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| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Without looking up online, please describe in your own words what self reflection entails and the process required of unpacking during introspection? And please describe also in your own words, what the word trigger, defensive, and hostile mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Without looking up online, please describe in your own words what self reflection entails and the process required of unpacking during introspection? And please describe also in your own words, what the word trigger, defensive, and hostile mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...The only one deflecting here is you. I’ve asked you a number of questions that you’ve ignored and you repeatedly make a false statement which just isn’t objectively true. This is you sounding hostile. Reflect on why it’s worded in a hostile manner. I’m genuinely curious why you’re so triggered and deflecting so much and are so defensive? I’m not. I’ve been asking a very simple direct question roughly six times in a row. I feel like you completely lack self awareness based on your previous replie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Because “vibe” is the feel/aura you give off through your personality, and personality comes second to looks. This is a solid Pandora’s box that should be unpacked. Let’s focus on this for a moment… Why do you personally feel this to be true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Because we don’t need emotions to understand the definition of therapy, or decide whether we believe it works as a treatment for mental health Well we aren’t talking about the definition of therapy, that’s not what I was asking ever. Not once. But you use facts and logic as a wall to keep people at arms length out of done kind of fear. Not sure what kind of fear, but fear is your motive h factor so far in each response. I believe therapy works, because discussing and identifying mental health is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Right back at you. Therapy is indeed a MASSIVE scam, which is gobbled up by women and feminine men. Hahahaha I’m not hostile, I’m being factual. Why do you think I’m being hostile!? Therapy is just a giant pile of bullshit, like astrology, crystal healing, homeopathy, etc. There’s a reason why it’s mainly women who flock to these things. Better to feel good about yourself than understand the truth about how reality works eh? ?? Don’t think your observation is based in fact haha Why are you being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...None of this matters if you’re attractive. Emo Chad slays even though he’s a sad boy and cuts himself or whatever. Let’s dive into this and unpack this. Why do you feel this about what you said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why do we need to do that? The reasoning behind psychotherapy is either valid to you or it isn’t. Well let’s unpack this. Do you feel offline you don’t feel your thoughts, feelings, and opinions get dismissed by the people closest to you? My opinion isn’t relevant; we’re investigating why you think therapy doesn’t do the things it says it does That’s the thing. I never said that. I’m trying to understand your view of being strictly logical on something that involves being emotionally open. But l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...You contend that therapy is useless because of emotions, judgement and stigma in real life, while I consider that therapy useful because therapy is not real life but a treatment meant to address those very obstacles — by law and confidentiality Let’s unpack this statement. Why do you feel this and what part from childhood has create this view towards this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why do I have to be emotional about it? Why is the definition of a word not sufficient to discuss the word and why it is relevant? It feels like there is a wall being hit right now by this response being given. Is there anything in the way from going there in responses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Because that’s what therapy is supposed to involve Okay, let’s unpack why you diverted answering the question and have a surface detached response to the question. By any chance do you fear being absolutely vulnerable and honest in your responses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Who has to know ? And the therapist isn’t supposed to condemn or judge you for having emotions, especially negative or unmasculine ones Let’s dive deeper. Why do you believe this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why be afraid of judgement when no one is going to judge you ? Okay, well let’s expand on this… What do you feel they fear being judged for if they go to therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Right back at you. Therapy is indeed a MASSIVE scam, which is gobbled up by women and feminine men. Hahahaha I’m not hostile, I’m being factual. Why do you think I’m being hostile!? Therapy is just a giant pile of bullshit, like astrology, crystal healing, homeopathy, etc. There’s a reason why it’s mainly women who flock to these things. Better to feel good about yourself than understand the truth about how reality works eh? ?? Don’t think your observation is based in fact haha Why are you being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...That their concerns are illogical, because therapy is confidential and voluntary I split it because the first part stays on topic, the second is not & circling back to the first comment. So why do you feel, as you said to quote you: That their concerns are illogical I’m genuinely curious, I’m for honest, non-hostile, open free discussions that fosters understanding others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why are you so hostile right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...No, therapy is medically confidential for everyone, did you know? And usually voluntary, unless you have committed a crime or been hospitalized Again, outside of the HIPPA structure for anyone who goes to therapy, what does this have to do in regards to my response about why men don’t go to therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 0 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Yes, and all of those concerns are moot when you are in voluntary medically confidential treatment Are you referring to your personal experience right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why are you so hostile right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Yeah but that saying is bs. Calling out bad behaviors doesn't mean you do those things yourself. Such a childish viewpoint. Imagine if the law was based on your perspective lol. "That man is a rapist! Well you must be a rapist yourself to make such an accusation." So silly. ”Ur mad bro" Yeah that kind of argument should be left on middle school playgrounds and xbox live servers where it belongs lol. Somebody calling out the absurdity of your arguments doesn't mean they are upset or projecting, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Oh! The way you worded it after the first sentence, came across as contradicting it and saying the opposite the way my mind processed it! So sorry about that but glad for a simple resolve, understand. Thank you internet stranger for the peaceful resolve! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:21 PM |
| – | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Lol. You really didn't like getting called out, did you? Sorry babe, but if you post something nonsensical on a public forum people are going to notice. Deflecting. Again. Let’s focus and stay on track. Again I ask, what are you upset about right now offline in your personal life, that is motivating this to ooze out as a response to a complete internet stranger? It’s not a hard thing to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Huh? What are you talking about? I’m so confused what this has to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Also here is why they are defensive on this topic and closed minded… Men may have a variety of reasons for thinking therapy is a scam, including: • Emotional expression. Men may have difficulty sharing their feelings with others or verbalizing them. They may also believe that they should "man up" and deal with their problems on their own. • Masculinity. The stigma of "men being men" may still be ingrained in many people, equating masculinity with being self-reliant and not showing emotions. Rese… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:17 PM |
| – | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...”Ur mad bro" Yeah that kind of argument should be left on middle school playgrounds and xbox live servers where it belongs lol. Somebody calling out the absurdity of your arguments doesn't mean they are upset or projecting, but that's a cute way of trying to distract from your inability to make logical arguments. Deflecting. Let’s focus and stay on track. Again I ask, what are you upset about right now offline in your personal life, that is motivating this to ooze out as a response to a complete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:05 PM |
| – | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Yeah but that saying is bs. Calling out bad behaviors doesn't mean you do those things yourself. Such a childish viewpoint. Imagine if the law was based on your perspective lol. "That man is a rapist! Well you must be a rapist yourself to make such an accusation." So silly. What are you upset about right now offline in your personal life, that is motivating this to ooze out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...single struggling men I mean you did just said this. Usually struggling means a blockage. Most of that is psychological blockage that impacts every faucet of their life because of their vibe. Vibe = Emotions How you feel unconsciously comes out in how you think, behave, react, respond, move, and interact with others. It’s why that plays a part in it as well as my initial above comment you responded to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Why are you so hostile right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Because in childhood, if they were deprived the attention from their caregivers, they often unconsciously seek out to fill that void of validation by repeating the past in picking women who trigger those issues with their own parents. Which ever parent made them feel ignored the post, is the pattern/type of person they chase that’s making their brain work thru it in any relationship they get into. Till they can rectify the issues from childhood, they’ll keep chasing a feeling, not a person, in e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:41 PM |
| -2 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...As they say, ”Every accusation is confession”, you may want to rethink what you said in your comment and ask why you came to the conclusion you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:38 PM |
| -2 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...What is your proposed solution if therapy isn’t the answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 0 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Just like the quote, ”Hit dogs hollar”, you may just be feeling TOO seen in OP’s post and not realize it just quite yet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...That’s called faking it till you’re making it and if it gets too boastful it’s being cocky or arrogant, not confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 0 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Confident people tend to, as long as they aren’t faking the confidence, have a solid sense of stability in their life and are pretty grounded individuals, so they don’t have a “lack mindset” about the world around them. Which is why when the chips fall, they easily get back up, push thru it, and find solutions instead of marinating in their own personal hell in their mind. Thats why confident people tend to have the strongest mindset in life & overcome mental obstacles far easier. Hence why a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to have needs but men are always not entitled to a relationship?Feel this needs to be posted here and in case the font is too small, check below for the copy & paste of it. If you resonate with what you read here from my comment, I’ll share where it’s from. <image> How Children Cope with Emotional Loneliness Emotional loneliness is so distressing that a child who experiences it will do whatever is necessary to make some kind of connection with the parent. These children may learn to put other people's needs first as the price of admission to a relationship. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 5 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.<image> Maybe it has something to do with this regarding those group of women your mentioning…. Edit: For those who can’t read it in case the font is too small, I’ll copy & paste it here. How Children Cope with Emotional Loneliness Emotional loneliness is so distressing that a child who experiences it will do whatever is necessary to make some kind of connection with the parent. These children may learn to put other people's needs first as the price of admission to a relationship. Instead of exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 13 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.For a woman it’s much more embarrassing to be that age and not have had a good stable relationship Idk, I could care less what other think. I just told my BF yesterday I could care less, after an old lady at the mall gave me the stank face cause of my hair color and tattoos. He didn’t realize if I truly cared about others views in me, I wouldn’t have dyed my hair a color from the rainbow. As my dad told me at 22, “STOP! STOP CARING ABOUT OTHERS THOUGHTS OF YOU! YOU’LL NEVER BE HAPPY IF YOU ARE T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:09 PM |
