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4

Wow cornering women while they’re at work and have no escape. “But do you think she’s interested?”
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:06 AM
-8

This. Also, that sentence is so creepy. Like, it’s what weird, gross guys say in bad movies to try to seduce a girl. It’s a huge turn off.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:07 PM
1

Stop with all the nonsense talk about pulling or whatever the fuck that even is. You’re interested in the girl. Be a real man and just fucking tell her.
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:14 PM
1

And there it is. Creeper. Gotta block ya now. Sayonara.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:35 AM
1

To* I’m using your argument from earlier. I would never use this argument because it’s stupid.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:34 AM
1

But that’s what he said. You didn’t give me a quote where he says “women love rape”.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:31 AM
1

I don’t see the words “women love rape”.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:30 AM
2

He never said women love rape. Where is that quote? I know quotes are important to you.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:25 AM
2

Nah, I’m just not in the mood to deal with a real creeper. I have no desire to get harassing messages in my inbox from a weirdo.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:03 AM
2

Haha oh I’m sorry. I just assumed you were a woman because I figured whatever females read this must think he’s an idiot.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:59 AM
3

Hahahaha oh my god, so you’re attacking and bullying other people with your stupidity? This is the funniest shit I’ve seen in a while. Attention Reddit: anyone else feel free to call this creep out if he’s been creeping on you too.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:57 AM
2

You’re arguing with every women about their own bodies! Think about it. Who do you think is right? Every woman that reads this and disagrees or some neckbeard that’s literally never been a woman?
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:52 AM
2

Thank you. I’ve been waiting for some women to read these comments and help me out here. He has no idea what he’s talking about. So much r/iamverysmart AND r/badwomensanatomy
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:43 AM
2

You’re laughable. This is definitely going on r/badwomensanatomy
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:41 AM
3

You said women get wet when seeing a rape because her pussy wants to protect itself. By that reasoning, shouldn’t she get wet if she’s getting fucked hard? Why wouldn’t her body want to protect her then?
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:12 AM
3

I don’t know one woman that gets wet as protection while getting fucked by a guy that doesn’t turn them on. If anything, you get more dry. Edit: I might just have to post this to r/badwomensanatomy
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:06 AM
2

Why don’t I get wet if I don’t get aroused by a partner before sex? Shouldn’t I naturally get aroused if a guy is fucking me? No, because it doesn’t work that way, Op.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:01 AM
1

At 22 you haven’t even barely started your flirting days.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:02 AM
2

Umm she used that as an opener to hit on you. Just answer and keep the conversation going.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:21 PM
5

Gay gay
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:57 PM
1

Yeah, no shit. Women want men who have their shit together.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:55 PM
1

Oh my god. Extreme feminism? Wow. That’s insane.
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:05 AM
1

I’m teaching the guy to be realistic. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. He needs to face the reality that it’s not going to work most of the time, and there’s nothing wrong with that. It happens to literally every human, male or female. If he’s coddled then when he’s rejected he’s not going to understand (and in comes all the niceguys mentality). “All the guys on r/seduction said that this is the way to get laid, so why isn’t it working? Fuck this bitch for not wanting to give me her num…
/r/seduction01/12/21 12:19 AM
1

Yep. There’s no way of knowing as a commenter on Reddit.
/r/seduction01/12/21 12:13 AM
1

Just trying to give you a woman’s perspective. I’ve been cold approached and if I’m not attracted to the guy, I feel nervous, uncomfortable and awkward. As soon as I can get away, I want to rush away and get somewhere comfortable, either alone or with a good friend.
/r/seduction30/11/21 10:51 PM
1

Yeah, because she wasn’t interested in the first place.
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:41 PM
2

Or she was creeped out and wanted to get tf away as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:39 PM
16

Because you ignored her and went cold on her when she told you that she was really interested.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:19 PM
2

Oh wow. 10k followers. Lol I take back everything I said.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:17 AM
4

Well, he says that women with average attractiveness will sometimes meet up. So I’m assuming he meant women who are more attractive than the average attractive woman, therefore women who are very attractive.
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:12 AM
3

