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| 1 | Short man /Heightism Female perspectivePersonal opinion Men shame men more than woman for being short We need to fight body negative culture which demeans a lot of short man for what they can't change Everyone is right to keep their opinions and preferences in dating. Once again in my opinion I have seen from my experience with woman having preference for taller men than shorter that they have a mental link between being short and perceiving them as less of a man for dating or having a opinion that they are weaker or less valued. Thi… | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Short man /Heightism Female perspectiveWhat does ," immature sense of humour" mean? Just curious. Can you elaborate on that?? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youRight that is a good response. I was looking for such confident responses. Yeah I am guilty of putting woman on pedestal because of my limited interaction with woman and people in general. Which makes me seek their approval otherwise I feel I will end up all lonely. I have been on several stages of my life went completely lonely. Challenge is way down the road I can't even express myself fully. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI actually have this issue. I am learning with each new step. But it is soo small of steps to actually see any difference would take a hell lot of time. It does throw us out of our game but if we master little bit general ways to actually combat that certain specific type of problems then maybe we can use it. I try to find where to draw line according to what they say. If they are being actually rude then counter it with sharp words. I prepare a list on that. If they are being playful and not st… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youThis is a Difficult and long process and depends on individual's learning curve. Thanks for sharing the information. I too believe experience is the best teacher. A desire to improve, lot of experiences, being down to earth and dash of luck can change any man. Now the main issue is where to meet soo many woman. I live in a third world country, here bars and club are not famous and are for only rich people not a place where average Joe like me would want to venture. I know guys who are good with … | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youExactly that is also a big task in itself. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youWhat is a neg ? Btw thanks for your knowledge. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 3 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youWorks for some. They are naturally inclined to be good at social and conversations. They subconsciously understand the working mechanics. I am pretty clueless. My mind can't process much of visual and verbal cues. I have huge issue of understanding people's emotions when they don't actively talk about it or aren't close enough for me to understand that pattern. What ends up is I am unable to understand woman I like. I remember I heard that woman like teasing them and I tried to tease in a way I … | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:52 AM |
| 7 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youIt's always good to use dating and seduction pages, articles and books as a place you go back when you get a issue. It should be on the lines of you are walking and you see a hurdle so you go back to the magic book and read how to break this hurdle rather than reading the whole book by heart and then walking the whole path on trust that you will remember and be able to do the magic when needed. One skill at a time. Just like a video game. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Anything more elaborate. This is hard for a logical mind to wrap around. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Same question my friend. Same question. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 6 | What I have learned from experience - Never chase them when things go bad, be patientYes I did it before. Never heard from her again! Guess I lost once again. Hello failure my old friend I have come to you once again! | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?Gotcha!!😂 | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | When girl says ‘there’s not enough chemistry’ - what’s the true meaning? Mainly I didn’t give enough sexual tension?They do actually. I firmly disagree with the above comment. Girls may hate because of jealous born out of insecurity of themselves that maybe for some reason the other girl is hotter than her but they do find you attractive when you are with other woman in front of them. My common guess goes with that woman find you attractive when you are with lot of woman. Especially when you have the balls(supposedly 😂) to date another hottie in front of her after she declined your offer. I mean you didn't si… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 7 | 30 rules I’ve learned through my personal experienceYou are gem of a person. Thanks for the added knowledge you gave. I value people who give personalised information. I do have confidence issues and lot of social skills problems. Lot of work and I am already 24 so it's tough. I used to open up everything now learning to be selectively honest on occasions. I do relapse back to the cliched "nice guy" Type. I try to know about her but most times the convo becomes dry and she giving dry replies. About the classmate point I meant long term relationsh… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 37 | 30 rules I’ve learned through my personal experienceDisagree with 3. It's not about cheating. Its about morality. In my eyes breach of trust is a moral crime and supporting a crime is as bad as doing it. Disagree with 5. many times ( examples more than 10 in number) we get the same frequency people when are in the same course. So classmates is good with me. Colleagues and neighbour to some extent. Depends on if you sync. Have seen long term relationship between neighbour. Ahh! 9 is hard for me. I am the first to open up. That means she knows more… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Actually I have seen that my questions are close ended that's why it gives interview style feeling even if open ended I am not able to bring that energy and fun in the person to actually talk about it. What makes is the convo goes dry and ends or I have