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It’s your own fault that you’re in this situation and that you’re in that zone. You can simply choose NOT to have sex with him. I recommend that you don’t bother trying to be friends with him at all, because friendships generally don’t work out when one of the parties is in love with a person who doesn’t love them. You have no male friends, your friends are female where you know that there’s no underlying tension between you 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:11 PM
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If women KNOW, then why do a lot of them let themselves go?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:51 PM
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And your point? Isn’t it worse to lead a person on and pretend to still be attracted to them and then get dissatisfied and have it slowly turn to resentment and then conflict and then eventually leaving. People have to understand that physical attraction is the number 1 thing in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:49 PM
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Again, you’re making uneducated assumptions simply because of me having been a prostitute. I started doing prostitution when I was studying for a science and engineering course at university, and yes I do have an interest in all types of sciences. I know of a few other prostitutes who are studying chemical engineering and marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:50 PM
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We’re looking at this from different perspectives. I’m looking at it from a biological perspective and through an animal kingdom perspective. Yours may be different. We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:29 PM
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I don’t know how a person can be so narrow minded that they think a gay man doesn’t understand what it’s like to be a man and how men operate sexually and emotionally when I have had lots of experience and lots of case studies on men’s sexuality as an ex prostitute and having listened to clients talking about their previous relationships with women before they came out, some who aren’t out, and noticing the patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:22 PM
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As a gay man, I don’t see what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:17 PM
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Women are on average, physically smaller and more delicate in their build. Their bodies are not designed to carry so much weight on their bodies. Yes, women do need more fat than men on average, this doesn’t necessarily mean more weight because weight comes from muscle mass and fat. Men have larger frames on average, so they are able to handle more weight on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:59 PM
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Men don’t have to be emotionally connected to a person to have sex with them, for men it’s more physical and a women cheating on a man indicates that her emotional connection has been washed out by her encounter with another man. When a woman cheats, she isn’t in love with the man anymore and her emotional connection will have gone down the drain, and it’s very humiliating for a man to be cheated on by a woman, and it’s much worse for a man to raise another man’s child unknowingly. This rarely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:45 PM
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For a woman to give birth, the man has to plant his seed in her. Men have lots to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:26 PM
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Those women should know that being fat and lazy will repel a lot of good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:20 PM
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Go for men, or maybe pay some prostutites. As an ex prostitute, I can tell you that we are much more caring and understanding of men’s insecurities and kinks because we have been trained and exposed to lots of different types of men. I found my partner as a prostitute and he tells me that I’m the kindest and most understanding person he knows, and give the best sex. Us prostitutes can take some time out to listen to and counsel you, and to be a friend. We can teach you some techniques to improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:41 PM
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I slept with about 400 people if that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:31 PM
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PREACH!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:27 PM
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Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:39 PM
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The normal weight is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:49 PM
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Simple answer - you’re a sex addict. Get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:23 PM
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As an ex prostitute, I agree that prostitution is frowned upon too much. It’s one of the oldest jobs in the world. Relationships are inherently transactional, so there’s no reason why sex shouldn’t be transactional, especially knowing how men want sex without always giving back emotional support, so their money is very good. I can go buy myself some nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:40 PM
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Have you measured these so call 5” people to know that they’re 5”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:24 AM
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Yes, you are on the larger side at 17cm. 17cm is the start of XL and the 95th percentile. I’m at 20cm, a bit under, and many people say that I’m huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:29 AM
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More like 4 - 6 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:29 AM
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Real 5” isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:28 AM
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Yes, 5” to 7” is what women tend to like, when measured with a ruler. 13cm to 17cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:27 AM
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No, 7” is the start of XL. That’s real 7” when measured with a ruler.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:24 AM
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5” - 7” is not normal. 6” and over is already on the larger side for men. It might seem average because a lot of men lie about their penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:21 AM