| 4 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.<image> Or it could be this reason as to why it happens to not just women, but a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Questions about men being allowed to cheat after x amount of time with no sexLet me get this straight, you're claiming that attacking an enemy after they attacked you is psychopathic/sociopathic? No, don’t twist it. If you feel motivated by revenge constantly, that’s one of the three main driving factors besides status & power with psychopaths/sociopaths. Psychopaths/Sociopaths date for strictly status in society or power. They are motivated by revenge heavily and don’t care who get hurts. Here is a direct quote from a diagnosed psychopath: ”I can tell you how it works f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:05 AM |
| – | Questions about men being allowed to cheat after x amount of time with no sexYou also sound like a psychopath/sociopath as well since they view it in this way about their needs and see it as a form of getting revenge, which is one of the main motivating factors of ASPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 06:29 PM |
| – | Questions about men being allowed to cheat after x amount of time with no sexThis just makes you sound like a psychopath/sociopath tbh. Wanna know why? Psychopaths motivations are not usually so well thought out or understood by the psychopaths themselves, they see something they want it they take it. That's pretty much the extent of the thinking. Psychopaths tend to be impulsive and lack a great deal of control over their impulses, their brain abnormalities are well known for having deficits in areas that control empathy but they also are deficient in areas that regulat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Why do woman apply double standards to the things that only benefit them?People forget nuances when reading and when they do forget, they take things personally as an attack by now co-signing and saying it’s the truth about them when they react, jump to saying things to defend themselves. Ultimately, people also forget, that when they do react by responding like that, they are confessing, telling in themselves big time by unconsciously admitting they are like all those men that’s being stated about. The men who do not apply to such things, tend to not comment on thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do woman apply double standards to the things that only benefit them?You’re not wrong, but you took the stick and going to poke the proverbial bear (ie - OP or any other guys who find themselves in your comment LOL). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:05 AM |
| – | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Also the guys in this group forget, women tend to prefer an attractive looking face over an attractive looking body when it comes to physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 02:53 PM |
| – | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Doesn’t mean they are happy and fulfilled as a person when their life is just one just hamster wheel of self sabotaging drama after another. Eventually they get to around 40, still never having had a real relationship, wasting all their time fucking their way thru life, now panicking about needing to find a wife & settle down because they fucked around & found out too late in life. Sex is great and all, but it is a temporary brain chemical high from an orgasm that last a few seconds, then whatev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:27 AM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Fuccbois are the loneliest people on the planet in the dating hookup world. They also have the most drama with women because of the head games they constantly play and they also backstab their male friends. Hence why they are the loneliest people on the planet in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What percent of average young women do you think would be open to being respectfully approached by an average young man and be open to going on a date from it?So always thoroughly check your statistics, cause fact checking is a hell of a counter point. Here is why… •According to the U.S. Census Bureau, nearly 47% of the U.S. population (just over 117 million people) are currently single. • 2023 data from Pew Research Center finds that three in 10 Americans are single, and about half (51%) are open to either a committed relationship or casual dates. Over half of men (56%) are looking for either a committed relationship or casual dates, and less than ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 12:34 AM |
| -5 | What percent of average young women do you think would be open to being respectfully approached by an average young man and be open to going on a date from it?Let me guess, you’re 25 or younger, maybe still mad at a particular lady from your past who has left a sour taste in your mouth towards dating women again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Dude, that is so sad how you view all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:14 PM |
| -4 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?All this means nothing if you don’t have the pheromones that sexually arouse women that you want to date or fuck. Pheromones is the number one reason you can easily get with a woman and look like a 2 bit dollar menu version of Keanu Reeves or Chris Hemsworth, but if you got pheromones and a personality that charms a lady easily and can hold her attention? He’s the one going to get sex easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?First, thank you for taking your time to explain your view at length. You are in the minority; most people give short handed responses or just downvote straight away. I’m not dismissing your points I have to admit you made some good points. Of course! I only put value in where it belongs in conversations that actually are creating a deconstruction of a topic that has solid points to touch upon. What I don’t understand is, if personality brings so much value in the interaction between two individ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:16 PM |
| -1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?the fuckable eye candy gets the better deal in terms of sex because it’s more enthusiastic, more lust is involved. So are you strictly talking about hooking up or dating. Cause one is just strictly sexual, the other can get sexual if the emotional connection is there first. The thing with emotional attraction doesn’t sound encouraging because more time and energy are involved for a worse deal, especially after knowing how she behaved with other men. You clearly sound utterly terrified of relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?I remember that study! It was a well thought out one and actually had some good points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:54 PM |
