror selfie’s or bathroom abs nopeeee. That screams vain to me. Then just stay humble. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Just because a girl is physically attracted to you does not mean she’s sexually attracted to youHmmm yes I can appreciate that a guy is good looking but it doesn’t necessarily mean I fancy them. Just means I’m more likely to fancy them.. But I also think this is the same for guys though? | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of the women i find attractive not very attentive to other men and don't get hit on often?What doesn’t feel right? Own your preferences, who gives af if people tend to like blonde girls or whatever. You want someone YOU think is hot not someone Jerry, Tim and Brian thinks is hot. Have confidence in your own opinions don’t rely on crowd approval. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of the women i find attractive not very attentive to other men and don't get hit on often?you should be celebrating that you got less competition for the hot girls. Attractive is subjective. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | How many of you sincerely prefer the average women without makeup?I have literally never come across a woman showing too much skin in the workplace .... form fitting clothes yes. But don’t see why women should wear bags just so you feel able to ‘compete with women intellectually’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 12:12 PM |
| 0 | How many of you sincerely prefer the average women without makeup?I am so damn confused... you seem to be too... You are comparing having to reassure a particularly insecure female to something about the wage gap? Like men don’t also come with emotional baggage? Genuinely baffled! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 12:05 PM |
| 3 | 10/10 girlsWhy you talking like everyone likes the same thing? The other girls might be more attractive in someone else’s eyes... | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Girls are NOT special creatures! Girls are people like you except they have are much better at picking up subtle things you often fail to notice.Sigh, puts my special creature medal back in the box. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | A new approach to SeductionChrist almighty. Woman don’t NEED a man to be their leader, they may be attracted to leadership qualities however this doesn’t mean they want men to be their personal leader. Secondly, there are a lot of delusional woman AND men in regards to what they want who can’t differentiate between what’s realistic and what’s not for them, but why the sweeping statement that all woman can’t differentiate between fantasy? Sounds like some kind of statement you use to dismiss women as illogical. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 26 | So now women must help men who struggle with lust?! 🤮 This is why i unfollowed theses guys, they want to seem HV when they're not. The comment section is just full of nonsense some even used the "Testosterone excuse", "biology" (just to name a few)and all sorts of crap to back it up!What the actual fuck. First of all the dramatics about the ‘pain and suffering’ of not being able to have a relationship and fuck other women. Then the bullshit blaming the woman for not being ‘understanding and compassionate’ about wanting to fuck other women. Can you imagine this conversation the other way round, hi hubby, so I just wanted to tell you that I have a really strong desire to fuck other men apart from you. This is my painful struggle and I need you to be compassionate about this b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Not into virgins or ones with only one previous partner, it just kind of says to me (rightly or wrongly) this is not gonna be a good time but equally put off by guys who have had a lot of sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.True, I don’t feel that the act of having sex with anyone should be extended as a way of getting someone to agree to a relationship they don’t want. Cause 1. It doesn’t work and 2. you’re setting yourself up for emotional hurt. Personally I don’t have a set amount of time I will take to feel comfortable having sex with someone, it could be short it could be long... honestly I think if someone wasn’t prepared to wait a little bit they probably didn’t like me enough in the first place so am all to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.I wait to have sex because it takes me a while to feel comfortable and I’m not interested in casual sex. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting a demonstration of investment in your relationship before having sex. Of course the man can always walk away after having sex and that wouldn’t feel great, but as a person who wants a fulfilling sex life as part of a relationship and not a casual hookup I don’t see any harm in waiting. A lot of these comments seem to be frustration from men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 4 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.Just wanted to say I like your attitude. Always okay to have your preferences never okay to be a dick about them. Hate people who show contempt for whoever is not their preference. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Why comfort and safety isn’t betaHallelujah 100% correct both comments Woman PIV | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Why would anyone over the age of 14 give a shit about lay count...?Thanks for the mature response guys. Kinda thought I was gonna get slayed for this comment. Agree nothing wrong with casual sex as long as everybody knows what it’s all about. I think it is about attitude, there is a certain amount of insecurity and disrespect behind a guy who feels the need to throw numbers round in order to impress or as a measure of success. You can have one guy who has shit drunk sex with a load of different plastered women on nights out (not fussy) or a guy whose had a seri… | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Why would anyone over the age of 14 give a shit about lay count...?(Woman here) Someone who has standards and isn’t just down to fuck anything that’ll pass is an attractive trait. Says to me that you respect yourself and you’re not insecure enough to keep collecting notches on your bedpost just for the sake of impressing ‘the lads’ Quality not quantity is the true measure of success imo. And takes a secure man not to try and ‘prove themselves’ and get validation through numbers of women. Know most on this sub will not agree with me and are all about chasing the… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 15 | My observations on dating multiple women at onceGreat fundamental advice. You’ve recommended honesty, safe sex and showed respect for women’s time. | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Can we all agree that the indirect approach can be just as effective as direct approach and does not make you unconfident because you’re focusing on the end result vs being impatient.25 bodies???? Have some bloody respect. Women are more than bodies and it might help you get laid if you actually treated them as such. Appreciate you want to sleep with lots of women or whatever, you do you, but don’t be a twat about it. You’re welcome. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 03:08 AM |
| 52 | The number one thing that women are attracted to that no one talks about, and very little guys pay attention to.Woman’s POV Meeting someone off the internet comes with inherent risk, initially (on a more sub-conscious level) you’re looking for signs that this person can be trusted and is not gonna hurt you. You’re looking for positive signs e.g. Telling her something about doing an errand for gran or similar is a good one for this, demonstrates you are thoughtful and good to people in your life. There’s something about family which lessons intimidation. And negative signs If the person is overtly sexual, … | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 01:14 PM |
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