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That doesn’t make it any less dehumanising When women are not being pedestalized and are instead being treated equally, they misperceive that as misogyny. Women generally prefer men who pedestalize them over men who treat them as their equals. Because love isn’t possession and ownership. You’re describing the relationship between a dog and it’s master. Doesn't matter, you don't get to define love for other people. Lots of women enjoy being submissive in relationships. I doubt you would tell a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:00 PM
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No one can choose their personality either, otherwise everyone would pick a good one. If a woman is even slightly attractive, men will see her personality through rose-tinted glasses. Men would date a woman with a difficult personality and try to see the positive in her if she is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:21 PM
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No I need those things and without them I will die. Now you're just splitting hairs. A want can be a need. People suffocating want air, like REALLY badly. I want/need water, food and shelter. I can want a boyfriend, I will not DIE without one. I can be unhappy, miserable, suicidal even, But I will not perish without a boyfriend, like I would without a NEED like water or food. You won't immediately perish if you're locked up in prison for the rest of your life either, but it would reduce your lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:49 PM
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Who wants to be desired/loved just for their value as a sexual object instead of who they actually are? Most men would LOVE to be viewed as sex objects by random women. Women don't love men for who they are, but "love" men for what they got. Whether that's money or social status. Men do love women for who they are because women are their looks. It's much easier to appreciate someone's personality and uniqueness if you already love what they look like. And yet you talk about it like it’s a privil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:03 PM
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Isolation doesn’t = lack of romantic attention, it’s a lack of human interaction. That's not necessarily true. You don't don't need to be completely starved of human interaction to be lonely or socially isolated. Objective social isolation is the tangible and quantifiable lack of connections with other people, while subjective isolation is the perceived lack of closeness between an individual and members of their social network. There is research showing that subjective social isolation is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:32 AM
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When you pedestalise someone you don’t see them as an individual but above that, it’s dehumanising. Many women don't mind being pedestalized by men. https://www.psypost.org/2022/08/benevolent-sexism-does-not-appear-to-contribute-to-womens-sexual-dissatisfaction-63656?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter Wanting a women who is subservient and devoted to you or to use as a sex object isn’t true love. If the attraction is mutual and the woman enjoys being devoted and subservient to her man, why wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:12 AM
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"After having a child, nearly two thirds of women who return to work do so on reduced hours You're just proving my point. Two thirds is not all women. The fact that about 30% of women return to work full time after having a child proves that it's possible. As long as women have the option to stay at home with their kids, many will take it, and others will work only part time. Because the men know the women already have full-time employment. Supplementary analyses show that the wife’s share of ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:13 PM
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Because the mother took time off work to rear these children. He's further along in his career development than she is. And she is working part time to make it work. And she's taking time off work whenever the child has an appointment, because that's a responsibility that overwhelmingly falls on the mother. In single-father families, the father, not the mother, is rearing the children. Not all women take time off work after having children, not all women can, and some women don't take much time …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:11 AM
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yes, the data shows men in poverty abandon their kids but women in poverty do not. Women often kick the fathers out, tell the kids that daddy ran away, and then demand to be treated like saints and martyrs for being 'the only real parent' their kids had. Men can't abandon their kids because the law forces them to pay. It's called child support and it is enforced zealously. Most single moms get child support and government welfare, but only a minority of single fathers do. To be assigned child su…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:34 AM
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Single fathers with two children make almost twice as much money on average as single mothers with two children and also out-earn single men. Single fathers work much more than single mothers, both full time and overtime. To say that taking care of children in a modern society requires working less is 100% false. Women choosing to be much less productive isn't men oppressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:27 AM
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Even the stupid blog you linked as a source says that small waist size is far more attractive to men If you had actually bothered to read it, you would have seen that they provide evidence that the average young woman resembles a sex doll more than a runway model in spite of having a larger waist. The average sex doll looks like a 10/10 woman and pretty much represents the male ideal of female beauty. Women who idealize runway models overestimate the importance of a small waist, and underestimat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:09 PM
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That depends on her personality. A broke young woman with a mean personality could easily get sex, but she wouldn't be viewed as LTR material by most guys, whereas a broke young woman with a kind personality would have an easy time getting a boyfriend. Women are mostly valued for what they are: physical attractiveness, youth, fertility, friendliness, comforting character, exuberance, etc. Men are mainly valued for what they can provide and these things take time to build. A good career, assets i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:33 PM
