Straight-Balance830 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	(29M) After many dates, most of which never really went anywhere, I finally get why people, both men and women, make the hard distinction between relationships and FWB/casual. How can I learn the language/frame/mindset of FWB/casusal? Being a bit more playful, more whimsy, and using double entendres while escalating touch and prioritizing things in your life over her. It requires a lot of skill and practice if you’re not naturally witty. Craig Ferguson is a master at this, and would highly recommend watching his interviews. Are you escalating through touch as well whether it’s a hug when you first meet or throughout the date? I’ve received the “we’re best as friends talk” when I wasn’t brave enough to continually escalate phy…	/r/seduction	22/06/26 12:13 PM
2	Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game” Yeah but where else would people that have experienced trauma with women have access and control of the situation where they could get that sort of exposure?	/r/seduction	16/06/26 01:55 AM
1	Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game” Because car dealerships aren’t a place where attraction and sexuality is in the picture.	/r/seduction	16/06/26 01:54 AM
4	Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game” I guess for traumatized men like myself, the goal is to be able with sit with the attention and being perceived while feeling safe and having control. I bet there are plenty of above-attractive men who have gone through sexual trauma by women, considering 1 in 6 men have been sexually assaulted. It’s a niche case but I imagine a lot of the people here have gone through something like that, especially for late-bloomers who may be on the spectrum (there are studies that show people on the spectrum…	/r/seduction	16/06/26 01:54 AM
110	Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game” I could see this working if game is a nervous system problem and you have a problem being perceived/feeling safe around women in a sexual context as a result of trauma. Especially if you have issues with control.	/r/seduction	15/06/26 06:57 PM
1	Good pick up lines/Openers Why? because the next thing you do after chatting is ask the stewardess to get that coffee with you	/r/seduction	29/05/26 05:04 PM
1	“Just friends” Why not be friends, play the long game, and try to hook up with her friends	/r/seduction	10/04/26 05:42 PM
2	What are you guys doing to address your insecurities? The biggest things a man can do to be attractive to modern women imo is to be comfortable with his femininity (and being able to be soft and enjoy “girly things” like skin care or fashion), being able to hold and express difficult emotions in an open and communicative manner that isn’t needy, and having a regulated nervous system that makes them feel emotionally secure. As for how, inner work is essential. Go to therapy (somatic/psychedelic therapy have been game changers for me), support groups…	/r/seduction	01/03/26 02:45 PM