Sure. He was expressing his displeasure that very attractive women will talk but won’t meet up. My point is that they DO meet up with men. They only have so much time so they pick the absolute best. And that’s not him. It sucks but that’s how online dating is.
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:09 AM
7

I’m not being defensive. It’s just the reality of the situation. Online dating doesn’t work for you. So stick to meeting women in person. What nerve would you have struck? I don’t understand.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:51 PM
7

It’s this: the incredibly attractive women have their pick of the litter. So they choose the best of the best of the best. I mean, if you had the choice, wouldn’t you? I just don’t think that you are considered the best of the best of the best. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just life. Accept it and move on from online dating since it doesn’t work for you.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:29 PM
7

Nah, that can definitely ruin her day.
/r/seduction04/06/21 05:17 PM
1

It’s not trash. If I’m attracted to a guy, the only way I would dismiss him is if he was rude to me. If he’s friendly at all, I wouldn’t assume he only wants to be a friend. I’ve never “friend zoned” a guy I was into.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:12 AM
0

I’m sorry, but if a guy I’m attracted to is friendly to me, I’m totally game. I’ve never assumed a straight guy is gay. There’s got to be more to that.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:09 AM
48

There’s no such thing as the friend zone. Do you want to know what it actually is that you’re referring to? It’s called: they’re not attracted to you. It has nothing to do with games or seduction. They are straight up not attracted to you. So move on until you meet one that is.
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:26 PM
2

If she didn’t respond, she’s obviously not interested. It would be awkward and weird if he brought it up. Plus she’s at work. It’s not like she can get away from him. That’s the worst.
/r/seduction21/04/21 01:35 AM
3

Something I forgot to say—if she doesn’t text you back, don’t worry about it. Who knows why? And please don’t say anything about it if you see her again.
/r/seduction17/04/21 02:32 PM
25

No problem. Keep us updated. And I think my last paragraph is the best advice for you.
/r/seduction17/04/21 04:59 AM
161

I’m a bartender and I would have liked that you texted me that night. I especially like that you didn’t ask to hang out with her that night! True story, that’s the BIGGEST turn-off for me and my fellow female coworkers. It’s a sign that you just want to bang us and that’s boring af. Everyone wants to bang us. Be cooler than that. It’s also great that you said you wanted to take her out on a date. So many guys say they want to chill or hang out or smoke some weed. That shit is so immature and lam…
/r/seduction17/04/21 02:07 AM
6

We do want sex. The problem is that it’s hard to find one that we actually want to have sex with.
/r/seduction25/03/21 11:23 PM
2

Yes, of course it’s because of past experiences. Men are always saying, “I don’t understand how women think!” on this subreddit. When I tell them how I think or I’ve felt in past experiences, it gets disregarded as nonsense. If you want to know how women think, listen to women.
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:04 AM
4

I know! This subreddit is always full of nonsense. The silliest part is that they never listen to the women who comment. Like, wouldn’t we probably know better??
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:24 AM
3

Maybe she just wanted to hang out with you. You kissed. Does it have to be sex for you to think she might like you? It sounds like she’s not sure and she’s testing the waters. Is it a big deal if it takes more than one night? It’s rare for me to sleep with a guy the first time we go on a date or hang out. The build up can be extremely hot. Or maybe she thought she might like you but wasn’t that into it. I mean, you won’t know until you hang out again. Or don’t hang out haha
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:55 AM
7

r/niceguys
/r/seduction16/08/20 12:21 PM
11

I completely agree with this. If I’m not attracted to the guy within 5 seconds (his looks), there’s nothing you can do to change my mind. If I find you attractive, then I have to scope out what your personality is like. If I think you seem cool and trustworthy enough to possibly date or sleep with, the boyfriend question is great. It’s a compliment and establishes that he’s definitely interested in you. I love that. The ice cream bit would turn me off big time. It’s so creepy and also shows that…
/r/seduction20/06/20 10:14 PM
1