| 0 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Idk, my last ex had sex with women after we broke up and one chick had a breathalyzer to start her car. Idk… some dudes do not care about looks for a one night bang. They care if you have all your teeth, aren’t a drug addict, not going to catfish them, not going to give them an STD, not going to baby trap them, and are age appropriate to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?She’s not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:49 PM |
| -1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Most of the time, it’s the personality, values, or beliefs that make or break the deal. This is how women tend to gauge the men as well. Especially personality over the other two first and foremost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:44 PM |
| 0 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?When women go after emotional unavailability in men, it’s because they themselves are mirroring back this as well, but their blind spot to themselves is why they can’t see this toxic trait they carry around in their dating baggage. And falling for someone whose emotionally unavailable means you have a predictable self sabotaging outcome of someone who you keep are arms length, that will not go the distracted because no one has to fully open up, let someone into their heart, be raw & vulnerable t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 3 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Women will 100% sleep with attractive men but not date them because they offer no substance beyond sex and physical attraction. They are just fuckable arm candy when this happens that makes the pussy purr really nice and loud LOL Women need a brain that’s got substance of a personality to develop emotional attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Agree! If you put all my ex’s in chronological order no two look alike. I have dated 5’5” through 6’7”, 150lbs through 310lbs. What roped me in was personality with them because when you get to know someone’s personality, it amplifies attraction full throttle like a solid drop shift of car from third to first on a highway. You could be the most appealing to look at in the room that gets all the eyes, but if you open your mouth and you can’t hold a conversation that intrigues and keeps my brain a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Sugar. Sugar and ultra processed foods is why. But the main culprit is ultra processed foods and here is why. It’s really fascinating what it does to the human anatomy. Ultra processed foods actually affect the brain to the point it prevents the hunger feeling from kicking in, even makes you feel unsatisfied to the point you over eat, and that’s why Americans sadly can gain almost 10-12lbs in 30 days from just eating ultra processed foods. Everything is processed these days food wise in America.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Heck the first lightbulb didn’t appear till the Chicago World Fair the first night back in May of 1893; that Tesla won in presenting his lightbulbs over Edison. FYI, same year HH Holmes went on a murder spree in Chicago and opened his murder castle to do his bidding because it was roughly a few blocks from the Chicago World Fair grounds. Gotta love history! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?And that’s the kind of legacy that can live on because of you go far enough with it & impact those lives in a positive way, people will remember you long after you’re not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?As they said in “Across the universe”: ”Think about it, it's pure narcissism. I mean, people putting out little carbon copies of themselves, going: ‘Oh, doesn't he have his father's eyes? Doesn't he have his mother's lips?’ It's.. It's disgusting.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.https://preview.redd.it/164qj28z0v6d1.jpeg?width=236&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=37b0c16945953c8b367ffb53aec8a1d1c45ae891 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.https://preview.redd.it/k3l3g31b0v6d1.jpeg?width=465&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4fbc4747a94c61898ba7e1c8015d73becfdf83e | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:14 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:12 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.If someone doesn’t see you as human? They might have ASPD/Sociopathy traits due to the transactional nature they view in every faucet of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:43 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Actually men shame it, then women with internalized misogyny who need validation approval for men the most, are the ones who heavily shame other women. It’s the women who do not give two fucks how many people either had slept with as long as no one is passing an STD to them, they do not care about your body pile that hits the floor of your sexual history. People tend to project their insecurities onto others in the very areas they judge themselves the most for…because it’s easier to shift focus … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:42 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Kind of like the marshmallow test with kids in that if the kid wanted the marshmallow they can, but if they waited five minutes to eat the marshmallow, they would get a 2nd marshmallow added to the 1st one! Sex is the same with men and women. Women will wait for the 2nd marshmallow. Men, it’s split down the middle. Some am wait, some can not. The ones who can not wait have a VERY strong scarcity and impulsive mindset around sex. Let me explain why… Women can wait to eat the marshmallow, they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.and I don't have the time. That alone is why people aren’t really succeeding at dating these days. Dating requires carving out time in your day to day to meet up with a stranger you recently met, to get to know one another, see if you even like each other & click together. And if you’re working too much? You don’t have the time to carve out and make room to date, let alone for a relationship. Dating honestly is a luxury for people who can afford to not work themselves to death to survive, pay bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Yup! We are constantly changing as humans. What we liked, disliked, loved, hated, etc… was vastly different 15yrs ago. Experiences is what shifts those changes and the more positive experiences you have, the more positive outlook you have on life and vice versa if it’s been a string of bad experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.If