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StraightCougar/r/seduction19/09/12 12:23 AM
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I was really into the LA pick-up community for about 5 years. I've met all of the "greats," they all suck, maybe I'm wrong, maybe they actually had game. I would go out with them and they would critique my game without actually talking to anybody. All clout, no game. In the hundreds of times I've gone out with them (I was the promoter they went to for clubs), none of them have the courage they teach. Out of the two successful puas I've met, one was creepily aggressive and only hunted drunk girls…
/r/seduction03/11/17 08:08 AM
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This is the lesson that all puas learn through their journey
/r/seduction13/07/17 09:39 AM
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Counterpoint to that guy up there, don't fall into the literal oldest pua trap of being "alpha". You don't need to be an over the top douche. It works for people like this guy because they're masking past insecurities with a veil they call "being a real man", and that allows them to approach women. I went through that phase and I don't regret it necessarily but I could of skipped it and just approached as myself. You could forreal drop all the macho shit and just approach. There isn't some winni…
/r/seduction13/07/17 09:36 AM
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/r/motivation
/r/seduction12/03/15 02:37 AM
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Hwood promoter for a year, have experience with this one. Callback humor Anything you can remember from the night before about her, make a joke about it. This is pretty much my guarantee "Chocolate Thunder" I use this text after I joke around all night that I'm a male stripper OR Jokes/something playful The first text is about getting a response, this is the only text I send out with the intent of getting a reply; so I keep it playful/flirty.
/r/seduction19/02/15 08:57 PM
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Me and my homie used to run meetings for Cassanova Crew out in LA, and this was the problem we heard the most. As lame as this is: You have confidence issues You have over 21+ years of experiences/memories and hopefully passions, if you can't conjure up something to say, out of those 21+ years, I can't help you. On the off chance that you've just led an uninteresting life, there are plenty of books on conversational skills, but I can assure you that I got over this boundary by acquiring confiden…
/r/seduction19/02/15 08:42 PM
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Check my post history, I did a lengthy post on all the shit I've read/recommend. 60yearsofchallenges stuff is my biggest recommendation. Not a "magic bullet", but the closest I got to one.
/r/seduction20/02/13 02:26 PM
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Might be late to jump on this one, but in the future if you don't wanna be labeled as a creeper, make friends with a lot of the girls you approach. This changes the dynamic of rejection from creeper to cool guy tryin to me cool people
/r/seduction20/02/13 02:22 PM
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Lol. Confidence is attractive, physical attraction is attractive. These are facts. However, you don't NEED to be physically attractive to get women, honestly; you don't NEED confidence to get women either. Both of these HELP, but saying you won't get women because you're ugly is bull shit. I used to be terrible with women, but I'm really good looking, I didn't get women. At, all. Also one of my favorite Puas is ugly as sin (Mehow).
/r/seduction20/02/13 02:18 PM
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Lol. Nah, and I certainly hope yours isn't either haha
/r/seduction18/02/13 02:43 AM
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Outdated? The fuck? Why would it be outdated? It no longer works on women? Lol. It still works, just because it's not the meta, doesn't mean it doesn't work. I don't even practice MM anymore, but it most definitely still works.
/r/seduction09/01/13 10:39 AM
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Truth. I think if you're looking for nuggets, you'd be better off lurking some of the major forums, or old ASF posts. Check out A2Damirs (?) old posts on the ASF forums... Also 60yearsofchallenge.
/r/seduction08/01/13 12:40 AM
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Yeah man, it's really inner game circle jerky.... I think its because Seddit isn't populated with intermediate/advanced people.
