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Striking-Shopping796/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:46 PM
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As long as it's not too few right? Having a lot of partners is not gonna make a difference when you're older. But if you have too few it may well be an issue. I suspect that someone who has only ever been with one woman all his life is gonna have some difficulty engaging in a new one if his wife leaves him for whatever reason at the age of 45. I don't think the experience gained from casual sex is as worthless as you're making it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:26 PM
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I think most guys who have never had access to casual sex are gonna somewhere in their minds feel at least a little bit of inadequacy. Bare in mind it's not really a decision for a lot of guys between casual sex or relationships. It's that they have to be in a relationship or they are not gonna get any sex. When you know that there are other men who don't have to make this decision in order to get sex, it's going to be hard for it not to feel like you're inferior to them. You can wake up 35+ and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:16 PM
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are short men punished by women for being short? I'd say so, yes. you're implying the high quality man is consciously punishing the woman Doesn't have to be conscious, people do things on instinct. the problem is you feel entitled and you believe what you deserve is being taken from you. Am a straight man, so, no I don't. Just saying that if as a man you impose a penalty on a woman for being promiscuous, that's a punishment. I'm not even saying that the punishment is a bad thing. You're allowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:51 PM
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I disagree with that definition of punishment. If an athlete gets disqualified from a race, that's a punishment. If a woman gets disqualified from getting commitment from "high-quality" men, that's a similar punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:37 PM
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This is a kind of punishment. Loss of access to those men is a penalty imposed for promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:13 PM
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I think this phenomenon is caused by most women having mostly other women in their social circle. As a man I can't shit talk a woman for being promiscuous, cause she probably wouldn't even tell me if she was promiscuous. She'll tell her friends, who are mostly female, who then have ammo to use against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:10 PM
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Yeah well some people don’t have insecurities. Fictional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:01 PM
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Something is definitely wrong here. May I ask, what exactly is wrong with flirting? Just because someone is flirting doesn't mean they are creep. Being perceived as flirting is being framed as such a negative thing in this post. You at some point are going to have to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:20 PM
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In fairness to women, pickup artists are more likely to be approaching strange women on the street. In fairness to socially maladjusted dorks, they have to do something and PUA types are the only people who even pretend to be interested in helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:29 AM
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To be less boring you mean? I agree. Distinction I was trying to make is that you'll probably have more luck finding someone through your hobby group rather than in your hobby group. Saw lot's of guys complaining that they probably aren't going to meet women in activities they actually like, and I think for the most part they are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:15 AM
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I assume the women would actually have to be the ones to work harder in this scenario. Men are in demand, meaning they are in control, it's the women who need to go out and work and prove themselves of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:02 PM
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It's not the only solution. You could also workout hard and make more money. But, I agree in principle, women have no reason to choose men who don't have anything they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:56 PM
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In all honesty, I think most people, men and women alike, really just go to work then go home, maybe go the gym. I really don't think it's all that common for people to have "hobbies" outside of solitary ones done at home, or going to the bar/club/parties with their friends. I think rather than "find a hobby', the heart of the advice here is "make more friends". Even if your hobby is male dominated, which as a man it probably will be, if you make new friends, your new friends will probably know …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:46 PM
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😂 love this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:15 PM
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If you have a long term relationship and you want to keep it, at some point you're going to have to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:27 PM
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A lot of young men struggle with women and it's no secret. Whether it's most or not doesn't really matter, it's a lot of young men. For a significant number of men they're likely to go from 0 attention in their 20s to some attention in their 30s, which is definitely a peak, doesn't mean it's great, but it's a peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:47 PM
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"Peak" is relative, I think they mean that when you have more money you'll have more access to women. I'm not a ladies man by any stretch of the imagination, but women who wouldn't even talk to me before will gladly spend some time with me if I can offer to take them somewhere nice. When you get older you get more access to things that impress women, a house, a car, steady income, this will give you more success with women. Now this might still not be a lot of success, but you need to appreciate…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:42 PM
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What I notice with having female friends as man is that you have to keep attention on them or else they'll stop talking to you. Granted, it could just be that I'm lame and nobody likes me, but I had a couple of girls I used to talk to everyday for years, what I started to notice though was that any day I didn't message them first, we wouldn't talk. After a while I either forget or consciously stop messaging them and...that's it, we never speak again. In my experience, women only try to keep up a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:15 PM
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Harder to do that in regulated industries, so legalizing should help. Black market prostitution is gonna exist either way, so I think it's better to have a legal avenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:00 PM
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I don't think you're wrong, but it still doesn't feel good to think your partner is not that attracted to you. I don't think a woman would feel happy if their partner was only mildly attracted to them either. Everyone liked too feel desired and special.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:45 PM
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I prefer to pay the bill regardless of whether or not I intend to see the woman again. It kinda makes me feel good to know I treated my date. Plus, chances are the date was my idea anyway, allows me to plan in my budget without having to take her budget into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:39 PM
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While I think the "My time is valuable" or "Women invest in their appearances" arguments are stupid, it's really just a societal ritual. If I go on a date with a woman, I'm not surprised if she expects me to pay, it's the done thing. It's just a courtship ritual we developed in a time before women had money of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:36 PM