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First, let’s start redefining these words to their proper definitions. They are NOT friends with benefits. They are not a ‘friend’. They are a f*** buddy. Second, those people have to assess their views on relationships. This sounds messed up in so many ways. People having backups is not the problem if they’re honest about it. If they’re not, then they have to assess their situation. Thirdly, this type of situation is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:06 AM
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Netflix and chill He’s says he’s not looking for a relationship. He says let’s see how it goes. He only compliments you on your assets. You have never been with him in public. All of these are signs that you’re ugly to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:56 PM
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Too many women use excessive amounts of makeup, perfume, fake breasts and fake eyelashes and fake hair and fake nails, and they think it’s cute because other women approve of if. Many women don’t know how to apply makeup and what type of makeup suits them to enhance their NATURAL beauty. Instead, they look at magazines, the Kardashians and draw on eyebrows and contouring and try to create features that aren’t there, when not everyone is flattered by that. Men judge a woman’s market value by her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:21 AM
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Indian guys are more likely to have success with Indian women. Lots of research shows that Indian men tend to be lower in the sexual market ladder than white European men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:32 PM
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A man being wealthy by itself doesn’t attract women, except for whores who want to drain his money bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:05 AM
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This includes learning how to play the game. Dating, moving up the social ladder and moving up the career ladder are all blood sports. Many men lack the drive and the fighter spirit. This is what I mean to by too many feminised men. Many men are too soft. We have to regain that drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:25 PM
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This is why I’m happy to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:40 PM
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All of that is true. So happy that I don’t have to deal with women and I’m already in a very happy partnership with a very nice rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:45 PM
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I didn’t imply that quote, and I said nothing that denies the Tinderpocalypse, so I don’t understand what the problem is? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:11 PM
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Please explain how it’s romanticised.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:47 PM
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There are lots of YouTube channels that can help you here, one of my favourites is Real Men Real Style. Yes, and many of those women are using him for money and for his goodwill. A lot of women settle because they know that the chances of them having their ideal man are very slim. You can become that ideal man, especially at 6’, which is considered to be the ideal height for a man. Yes, so you’re carrying lots of baggage, which a therapist can help you to get through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:33 PM
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It will be best if you do learn how to approach women. Learn some social skills and learn how they think. Also, maybe learn how groom yourself, buy clothes that fit, find a style that suits your body and your character (not saying that you don’t already do this, it’s a suggestion). Please, don’t compare yourself to the other guys around you. The average guy isn’t very desirable for most women, so this is a very bad reference point. You’re at a very healthy weight for your height, although you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:20 PM
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Are you able to approach and talk to women? And what are your stats? Height? Weight? Age? Working hard by itself means nothing if it doesn’t earn fruitful results. You may be lean, although are you fit? Do you have a very well shaped body and eat well? Are you working in an STEM field? If you’re young (under 30), then you’ll have to give it some time. Most men reach their peak between 30 and 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:48 PM
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Many women over emphasise these qualities while undervaluing their inherent femininity. Many women underestimate the power of beauty, fitness, feminine charm, feminine grace, social etiquette and discernment. Women can work in STEM and earn money, although they have to be aware that these qualities mean nothing in her value to a man. Now, we have lots of women who try to take on the man’s role. Playing the field, being the mother AND father (READ single mothers), expecting to be equal or in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:46 PM
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Those men have to understand one of the basic laws of attraction. Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:41 PM
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Why did you try to connect 2 separate sentences and misinterpret what I was saying? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:32 PM
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Can you explain how you have followed this in detail? And what are your stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:28 PM
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You’re making an assumption. Maybe read my comment history and then tell me that I’m not holding women accountable for this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:20 PM
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Yes, this. Too many women have unrealistic standards, and this is all perpetuated by the media. Fat shaming and giving reality checks are both seen as crimes to many people, so now we have lots of people who are lower in value and thinking it’s acceptable to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:19 PM
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Yes, you’re correct on that. Although those women are best not complaining about not having a man. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. They should know what they’re getting themselves into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:46 PM