I love the idea of hitting up different cool restaurants downtown. Sit at the bar, get an app and drink at each one. Or dessert. There’s so much time to talk, especially between restaurants. Plus there’s a sense of adventure. Don’t have it planned (except maybe the first one). Pick places that you’ve never gone or maybe each pick a place they love that the other person has never gone to. And there’s always so much to see walking around downtown. People watching, etc. You can stop in random shops…
/r/seduction17/06/20 03:28 AM
2

Maybe she wasn’t trying to attract you? Maybe she does the eye contact/smile thing with everyone? Including her friends.
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:39 PM
1

Go to a regular bar, not a club. Chill at the bar, top well, start talking to people. The more you talk to, the more girls will eventually be introduced to you.
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:33 AM
2

Hmmm...take things slowly, develop a real connection, then have the best sex of your life? What’s wrong with doing that? Why rush things?
/r/seduction09/05/19 02:09 PM
3

Ha, I’m only a woman who has lived through much of this. I think I have enough experience to speak wisely. My point is that you never know. It sounds like she is looking for sex only, but I know, as a woman, where I’ve been in that situation, but then I met a great guy, we connected, and it turned into a great relationship. If he had turned and ran with his tail between his legs when we developed feelings, we both would have missed out on so many great times. My advice is to enjoy it, she sounds…
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:28 PM
4

What? That’s stupid. Maybe she just wants sex, maybe not Why not just go with the flow, enjoy the fun, and if you two catch feelings, go with it.
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:16 PM
1

There’s no such thing as the friend zone. What it is—the woman is just not into you. She isn’t attracted to you or thinks you’re boring or only wants to date vampires, or whatever. She just doesn’t want to date you! So what do you do? There’s no way to convince her to change her mind. Literally. NO WAY. So the only option you have is to move on. Focus your time and energy on someone who likes you the same way you like her.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:54 PM
3

It’s gossip and drama. People who have no life live for this kind of stuff. They have nothing interesting going on in their lives so they concern themselves with what’s going on in other people’s lives.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:31 PM
4

That’s not smart. Just ask her out. Today. I mean, Christ, all you have to is send a text. Why haven’t you done this yet?
/r/seduction05/02/19 01:05 PM
3

So are all you guys going to become pussies?
/r/seduction29/01/19 12:20 PM
2

Are you asking to meet up that day? I’ve never wanted to meet a guy that day or night. I usually have plans or work. It’s much better if the guy asks me out for a specific day and time.
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:12 AM
2

I get it. I didn’t think you were mad, just wanted to give you some advice for the future. Not everyone you’re into is going to be into you. And vice versa. It sucks but you’ll be better off knowing and accepting that.
/r/seduction24/01/19 03:36 AM
2

You can’t get upset about it. Look at it this way: He got her number. He has the choice to text her or not. So, now, she got his text. She has the choice to reply or not. There’s no reason to get mad at women for not replying. They have a right to make their own choices, just as men do. They can’t be attracted to every man that hits on them.
/r/seduction24/01/19 03:25 AM
1

No, because the sex always gets in the way.
/r/seduction14/01/19 08:25 PM
4

That line is so telling.
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:11 PM
5

I dated a guy who was 5’6” and didnt care about his height at all. In fact, he’s never had an issue with his height and dating. He ended up marrying a beautiful woman who is a couple of inches taller. I think he is attractive because he doesn’t worry about his height. He’s confident, funny, sweet and a cool guy. Chicks dig it.
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:10 PM
0

No.
/r/seduction05/01/19 05:19 AM
3

Let’s say it’s 20 years into the future. What would the experienced, older you say? He’d say—FUCKING RELAX. You’re going to ruin everything if your anxiety makes you overthink and over analyze every situation. CHILL. Enjoy this time instead of worrying. Enjoy the girl. Be happy. Things are working out great. Sit back, smile, laugh, rejoice. Rid your mind of your negative thoughts. They will destroy you.
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:52 PM
2

I’m sorry, but it sounds like she is just doing her job. I’ve been in the service industry for many years and always try to talk to regulars and know their names. And I’m definitely not interested in dating any of them. Unless she does some blatant flirting, I think you’re going to have to skip this one.
/r/seduction03/12/18 06:01 PM
20

