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There is a deep biological reaction in the mind of a woman to an unexpected and angry man. Most of the time women suppress it during sport events because they try to contextualize it, but if someone has had a particularly traumatic past experience the threat alarm could be too loud to remove. You could be putting her into fight or flight. All that said, it’s not the brother’s fault, but it would be a kindness to consider it or talk to the sister. There is a chance she’s just annoyed at the noise…
/r/MensRights09/06/26 09:20 AM
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Boys rock.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 11:45 PM
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I’m extremely sorry you were abused in this way. You’re conflating child like behavior with immaturity / selfishness. He wanted what he wanted, when he wanted it without consideration of others. This is the most detestable behavior. You had so much taken from you by someone who was supposed to protect you. It’s normal to be mourning what was, what was lost, and what is. This doesn’t mean your life is over. There is still so much opportunity for joy left.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 11:30 AM
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How old is she? If she’s younger I wouldn’t try to logic with her. Who taught her that? It’s a cruel mindset. “Why would you say that?” “That’s mean spirited.”
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:06 PM
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Loving your enemy is a virtue for a reason.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 05:10 PM
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Chastity for women has always been seen as a positive by men looking for wives. There is no rush. You’re super young.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 04:13 PM
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He already left you. The only thing to think about now is the example you want to give to your children. I fear for you if you leave since he’s possessive of you and not willing or able to control himself. Be wise.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 08:31 AM
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Socks are always needed.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 01:36 PM
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That’s mental illness. I’m sorry you came across such cruel words.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 08:03 AM
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Fascinating! Thank you for the insight.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 08:23 AM
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Specifically “hate” toward whom?
/r/MensRights01/10/22 05:19 AM
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Whatever helps her sleep at night.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 08:11 AM
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You’re no coward. A coward couldn’t have faced the cruelty of the situation you’re in and addressed it so eloquently. You have more “stuff” than most people are made of. I believe you have the potential for great goodness. You should consider what matters to you and face it head on. If not for yourself, then for the world of tomorrow. Your worth is in something other than money and it’s precious.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:57 PM
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“Benevolent” bigotry. It’s what helped cause the 08 crash.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:23 PM
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Do you want someone pulling your broken bone who can’t produce good results? The length of the bone requires more strength. They needed the right person for the job.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 01:10 AM
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Confession through projection.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:37 PM
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She’s clearly not communicating with you in a masculine fashion. She’s wanting you to “know” because if she has to tell you then it doesn’t count or means you don’t care. It’s immaturity, but also extremely common because women talk to each other differently then to men. She’s basically not translating her need into something you understand. You keep thinking it’s your free time or hobbies, but it maybe that she can’t figure out what she’s missing. She just knows she’s hurting. Certainly before …
/r/MensRights30/08/22 05:45 AM
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When people in power realized it was dangerous.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 05:11 AM
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Anger is addictive. He has been allowing himself these emotional vomiting sessions, but now he’s vomiting on you. It’s exactly the same as drinking, porn, food, or other addictive (pleasurable) activities. It sounds like he’s a good dude that’s getting out of line. The real question is, would he care if he’s hurting you? If the answer is yes, then you can absolutely work it out. You can think of a way of bringing this to him. If he doesn’t care that he’s hurting you, then you have a much bigger …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 02:09 AM
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Make a complaint to her medical licensing board. Your experience deserves to be heard.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:26 AM
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I’m really glad lovely ladies like you exist. I often have the opposite problem of being far too aggressive. The role beautiful ladies of kind spirit best fill are the organizational roles of life. Working at the church or civic building putting together social events, running a homeschool pod, getting new things for the community through bake sales, cleaning and fixing the local public areas (flowerbeds), organizing crafting events like quilt shows or baking competitions. These are vital commun…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 04:34 PM
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Socializing doesn’t come naturally for everyone. I’m proud you’re putting yourself out there!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/22 02:34 AM
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That sucks. I’m sorry you came across such cruelty.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 09:43 AM
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With the prevalence of free easy images of sex, this is becoming more and more of a problem. It’s natural, especially for men, to get a huge dopamine kick from seeing naked women. It biologically use to mean they were succeeding and at the top of the dominance hierarchy. Now it’s become a crutch. Nearly every man with the internet and many women will have to come across this problem. Is it something they want in their life? Clearly your answer is “no!”. So now to the conundrum, he is imbibing th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 03:47 AM
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You dodged a huge bullet. No matter now much you lost, you only could have lost more staying with a man like that. Your body will change so much over your life. There is no perfect body. If you’re healthy, that’s a 10/10. You’re looking for a life partner. Eventually we all become melted candles, if we’re lucky.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 07:15 PM
