Strict-Mistake-3114 Archive

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1	How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex? It's just tells you which one is relationship material. And which one is FWB.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 06:02 PM
1	Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise. I was not a man whore, not for lack of opportunity just not who I am. And to be honest, if she had told me the truth back then, I would have run the other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 10:56 PM
2	Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise. Just wish she would have been honest about her past. Finding out after 10 years of marriage was hard going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 09:40 PM
3	Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise. It's pretty much how I have felt over the last few months. Till I realized I got the best parts of her. In December, I found out about her college party stage. Took me a few months to get over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 07:40 PM
2	Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise. Don't think my wife or kids would like that a whole lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 07:02 PM
6	Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise. Missed my party stage, was fighting in Afghanistan during it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 06:33 PM
1	What is your way of spotting a girl with a promiscuous past? There is no way to tell. Roll the dice and hope for the best is all you can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 03:39 AM
3	"Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything Thank you. Right now, I treat her as 2 different women. One is my wife and mother of my children, my friend. And I don't deal with the other one right now at all. When she shows up, I hit the gym or go for a run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 06:30 PM
4	"Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything Wasn't so much her total count that bothered me . Was more of the fact of what she did that disgusts me. And yes, I know people change, and she was a different person then. Hench, why I am going to therapy and working on salvaging my marriage. Instead of just getting a solicitor and setting my whole world on fire. Treating the momentary lack of love and respect as a simple drunken mistake in reliving her past. She reverted back to that 19-20 year old she once was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 06:21 PM
8	"Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything No, it was the fact her and her friends were joking at my expense. Which made the lie that much worse, which made her past truly disappointing. The lack of respect and disregard are my main issues that are fueling everything else. I don't know about you, but it's hard to respect someone who doesn't respect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 06:00 PM
5	"Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything We were on holiday in Italy for 3 weeks in November/December last year. The first week was just us. The second week, she had 10 friends from college meet us. She talked to them periodically but hasn't seen them in 12 years. The first few day with them were fine, on monday we had gone to a winery and had been drinking most of the day. They were all hanging out and catching up. I got tired and turned in for the night. Was walking back to our cottage when I remembered me, hat and jacket, and went b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 04:52 PM
5	"Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything My wife twisted the truth of her past. And honestly, has damaged me and our marriage. To the point that I have zero interest in sex at all. It's been 4 months now, and it's a nightmare. I'm not going into details, but you can read my profile to understand what I mean. For us who marry the girls that already had their fun and are just with the safe and stable guy now. It's a steaming shat sandwich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 10:53 AM
1	What's appropriate to vet your partner on? Really doesn't matter because most of the time, if they have a questionable past, they are just going to lie about it anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 12:58 PM
-1	Question for girls who had a "party phase" but moved on Sadly, no, because once they have had their fun, they start looking for a safe and dependable victim to settle down with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 11:13 PM
1	Obsession with control is evident in this sub Very much so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 02:54 PM
4	Obsession with control is evident in this sub I am sorry for all the trauma you are going through. I hope you find a good therapist who can help you unpack all of that. Seems like an unbearable amount of weight to carry around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 09:57 AM
0	How to tell if a girl had a hoe phase in college but cleaned up afterwards? There is no way to honestly tell sorry to say. I wish I would have known myself .	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 09:20 PM
4	There's nothing inherently wrong with having a high body count, but it is a predictor of other red flags in the relationship And I would beg to differ men do get sexual trauma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 01:40 PM
3	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? I feel bad for the majority caught in the middle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 03:18 PM
–	Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past? Then she should just let me go, and stop fighting to fix us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 08:28 PM
11	Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past? In a dead bedroom now with the hot girl that lied about her past. So a damned if you do damned if you don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 01:59 AM
10	Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past? Have never been someone to hookup find it distasteful. So the first choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 01:51 AM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Sorry	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 11:20 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Have been waking up a man for 36 years and have never had casual sex. It would seem placing value on emotional intimacy before physical intimacy is not how the rest of the world actually works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 04:01 PM
1	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? In my wife's case our marriage came crashing down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 12:12 AM
12	For those men that filed first, what was the final straw? Seems in college she was some sort of sex worker, and the conversation got worse from there. Was able to stomach it for 45 minutes or so. Will never be able to look at her the same again. I will respect her as the mother of my kids. About all I have left for her.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/22 06:00 PM
14	For those men that filed first, what was the final straw? Seeing a solicitor in about 2 hours. To start my divorce. My marriage ended Monday night she was having a college reunion of sorts. And thought I had went to bed early walked in on a conversation I was never suppose to hear. Ended up returning home a week and a half early. Left her on holiday. Now that I have returned home she can have a right proper reunion now.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/22 04:39 PM