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:01 PM
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Wasn't this Manwhore's move? Nice post by the way, will watch the videos when I get home
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:56 PM
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All these posts are clever and funny, but uhhh this shouldn't be happening in the first place. You built enough attraction to keep her talking to you, but not enough to get her number? Unlikely, it sounds like you're building comfort before attraction (this is ok in night game). Or just not building enough attraction, who knows. Work on your flirting/banter/kino or sexual tension. Fuck it do both.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:33 PM
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Man I don't know why, but I really don't like you, at all. Maybe it's cause you still call girls "HBX's", nobody cares about your rating, beauty is subjective; also it's bad for your brain, you're teaching your brain to react to "better" looking girls different than you would if she was "regular", which is silly and counterintuitive. Anyways, we're sort of in the same situation. I've chopped it up to me being an entertaining monkey. I'm all she wants at work, and she often escalates on me (try t…
/r/seduction06/12/12 10:48 AM
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On the flip side of this, "parroting" can come off really needy. A man with confidence talks very slowly, and sometimes doesn't talk at all. Knowing your way around the different types of sexual tension can turn you from a "parrot", into a monster Not all awkward pauses have to be awkward, try and make it sexual, then watch awkward tension become sexual tension. 60YearsOfChallenge (pua) had a technique where he would stop talking, put his hand out, and A. She would take it and he would escalate …
/r/seduction28/11/12 10:16 AM
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Model here. I've never felt like my looks have hindered or helped me unless it was during work. I know people are gonna argue with me or whatever, but I'm 6'2 black, fit, and pretty damn handsome. I work just as hard as the (uglier) people I game with. Looks really don't matter as much as everyone thinks they do. EDIT: Unless the girl is into black guys, that's cheating though.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:05 PM
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I always state my intentions. If I'm leading someone on after I tell them that we're friends... Then it's her fault, not mine.
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:22 PM
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I assumed you were basically talking about being a charming and interesting individual and not flirting in the way of showing sexual interest. Yes, you phrased it much better than I.
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:25 PM
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Well. I know you're joking but it's actually something I do. It's kinda where my name comes from, my friends used to have tell everybody in my small homophobic town that I'm not gay, so they just started calling me Straight. Hitting on guys is weird, and a little hard. Mainly because you have to be very congruent with your sexuality, I've only had about two guys ask me if I'm gay in all my days of being.... me. Now why do I do it? It makes other dudes look like chumps. If I'm (fake) hitting on a…
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:53 PM
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Nope. Act alpha as fuck. Here's my frame when I game, because I don't go after making female friends it kind of just happens. Me to myself: Hit on everybody, e v e r y b o d y. I don't just hit on girls that I like, I legitimately hit on most people around my age and sometimes well above. Why? People like flirting. Especially women, that shit is fun. Now when I meet cute girls who aren't attractive to me, I'll just treat them like my little sister (while still hitting on them.... weird). Of cour…
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:38 PM
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I have so many female friends it's not even funny, matter of fact.... it's the opposite of funny, it's not funny. Make. Female. Friends. They get invited to the coolest parties, and the coolest events. Also, all my female friends are cool as fuck, I think this weekend we're buying a shit ton of gingerbread and making an awesome gingerbread house. Fuck yeah. Side note, having attractive female friends is the greatest thing ever.
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:57 AM
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O shit, that's brilliant. I think I'll try it in person too, thanks bro.
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:25 AM
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Dude, you have no idea how much all these compliments mean. I've been working on my text game for a long time. Thanks everyone!
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:22 AM
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Get number* Me: I'm gonna text you naughty things Her: Laughing /receive text from me that reads: "Naughty things" Been using that one for a while.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:29 PM
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What? That's just rude. You're a dick. Don't stoop down to her level, if you don't like bitches, then don't be one.
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:04 PM
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"Self doubt is only something in your head" - some dude Fake it till you make it man, if you think you're ready for direct, you will be. On the flip side, I started with indirect too, so it may be easy for me to say "forget indirect!" when in reality, I walked the same path you're on. Whatever works for you, all I'm trying to say is give it a try!
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:19 PM
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I like your variation more, using it.
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:25 PM
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Holy shit at all these chump ass indirect questions. My two fall back openers for this situation. "hey! You with the face.... yeah, you! (tone change from fun to seductive) you look very interesting, who are you?" this one has humor, a hook, you're validating her, and showing you're funny/confident. Alternatively, if I'm feeling really confident: Step in front of her (kinda to her side, don't wanna be to confrontational.) "Wow, you're really cute (beautiful works too), I would've kicked myself i…
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:58 PM
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I remember rejections, that shit is hilarious.