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😊 Look at it from the other perspective. If you cannot find peers, maybe you are peerless, beyond beautiful. Ask God to send you people who are worthy of your company. I hope you find them soon. It is hard to be alone. I’m glad you found your husband!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 03:01 AM
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I see it as a gift/curse. You’ve been given discernment. You do NOT want to go against your gut. You see people for what they are. That sucks for you. You know how few genuine people there are in the world. That’s tough, especially because you hoped the world was softer “somewhere else” other than where you grew up. It’s painful to find mostly crappy or untested people pretending they have virtue. Think of this as a boon instead of a burden. Use the eye you’ve cultivated to your advantage. Put t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 02:34 AM
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I also grew up rough in a place known for being rough. You’ll never iron it out completely and you wouldn’t want to. The best thing you can do is start picking out what you like versus what you don’t like. Truth without thought is extremely unwise. Often I’d vent out my emotions and it was unwieldy, sometimes without restraint. I’d hurt people I liked and feel kind of bad, but not really. Somewhere deep inside I felt like they deserved it or that it was important to tell my truth. I felt vindica…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 02:00 AM
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First of all, it’s not only normal to feel the way you do, but it suggests you are a precious person being prepared for service. I am extremely proud of how self aware you are. That is a huge boon. What I recommend is a cruel course, but will be the most beneficial in the long run. Let go of your dreams. Submit to whatever God has for your future. Make service to the good your number one priority. Tell yourself that you will still be ok even if the worst were to happen. Remember the song, “It is…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 07:20 PM
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Porn is becoming more and more of a problem for both men and women. It’s like anything else that floods the brain with easy dopamine. Even if it’s true that his porn use is affecting his life negatively it does mean that there aren’t steps he can take to get his life back under control. The big question is do you think he’s worth the effort and risk. Only you can answer that question.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 03:37 PM
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Are you sure he’s not just talking dude? Sometimes they say something negative because the assumption is it’s so obviously not that it’s funny. For example, “Oh yea! You look tERrIBlE!” Because you, from his perspective, look identical with and without glasses.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 01:09 AM
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Hugs. You’re doing great. It’ll work out. I’m very happy to hear it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 02:37 AM
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The loss of a first love is brutal. There is a reason that so many poems and songs are written about it. As an older woman I can say that true love rarely comes in the form of a first love. You need these learning experiences to become who you will be. You’re so young and have much happiness in front of you. I pray you’ll find clarity about the past and peace about your loss. There is always hope.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 02:32 AM
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Oh dear! That sounds very hard. So much of life is about our past choices. The way out of this is to start building time with the ethics you currently possess. People make mistakes, especially when young. Your brain isn’t even done developing until 25! If you can show a pattern that reflects your beliefs, this will become who you are. People get concerned about past behavior because it is the best predator of future behavior. Getting time under your belt of admirable behavior will sooth any rati…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 02:27 AM
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The best advice i can give is to focus of the joy of service. Donate your skills, visit nursing homes, cook for the hungry. Realizing your innate womanhood in nurturing will keep you young, busy, and fulfilled. Once your heart’s healed it will attract the right kind of man. Become beautiful inside.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 02:14 AM
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This is exactly why men want younger women. You’ve already bonded and broken a serious relationship. Now you have assumptions, bitterness, arrogance, self defeating self talk, and demands. You gave your innocence to someone unworthy and are looking for someone to make it up to you. That’s not a man’s job. You’re dooming yourself, to meet a man, idealize him, dream of who you think he is, see him as your savior, and then be disappointed. Divorce at 37. Get your shit together now because it’s a he…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 09:41 AM
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That’s not what the original poster said. They said “men are not strong enough” and “this isn’t a debate”. This suggests the ONLY reason any man could have for not wanting to commit to a relationship with a woman with a multiple partners is weakness. It’s arrogant and condescending. There is no requirement for a man or a woman to commit to a life long relationship. If her choices have narrowed her possible choices in the future, it’s not his “fault” or “weakness”, it’s merely a choice he has the…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 11:57 AM
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Try to observe your environment. There will be times when you need to be tough. There are times when you need to show unending compassion. It’s a sign of a lady that they have wisdom. A beautiful outside can be mimicked, a beautiful soul is always valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 11:12 AM
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The point is to not glamorize something that impacts the greater social structure as a whole. No man or woman is an island. Their choices have consequences for more than themselves. Obviously there should be balance and nuance. Neither poster was humble or kind.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 11:03 AM
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Men need social support other than you. This is a very scary time for many people, especially people who haven’t experienced trauma before. We cling to the familiar, friends, family. He needs that. Part of being a good partner is expecting conflict, reasoning it out patiently when it comes, and knowing your boundaries as to how much you want to sacrifice. He isn’t perfect, you aren’t perfect and that’s ok. You’re full of fear too and a considerable amount of unresolved self judgement. You’re rel…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 10:29 AM