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You’re saying what I have said in another way. Toxic femininity is essentially masculinity being disguised as ‘femininity’ rather than the true femininity that men will go to wars over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:43 PM
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Yes, because a lot of men are now overly feminised, some who grew up with only a mother and weren’t taught how to be a proper man by their fathers, and a shortage of people working in STEM careers and in the trades. Yes, hitting on women is now demonised, especially because of a lot of women attempting to be treated like and act like men, while at the same time wanting yo attract men? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. It doesn’t make sense. Masculine attracts feminine, and feminine attracts masculine. It’s all Yang…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:42 PM
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Yes, they’re rewarded for that by other women. These qualities mean next to nothing when it comes to her value to a man. Yes, those women who go for guys who they know as a-holes. There are lots of very nice, charming men that women tend to overlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:23 PM
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I didn’t say it was bad, although I do think that these qualities are over emphasised in women, when those usually aren’t pre requisites for what makes her desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:21 PM
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No thanks, beer and candy are part of makes people in the UK and US fat and lazy. Thanks for the suggestion though. Women are the gatekeeper when it comes to sexual access, yes you’re correct on that. Men decide who he chooses to date and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:20 PM
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I’m not interested in women, I’m gay, although thanks for the suggestion. I study what men want, and there is a very common trend with what men want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:11 PM
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Then please explain what women want in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:08 PM
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I didn’t say that women didn’t have their role to play. I was giving a man’s role as an example. I wanted to simplify the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:58 AM
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I didn’t say that women didn’t have their role to play. I was giving a man’s role as an example. I wanted to simplify the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:58 AM
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So no, real authenticity isn’t a prerequisite for most people. Yes, it’s best if it is, although many people don’t. Real authenticity is usually looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:57 AM
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Yes, it’s these dating (READ hookup) apps that skew things for lots of people. Now people are boasting about how all of these guys want to sleep with (READ only hookup with) them, and they feel entitled to higher quality people while doing next to nothing to increase their value. When a man ups his value, then he does have much more women to choose from, including higher quality options. Yes, women have to do their bit, you’re correct, although lots of women are encouraged to be ‘strong’ (READ o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:53 AM
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This makes lots of sense. The average US person is overweight, fat and lazy. Men are being overly feminised. Many women are too masculine for men to fall in love with them. Lower quality potential suitors, especially because of the cultural attitudes being adopted. There are lots more reasons why. If we start sticking to the more traditional ways, like as men to work out, work hard, earn money, learn to fight, and develop STEM and trade skills, many men will start noticing a difference in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:27 AM
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Compatible personalities can also exist as friends. I think you should have swapped that with mutual sexual attraction in the first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:54 AM
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Yes, so it goes to show that a lot of women don’t care about honesty and how nice and moral a man is. If a man is hot, handsome, sexy, fit, masculine, then she’ll go for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:42 AM
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Then why do lots of women chase after narcissistic men and cheaters and players and thugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:29 AM
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If that was the case, then why do you have narcissistic, manipulative, dishonest men who get sex, girlfriends and wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:27 AM
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A lot of women aren’t very honest about what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:27 AM
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I think you forgot that there are some people who are friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:27 AM
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Chances are that they were already feeling that spark, otherwise why would they bother dating you? Many women purposely restrain their sex drives to not look slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:25 AM
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Most people don’t have problems hooking up with people who they don’t like very much. Now, for a relationship, that’s very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:25 AM
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I don’t know why some people feel the need to complicate this. A spark is sexual attraction. All other euphemisms are code words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:24 AM
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Yes to this. I said this in another post. Unfortunately, a lot of the people there CHOOSE to misunderstand and misinterpret what is said. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uuear4/being_afraid_of_relationships_going_bad_do_you/i9jok13/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:18 AM
