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| 8 | (29M) After many dates, most of which never really went anywhere, I finally get why people, both men and women, make the hard distinction between relationships and FWB/casual. How can I learn the language/frame/mindset of FWB/casusal?Being a bit more playful, more whimsy, and using double entendres while escalating touch and prioritizing things in your life over her. It requires a lot of skill and practice if you’re not naturally witty. Craig Ferguson is a master at this, and would highly recommend watching his interviews. Are you escalating through touch as well whether it’s a hug when you first meet or throughout the date? I’ve received the “we’re best as friends talk” when I wasn’t brave enough to continually escalate phy… | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”Yeah but where else would people that have experienced trauma with women have access and control of the situation where they could get that sort of exposure? | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”Because car dealerships aren’t a place where attraction and sexuality is in the picture. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”I guess for traumatized men like myself, the goal is to be able with sit with the attention and being perceived while feeling safe and having control. I bet there are plenty of above-attractive men who have gone through sexual trauma by women, considering 1 in 6 men have been sexually assaulted. It’s a niche case but I imagine a lot of the people here have gone through something like that, especially for late-bloomers who may be on the spectrum (there are studies that show people on the spectrum… | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:54 AM |
| 110 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”I could see this working if game is a nervous system problem and you have a problem being perceived/feeling safe around women in a sexual context as a result of trauma. Especially if you have issues with control. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Good pick up lines/OpenersWhy? because the next thing you do after chatting is ask the stewardess to get that coffee with you | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | “Just friends”Why not be friends, play the long game, and try to hook up with her friends | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 05:42 PM |
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