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Agreed I’m dating ND guy and it just works soo well. Couldn’t date a neurotypical now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:08 AM
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I think late 30s early 40s is the sweet spot. People are done having kids. People know themselves really well, have experience of serious relationships and have clear ideas on what they want as a companion. 20s we’re still growing probably making wrong choices for ourselves. 30s people are rushing to settle down or coming out of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:20 PM
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“My kids are my world” lacks parenting skills “Don’t take yourself seriously” void of personality also see pineapple on pizza debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:17 AM
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Well yes but says a lot about them really. Can judge someone by the company they keep. Bird of a feather and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:26 PM
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Ooh that’s tough. I feel like being overweight probably isn’t that much of a deal breaker. It’s when you’re in the morbidly obese category you probably struggle or have a very small demographic of people to choose from. I’m a uk 16 and had loads of dates even at my largest uk 20. I’d use candid photos, full body and no editing. Never struggled to get dates or relationships. Being broke can hinder dating but I know plenty of women dating broke men, some are complete cock lodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:48 PM
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What you’ve said is really alien to me. In my real Life I don’t see these dynamics in couples. Although this train of thought and content is really prevalent online. Would you say this is what you come across in your social circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:54 PM
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It’s probably further along then people think. Go check out the replika forums. People are very attached to their ai relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:15 AM
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We have quantity not quality. No end of porn sick men with no drive, sat in front of a screen neglecting their health. We can get dates, it’s a different set of problems finding someone with their shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:21 PM
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I know this is change your view but I don’t necessarily disagree with you. I wouldn’t want to date red pill men with those kinds of views. I’d rather make peace with being alone if those were my options. However there are some really good guys around that don’t follow trp movement. In real life I just don’t see rp values being reflected in couples and relationships. But it’s often what’s pushed online and generated a lot of traction and discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:14 PM
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Yes there was this incel documentary in England recently. Sad to see so many young people completely isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:00 PM
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I think it’s important to distinguish online entertainment from real life. I consume this kind of content on YouTube but when I turn off the internet it just doesn’t reflect the real life relationships around me. I see plenty of women dating short guys, women dating guys who earn less then them, men who are good guys that are faithful. But I am over 30 so maybe millienials have thankfully avoided the worst of toxic dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:21 PM
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I think when you’ve been together years it will ebb and flow which is normal for any long term couple
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:43 PM
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I generally think first few times you sleep with someone you’re getting to know them so it’s more about chemistry and the sex should get better as time goes on. If they turned out to be incompatible I’d have to end it sex is really important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:19 PM
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So I spent a solid year online dating. Most physical contact was a peck or a hug. Then I met my now boyfriend. Second date we slept together. I probably would have slept with him on the first date but we was in a coffee shop. I felt comfortable sleeping with him so soon because he communicated his intentions towards me and I felt safe and secure with him. I knew I wasn’t going to leave wondering if he’ll call/text and it was going to be a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:56 PM
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That would hurt my feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:58 PM
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I’m not reading all that. They’re is literally billions of people on this planet. You can’t compare their struggles based upon gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:13 PM
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High value females stand up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:31 PM
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No gives me the ick. I’m not into it sexually. To me he’s a man therefore anything he does is manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:23 PM
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Short answer is that to some women it’s an ick. I’m not into gay sex, it’s not on my radar but if my partner is then it’s an incompatibly issue. Same way if he had some kink that wasn’t my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:48 PM
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Can’t speak for anyone else just myself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:41 PM
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I’m not a victim. I don’t find bisexual men attractive. Do you quiz other people on what they are or aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:40 PM
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It’s my sexuality and I don’t need to explain it. It just is and has every right to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:35 PM
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I think men find that sexually attractive. There’s potential for opportunity. Whereas I’m opposite end of the scale I don’t find it attractive at all. Sexuality is a fickle thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:34 PM
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Call it what you want but the thought of my boyfriend getting dicked down gives me the ick. I don’t have to be attracted to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:29 PM
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Yea he’s attracted to both but being sexually attracted to males in that capacity is a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:04 PM