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Physical (READ sexual) attraction, followed by an emotional connection. Most of the times it’s a code word for the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:17 AM
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It’s very difficult to have opposite sex friends without your partner is suspicious, unless you or the other person is gay. I think it’s best to not have a large group of friends anyways. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:16 AM
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High value men cover a very small percentage of the population. High value always implies that it’s much greater than average, which means that no more than 5 - 10% of men will fit into this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:50 PM
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Women are able to be all of this, although in the context of traditional relationships and mating, this has little to no effect on her sexual market value. If anything, it would be an afterthought at most. A lot of women try to justify being a great partner by all of these points that you said, while at the same time missing out on the core qualities that men desire in women, and then wonder why they keep getting cheated on and sex zoned. Marie Curie was a successful scientist and businesswoman …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:08 PM
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Where was this implied? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:52 PM
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Again, you’re filling in blanks that aren’t there and misinterpreting. No, women working doesn’t reduce their femininity. A lot of my older family were nurses, cooks and caretakers who are happily partnered. A woman has every right to work and to own a business. It simply isn’t a part of her sexual market value. Too many women overestimate how much their work makes them more desirable. Most men don’t care about that. Yes, cooking and charm are a part of successful marriages. What man wants a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:04 AM
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Again, you’re misinterpreting. Nowhere was it said that women don’t have resources and that they don’t have to work. What is true is that the man has the role of the provider, which means that he has the larger percentage of the earning to offer. If he is truly committed, then he will offer his resources and his heart. Men usually don’t do this with hookups and friends with benefits, they tend to reserve this for their girlfriends and wives, unless they’re sugar daddies. No, they’re simply not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:51 AM
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Or maybe you misunderstood. I’ll say it again. This time more slowly, while holding your hand. Men and women prioritise different things when it comes to what they FIRST seek out. Men are visual, women are more interested in his character, wealth and status. Men will be more quick to offer sex while women are more quick to offer her heart. That’s not saying that men have no body to offer and women have no heart to offer. Now, for a RELATIONSHIP to work, the woman has to offer her heart AND her b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:40 AM
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It does if you reread it carefully. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:36 AM
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Yes, women do have hearts to access. It’s mostly that in a relationship, the man also has to give access to heart. Women will ready give access to their hearts and men will readily give access to their bodies. It’s mostly that for a relationship to work, it also has to be the other way for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:33 AM
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Where was it said that a woman has no heart? It’s man who chooses whether the woman gets access to his heart and resources. The woman chooses whether he gets access to her body. No, her worth isn’t only her body, although it does play a big part in her sexual market value. Us men are visual, and we like fit, physically capable and sexually attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:56 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with withholding sex. If more people did it, we would have less mistake children, unwanted pregnancies, single mothers and traumatised adults. Too many sluts, baby mothers, baby daddies, STI ridden toilets and overweight people who think it’s fine to be overweight simply because some people are willing to only hook up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:44 AM
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Yes to this. It takes a lot more for a woman to give access to her body. He has to have the whole package. Looks, game, charm. While men are less picky when it comes to sex, the standards that women place for men in sex are as high as what men place for women as wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:52 AM
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Part of the reason is because there are less high quality women and men who are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:47 AM
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Relationships between men and women aren’t equal. People have to understand that the man has to be in the more dominant, provider position and the woman has to be the caretaker and the provider. Also, women do have more sexual options, although how many of them are willing to be her partner? The woman decides who gets access to her body while the man decides who gets access to his heart and his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:43 AM
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People who end up in failed relationships are usually surrounded by other people in failed relationships. Birds of a feather flock together. To break this cycle, you have to remove yourself from the flock and start studying and reading articles from professional relationship coaches and to surround yourself with people who are and have been in stable, successful relationships and learn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:38 AM
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Usually because of losing interest or never having had any interest in the first place 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:36 AM
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Traditional gender roles have been around since the very beginning, because they apply. Women cook, look pretty, offer great sex, submit, clean and care for the children. Men hunt, work, compete, fight, provide and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:11 PM
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