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I think you answered your own question. The young men are troubled and are looking for a solution to their problems. Like many young men, they think a woman will fix their problems. However, they're frustrated with women, either because they struggle to attract them or because they struggle to build long term relationships with them. They long for a return to a traditional lifestyle because they believe they would struggle less. There's a lack of male role models. Boys and young men don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:09 PM
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Put effort into getting into sports young. Watch my diet more in my teens and early adulthood. Start investing money earlier when I graduate and start working. Be less desperate to get into a relationship, hopefully with my improved finances and physique I'll be able to be more selective about who I date and be able to take my time and actually look for someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:37 PM
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He's providing value to someone, otherwise they wouldn't have slept with him. May not fit your personal definition of "high value", but it fits someone's. And it's the same for any man who sleeps with a lot of women, there's some subset of women who value him, and highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:10 PM
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Maybe you'd be flattered the first time. I can see how it can get old though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:46 PM
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I know a very pretty woman who never leaves her house. I guarantee she wouldn't be single if anyone knew she existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:42 PM
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Just cause he isn't commiting to you doesn't mean he isn't commiting to anyone. He's just not as likely to be quick to rush to commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:25 AM
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No, I do, but I think my point is that for me, being attractive = part of being boyfriend material, I don't think anyone means that "boyfriend material" means unattractive, just unattractive compared to guys who are "hookup material". Only very attractive guys (usually) are able to hookup with women without at least some commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:28 PM
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I tried once but it was very clear the guy was insulted by how honest I was (about the fact that I wouldn't date him). Lol yeah, that probably stung. What was wrong with him though? Not enough of a career or something? I've also turned down guys who were "boyfriend material" because no part of me wanted to have sex with them. You don't think being attractive is part of being "boyfriend material"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:12 PM
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Sure, but then the "hook-up material" thing doesn't apply for you at all. Cause you don't hook-up. Which further means you'd only sleep with men you'd want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:49 PM
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Women are selective, men are not selective. Women are scared of strange men, men are not afraid of strange women. Women are disparaged for having many sexual partners, men are praised for having many sexual. Women and men are not the same. Sure maybe you've slept with a guy or two that you didn't like as a person. But are you really trying to tell me this is something you see commonly? Women sleep with men they wouldn't be in a relationship with? And I don't mean women talking about how they'd l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:56 PM
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Because women and men are not the same. Men will sleep with people they don't want to be in a relationship with, because men will sleep with anyone. Women do not behave like that (generally). Most women are far too selective about who they allow access to their bodies, so it's a tough sell that they regularly sleep with (not just are attracted to) men who they wouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:15 PM
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I just mean you're going to have a harder time convincing him to commit to being your boyfriend. Lots of guys would date literally any woman without any resistance. If a guy has options you're going to see some resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:05 PM
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Well, most women don't have sex with you unless they like you. So I don't think it should shock you that they thought you liked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:02 PM
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Would depend on the Chad, I imagine. But I think they'll generally be better boyfriends just based on the fact that they're likely able to provide more. Has more friends, can show you a better time, probably better conversation. More likely to dump you for sure, but that's just the effect of having options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:00 PM
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I think it's more that they'd rather be single than be with a 4. Which sucks for the 4 of course. A lot of women I've met are actually pretty territorial though, hard to see sharing being the preference over being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:49 AM
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Some for sure, there's always exceptions. But in my experience, most women don't just have sex with people they can't see themselves being with long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:17 AM
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It's probably just that you're surprised at how down to earth they are, given they are very attractive. If you saw an obese person run a 7 minute mile, you'd probably stop and say "wow, he sure can run". But if he wasn't obese you probably would have just seen it as normal. I notice that many very attractive women tend to be very chill and easy to talk to as well, but I only noticed because I wasn't expecting them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:17 AM
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You're not from the Caribbean are you? That exact story happens so much in Jamaica.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:11 AM
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There always has been somewhat of a "harem culture". Men who are very attractive or very successful do sometimes have multiple women at once. Most women I know really aren't big on sharing though, I genuinely think most would prefer to be exclusive with a guy they like, who's a little less attractive, than to be one of many with a more attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:05 AM
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You're not going to get me to believe for 1 second that a woman who would hook up with you would not also be your girlfriend. There's a certain kind of guy who can get woman to hook up with them like that and it's a very good looking, very confident, very well liked guy. So yes, generally a better guy, probably a better boyfriend too if I'm being honest. Only issue women will have with this kind of guy is that he has options and is thus gonna be harder to pin down unless you've made a great impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:50 AM
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How my grandparents did it is that my grandfather went to work and he gave ever dollar he earned to my grandmother who would run the household and actually give my grandfather pocket money out of the money he brought in. Growing up I found it romantic and wanted to do it just looks like them. I always liked the idea of working to provide for my wife and kids. Realistically though it can't really happen for most people in today's world, unless you're willing to endure considerable struggle. 1 per…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:26 PM
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