he hates feet? He might be thinking she needs to take care of her feet than a dude who doesn’t hate feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.And what is her debt ratio to savings a month as a result of shelling out $6k on fitness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.It’s the number one reason men age. I’ve gotten ex’s on good solid skin care routines and my current partner of over a year introduced him to retinol serum, eye cream, and proper hydration methods. My career is in skin and makeup for film/television, I stare at faces all the time ranging from 3yrs old up to nearly 80yr olds. Older men over 50, do not take care of their skin. Bar of soap and a towel is what most use, some just splash water. This is why they are super shiny from oil, flaky skin, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?If you didn’t when you two first had sex, you two wouldn’t have ever slept together. Also? You’re just as much responsible for turning her in as much as she is with you. But you both should be trying to mentally set the mood for yourselves so that it’s less complicated when your partner tries to woo you for sexual activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Do you expect women to cook for you during the “talking stage”?Glamour magazine describes it as dating and having sex before officially dating. That’s bullshit to me because once you’re dating, you’re dating. It’s dating. Nothing else. The fact they are trying reinvent the wheel is laughable! Refinery 29 describes it as texting or talking on the phone before you officially start dating. This is how I define it. Same. Heck that’s usually what you did back in the day before everyone had a smart phone and you had to call your crush by landline to get to know t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?No, don’t twist things into strictly attraction as to what holds attention. That’s on you for assuming physical attraction is strictly going to hold attention. You need physical attraction to catch attention, but a personality to hold it because you have to talk to someone and to have a conversation requires a personality & communication skills. You can physically attraction your way into dating, you can for strictly fucking another human being. But if you want more than sex/fucking? You need a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?How do you hold attention if it doesn't even exist in the first place? You would have to be a fruit fly if nothing can hold your attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?People who don’t put effort in usually don’t have personality on the dating apps which can translate into real life the result I found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Looks catch your attention, they do not hold your attention. You need personality to hold attention after the initial first glance of physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:04 AM |
| 2 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?You can tell from how he fills out his profile, to his photos, to how he talks to you, describes his life, or about himself. So is easy to see whose actually being down to earth, authentic, has a personality. People who arent? They actually don’t curate their online self to reflect this easily. The more inauthentic you are, the more gauge you sound, the less you get matched with. I’ve been on/off dating profiles since like 2007. And having met a handful of my ex’s thru different dating apps, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Let me guess, you don’t have much dating experience when it comes to meeting women in the wild but only with online dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:34 AM |
| 0 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Okay kid 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 04:41 AM |
| 0 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Let’s quote you… You are confusing it with the definition of "nice guys" who mask bad behaviour. I am talking about actual nice. Even split the two sentence to further have you see exactly what you said. Nice attempt at trying to back pedal and deflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 04:13 AM |
| -1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?If someone is genuinely “nice”, it speaks for themselves. That’s why anyone who says they are nice or good, are usually not because they’re trying to sell you on it by bragging about it. It’s like those guys in high school, who constantly would say they are having a lot of sex, but never had sex. Yet the guys who are consistently having it never say a damn thing about having sex. It’s the people who boast about something too much, that is the dead give away cause used car sales men do the same B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 02:31 AM |
| 4 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Well look at Matthew McConaughey and his film career. He explains how this correlated to who he ended up with. Same approach. He badly wanted to take on more serious roles and was only getting offers for romcoms. This was the height of his career in romcoms too! But then he made a choice that if he wanted to have it change, he had to be the change first. So he said no to a lot of offers. The man had like 30 film offers come in. He even references one in particular. Like a big studio film. They o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Well look at how the dating shows go with this exact scenario and you realize when men pick, they lean more towards looks and kindness, but when women pick they lean towards personality and kindness. Women can fall for a guy far more whose personality is hot AF and he’s like mid range/average in looks. It happens a lot more offline that you don’t see on Reddit because Reddit it’s the real world but an echo chamber majority of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:11 AM |
| 0 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Agree. You can be hot, but if your personality is crap, you look like physically unattractive to women. Women are attracted to personalty heavily and it’s the top five motivating factors for how they choose a partner. Personality doesn’t matter when it y to casual sex, but dating? You bet your ass 100% women are on the look out to see if a guy is truly going to rub her the wrong way personality wise and be an utter turn off. Why? You can change your looks, fix your face, change your hair… You ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:08 AM |
| -1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?I never said nice and submissive. Nice isn’t good when it comes to dating someone based on their character. Nice = wearing a masking & bragging about “being good”, all tall & just negative behavior, isn’t confident. Good = doesn’t have to brag, you see it in their action & behavior towards you & others, is confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 01:01 AM |