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I’m a hetro female and wouldn’t entertain dating a bisexual male because they’re sexually attracted to males. Not sure what other women think of it. Whereas I’m assuming bisexual women are exciting to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:06 PM
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Going off this post thought it’s right up your street
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:57 PM
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Can we all agree that 90day fiancé is really entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:13 PM
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Over 30s dating is wild. I’d often take breaks from it, can become very disheartening. After a year of dating I met someone. By this point dating was a chore. I didn’t expect anything to come of it. To me Online dating was a numbers game, meet and speak to enough guys I’d eventually come across someone I connect with. Also when it comes to dating costs first few dates should just be cheap and cheerful, coffees, ice creams ect save the expensive stuff for when you’ve met someone who reciprocates …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:35 AM
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Weird stance, can you give it ago and come back and tell us the responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:47 PM
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Yea I’ve never struggled to get dates, so one hurdle down atleast. But progressing to a relationship and then having a relationship with neurotypicals has never worked out for me. So yea not the same. Being a woman only gets you so far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:24 PM
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Being a neurodivergent woman has its own set of issues, I’m not obviously autistic but neurotypical guys probably find me odd. Been told I’m stand offish ext. fast forward now dating a lovely equally high functioning guy. Makes life sooo much easier, when I complain that central heating makes the air feel wrong he gets it. It’s nice to just not have to pretend to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:11 PM
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That is something we should all agree wholeheartedly on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:08 PM
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Aww that turned into a kind of heart warming story. I’ve dated and had sex with fat guys before. I find them squidgy and they just give the best hugs. My boyfriend is 6,2 and 300lbs I love it here and I’m never leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:53 PM
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Nothing to be envious about, the chances of any of that sex being good is pretty small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:37 PM
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By all means have strict standards. If it’s working for you there’s no need to reflect. However, if you’re struggling, maybe it’s time to assess if you’re meeting the requirements for the bracket you’re trying to date in. I personally find height very hot my boyfriend is 6,2 and I love it here but I’ve dated short guys before. I would have missed out on some lovely dates and previous relationships if I’d been a stickler for height requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:21 PM
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I’m 5,2 current boyfriend is 6,2 however have dated shorter guys in the past. Longest relationship was 8 years to a 5,8 guy even had a child with him. Height is nice but it’s really not everything. If people have a preference that’s their business but they’re probably missing out on some great connections and it’s their loss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:26 AM
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Neither doesn’t mean they’re a low value human being
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:07 PM
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Definitely! I’d hate to be with a partner who feels like he’s settled for me. Or vice Versa
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:18 PM
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Nobody owes anyone attraction. I’ve had relationships where things haven’t worked out and it’s best to end on good terms then stay and hate one another. I also think as you get older you work towards a life you love. Fulfilling work, family, friendships ext. being single isn’t the worst thing to happen. So if dates don’t work out you’re not going to force yourself to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:17 PM
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No grown mature adult is going to let the opinions of others affect their relationships. As a teen validation from my friends was really important. As an adult I do not give a duck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:42 PM
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I hate referring to people as low or high value. I think when you have this mentality you’ve lost all sense of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:28 PM
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Hello fellow aspie here 👋🏽 sorry I don’t understand second part of your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:46 AM
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Well by all means only date virgins. Other then this subreddit where would this come up in conversation? Do you put it in your dating profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:58 PM
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Exactly short and sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:11 PM
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Do you not ever get gut feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:15 PM
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I love coffee dates. Dating is hard enough without all the additional pressure. Rather keep it low key and casual at first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:38 PM
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I’m from England and have never paid on a first date. Usually go for coffee and a walk so it’s not even expensive. Don’t ask me on a date if you don’t actually want to take me out. If a guy expected me to go 50/50 there would be no second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:29 AM
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People can have whatever preference they want. I think you’ve misunderstood me. I’m talking about society as a whole not gender wars and how people are nicer to me in general now I’ve slimmed down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:25 PM
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I think loneliness affects both sexes but differently. Doesn’t have to be one or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:22 PM
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No you can have whatever preferences you want. I’m talking about how differently I’ve been treat since losing weight. Just because you’re not attracted to someone doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat them with compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:42 PM
