Straight_Ad7284 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The Damage and Destruction of Divorce Completely normal behavior. They think they have chosen their own happiness. How could they feel guilty, when they "feel" it's right. And they truly believe their children will one day understand and even applaud their decision.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/26 03:03 PM
4	How blindsided were you by the affair? That's probably the hardest. How they succeed in making you believe you are somehow the problem, and if only you would do or be X, Y or Z, the marriage could be saved. No self-reflection, I suppose.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/25 02:03 PM
6	How blindsided were you by the affair? Exactly. "I could only have feelings for another man because our marriage was already over or because I never loved you." Cognitive dissonance is strong with adulterers.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/25 02:01 PM
1	I hate this shit. I find it especially hard for my children. I went through hell when I found out her cheating, and it took me a long time to accept that my marriage was over. But now I know I wouldn't take her back if she asked. But knowing my children went through these dark years also, and won't have a mom and dad who are together, still hits hard. There is no way I will ever forgive her for that. Plain selfishness.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/25 01:55 PM