| -1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?Exactly. They are confusing good people with seduction & charm. The two are not the same. One is the way you treat others (good). The other is how you flirt your way into bed (seduction & charm). If you just want sex? All you gotta do is treat people in a good way (ie - like human beings) while being seductively charming to feel desired in a non-creepy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | At this point, is being married and having a family just something that doesn’t happen anymore?The desire to have a family and children is deeply personal and varies greatly from one individual to the next. Despite societal changes, many still value and seek out the experience of marriage and family life. Several trends have influenced the way people approach relationships and family today. Career aspirations, personal development, financial stability, and changing perceptions of happiness and fulfillment play significant roles in why individuals might delay or forego traditional paths li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Agree! The people having regular sex, usually aren’t talking about it because there is no lack of Sex. It’s the people who aren’t getting any, who constantly talk about it because if the lack of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?If she’s starfishing, she’s not enjoying it and in her head waiting for you to wrap it up with the pump & dump ending of an orgasm. It’s more oblivious if the friction increases and the wetness decreases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:39 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?They won’t have any problem at all finding a woman who wants a relationship with him. You must be new to dating with that belief LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?They do get laid, but are they any good at maintains an actual relationship with women in a healthy way or are they forever stuck being single, get fuck-zoned by women due to only being attractive with nothing else to offer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highWhat does that have to do with what I overall said about women if they never had to have kids the old fashion way they wouldn’t date men? Cause I’m not talking about divorce women when I said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingI think no matter what, if a person struggles to read between the lines, struggles with nuance, and similar stuff, it’s going to cause blockages for both women AND men on the spectrum with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Heavily suggest reading the original post cause the slew of comments there help expand so much to the point you realize OOP has serious issues and deep fear of getting married based on severely self sabotaging his entire life. OOP even said he needs to go to therapy and couldn’t agree more. Heck, if they went years ago I guarantee he wouldn’t of dumped his fiancé but had worked on the sex part early on by asking for feedback from her to become a 10/10 in the bedroom. As they say, practice makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.OOP is insecure and toxic. I remember reading that post within the 24hrs it was posted. A few parts stuck out as proving this: I was begging Kiley to tell me one bad thing Amy has told about me to her friends. *I asked her about it casually. She initially denied it, and said we always have amazing sex, and she’s always satisfied. I told her it really wouldn’t hurt me if she told me the truth, and marriage was built on honesty, so I asked her again a couple of times. Op even said this as an updat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 06:03 PM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highWomen like men, want relationships. Most humans do. I bet if women didn’t have to focus on wanting kids ever again, this would 100% cancel this out immediately. Cause women who want kids, 50% of the driving force to date and get married is to have a family. If they didn’t have that driving force anymore, they would never feel the urge to date again and build a life by having kids like it’s “Blade Runner 2049” or “Gattica”. My one aunt said if she knew in the 89’s you didn’t need a guy to have ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 04:15 PM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highUsually as they say, ”If you meet one asshole on the way to work, then they are one. But if you meet 10 and all 10 are, then it’s not them, you are the asshole instead.” Guarantee OP hasn’t asked if they are the one creating the reactions and views from women based on how they approach, react, & respond to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Just say you don’t understand social cue’s when someone is interested in you vs when they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Of course! I would argue that needing three days off from texting is more than OK during the work week, because holy shit, the work week can be exhausting, and if you have anything else in your life that's important on top of that, good luck. Well the only reason I say 72hrs, is when it’s the first 30 days of dating someone new. People have time to send a “hello” or “good morning”… not everyone has time to hold a conversation throughout a day. So if someone can’t send a simple hello text or resp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:32 PM |
| 0 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.If someone is lukewarm interested? He/She is not that into you. Someone into you is pursuing you to some degree. Whether with texting, DM’s, flirting face to face, finding excuses to see you again, trying to offer ways to help you, etc.., excuses to get your attention and spend time with you is what someone does when interested. Not interested? They are putting space between you two, they dodge giving you their contact info, they find excuses to exit a conversation, they almost never call you ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:24 PM |
| 7 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.If she’s “slightly interested”? She’s not interested cause you wouldn’t be confused if someone is interested. Both men and women, when interested show it easily. Their words and actions match, mirror. This is far more true once you get past 30 as people tend not want to beat around the bush when they are interest to save everyone time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a manExactly! Not everyone is meant to reproduce. It’s a fools errand in society to push for reproduction, when in reality society is not meant to be severely over populated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:11 AM |