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:53 PM
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I've never even heard of this problem, I didn't even know there was a discrepancy between the two. Try this: forget kissing. Go for the makeout every time. This one time I went in for the makeout, and all I got was a peck... Waited, went in for the makeout and it worked. That's the worst experience I've had with my "technique" It's worked for me 20 years.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:46 PM
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StraightCougar. I don't post very often, been lurking for about a year though. Was about to post yesterday to say I'm stoked to read your ebook... But I fell asleep haha.
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:56 PM
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As a guy who was extremely terrified of scary movies but now over them; I actually have good advice to offer instead of just lurking! I'm stoked. I'm going to go against the grain of the other advice, I'm not gonna tell you to man-up. I STILL JUMP AND OCCASIONALLY SQUEAL WATCHING SCARY MOVIES. First you must acknowledge that it's a scary movie, meant to scare you. This means your date will understand when you get scared. Give her a disclaimer (jokingly but serious) before the movie "I get really…
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:18 PM
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Woah, you're in CasanovaCrew... Small world.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:48 PM
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$0. Movie at the park (event). Or if that doesn't work for her, I'll A. Invite over to my spa, B. Just chill with her at the park, greatest date ever.
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:49 PM
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AA stems from inner game. Conquer inner game and you'll destroy AA. Maybe it's not a book you need bro. You should try reading some of the forums and what not. If you fully understand, and can execute Mystery Method though, maybe it's time to step up your game.
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:13 AM
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College guys as in daygame? - Check out Psych/DJ Fuji's books or Mystery Method for indirect game, and 60YearsOfChallenge for direct game. AA:60YearsOfChallenge, he has this thing called social momentum, great for AA Inner game: Hypnotica, I can't stress this more. Also, Manwhore/Arash have great inner game.
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:03 AM
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Was it a good read? I've never heard of it.
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:29 PM
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I don't condone of this, but I just checked.... and yes there is.
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:28 PM
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Blue Print... isn't that an extremely expensive program by RSD? I'd tried to keep all the books under at least 100$
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:03 AM
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When you learn martial arts, the instructor doesn't just tell you to go in and fight! He teaches you technique. Game is exactly the same, yes practice is great, but if you don't even know the basics, get your head in the books, get a coach, or however you wanna learn. Credit to Arash for the analogy. Recommended reading Women Ignition by 60YearsOfChallenge (intermediate-master) <--- This dude was my mentor and I am a beast for that, much love to ya 60! Anything by RSD/Real Social Dynamics ( Begi…
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:25 PM
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Your post reminded me of "60 years of challenge" style game. I recommend all who were attracted by this post to go read his online stuff (his book is just stuff he posted on MASF compiled). He's more about embracing the awkwardness (sexual tension) rather than remedying it Good post though man, very readable; not like a novel at all.
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:08 PM
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I died at the plumbing part haha Good job though bro, hope you continue your success.
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:08 PM
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Like I said before, I was in a dark place ;)
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:55 AM
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200% happy where I'm at. Never looked at it like that. I'm dumb. Thanks.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:45 AM
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Enjoy? Yeah it got me through some tough times. My friend carries himself differently than me, women sometimes tell me I walk around like I'm better than everyone, whilst my friend never gets this. Its hard to explain ): Also, it may be our game but I believe we're on the same level. So I think its cockiness vs confidence.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:00 AM
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I think so, because my cockiness is of a different breed, I'm not cocky to cover up my insecurities... I've always been like this. Learning pick-up has tamed it a bit, but; it's hard to hide sometimes.
/r/seduction19/08/12 11:38 PM
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I am a very attractive male, however; my friend who is monumentally less attractive usually gets the better looking of the girls we talk to. Why? Confidence. He is confident, I am sadly.... cocky. Either way, as an attractive male it may be bias but I've only gotten one or two girls strictly by my looks (not counting high school)
/r/seduction19/08/12 11:26 PM
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I'm sorry I didn't read the whole thing cause I'm on my phone so I don't know if you said this but ALWAYS REMEMBER SEDUCTION ISN'T A PROVEN SCIENCE Take everything you learn lightly.