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The heart is a treacherous thing. It’s vital to differentiate between a feeling and a true gut warning, the kind that tells you not to walk down an alleyway.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 09:30 AM
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The people they’re talking about are people who are “faking” wanting to have a calm regular life. It’s like wolf in sheep’s clothing. You’re the sheep they’re trying to mimic. There are people who have succeeded in your position. Love the good, do your best, and reach out for help if you need it. You aren’t at fault for what happened to you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 05:49 AM
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You’d be shocked what you can grow into with effort and time, for good or ill. Best wishes for a happy future.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/20 05:20 AM
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Its a relatively normal thing in drug hit areas.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/20 05:08 AM
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Yikes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/20 02:15 AM
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Sometimes just letting them know how hard their working verbally is a relief. A good man will feel bad that they can’t keep all the plates spinning, especially if it’s impacting you, which it clearly is. Don’t be surprised if you sense anger from him. It’s very likely it’s directed at the situation or he feels momentarily attacked. You’re in a tough situation. Best wishes on a good happy outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 09:53 PM
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He sounds tired. Did he change jobs?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:53 PM
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“Your needs” aren’t a valid reason to betray someone who has given you so much trust. End the relationship before you cheat or know that you have chosen to be a man unworthy of trust. You decide who you are.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 06:28 AM
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Better you found out now versus one day later. Dump him and move on. He lacked control over himself, he didn’t communicate what he needed from you, and he doesn’t want responsibility. Run! There is nothing you could have done that could vindicate cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 10:29 PM
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A man must consent while asleep every morning. What crap.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 12:48 PM
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Is he from mainland China? There is a very different culture there.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 04:53 AM
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You’re missing who you wished he was. He isn’t that person.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 11:57 AM
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Good to know amazing sex was more important than her children and oath to her husband. What a loser.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/20 07:50 AM
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Invaluable advice is that feelings aren’t facts. Long distance is very hard. Things fester and grow. I’ve had one succeed and one fail. The difference was the quality of the man. You have to imagine the most charitable reason for everything. You have to trust that you don’t know everything about his motivations and it may be completely different than your expectation. If the man is worthy of that trust and you stay humble about working on making your feelings your job (not something for him to f…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 04:29 AM
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Thank you. I didn’t mean to dismiss your pain, but to let you know it’s possible to thrive. You know what it is to suffer and I believe you can overcome your situation. When life is cruel, it is an opportunity to show your endurance, to grow. That growth is invaluable. It refines who you are. Learn to feel joy and gratitude despite suffering and you will live an enviable life. The gift is being able to give other worthy sufferers comfort in the future when you inevitably succeed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 01:08 PM
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Oh buddy! You sound like so many other girls your age. It’s the age to see everything wrong with yourself, but this won’t last forever. Focus on your health and internal virtue. It may also sound trite, but people NEVER show the whole truth. Many people were jealous of me because I transferred into school late and was skinny and bubbly. No one, not even my “best friend” knew that I was terminally ill. Skinny because my family life was less than ideal. Only five years ago was the “cure” found, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 11:04 AM

That time in life can feel like constantly living in a little boat in a storm. It absolutely gets better. You’re doing great.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 02:26 AM

This really impressed me! Great job!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 02:26 AM

That’s nuts! You go! Wow! May I ask what you’re studying?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 02:23 AM

That’s amazing! What a cool mind he has. You must have good conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 02:22 AM
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Oh I apologize. I didn’t mean to imply my statement was about the author of this post. I wouldn’t assume to know such things.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 03:11 AM
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It’s likely a sign of generational abuse being so common. We’re attracted to what we see at certain ages. See abuse, your natural self will seek it. EDIT: I in no way mean to imply this is about the author of this post. This is just a general statement as to why some people are romantically attracted to the wrong things.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 02:00 AM
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This isn’t normal. Even if this is part of something bigger (declining sex drive, affair, past abuse. ) he has no right to treat you that way. He lost control of himself and for selfish reasons. I’ve heard men get very personally hurt when physical intimacy is refused, but that reaction isn’t a sign of a mature man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 01:57 AM
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You already have surpassed her. Once you realize that, it’ll make it easier to see her as what she is, “pathetic”. She started at theoretically +200. She’s healthy, beautiful, clever, and decided with all those gifts to be cruel, short sighted, unfaithful, and lazy. You have suffered, fought valiantly, and managed to decide to work on yourself. The bravery it takes to look at your faults shouldn’t be under appreciated. You’re doing your best and just haven’t been given the skills it requires to …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 04:30 AM
