Strange-Middle-1155 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	Demand what you ask for Agreed. Being rude to wait staff is a huge red flag. If someone did that on a date there would be a next date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/22 10:09 PM
34	FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content. Thanks, I come here to learn to do good by myself. Not to feel depressed and sick about horrible stuff I already knew existed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/22 12:51 PM
24	Ted is a softboi narcissist who specializes in lovebombing. Learn to differentiate someone who genuinely likes you and actually sees you for who you are VS. someone who idealizes you and puts you on a pedestal without truly knowing you on the deeper level. This is typical Hollywood bullshit. A lot or romantic movies and TV shows are really horrible examples of how boundary breaking and not accepting 'no' for an answer is "real love". Disgusting. They always put romantic music in those scenes where they should have put that Hitchcock music instead. I can't stand this show anymore. Same with a lot of things on TV where they put either laugh tracks or music in toxic displays to make them look like they aren't major red flags.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 10:10 AM
47	Male tells another male how to 'dress up' BDSM in Woke terms. 🤢 Sounds like a twelve year old boy with mental issues who just got rejected by his middle school crush and should have had more supervision on what he does online. Let's hope he doesn't have access to a firearm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 04:17 PM
20	How'd You Find FDS? All the warnings about how toxic and dangerous and delusional this sub was made me curious. Probably from comments on meme/joke subs. I went looking for toxicity, kept reading until I found what they were warning me for, and only found stuff that was actually useful for when you want to avoid unhealthy relationships. So funny how the bad publicity gets like a third of the people here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 12:33 PM
2	As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior As someone with both (complex) PTSD and ADHD, it's sickening to see anyone use it as an excuse to be a shithead. It's both offensive to the one you're treating badly as to everyone with the diagnosis. Damn right I'm extra hard on people who are shitheads and use, or should I say weaponize, their labels for a shitty excuse for shitty behaviour. They make it harder for everyone else who suffers from this -and who does act like a decent human being- to be accepted. Also: even IF there is a link bet…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 06:28 PM
2	Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know About I'm sorry you went through that abuse in the most vulnerable time of your life at the hands of the person who was supposed to protect and care for you. I'm also a psychopath apparently for not wanting to play along with my mother's games anymore. An accusation from a narcissist is the closest to a confession you'll ever get.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 06:56 PM
213	Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know About "what happened to you? You used to be so sweet" - you dare to have your own opinions "Are you sure you're doing -basic thing- right?" - you're not a function human being to be taken seriously "I'm worried there's something wrong with your brain" - you're crazy "Don't talk about your pain to me, are you even considering how that makes me feel?" - you're selfish for having pain instead of only caring about my feelings "I can treat you how I want, I'm your mother" - you're not respecting them for w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 02:43 PM
14	Indian men threatening that they won't get married as an opposition to the marital rape laws being heard in the high courts. I just have two things to say - interesting reaction and I hope these people are identified and made public so literally, no one ever marries them On the one hand I don't want these gross people being allowed to even post their gross thoughts and spread them but on the other I do want them to expose themselves so everyone else can keep far away from them. Is that even allowed on Twitter? People get cancelled left and right but this stuff can get through? Nice priorities Social media. Not that it surprises me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/22 08:26 PM
89	I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM Fathers Sounds like he needed a boob job himself (to remove them)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 12:49 PM
112	REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming. Omg I'm definitely going to use the note app idea for dating! So smart and very effective against gaslighting yourself. Thanks for sharing that one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/22 02:55 PM
2	Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope. It's a self protection mechanism when you can't escape your abuser. "keep them happy so they'll abuse me less bad" It's not love but you'll confuse the two because it's intense and gives a lot of excitement. You'll be especially vulnerable to confusion of those things when you grow up with abuse and neglect and be told it's love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 03:40 PM