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:08 AM
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Yeah. Starting a relationship off with sex is totally a good idea too, then you have one less giant hurdle out of the way. Then you don't have to worry about sex anymore, the relationship just becomes two people trying to get to know each other better.
/r/seduction16/08/12 08:44 PM
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To answer your second edit, you would want to accompany her to her group and introduce yourself, for extra fun make it seem like her idea. "I didn't know we were that serious already! But ok... I'll meet your friends" "O wow! You're already introducing me to the family?"
/r/seduction28/04/12 03:24 PM
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Good read, thanks bro. (Commenting for later use)
/r/seduction27/04/12 10:26 PM
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Did I say buff? I meant cut as shit.
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:31 PM
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Dude, your post is awesome, something similar happened to me today. (Sorry for the format, I post off my cell) Went to Hooters today with my best friend, my friend is about 6 feet tall, 140 pounds of pure unadulterated muscle, and his face looks exactly like Taylor Lautner's (spell check?), he's probably a solid 9/10 (I'd say 10/10 but I already sound gay). While waiting for our food our sexy ass blonde waitress comes over, sits down, and starts opening up to my friend. After this she would peri…
/r/seduction22/04/12 08:53 AM
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If she buys first round, he doesn't have to buy second round.... and even if he did, he wasn't trying to impress her by buying her drinks; at that point he was 'in' their group and the drinks locked him in. This guy sounded pretty successful to me bro, I think you're seeing what you wanna see... take the advice from some of the other posters, it sounds like you are being very self-restrictive.
/r/seduction19/04/12 03:27 PM
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Maybe it's cause I just joined seddit but... wtf? EDIT: I mean I get it.... but; why write it like that?
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:48 PM
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Upvote for calling her a camel.
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:18 PM
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I know, for a second I thought he was gonna walk out without his $15.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:10 PM
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Female logic tends to not be very logical, this especially applies to advice they give.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:38 AM
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Haha, I gotta try that, I usually use awkward silence to start kino. Cause I always thought that 'Awkward silence = Sexual tension'
/r/seduction17/04/12 09:33 PM
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Her: I don't kiss random guys Me: (After making out with her) What does that make me? Her: Special <3 Happens a lot now but I'll never forget the first time.
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:43 PM
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Oh dear lord that was just, amazing. Someone start a slow clap! Quick!
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:08 AM
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Thanks that was a good read, and now I don't have to drink Dos Equis.
/r/seduction16/04/12 05:34 AM
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Don't worry about it man, you shouldn't immediately undermine your confidence by thinking things like, "What's wrong with me?" or "What did I do wrong?", maybe you caught them at a bad time, maybe there's a family emergency, maybe she died. All I'm saying is that there is too many factors it could be that don't have to do with you, as much as some people deny it, this 'is' a numbers game.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:21 PM
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Wat?
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:16 PM
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When I go to clubs I split up from my friends and sometimes girls will shit test me by saying: "where are your friends?", to which I respond with one of two comments, First wiping away my fake tears, then telling them "I have no friends!" And hugging them passionately haha Grabbing the nearest dude/girl next to me and saying right here! Then shake their hand or hug them nonchalantly. Not sure if this is what you were looking for, but it helps me a bunch!
/r/seduction14/04/12 07:54 PM
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Sometimes, Tyler speaks for me. Haha all I could think was Fight Club when I was reading this.
/r/seduction13/04/12 05:03 PM
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Come on, give the man some credit! His confidence level was 'below' zero.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:55 PM
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Hopefully this never gets read. When I was 16 y/o I met the most attractive woman I had ever laid eyes on, being me, I knew I would have a chance with her. Sooo I approached her, we ended up exchanging numbers and she was reaaallllyyyy into me. However I had been raised all my life to think that I needed to be really nice (And not rush things) to become her boyfriend. Well flash forward a month and I'm getting ready to ask her to become my girlfriend... I arrive at school to find her holding han…
/r/seduction13/04/12 06:35 AM
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Congrats man, and I wish you much success in the future.
/r/seduction13/04/12 06:13 AM
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Great read, thanks brody
/r/seduction12/04/12 09:25 AM
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