| 3 | There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a manSolid answer! I think it’s just life weeding out the people who are unfit for parenthood more and more when this happens. Hence why, not everyone is meant to procreate, raise a family. Some folks are meant to be single, have a career, a relationship or not, then live out their golden years still with no family. Society would be better if we stop pushing everyone to have families or singlehood, just let the people choose for themselves instead of letting a government and parents influence them. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a manThere would first have to be a society still for such a thing to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”I’ve had girls “call me out” for messaging their friends as well as if it was some crime or anything to be ashamed of. Sounds like the way you’re going about dating is why your coming up empty. Also never ever message another woman’s friend in her social circle if you’re trying to date her as well! This is just common sense 101 in dating etiquette. Only a fool who wants to self sabotage his dating life would ever do this. Reason is it comes across 100% that you can’t be taken seriously dating wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Sounds like you are only dealing with self absorbed women if this is your experience and perspective about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societySome parts of the world, it’s not that warm yet, still winter. So people aren’t going out as much when it’s still too cold. Give it a few weeks if you live in a colder climate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:21 AM |
| 8 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyWanna know why? People are so consumed with impressing everyone online, too plugged in, they forgot how to socialize offline. They don’t live in the moment anymore. They document every moment instead of just existing in it and not sharing it with everyone. See when people do this? They do this with their romantic relationships too, which is chronically their social media like a journal instead of just periodically sharing the most important or creative parts of their life that matter instead of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tListen, look at who a woman’s father is and look at who her celebrity crushes are, that’s how you figure out what each individual guy she’s going to be attracted to. Cause believe it or not, women are going to end up in a LTR with men like their fathers and men do this with women who are like their mothers. It’s why some guys and gals end up working thru their shit in relationships when in regards to a parent. But that’s a whole other discussion to unpack at another time and place, not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelHuh? What are you incoherently rambling on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelAll I know is RP mindsets is what’s making women hate the dating landscape these days and want men to be less RP when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Too many people overthink datingNot helpful advice at all for someone who's already lonely and struggling to make friends. I bold texted the main reason why you over compensate. Loneliness can be the number one repellent in having people kind of back away because you’re approaching it from a place of desperately needing connection, but not from a fulfilled place of just wanting connection. You may need to start trying to unpack where the loneliness stems from outside human connection and what is at the very core, emotionally t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Too many people overthink datingThey care about looks only a fraction in dating. They won’t date someone who looks sloppy in effort of appearance, but every woman had a personal preference on looks. But the main pulling factor for attraction with women is personality and how they are treated. That’s why women are heavily attracted to a funny guy, who is kind to her if he had average looks or below average looks but to her he’s as hot as any leading man in Hollywood because of this. It’s why they get hot for guys who can take c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Too many people overthink datingThen stop reaching out to people who do not mirror your effort and doing so will have you stop overcompensating to make up for their lack of effort. Real connections require equal give and take. Hence why givers have to set boundaries with takers, because they always take and take without ever giving. You’re a giver, you gotta start having other givers in your life so you can feel seen, heard, and understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Too many people overthink datingIdk, if you’ve been on Twitter, women would disagree with you 100% on this thru and thru. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Too many people overthink datingWell outside of your height, what about you do you love about yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:02 AM |
| -2 | Too many people overthink datingAre you basing this from social media echo chambers of the exact same type of women creating the sand tunnel view on attraction… ….or are you going out into the real world daily, observing peers of said age group, getting real perspective outside online groups/social media to either confirm bias or debunk this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Too many people overthink datingDo you wait for people to reach out all the time or do you pursue communication with everyone instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Too many people overthink datingNow we know why that dude is single as an empathy can of pringles LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Too many people overthink datingJust become a self that YOU love. I know I’ll sound like a broken record but you want to be a man that you admire. I say this all the time, if you met yourself right now, would you even want to be friends or date? If either is no? Then that’s how you gauge where you need to work on if it’s something in your control to change. If it’s not? Then you find ways to make it adaptable and work with what you got to turn it around into your best asset and use it to your advantage to make yourself appeali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:35 AM |
| -2 | Too many people overthink datingWell you’re here, he had to have Sex with the person that’s your mother. Your mother clearly didn’t care about his 5’7” frame. Maybe that should tell you enough that some shorter than average men do get dates. Ever ask your father about his dating experiences to get advice on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Too many people overthink datingThen you’re doing it wrong if you let every person impact you so much that it feels like a LTR heartbreak with stranger you barely even got to know. Keep people off a pedestal, take things slow, and stop putting your value into someone. Oh and when you make someone the center of your world? You’re always going to feel empty everytime it doesn’t work out. You gotta let someone be a part of your world, not be the center of it. Edit: Typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 03:21 AM |