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All men have the propensity for evil, just like women. He seems to be not just unable to resist, but to think that there is no purpose to resisting. That’s not a great place to start, especially if you want a man who values the sacrifice of virtue. At least consider this an open problem to sort out before you commit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 08:32 PM
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You could have a religious ceremony marriage if he’s worried about the slings and arrows of federal marriage contacts. You could also offer a reasonable prenup that states your true intentions? Though I’ve seen a lot of problems arise from that too. He’s obviously rightly scared. Men have been pulverized cruelly by the government laws on marriage. Especially home and custody laws are definitely against men. You’re in a tough spot.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 10:06 PM
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What a cute story. Great job!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 07:02 AM
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Progress not perfection dear. Only God is perfect. We all have our past. Some are just more visible than others.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 11:52 PM
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12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson has gotten good buzz.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 07:02 AM
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Consider getting dna tests. They have come down in price and the answer is invaluable. Some women have no conscience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:15 AM
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It’s them feeling less than. You hold a mirror to their own faults. It can happen with any positive attribute.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 06:37 AM
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There are worries and concerns he’s not sharing with you. When inevitably you step in it, he feels attacked and vindicated to attack back. When he’s calm during a weekend, not right after work, ask if you can talk about something serious. Tell him that you feel bad that you don’t know how he’s feeling until you hurt him. This isn’t fair to either of you. Ask him to tell you how he’s feeling. Do not respond even with a face of annoyance no matter how weird or hurtful what he says is. He needs to …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 08:02 PM
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West coast or east coast Italians? Even the state would be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 05:44 AM
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If he’s been married before, watch out. There are definitely red flags.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 11:26 PM
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I misread, but the idea’s the same. I’ve never met a woman who wasn’t worried about their arms.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 04:29 AM
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Don’t be too concerned if even with exercise they’re still a little round. I heard a good guy say he prefers that just last week. It’s the self effort that counts.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 11:27 PM
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I’m really sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights16/09/19 10:41 PM
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Wtf!
/r/MensRights09/09/19 07:10 PM
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I’m disgusted at how the men in my sphere are treated. You all deserve equality. I’m thankful every day for good men.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 03:33 AM
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No kidding! That’s horrible.
/r/MensRights28/03/19 05:57 PM
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Oh jeeze she actually allegedly had sex with the guys? I thought she just robbed them. Yikes!
/r/MensRights28/03/19 03:35 PM
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Yikes! I hope things are better for you soon. No one has a right to your body. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights26/03/19 01:25 PM
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I’m extremely disgusting that happened to you. What a sick thing to say to a victim. Who thinks that it “doesn’t count”?
/r/MensRights21/02/19 02:00 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights21/02/19 01:55 AM
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Wtf. Licked people?
/r/MensRights08/02/19 01:09 AM
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Is this a joke? How pathetic.
/r/MensRights07/02/19 09:29 PM
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Do thay not realize that’s prostitution. Congratulations, you played yourself. What losers. You’d think they’d have some self respect. It’s theft only worse.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 04:34 PM
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While it’s true that women face meeting some random lunatic, that’s exactly why I never let a first date pay. You’d think that would increase the likelihood that a random crazy would believe you owed them. If you’re not using your body for dinner, be very upfront about that. I got very few dates, but at least the guys that just wanted to smash didn’t waste their time.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 04:28 PM
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Welcome!
/r/MensRights31/01/19 04:21 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 02:01 AM
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It makes me feel terrible that that stupid add would make you feel shame. It was cruel and you didn’t deserve it.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 08:20 PM
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Why in your opinion do people not understand why so many people were disgusted by the commercial? Is it just pure hate?
/r/MensRights17/01/19 04:02 PM
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That a woman is innocent if the man loses. Often they don’t want the child to have to find out about the realities of their mother at 7. It’s a horrible long game to play and often they don’t live see the results of the child’s realization. It’s an incredible act of love to endure such agony to give the child a few years of ignorance. The woman who poisons a child against a father is a selfish cruel person. I wish I could tell my father thank you.
/r/MensRights01/01/19 06:34 PM
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You can ask to make a report which can give you a paper trail with the police if this gross woman ever assaults you again. I’m so sorry for your loss, both physical and emotional. She had no right. She’s a coward to take advantage of a peaceful man. Don’t let her linger in your mind another second.
/r/MensRights01/01/19 06:18 PM
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Nasty woman.
/r/MensRights29/12/18 08:09 PM
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Wtf. WTF! Sometimes I can’t believe these things are for real.
/r/MensRights24/11/18 06:54 AM
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