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Online is weird. so real life invisible but when I was online dating I’d always get matches and dates easily. I’d use candid photos ect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:29 PM
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Yea fat me could have done with that kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:28 PM
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I can believe!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:27 PM
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When I was a uk size 20 I was completely invisible. Now I’ve lost weight people are much kinder to me. Very sad fact of life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:55 PM
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I’ve never met a man with a higher libido then me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:43 PM
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I’ve never met a guy with a higher sex drive then me, but ultimately I prefer quality to quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:58 PM
1

Anyone else watch 90day fiancé?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:52 PM
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Anyone else heard the song short king advocate? Damn catchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:25 PM
1

A well groomed beard on a guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:10 PM
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Yea except height I’m 5,2 and like to date taller. I have dated short guys before. But 5,2 is just too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:10 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. Make a life you love and if you meet someone it’s the cherry on the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:47 AM
2

If only we could swap, I’d wear heels and lean on short men like an arm rest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:07 PM
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Tall women are the beauty standard. Runway models aren’t short curvy women. Id love to be tall so I could antagonise all the short salty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:02 PM
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On dating apps for a solid year. The most was a quick peck. Then met my now boyfriend from a dating app and we slept together on the second date. Felt comfortable enough to sleep with him cause we connected so well and he communicated really clearly. Never been into fwb or casual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:22 PM
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I’m a woman and firmly believe it’s better to be alone then waste your time with someone who doesn’t value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:44 PM
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Been both, single every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:11 PM
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I’ve never paid on a first date. The way I see it if a guy can’t stretch to a cup of coffee he’s probably not that into me. Fast forward I’m now in a relationship and I love to spoil my boyfriend. We take it in turns paying for dates. I always buy him little gifts ext but first few dates he paid. I think when it comes to dating it’s best just to find someone who shares your values around finances. Why waste time on people with different expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:13 PM
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Nobody wants to be a single parent, life just ends up that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:37 PM
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No we have different values
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:33 PM
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Yea that’s definitely cheating. If you’ve reached this point just end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:26 PM
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I’ve got this figured. In a relationship, made it clearly I will never live with them and don’t want more children. They’re similar age, also divorced and happy with this set up. It keeps the romance alive and no bickering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:16 PM
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It’s really subjective. Genetics and lifestyles play a massive factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:23 PM
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I’ve been attracted to all my ex’s and they’ve varied on the points you’ve mentioned massively. I wish attraction was that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:34 PM
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Agreed! Men seem to peak sexually in their 20s then slow down. My libido has been crazy since my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:08 PM
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I personally find glasses super hot but each to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:44 PM
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Cry’s in mixed race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:46 AM
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I like rough sex that I consent to. No way would I let a guy I barely know choke or slap me. Women with old this info to protect themselves from weirdos. Bdsm community is full of predators
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:52 PM
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I hate referring to people as low or high value. I think when you’re looking at people that way you need to go touch some grass. However, to me undesirable traits are someone without goals/purpose. Smokes, takes drugs, big drinker, sloppy drunk. No hobbies/interests. Kids with multiple partners. Poor parenting skills, no social skills. Poor hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:21 PM
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Always been a thing but now we have a word for it, weaponised incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:40 PM
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No the attraction was there but conflict resolution wasn’t sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:45 PM
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Not sure about looks but the attributes I look for have changed over time. Early 20s I wanted someone with lots of common interests which were partying travelling ect. As I got older and wanted a family i looked for guys that had similar values/morals as mine. Then post kids/separation I went back to finding a guy purely for companionship and common interests. I’m done having kids and doubt I’ll live with a guy again so it’s more about fun date nights and travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:12 PM
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Paradox of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:15 AM
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Short answer just swipe on people you’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:49 AM
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When I was a size 20 I was completely invisible. When I lost weight people were just soo much nicer to me. Men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:05 AM
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