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I don’t think you have a good understanding of the etiology of eating disorders and I wonder if your idea of an average woman is accurate. My point was that many women wrongly believe that the ultra-thin, curveless figures of the fashion industry are what men are most attracted to. It's common for women in the fashion industry to have eating disorders, including anorexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:21 PM
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Okay, but you said most men would accept a woman with no ioh, no education, etc. So why aren't you guys dating and marrying homeless women? Go ahead, do it, there are plenty. First of all, the vast majority of homeless people are men. There aren't that many homeless women. Secondly, most homeless women are single moms, and many are drug addicts. It's very easy for a young homeless woman who isn't a single mom or a drug addict to get a boyfriend. Lots of guys would love to take a woman like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:26 PM
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Prove it lol. The fuck? Women's attractiveness ratings of men are 1,000 times more sensitive to salary than vice-versa. Red pill invented this narrative to make you Haye everybody. "Only hot people are happy and in love, everyone else is settling" like what an insane and sad perspective..it's not true. Nice strawman of the redpill. Not true. Why don't you go Daye a homeless woman then? Fucking go I would date a homeless woman if she's at least average looking and not a drug addict. I wouldn't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:52 PM
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A regular man is good enough for most women. That's in spite of rather than because of his looks. An average looking young man with no money, no job, and no education isn't good enough for most women, but an average looking young woman with no money, no job, and no education is good enough for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:40 PM
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I mean, lots of good studies work within the realm of self-reported emotional and psychological states; it doesn't automatically invalidate a study. There are of course problems with them, too, but they can be a meaningful inquiry and jumping-off point for further studies that are more rigorous. I think this is a good write-up on both the usefulness and limitations of self-report studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:32 PM
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Millions of women starve themselves and nake themselves throw up to the point of developing major issues jusy so society will love them..welcome to the fucking club. Glad men are catching up It's unfortunate that a lot of women delude themselves into thinking that men prefer anorexic women. In the real world, all we want is miss average. Just the average shaped woman is good enough for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:23 PM
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Yeah but why would fat women care about guys wanting to use them like a fleshlight lol? You say it as if its an advantage. Because most women like casual sex. They just don't like it as much as men do. In the Northeastern study of female students, regret was well below the mid-point of the scale from 1 (not at all) to 7 (very much), while enjoyment was well above the mid-point of the scale for both romantic and casual sex (1). According to another study, only 27% of women reported that they felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:39 PM
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Instead women generally show a preference for men around their age throughout their lifetime, while men show a strong preference for women in their early twenties throughout theirs. Personally, I think this difference is mostly due to women valuing reciprocal attraction much more highly than men. It’s the same reason women do not hire sex workers. It's probably better explained by the fact that younger men tend to have less money and status than men her own age or older. Most women don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:27 AM
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Lol but what are the advantages?????? You said what is bad but is their any good to it? Most women don't like sifting through guys who are not attractive to them. Many women use dating apps for validation and to boost their self-esteem. They have no intention of going out with anyone because they know they can easily get dates IRL, and just want to get a lot of matches, messages and likes so they feel attractive. Demographic characteristics and psychological antecedents influence the motives for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:31 PM
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That this doesn't explain senior sexual behavior in retirement homes. This std rates are extremely high because of their promiscuity. Elderly men are much more likely to want sex than elderly women. 41% of men in the 75-85 age group are still interested in sex, compared to only 11% of women (source). Seniors still have sex drives, however the sex drives of senior men aren't comparable to that of younger women. This isn't always true. There are plenty of men in their 50s and 60s with higher sex d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:07 PM
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The reason a 55 year old man, who's wealthy enough to do it, seeks out a younger woman is simply because she's more sexually compatible. There's a whole culture of denial around it, but after menopause most women completely stop having sex, unless they decide to go on hormone therapy—which most don't. Men and women in their 50's and 60's are incredibly disparate in terms of sexual health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:13 AM
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for all we know, either one could have started the idea of divorce (cheating etc). In general, the woman who files the paperwork is the one who wants the divorce. Literature on women’s initiation of divorce shows that the average of female predominance in divorce initiation is similar whether one examines the records of who files for divorce, or who wanted the divorce more, or who initiated the divorce (Brinig and Allen 2000; Sayer et al. 2011; Sweeney 2002; Pettit and Bloom 1984), though in ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:20 AM
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The double standard exists for a reason. Women with a higher body count have higher rates of martial disruption. It is only women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship who have an elevated risk of marital disruption. This effect is strongest for women who have multiple premarital coresidental unions. Marital stability drops to 53% if the woman has more than one partner before marriage. Take a look at these charts from a CDC survey. Women who have more sexual partners are less l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:19 PM
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