Yep. I had a coworker who smoked pot every day. He was cool but kinda too cool, if you know what I mean? A little lazy, too chill. He got caught with weed, which ended up being a huge nightmare, legal wise. I straight up told him to stop smoking pot completely. He took me advice. Within a couple of months, his life had totally changed. He got 2 new jobs, started making great money, moved out of his parent’s place into his own apt. He was more energetic and outgoing and suddenly the girls were ev…
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:15 PM
2

It sounds like she didn’t like your style of making out. She found it too aggressive for her tastes. Some women are picky about their lover’s style. That’s just who they are. It means that you two aren’t compatible. It sucks but life goes on.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:57 PM
5

Thank you for posting this. I see so many posts on here by clueless guys. They think there’s some sort of trickery and games involved in getting laid. Or that you have to be smooth or an asshole or alpha. The key is: be yourself and make a real connection with a woman. They see through all that other stuff. Women are interested in something real. They want mental and emotional connection, which moves them to want physical connection. Edit: I forgot to add, they also need physical attraction. Jus…
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:37 PM
5

Don’t. Just don’t. Woman here. Don’t be ballsy and go across the room. That’s way too awkward. Even if I was crushing on a guy, I would be so embarrassed if that happened in class. I’d want to skip the next class! Figure out a way to see her before or after class. Maybe time your exit so that you’re walking out together. Or if you know she comes early and sits in the hallway before class, approach her politely then. (I always was about 5 min early and sat outside the room and so did many other s…
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:19 PM
100

THIS. If it takes ‘gaming’ to make a girl stay, is that really a relationship you want?
/r/seduction24/09/18 05:09 PM
1

That’s funny; that’s never happened. I guess they weren’t insecure and could read that I was into them. I mean, the chick Op is seeing is showing that she likes him. They’ve been on 6 dates and slept together 4 times. She FaceTimed him multiple times for over an hour! In today’s fast paced society, that’s a pretty huge clue that she likes him. So what does he have to be so insecure about? Things are going well, why does he need to push her away? Maybe he’s not mature enough to be in a relationsh…
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:14 PM
2

You’re totally correct.
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:05 PM
0

I’m a woman and I’m telling you that I wouldn’t find it unattractive. I think it shows that he has balls and goes for what he wants. Very manly and sexy. Every guy that I’ve dated longer than a month has been like this with me. It made me more head over heels for them.
/r/seduction19/09/18 08:56 PM
0

I don’t understand what you mean. Look, I’m a woman, so I’m going to give you advice that would actually work with a woman. Why do all these weird “techniques” about showing her how alpha you are? It’s so creepy. Just ask her if she’s seeing anyone else. Then tell her that you want to be exclusive with her. (I mean, that’s an alpha move, right guys?) Then you’ll have her answer. I mean, she’s already decided what she is willing to do with you. She probably decided it the night she met you. So fi…
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:42 PM
5

I think you’re right on with 2. I’m sorry it’s happening so much. I’ve noticed that it goes both ways nowadays, as in, both sexes. Because of Tinder, etc, there’s so many options that it’s easy to flake. There’s always someone else to talk to.
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:47 PM
-1

Why don’t you ask her to be exclusive?
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:37 PM
3

You can’t create it. It’s just there or not. I’ve been on dates with guys that try to create it. It’s just so cringe worthy and uncomfortable and embarrassing to see.
/r/seduction17/09/18 02:21 PM
1

She was never into you. She thought you were just friends. That’s the end of the story. She told you that exactly. What are you questioning?
/r/seduction30/08/18 07:02 PM
4

Google death grip masturbation. You’re going to have to fix it.
/r/seduction27/08/18 05:03 AM
2

Obviously, if you’re interested, ask her out for another date. What’s the problem? What’s the worst that can happen? She doesn’t reply? Big deal.
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:39 PM
0