to revert back with questions so continue the convo which just doesn't fit. I know it's a whole sea of communication problems for me, unfortunately. Yeah nowadays I don't really compliment with complimenting in my mind. I just say my opinions I h… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:27 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]2 I struggle a lot. I can see I have made lot of mistakes. I have been a open book and also showed immense emotions. The compliment part also got me wrong. I haven't been playful more like a friend who you know not a guy you would date I guess no doubt I got friendzoned. The 2 was worse. I used to ask her questions and she at some point felt awkward I guess and said, "hey don't interview me now.. " I felt hurt because that clearly showed I did in a wrong way. Still haven't learnt how to ask it i… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | I WILL BE YOUR WINGMAN FOR A DAY IN NYC (FOR FREE)So you are the angel my mom was talking about in childhood. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Girl invited another dude?Solid 10/10 advice man! | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.Don't keep wondering, Dm him to know about that😂 | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.Oh I bet he is. He told he is thin so obviously it won't be like he has a double chin or is overly obese. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.There is only so much we can do. Changing of mindset lies ultimately with the person. A calm mind absorbs it. A disturbed one rejects all of it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.Yeah he seems angry, frustrated and disturbed. I can see my reflection of my old self in him. I am mostly a docile man so I don't take up fights with people. Some people do and understand where they are coming from a mindset point of view. Anyhow reddit is a place to remove your frustration so can't deny. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Hey buddy. I don't agree with lot of opinions given here. I think they are trying to find some random points with the little information they have from your post. It feels a lot shallow(not a properly analysed one) while I think you have some deeper blocks in attaining the success. I felt like most of them are throwing out the same ruminated content from the "textbook of dating." I don't want to repeat the same. I would recommend you meet a "therapist" Or what I know as "relationship/dating coac… | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 11:32 AM |
| 2 | She unblocked me last week. What do I do?Block her back and go to sleep. You are backing the wrong horse. Believe me been there, acted simp. Don't repeat my mistakes. This is not for you. Try another girl who you wouldn't have to be so pushy and needy to. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:47 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I live in Mumbai. It's very open. Easy to get people of all social and economic classes. My class when I was in college had students which had at least 75% in relationship. Dating is popular too. I understand this case that I have mentioned is for only metro cities. There is a lot of difference between western dating and desi dating (desi=Indian). I find it quite fun and amusing than western one. The best part of being very secretive about your relationship in front of your parents and then snea… | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Went to another club but might give upYeah at the same time improving who we are is also important even if that means changing ourselves like if you are hard to open up, try changing that. If you can't be a with a group of people try changing that. Why I said this is because people get a wrong impression that being yourself means also to carry the wrong qualities with yourself. As I understand is that you should be strong and independent on your core values of who you are and if you don't understand that?! Then it's time to maybe kn… | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Went to another club but might give upJust want to clarify my opinion on something the above redditor has mentioned. Maybe his context is different but i am same ditto like you. No one actually likes me and myself feel a dead weight. You are very strong to approach woman at bar. I don't even have confidence for that. One thing I came to see is if you force convos it's won't happen. Its a negative approach this is the one thing in life that if you put more efforts you get diminishing returns. It should flow or it won't. Don't feel ba… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 4 | I get the girls I don't want / I don't get the girls I wantYou guys are getting girls?? 🤨 | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Something most men mess up inAhh! Okay. I meant for relationships not casual sex. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Something most men mess up inBroo mind games? This people will play games with you even in relationships. Will fuck up your whole life. Don't date gamers. My suggestion from what I have seen. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Something most men mess up inI feel you bro. If we stop you know you know they won't talk back at all. I feel that emotion man but think broadly I am myself struggling with it. Think like this if a person never had interest in you in the first place would she ever be available for you even after you get into a relationship. I mean she doesn't want to talk let her go, she won't be any good to you even if you keep trying. Sad reality of guys like us but at some point you need to call it lost and move on. Otherwise you can dra… | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 0 | A breakdown of the differences between chasing and courting someoneIf I see through this post. I have always chased woman. I mean it makes sense I am 24 virgin who never had a relationship //."Courting is being proactive and putting forth effort for someone who exhibits the same level of emotional investment, or at least the same level of overall respect."// This lines actually attracted me to this post. I mean I have never felt valued or emotionally invested my a woman. I mean maybe I not valued in their eyes because I am not good in sexual market but no one? … | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 07:23 PM |
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