| 2 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?Nah, women who say that are just as toxic and skewed in thought in what it is cause they grew up with thinking that’s “normal”. No sane, healthy relationships involves punching walls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?You’re confusing asshole with confident guys who are unapologetic themselves. Assholes are insecure people who hurt others. They are reactive, demanding, needy people who don’t know what to do when dating. They constantly operate from a false sense of self and are just the type of guys women can’t stand. Confident people may accidentally step on others toes with their thoughts and opinion, but they are go-getters, proactive, actually don’t apologize for what they want. These are the guys at work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Women make different men they date play by different rulesYou’re not wrong LOL Same with Joe Manganiello who is into D&D, video games, comics, etc… Nerdy guys just gotta learn to prioritize their health and physical body, while learning to dress for their frame and height, and learn good hair and facial hair stuff to really appeal to women across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Women make different men they date play by different rulesI mean I don’t blame as I work in the industry on the crew side. He’s actually very interesting to listen to in interviews and weirdly enough, this is where I give him brownie points as being a very interesting, well rounded guy, he has a passion for not just video games and table too gaming, but the guy knows how to assemble a computer to game on I believe! Sam Witwer is the only other make actor I ever heard mention this passion. Sam also is known in the Star Wars community as the voices in Cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:46 PM |
| 3 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?Well depends on what type of women he’s trying to attract vs what women find him attractive is what we should be trying to understand why this is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Ohhh same line of work, but in HMU. Let me tell you, it’s hard to date outside the industry unless you go on dating apps honestly cause most people I know who are dating are dating someone in the industry if they aren’t on the dating apps dating outside it. It’s also about finding someone who can put up with your unpredictable schedule at times and long hours (10+) on sets as well and the needing to travel to locations that aren’t always nearby where you live. Unless you date someone who has cra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Agree! Gotta know when to fold or hold a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:33 PM |
| -1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyIt’s because women, cis & AMAB, can birth literal life, men can not. They can take life, but they can’t grow life. Earth and women can create, men only can take. Whether it’s a child out of the womb to help in delivery or take someone’s life at their hands, they can not do what earth and human woman can do. It’s a subconscious jealousy in men that’s been plaguing humanity for over a millennial and it’s why it bought you OP, not even realizing this problem, to this kind of thought process of a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:02 AM |
| 0 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!I’m going to say that people with heavy insecurities and desperately making dating their number one priority without an interesting life, is the ultimate wedge in their dating life. You need to go out into the world, live it, build memories, go see what’s out there beyond your current world. See other cultures in other countries, go do something adrenaline pounding that makes for a great story. And it’s good for conversation when wanting to date as well. So make sure you’re living your life and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?Which women don’t want at your age is ED, it’s suppose to be operating in good faith. Once in a blue moon, erection won’t happen, but often or almost everytime? It’s either: • a psychological issues impeding your ability to stay hard • death grip masturbation which reduces sensitive to the penis as vaginas do not grip as hard as a penis (women get this too as it’s called deadclit from rubbing too hard or over use of Sex toys!) • low testosterone which can cause issues with a lower sex drive and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:37 PM |
| -1 | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?Because it means you don’t know much about female pleasure and only know how to have sex from watching porn. It means you haven’t mastered the art of cunnilingus and proper thrusting/pacing techniques in sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachIt’s called transactional. These guys think in transaction with sex and romance. Instead of viewing women as something to get, they gotta realize women go for the heels not because they are jerks, because they aren’t using nice to disguise their motives. We know they want sex, it’s obvious. What we find appealing is confident guys, who know what they want, who are kind & respectful to us, who can be jerks at times, but never apologize for it. They don’t treat sex and romance as transactional. Ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:49 AM |
| 14 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?My parents don’t have a DB & together 42 years next month. Wanna know why? They do not stop investing in themselves like their looks, they like, love, and still in love. They still flirt like two teenagers in love and still go on dates. My parents keep putting in the sane effort they did since day one nearly 42yrs ago. Just because you get into a LTR, doesn’t mean you drop the effort. You keep investing into yourselves and the relationship to maintain sexual desire with each other. And wanna kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:51 PM |
| 2 | What Would Make A Couple Want to Divorce After 20+ Years?Work schedule can 100% do this in Hollywood. Reason is if it’s an out of town production, depending on how long you will be gone, it can cause strain on a relationship. The fact Hugh Jackman at one point was on Broadway and gone for nearly nine months from his wife, means someone in the relationship got tired of being away too much and couldn’t it anymore. I guarantee Huge wasn’t the one exhausted but his wife was since she doesn’t work in the industry. She probably wanted someone who wasn’t gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:00 PM |
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