I've been that girl approached at the mall. And grocery store. I'm sorry, but it's the worst approach from a woman's point of view. I'm there to shop and run errands. I'm not looking to be stopped and asked out. It's soooo weird and awkward. Every woman I've ever talked to agrees with me. There has got to be a better way.
/r/seduction27/05/18 12:37 AM
2

You feel this way because 'just-sex' has become unfulfilling for you. You've matured enough to realize that there is a lot more to life than fucking girls. Take a step back. Try to meet someone that you have a connection with. Someone that stimulates your mind and heart, not just your penis. Start dating her. Take it slow. Learn to appreciate her as a person, not just an object to fuck. Learn how to make love. Sex between two well connected people is phenomenally better than one night stands. Fo…
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:04 PM
1

Was she drunk? The text makes no sense. I would text her that. "Were you drunk? I don't understand what your text means."
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:56 PM
4

Really, I would just find this annoying. I don't want to be categorized into a major based on how I look. It's patronizing. "Let's see, she's a chick and she wears glasses. She must be studying library science!...hmmm or I bet she's a nurse!" It's insulting. It's good to have an original start to a conversation. But make it just that. A start. Move on quickly to a real conversation. Keep it light and witty. If it flows and you two seem to have things in common and more things to talk about, THEN…
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:29 AM
1

Only a few possibilities: She's not really into you. She doesn't care if she's wasting your time. She's catfshing you. Which sounds very probable. She's a druggie or alcoholic and can't get out the door due to being fucked up. So, yep. Why are you even worrying about this girl? Block her and move on.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:10 AM
2

Yep. Drinking at bars is fun. That's why so many people do it. I'm glad you finally figured that out.
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:36 PM
2

Exactly. And this is not how women's minds work. The only way this would intrigue a woman sexually is if she is already attracted to you. I think about every man I know and imagine them trying this on me. I would laugh at 99 of 100 of them, definitely not find it attractive.
/r/seduction19/05/18 08:28 AM
3

I had a friend who was amazing at flirting. But one thing she did in particular that always drove the guys crazy: pulling her hair up into a bun. She would have all of her hair down, then innocently and slowly pull it up. Her shoulders and neck would suddenly be exposed. Her torso was elongated and her boobs perky. She'd tie it up and continue talking or whatever she was doing. Men would practically be drooling. A few minutes later she'd take it down. It also seemed to fascinate men.
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:11 PM
69

YES. This. That's the problem with this subreddit. Men here don't seem to understand that sex is all about connection.
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:37 PM
2

Ah, well, it seems like she just wasn't that into you. There's nothing wrong with that. Not every person you are attracted to is going to be attracted to you. Don't take it personally. Move on and you'll eventually meet someone that likes you as much as you like them. You seem like a cool guy. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/03/18 01:17 PM
1

You guys smoked outside? Public place? Where do you live? That would never fly on my campus.
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:48 PM
3

Wow that's so weird. Every woman I've known wants to meet a tinder match somewhere public, for safety reasons.
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:37 PM
1

You didn't have a date with her. You hung out. That's what girls do with friends. I would have been unimpressed. No effort involved on your part at all.
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:14 PM
6

Yep. This.
/r/seduction24/02/18 07:22 AM
1

So not true.
/r/seduction17/02/18 04:28 PM
1

What are you talking about? There's no secret sex language that your parents forgot to teach you. Just talk to women like you talk to anyone else. That's the secret.
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:26 PM
4

THIS.
/r/seduction17/02/18 12:16 PM
3

What country are you in? That's a really important detail you should have included in your post.
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:32 PM
2

It's different from guy stuff because you go to a place that has a romantic feel to it. Like a dark, classy cocktail bar, etc. It's better than dinner because you can leave after just one or two drinks if you're not into her. Also, if things are going well then you can suggest other things to do. Like maybe get appetizers and hit up other cool places. THEN you can play pool or darts or dance or whatever. Women really enjoy talking, especially on the first date. If they're into you they want to l…
/r/seduction07/02/18 07:54 AM
2

Maybe I'll get downvoted for this, but this is my point of view. Pool and darts are things you do with your guy friends. I want a date to be romantic, not bro time. Why not just ask to meet for a drink? Pick somewhere with good atmosphere.
/r/seduction06/02/18 05:50 PM
1

Did they talk though? I need to know EXACTLY when and for how long.
/r/seduction03/02/18 11:19 PM
4

Mussels.
/r/seduction18/01/18 11:33 PM
1

Thank you for posting this. It should be common sense but the guys on this subreddit don't seem to understand it.
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:35 AM
21

Woman here. I don't think it was an invitation. That's how I would act with a friend/acquaintance that I was saying bye to. That's not what I would do if I wanted to sleep with the guy.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:44 PM
3

Yeah, the flirting stuff sounds over the top. I find that kind of flirting to be cheesy and creepy. I like when guys are just normal and fun while occasionally making a nice comment that means they find me attractive. Like, you look so pretty tonight. I think the kiss is important. You can't force it but you can work your way towards it. If the girl is into you, you'll notice that she tries to get closer to you. She touches you. At this point you can lightly hold her hand or put your arm around …
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:05 PM
6

This, Op. If she was into you she would've given you her number. Or Facebook or email or something. Just move on.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:26 PM
2

Maybe she was just trying to get a drink? Or maybe she's a bitch and wanted to make you feel like shit? Whatever the situation is, you are silly to concern yourself with her. I really don't understand why you are even thinking about her anymore.
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:48 PM
2

You don't have any respect for yourself because you're still worrying about this chick and hoping to make her jealous. She was rude to you, you said so yourself. Why concern yourself with people who don't appreciate you?
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:46 PM
1

I've never heard that. Why live by rules that someone else made up? Why don't you stop playing games and act on your feelings in a mature, straight forward way?
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:19 PM
2

Ah. Well that was your cue to recognize that she's not interested in you, and that you should move on. Your tactics are not going to change her mind. I've had guys do stuff like that to me, and it just makes me think that they're creepers and sooo weird for not moving on. You've probably caught her looking at you because she thinks you're creepy. Also--you say that she was with a guy who wasn't as good looking as you. How do you know that she doesn't find him more attractive? First off, everyone…
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:17 PM
1

If she apologized and you were still interested, why didn't you ask her out again? Why play all these games? She could have said no or ignored you and you could have moved on. Or she could have said yes and the two of you could be sleeping together by now. I think you should ask her out again. I don't know if she'll say yes since you've been acting like such a weirdo around her (all the staring but not talking to her, so creepy) and the fact that you have other women with you. But at least you'l…
/r/seduction09/12/17 01:50 PM
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I think these women are sensing that you're looking to just "seduce" them, or get them to go home with you. That's such a turnoff. Why don't you think about dating the way that women do? As in, be interested in getting to know the other person and make a connection with them. Not make "getting them home" your main goal. Your goal should be to have fun and enjoy her company. Then if she feels the same way, it organically moves to the bedroom.
/r/seduction09/12/17 01:42 PM
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Are you sure she's into you? Seems like she thinks of you as a friend.
/r/seduction27/11/17 10:09 AM
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This. I like quiet guys. Some girls like the outgoing ones. We're all different.
/r/seduction26/11/17 08:09 PM
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Ugh, as a woman, I would find most of these questions nauseating. I mean, if a guy asked me one of these questions, my mind would automatically ask, "which stupid website did he read this on?" Dates should flow. Conversations should be simple and fun. If you have to make up ridiculous questions to "seduce" me--well, it wasn't going to work in the first place.
/r/seduction23/11/17 06:45 PM
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This, OP. You're looking at sex all wrong. That's why it isn't happening for you. A large part of sexual interactions is actually interacting with others. Getting to know people, learning about them, having a real connection with them. Date someone. Develop a connection with them. Start off with kisses on the first or second date. Next time, make out. Explore each other and enjoy your time together and eventually you'll be having sex. You can explain at the beginning that you're not looking for …
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:38 PM
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Agreed. And it's so obvious, too! Such a huge turn-off.
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:59 PM
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